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  • Опубліковано 10 вер 2024
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  • @FreedomofSpeech865
    @FreedomofSpeech865 3 роки тому +34

    People wanted the image that you were projecting. That is why it is important not to envy anyone’s life. No one knows the demons the are fighting behind close doors. Wearing mask breaks you down over time. I am happy you are being your authentic self as hard as it is.

  • @angelm795
    @angelm795 3 роки тому +19

    I can relate, I also had a divorce. I am now happily remarried. I truly have the life I had always craved. I am also a planner and I manifested my own destiny. I believe in you, I know it's hard but divorce is sometimes the best thing to ever happen to you. X all the best

  • @tobia.3933
    @tobia.3933 3 роки тому +48

    Oh dear Candace, you got me there when you said you have gone through the 3 most difficult journey of life, death of a parent, infertility and Divorce. I’m currently going through infertility, I lost both parent and I most say sometimes I question God “why me lord”, why is everything a struggle, why do I have to go through so much pain but now I see am not alone. Infertility is a lonely journey already then it’s worst when you don’t have parent to discuss that pain with. Stay strong, we love you Candace and I believe this storm will be over soon.

    • @nirvanawellness3619
      @nirvanawellness3619 3 роки тому +4

      God will grant you peace and your heart desires.

    • @FruitfulMyFertilityJourney
      @FruitfulMyFertilityJourney  3 роки тому

      Thank you love! Sending love!

    • @maysilva431
      @maysilva431 3 роки тому +1

      Oh my..good guide you..the universe give you strength...let's be happy as long as we can..because life throws painful turns ...

  • @victoriae3509
    @victoriae3509 3 роки тому +27

    May the Lord’s rest and peace come upon you. The Lord will help you through. Love you sister. 🧡

  • @cecew.3331
    @cecew.3331 3 роки тому +28

    I AM SO PROUD OF YOU!!!! SUCH A STRONG, AMAZING WOMAN!!! PRAYERS TO YOU!

  • @MercedesNechelle
    @MercedesNechelle 3 роки тому +12

    Wow. I’m so sorry to hear about your divorce. You were the inspiration for having the courage to go through with my IVF journey. I can’t imagine all that you are going through right now but I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you stay on UA-cam because regardless of what life journey you’re on, I’d love to be blessed enough to support you on it (virtually). God bless 💕

  • @AXD1987
    @AXD1987 3 роки тому +20

    Welcome back!!!
    Avery here and you nailed it. I felt everything you said. I'm not a man of many words, but 2020 was the worst year EVER. One thing I've done to sum it all up is protecting my peace. Just remember things happen for a reason and your doing great, because you have taken the first steps by taking owner ship of recognizing what was going on. I know you don't know me but we share the same story. Hope you continue to post

  • @adunolatitilopeawonusi4140
    @adunolatitilopeawonusi4140 3 роки тому +15

    Been concerned about you. Glad to know you're still standing. 1 Cor 14:33 For God is not a God of confusion but of peace ...

  • @557Deola
    @557Deola 3 роки тому +14

    I'm so sorry you're going through this painful journey, I wish you healing and pray things get better.

  • @tonid2380
    @tonid2380 3 роки тому +5

    I commend you for your bravery in sharing your story. As a woman who was married to two pastors and also had to make that difficult choice (twice), I understand the stress, heartache and agony of going thru with such a decision. I’m glad you’ve decided to put the needs of you and your baby first. May God continue to bless and sustain you. The best is yet to come!! All for Gods glory ❤️❤️

  • @KinksNCoils4Eva
    @KinksNCoils4Eva 3 роки тому +6

    Victory is yours! God is preparing you for something major. Lean on Him! 🙏🏾

  • @reignruyolty8108
    @reignruyolty8108 3 роки тому +5

    So incredibly sorry for your loss of your mother and the death of a dream with the next transfer and marriage, butttttt so glad to see you're in a healthy mind space. Xoxo pls come back to share. You're an inspiration!

  • @heatherg994
    @heatherg994 3 роки тому +7

    That must’ve been so hard to be so sad but having to put on a smile. Good luck with everything you do!

  • @Wiser-Daily
    @Wiser-Daily 18 днів тому

    Divine love towards you and all of you here! ❤❤❤❤

  • @N.Jersey
    @N.Jersey 3 роки тому +8

    I was in a deep season of questioning, and long story short the Lord sent me to 2 Chronicles 20:20 (NIV)..and in the verse was the word upheld, the Holy Spirit told me to look up the word UPHELD, and it means to confirm or support a thing that is questioned...spend some time in prayer with that, I hope it helps you

  • @marlennytoussaint2595
    @marlennytoussaint2595 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for being transparent, open and honest. Love you and praying for you.

  • @kellyt12463
    @kellyt12463 3 роки тому +1

    So sorry to hear this, but thankful that you are on your way to being healed and moving on with your life. Prayers and love your way! :)

  • @MissKallyP
    @MissKallyP 3 роки тому +6

    As a leader in this space. A leader showing us all how to be strong, and have faith, and embrace the beauty and magic of the opportunity of IVF, I hope as you navigate this space you are in with your personal situation, (and as selfish as this sounds, and I understand it is for me to say)... your story will be a guiding source to help others. IVF is a serious business. I say that and mean it literally and figuratively. Many take for granted the struggles of it, as merely being the “can’t get pregnant naturally bit”. But the truth is, even in marriages where having babies was seemingly easy to do, without IVF, and even in the best of times, marriage is extremely hard. Now imagine adding the pressure of IVF and marriage. It is natural that sometimes it does not end the way you think it may. Most people assume the work ends when you have the baby with IVF! But it’s just the beginning. Try to show yourself some compassion. After watching your video, I realized maybe this is a branch of this process you can cover. I remember when we first visited our second clinic they had the very serious conversation with us about what happens if we decided divorce. Or split. What happens to your embryos. So few people on here explore this. There are quite a few legal things that must be address naturally, but our wishes had to be discussed. You mentioned on your Instagram about becoming a mom again. I follow another IVF MVP on here, who is a beacon of knowledge and she has completely delved into the realm of Donors. Maybe your babies can still have purpose for another family. Maybe you could use your babies yourself and take the journey of single mother by choice. Maybe you don’t have to say goodbye to them and your dreams for them all together. Whatever you decide, and where this journey of healing takes you... try and remember your happiness is paramount, and you always have choices in life. 😘 Wishing for you peace, and resolutions!

    • @FruitfulMyFertilityJourney
      @FruitfulMyFertilityJourney  3 роки тому

      Thank you so much ❤ I have begun to explore many options and when/if the time is right I will share more about this!

    • @rheannerock3850
      @rheannerock3850 3 роки тому

      Can you share the social media name of the person you follow you speaks about donors

  • @andreacarter1226
    @andreacarter1226 3 роки тому +17

    Thanks for sharing, Sis! I’ve been following your journey since the very beginning. I’m glad you and baby girl are well.
    Marriage is like death with phases of grieving. I say this because I’ve been where you’re. I dealt with infertility and divorce at the young age of 22 and I’m a PK in a holiness church. I was afraid to divorce due to my parents position in church and how I was raised. I stayed in mentally abusive marriage for three years because I was afraid of judgement by onlookers. Mentally, and physically I was exhausted and confused but I couldn’t find my way out. One day I finally got tired of being tired! I sought the Lord and I filed for divorce. During that season, I talked to the Lord daily. I mean I knew him, I grew up in the church, right? Things were different this time, I wept day and night. I surrendered my will and got rid of my plans and gave it all to him. I began to refocus on me and starting feeling so much better. Honestly if it wasn’t for my divorce I wouldn’t know God like I do! Here I am 11 years later remarried and 16 weeks pregnant with our IVF baby. Remember, God will never leave you nor forsake you - you’re his child. Things may not look good but it’s for your good!!!!!
    I’ll leave you with this, as seasons change so will you. You WILL come out of this... I’m excited for what’s to come in your next season! Hang in there!

    • @FruitfulMyFertilityJourney
      @FruitfulMyFertilityJourney  3 роки тому +1

      Whew! This! Thank you for sharing and congratulations to you. You totally get me ❤

    • @sarahalessa78
      @sarahalessa78 3 роки тому +2

      that's the most beautiful comment ever. You're a really special person, your bond with the lord is so strong and precious. I hope that I can be like that one day. It's so hard sometimes. Thank you for sharing, it helped a lot.

  • @breannaneville4332
    @breannaneville4332 3 роки тому +1

    I'll add you to my prayer list girl, we all need each other in this life as well as our good Lord!

  • @SuperChava28
    @SuperChava28 3 роки тому +1

    Questioning is good. "Sometimes our lives have to be completely shaken up, changed and rearranged to relocate us to the place we’re meant to be". It will be okay and you will look back on yourself now and your future, happy self will just want to hug you and say that it all had to happen this way for you to find your eventual happiness. Growth is painful, but necessary. Sending you big hugs!

  • @twillia1987
    @twillia1987 3 роки тому +3

    We love you sister! Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing. Everything is working for your good sis! Love on your baby. I'm sending you lots of peace and love. I've been following you since your first IVF journey.

  • @samumoth
    @samumoth 3 роки тому +1

    I’ve walked your path many years ago and I empathize. Do not listen to those who say - give it another chance. Only you know what transpired and no stranger has the right to give you that kind of advice...no matter how well meaning!Do what you - and you alone feel to be best. You are a beautiful dignified woman and you need to cut a straight path in life for you and your child. The sun will shine again. All the best...

  • @lacyscott1245
    @lacyscott1245 3 роки тому +1

    Happy to get an update and everything will be ok just keep on praying about it... I really admire your strength and transparency thank u so much I am 24 weeks pregnant and I am thankful

  • @kenzieart5575
    @kenzieart5575 3 роки тому +2

    Hello my dear Sis Happy New Year 1stly,May your Mum's soul rest in peace.
    Divorce is not an end all to peace and happiness its not pleasant but can be a realease from bandages. God is in control and will restore every lost year. When I got Divorced I handed all to God and he restored my life am remarried and I give him all the praise. My sis God will restore and uphold you and your little girl always hand it all to him for our destinys our in his hand .lots of love and prayers.xx

  • @cbyrom8779
    @cbyrom8779 3 роки тому +2

    Sis... thank you so much for your transparency. I have struggled in 2020 but gained so much self assuredness from 2020. I'm giving things one more round in 2021 before I make my final decisions. #justwaitingongod

  • @Manicpixiedreamer
    @Manicpixiedreamer 3 роки тому +2

    I’m so sorry for your struggles! I do think your vulnerability is beautiful and courageous; you were able to help me have hope and I’m very grateful to you for that! Best of luck to you on your healing journey ❤️🙏

  • @ivanoylopes3260
    @ivanoylopes3260 3 роки тому +3

    May the Lord continue to give you clarity, guidance and healing. 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @ANN-ri8zp
    @ANN-ri8zp 3 роки тому +4

    One day at a time... Take it easy on yourself. GOD'S BLESSINGS TO YOU...💛🙏🏾💚

  • @peipeimao1160
    @peipeimao1160 3 роки тому +3

    Listening to your talking is like a healing to me as well. Thank you for coming back!

  • @carlaking143
    @carlaking143 3 роки тому +4

    You sharing your journey has truly blessed me in this difficult time of my isolation season. Thank you for being so honest and open. 💕

  • @terryreynolds7213
    @terryreynolds7213 3 роки тому +2

    Just like you, because of my faith I too have been struggling with this choice to divorce. Because of the vows I made in the presence of God. That feeling that God is distant and close at the same time, I get that. I also had so many panic attacks, battling with depression. You are brave in choosing you deserve better, in deciding your mental health is what's important to show up for you and your daughter.

  • @jellysarmy
    @jellysarmy 3 роки тому +3

    I will continue to keep you in my prayers. You always inspire me! Keep the faith he will guide you.

  • @leeannolson4028
    @leeannolson4028 3 роки тому +2

    You are such a beautiful human and a true testament! You can only go up! Keep up the good work on yourself. God Bless sister!

  • @overcomewithshannon3287
    @overcomewithshannon3287 3 роки тому +1

    I am so happy for you and your healing journey. Infertility is not an easy thing to go through. I can relate to a lot of what you are saying. I created a UA-cam channel for me and my miracle baby that I had at 43 years old. I am still healing from the trauma that I went through. I have not been able to even talk about my fertility journey in front of the camera yet. Your channel helped me a lot when I was going through my own journey. Love you sis and continue to heal and protect your peace. 💕

  • @priscillapmhango3393
    @priscillapmhango3393 3 роки тому +1

    When you said sometime you can a burden for so long it begins to look easy to other people- I felt that

    • @priscillapmhango3393
      @priscillapmhango3393 3 роки тому

      So happy to see you. Glad you're doing well. Stay strong, God got you. And you've got a whole army of women you've inspired with your journey fighting with you and for you in prayers. May your latter days be greater than your former days.

    • @FruitfulMyFertilityJourney
      @FruitfulMyFertilityJourney  3 роки тому

      Thank you so much love! I appreciate your kind words!

  • @jericamcbride3659
    @jericamcbride3659 3 роки тому +5

    🙏🙏💕💕
    Praying that the Lord give you peace. I'm so sorry you're going through this.

  • @chideyamarie9586
    @chideyamarie9586 3 роки тому +4

    Heeey I’m a new subscriber I watched so many of your previous videos on infertility and you give me so much hope considering I’m going through fertility treatment now.. you explain things so well it helps me know what to expect!! Your baby girl is beautiful and I will continue to keep up with you guys!! Please take your time to heal but don’t stop posting ... you are very inspiring 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @taneejohnson970
    @taneejohnson970 3 роки тому +2

    So glad to see this video. I too used to wish for the life and the relationship you portrayed in your videos. The situation is unfortunate but I’m sure you will be feeling stronger and more liberated in the days to come. Praying your strength in the Lord during this trying time.

  • @AmberCharmaine
    @AmberCharmaine 3 роки тому +3

    Thanks for being soo transparent with us!! Stay strong I am praying for you :)

  • @tracey6999
    @tracey6999 3 роки тому +2

    That’s okay sis this is the sis we want to see the authentic you....life is hard... My condolences to you for your mother and divorce because a divorce can feel like death as well... my prayers to you and I am confident that blessings will come your way. Thank you for this!

  • @charminglyrella6909
    @charminglyrella6909 3 роки тому +1

    Glad to see an update from you. I'm sorry that everything didn't work out with your marriage. But I am happy that you made the best decision for yourself and your family. Too many people put up with the unhappiness to save face. May God continues to bless and protect you and Victory. I know he has so much instore for you! Hope to see more videos from you in the future (no pressure). Keep smiling and protecting your peace beautiful!

  • @nursetiffy1975
    @nursetiffy1975 3 роки тому +1

    Proud of you! Like you said we just never know what someone is going through. Your vulnerability is appreciated! You are looking radiant during this healing process! 💜

  • @boymom5918
    @boymom5918 10 місяців тому

    We all go through pain that’s hurts in a different way at least you can say you was married that’s still a blessing and your still young God will bless you 1000 fold for you pain keep faith ❤

  • @josephinegabriel1917
    @josephinegabriel1917 3 роки тому +1

    So sorry that your marriage didn’t work out. Atleast you have your baby girl❤️ praying for you!! God has you.

  • @iamsharon3306
    @iamsharon3306 3 роки тому +3

    One word, sis. SURRENDER. I watched the entire video and in watching it I have some rhetorical questions. I believe the only person we can change is ourselves. In your desire to plan your life, was your husband just another piece on your chess board? Did you marry him for him or for what role he could play in your life plan? Did you love him unconditionally - without conditions? For example: If he told you, he didn't want to have more children, or trying to have more children would take him on a roller coaster he didn't have the strength or courage to go on - was that okay with you? Or were those conditions not part of your life plan and so it made him dispensable? None of us know anything, so I dont want to pretend like I know anything about you, but I know the spirit of control. The spirit of control will always leave you miserable. If you dont address is: You can divorce him and marry another man and you'll still be miserable. Surrender. Trust that God has you. Go with the natural flow of life. Stop resisting. If its meant for you to get pregnant, it will happen, sis. How old was Sarah when she got pregnant in the bible? I get that's how you've made your money. There are other ways to share your experience and still profit. We are all connected. What one is experiencing, we all are. Let go. Truly. Get out of the driver seat. I surrender all. And then show gratitude. In ALL things give Thanks. I have found that when I find gratitude in EVERYTHING, I am surrendering to what I want, need, etc and I am accepting what is. I pray peace and joy for your entire family, to include you, your husband and your baby. God bless you!

  • @muffme6932
    @muffme6932 3 роки тому +1

    This too shall pass. I will continue to pray for you. It’s because of you and Simply Tanika that I have my own channel now. You all were there when I needed you most. We are sister from other mothers.

  • @ceceFem
    @ceceFem 3 роки тому +3

    Praying for u on your journey of healing mind, body and soul

  • @StephanieNicoleH
    @StephanieNicoleH 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for your transparency. I have been following your journey for a while. Sending light and love your way. Praying for your healing and happiness! Everything happens for a reason, even when we don’t understand. Your journey gave me the courage to go through ivf. I lost my mother too. I just see so much similarities. 2021 is your year and I’m excited to see more from you on your channel.

  • @Wank1821
    @Wank1821 3 роки тому +2

    Happy to see you! Praying that God continues to order your steps.

  • @ThiNguyen-do8qx
    @ThiNguyen-do8qx 3 роки тому +3

    You deserve happiness, love, and joy. ❤️ god is good

  • @reeseycup85
    @reeseycup85 3 роки тому +2

    I’m so happy your back ! I appreciate your transparency from beginning till now and we will get through this. You have lots of great things ahead. God Bless

  • @wattstheresa1024
    @wattstheresa1024 3 роки тому +1

    May God comfort you during this self care and self time💜! You got this Queen... cry it out, scream it out, and then breathe and let it go!!! You had a lot going on within these last couple of years and God will guide your path!!! **sidebar girllll that planning mess can mess us up!! Smh 🤦🏽‍♀️ I’ve been there done that!!! Trust me it’s not just you... counseling is awesome 👏🏽....

  • @ugochia7871
    @ugochia7871 3 роки тому

    Your videos over time encouraged me on my own fertility journey which God has lifted off me now. I’m sad to see your life has turned around 360deg. I really pray you find your bearing and happiness in steering this new course. God be with you! Lots of hugs!

  • @mrspecan1
    @mrspecan1 3 роки тому +1

    I am thankful for you sharing this with us. So many are going through similar situations and don't know where to turn. My prayers that God will continue to lead you exactly where He wants you 🙏🙌🏾❤

  • @ericawhitaker5077
    @ericawhitaker5077 3 роки тому +1

    Praying for you and glad you’re back to share. ❤️

  • @glorydayz1399
    @glorydayz1399 3 роки тому +1

    You are stronger then you know..everything will fall into place.. 💕

  • @feyaastera9213
    @feyaastera9213 3 роки тому +1

    God bless you dear! ❤️ Everything will turn out to be for good and you will be again joyful and fulfilled, I'm sure! ❤️

  • @yoshi_godsgift
    @yoshi_godsgift 3 роки тому +1

    Am so sorry you are going through this right now but I needed to hear this👩🏽‍🤝‍👩🏾

  • @fayefarley5825
    @fayefarley5825 3 роки тому +2

    Great to see you. Glad you are ok. Sorry you were hurt but you are not alone. We all have some traumatic experience we don't talk about. Take care of your mental health it important. Love you like a mother loves a daughter. Kiss Destiny..

  • @livinglifeforlandon9000
    @livinglifeforlandon9000 3 роки тому +1

    Praying for you hun. No judgment at all just love and support ❤️

  • @denisedean8503
    @denisedean8503 3 роки тому

    I can relate went through a Divorce August 2019 so I'm still on my journey of healing and just Loveing me my Focus is having peace and happiness and Having a intimate relationship with God I'm praying for you trust God he will never leave you nor forsake you. Be Blessed 🙏❤

  • @janl4805
    @janl4805 3 роки тому

    You are obviously beautiful on the outside but watching this shows your inner beauty as well. Love how you’re not doing any bashing but instead focusing on your inner healing. Wishing all the best to you, thanks for sharing with us!

  • @disciples725
    @disciples725 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks for sharing and I pray that God will comfort you and take you through this journey! Trust Him, lean on Him and talk to Him about everything. God will see you through!

  • @yoshi_godsgift
    @yoshi_godsgift 3 роки тому +1

    You are blessed and highly favoured. God will see you through. 🙏🏾🙌🏽

  • @cassiforest9191
    @cassiforest9191 3 роки тому +4

    Sending you healing vibes. I hope you find comfort in your faith and your loved ones. I'm so sorry you have to walk this path.

  • @belovedlake
    @belovedlake 3 роки тому

    I'm very sorry to hear that you have been going through all of this. I have had some of the same issues over the years, so I can empathize with some of what you are going through. I promise, if you continue to focus on your healing and leave the rest up to God, it will get better. Stay strong. You can endure even more than you know.

  • @swiley9844
    @swiley9844 3 роки тому +3

    Love you sis. I could under what you're doing through. Been there done that. Hubby and I divorced while TTC'ING and I gave up on the thought of having another child until I decided at such a late age to be a smbc. I pray things work out in your life and you could move forward with a wonderful new beginnings. Kiss Victory for me and her, her TT's out here misses her.

  • @ericka8592
    @ericka8592 3 роки тому

    Thank you Candace for your transparency! It’s sooooooo helpful to so many! Keep using your voice! Keep walking in your truth and keep blessing others with your strength and journey! Congratulations on your walk to healing and many blessings to you and little Victory!

  • @chrisandcrys6520
    @chrisandcrys6520 3 роки тому

    I’m so sorry you have to go through this. You are a strong and amazing woman and with God leading you, everything will work out. I’m glad you’re able put your mental health and happiness first. It’s so important to do. Prayers to you

  • @dv3498
    @dv3498 3 роки тому +1

    You are a strong Godly woman. May your future unfold in a beautiful way. Yes Trusting God all the way.

  • @simply4022
    @simply4022 3 роки тому +4

    This is my life right now. I am going through the same thing unfortunately.

    • @nicolekalisa7483
      @nicolekalisa7483 3 роки тому +1

      Stay strong , trust God He will see you through.🙏🏿

    • @simply4022
      @simply4022 3 роки тому

      @@nicolekalisa7483 thank you hun 💕

    • @FruitfulMyFertilityJourney
      @FruitfulMyFertilityJourney  3 роки тому +1

      Sending love and light. Trust me, I know how difficult it is!

    • @simply4022
      @simply4022 3 роки тому

      @@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney thank you so much 💕

  • @private_person
    @private_person 3 роки тому +2

    May God grant you strength and peace.

  • @AlNisa21
    @AlNisa21 3 роки тому +1

    So happy your back :-)! I would love to see a mommy channel with vlogs & videos about your life with Victory. May God continue to bless you & thank you for sharing your story.

  • @GenesisNatural
    @GenesisNatural 3 роки тому

    Your vulnerability and ability to share something so personal will empower many others who are on their journey. Your strength will serve to support those who may need to see that they too can overcome. 2020 definitely broke us open in so many ways.

  • @10byrdie
    @10byrdie 3 роки тому

    Wish you nothing but the best. You will ascend past this. You did the right thing and have another shot at true happiness and emotional health. You have your blessing in tow and are showing her self care, self worth, and respecting yourself.

  • @lashondaholmes8661
    @lashondaholmes8661 3 роки тому

    I am so happy that you are back! I am sorry to hear about what you are going through....you are STRONG! As the saying goes, "God laughs at our plans" and I too struggled with this for the longest time. You are such an AMAZING WOMAN despite the external stimuli....thank you for being so transparent, know that you are always in my prayers and thoughts.....you will ALWAYS be my SHE-RO.🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾

  • @Stuufin627
    @Stuufin627 3 роки тому

    It's fair to say that we've missed you! I'm so sorry that you are going through this difficult time. You are so deserving of everything great. I can feel your pain. Thanks for sharing this . You are empowering me to choose me! Owning your truth is essential to the healing and you are on that path. Just know that you have us!! I will pray for you and say your name! Stay Strong 🦋

  • @TheSiberianLad
    @TheSiberianLad Рік тому

    You precious woman. I hope that your life has gotten better since this video.

  • @sapphirajintiel6987
    @sapphirajintiel6987 3 роки тому

    Thank you for being open and more than a conqueror with us. We are with you...and sending effectual prayers of success...follow your heart and let the spirit of truth be your Guide. Stay focused and let true Light guide your way.

  • @tekoahayes3338
    @tekoahayes3338 3 роки тому

    I just accidentally bumped into your video and I have to say you touched my soul. 2020 was the worst year for me as well. I lost my mom, I had a stillbirth at 8 1/2 months after having IVF, Im in a unhappy relationship. I can go on and on. I am currently getting ready to do another round of IVF this week even though my spouse and I are going through hell. I continuously have panic attacks and anxiety. You really just gave me strength and power because I have been so scared to go through this alone but I know im in a unhappy state. I have to do this for me. Stay strong queen and we all will be ok.

    • @FruitfulMyFertilityJourney
      @FruitfulMyFertilityJourney  3 роки тому +1

      Hi love, so glad you found me. I am sorry to hear 2020 was a rough year for you! Sending prayers your way for your losses. You've got this!!

  • @brittanicole92
    @brittanicole92 3 роки тому +1

    I feel this 100%. Our journeys are so similar. Sending so much love to you ❤️

  • @shaunnatrawick3480
    @shaunnatrawick3480 3 роки тому

    We are all in this struggle called LIFE together🙏🏾...Serenity...Courage and Wisdom we are asking of The Lord to bestow upon us all. Self care for us women is SO HARD! We have to acknowledge sooner than later when it is time to put ourselves FIRST☝🏾! So happy to see your beautiful face☺️...praying for the best for you n babygirl in 2021🙏🏾🙋🏾💪🏾🥰

  • @earlenewilson3136
    @earlenewilson3136 3 роки тому

    May God bless you and your family Queen . Remember nothing u did was without purpose. U really blessed so many. I looked at and used your smoothie video so much
    That knowledge helped me and continues to .

  • @iamkrystine
    @iamkrystine 3 роки тому

    Wishing you all the best in whatever God has planned for you next! Praying so hard for you and hoping things start looking up soon. Best wishes

  • @glorianuvie
    @glorianuvie 3 роки тому

    What we go through makes us stronger wiser and better.All i see is a strong, courageous and beautiful ❤️🌅❤️❤️❤️❤️ woman God's got your back sunshine

  • @chosenchic2990
    @chosenchic2990 3 роки тому +1

    May God gives you strength for the journey.❤️🙏🏽

  • @user-tg2hz4uw8m
    @user-tg2hz4uw8m 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you sis!!!! Thank you for sharing your story...🙏🏾🥰

  • @cherishedoliviaTV
    @cherishedoliviaTV 3 роки тому +1

    I was wondering wah at happened as well!! But I just want you to know that it’s ok, to tak time off to discover urself & heal. But most importantly I just want to remind you that God gat you ❤️❤️

  • @godsonosahontv8345
    @godsonosahontv8345 3 роки тому

    You're such a strong and beautiful person both inside and out 💛Sending blessings and peace your way. 🕊🙏🏾🙏🏾 The Joy of the LORD is your strength!

  • @michellement2158
    @michellement2158 3 роки тому +1

    I am EXTREMELY saddened by the title!!!!! I really hate break ups so much but I understand things happen in life. I’m gona watch this whole video to understand & before I watch, I am so so so so sorry for everything you’ve been through. You really don’t deserve this mess.

    • @amalac5914
      @amalac5914 3 роки тому

      Please don’t be sorry, instead say...”Congratulations!” Many Times divorces are a blessing, life is too precious and short to be stuck in non sense relationship. She is amazing and beautiful, both inside and out. She will definitely find her Prince Charming, I guarantee that.

    • @FruitfulMyFertilityJourney
      @FruitfulMyFertilityJourney  3 роки тому

      Thank you love, it is a very sad situation!

    • @FruitfulMyFertilityJourney
      @FruitfulMyFertilityJourney  3 роки тому

      You are so sweet. Thank you for your kind words, and yes Congratulations is more fitting. For the first time I finally put myself (and my daughter) first!

  • @tiffaniew.degannes1955
    @tiffaniew.degannes1955 3 роки тому

    Sending love, we care about your journey and want what's best for you! I've been divorced and it is isolating, God is with you in the valley, my dear. Sending you healing love and grace to get through each day, one step at a time, xo

  • @KarineLove7
    @KarineLove7 3 роки тому +3

    Praying for you sweet lady 💕 on this journey of healing . The lord is your strength and he is in control he ll always take care of you . We missed you ..... Your videos during my fertility struggle have helped me so much you are such a blessing .... God bless you and princess Victory 🎀💕💖

  • @SherelleGilbertTV
    @SherelleGilbertTV 3 роки тому

    So glad to see you sis. Still thinking about you and praying for you 🙏🏽💕

  • @TwinMamaCrafts
    @TwinMamaCrafts 3 роки тому +1

    Praying for you! You are amazing and strong

  • @Deri_Davi_Twins
    @Deri_Davi_Twins 3 роки тому

    I am so happy to finally hear from you again! I’m so sorry that your marriage is going through this and know that God has a plan and purpose for all of you. Divorce isn’t the end and doesn’t mean that this community is going to think of u any differently. I adore u and love Victory 🦋🦄 🌈 👶🏽..... wish you both the best and look forward to more videos

  • @mariahle-joyce2564
    @mariahle-joyce2564 3 роки тому

    Praying for you and your healing. God bless you!

  • @downtownon7thavenue
    @downtownon7thavenue 3 роки тому

    God bless you. I’ll be praying for you. You are strong. You will get through this.

  • @jessicaroberts.846
    @jessicaroberts.846 3 роки тому

    It is well Sweetie🙏🏾. The King of Kings will surely see you through. Amen!

  • @roselinebenjamin7598
    @roselinebenjamin7598 3 роки тому

    Praying for you ❤️❤️❤️❤️. You didn’t have to share anything that made you uncomfortable