To elaborate on "Don't validate the new relationship", If your ex refers to themself as a couple if the topic comes up, refer to them as an individual. Never say the name, find ways to subtly change the topic. If they are pushing the topic hard and won't let you avoid it, a firm "I'd rather not talk about that" works wonders. If it continues past that, you have pre-set boundaries laid out that they are crossing over you can bring up.
Im the one who block my ex because i cant endure the pain knowing that he is now in a new relatioship and he still chatting me sometimes so i decided to move on and go away and one month now since i blocki him
She left me after 3 years for a guys she'd met that same week. He dumped her after 3 weeks and instead of trying to rekindle things, she decided instead to go out and "have fun" instead. The worst part is she'd always been against hookup culture and wanted to keep her body count low. But after he dumped her, she apparently stopped caring about that and wanted to sleep around. So not only was he more appealing to her than me, but throwing away the values she'd had for years and hooking up with random dudes was more appealing. That's next level knife through the heart.
Hello, I am so sorry to hear that you are experiencing this right now, but please know that unfortunately, it is extremely common for this to happen. Sometimes people find that rebound relationships or hookups are the easiest way to temporarily numb the pain of a breakup, even if they thought they'd never do it. Hang in there! It doesn't mean that hope is lost. Coach Danny
I wrote him acceptance of break up in a letter after 4 months of break up, he replied saying sorry, then i made mistake in no contact rule period, later I pursued another 3 months of no contact rule, then reached out to him with a greeting msg to invite for a meeting but he didn't response till day.
Hi Coach Dan, me and my ex have broken up for 4 months now. Just yesterday she admitted that she's dating someone new. Next week is our son's 3rd birthday, we were supposed to have plans of celebrating. But I'm kinda having second thoughts of pushing thru. my question is.. should we still celebrate all together or can I suggest we have separate celebrations for our son? I don't feel comfortable being together or seeing her right now. what's the best thing to do? hope to get some advice from you. thanks Coach!
My ex and I were engaged and she wanted space. I failed to give that to her and she ended things without actually verbally telling me that her and I are done. The separation happened a couple months ago and I just found out today that she’s talking to other people. We haven’t talked in a couple weeks, for at the time I didn’t understand why but now I think I know. I love her and I’m not sure if I will even be able to get a chance to start over.
My bf how many times we are break up always come back together. Recently again we are break then after 2 months break up we always back together? We are obsessed with each other the after our year relationship we are changing our treat our relationship then after multiple break up we are had to focus ourselves. But we are still in relationship. Now we are confident no talk every day and focusing our goals!
We had a relationship for 5year and we had some confusion when she called my phone romantically and called me another name which I didn't take it lightly and I reacted and decided to ignore her for three months including calls, being a long distance relationship after that time she told she had got someone else and the new guy even abused me. Have tried hard to copy up but too broken and I need her back coz 5 years has fresh memories to me.
What do I do we broke up 3 months ago she ended it but it didn’t faze me intill 2 weeks ago I live in her back house but moving out next month but I seen her new trans formation but she seeing a married man that she said he’s getting in a divorce . We went out this past Friday had a awesome time but end up sleeping with each other but sex wasn’t no connection cuz she felt bad for the other guy she has feelings for so it push me away and I lash out but I want give space now and tell sorry and get on n maybe in the future we do Get back together if it’s meant to be . She I apologize and give no contact rule ? Help pls
Would you take back aomone who slept with somone eles? I find it hard and i love him so much but wonder if he comes back ill be able to feel comfortable with that, i miss him terribly
Hi there, as painful as this is, it is extremely common and it does not mean that your relationship is doomed. People have different ways of dealing with the pain of a breakup, and many people try to numb it by sleeping with someone else. Just make sure you focus on becoming the best version of yourself as the more confident you are, the easier it is to move past the pain of this situation. Wishing you much success, Coach Danny
I vented to a friend and someone told my ex that the reason why I reached out to them about my things was bc of my stuff and that her new relationship hurt me which was the case and she text me about it a week later angrily, I’ve been back on no contact for a week from tmr is this the right thing to do because I feel way more confident in myself and ready to respark the relationship but I’m not sure if it’s time. What should I do
Me and my husband have been together for 9 years and Saturday he run a way and het sad to his famly the he is with his girlfriend and the he said it is not his girlfriend it only a friend and thy mist not tell me any thy
Hi can I get some advice? Me and my ex broke up on Jan 06 but because of covid isolations it's been hard to work out no contact/radio silence (especially as we work together and her desk is 2m from me) I have been following radio silence as best I can for 3 weeks by this Friday. I really want to send her flowers and apologise and try to get back together. What should I write? Also her phone is always going off so I think she is dating/Tinder
We must run away and don't look back!
If she ever slept with somebody, dont let her go back.
Yup. That's the line she can never be allowed to cross back over.
I know what to do, walk away cease contact and move on, the other person doesn't care.
To elaborate on "Don't validate the new relationship",
If your ex refers to themself as a couple if the topic comes up, refer to them as an individual. Never say the name, find ways to subtly change the topic. If they are pushing the topic hard and won't let you avoid it, a firm "I'd rather not talk about that" works wonders. If it continues past that, you have pre-set boundaries laid out that they are crossing over you can bring up.
How about wishing them all the best and hope for them the new one will match their silly low level expectations? Could bomb their ego with that...
But do you even want her back after she been with somebody else?
Im the one who block my ex because i cant endure the pain knowing that he is now in a new relatioship and he still chatting me sometimes so i decided to move on and go away and one month now since i blocki him
What happens if you don’t even see your ex and they don’t know how you feel or think you’re seeing someone else as well?
She left me after 3 years for a guys she'd met that same week. He dumped her after 3 weeks and instead of trying to rekindle things, she decided instead to go out and "have fun" instead. The worst part is she'd always been against hookup culture and wanted to keep her body count low. But after he dumped her, she apparently stopped caring about that and wanted to sleep around.
So not only was he more appealing to her than me, but throwing away the values she'd had for years and hooking up with random dudes was more appealing. That's next level knife through the heart.
Hello, I am so sorry to hear that you are experiencing this right now, but please know that unfortunately, it is extremely common for this to happen. Sometimes people find that rebound relationships or hookups are the easiest way to temporarily numb the pain of a breakup, even if they thought they'd never do it.
Hang in there! It doesn't mean that hope is lost.
Coach Danny
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity Thanks, I'll keep that in mind!
I wrote him acceptance of break up in a letter after 4 months of break up, he replied saying sorry, then i made mistake in no contact rule period, later I pursued another 3 months of no contact rule, then reached out to him with a greeting msg to invite for a meeting but he didn't response till day.
My ex if 6 years met someone new after we broke up about a week after also got the news that they already moved in together after 2 weeks
Yo Thanks Danny! Much Love man, have a good weekend!
You too!
My wife and separated and now she is dating her x! I’m devistated but not sure what to do
In my case yes. Forever
Great video thank you so much
Hi Coach Dan, me and my ex have broken up for 4 months now. Just yesterday she admitted that she's dating someone new. Next week is our son's 3rd birthday, we were supposed to have plans of celebrating. But I'm kinda having second thoughts of pushing thru. my question is.. should we still celebrate all together or can I suggest we have separate celebrations for our son? I don't feel comfortable being together or seeing her right now. what's the best thing to do? hope to get some advice from you. thanks Coach!
What did you do? Any updates on your story?
My ex and I were engaged and she wanted space. I failed to give that to her and she ended things without actually verbally telling me that her and I are done. The separation happened a couple months ago and I just found out today that she’s talking to other people. We haven’t talked in a couple weeks, for at the time I didn’t understand why but now I think I know. I love her and I’m not sure if I will even be able to get a chance to start over.
My bf how many times we are break up always come back together. Recently again we are break then after 2 months break up we always back together? We are obsessed with each other the after our year relationship we are changing our treat our relationship then after multiple break up we are had to focus ourselves. But we are still in relationship. Now we are confident no talk every day and focusing our goals!
We had a relationship for 5year and we had some confusion when she called my phone romantically and called me another name which I didn't take it lightly and I reacted and decided to ignore her for three months including calls, being a long distance relationship after that time she told she had got someone else and the new guy even abused me. Have tried hard to copy up but too broken and I need her back coz 5 years has fresh memories to me.
What happens now??
What do I do we broke up 3 months ago she ended it but it didn’t faze me intill 2 weeks ago I live in her back house but moving out next month but I seen her new trans formation but she seeing a married man that she said he’s getting in a divorce . We went out this past Friday had a awesome time but end up sleeping with each other but sex wasn’t no connection cuz she felt bad for the other guy she has feelings for so it push me away and I lash out but I want give space now and tell sorry and get on n maybe in the future we do
Get back together if it’s meant to be . She I apologize and give no contact rule ? Help pls
Would you take back aomone who slept with somone eles? I find it hard and i love him so much but wonder if he comes back ill be able to feel comfortable with that, i miss him terribly
Hi there, as painful as this is, it is extremely common and it does not mean that your relationship is doomed. People have different ways of dealing with the pain of a breakup, and many people try to numb it by sleeping with someone else.
Just make sure you focus on becoming the best version of yourself as the more confident you are, the easier it is to move past the pain of this situation.
Wishing you much success,
Coach Danny
What if he always cheating and hiding his other relationship?
Run ... it's happening to me,he is grown up and won't change,stop exhausting your feelings dear
Me my ex been together 3 year my ex was cheating in relationship I had break up 💔 him he told he happy new relationship he told stop calling phone
What if she is so called in love
It’s your ex it’s obviously over, stop playing games with people to try and get them back.
I vented to a friend and someone told my ex that the reason why I reached out to them about my things was bc of my stuff and that her new relationship hurt me which was the case and she text me about it a week later angrily, I’ve been back on no contact for a week from tmr is this the right thing to do because I feel way more confident in myself and ready to respark the relationship but I’m not sure if it’s time. What should I do
Me and my husband have been together for 9 years and Saturday he run a way and het sad to his famly the he is with his girlfriend and the he said it is not his girlfriend it only a friend and thy mist not tell me any thy
Its just why !?!
But a senior??!?
Hi can I get some advice? Me and my ex broke up on Jan 06 but because of covid isolations it's been hard to work out no contact/radio silence (especially as we work together and her desk is 2m from me) I have been following radio silence as best I can for 3 weeks by this Friday. I really want to send her flowers and apologise and try to get back together. What should I write? Also her phone is always going off so I think she is dating/Tinder
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