How I Knew That My Husband Was The One
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- Опубліковано 2 лип 2017
- Wondering how you know if someone "is the one?" Remember that accepting a ring means that you're accepting that person's calling. And, that person can easily push you away from Jesus. Choose wisely.
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hope sparks Yes
Patterns
hope sparks
Amennnn
So true that's her testimony
Right
Yes, but everybody has the same Father who is just as faithful to the faithful and loves and has high plans and standards for all of His children the same.
And from an older guy I can testify the counsel that she is sharing is pure Godly gold, that will save the adherent from a house load of pain
And bestow upon them a truly blessed life
I love how she described that on her wedding day she felt SAFE marrying Cornelius. Remember men are protectors. If you don't feel safe with your "protector", that might be a red flag. You should most certainly feel safe & secure with him as your husband to be. I heard someone describe a husband as a Priest, Prophet, Pastor, Provider & Protector all in one. So many women have dealt with insecurity & fear in relationships with men. You are God's precious daughter. The man for you will KNOW that. You will feel safe knowing you are in good hands! He will honor & respect you, and treat you as if your value is far above rubies. Ask yourself does he make me feel like my worth is far above rubies?? Or do I feel like a rhinestone? Ultimately, the Holy Ghost will confirm & affirm to you that you ARE in good hands. Lord, let every single on here be assured that they can trust their future husband and be safe & protected as you would have them to be, in Jesus' name ❤❤❤
Crystal Marie Amen!
Crystal Marie BOOM! Absolute truth.
Crystal Marie Amina!
Crystal Marie AMEN SIS!!
Crystal Marie Girl, You went to Church!!!! You told the TRUTH!!!! You said it ALL!!!
I got into a relationship with a guy I believed had everything I wanted. A car, nice career, loved his Mother, and so on. I didn't really pay much attention to nothing else and God told me to break up with him in my sleep. I did, but a hour later I got back with him because I was stupid lol. 2 years later he told me he never loved me. Listen to God Ladies. Proverbs 1:33!
Paris Woods wow!
Whoa..
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How did God tell you to leave him? I am hoping for your reply.:)
God bless you sis, Amen🙏🏽💗 God cares for you deeply💗
She said tired of being in relationships that push her away from God....Same here.
1. Felt safe and protected (precious and respected)
2. Checked out his fruits and patterns
3. Got attracted to him
4. Our purposes aligned
I ran ahead of the Lord and ended up with an adulterous, abusive child with bad fruit and no purpose. Please listen to the Lord ladies. It really isn't worth it to run ahead on your feelings.
Yeah, I learned the hard way this past Thursday. I am done with relationships.
This one is drug free but has narcissistic personality disorder. It's sad because his family is such wonderful, Godly people and he's so different.
Judah descendant do you have a support system outside of your in laws?
Thank you!!
Hey beautiful, I can't even begin to imagine what you're going through at the moment but as I read through your comment I remembered the demon possessed man who was chained in the graveyard and no one wanted to associate with him. Until Jesus came along and out of His compassion He healed him. Now, I know it's not that easy or at least it's hard to imagine so but God may still use you in this situation to pray for him and his family. Definitely mind your own safety but do not be discouraged for God is still with you. Praying for you. Read Isaiah 41:10.
"Why he need a helper if he ain't doin' nothin'". You better preach Heather!
AMEN!
I don't believe God will force us to marry someone we're not attracted to. I do however believe He creates someone for us. I also had someone tell me to just be glad if a guy is a Christian. Um no, we need more in common than just Jesus.
I agree with you
Crystal G that's where the friend zone comes in your a nice guy with a good heart an caring loving but I see you as a brother you don't look like a 10 GQ hottie
Crystal G amen! 👏👏
LOL! I definitely agree! My friend and I always discuss this. That mind set of "he just needs to be a Christian is just religious. God definitely wants us to be wise and recognise that there is much more to look out for. This is why its only the Holy Spirit that can lead us and not man. Many will try and speak, but God has the final say.
Yep! It's mostly about about mutual attraction, chemistry, common interest, and your most deepest values.
Women who don't wait on God, are just signing up for A lifetime of humiliation.
Torey Burse very true
Exactly right
Lived it
I absolutely agree
Yes true, I made this mistake and I am repenting now. Now, I pray God will save my husband because we are too deep into it with two kids.
I believe God does have that one spouse for us. We have options to choose someone else.. but if we spend time with God he will reveal the one he chose. Marriage is a ministry and God brings us together for that purpose. I think about how God put together Esther and the king it was divine for a great purpose. When a woman know's who she is called to be in God's Kingdom she'll have the discernment to know wether or not hes the one. We have free will to choose our jobs, school, friends, kill, steal, cheat, lie, choose our own spouse... but if we have a solid relationship with God we will choose what he destine for us. So many people are unhappy and going through it because they're living out of God's will. Ladies just keep serving God if you're lined up in his will you will not miss the one God chose for YOU!
Ashlee A i agree 100%
Amen!
Yes we have free will to accept or reject God's will. I agree that we as singles must have a growing relationship with God. We have to give ourselves to God first not just be at the church building on Sunday only. He wants more He wants us. Use our talents or simply ourselves for Him out here to a messed up world. We must delevop those spiritual characteristics or that man or woman is not coming for a marriage.
This is hands down the greatest thing I have ever read.
Exactly Ashlee. As God chose Rebekah for Isaac...and several other "at the well" meetings that were covenant/marriage ordained meetings. We can choose to "choose our own" or we can choose to OBEY embracing the Father's choice for us. Marriage involves bringing children into the world and the Father is very specific and concerned about who you have those children with which factors in the PURPOSE of those children born into that union which the Father is VERY concerned about (i.e generational curses and blessings; and birthing Ishmaels or Isaacs). Marriage is NOTHING to take lightly. It is not just a free-will choice to "make-do" with. The very hairs on our heads our numbered, how much more does our Father care about who we COVENANT with?! Wait for the Spirit to lead you to the well (as he did Moses to find Zipporah, Israel to find Rachel, Saul to find Samuel and covenant him to be the first King/Husband to Israel, and as Jesus did the woman at the well...meeting her was Him personally opening His marriage covenant to the Gentiles. Marriage is the entire theme of the Bible--it begins with marriage in the garden, continues with the record of all of the (chosen) marriages that brought forth the Messiah, and culminates with Jesus' birth between two special people (chosen to be) espoused, and then ends in Revelation with the ULTIMATE marriage ceremony--Jesus to His Bride!!!. The first miracle Jesus fulfilled was at a wedding!! Oh yeah, it matters. Til' DEATH.
So, you can choose your own. Or you can choose to wait on the Father and choose to embrace His choice for you. Please read, "God is a Matchmaker" (available for free online in PDF form) by Derek Prince or look up his video of the same title here on UA-cam. God Bless!
Amen sis! I was scheduled to get married July 22! But Jesus saved me from that relationship even when I didn't understand at the moment. We split up about 5 months ago physically, but mentally I knew that relationship was over way before I had the courage and obedience to acknowledge it! I am forever grateful my God saved me once again! Now I am currently staying hidden in God until he picks my husband, and not my flesh! A ring does not make it better! Do not be unequally yoked with un-believers please ladies wait on the lord and stay hidden! Thanks sis for this wonderful video! ❤️
Amen Erika, you are strong!
Erika tolbert I was supposed to get married on June 3rd this year..I agree with you! God is good..it gets hard sometimes but his will is perfect!
Vivi33 Thank you! It took me a while but by his grace I'm pressing forward!
Cococure Amen sis! Stay encouraged I know our God has already worked it out for us and moving on our behalf. You're right it does get hard but we'll be fine as long as we keep our eyes and hearts postured towards him!
I got engaged this year... and God closed, rather slammed, that door lol I was not able to do it myself, even when things were not lining up. My spirit was in turmoil and my peace was pieces! But Got stepped and he ended it. It wss devastating but only a month later I can already see THAT was not God's best. I'm older and have societal pressure to rush marriage, but I rather let the holy spirit lead me and not fear or impatience. Let's stay encouraged y'all! And God's arms there when it gets tough.
"I mean I don't know, you know what I'm sayin. Ima be like a rapper" I'm DEAD!!!😂😂😂😂 Oh Lord! thank You Jesus for this word🙌 man, I'm glad I'm single and content and I'm not waiting for my husband, I'm living my life trying to acomplish my God given purpose. God will send the husband whenever He wants but I can't be stagnant talking about "I'm waiting for my husband" I got things to do for Jesus even while I'm single.
I know that's right!
Amen!
This!!!!👌👏👏
It's sooooo important to listen to God. I ran definitely ran ahead of God when it comes to my now husband. God told me to wait and I didn't. I felt like I was able to change my now husband and that I could do a better job. Gosh, I was so foolish. Now granted God was able to restore my marriage. However it took a lot of praying, fasting, crying, and submission. I was an emotional wreck and control freak. God had to do a lot of work in me and my husband. I am so thankful that he saved my marriage because I love my husband so much and we have 3 beautiful children together. However though, I now teach our 14 year old daughter who will be entering high school this fall, about the cost of disobedience. It so important not to be yoked with unbelievers!! When God says no it's for a reason. Sometimes we are so distracted by the fantasy of getting married, that we can't see what God is trying to save us from. We can't change anyone!! That is Gods job. Even then that person must have a willing and accepting heart. I now get the opportunity to minister to my daughter, so she doesn't make the same mistakes I did 😊😊 Quick question..... Heather is there a pinky promise for teenagers and 7/8 year old? Thanks 😊
I need to keep praying
When she gets really passionate about her message, that ratchetry tries to creep out lol . It's so funny , I love her. "The week after you gone be a lawyer too ? Where we going ??"
I see what you're saying...lol
ModesTy lol!
I have been told by so many people that the man I am praying for DOES NOT exist. I have been told that "no man will not touch you or kiss you or love God as much as you do". At 41 I can tell you that you have to know that you know that God is Who He says He is and will do what He says He will do. I believe God more than I believe people on this. God is a great God and so capable. I am waiting patiently (most days) on the Lord and praying for my husband. But some days I am simply living my life and taking care of my children and focusing on the plan of God for my life. No matter what anyone says. Thank you for your diligence to encourage all of us to keep on keeping on. Blessings to your family.
1mom2girls2boys8inall God will give you your testimony
1mom2girls2boys8inall Yo! What kind of people are you around?
Sarah Jacobs they are supposed to be saved. I believe they are BUT our belief systems are not the same. I'm one to believe God.
1mom2girls2boys8inall I have a question for u. Have u turnes down men who have not fit what ypur hearu desires or has the man u desire just not arrive in your life yet?
Nick Lee the man I’ve prayed for has honestly not shown up yet. It’s like the Lord has a covering on me that He has yet to remove so I can be seen. If that makes any sense. While I wait I work for the Lord.
This really helped me not even necessarily for relationship but for myself... what are my patterns?what fruit am I bearing? This was awesome!
I like that🙌 turn it back on me! #noted
Oh man me too! I want to work on myself first and foremost!!
Confirmation!!! This is where I'm at...happily waiting on God for my hubby😇🙏🏽🙌🏾! I am sure of who I am in him and what I want.
this couldn't have come at a better time
Peace Lillian I know right lol
I finally have met someone that has all the things you are describing that you noticed in your husband. ( :
"God has you hidden"
I needed to HEAR THAT!!! amen. and thank you.
Thank you Heather. This video is an answered prayer. I was praying and asking God how i will know God's right man for me. I was in the middle of a confusion. I asked God to speak to me and to my suprise, i got a notification about this video. Wow. Praise God! I needed this video ❤
"I felt precious, so protected and so loved." THIS is what God wants us to feel! That's great! I loved that part & that it's not going to be handed to us on what my grandma says "flower beds of ease!" (Country I know lol)
Encouraging! Thanks for the vid
I have never felt precious protected and so loved by a guy...they have always led me on and played games, chosen other girls, etc.
Patterns, fruits, consistency
I actually have no idea who God has for me but I trust him because I'm imperfect and make mistakes and God knows what is best for me
There is a book "Holding Hands Holding Hearts" by Richard D. Phillips and Sharon L Phillips that I would definitely recommend reading ladies.....
"If a christian woman does not respect a man and if she cannot detect signs of sincere spiritual growth, she is a fool to place her heart into his hands"
You did the right thing. When men are looking for a serious relationship, they observe us. We need to be led by GOD in everything and stop making rash decisions. Yes, ye shall know them by the fruit!
This entire video is yet another confirmation. Thank you for this sis.
Man EVERYTIME you mention the one there is this mans face in my head and I keep saying no he's not and something says yes he is. Maybe it's just me, but I'm gonna pray on it. Thank you.
Can you do a video on raising Godly Children?
Sure!
IAmEssence Would love to see this.
Heather Lindsey yes please woman of God make a video on raising Godly children! Thank you & God bless 💖
chug 🌐🌐🌐🏛🌏🍐
You are so beautiful heather...
The glory of God tops her physical beauty. Double portion beauty
This is confirmation for me and it got me all the way together I feel like sometimes as being a young adult and striving for god like I do in my generation I feel like it's impossible to get married that everyone I meet looks down on me in a way cause my standards and how I go so hard for god but your right god will do things that our eyes hasn't seen and our ears haven't heard I'm going to continue to rest on his promise and work on me so when he's ready to bless me I'll be ready
This is sooooo good! Thank you Heather for sharing this with us!
I've said this a thousand times but I really do love you Sis. Heather you are such a light to our dark generation. No one is perfect but you take your charge seriously and are inspiring us to uphold a standard. Thanks!!. I will continue to pray for you and your family. May God continue to bless you in all you do.
You're so sweet. God bless you sis! Thanks for your encouraging words!
Hi Heather, I love your channel. Waiting to meet my husband has not been an easy journey but it is worth it. I have grown and learned so much about God and the love He has for me. I really do believe that God has created one person for me. I know God has set a path for my life and part of that amazing journey is meeting the person God made for me. The bible lets us know we are predestined before the beginning of time. God does give us free will and that includes saying yes to the good gifts that He has for us. I am thankful for your ministry and how you help so many woman stay true to their call by God.
This is such a great video Heather! Thank you for this.
Thank you Heather, I needed to here this! 🌺
Perfect timing. Thanks for sharing Heather
When I met my husband, I heard the words in my mind “this is my husband.” So I know exactly what you mean Heather ❤️❤️❤️
right on time!! I needed that
You look gorgeous 😍
The "looking at patterns" part is soooo true. Good stuff!
Wow this was so good. Received so much wisdom from this. Thank you Heather!
Sending you so much love from Houston!! Thank you for being such a blessing for women worldwide! 💘
everything you are saying i am a living witness! the holy spirit will lead you if you listen to HIM 😊😊😊thanks Heather!
Marjorie Canty how long have you been married if you don’t mind me asking? Just curious bc I’ve been thinking about marriage a lot
I am so blessed.
Thank you for taking your time and share this with us.
God bless you!
This video is so encouraging! I hope I feel like that on my wedding day! 😊💕
Jasmyne Tiara Beauty me too 😊
Jasmyne Tiara Beauty it was very VERY encouraging ❤️
Can you do more videos about being a single and succesful woman instead of relationship ones? i know this is a popular topic among christian women but can you do more about the single life, pursuing your passions and just simply enjoying it all while it last! 💕☺
i agree w/ you 100%, although I am married, i like to encourage the single ladies because it's difficult for them and they need to be taken care of. Alot of the time we love to see the outside appearance of marriage and solely focused on people in a union neglecting the singles. So this is very important.
Hey love! Have you read my book, The Purpose Room? I have an entire book on it! :)
But SURE! I can def do more! ;)
Heartwerk Women's Ministry im already subscribed to her, but i didn't know she had a series thanks for the suggestion!
Heather Lindsey
Thanks for replying Heather! I wasn't aware you had one. ill be sure to check it out! ❤
Thank you,sister. You guys stay abundantly blessed.
This message was so necessary for me. Thank you so much for your words of wisdom.
You are always on point 🙌🏽
Always Accurate with what's going on 😩
Thank you sis. So needed this❤️❤️❤️
thanks for sharing Mrs. Heather Lindsey. Such an encouraging, positive video.
All things are possible❤
Sister girl, thank you so much! This video gave me peace. Thank you!
Thank You for this message! Just the confirmation I needed.
This post has been a HUGE blessing and I think this post was made specifically for me!
I love you, sis!! Thank you for your honesty and encouragement!! This was a blessing. God bless yall both
I love this message. Thank you for letting God use you!!!!
This message is Life! I thank God for you and your ministry!
this truly bless me..Thanks Heather😊
this is literally what I had to hear TODAY! wow thank you God and thank you Lindsey!
I really needed to hear this...thanks Heather for sharing this!!!
Such a beautiful story❤️
Thank you for sharing this Heather😍
You are amazing! Keep doing what you're doing !! Thank God for people like you
Thank you for these words of encouragement lindsey.
This is perfect timing. True confirmation. God bless you!
I love you Heath❤Thank you so very much. I needed to hear that.
You are such a blessing heather may the lord continue to use you and no evil come on you or your families dwelling. Amen. Thank you
I love how Heather keep it real and holy!
So needed this! Thank you for being obedient! You are absolutely stunning and so is your relationship with your husband❤️
Yes! This blessed my soul. I’ve recently come to the fact that I don’t NEED anything or anyone but the Lord and he’ll provide different things to me that align with my purpose after I commit to his way.
I listen to this every morning to keep me motivated and focused on me💪
Heather you are talking to me on today! 🙌🏽✨
Amen Heather! I felt the Holy Spirit when you said that your now husband at the time of courting and engagement was a mirror and showing you your heart etc! I'm single BUT I'm talking to someone and he is currently showing me my heart! And I do know that he is my husband! God has shown me. But the enemy has been trying hardest the past 9 months to make us go different ways! But because of God we are yet holding on. He has shown me SO much about myself vice versa and he has Pressed me to grow spiritually to the point I'm amazed! We challenge each other Spiritually and it's awesome! I love it! We didn't start off correctly BUT God dealt with the both of us and we have stop doing ALOT of things! Sex,kissing, cuddling, etc! And yes it has been hard but at the same time it's so refreshing! I thank God so much for what He is doing in our lives! Thank you for sharing this! I love you my sister in Christ! You're AMAZING!!😘
Heather, you are so grounded and truly a light for us all. You inspire me personally, and I thank God for that.
great word, you’re such a blessing!
Amén Sister! I love every single word! God bless you and your family 🙌🏻❤️
I'm being so blessed by your ministry and you've stepped into my life at the right time. God bless you and your household continuously x
Thank you Heather, so good 😊
Thank you so much for sharing this. You are beautiful and just glowing in this video.
God is faithful.
God bless you, your husband and your children, and your ministry.❤️🙌🏽
This right here is straight fire, spoke to me in and through ALL of this, thank you Heather for sharing 😊
thank you so much Heather :) you are such a blessing, this is so encouraging to me
just what I needed! I pray to have that kind of relationship as well. 🙏💞
Thank you so much for pour this message into my singleness journey!
Thank you sister. I needed to hear this, and the way God presented this message through you is without flaw. I know this is going to be difficult for me but God is so worth it.
The best video on this topic that I have seen so far!
Very Beautiful Enlightening Testimony.Happy Holidays.
"Why he need a helper if he not doing nothing" lol!!! God bless you and your word! Bringing up great points!
This video helped my heart rest ❤️
Wow! Great testimony Heather! Am always encouraged by you and Cornelius z story
God is good! Another video I needed to hear! Awesome!
Heather, this message is GOLD. Thank you so much for following the call of our King and delivering this powerful and magical message to all of us. A gazillion blessings to you 💜
This video blessed me!!!
It was exactly the word of God I needed. Thank you so much!!!!!
Amen!! God spoke through you because I've been feeling this way. I realize you have to know your purpose to understand whose purposed to help you on the journey. Thanks sis
This truly blessed me, I really feel like you are a digital big sister speaking with so much love and honesty! God bless you sis
I came to UA-cam this morning to find a video on how to know if a man is the one God has sent me; and here's Heather with this video right at the top of my feed! Awesome. Thank you Heather, this was helpful and encouraging. I've met a decent number of counterfeit men and I want to finally really know a genuine, Godly man when he arrives. I'm done with the foolishness and ready to be with the man God has for me. But I have to know and discern him by his fruit. Thank you.
Thank you for sharing
Practical Spiritual Lessons on Relationships
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I love hearing about the special feelings on the wedding day. The excitement and the feeling of being safe.
I'm touched heather with your presentation .
This is soooo good. God bless you Sister . 🙏😇