LIFE UPDATE Q&A! DIVORCE? DATING?
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
- Today's video is a life update Q & A!
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You’re so right, once a woman hits that point of being truly done. That’s it. My divorce is being finalized on the 24th. We have been separated for 2 years now. It absolutely is for the best. As soon as I left my ex, he got to go live the toxic life he wanted and now he’s spending 7 years in prison away from our 4 kids. My heart breaks for them. You got this Madison!
I’m so sorry about the kids now missing him but you had to do what was best and as they get older they will understand!!! You’re amazing!
Oh I’m so sorry 😢 for your children sweetheart. You obviously made the best decision for those babies of yours in the end. I wish someone like you could talk to my daughter, she’s in a toxic relationship and she’s really trying to work things out. She’s not married yet , but she 22 and has an almost 2 yr old and one on the way any day now. I know it’s hard so hard but she’d be way better off without him. I It’s heartbreaking to watch her go through this 💔 I just wish she knew her worth!
You were in an abusive marriage. Abuse isn’t always physical. The playing with emotions, manipulation, lack of respect. That is all forms of abuse. I am so proud of you for standing up and leaving.
I was with a narcissist for years. They can really mess us up and not think twice about it. The good news is my husband now is an incredible man who was so patient with me and worked on my issues with me. Things can only go up from here!
And when that one particular woman says that she's had enough and stands up all us women are behind her clapping cheering her on half of us wishing we could do the same that we were just as brave as you you're amazing
You are right it’s taking me a long time to b able to do it.
There’s a double standard for moms, we’re expected to work as if we don’t have children and care for our children as if we don’t have full time jobs. Stay strong, you seem more at peace now. At the end of the day you got was most important and precious your beautiful girls 💜 April is Autism awareness month 🧩
Sending love from Texas
That is so true! We have so much pressure on us as moms. Why can’t men be held to the same standard!?
@Joan Burke why did you mention April as Autism Awareness month is Madison’s kid autistic?
@@sarahdavis85 Wondered the same. My son is autistic, that's why I wondered why she mentioned it.
I mentioned it because my daughter is autistic ( has autism ) some people prefer it being said like this
After finding my 1st husband in our bed with my best friend, I never thought I could love and trust a man again. I'm now coming up 23 years with my 2nd husband. Have fun being single, and if the right person comes along, you'll know and be able to give your heart fully x
My parents got divorced when I was 2, they stayed civil and coparented very well. It was such a blessing. I never knew a difference and it worked out very well. Stay strong and civil, it’s hard but it was nice for me growing up.
aww that makes me so happy to hear! 💕
I think your parents had you to save there marriage. Sadly having kids dont save a broken marriage
I’ve been divorced for 2 years. It finally gets to the point when you have to choose yourself. It took me 6 years of forgiving before I got there. Being a single parent was hard at first but then I realized if been a single parent from the start. I’ve never had help. I’m happy now and love being single. We all are strong women!
Madison I like this version of you. You’re wiser and strong and you’re taking less shit from ppl and that’s refreshing. For a long time I’ve seen you as rainbows and perfection but it’s nice to see you show that you’re a real person, perfection doesn’t exist and you can grow to become a stronger you.
Also he kind of seemed like he didn’t want you to shine shine. It seemed like you dulled yourself so he could be secure. Never dull yourself.
@Far7rom why are you here? Imagine starting the new year so miserable. Lol. It must suck to suck.
@Far7rom You're probably the ex being a creep. Imagine stalking someone's video from months ago, just to reply with negativity and fake flex. Lol. Couldn't be me? Also how's the racing career going? I'll wait...
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 proud of you Madison! Being 8 years out from where you are now I can tell you life gets so much better. Take time to find yourself again and if you decide to get married again you will go into it so differently. Ted and I are about to celebrate our 5 year wedding anniversary and god has redeemed marriage and everything that was tainted from my first marriage. Praying for your heart! You got this girl!
aww thank you Kassie! You give me hope 💕
I am very familiar with the feeling of being done.... I can’t believe you have to give him 1/2 everything you’ve built!!! Especially if he betrayed you!!! Your resilience is admirable xoxo
I’ve been divorced for almost six years and it still is hard. I have two daughters. being a single parent is one of the hardest things I have ever done.
You are so brave telling your story. I had a similar situation where I finally decided I should not be treated as I was. After marriage counseling failed, I filed for divorce. It was not easy with small children, but my family was there for me.
So much of this video resinated with me. While I’m not going through a divorce I am getting out of a 8 year relationship. Realizing how much you are worth and what you deserve in a relationship has been a hard but incredible journey to be on.
Kids are so resilient, aren’t they?? You are a strong mama! You are rockin’ it! 😊
If I can be honest - I don't think we saw the real Madison but we are now and I love the person you are. You are a strong woman and you got this girl. There will always be ups and downs in life but I hope the downs are done for you and I am loving this new chapter for you.
I went through the same thing for 14 years. Was put out of our house nowhere to go. A week later someone was moved in. Depression is a understatement of how I felt. I just felt so betrayed. My kids are always saying how they wish we could just be a family again and that breaks my heart 😭
GIRL! You and Samantha March have really helped me thru my huge breakup and the thought of you two hanging out sounds AMAZING!!
I'm glad to see that you are doing better emotionally. I was worried for a moment there. You got this girl. Super mama here! God made us women strong!
In 2017 I got divorced after a 10 year marriage and I had 3 kids. We got married at 22 years old and I think we just didn’t know enough of who we were. It was so hard at first but it definitely got better with time. I am now engaged to a wonderful man who is so patient and respectful to me and my kids. We’ve been together for three years and have taken things slow. I truly have become a stronger better version of myself having gone through all of it.
I’ve been a follower/proud supporter since you were pregnant with Ry and I have to say, I can see you now! You seem so free and I’m so happy to see that! Sending lots of love to you and the girls. Cheers to the next chapter! ❤️
I know it’s not comparable but my dad died on stage four terminal cancer on nye. Listening to you be truly, authentically positive is motivational for me and what I’m going through, even though it’s not at all the same situation. I hope that makes sense.
Congratulations for getting out that toxic marriage. You’re a winner 💕💕💕
I’m going through a separation in my marriage too same rollercoaster of good and bad days. I tried to hold on too :/ your words resonated with me. I lost 50 pounds from depression, stress and anxiety. We haven’t gone through divorce yet but I hope I can have half your strength because it’s so so difficult, I feel you so so much.
I haven’t watched you in YEARS but you just came up on my page again and I’m so glad you did. You are so strong momma!!!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@acedudeism well, it is her own video so yes
I am also divorced I raised 2 daughters with him and should have left him before they say every seven years you have a moment of clarity and you either act on it or not ! Your moment of clarity came early in the children’s life. I’m happy for you !
Hey Maddie, been watching you for years now. I’m old enough to be your mother. I too went through what you’re going through. After 20 years of being disrespected and low-key abused, I finally gave up and have been divorced for 6 years now. I PROMISE things are going to better in time! I’m happy you’re finally seeing the light and your happiness is returning. During this time you’re going to get to know yourself so much better and make better choices in life & future relationships. Put yourself and your babies 1st, everything else will come in due time. We love you!
That hit me hard when you said Ry says Daddy are you going home 😔 I do feel like you made the best decision possible! Like Albert Einstein said “Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results”. Glad you made the decision to get out!
Ya it was heartbreaking…thank you 💕
I can not begin to express you how touched up I felt by this! Once women realize what is best for them and set boundaries I believe that we are unstopable❤❤
So true!
Divorce is far better than living in a painful relationship. I send you strength on your new journey. You're strong af. Madison 🙏
I broke up with my ex last year after 3 years of "not wanting to give up", but after a year, he still lives in my home, he has a new GF... And he's Now Finally moving out. 🙌😩
Kinda was on a small hiatus, but love to see you still doing your videos.
My parents divorced when I was a year old or so. I feel Completely blessed, like you said, having not seen much of the fighting. They will adjust just fine, especially since Ry knew what was up already
I can totally relate and you are absolutely right! something happens in a matter of seconds when you just suddenly feel this light and your thoughts just become so clear and that’s it ….. it’s over
I've been divorced for 23 yrs now...lol It gets better with time. People show you who they are....believe them the first time. Wishing you all the happiness in the world for you and your girls xoxoxo
Madison, you are so gorgeous. You seem like such an amazing person. An amazing mother. Listen when they say " when it rain it pours", but what comes after the rain? Sunshine does. Things will always get better. You keep doing what youre doing. Theres nothing better than being happy. 😘
You’re so strong mama. I feel like you opening up and talking about this will truly help a lot of women going through the exact same thing. I know it helped me tremendously. The best is yet to come 💕
I have been through a divorce with 3 kids I totally get where your mind set is. When you realize you deserve better that's when thing's start to change for you personally. I went through hell with my first marriage...I still go through some stuff every now and again with my ex bc of my children. I'm so HAPPY you are doing you AGAIN...SO HAPPY YOU REALIZED YOU DESERVE BETTER!
@Far7rom ya I stayed to long while getting beat and mentally abused that's what I did wrong in my marriage
@Far7rom not all men are bad
@Far7rom probably a lot but I can say I wasn't I'm not sure if you are going to believe me and that's ok if not but I was 18 and was in my relationship for yrs and at my own stupidity I thought getting married would help/fix him which alot of abused women think. I was just young and nieve
So glad to hear you’re doing well Madison. I’m the same age as you and have 2 small boys so I can understand what you must be going through. Stay strong and can’t wait to see what the future holds for you and your girls ❤️
I have to say you seem happy. I watched you before you had Ry & could see you looked troubled & now you just seem happy & very confident. It's a blessing your girls are young that will make the situation better for all of you in the end. Best of luck 💜🥰🌻🦋
As hard as it is it’s a good thing you were able to recognize and acknowledge the toxicity within your guys relationship to get yourself out of it. Just hearing you talk about your experience I can tell you really are better off now. He obviously put you through hell if he was never around especially with two babies!! It really sucks that you had to go through that. You seem very resilient and I hope you find peace and balance through it all. 💕
Good to see that authentic smile again! You have handled everything with so much grace and it’s nice to see you in a better place. Your feeling great now, just Imagine 1 year from now how amazing everything for you will be! Stay strong mama!
you’re so strong Madison! Im sending you and your girls love, happiness and many blessings! you’re going to have a blast with your bestie in LV! girls trips are definitely needed! & if you happen to be with Samantha March, I feel like you’re going to have the best of times! all the best girlfriend! 💖
So glad you’re out of that dark place and you do deserve happiness. Wish you the best for you and your girls.
Madison I'm so proud of you that you were able to be brave enough to talk about the divorce. It is so hard to be divorced but you will be stronger because of your kids. I can see a big difference in this video than any other video because you were smiling a lot more and I could see that you were happier and being able to talk about everything is just wonderful. You have so many people here that are supporting you. Keep your head up and keep smiling and you will get through this. I love watching you so much and I can't wait to see more videos from you. Love you Madison. :-)
When you posted a vlog a while back and you went to laguna Seca and you had mentioned that your ex husband wasn't introducing you and was just ignoring you and at one point you were just at your hotel venting, I knew he wasn't right for you just from you saying what you said. But now you do seem happier and I'm happy for you. The hard part is leaving and once you do it, it's the best feeling. You are right. It takes two people to fix a relationship. My ex didn't try his hardest and we have a kid. Long story short I ended up leaving because he had kicked me out and our son like he always did when we fought and it was a mean move on him but I never went back after that like I always did. I knew my son and I deserved better. Now I'm in a new relationship going on five years and he treats us so good and we have a daughter. But like gets better. 💕💕💕
wow i completely forgot about that trip! That was in 2017 I think. That was a really hard year for me. I'm so sorry you went through that! Happy to hear you found love and an amazing new man💕
You are amazing! So proud of you for getting through all of this with so much grace. I know you've probably heard this a ton, but I think many of us that have followed you for some time could see you deserved so much better than him! I know the best is yet to come for you, love you girl❤️
You expressed my past in a way I couldn't do myself. It's scary how similar our divorce process was like. I'm over a decade over where you are and I can say with that 100% certainty that it gets better, easier and normal as time goes on.
You can be shocked over what you can survive. Sometimes there is strength within you never knew possible. Have to say I had the most amazing husband I could ask for but we went from 2 kids to 7 kids in a year. We had #3, and immediately conceived again...surprise...twin boys, and when having them took in 2 girls, fostering. Wouldn't have chosen that timing but situation arose, and we had to step up. Then my husband died in an accident, and 4 weeks later my mother was diagnosed with terminal lung & brain cancer, dying shortly after. Can't say there is happiness after, but when the world falls apart at once, it's shocking what moms can survive to get their kids through it all when we have to.
I was a single mom of 4 at 36 when I was done. I warned him too. I said when I’m done I will be done. I dated but swore that my 2 girls would be out of the house before I married again. I wanted them to be comfortable watching tv or running to the bathroom without worrying about a man that wasn’t their father in the house. I dated my hubby 9 years before we got married. My kids love him because he loves me so much. You will make it, you are strong. I made a list of what I wanted and needed in a man and prayed about it. The first was a Christian not controlling, down to a goatee. I know weird. Lol. He came along WITH a goatee. We’ve been together since 2004. God bless you and your girls ❤️❤️
I admire you for being still so composed and strong esp during those times of chaos. You are indeed a wonderful person.
You’re such an amazing person and I wish you and the girls the best. You deserve to be happy and treated with respect and love. 💕
You’re amazing for sharing with total strangers. Keep being strong. Don’t look back; you’re not going that way!
You are so strong, mama! You've got this! I hope you have an amazing time in Vegas💕
thank you 💕
you're an amazing woman and everything you do deserves to be appreciated
That moment when you know you are done it’s like lightning strikes and it’s over for good. Had this moment after 7 years and It just clicked one day and I’ve never been happier ever since. Choose you always. ❤️✨
You mentioned you saw this as a failure but instead of looking at it in that negative light, try to think of it this way: we learn more from our failures than our successes! Failures are what make us learn and grow! xo
Becayse I learned a long time ago baby girl that we can’t control grown folks….Just ourselves! You got this mama
What do you mean you shoulder the financial responsibility!? Wtf is Joel doing???? He has the $$ so I hope he's doing what he has to do as a father! His loss, such a beautiful woman and cute kids, how can anyone turn their back on that, hope he lives to regret it🤷 Supporting you always Madison!!! You are already blessed with having the means to raise your children but more than anything that you have your family nearby!❤️
Love you so much Maddy. You’re right. You don’t deserve that. Your girls have the best role model in you💕💕💕
I'm so proud of you Madison for taking that difficult step for you and your girls. There is only good things heading your way. I am praying for you and your family. You are STRONG and you GOT THIS!
@min21:00 : my stomach actually dropped when you described Riley's reaction. I'm so glad you've made such a beautiful supportive home for her. Good job keeping her lil heart safe. Don't ever look back
Maddy you are incredible. You have grown so much. Your girls are so blessed to have you. You are in my prayers.
My heart aches for you. I’m glad you put you and your babies first finally ❤️. I’d rather be a single mom, then have a man in my house and still being a single mom. Just because he’s home, y’all are married and ect. You still did everything on your own because you are the mom 💜
So proud of you! You’re right. Once you are at that breaking point, you’re done! Unfortunately, it doesn’t take away the pain but you will get there. I pray for peace and happiness for you and your girls!
God bless you, protect you, and give you strength. I went through the same last year and everything was final in July. Now it’s just me and my 3 year old son and I’m at peace as well knowing I did everything I could and my life is better.
Ur doing an amazing job raising those 2 little girls. Keep doing what ur doing. He will look back one day and say say "damn"
The right one will come around. Wishing u nothing but the best. ❤️
I completely understand everything you said, I have been separated for 4 years. I was with him for 16years, I have had a really hard childhood and a really hard beginning of my adult life, I lost a lot in my life, My sister introduced me to my husband and although I didn't ever want to get married he made me feel like this was gonna be a life long marriage. He was and still is my heart ❤. He one day out of the blue left me a note on our dinning room table saying he couldn't do us anymore, a few days later I found out I had cancer and so I told him and he didn't even care, I found out he was cheating on me, My heart was so broken but yet I wanted and was willing to forgive him, I was willing to forgive him because of everything I have been thru with him and without him. He sent me divorce papers that took 2 years for me to even sign and I would of never signed them if he didn't trick me." Long story" My marriage is everything to me, I believe in us. Well he never sent in the papers and now it's been 4 years. Like idk how to move on, My head says stay by his side but idk like I don't even know how to date or even talk to someone else.. It was really good for me to hear your story. Bless everything about you and your family. I hope to God one day I will have the courage to give up.. Sorry this is so long and all over the place. My head is all over the place.. Take care. I've been with you since you started your channel. Stay blessed 🙌 😇 🙏
I understand. I’m also stuck. But in my head and my heart is over. I realize that the best prediction of the future behavior is the past behavior.
All the hugs Madison! I'm so glad to see you doing better! It's difficult moving away from what you thought would be your future and taking those steps towards a new one is hard. I find the more time goes on and the more I work on myself and what I really want, the more I find my future turning brighter. You will too! You'll take a deep breath and find yourself lighter. Tons of hugs girl, you got this! 💖
Thank you so much for being so vulnerable. I specifically appreciate you sharing how you knew it was time to end things, because I feel like you never REALLY know, so your insight was very helpful. 💙
So glad your doing ok! It’s very hard being in a toxic marriage and even harder separating! I work at Disney I’m on medical leave but maybe see you there sometime!
aww hope i run into you at disney one of these days!
That is so hard, I can definitely relate to the feeling of finally just being done. The feeling of relief that comes with the peace that come from having made the decision to get a divorce and move forward with your life in so amazing! You have plenty of time to heal, and that is amazing that you are enjoying all the time you can with your girls! Good luck with the next stage of your life!
I've gotta say this is my favorite video you've posted to date. I love makeup and unboxing videos but this was a very inspiring video. I'm going through something similar. It really feels liberating when you realize your worth and you stand up for yourself. Thank you for posting this. 🥰
Thanks for sharing your tough questions with us. And agree relationships are a 2 way street. I also had recently ended things from my now ex. Cause I found he was cheating and lying. I walked away and chose myself. So I definitely know how hard it is to come back after betrayal. You keep staying strong girl you got this. Glad to hear your happy and in a better place now. Love your videos.
Im so sorry you had to go through that Darcy. Hope you are doing well! Thank you for your support 💕
@@MadisonMillers Aww thank you Madison ❤. I am doing a lot better thanks. Still have sad moments from time to time. However still pushing forward. And your very welcome 😊
You’re so strong, Madison, and your girls will learn what a strong woman looks like instead of how not to treat a woman. ❤️
Your killing it mama . So proud of you and standing up for yourself. Enjoy life and take your time
You deserve so much better. Madison, you will find true love and you will be treated like the queen you are 💕
You look beautiful girl!! Stay strong, you deserve the very best!
Such a strong woman and mom! Setting such an amazing example for your girls. Wishing y’all the very best!
I’m so proud of you and you look amazing. Good things are going to happen. I’m sure of it. 😀
I have to say I see the spark back in your face when you are talking about the future. I love seeing you happy. I wish the best for you.
You’re a badass. Thank you for putting this out there, you never know who needed to hear this……. You’re inspiring
Hello Madison! I'm so proud of you & I really appreciate how honest you were in this video!!! You're so strong & resilient your 2 girls are very lucky to have such an amazing mom as you! Love ya :)
My daughter is definitely a reader rather than a watcher I think that kids that like to read so much probably have great imaginations making up their own movies and stories and their mind as they read my daughter says it is just like watching a movie that she can see it all happening as she reads
You are so brave and such a strong momma, you got this. You look so much happier and sound a lot happier. I don't comment much but I just wanted to say that. I love you, your girls are the cutiest! 💜
I’m so happy you’re doing well. You seem genuinely good and you deserve that. Yay to the next chapter! ♥️
❤️❤️❤️ You are glowing. I hope that helps someone going through this to know there is a light at the end of such a hard experience.
Love you for sharing. Glad to know your doing great and happy. Your optimism and bravery is amazing to watch.
Love watching you for years. You are amazing. I can’t wait to hear the Vegas stories!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️😂
You deserve a GREAT guy!!! You're a very nice person . . . dynamic and creative . . you're making smart choices . .
I’m happy for you! You & your girls deserve the world!
You are such an amazing person, and definitely deserve the best life could offer ❤️
You are a strong and beautiful woman. This time may be difficult but in the end it is worth it. Both for your happiness/state of mind and for the girls. Trust, love and mutual respect should be the top priorities in every relationship. The fact that you didn't feel those things and finally found the courage to say I deserve to be loved. I deserve respect. I deserve honesty. Says how strong you really are. You will find your best friend. The one that will love you completely. Respect everything about you and will be able to trust each other with everything. Love to you and the girls
Yay I am glad you are finding yourself! Never settle ! And have a blast with Samantha, see if can see risa and Michelle! Those 3 are bomb girls to be with ❤️
Cheering you on Madison. You are an amazing mom!!!
You seem to be in a better space. I remember your IG stories from the summer. I’m glad that you’re happy!! ✨✨
Am so sorry to hear this 😞 you got this your a strong smart woman 💪🏽 everything happens for a reason because something better is coming
Sorry that you've had to go through all that. You seem like such a sweet person with so much love for her beautiful little girls. I hope co-parenting works out well for you. Hopefully you'll have a great time in Las Vegas with Sam!! I hope you win a lot of money, lol!!🥰
Madison, I just want to wish you the best. And you got this. you're a great mom and your kids look happy. and that really matter, I've been where you're at. took me a few years. but it's all good and I'm so so happy now. So girl remember to take time for you. go out with friends and date and be happy. take care be safe.( but have fun).tfs. love ya.
Thank you for telling us your feelings about all that’s happening.
So sorry your going through that but don"t worry with time you will heal. Your strong and a hardworker you can overcome anything. Keep your head up. You got this!!!!!
Your brave and strong!!! You go Madison!!! I have been in a bad/toxic relationship for far too long-it’s better to recognize it early on vs 15 years later-ugh! Wishing u and your girls a world of happiness!!! 😘 XO
Sorry what you've been going through but your a strong woman & always do what's more important in your life... your kids.. everyone is always here for you
So proud of you Madison! You and your girls deserve the best, good for you for getting out of that and knowing you deserve better. Thinking of you ❤️