Never Retire In Your 20s. It Will End Like Amanda Bynes | Asmongold Reacts

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  • @ExpensivePizza
    @ExpensivePizza Рік тому +1255

    This really has nothing to do with retirement. It's addiction and depression. She needed a purpose in life, something to do with her money and a reason to get up in the morning.
    Money just amplifies who you already are.

    • @mannymannnn
      @mannymannnn Рік тому +30

      Exactly. For me it was my faith that helped me through my depression. Having a sense of community and purpose really helps the human mind so much.

    • @shanephillips4011
      @shanephillips4011 Рік тому +19

      ​@mannymannnn some folks need fairytales to get through life....

    • @hybodo753
      @hybodo753 Рік тому

      ​@@shanephillips4011+1

    • @deliriouswhome1
      @deliriouswhome1 Рік тому +3

      Her entire mental state , is probably due to her pill addiction..

    • @CBenMar
      @CBenMar Рік тому +21

      Don't forget the elephant in the room... Dan Schneider. He is one of the reasons that she is super messed up.

  • @redpanda416
    @redpanda416 Рік тому +1484

    I don't think retire in 20s is a problem for most of us, we'd be lucky if we can retire at 60.

    • @Kornn66
      @Kornn66 Рік тому +141

      Retiring in 20s is not the problem. Normal person could find something useful to do like hobby or help others. Amanda had mental problems that she tried to drown with alcohol and drug use. And from this video it seems that her problems started before she retired.

    • @belialofeden
      @belialofeden Рік тому +45

      Can't get retirement benefits in the US till your 67. Drained my 401k when I found out I was dying lol. They tax the shit you of you for it though

    • @Kornn66
      @Kornn66 Рік тому +27

      @@belialofeden here in finland you dont even get most of your retirement money, unless you live to like 100 yo. You only get payed 1k-3k a month when you retire and when you die goverment keeps the rest of the money.

    • @hellspawnx3526
      @hellspawnx3526 Рік тому +1

      @@belialofeden in Greece its till 74

    • @redpanda416
      @redpanda416 Рік тому +5

      @@belialofeden god damn that's harsh, what happened to the health care system?

  • @chillgoblin9103
    @chillgoblin9103 Рік тому +566

    So turns out her early retirement had NOTHING to do with how things turned out. She was already spinning out of control, depressed with a few other mental problems, self-medicating while abusing drugs and alcohol. In fact, her "retirement" came about from those problems. The industry is used to problematic actors and their toxic quirks. So imagine how bad the problems have to be for them to classify her as unmanageable and too big of a risk. Then she simply spun out of control as she no longer needed to hold back and there was no longer anyone managing her.

    • @boristheamerican2938
      @boristheamerican2938 Рік тому +12

      Probably true, as Mick Jagger once said, fame does not rest well on anyones shoulders.

    • @unorevers7160
      @unorevers7160 Рік тому +15

      Yes - Her first interwiev left the exact same impression to me as the later ones. Everything is fantastic, I never do drugs etc.
      Im pretty sure her role was the only thing that kept her consumption at bay.

    • @simonschneider5913
      @simonschneider5913 Рік тому +4

      @@unorevers7160 thats probably the most depressing diagnosis we can get.... and it sounds very real! :) fuckin sad......but quite true.

    • @twintrbo92
      @twintrbo92 Рік тому

      The industry probably diddled her like so many other child actors.

    • @chillgoblin9103
      @chillgoblin9103 Рік тому +1

      @@xxx0ox0 Sadly, in my opinion, Hollywood did far less damage than her parents. What kid wouldn't crumble when they discover that the people supposed to shield you from exploiters are the ones making your life miserable to line their pockets.

  • @Sennken
    @Sennken Рік тому +241

    >Don't retire in 20s
    >The girl does a tonna drugs and alcohol
    Mate, i don't think retiring in 20s is the issue here...

    • @jarskii11
      @jarskii11 Рік тому +2

      Well if you wake up and have work To do it at least for most People stop wake and bake

    • @plants.plants
      @plants.plants 11 місяців тому +4

      Yeah every time I see one of these Sunny videos on here I just know it's going to be 50% interesting, 50% total BS

  • @Aggnog
    @Aggnog Рік тому +694

    None of her problems have to do with being retired or rich.

    • @yeageristfritz
      @yeageristfritz Рік тому +116

      being rich and retired makes all those problems a lot worse tho.

    • @dankuya
      @dankuya Рік тому +38

      ​@yeageristfritz how exactly? Poor drug addicts who need to work to make a living have it better off?

    • @jm52995
      @jm52995 Рік тому +12

      Youre right, it was herself that is to blame

    • @yeageristfritz
      @yeageristfritz Рік тому +44

      @@dankuya i never said anything about poor drug addicts... but if you have all the money you need and have 0 work responsibilities, its going to be much harder to keep yourself in check. That would take a lot of self-discipline that many of these child actors never had.

    • @dankuya
      @dankuya Рік тому +42

      ​@@yeageristfritzyeah the issue is that they were child actors who never developed proper life skills and self control, not that they are rich and don't have to work. Its not hard for a mentally stable person to not go off the deep end like this with or without the money.

  • @cherrypez26
    @cherrypez26 Рік тому +72

    She was also part of the whole Nickelodeon crap with Dan Schneider. So imagine what all that did to her head on top of all the other stuff with her self hating her appearance. It's sad that it happened.

    • @Swerg20
      @Swerg20 Рік тому +14

      She also has type 1 bipolar disorder, which untreated is super destructive to their own lives and everyone around them.

  • @Phaevryn
    @Phaevryn Рік тому +268

    retiring has nothing to do with it. It has to do with one's convictions and morals and the people you surround yourself with.

    • @aureliusmarcusantoninus3441
      @aureliusmarcusantoninus3441 Рік тому +3

      @@villefere6968you will work until you die and own nothing

    • @unorevers7160
      @unorevers7160 Рік тому +7

      @@villefere6968 Idk what that has todo with the topic. Also are you employed by a youtuber? Did you mean to say big corpo or the goverment wants to keep you in check. I never heard that there was some youtuber conspiracy against blue collar workers.

    • @cutepuppy2422
      @cutepuppy2422 11 місяців тому

      And schizophrenia lol

  • @usuallyroamingrob3427
    @usuallyroamingrob3427 Рік тому +331

    I was medically retired from the military at 27. The problem is, if you’re not working you need to find something to fill your time, otherwise life can get pretty boring. It would be very easy to fall into substance abuse.

    • @lekrashar
      @lekrashar Рік тому +12

      Depression/traumas, when treated poorly (or just straight up untreated), can and will get bad enough to a point where activities that should free up your mind will actually get you more anxious (can't disassociate them from traumas or takes a stupid amount of willpower to start. Or both)
      Just to say that in some cases, hobbies won't help you at all (and might even do the reverse) unfortunately
      We don't know what happened with Amanda at all, we only saw the consequences. Maybe it was just a lack of hobbies that spiraled out of control, maybe it was something entirely unrelated.
      But seeing that she went to the gym or just went outside to do random stuff. Heck, some clips implies she has/had a dog so that should replace some boring times. I wouldn't be surprised there is way more to it than just a lack of hobbies. At the end of the day, we'll never get to know the full story of why she went down this badly

    • @arcticbeak
      @arcticbeak Рік тому +30

      Insider tip: If you need something to fill your time, play wow classic hardcore.

    • @Kangsta665
      @Kangsta665 Рік тому +37

      @@arcticbeak gaming is unironically a good retirement hobby, keeps you thinking and invested in something rather than turning to alcohol or drugs to pass the time

    • @-jakey-
      @-jakey- Рік тому +1

      Thats why we got WoW baby

    • @simonschneider5913
      @simonschneider5913 Рік тому

      so, what did you fill the time with? this is a very interesting problematic! i a facing the same problem for diffenrent reasons...i guess....

  • @Ni-boo
    @Ni-boo Рік тому +146

    I find it hard to judge child stars harshly...

    • @Tetarkall
      @Tetarkall Рік тому +36

      There is a high probability that some really messed up sh*t has happened to her

    • @richarddukard8989
      @richarddukard8989 Рік тому +12

      @@Tetarkallyep Nickelodeon was completely Fd back in the day

    • @Ni-boo
      @Ni-boo Рік тому +4

      @@Outrun_Andy from what little I know shared to the public, I can't blame child stars acting out when they're independent adults.

    • @Ni-boo
      @Ni-boo Рік тому +4

      @@Tetarkall I don't doubt, lotta creeps in the entertainment industry.

  • @johnc6497
    @johnc6497 Рік тому +193

    Lack of purpose and productivity has a habit of messing with people, as it can exacerbate self-destructive behavior - ala, Mrs. Bynes.

    • @Nyakomata
      @Nyakomata Рік тому +13

      I doubt it is all just about that. She for sure saw weird shit in hollywood it is a fucked up place.

    • @WobiKabobi
      @WobiKabobi Рік тому

      @@villefere6968facts

    • @SlimPug
      @SlimPug Рік тому

      Yeah sure man it was jeffry epstine and the illuminati
      @@Nyakomata

    • @Temperans
      @Temperans Рік тому +3

      ​@@villefere6968a purpose does not mean that it is good. It means that you have a goal.

    • @golik133
      @golik133 Рік тому +2

      I think that's why a hobby is important

  • @Killkode8
    @Killkode8 Рік тому +50

    One child star that retired early and I think came out well that had to go through some bullshit and horrible rumors was Frankie Muniz (Malcom In The Middle).
    There was an episode of SteveO's podcast where he talks about it and seems like a chill guy just living his life as a race car driver now.

    • @azarisLP
      @azarisLP Рік тому +8

      Men will literally become NASCAR drivers instead of going to therapy.

  • @joelthief
    @joelthief Рік тому +28

    I was a huge fan of Amanda Bynes. I wish good things for her in her life.

  • @cococalypso9890
    @cococalypso9890 Рік тому +101

    Oh man, I miss Amanda Bynes. I know there were always those rumors about that creepy Dan Schneider during her Nickelodeon days. A lawyer who had explained some of his interactions with her over the course of 11 years revealed on his podcast that she had told him that she was R'd, forced to end the pregnancy, and had to continue to work with the person who did it. Also, she had said that acting is how she got through life. It was easier to be characters than herself. If one of the versions got hurt, it didn't matter because there were all of these other versions to keep her safe.

    • @boristheamerican2938
      @boristheamerican2938 Рік тому +2

      Mr DeMille, Im ready for my close up

    • @HoldMyBong
      @HoldMyBong Рік тому +2

      Sounds like dan schneider lived the dream for over a decade and faces no consequences good for him.

    • @user-sb5vt8iy5q
      @user-sb5vt8iy5q Рік тому +3

      jeez, no one deserves that

    • @DrMattHH
      @DrMattHH Рік тому +14

      ​@@HoldMyBong Good for him for molesting kids for over a decade with no consequences? That's "living the dream"? You need to turn yourself in.

    • @Nersius
      @Nersius Рік тому

      ​@@DrMattHHSarcasm.

  • @cmbara102
    @cmbara102 Рік тому +8

    I retired at 25. It's pretty easy. All you need to do is enlist in the Army and get badly injured.

  • @lkl3210
    @lkl3210 Рік тому +80

    Saw a fascinating vod about european soccer academies and how 90% of the students don't get to be signed by clubs because they simply aren't good enough. The aftermath on that realization to some of those kids even led up to them taking their own lives. And the video was suggesting either some laws be implemented for age restrictions or academies should take responsibility for and provide alternative career paths and education. I mean as asmon said maybe this wasn't because she was a child actor but as he also said a lot of child actors do end up like this.

    • @gagereed486
      @gagereed486 Рік тому +12

      That’s insane
      Someone decides they want to pursue a soccer career, they aren’t good enough to play, so the club has to hire them anyway or use their own resources to find them an alternative career?
      No

    • @timovandenheuvel9502
      @timovandenheuvel9502 Рік тому +32

      @@gagereed486 It goes both way, an academy, by picking a youth player (these generally already start around 10 years old sometimes sooner) make the player believe they are special, not once are they under the impression they're not going to make it. The academy in the mean time, keeps those players from pursuing other things like further education as they need to be fully committed to the club. So when you just get cut because you're not 'good enough' it is a devastating attack on the players mind but also years of dedication and lost time they could've spent properly furthering their education or a career.

    • @lkl3210
      @lkl3210 Рік тому +13

      @@gagereed486 ah yeah forgot to mention it was about kids being recruited from as young as 5

    • @gagereed486
      @gagereed486 Рік тому +2

      @@timovandenheuvel9502 maybe I misunderstand the relationship between player and the “club” or “academy”

    • @timovandenheuvel9502
      @timovandenheuvel9502 Рік тому +13

      @@gagereed486 Are you American by any chance? From what I know your system is that clubs take from college teams which keeps the focus on education. Scholarships etc, here the focus lies on the sport itself. So Academy/club generally do nothing with education. There are some clubs that have restrictions like AFC Ajax for example that if you don't get good grades you don't get to train. They also provide a school on their training grounds. But this again is outside of the European norm.

  • @whimsyspook
    @whimsyspook Рік тому +17

    When I was young, Amanda Bynes was my favorite actress. She was so funny. I grew up watching The Amanda Show and her movies. "She's The Man" was my favorite movie for awhile, and honestly it's still funny as hell. Whenever I'm reminded about her, all I can think of is how much wasted talent there was. It is really tragic what happened. I genuinely do hope for her recovery and return to films one day, even if it would be awkward for a bit.

  • @Tatoebot
    @Tatoebot Рік тому +57

    That’s drugs brother not retirement

    • @chrisguillen1495
      @chrisguillen1495 2 місяці тому +3

      That’s drugs, bipolar 1 and Dan Snyder for ya.

  • @deftones8717
    @deftones8717 Рік тому +95

    Some people use “dog food” as a slang/codeword for heroin. Amanda Bynes was literally getting high on real dog food… crushing up the little brown pellets, mixing the powder with water, and mainlining that sh!t 😆
    On a serious note, as someone who wasted years of my life as a slave for dog food (dope), I wouldn’t wish that sh!t upon my worst enemy. I am one of the VERY FEW who made it out on the other side, out of so many of the people I ran with. Addiction is the fu€king worst! To anyone out there who is struggling, stay strong. Life can get better.

    • @jrelyea828
      @jrelyea828 Рік тому +7

      Almost four years cold turkey free from the chains of fet myself. Proud of you fam!

    • @solzstice
      @solzstice Рік тому +4

      glad you're still goin, i'm 8y sober from dope too and never goin back

    • @MusashiW-ec2yn
      @MusashiW-ec2yn Рік тому +1

      each to their own, some people can do it, it can be cheaper than playing genshin impact, and gatcha games for weebs. e.g cash whales. imo personality, and mood factors and how easy you are to get attatched to stuff, even coke and coffee, cigs all bad signs to stay out of it. but imo. i'd prob do it again when i'm in the pits.

    • @foreignuser_
      @foreignuser_ Рік тому

      lol?

    • @Waggabagaboo
      @Waggabagaboo Рік тому

      Good job dawg heroin is awful, and now that it’s essentially off the market the new shit kills you dead.

  • @JAYM0O
    @JAYM0O Рік тому +4

    This has nothing to do with retiring in your 20's. This has more to do with being extremely famous as a kid and then becoming an adult and realizing you don't want to be famous anymore but no matter what you do someone is around every corner to harass you, or invade your personal space.

  • @Grassroots_Hegemon
    @Grassroots_Hegemon Рік тому +64

    I dont understand how she could have fallen so far whilst eating the breakfast of champions, Diet Pepsi Powerade, Alcohol and dog food...? How is this possible?

    • @ext93
      @ext93 Рік тому +19

      When I am excelling at work, my coworkers say "guess someone had their dog food this morning!!"

    • @sephlock4767
      @sephlock4767 Рік тому +7

      It was the diet Pepsi

    • @psycropticqc
      @psycropticqc Рік тому

      🐕

    • @dark-lord-vinay
      @dark-lord-vinay Рік тому

      It was the aspartame induced tumour that caused her downfall 😢

    • @thekito4623
      @thekito4623 7 місяців тому

      im still confused ... is she EATING the dogfood herself?? i mean she had a dog later on .. but why is it on a plate then? maybe so she can give the dog treats more easily?? please tell me she isnt eating the dog food herself.... do people eat dog food???? wtf

  • @seancsnm
    @seancsnm Рік тому +5

    A job keeps you too busy to allow a nihilistic life outlook or lack of purpose to take hold. About 2 years after graduating college, I spent about a year and a half jobless, and I was fairly happy but ended up stagnating somewhat. I played more more video games, spent more time on UA-cam, etc. I didn't have the discipline to do what I really wanted to do, which was to create stuff. There was no excuse, just lack of motivation. So I went back to work but still long for that magic combination of purpose, free time, and self-discipline to do the things I truly want to do. I enjoy video games and other forms of entertainment, but it it's very difficult to balance those with things that are more fulfilling. Being productive through our own freedom to do whatever we want is very difficult.
    But yeah, addictions can mess a person up. They can take any notion of purpose and meaning and flush them down the drain.

  • @tash8697
    @tash8697 Рік тому +3

    Her being a girl had a big impact on how she ended up addicted to drugs… she was hyper fixated on what the media said about her looks and that’s what led her to try adderall in the first place, to lose weight. It’s a cruel thing.

  • @TheRedStateBlue
    @TheRedStateBlue Рік тому +4

    she didn't retire. she went fucking crazy. big difference.

  • @carlsczepanski
    @carlsczepanski Рік тому +6

    Retiring early is a goal to strive for. Once attained, a new goal must be in place or your life loses purpose

  • @calestaiezu214
    @calestaiezu214 Рік тому +3

    I do drug testing. Adderall is not meth. It is Amphetamine, which is chemically similar to meth, but has more of a medical use. It’s like how hydrogen peroxide is chemically close to water, but one is safe to consume and the other isn’t and the only difference is one oxygen molecule.
    They have other ADHD meds that aren’t amphetamine based. If the medication helps you function better, so long as you aren’t abusing it, there’s nothing wrong with taking it. Just like how there’s nothing wrong with drinking alcohol, but when you are chronically abusing it, then it is a problem.

  • @martuuk8964
    @martuuk8964 Рік тому +8

    This is what happens when parents overly shelter and helicopter their kid and control every aspect of their lives but completely fail to instill moral and philosophical guardrails, i.e. mental and emotional tools, to deal with the adversities of adulthood and being responsible for yourself in an adversarial unsheltered world. This isn’t even unique to child stars. Many children with controlling abusive parents end up this way to varying degrees.

    • @talkingtakotaco8611
      @talkingtakotaco8611 Рік тому +1

      Yeah. The problem with overly controlling parents is that the child could potentially never learn self control. Ironically being completely hands off or neglectful with the child has very similar results. It's important to figure out a balance.

    • @captainspaulding5963
      @captainspaulding5963 Місяць тому

      ...... her behavior is a direct result of how she and MANY other child stars were treated at Nickelodeon. Parents had nothing to do with it

  • @MrToastyTank
    @MrToastyTank Рік тому +27

    Asmon is right, The sociological impact that society can have on a female can be pretty impactful, and it does show with how many times she brought up appearance as she probably was as a young girl hyper fixated on that by the people around her who wanted to leech off of her. While she was kept in this level of delusion that she lived inside of her mind it slowly, like a festering rot took her mind, and she ran from it into drugs and alcohol, and this was the result.

    • @dabobthorton6169
      @dabobthorton6169 Рік тому +12

      Women help create that culture

    • @vandamq8
      @vandamq8 Рік тому +1

      ya living as a women now must be very stressful watching girls doing onlyfans making 100x more than what a doctor make , watching all these pretty fake girls online one insta thinking to themself that they are not pretty , i watched hundred of 10/10 girls ruining there face with surgery because they just cant accept how they look even tho they are as pretty as it gets

    • @mirvha714
      @mirvha714 Рік тому +1

      Psychological impact*. Sociological impact implies impact on society, not the individual.

    • @MrToastyTank
      @MrToastyTank Рік тому

      I do mean an impact by society
      @@mirvha714

  • @dagoelius
    @dagoelius 11 місяців тому +2

    She's displaying all the signs of someone who has been secretly abused in the industry. The drug use is to numb the subconscious trauma.

  • @breveth
    @breveth Рік тому +3

    I've known Amanda for about 10 years. She was forced to volunteer at a homeless shelter I volunteered at. Nice girl, but a little aloof and naive.

  • @kudosjp1
    @kudosjp1 Рік тому +16

    I honestly don't get how you'd get bored in retirement, especially if you have gaming as a hobby. In my twenties I got severe burn out at work and took like 2 years off living off my savings, and pretty much just gamed the entire time. I had zero problems keeping myself entertained.

    • @aarondodo4076
      @aarondodo4076 Рік тому +1

      Imagine a MAJOR burn out on a game that you've payed 20 hours a day for 2 years. Or retiring on an island with no electronic devices at all. Or binge watching shows 24/7 without sleep and once it's finished --- now you have to deal with the enormous black hole in your heart, messed up sleep patterns that just don't give you a break, and completely disoriented to reality for weeks. Gamers, artists, and especially these actors are naturally people who can very easily "immerse themselves" into their own worlds, who can easily suspend disbelief, who cannot help but "day-dream" and "roleplay". We're all prime candidates for getting lost like this, just that you can still get immersed in games of your choice in retirement --- But Amanda's game IS her job, she's been playing that extremely high-immersion Role Play Game called "Highest-calibre professional movie acting" since childhood and without it... Yikes, I wouldn't doubt that it will hit her like a truck. The sad part is that being so young, she'd only realize this after she has stepped away. And let's be honest, for someone who enjoy RP in RPGs? You don't get more immersed than actual Hollywood level film making. It is like a "high" that will prevent her from getting joy from things like RPing in WoW taverns. She's basically... Stuck with a severe withdrawal from the substance that gave her a high since childhood, this will be much more devastating than an Adult actor who has also tread through ordinary life before. As for retirement, I'm most certain that I will NEVER retire as long as I live, I will employ myself if I have to. Some call it "work", I call it "a reminder that reality and myself have not abandoned each other yet". Because why else should I give a F to this certainly less than beautiful reality? I can use this time in reality to enjoy more beautiful worlds in games and art and books and movies, yes, but in order to do that I better make sure I can force myself to care about this "necessary evil" enough to have the motivation to go on...

    • @kudosjp1
      @kudosjp1 Рік тому +3

      @@aarondodo4076 Yea it's understandable in her situation or others already struggling with depression or substance abuse. I still stand by my statement for well-adjusted individuals, however. Being able to retire early is a privilege and any issues that arise is simply a first world problem. There is simply no way you can't find a healthy alternative in this day and age with the internet, ability to travel anywhere and to do almost anything.

  • @TomJay1987
    @TomJay1987 Рік тому +53

    I remember Amanda Bynes from her time on All That, a kids sketch show on Nickelodeon in the 90s. It was crazy to see her fall so far. Kenan, also from All That, has gone on to be so successful.

    • @ripplecutter233
      @ripplecutter233 Рік тому +3

      wonder what happened to kel

    • @jamestomlin5525
      @jamestomlin5525 Рік тому +6

      ​@ripplecutter233 he's still around. Just staying out of the spotlight

    • @Tetarkall
      @Tetarkall Рік тому +5

      Kenan? Oh yeah, he’s always on SNL and Sesame Street. Two shows that are in the toilet swirling

    • @sadboat1657
      @sadboat1657 Рік тому

      ​@@ripplecutter233Last I heard Kel was in a metal band

  • @johnnyboy5120
    @johnnyboy5120 Рік тому +1

    Only just found the channel, so much sarcasm and bants, a bloody godsend

  • @girth_goblin
    @girth_goblin Рік тому +4

    As someone who struggled with severe adderall addiction, I really feel bad for her. It’s a miserable, devastating drug to come off. I cannot imagine being a celebrity, having my face plastered all over tabloids during recovery. It’s honestly disgusting what the media does to these young actors

    • @serieee123
      @serieee123 Рік тому

      I'm actually surprised how people manage to get addicted to this stuff.Two or three experiences with those terrible withdrawal symptoms made me quit.Sure, it feels really good when you re on it, but damn, once its out of your system you feel like banging your head on the walls.

  • @spectre1725
    @spectre1725 Рік тому +3

    If you managed to get a large amount of money and want to retire young, keep doing something that is really fun for you. Keep doing it regularly. You could also do things where you don't get paid and do something for someone.
    The worse you could do is change your usual day. Like start drinking alcohol, going out on a weekday, etc.

  • @grandmarnier3746
    @grandmarnier3746 Рік тому +3

    Sounds like a lot of us and unresolved issues or trauma. When we have something to distract ourselves we can manage and be fine, but when you can’t, thoughts come flooding back. She’s no different in this case to everyone else.

  • @SSingh-nr8qz
    @SSingh-nr8qz Рік тому +3

    It's not about being retired.
    Its about how you fill your free time and having purpose in your life.

  • @nebula0024
    @nebula0024 Рік тому +33

    Sounds like an ex-girlfriend of mine. She started off career driven and focused, would smoke weed from time-to-time, but eventually she started to wake-and-bake every single day and basically do nothing. Lost multiple jobs, stopped talking to her friends, lost all interest in doing anything or contributing to our relationship. As hard as I tried (and boy did I try!), she wouldn't snap out of it. Seemed to lose interest in everything. There was most likely an underlying major depression that went undiagnosed, and getting her to see a professional was completely out of the question. We eventually split and she moved back in with her parents. After that she dropped off of social media entirely and I have no idea if she got her life together or not. Really sad, but sometimes people spiral and there's nothing you or anyone else can do about it. 😟

    • @HonkieWithaBoomstick
      @HonkieWithaBoomstick Рік тому +2

      Sounds like homie was real supportive 😂😂😂☠️☠️☠️

    • @iPanicyt
      @iPanicyt Рік тому +2

      “Nothing you Can do” way to wash Your hands.

    • @DefeatLust
      @DefeatLust Рік тому +10

      ​@@iPanicyt Tell me you have zero life experience without telling me you do.

    • @tommcgovern2083
      @tommcgovern2083 Рік тому +5

      Had a similar situation. Ive been speaking to a clinical psychologist every week for the last 7 years to deal with my own depression. Saw the signs with an ex and did everything I could to get her help. But if they don't want to get help then there's nothing you can do. Do everything you can to support but at the end of the day you have to look after yourself as your main priority.

    • @nebula0024
      @nebula0024 Рік тому +1

      @@tommcgovern2083 thanks for being one of the few in here who actually understands what it's like to go through that, and how difficult it can be to get someone to accept help.

  • @daisycarbonell
    @daisycarbonell Рік тому +6

    "Never Retire In Your 20s." as if I even had the fucking choice to lol

  • @bertvsrob
    @bertvsrob Рік тому +29

    self control issue not a retirement issue

  • @MrHabenero
    @MrHabenero Рік тому +2

    It's genuinely sad because underneath her attractiveness, she was a genuinely talented actress.
    I do believe that she can bring herself back from what she has been going through, but I think an important part of what allows her to shine through with her talents is that she needs "structure" in her life.
    She needs help with organizing her days and activities, she needs to keep herself busy with work and activities that keep her brain busy and constructive with less time to concentrate on destructive activities. I'm not saying she should become an obsessive workaholic either, but even if she had personal time that was structured like planned vacations or hobbies that required a structure of planning, organization, and activity, I really think it would just help her find a little more peace and comfort within herself.
    Living a life filled with structure like that is absolutely not for everyone, but I think with people who struggle in the way that Amanda has with her own life, I genuinely think it would help her regain so much control over her own life and allow her to feel more empowered within herself.

  • @WhyFacetattoos
    @WhyFacetattoos Рік тому +3

    My buddy got to fucked up at the bar didnt want to leave his new pickup wasnt going to drive and just asked if he could sleep in his truck. The bartender said no problem. It was February so he started his pickup and laid his seat back woke up a few hours later to a knock at the window getting arrested for dui. Even with the video of him not leaving the parking lot still got hit just for starting the vehicle.

  • @reinoldi1097
    @reinoldi1097 Рік тому +2

    This happens when you dont have Hobbys....
    Party drugs become the Hobby.. And from there its just a downward Spiral. Especially after quitting work

  • @lederman92
    @lederman92 Рік тому +4

    This also doesn't say that she has confirmed schizophrenia and bipolar disorder. And is probably not being treated for it and the substance abuse makes treatment not work as well as exacerbates her symptoms.

  • @TwiceBubaigawara-dl5ln
    @TwiceBubaigawara-dl5ln Рік тому +4

    Having grown up watching her on tv this is depressing af and sad to see/hear that this happened to her and I definitely noticed a pattern that didn’t look like it’d help her out mentally example dating thug like guys probably doesn’t help at all. Very sad

  • @teddasaurusrex2158
    @teddasaurusrex2158 Рік тому +3

    Hot take. She would have been crazy regardless. Her problem didn't seem to be the fame it was how she reacted to the fame. A girl as pretty as her, sadly, would have gotten attention to a much higher level than most girls. This felt pretty inevitable to me because this is the story of almost every pretty girl that isn't given a good support system.

  • @user-wh8gs8jy4k
    @user-wh8gs8jy4k Рік тому +1

    0:35 hey thats my kitchen

  • @AA12mike
    @AA12mike Рік тому +10

    I blame her parents and the movie/tv industry. Child stars are doomed. Sad bc i grew up down the street from her and she was cool as a kid

  • @Ayatorin
    @Ayatorin Рік тому +8

    SunnyV’s misleading titles remind me of that kid is school, that would exaggerate stories, to make himself sound more interesting than he actually is.

  • @kwerby3285
    @kwerby3285 Рік тому +3

    Body dysmorphia and drug abuse are not rich people problems 😂
    Guys, if you get a shot at financial independence, take it. Grab it with both hands and hold on as hard as you can.

  • @RuneKatashima
    @RuneKatashima Рік тому +1

    Early retirement isn't hell, it's the lack of ambition. I'd still have so much to do if I was retired. SO MUCH.

  • @AdriftForWeeks
    @AdriftForWeeks Рік тому +5

    This is honestly so sad. She got eaten up by her own insecurities and it only led more into a downwards spiral with all the drugs and stuff. Terrible. EDIT: Title of the vid is super dumb. Retirement has nothing to do with it.

  • @tyroneshoelaces315
    @tyroneshoelaces315 Рік тому +2

    My sister in law is schizophrenic/bipolar and shes roughly in the same boat. Shes good when shes on her meds but when shes not, all hell breaks loose

  • @jimbajamba9887
    @jimbajamba9887 Рік тому +17

    The correlation between messed up child actors tends to be Nickelodeon

    • @eventhorizon7234
      @eventhorizon7234 Рік тому +1

      The correlation between being a virgin tends to be shy little animegirl pfp

    • @TheKnightofAwesomeness
      @TheKnightofAwesomeness Рік тому +10

      ​@@eventhorizon7234Is that it... Come on do better with that Troll

    • @dodo19923
      @dodo19923 Рік тому +9

      @@eventhorizon7234 That was weak af dude.

    • @andrew8168
      @andrew8168 Рік тому +3

      Or Disney.

    • @eventhorizon7234
      @eventhorizon7234 Рік тому

      @@TheKnightofAwesomeness sry you feeel insulted, but iti s how it is

  • @Dustinisnotavailable
    @Dustinisnotavailable Рік тому +2

    "She should have played MMOs. Would have solved this problem." Lol, agreed. A much safer addiction for sure.

  • @rg4969
    @rg4969 Рік тому +3

    “She’s broken, get her fixed. Bring in the dancing lobsters”

  • @jaybee8862
    @jaybee8862 Рік тому +2

    She retired because she was going nuts... she didn't go nuts because she retired

  • @chahinebourenane6291
    @chahinebourenane6291 Рік тому +3

    Been a long time since i didn't laugh that much at one of your video! thank your asmon!

  • @Sketchy--
    @Sketchy-- Рік тому +1

    8:15 - By no means am I defending people who commit or have committed DUI's, however I want to mention if you have never used a breathalyzer to understand how your body absorbs the alcohol you drink, you will certainly be surprised how fast the 0.08 (The typical legal limit in the US) comes up after a beer and a half, but the person is completely still fully functional and even may not feel any of the effects of the beer.
    Let alone the 0.06 for a DWI. The point is, it's almost impossible to have two beers (Maybe even one for people on the small side), let alone hard liquor and still be under the legal limit, so getting a DUI isn't a perfect indicator for negligence as in many cases it is a situation of ignorance. I know nothing of Amanda's story, but it's possible she had 2 beers, could do a handstand for 20 seconds, play proper chess, and still be blowing above the legal limit. Do I think that's the case for this one, by the looks of her hotel room, nope.
    I own a breathalyzer which we use after a night out if anyone drove just to logically ensure that someone is legally okay to drive, rather than their lack of physical impedance or count of drinks. I have never had a DUI/DWI, so it has worked for me and friends thus far.

  • @GuardianTactician
    @GuardianTactician Рік тому +7

    Retirement means free time to get into trouble. Being a millionaire means she has the money to get into trouble. People need a purpose, and a routine that keeps them busy.

  • @jakecreighton9039
    @jakecreighton9039 Рік тому +1

    Adderall doesn’t help you lose weight, it curbs appetite for a few hours but when it wears off the hunger comes back worse. And you can’t just take it again to curb the resurgent hunger because the tolerance builds up and the drug doesn’t curb hunger as well until you take a break from it. During the break you gain all the weight back.
    Also it’s important to point out that adderall is not meth. They have different chemical structures and adderall has a valid medical use. It can really help people and equating it to meth creates a stigma that stops people from seeking help when they should.

  • @docrob2236
    @docrob2236 Рік тому +4

    The crazy-hot matrix is undefeated.

  • @Anna-po1sb
    @Anna-po1sb Рік тому +1

    Considering what Dan Schneider did to Amanda, retiring has nothing to do with it. This person is forever broken.

  • @Mojavekight17
    @Mojavekight17 Рік тому +10

    I feel bad for her😢

  • @CHIEF__
    @CHIEF__ Рік тому +1

    Even the relatively "tame" drugs by our current standards, I'm trying to end all outside influences I don't need, not that it's easy or anything, precisely the opposite. Idk if others are perfectly able to manage their use but it feels like to me that any small amount starts you down a path and with access to other stuff I just don't know what'd happen, I'm perfectly happy living a mostly sober life and just not thinking about what's causing my problems, it's always up to me.

  • @icemage21k
    @icemage21k Рік тому +3

    The warning hair colors are like a tell tell sign of mental illness

  • @bluetiger2468
    @bluetiger2468 Рік тому +2

    Retiring early is not the problem, it's having "no sense of purpose" that is the problem. It sucks, but I noticed if a person doesn't have some sort of work or purpose in their life, they start to cause problems. It's similar to "Negative attention is better than no attention." Some people can have a normal, happy, life if they retire early because they fill their time with hobbies and volunteer work. But some people need a job or else they have absolutely nothing else to do in their life. They can drink and do dr*gs every day because, without a job, they don't need to be sober the next day and they can afford it.

  • @soultrex9722
    @soultrex9722 Рік тому +8

    I grew up watching Amanda, with her funny personality and always thought she is gorgeous inside and out. She became bored and depressed. Made mistakes like the rest of us because why? She's human too. So instead of making the problem worse by antagonizing and criticizing what she already knows, let's support her in the idea that it's OK to fall down and get back up. We all fall down sometimes.

  • @whutch1
    @whutch1 Рік тому +1

    Unironically I think an mmo would have been a good outlet for her. Who knows, maybe she could become a streamer

  • @lukenov81
    @lukenov81 Рік тому +12

    Addicted to dog food. 😂

  • @ShaunInce123
    @ShaunInce123 Рік тому +1

    As the old saying goes
    "An idle mind is the devils playground"
    She didn't have any self control & she went with drugs to fill that void.

  • @stfu_grimmi
    @stfu_grimmi Рік тому +3

    She just went around calling people ugly, ruining her own life, being a nuisence. What did she expect would happen once she quit her job and gave up all ambition? Could have started her own business, found a hobby, done something with her life. Naaah lets do drugs and go to shit and then cry about it to hold onto that relevance. Her life ig. You want fame? Have it.

  • @thestig007
    @thestig007 Рік тому +1

    Even if I quit my day job, I'll probably always work on projects or try to start a business. Gotta keep the mind going or it falls off.

  • @LEWCIFER03
    @LEWCIFER03 Рік тому +6

    Love a early morning asmon vid to relax to after work gotta love it

    • @danjiiil1226
      @danjiiil1226 Рік тому

      6 am abt to sleep to this lol

    • @Greatcelestialkaligo
      @Greatcelestialkaligo Рік тому +1

      @@danjiiil1226 hope you had a good sleep you'll be surprised about this when you wake up it is random but hey.

  • @9383troy
    @9383troy Рік тому +2

    wow the 3 darlings of the generation britney, lindsay, and amanda all went bat shit

  • @Topaz723
    @Topaz723 Рік тому +9

    100% factual that MMOs solves this problem. You are never alone with nothing to do.

  • @BigNood51
    @BigNood51 Рік тому +2

    As someone who’s done both, adderall is quite literally meth in a pill

    • @thekito4623
      @thekito4623 7 місяців тому

      thanks for the info. appreciate it. now i dont have to try lol

  • @playablecharacter3871
    @playablecharacter3871 Рік тому +8

    I'll never retire in my goddamn life lol I work full time and I can't even afford the shittiest apartments in my city

  • @jackierenee1691
    @jackierenee1691 Рік тому +2

    The only reason they always mention "it started off with smoking marijuana" is because it always seems to be the stepping point for using other adictive substances. Which isn't the fault of the plant, it's the person themselves. There are plenty of people who responsibly smoke. I myself hate it. I cant stand the smell, and I don't like any form of smoking, whether it's tobacco or something else. But I've seen plenty of normal people still be able to function properly, and others do a complete nose dive in their life. It's all about the person.

    • @jimmyngo2191
      @jimmyngo2191 Рік тому +3

      I smoke weed but never transit into anything else than weed. You're right, it's the person. The trick is you have to have self-control and boundaries. I never drink more than 3 cans of beer or 3 glasses of wine. Boundaries and discipline is the key.

    • @CuteAnimeGirl
      @CuteAnimeGirl 29 днів тому

      I think the weed made her develop mental issues, it can develop into mental illness if you do high doses.

  • @flamart9703
    @flamart9703 Рік тому +6

    If she had discovered WoW, she wouldn't need drugs.

  • @Matthew_S_1985
    @Matthew_S_1985 Рік тому +24

    Who's Amanda bynes ? I never got into tv in my teens

    • @Kornn66
      @Kornn66 Рік тому +3

      I dont know and i dont care.

    • @TwoBs
      @TwoBs Рік тому +8

      She was a well-known/prominent Nickelodeon child star in the 90s and early 2000s. She got her start at a comedy club before the age of 10 and had her own television show named after her by the age of 12.
      You didn’t need to watch television at that time to know who she was, honestly. She was just known to the majority of people based off name alone for the longest period of time.

    • @Kornn66
      @Kornn66 Рік тому +3

      @@TwoBs I was born in 80s and never heard of her.

    • @jamess8045
      @jamess8045 Рік тому +4

      @@Kornn66ok, want a cookie?

    • @Kornn66
      @Kornn66 Рік тому

      @@jamess8045 sure

  • @John-to2fd
    @John-to2fd Рік тому

    “The worst thing to call someone is crazy. It’s dismissive. … These people are not crazy. They’re strong people. Maybe the environment is a little sick.” - Dave Chappelle on Hollywood

  • @Icureditwithmybrain
    @Icureditwithmybrain Рік тому +6

    6 million is 100,000 a year for 60 years.

    • @thecrimsoncrispy
      @thecrimsoncrispy Рік тому

      83k

    • @ifeawosika966
      @ifeawosika966 Рік тому

      If you dont make any extra money or invest

    • @Rellikan
      @Rellikan Рік тому

      Inflation rate would eventually lower the 6 million down to 2 given the trajectory on the stats.

  • @LobbeWOW
    @LobbeWOW Рік тому +1

    It worries me that she had to stay active with something constantly to avoid falling into these never ending downward spirals.
    But in the end, she was just an actor on a stage, she earned a lot of money but i'd wager that the people who ran the shows ultimately earned far more.

  • @derace1987
    @derace1987 Рік тому +4

    that has more to do with the fact she was a child star and got groomed into hollywood. if you somehow get rich as a normal person in your twenties chances are you will not get down that road...

  • @max.harvroom
    @max.harvroom 10 місяців тому +1

    i retired at 33, it really isn't all it's supposed to be

  • @lee98210
    @lee98210 Рік тому +6

    Yea, the weed is a gateway drug to everything that going downhill from there...
    Should never be socially accepted and actively discourage just like cigarette.

    • @aaronkoning7255
      @aaronkoning7255 Рік тому

      Cannabis can trigger immediate schizophrenia in people who are genetically inclined to develop it. Considering her life went to hell immediately after smoking cannabis, and because her life continued to be psychotic even after stopping drug use, she probably has untreated bipolar or schizophrenia.
      Cannabis doesn't cause these symptoms in the vast majority of the population.

    • @hana-qs3xj
      @hana-qs3xj Рік тому

      I think that kind of discounts the benefits marijuana can have. I think people are too casual about it and the possible effects it can have on them, but it can also be really helpful for certain people. I have severe insomnia (I used to average like 3-4 hours of sleep at night for years, despite following all of the recommendations for improving sleep quality), and the only thing that helps me sleep outside of stuff like ambien (which is MUCH worse than weed in regards to side effects) is marijuana. I went from being so sleep deprived my body was struggling to function, to the point where I dropped to 85 lbs due to my stomach refusing to function, to sleeping 8 hours a night and being able to drive, hold a steady job, take classes, and so on.
      and honestly, alcohol is a lot worse. It can actually kill you, and while smoking weed too much isn't good for you, it's nowhere near as bad as alcohol addiction. I like beer as much as the next person, but logically if we're going after addictive substances for the danger they pose to people, alcohol should be first lol

  • @sentimentalmariner590
    @sentimentalmariner590 Рік тому

    I feel bad for her, she was an idol of mine growing up, me and a few kids used to always talk about her show on the bus. She went through some rough stuff and it is sad she has not pulled herself up or had anyone help her.

  • @SoggyBagelz
    @SoggyBagelz Рік тому +7

    Lets just stop pretending like weed is harmless, it clearly contributed to all this

    • @marinazolotic4347
      @marinazolotic4347 Рік тому +1

      It becomes a problem when you become a daily user. I used to work in a head shop and a lot of the customers would become aggressive when they wouldn’t be able to access either cannabis or synthetic cannabinoids - as soon as it would have such a hold on them that they can’t relax or chill without it - I would consider it a problem. There are exceptions where some people can function normally and are even more productive on pot, and it’s certainly a better alternative to SSRI’s for people with PTSD (for example). I think that if you also have an underlying mental illness (schizophrenia or bipolar disorder), it can be very damaging. Just like alcohol, most people can drink normally, but you’ve always got the dude who needs to chase it the next day.

    • @SoggyBagelz
      @SoggyBagelz Рік тому

      such a bad faith interpretation of what I said @@filidhdeklend893

    • @CuteAnimeGirl
      @CuteAnimeGirl 29 днів тому +1

      Weed fucked up some people in my family, I don't get why people say it's an acceptable drug.

  • @yep8058
    @yep8058 Рік тому +1

    Bro for the first minutes I was like WH OMEGALUL? until I saw her at 1:18 and I remembered her from my childhood tv series I used to watch, she was great!

  • @Startrance85
    @Startrance85 Рік тому +12

    As a woman you can retire in your 20,s and become a mother, absolutley nothing wrong with that.
    Amanda Bynes is a terrible example.

    • @Ziggyvu
      @Ziggyvu Рік тому +9

      Retiring at 20 to be just a mom the rest of your life sounds boring af

    • @Dudesidabe
      @Dudesidabe Рік тому +20

      How is helping raise the next generation and taking care of a home boring? I'd love to be a stay at home dad.

    • @djbobby224
      @djbobby224 Рік тому +19

      ​@@Ziggyvuhaving kids is a full time job until they leave your house buddy

    • @Startrance85
      @Startrance85 Рік тому +5

      @@Ziggyvu my mother raised 4 kids as a stay home mom and my dad provided with 2 jobs, its fairly normal back in the day

    • @skiesthelimit80
      @skiesthelimit80 Рік тому +5

      I mean retiring that young leads to roughly 60+ years of nothing. It’s so important to keep a job to keep you active mentally and possibly physically . I see it all the time. Stay at home mothers who very late in life have regrets of not doing more in their life time, not having an occupation, etc. Also very important to ward away dementia.

  • @14zrobot
    @14zrobot Рік тому +1

    13:00 Asmon meeting average fan

  • @ErelicGaming
    @ErelicGaming Рік тому +12

    How am I this early?

  • @nikitamarynich1794
    @nikitamarynich1794 Рік тому +1

    Early retirement means you never took any liking or pride in your career or job. A person who truly loves his craft will work in some capacity ( outside of intense physical labor ) until the day he dies. Life without purpose is an empty passage of time.

    • @GiegueX
      @GiegueX Рік тому +2

      Nah, that's a dumb generalization. In Amanda's case mental illness, drug abuse and a lot of factors in the acting industry (i.e being an actor child and the abuse that comes with that) prolly influenced her to retire.

  • @dogwater-qc3ti
    @dogwater-qc3ti Рік тому +23

    thats not retirement issue, thats an iq issue

    • @timmybee3669
      @timmybee3669 Рік тому +19

      Because people with high iq’s don’t become addicts….

    • @namethefifth7315
      @namethefifth7315 Рік тому +3

      ​@@timmybee3669but they normally don't though. If your a smart person your not gonna start doing it to begin with. Not saying smart people don't become addics but they are certinly gonna be more likely if your stuipid

    • @timmybee3669
      @timmybee3669 Рік тому

      Most of the smartest people in the history of the world were addicted to something…cocaine, speed(like meth or Ritalin and adderal) and don’t get me started on alcohol, opiates, weed or hallucinogens…they all don’t end up walking the street shoeless…

    • @uhagi6720
      @uhagi6720 Рік тому

      @@namethefifth7315 The main reason why people start doing drugs are either they feel depressed and wish to experience some form of enjoyment or they are heavily pressured by individuals in their social groups to try it out. All it takes is one trip to start a craving.

  • @nobodyaskedyou4320
    @nobodyaskedyou4320 Рік тому +1

    Retirement to me means not having my life depend on my employment. I don't understand how people go nuts retiring. Do they literally think they have to do nothing or that they can only be pleasure seekers if they are retired? There are so many things I could fill my time with. I could make my life more meaningful if I didn't have to do a 9-5 every day. I really don't understand this state of mind.

  • @Sgt_SealCluber
    @Sgt_SealCluber 10 місяців тому +2

    I had a huge crush on Amanda Bynes when I was younger. It's a shame to see her like this.
    Another reason to stick to Waifu crushes lol. My first was Ariel from Little Mermaid, probably my first crush ever.

  • @Seelenverheizer
    @Seelenverheizer Рік тому +1

    the sad part is it all started with her thinking shes ugly while she was so beautiful every guy would count himself the luckiest man alive to have such a good looking GF. Really shows how ones mind can be the most horrendous prison in existance.

  • @thomaswilson8022
    @thomaswilson8022 Рік тому +2

    Always have some shit to do, retirement is fine at 24 just have a plan. Maybe stay away from hardcore drugs, and the people who want you to fuck with em

  • @Rad_Wizrrd
    @Rad_Wizrrd Рік тому

    This is why you never stop never stopping.

  • @teddys.5023
    @teddys.5023 Рік тому +2

    In high doses of Adderall it will show up as meth in a drug test for jobs which is a no-no especially if you aren't prescribed Adderall