My Ex Is Dating Someone New: How That Can Help You

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  • @adamsaldana5462
    @adamsaldana5462 4 роки тому +68

    It helps because eliminates all the 'what if' possibilities. It gives you a definitive idea of the situation. That'll give you peace of mind to actually get your own life together.

  • @craiggoodie2226
    @craiggoodie2226 6 років тому +381

    The grass is always greener over the septic tank lol

    • @carolloraine223
      @carolloraine223 6 років тому +4

      Craig Goodie
      omg! Loved your saying and SO true!!
      Thanks for the Laugh!!!

    • @clos7081
      @clos7081 6 років тому +18

      The grass isn't greener on the other side ,the grass just needs some watering

    • @nancyough2562
      @nancyough2562 5 років тому +10

      ​@@carolloraine223 hahaha true that i love that my ex found another women she did me a favor happy dance i feel sorry for her .. she will wake up like i did maybe sooner then later lol

    • @DPhasely
      @DPhasely 4 роки тому +1

      Haha...good one!

    • @almanitaarmas3940
      @almanitaarmas3940 4 роки тому +1

      😂

  • @billzco6137
    @billzco6137 6 років тому +492

    In past experience...once I saw my x with someone new...that was fuel I needed to really move on...almost like the nail in the coffin...obviously its going to happen eventually...but once you see that reality how can it get any worse? you know...its like the push over the hill you need to say "well thats over"

    • @baklava6138
      @baklava6138 6 років тому +47

      Right on man! It confirms she has moved on, maybe she still loves you, but she is moving on. Also, who would take her back after you know for a fact someone new is pounding her haha

    • @charlesizuchukwu5735
      @charlesizuchukwu5735 5 років тому +5

      Lmao true same for me

    • @Ash-at-Sea
      @Ash-at-Sea 5 років тому +4

      I feel this comment! Well said good man

    • @saintgianni
      @saintgianni 5 років тому +5

      It's been a year since this comment..how have you been?? How are you?

    • @weisthor0815
      @weisthor0815 5 років тому +31

      @@baklava6138 your ex was pounded by someone else before you even met her as well, so where is the difference? this is just your hurt ego speaking.

  • @valeriavoltage4262
    @valeriavoltage4262 4 роки тому +31

    Some people dont realize anything.after 5 years of Great relationship they still think the grass is greener

  • @betherealdeal
    @betherealdeal 5 років тому +194

    Everyone got a plan until they get punched in the mouth
    Iron Mike Tyson

  • @MrCrazyPsychoGuy
    @MrCrazyPsychoGuy 3 роки тому +27

    "You could not live with your own failure... where did that bring you?... Back to me"
    Thanos

  • @baklava6138
    @baklava6138 6 років тому +75

    I think it helps with moving on, after a break up there is always hope and suspicion, overthinking, etc. this way you know she moved on and it can help you confirm that it’s over for sure. It also confirms it’s not a guy you know (hopefully) and it calms your mind and then you start really moving on

    • @liquidsleepgames3661
      @liquidsleepgames3661 Рік тому +3

      Unless its the guy she told you not to worry about and that she chose you not them. Broke up with me and started dating them a week later

  • @sustainf
    @sustainf 4 роки тому +25

    Look at it this way. The best thing you can do is walk away. You will seem more confident and attractive. They will eventually miss you and have some regret. Then they’ll either come back or go away forever in which case they will receive the permanent gift of missing you & wondering what happened, because you just disappeared. Chasing them will make them the prize and drive them away further.

  • @tiffanypr.9448
    @tiffanypr.9448 2 роки тому +17

    Him sleeping around with people just hurts me so much because the idea that I had of him is gone. He is not at all the guy I used to know, the guy I fell in love. The only thing left of him is hurt and pain.

  • @MrNmusgrave
    @MrNmusgrave 5 років тому +40

    Birthday today. Ex messaged me the two-word birthday greeting. Immediately killed me, as she's the one that dropped me. I'm in the early "not good enough" phase, with the new relationship phase of hers. I took every bit of responsibility for the failed relationship, though it's not true. Your videos help get me through the day, even if I end up in tears... even when I can't get her out of my head, you (and Margaret) help. I....we, can't thank you two enough.

    • @B1GK1NG
      @B1GK1NG 5 років тому +1

      Nick Musgrave my advice is to cut all contact so you can heal.

  • @tiffanycontreras6614
    @tiffanycontreras6614 6 років тому +53

    My husband was talking to a woman at work for 6 months and just left me for her 3 weeks ago. I just found out one week ago. I threatened, begged and smeared him to his co-workers who covered for him. Then I listened to you and let him go. I told him Im sorry for the way I reacted. I regret it. I love you and Im committed to work on our marriage if you decide to come home. If Not I will be fine and happy regardless. I have lost 50 lbs in 3 weeks fasting and praying. Working on myself and getting closer to God. Working on my emotional stability as well.
    Im from NE Washington

    • @HC-mn6fp
      @HC-mn6fp 6 років тому +12

      Best revenge to live your best life and be happier! I am in similar situation! Just let go and the universe will bring something better.😊

    • @afterastrum
      @afterastrum 4 роки тому +6

      Sorry to hear but fasting for 3 weeks after a breakup and losing so much weight so quickly is NOT healthy and honestly that’s really concerning, especially given the circumstance

    • @tiffanycontreras6614
      @tiffanycontreras6614 4 роки тому +16

      @@afterastrum ,Thanks for your concern. He came home, I gained the weight back we are very happy. Its been about a year now that he's been home. He came back soon after this post

    • @Byku010
      @Byku010 2 роки тому

      @@tiffanycontreras6614 update?

    • @tiffanycontreras6614
      @tiffanycontreras6614 2 роки тому +5

      @@Byku010 been back together soon after. He quit drinking and our marriage is better than ever.

  • @DatDyme980
    @DatDyme980 5 років тому +123

    Disloyalty is DISLOYAL even if it does come back!

    • @cheetahcat3940
      @cheetahcat3940 4 роки тому +20

      It's an ex! They have the right to date someone else.

    • @haitham5084
      @haitham5084 4 роки тому +33

      I have right to rejecte her

    • @myyoutubechannel3161
      @myyoutubechannel3161 3 роки тому +13

      @@cheetahcat3940 but they don't have the right to treat you like shit! After the break up

  • @rubypaul100
    @rubypaul100 6 років тому +44

    I believe I have always been good with him, he'll realize that soon

  • @ett2
    @ett2 5 років тому +33

    I needed this video. My ex still hasn't grown up and regularly hits the bars. I believe she may be dating a guy who's much of the same. They sure do take you for granted.

  • @AyeKyara
    @AyeKyara 6 років тому +60

    As much as it hurts be happy for them and love yourself. There was resistance that's why it ended no matter the reason focusing and counting on your ex to possibly come back could be stopping you from getting your someone that is for you. Find a new focus you're worth it...

  • @farmville69
    @farmville69 5 років тому +11

    It hurts when he thought the grass was greener on the other side and it truly was greener in the end....

  • @Tarantula_Fangs
    @Tarantula_Fangs 5 років тому +41

    My ex gf is now pregnant and allegedly engaged to her new partner even though its been nearly 5 months since she broke up with me after years of us being together. It hurt like hell but I am finding it easier to let her go and move on with my life.

    • @heybeautiful3285
      @heybeautiful3285 5 років тому

      Yep... broke up with my ex almost 7 months ago for mainly his cheating. Wr have a daughter together. And it kills me for some reason that he's dating some chick 10 years younger than him with a one year old. She stays alot at his new place even with her daughter and it upsets our daughter. Oh I know shes just using him.... but still. Fuck them both.

    • @onurbole7921
      @onurbole7921 5 років тому +4

      I see this happen a lot. Someone is in a serious relationship for 5, 6, 7 years, they break up and end up getting married to someone else just in a few months. My ex never understood it, even after she broke up with me, but now I wouldn't be surprised if she did just that.

    • @TheCHILDRENofTV
      @TheCHILDRENofTV 5 років тому +8

      Tarantula Fangs I’m currently going through this
      My ex is pregnant with her new man after only 2 months after the break up
      I feel Like crap 24/7:(

    • @gabrielteodosio3223
      @gabrielteodosio3223 4 роки тому +5

      That shit hurts bro. U ok?

    • @AmericanBulldogFit
      @AmericanBulldogFit 2 роки тому +5

      R-e-b-o-u-n-d. Be glad it's not you.

  • @firsthelix6726
    @firsthelix6726 6 років тому +74

    Great video! You should add: Feelings can change but love never dies!

  • @whiskeytangofoxpot4707
    @whiskeytangofoxpot4707 3 роки тому +10

    i swear craig u need ur own tv show ive seen so many other videos but i feel tht your guys videos really do set u up for success no matter the outcome. u say the things we prob all are thinking but no one in our lives no matter how close can understand. it made me feel less alone. I think its safe to say we all that found peace in your videos owe you thankyou coach craig

  • @twablesselbawt8160
    @twablesselbawt8160 5 років тому +41

    Watching this video is like sitting down with two good friends who give great advice.
    Thank you both!

  • @sanlaw584
    @sanlaw584 5 років тому +48

    Don’t think you could forgive them when they have been somewhere else.

  • @simonemathew4422
    @simonemathew4422 6 років тому +9

    Happy Holidays,
    You guys are the best, i cant believe it. Margaret you are so right. The grass is not greener on the other side. i broke up with my partner, i was a wreak.I stumble on you guys channel i was so happy i start feeling better thank you guys so much.
    After a month of him dating, i applied no contact , he reach out telling me they broke up.
    Am back with my partner ,taking it slow. We are working on us we are both positive about the future.
    Thanks coaches.

  • @buek14
    @buek14 5 років тому +6

    Dear Craig and Margaret. I see the philosophy behind your words and all that. I wish I could look at my situation so optimistically but the way things seem to be is just crushing... it's like I'm sure they will stay together no matter what, they look happy, they even look compatible...also introducing friends and family, everything you mention in the video is actually happening. It's incredible to see and know that.

  • @robertkincaid6632
    @robertkincaid6632 3 роки тому +7

    These videos have helped me this past month during NC. Today I found out she is now seeing another guy. My whole world feels like it’s crashing. My anxiety has never been worse. This sucks.

  • @theexoticalaspielady
    @theexoticalaspielady 5 років тому +37

    Coach Margaret, what a woman 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👌🏽

  • @PoppaPatty
    @PoppaPatty 6 років тому +104

    Perfect timing Craig. I don't know how you do it, but your videos always come at the best times. I finally saw a picture of my ex and her new boyfriend last night. It hit hard, but Ive been working hard and ive managed it quite well. Im sticking to my self improvement and growth. Thanks Craig for sharing with us and helping us all so so so much. I know I wouldn't be able to handle things this well without you. I hope to get another coaching with you soon.

    • @rawman18
      @rawman18 6 років тому +3

      General Mills hang in there brother. Going through something similar myself.

    • @rogertapia2784
      @rogertapia2784 6 років тому +1

      General Mills dame here we lost our baby 2 months ago and after dump me and now she is dating someone and moving in with him

    • @dudelol4527
      @dudelol4527 6 років тому

      Same here boys it sucks ass

    • @jamesleegalarpe6169
      @jamesleegalarpe6169 6 років тому

      Its just hurt so much

    • @lenscapewithbry
      @lenscapewithbry 5 років тому

      General Mills did you get her back

  • @MiaCuasay
    @MiaCuasay 6 років тому +130

    Please.. I don't know why I feel this way.. I thought I recovered from it.. But then I saw it.. And now I feel like I'm back to square one..

    • @ThatKidBryan
      @ThatKidBryan 6 років тому

      Mademoiselle Mia how are you holding up??

    • @Alexahoover1
      @Alexahoover1 6 років тому +7

      I feel that currently. It’s been a week from hell for me. I’m blocked on all social media and my phone number too. 💔 it hurts so much

    • @chinitawithabs624
      @chinitawithabs624 6 років тому +1

      Same here

    • @lyudmilatsipeleva2281
      @lyudmilatsipeleva2281 6 років тому

      @@chinitawithabs624 Any positive updates, guys?

    • @swizlysummer8479
      @swizlysummer8479 5 років тому +15

      I have the same situation and did a lot of wrong things. But whatever you do, do not stalk them! Take it from me. I’ve been there and it felt like I dug my own grave. It’s bad for your mental and emotional health. I stopped and work on myself now. Please love yourself too.

  • @tiffanimilburn8885
    @tiffanimilburn8885 4 роки тому +5

    The right. As the idiot ex who broke up with my boyfriend a few years ago over something stupid and then had a rebound relationship, they’ll always probably compare what they had with you to the new rebound. In my case it didn’t measure up. It only lasted about a month. The only problem is some of us have to learn the hard way. And then you’re doing damage control and trying to fix it. Keep up the good work and I enjoy your videos.

  • @sanlaw584
    @sanlaw584 5 років тому +7

    My Husband of 20 yrs left on a text + hooked up with a work colleague, not sure if before or straight away. He kept it quiet for a year till he announced was going on holiday with her. This happened when our son was really ill + don’t think I could ever forgive him. Started divorce proceedings.

    • @heybeautiful3285
      @heybeautiful3285 5 років тому

      Fuck that piece of shit. Eventually he will come to regret his actions

  • @h2oboi531
    @h2oboi531 4 роки тому +6

    The sudden need to be with someone new to cover up the pain is the reality all will not admit. Hang in there all of you wonderful people

    • @myyoutubechannel3161
      @myyoutubechannel3161 3 роки тому +5

      How can they be with someone new when they never owned up and took responsibility for how their previous relationship failed 😔
      Their just going to bring that into their new relationship..

  • @shade1427
    @shade1427 3 роки тому +6

    "The grass is greener where you water it."

  • @CoachCraigKenneth
    @CoachCraigKenneth  6 років тому +302

    Someone disliked the video again before they could watch it lol pathetic

    • @daisyg7822
      @daisyg7822 6 років тому +25

      Coach Craig Kenneth -don't stress over it. Your great and we appreciate you and coach Margaret ❤
      Plus could have been on accident. I watch you on my phone and accidentally pressed dislike button. When I went back to watch the video again I noticed and pressed the like button. Oops

    • @meeraraj0
      @meeraraj0 6 років тому +7

      Nevermind about that coach. Your fans are out there talking anxious attachment style
      But i Love the interplay between you and coach Margaret like a drama

    • @lawschoolpro
      @lawschoolpro 6 років тому +5

      Coach Craig Kenneth my saturday morning....listening to my coaches ...and cesar milan...the dog whisperer......it works somehow. Im in a strong relationship but i realize it can go away real quick.

    • @global2765
      @global2765 6 років тому +5

      Some competitors maybe 😂😂

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  6 років тому +23

      Probably lol. But I don’t have any competition ;)
      Yes I’ve been told there are a few people copying my ideas word for word. Believe me, whoever they are... if they have no original ideas, they have no critical thinking to help anyone.

  • @kirkv2262
    @kirkv2262 6 років тому +74

    Never mind her... I’m dating someone new

    • @briangomes2547
      @briangomes2547 6 років тому +7

      you didn't really love her !

    • @pedrogo152
      @pedrogo152 6 років тому +6

      How can people forget that person that you do anything for get her back

  • @global2765
    @global2765 6 років тому +31

    I remmber when I was like 15 lol I was dating this girl for a year and we broke up. She was still calling me but one day I saw her with another guy and I felt like the world crushed on me... it was brutal 😂 but I learned to cope with these situations. And since then, everytime I see any ex with someone new, every small or big feeling I have for them it just vanishes, like a heavy feeling got off my chest.

    • @meeraraj0
      @meeraraj0 6 років тому +2

      Global me too. Jealousy does not work turns me off

  • @hollydrucker9929
    @hollydrucker9929 5 років тому +3

    There is only one me... when they made me they broke the mold!!! I wish all of you love.. Everyone deserves that. Thanks Craig and Margaret. You are the best!

  • @PrincesssKeilani
    @PrincesssKeilani 5 років тому +9

    I feel absolutely hopeless at this point.. been about 6-7 months after the breakup but he still talked to me as if we were still together and said he wants a future still with me... he moved, and hit me up when he visited my town to hangout, then posted he was on a date with some girl and deleted me lmfao... what the heck do I even think of this?? He has disrespected me and done me dirty so many times !

    • @avocado5960
      @avocado5960 2 роки тому

      Hope you doing fine , any updates?

  • @JD-dv9kc
    @JD-dv9kc 4 роки тому +6

    Friend of mine saw my ex and the guy she monkey branched to at the store today. It actually gave me some peace in moving forward. I'll continue to work on myself, I can't control them, and if she wants to come back, that's her loss because I'm not second choice. I'll love her forever but she can't just walk back in and expect anything

  • @terracotta2700
    @terracotta2700 6 років тому +16

    Another great vid! So glad Margaret is FINALLY part of the team doing coaching sessions. :)

  • @tylerjohnson3195
    @tylerjohnson3195 5 років тому +5

    My ex left me and started dating someone else almost immediately then moved in with him. I know it's not going well, becuase she called me crying because he beat her up. I immediately went over, helped her move back to her parents, then she said she wanted to see me soon. We made plans, but she blew me off and went back to his place. Haven't heard from her since.
    I got sucked back in, used, and left behind again. It's not fair.

    • @samiyahrose02
      @samiyahrose02 5 років тому

      Tyler Johnson woahhhhhh that’s so foul of her :/

  • @Hutchinswhitney11
    @Hutchinswhitney11 4 роки тому +3

    Was dating my ex for 12 years, I broke up with him and 2 months later he’s dating someone new WITH MY NAME and tells me he’s so in love, they’re getting married and stuff like that. Idk what I should think about it. He’s was IN LOVE WITH ME, more than in love, obsessed; completely committed. could have spent his life with me and never lost an oz pf feeling. Now he says he feels nothing for me. Doesn’t love me. I call bs. He’s the type to NEED a relationship.

  • @chinitawithabs624
    @chinitawithabs624 6 років тому +33

    Saw their pictures - so devastated ! Cheated on me then dumped me - they look really happy on the pics

    • @donnyallisondavis6050
      @donnyallisondavis6050 6 років тому +19

      Same happen to me she emotionally cheated for three months broke up with me to be with him...it hurts so much but I just want to move on and stop the hurt

    • @ThatKidBryan
      @ThatKidBryan 6 років тому +1

      Donny & Allison Davis how are you holding up?

    • @stepzu6101
      @stepzu6101 6 років тому +14

      That feeling when the broken hearted never return to give updates again.

    • @sherrie8221
      @sherrie8221 6 років тому +1

      @cee cee I know how you feel and I am super sorry that you are going through this, just take it one day at a time. It will get better.. I PROMISE! Sigh...if you feel like you want to cry... CRY! ALLOW YOURSELF TO FEEL WHATEVER YOU ARE FEELING..ACKNOWLEDGE IT, SIT IN THOSE EMOTIONS, but DO NOT ALLOW YOURSELF TO GET STUCK THERE and THEN MOVE FORWARD.

    • @Tacho028
      @Tacho028 6 років тому

      How are you doing now?

  • @lelanievanheerden1744
    @lelanievanheerden1744 5 років тому +19

    Margaret is so enduring... Love her!

  • @playalot86
    @playalot86 4 роки тому +6

    Hey Craig, I 'd love to see a video on an ex dating someone new after months apart. Thank you!

  • @amanseth260
    @amanseth260 6 років тому +6

    @Coach Craig Kenneth your videos are really amazing, simple and the best. You don't hover around new 'dating terms' or self created 'theories'. Just like a guardian you explain everything very nicely. Relationships has always been complicated sometimes and people go mad but instead of bursting their head on wall or crying before someone they can easily come to this channel and can get golden words. Thank you so much !

  • @sshuteandrew
    @sshuteandrew 6 років тому +51

    Good to see you, Coaches! 😉 I actually could see it as a positive sign if my ex was ready to come out of his defeated shell and date ANYONE again- and I’m thinking anyone else he dates will pale in comparison and make him miss me!! :)

    • @LaoSoftware
      @LaoSoftware 6 років тому +3

      I thought you got your ex back? My ex dumped me on December 10. Since then, I've been caring less and less about my ex. Just living the good life and enjoying my single status. Why? No more drama. I don't like drama.

    • @sshuteandrew
      @sshuteandrew 6 років тому +8

      LaoSoftware- no, we never got back together in the real sense of the word. He only agreed to see me at his place, and only I initiated contact. Last time I saw him he told me that he thought he was incapable of being in a relationship. He’s depressed and defeated. I’ve let go. If he reaches out- I’ll talk to him with an open heart, but he’d have to come to me.

  • @tommys6596
    @tommys6596 7 місяців тому +1

    rebounds are bound to fail because they automatically compare you to them. first it's my ex never did this and then later on after they break up your still remembered.

  • @Beetlejuice117Kc
    @Beetlejuice117Kc 6 років тому +13

    It’s happening to me now. She spent time with the new guy this long weekend and went to her parents house and dinner and a baseball game and though it hurts I realize there’s nothing I can do about it other than hope it doesn’t last

    • @activitylog1655
      @activitylog1655 4 роки тому +1

      What’s your update did she come crawling back?

  • @flaigus
    @flaigus 6 років тому +24

    Just found out my ex has been dating a new guy for a week and i’am really falling to pieces, just found out today and I’m distraught it hurts so bad

    • @rexon6197
      @rexon6197 4 роки тому +5

      U good now?

    • @flaigus
      @flaigus 4 роки тому +20

      rexon wow this is a blast the past. Yeah I’m fantastic met a new girl shortly after this and we’re expecting a child in February 😄. Breaking up with her is the best thing to ever happen to me, I just didn’t want to admit it. But yeah I’m fantastic

    • @mattie9481
      @mattie9481 4 роки тому +4

      It does hurt. I couldn’t sleep. I cried. But as time goes by you realise you can’t just be sad, you need to make your life better.
      I’m still struggling but I’m getting better.

  • @eddiegarcia2021
    @eddiegarcia2021 6 років тому +11

    Best coach ever and I love and respect margaret!

  • @oktobrewilliams5249
    @oktobrewilliams5249 5 років тому +2

    He told me he was trying to make it work again with us. Then a few days ago he flips and tells me he found someone else and hes never been this happy before in his life..

  • @kathleenhrdlicka6083
    @kathleenhrdlicka6083 6 років тому +5

    AHHHH!!! coach Craig & Margaret my husband has been in the grass is greener for awhile now and started dating a girl shortly after! This video is definitely what I needed to see 💗 thank you!

    • @ThatKidBryan
      @ThatKidBryan 6 років тому

      Kathleen Hrdlicka how are you holding up? Any updates?

  • @annavillalpando4872
    @annavillalpando4872 6 років тому +2

    It does feel like the worst feeling in the world. I hate it so much. I’m so glad I watched this video. Thank you!

    • @brenda9577
      @brenda9577 Рік тому +1

      It is gut wrenchingly painful. Worse than death

  • @UNOAlterEgo
    @UNOAlterEgo 4 роки тому +6

    This is the best thing that can happen to you, if the new person is a good match you can move on, if not they will soon contact you.
    Trust me it happens, if they come back they do it crawling. Then you will have to tell yourself if them having sex with someone else is ok for you.
    You must be afraid if they don't meet no one new because it means they are recovering in the right way, to move on definitely.

    • @yswen828
      @yswen828 4 роки тому

      Ugo did you get your ex back?

    • @UNOAlterEgo
      @UNOAlterEgo 4 роки тому +2

      @@yswen828 Yes we got back but at the end it was not the right decision and we broke 3 moths later for good. Sometimes you think it's what you want but then you discover it is not.

    • @yswen828
      @yswen828 4 роки тому

      Ugo did you do coaching with Craig Kenneth or you went through this on your own? How did you two become broken up?

  • @cecymercedes1
    @cecymercedes1 4 роки тому +5

    I love these videos! Thank you for your guidance! We have a child together and I was completely stuck . He is seeing someone new. I decided to just live my life and move on . Who knows the future. I am not ready to date . I am working on myself still a year later after being single

  • @tigerdank5666
    @tigerdank5666 3 роки тому +2

    Day 14 of no contact. We didn’t date very long, only 10-12 weeks, but we moved fast. We constantly texted, exchanged “I love yous” and kissy face emojis. She broke up with me after our first argument/disagreement. Totally blindsided. I miss her so much.

    • @tigerdank5666
      @tigerdank5666 Рік тому

      @@adrij4961 Around fall time last year, I noticed she had been looking at my Instagram stories, literally everyday. Eventually, I messaged her and asked her how she was doing. I could tell she was embarrassed because I asked her about the stalking. We exchanged pleasantries and were nice to each other, but that was it. That was the last time I heard from her. I still think about her daily though.

  • @playalot86
    @playalot86 3 роки тому +1

    I have watched this video so many times. My ex orbits my social media every day, multiple times a day, and has been for 7 months now, even though she's dating someone new. I'm confident I can get her back.

  • @carolloraine223
    @carolloraine223 6 років тому +22

    My thought is.... what will keep the ex from continuing the same behavior if he should want to come back once he discovers the grass not being greener?It would be temporary until the next "Shinier" comes along.
    Im pretty sure I won't want to risk it. He can't have his cake and eat it, too...unless it's on a different lawn! Ha
    Thanks!

  • @zaxbyswalkthrough3825
    @zaxbyswalkthrough3825 5 років тому +3

    Me and my ex dated for 2 years and we broke up a week ago. She dropped all of my personal belongings at my house without telling me and I didn’t see her, she had blocked me through everything, and she jumped into a relationship within a week and I’m still single. We were each other’s first true love and idk what to do

  • @godisgood5818
    @godisgood5818 3 роки тому +3

    Agree being cheated on Sucks and I wish there was medicine for a broken heart and soul.

  • @anonymanonymesten1442
    @anonymanonymesten1442 5 років тому +13

    OR they realized the grass IS greener, at least for them, and they don't miss you at all. This seems to be my case unfortunately.

    • @jahleelx9270
      @jahleelx9270 3 роки тому +5

      Trust me the grass is never greener. Especially if during the breakup they treated u like u were nothing. Karma doesn't skip a beat.

    • @kmstirpitz4285
      @kmstirpitz4285 3 роки тому +1

      For the time being it seems that way- but nothing is temporary and it all comes crashing down.

  • @rajafurqan9464
    @rajafurqan9464 6 років тому +3

    M so happy actually crazy happy that i got more than 500 videos to watch you are an amazing person your teachings literally started working right away i mean like a min ago before i started watching i was feeling lost and worthless but now there is a big smile on my face while i am writing a comment thanks to you Craig and Margaret God bless you both. So you will get my comments more often as i am your big fan from today.

  • @peonmyhall
    @peonmyhall 6 років тому +23

    This stuff is probably true for high school and college but I don't think adults behave like this. I don't think people get back together that much after those ages.

    • @michealb8868
      @michealb8868 6 років тому +3

      Failed marriages almost never get back togeather, unless kids are involved

    • @buek14
      @buek14 5 років тому +1

      @@michealb8868 Not even then. I know some like that. Although if it is statistically right, then there has to be a higher chance of young couples or less serious / shorter term relationships to reconcile.

  • @SincerelyYoursLIVE
    @SincerelyYoursLIVE 6 років тому +28

    can you do alot more videos on ex girlfriend dating someone new please?

  • @meeraraj0
    @meeraraj0 6 років тому +10

    My wit & charm! Love Coach Margaret 😙

  • @marianacampos7959
    @marianacampos7959 Рік тому +1

    Margaret makes me feel so safe

  • @robertlangston7143
    @robertlangston7143 4 роки тому +2

    I had a wonderful relationship with a beautiful Italian women for one year. Unfortunately she suffers for anxiety depression and OCD. She constantly pushed to move in with me and brought all of her furniture and belongings. After two months she changed dramatically and moved back to her town house and stuck me with the moving. By the first of the next month she had another lover....

    • @gaoang3391
      @gaoang3391 4 роки тому

      Like the Italian guy I dated

  • @ConservativeWatchParty
    @ConservativeWatchParty 5 років тому

    Wow! This is my exact situation. Together for almost 3 years, and the last 2.5 years we grew apart because of work stuff. She took a new job and met someone at work that she started to like and here i am now watching your videos. Its on pause just to write this. Im glad i foumd this video. It hits very close to home. Okay back to the video now.

  • @eliasmd2003able
    @eliasmd2003able 6 років тому +5

    This is great both of you do great. I just subscribed. My ex gf left me a week later she's with someone new. So 2 weeks fresh out of a break up. Been listening to a lot of self help videos and this by far is so helpful. Thanks again .

    • @antoniovides2946
      @antoniovides2946 5 років тому

      Same here bro

    • @tr9809
      @tr9809 5 років тому +2

      If it's that close she was cheating on you

    • @milosstojanovic3601
      @milosstojanovic3601 3 роки тому

      @@tr9809 maybe she already started liking the guy

    • @sanjavranjes8229
      @sanjavranjes8229 2 роки тому

      Same here. He left me and week later he’s in relationship with this girl from his class😑

  • @nancyough2562
    @nancyough2562 5 років тому +1

    i left my ex after 24 years … he met his new flavor of ice cream i wish them both well .. im focusing on my own dreams and goals moving forward never look back ..im loving being single no obligations or feeling drained he seriously sucked the life out of me it got so bad that even looking at him made me sick ..then it got to the point i stopped kissing him i wouldn't let him kiss me in ten years i would push him away as i felt nothing but disgust ..leaving him was the best thing i ever did for both of us

  • @noonesgonnahurtyounotwhile9907
    @noonesgonnahurtyounotwhile9907 6 років тому +2

    Coach Craig & Margaret you hit me on point. That’s how I feel now and what I’m dealing now.

  • @mw171717
    @mw171717 Місяць тому

    Apart from the “interactions” that they most likely have been engaging in when one of those becomes public you can then feel truly free, and start looking forward for yourself.

  • @mikemog9431
    @mikemog9431 5 років тому +2

    Hi Craig, she dumped me a month ago and sees someone else. Now she's posting on social of good screws,cunningly of course, and looking forward to more knowing I will see it. I am now in no contact after making a fool of myself

  • @EricGutowski
    @EricGutowski 4 роки тому +6

    Hey coach, I really need your help and advice with a breakup I just recently went through :(

    • @flaigus
      @flaigus 4 роки тому

      How are you doing?

    • @RianneMision
      @RianneMision 3 роки тому

      How are you doing now, Eric?

  • @topshelfgaming9093
    @topshelfgaming9093 3 роки тому

    The both of you! Craig and Margaret are beautiful people and have helped me immensely during my time of no contact, my gf I was only with for 3 months! and we got a long great!? and she wanted to put a label on us and also was the first to say that "L" word! but was also the one to push me away due to jealousy on her part and saying she wasn't ready for a relationship due to past trauma with an Ex... to now I have been split up with her for just over a month and found out after probably 3 weeks of our split she is in another relationship!? I thought that was an odd way of her saying she needed to "heal" but I know better what it actually is now... made it a bit easier for me to move on since that's the closure I never got with her in person! you guys rock!

  • @adrij4961
    @adrij4961 3 роки тому +2

    I’m so so scared. They dated for longer than we have now and I hate itttttt

  • @corbynhawkins9220
    @corbynhawkins9220 5 років тому +4

    My ex started dating someone new immediately but continued reaching out for a few weeks and told me she misses me. She came over and we went to lunch a couple times.
    Now she's gone cold, she demanded her things back and unfollowed me everywhere. But she still watches my families social media and ran up to my best friend when she saw him in public. I saw her dad recently, he said the new guy is a "dick" and gave me advice to get my ex back :) I'm thinking maybe the new guy asked her to unfollow me ? He knows that we've spent time together since they started seeing each other.

    • @Guxna
      @Guxna 2 роки тому

      Update?

  • @sezwhom
    @sezwhom 6 років тому +21

    Yeah, they leave you for someone else. She's sleeping with someone else for many Saturday nights while you're watching Netflix. You really want them back?

    • @cindyg3396
      @cindyg3396 5 років тому +2

      Absolutely not! My ex crossed the line with me. Never want him back!

    • @PrincessDiana1220
      @PrincessDiana1220 5 років тому +11

      No way. I just want them to want me back so I can say get lost.

  • @stephaniefaircloth3849
    @stephaniefaircloth3849 6 років тому +4

    You both are amazing. Your videos have helped me soooo much and I am so glad I found you both on UA-cam!

  • @VegasNid
    @VegasNid 6 років тому +17

    Thank you for the reassurance. I was with my ex 6 years and I want him back. It has been a while since we broke up and he's dating someone. Recently we've been in contact and even spent the night together, I know most people would give up but i am going to continue the marathon! I believe in our love. It makes me sick to my stomach thinking of them together.

    • @jupiter-walk5461
      @jupiter-walk5461 6 років тому +6

      How long is the break up? And do you really want to be with your ex who drop you for another girl? I would consider it a blessing because if your relationship go on and you both marry...what if he drop you for another girl when you have kids? To be honest he is showing that he isn't worth your level. You contacting him is just making him move on easily from you imo and some might agree or disagree. If I were you I rather move on and find a guy who will be committed and won't give up on us.

    • @VegasNid
      @VegasNid 6 років тому +8

      First I want to say thank you for your response. I wrote that comment 3 months ago and so much has happened since. 2. you are absolutely correct, I really do not want to be anyone's second choice. I was in love with the idea of him and he has shown me his true colors in the recent months. Your response opened my eyes, even more, and I choose to move on.

    • @jupiter-walk5461
      @jupiter-walk5461 6 років тому +5

      Nid F we are all on the same boat, my ex gf did that to me, she used to be so committed to me and suddenly she break up with me telling me she love another guy. Not only that, she chooses her parents even if they are the one bringing her down at times. Also, I was good to her, I'm not perfect but I had some flaws but can be easily fix but she gave up on me. The questions I gave you was the same questions I ask myself too. My break up is fresh but I have to move on for my own good. Idk if you heard this quote but here : "if a person can walk away from you, let them walk" if they truely care and loved you, they wouldve stayed and work out on your flaws or bad situation. Not gonna lie, I'm a guy and yes I cried after the break up but didn't cry in her face though. Every now and then it hurts but getting better slowly.

    • @VegasNid
      @VegasNid 6 років тому +2

      I'm sorry to hear that. I feel like I gave our relationship 110% at all times, even if it meant caring more for him then myself. He walked out on me, our house, dogs, our whole life without even trying to talk. He literally left when I was at work, didn't leave a note, no text, nothing. I was devastated. He showed up later on that night and said 'you wanted to talk, let's talk'. I said no more. He would drunk text me and message me for about 1 year. We had been through it before and I guess I got upset/jealous that he had moved on so I tried to get him back, but for the wrong reasons.

    • @VegasNid
      @VegasNid 6 років тому +3

      At least you are owning up to your 'flaws', he never did. I am learning that sometimes a break-up is a good lesson as to what you do and do not want in your life. It was too hard, and I really do not see how your ex can say she's in love with another when she's with you. My ex totally used me, cheated on his new gf and then blocked me..nice huh?

  • @italian76boi
    @italian76boi 2 роки тому

    I’m currently in NC after finding out she’s been seeing someone else. She also told her mom she thinks a lot about getting back with me but the timing isn’t right and that she has a lot to figure out with herself. We had a great relationship. I’m more stable than this guy. She isn’t posting anything to socials, not even telling her mom about this guy. He’s like a dishwasher from her job. Her friend tells me that she definitely feels she’s leaving the door open for us. She has also hinted to me that she has by saying “she doesn’t know what the future holds” “she never ruled us out getting back together”…. Also until I found out, she left all her belongings at the house (we lived together. She told me she doesn’t want me out of her life after we had dinner recently (before I decided to do NC)… any thoughts will be greatly appreciated

  • @xxxtentacion198
    @xxxtentacion198 6 років тому +9

    I feel like my ex is just moving future and future away from me and getting more and more attached when this new guy. I don't know what to do.

    • @TheCHILDRENofTV
      @TheCHILDRENofTV 5 років тому

      Xxx Tentacion go to college and you’ll find some quick
      Sea full of women there

    • @TheCHILDRENofTV
      @TheCHILDRENofTV 5 років тому

      Apex Animal I agree with you

    • @jahleelx9270
      @jahleelx9270 3 роки тому

      And get a better looking chick then her that loves you for who you are and will appreciate your good treatment.

    • @Guxna
      @Guxna 2 роки тому

      Update?

  • @bluedemon218
    @bluedemon218 6 років тому +2

    I hate the fact that my ex gives me 3 Red Flags in 1 paragraph "I need alone time" "I'm not fully ready for a realtionship" "BUT." And then all of a sudden their with another guy. She gave me those Flags on Feb 10. And I tried rebuilding our relationship by becoming friends (at least), but told me "I can no longer see you because I now have a boyfriend." She got really mad at me that I blocked her on Facebook a week after she gave me those flags & this "guy friend" came into the picture & she spent all her "alone time" w/ him rather than w/ me. She didn't like when I talked to my lady friends unless it was a mutual friend so I respected her feelings & didn't talk to them but she wouldn't respect mine & stay away from him? WTF? She thinks I broke our trust relationship... I would love to get your guys opinions...

    • @jupiter-walk5461
      @jupiter-walk5461 6 років тому +1

      She broke your trust. She screw the relationship herself. She wasn't loyal enough to actually avoid feelings for other guys and be loyal to you. I wouldn't want to get her back. If her relationship falls, she would probably run back to you crying and saying she is sorry and such. I would've done the same as you. And it kind of remind me of my ex too but she was my first gf ever and we even planned a future together. 4 days or 3 days before the break up she told me I would be the father of our kids (future plan) but then on the break up she "love another guy". My relationship is complicated, not toxic at all. She bring up bs reason. I have trust and jealousy issue but I still let her dress how she want, go where she wants, and let her be her and didn't change her.

  • @trevorfrank9081
    @trevorfrank9081 5 років тому

    My girlfriend just left me last of last month for someone else that they go at the same church . We've been together for three years now I don't know what to do I have trying to apologise, trying to ask her if we can meet so that we can fix things but she's doesn't want. I really appreciate to find this video on UA-cam that gives me some sense right now. .. Thanks Craig

  • @fonoti58
    @fonoti58 6 років тому +12

    I’m really angry and disappointed I can’t sleep... I can barely eat... idk how to get over this feeling it sucks

    • @MrJworrell10
      @MrJworrell10 6 років тому

      Hang in there.
      I know exactly how you feel I was there a month ago

    • @TripleB-nb8en
      @TripleB-nb8en 5 років тому

      How u doing now?

    • @brenda9577
      @brenda9577 Рік тому

      Same. Doing the most basic thing such as going to the shop is excruciating. They are with you everywhere

  • @-Paul__
    @-Paul__ 5 років тому +2

    Yeah so the kind of woman i was with for 10 years dumps me out the blue , blocks me on all social media , i struggled to do NC but i managed a week or so and was improving a little , then she decides to text me from nowhere to tell me shes met someone knew. I went back to square one , why the f**k would any girl want to do this to someone. I never once treated her bad

  • @arieslulu3325
    @arieslulu3325 6 років тому +11

    Thank you i needed to hear this 🤗

  • @stevengasparini1662
    @stevengasparini1662 4 роки тому +10

    Anyone else laugh out loud when she goes “We better try strawberry” even though the point was to go back to vanilla 😂

    • @Tony-dh
      @Tony-dh 4 роки тому

      Crack up

    • @babybee4261
      @babybee4261 4 роки тому +1

      Lmao my ex would go to another flavor not come back. So what she said was lowkey accurate too 😆🤣

  • @davidsims5796
    @davidsims5796 6 років тому

    I have a friend who has now been separated for 4 months and now she just met some Venezuelan guy, talking sweet, fun and kind he is, saying that she wants him to teach her his culture.

  • @ShadowBeard77
    @ShadowBeard77 3 роки тому +4

    Sounds like the Law of (Cognitive) Consistency, where their thoughts, beliefs and attitudes begin to change based on decisions they've made.

  • @janiehamilton973
    @janiehamilton973 2 роки тому +2

    I told him in a text he took to long to come back so I moved on and happy because he has someone new

  • @Benny.13
    @Benny.13 5 років тому +3

    I have such anxiety everyday about this and it’s killing me!

  • @defiantenergy
    @defiantenergy 10 місяців тому

    Finding out your ex is dating someone else is one thing, but having your person leave you for someone else is one of the toughest things you can go through in life. I know it does not seem like a consolation, but if you go through this once or a few times and better yourself after, you will have a stronger resolve in almost all other aspects of your life. Things will not bother you as much, you become iron and let less significant worries bounce off you like Usher's head on Nicki Minaj's butt at the 2014 VMA's. Or like an energy beam bouncing off a light saber( that one is for you, Craig lol)

  • @kelleyoneal2578
    @kelleyoneal2578 4 роки тому +1

    My ex claimed to be in a relationship just as spontaneous revenge when he assumed wrongly I had dissed him on social media. His son confirmed he was not in a relationship.

  • @ConfidencePT
    @ConfidencePT Рік тому

    I'm two years post break up (she broke it off). She has interacted with my socials (till end of July 2023) and reached out up until (end of June 2023). This made me think there was a chance of reconciliation. I just got my heart broken all over again when she told me just over a week ago that she's seeing someone (not a rebound).

  • @habibiemaryam5894
    @habibiemaryam5894 5 років тому +7

    I saw my ex post birthday wish for his new gf in ig...its hurt me everytime :'(

  • @meridethloosemore750
    @meridethloosemore750 4 роки тому

    Married 13 years. 2 kids together. He cheated throughout. Left me. When he left he Said there was no one else. There was. She even knows me. They were childhood friends. They were together 1 month before he left. 2 months later...she is now pregnant. She has 3 kids with 3 diff guys and now with him. They look deleriously happy like I and our kids didn't even exist and the divorce is a nightmare....i don't think this video applies. :( I'm stuck in my pain and grief...

  • @lokinggoodbrowneyegirl9557
    @lokinggoodbrowneyegirl9557 5 років тому +1

    He went back with his new wife again. Very cool and straight it will be so nice if you could PLEASE leave him alone. Rachel Rio Hernandez thank you.

  • @edwardgreller
    @edwardgreller 6 років тому +6

    If they were to move on within days or a few weeks after leaving a LTR, that would be unacceptable to me.

  • @helenolskaya4798
    @helenolskaya4798 5 років тому +2

    Coach Craig and Margaret.. May you live 🍎🎵🍎🎵longer...and happier.💮🌻💮🌻You both deserve more Love and Blessings EVER..💮💮

  • @Dwbolan77
    @Dwbolan77 6 років тому +8

    My relationship of 14 years ended about 2.5 months ago so we have a lot of history, ups and downs. . basically said she didnt think she had it in her any longer to keep trying. The issues she claimed was that I wasn't willing to commit. But, thats actually not the case. In fact I was trying to think of ways to propose and was shopping for rings when everything fell apart. And now, Shes dating a guy that she has seen before in the past. Meanwhile, I want nothing more then to be with her and to marry her. Just like in this video all seems lost. I can't imagine her ever coming back. If I had the money I would be doing a Skype call with one of you for sure, probably would need more then one Skype call since 14 years is a lot of time to cover. lol

    • @jhpaintingandcivilworks7395
      @jhpaintingandcivilworks7395 6 років тому +1

      14 months to move on, starting few months quiet difficulty 😑

    • @ThatKidBryan
      @ThatKidBryan 6 років тому +4

      Dennis Bolan any updates. How are you feeling?

    • @ShkouPi
      @ShkouPi 5 років тому

      Dennis Bolan what’s new?

    • @TeKNiQ50
      @TeKNiQ50 Рік тому

      Bro that's brutal. What ended up happening? Did she come back?

    • @francoostolaza618
      @francoostolaza618 Рік тому

      Its pretty similar scenario for me...after 10 years of relationship she broke up with me, it's been 4 months of our breakup and 3and a half months of NC now she's dating a monkey face guy