The way her voice is so angelic and innocent while she speaks the brutal truth of the abuse we put ourselves through for men and that beat drop...my heart has goosebumps
And the part "I don't trust what's in my cup." It's all true. That's why I rarely drink anything at party's. I don't know who spiked it.(I don't drink alcohol I'm just saying in general. Like soda.)
I was always so careful. Kept my drink in front of me, never left it alone, held it to my chest while dancing, if someone bought me a drink I went with them to the bar. Even with all of that I was still drugged three times. I am really thankful that I know my body so well that as soon as I started feeling wrong I could tell my friends so we could leave.
@@АлександраМијатовић It means that although girls get themselves dolled up we still are defensive of our surroundings and often carry some sort of weapon for protection
"Take his name Give your sanity Take the blame Put his mind at ease Trade it all For a false sense of security Fall in love Fall in line with all his fanasty" Being a feminist and coming from a very conservative society where I m being told that I have to give up dreaming big if I m gonna get married.....this hit hard.
@@calebh373 Yeah, I understand where u r coming from.But in my culture(an East african living in a very old fashioned community) this is the norm and expected. Even being too educated for a woman is something that hurts my value in the marriage market. So the advice that is frequently given to me is "don't be too ambitious, men don't like it" So I am not saying all men are like that. But most men in 'my society' are like that.
@@fluffyrambochiqui1836 Both work actually. "for a false sense of self-insecurity" looks like women who Start talking abt a topic but Stopp after a few sentence because they know, their man will Interrupt ANY following sentence, because she ist not giving enough Information or (mostly of the time) wrong. So instead of talking the right to force some damn respect from the Man, the woman go quiet, because she thinks every damn new story/explaination she wants to tell smn wont be right in the first place and that's definitely false sense of self insecruity.
Thank you for singing this out loud. There are or have been secret rules for us girls/ladies. Like look good,smell always nice, be shaved, wear your Make-up like a queen and for that we awakened hours earlier cause we feared that if we didn't take these precautions we would get left out. Or just straight up ignored. The tall Men only rule, what bs lurked in my head, like how are we all into this? And sacrifice our own needs so that everyone around us feels great except us most of the time.. Yes and smile the shit out of this world cause a mad face would get you called a Bitch. Awesome.
"You're too tall don't wear heels." "Come over to my place pretty momma." "Go ahead tell everyone, nobody will believe you." "You're too thin" "You're too fat" "So much make up!" "Where is your make up?" "Stoo complaining about your period it ain't that bad, being kicked in the dick is worse." "Crybaby." "You're moody today. Are you on your period?" The list goes on....
I feel like the makeup stuff is not really forced. Men prefer less makeup, girls don't care for how you do yours. I did notice however that lots of girls spend hours in the morning doing their makeup. Unless you have some severe condition that makes you insecure...why? I don't wear makeup and my pimply, dark-circly ass never got any comments
This is true except for the makeup, though I can’t wear makeup but idfc. If they don’t like me for who I am then why change? Be yourself never cover it up
I don't know what's in her voice but it make me fall in love with the song, and beat drop just gives me chills down my bones. Moreover, I became a fan of her with just this one song. I guess this is what LOVE AT FIRST SONG is called! Additionally I like the minimal editing, a lot of people make their lyric video so animative you could barely read anything, this on the other hand is very minimal, yet beautiful, and the sound quality is just fire! So here's a chemical equation to sum it all up: The lyrics+ The vocals+ The beat drop+ The editing = HEAVEN!
She spilled all the secrets with both venom and relatability, and for the greater good. This song is both to raise awareness and to help girls relate and vibe to brutal truth
Listening to this just had my whole life flash in my mind all the way until now. Married with three kids, to a "nice man" (he's actually the nicest good hearted man that I've ever known) and yet I find out is deep down still a man who wants exactly what this song describes from a woman. I'm not saying this is every man, just what I've experienced in my life. Used up and no longer perfect, and he finds his fantasy elsewhere until I perfect myself and become the lovely shell of a person he desires again. I can always reel them back in, at the cost of myself. Every man, genuinely nice or not. Never changes or works for you, but you always have to for them or be alone. Maybe it's better to be alone.
Not to mention the abuse from past relationships, or friendships of men who want more from you. Physical abuse, rape, emotional, and verbal abuse...because to them you're expendable. There's more women around the corner right? Sorry, I might just be taking this song too personally. Damn good song though.
So you actually have a guy worth a damn who’s respectful to you and sticks around to help with the kids he helped make and just because he enjoys fun time with you he’s a abusing piece of shit?? Im sorry coming from a man he’s a keeper its ok to wanna have sex with your partner especially if he listens to you and what you have to say and fights to keep your relationship strong and healthy thats a keeper
Women only go for the abusers and go to clubs for “hot guys” then wonder why he only wants sex and doesn’t care about being around you when it aint involved they always say the actual good guys are too nice and weird
From a very young age my mom always told me to never let my drink out of my sight and if I put it down I shouldn’t drink from it again. At first I didn’t totally get it but as I grew up I understood more and more the reasons why
If the ice sinks, don't take a drink! If the ice floats, your good to go. This doesn't work w/ every drink, but if you notice sunk ice it's probably dangerous.
Faux sourire, faux orgasme Faux rire, fais tout pour lui Soyez poli, passez la nuit Appelez-le autodéfense J'ai eu le temps de sa vie à mes propres frais Mais même s'il était mon homme Il ne comprendrait jamais vraiment Ce que signifie être une fille Mets des rubans dans mes boucles Ensuite, portez un couteau avec mes diamants C'est psycho, nous vivons dans un monde Où j'entre dans les clubs parce que je suis chaud comme de la merde Mais je ne fais pas confiance à ce qu'il y a dans ma tasse C’est ce que signifie être une fille Prends son nom, donne ta santé mentale Prenez le blâme, mettez son esprit à l'aise Échangez tout cela contre un faux sentiment de sécurité Tombez amoureux, tombez en ligne avec tous ses fantasmes Mais même s'il était mon homme Il ne comprendrait jamais vraiment Ce que signifie être une fille Mets des rubans dans mes boucles Ensuite, portez un couteau avec mes diamants C'est psycho, nous vivons dans un monde Où j'entre dans les clubs parce que je suis chaud comme de la merde Mais je ne fais pas confiance à ce qu'il y a dans ma tasse C’est ce que signifie être une fille Faux jusqu'à ce que nous rendions tout le monde heureux, sauf nous-mêmes Utilise-nous pour notre corps jusqu'à ce qu'il n'y ait rien d'autre qu'une coquille C'est une expérience mutuelle que nous ne sommes pas censés raconter Et n'agissez pas comme vous l'avez ressenti Ce que signifie être une fille Mets des rubans dans mes boucles Ensuite, portez un couteau avec mes diamants C'est psycho, nous vivons dans un monde Où j'entre dans les clubs parce que je suis chaud comme de la merde Mais je ne fais pas confiance à ce qu'il y a dans ma tasse C’est ce que signifie être une fille Ce que signifie être une fille Ah-aah Ce que signifie être une fille Ah-aah
What I love is that this song has such a...Sing-able quality?? Nothing is too long for a normal person, the lyrics are very memorable, and this is stuff every girl NEEDS TO KNOW! Dark, sad, existential, and of course it is! How else would you describe the world to a group of newly blossomed girls? I needed this over more Avril Lavine bullshit as a kid.
Them:"Why aren't you drinking what's in your cup?" Me:"I don't trust what's in my cup." Them:"Thats stupid." Every girl in the room:"We aren't gonna drink ours either." My bf(who I told why we do this):"Guys, leave them alone about it."
@@Fishylocker and women fear that because its mostly them being targeted if you haven’t watched movies where various women gets drugged or flat out drunk and men would take them immediately somewhere no one knows and most likely, women would get killed as well when that happens
@@Fishylocker date rape drugs and roofies. Disgusting people spiking women’s drinks to get them alone and defenseless to take advantage of the women they’ve drugged. It happens more often than you’d think, it’s not just in the movies it’s a reality that all women have to be aware and careful of. That’s why girls are always taught to never let their drinks out of their sight and to never put their drinks down.
@@Fishylocker Because, literally people at parties go ahead and put something in the drinks which gets women drugged or literally drunk and then men take advatage of that and do something so horrible and disgusting. How do you not know this...?
I relate to this song im 14 and I've been sexually assaulted and abused I've been attacked by people on multiple occasions and chased by a dude with a knife and was in a house when it was being broken into by a serial killer so this song is like therapy for me
@@j.c.2239 Good for you that you can see people say things like this and immediately assume its fake. But not all of us can. S*xual assault and abuse is extremely common. So is being followed by creeps. I doubt the rest but I can tell you the vast majority of these stories you'll hear are true.
Growing up I had a phobia of men and boys….I grew out of it for the most part and now in my very early twenties I’m starting to have guy friends and I’m learning that I had reason to fear them, even the “good” ones
They will try to shut your mouth with "not all men are bad" pipeline...😂 Btw this song exists and it's from Morgan you should listen to it. And honestly I am the same scared with you.
100 reasons to be alive 1. to make your parents proud 2. to conquer your fears 3. to see your family again 4. to see your favourite artist live 5. to listen to music again 6. to experience a new culture 7. to make new friends 8. to inspire 9. to have your own children 10. to adopt your own pet 11. to make yourself proud 12. to meet your idols 13. to laugh until you cry 14. to feel tears of happiness 15. to eat your favourite food 16. to see your siblings grow 17. to pass school 18. to get tattoo 19. to smile until your cheeks hurt 20. to meet your internet friends 21. to find someone who loves you like you deserve 22. to eat ice cream on a hot day 23. to drink hot chocolate on a cold day 24. to see untouched snow in the morning 25. to see a sunset that sets the sky on fire 26. to see stars light up the sky 27. to read a book that changes your life 28. to see the flowers in the spring 29. to see the leaves change from green to brown 30. to travel abroad 31. to learn a new language 32. to learn to draw 33. to tell others your story in the hopes of helping them 34. Puppy kisses. 35. Baby kisses (the open mouthed kind when they smack their lips on your cheek). 36. Swear words and the release you feel when you say them. 37. Trampolines. 38. Ice cream. 39. Stargazing. 40. Cloud watching. 41. Taking a shower and then sleeping in clean sheets. 42. Receiving thoughtful gifts. 43. “I saw this and thought of you." 44. The feeling you get when someone you love says, “I love you." 45. The relief you feel after crying. 46. Sunshine. 47. The feeling you get when someone is listening to you/giving you their full attention. 48. Your future wedding. 49. Your favorite candy bar. 50. New clothes. 51. Witty puns. 52. Really good bread. 53. Holding your child in your arms for the first time. 54. Completing a milestone (aka going to college, graduating college, getting married, getting your dream job.) 55. The kind of dreams where you wake up and can’t stop smiling. 56. The smell before and after it rains. 57. The sound of rain against a rooftop. 58. The feeling you get when you’re dancing. 59. The person (or people) that mean the most to you. Stay alive for them. 60. Trying out new recipes. 61. The feeling you get when your favorite song comes on the radio. 62. The rush you get when you step onto a stage. 63. You have to share your voice and talents and knowledge with the world because they are so valuable. 64.Breakfast in bed. 65. Getting a middle seat in the movie theater. 66. Breakfast for dinner (because it’s so much better at night than in the morning). 67. Meaningful love. 68. Forgiveness. 69. Water balloon fights. 70. New books by your favorite authors. 71. Fireflies. 72. Birthdays. 73. Realizing that someone loves you. 74. Spending the day with someone you love. 75. Spending the whole day in bed. 76. Eating a whole pint of your favorite ice cream. 77. Floating in water on your back and just staring up at the sky. 78. First dates (even the bad ones make for funny stories.) 79. Bonfires and s'mores. 80. Relationships where you love someone but aren’t in love with them. 81. Coming home to someone you love. 82. The color of autumn leaves when they change. Summer. 83. Singing songs at the top of your lungs with your friends. 84. Cuddling. 85. Being wrapped up in a warm bed. 86. Someone’s skin against yours. 87. Holding hands. 88. The kind of hugs when you can feel a weight being lifted off your shoulders. The kind of hug where your breath syncs with the other person’s, and you feel like the only two people in the world. 89. Singing off key with your best friends. 90. Road trips. 91. Spontaneous adventures. 92. The feeling of sand beneath your toes. 93. The feeling when the first ocean wave rolls up and envelops your toes and ankles and knees. 94. Thunderstorms. 95. Your first (or hundredth) trip to Disneyland. 96. The taste of your favorite food. 97. The child-like feeling you get on Christmas morning. 98. The day when everything finally goes your way. 99. Compliments and praise. 100. to look on this moment in 10 years time and realise you HAVE DONE IT ^^ Daily reminder: Your skin is not paper, so don't cut it. Your neck is not a coat, so don't hang it. Your body is not a book, so don't judge it. Your heart is not a door, so don't lock it. Your life is not a movie, so don't end it. Remember to always love yourself because you're a freakin star
This song is soo touchy n being an Indian I couldn't believe these things happen in western countries too ! As I heared women are much more stronger and independent there
What it means to be a girl = Watching your back 24/7 no matter where you are, no matter with whom you are, no matter what age you are cause NO where is safe!
My ears : Listening to the music My lips : singing along the song My eyes : seeing comments My head : scrolling down My legs : moving in perfect sync with the song My mind : recalling old memories Yes I am love with this SONG
As I'm reading the comments, I come across your's. I read every word and realize I am doing the EXACT same things. Crazy. But yeah I love this song, too.
@@selena89091 better to not trust and live another day than be proven right and die. But you probably don'y have to think like that. Be happy for that.
I love it already. yk there's actually people who thinks we dress up for them, "i get into clubs cuz i'm hot af" while others be thinking you need someone to fuck *like can't we just have fun...with our girls?
I hate to be “that girl” but Emeline doesn’t give off any vibes of another women. Each lady/girl is her own person and the correct comment would have been “This gives me EMELINE vibes.”
I listened to this song and although I am not a girl i do understand the hell they experience when it comes to men..I watch as my gender bullies,degrades and downright physical abuse because they feel entitled to do so. Well ladies just know there are some men who understand and are your allies. My mother taught me to respect and honor women..hopefully there are alot more like myself who feel the same
This song brings me to the verge of tears, the words are so real to my experience as a woman and growing up. I hope I'm a man in my next life so I can compare the experience lol
I showed my dad this who is old fashioned and even he wasn't aware of what females have to do to get a point across and how guys like to treat them like gold then like an optional item once they get tired of them and nothing we think has value to them till we just go ahead and leave to find something better just for a repeat
The way her voice is so angelic and innocent while she speaks the brutal truth of the abuse we put ourselves through for men and that beat drop...my heart has goosebumps
And the part "I don't trust what's in my cup."
It's all true. That's why I rarely drink anything at party's. I don't know who spiked it.(I don't drink alcohol I'm just saying in general. Like soda.)
Ngl this is so true, sadly. We shouldn't have to put up with this.
We don't put "ourselves" through abuse, this is done to us.
men can also go through this too..
@Black Apple im talking to the person who made this comment, not u or anyone else.
"But I don't trust what's in my cup." The brutally honest truth this song speaks is immaculate.
I was always so careful. Kept my drink in front of me, never left it alone, held it to my chest while dancing, if someone bought me a drink I went with them to the bar. Even with all of that I was still drugged three times. I am really thankful that I know my body so well that as soon as I started feeling wrong I could tell my friends so we could leave.
My dumb ass thought it was about bra size for a little while
I also watch my drinks tho lol
Literally got spiked in a club and everyone just looked at me. No one helped.
@@jessica.Blue777 I'm so sorry you went through that! That is terrible!
That is horrible, girl! This world, i tell ya! Sorry you went through that!
"Put ribbons in my curls then carry around a knife with diamonds" smacks so hard its so true I love it
Do you have any explanation for it? I can't understand.
I dont get it
@@АлександраМијатовић It means that although girls get themselves dolled up we still are defensive of our surroundings and often carry some sort of weapon for protection
@@anavillasenor8639 Omg wow ur so smart
@@АлександраМијатовић are you being sarcastic ?
The melody in the chorus is pure gold. It's so catchy and the harmonizing bit after that is perfect.
"Take his name
Give your sanity
Take the blame
Put his mind at ease
Trade it all
For a false sense of security
Fall in love
Fall in line with all his fanasty"
Being a feminist and coming from a very conservative society where I m being told that I have to give up dreaming big if I m gonna get married.....this hit hard.
The lyric is "for a false sense of security" like marriage is a false sense of security because he can still leave you.
@@calebh373 Yeah, I understand where u r coming from.But in my culture(an East african living in a very old fashioned community) this is the norm and expected. Even being too educated for a woman is something that hurts my value in the marriage market. So the advice that is frequently given to me is "don't be too ambitious, men don't like it" So I am not saying all men are like that. But most men in 'my society' are like that.
@@m.s.e.4192 I'm sorry to hear that's how the men in your life see you. I wish things weren't this way.
@@fluffyrambochiqui1836 Both work actually. "for a false sense of self-insecurity" looks like women who Start talking abt a topic but Stopp after a few sentence because they know, their man will Interrupt ANY following sentence, because she ist not giving enough Information or (mostly of the time) wrong. So instead of talking the right to force some damn respect from the Man, the woman go quiet, because she thinks every damn new story/explaination she wants to tell smn wont be right in the first place and that's definitely false sense of self insecruity.
Or maybe it does not work... Idk. I am too tired for this rn XD
Thank you for singing this out loud. There are or have been secret rules for us girls/ladies. Like look good,smell always nice, be shaved, wear your Make-up like a queen and for that we awakened hours earlier cause we feared that if we didn't take these precautions we would get left out. Or just straight up ignored. The tall Men only rule, what bs lurked in my head, like how are we all into this? And sacrifice our own needs so that everyone around us feels great except us most of the time.. Yes and smile the shit out of this world cause a mad face would get you called a Bitch. Awesome.
"You're too tall don't wear heels."
"Come over to my place pretty momma."
"Go ahead tell everyone, nobody will believe you."
"You're too thin"
"You're too fat"
"So much make up!"
"Where is your make up?"
"Stoo complaining about your period it ain't that bad, being kicked in the dick is worse."
"Crybaby."
"You're moody today. Are you on your period?"
The list goes on....
I feel like the makeup stuff is not really forced. Men prefer less makeup, girls don't care for how you do yours. I did notice however that lots of girls spend hours in the morning doing their makeup. Unless you have some severe condition that makes you insecure...why? I don't wear makeup and my pimply, dark-circly ass never got any comments
Are ya'll okay-
@@Yourfavoritemess ...I'm not sure you want that answer.
This is true except for the makeup, though I can’t wear makeup but idfc. If they don’t like me for who I am then why change? Be yourself never cover it up
Every single word is so relatable. I have goosebumps all over my body. The artist has an angelic voice With goddamn true lyrics.
Hi ♥️😩
I don't know what's in her voice but it make me fall in love with the song, and beat drop just gives me chills down my bones. Moreover, I became a fan of her with just this one song. I guess this is what LOVE AT FIRST SONG is called! Additionally I like the minimal editing, a lot of people make their lyric video so animative you could barely read anything, this on the other hand is very minimal, yet beautiful, and the sound quality is just fire! So here's a chemical equation to sum it all up:
The lyrics+ The vocals+ The beat drop+ The editing = HEAVEN!
She spilled all the secrets with both venom and relatability, and for the greater good. This song is both to raise awareness and to help girls relate and vibe to brutal truth
Same with women. Girls and women are within this song❤
this is a whole different vibe I'm amazed
True
woahhhh this crazy good
EMELINE doesn't play
I’m a dancer and this plays in my head constantly! The accuracy is impeccable.
You sound like a feminist
Listening to this just had my whole life flash in my mind all the way until now. Married with three kids, to a "nice man" (he's actually the nicest good hearted man that I've ever known) and yet I find out is deep down still a man who wants exactly what this song describes from a woman. I'm not saying this is every man, just what I've experienced in my life. Used up and no longer perfect, and he finds his fantasy elsewhere until I perfect myself and become the lovely shell of a person he desires again. I can always reel them back in, at the cost of myself. Every man, genuinely nice or not. Never changes or works for you, but you always have to for them or be alone. Maybe it's better to be alone.
Not to mention the abuse from past relationships, or friendships of men who want more from you. Physical abuse, rape, emotional, and verbal abuse...because to them you're expendable. There's more women around the corner right? Sorry, I might just be taking this song too personally. Damn good song though.
A classic, you chose the wrong guy and now you’re shitting on all men, I’d say you deserve it at this point
So you actually have a guy worth a damn who’s respectful to you and sticks around to help with the kids he helped make and just because he enjoys fun time with you he’s a abusing piece of shit?? Im sorry coming from a man he’s a keeper its ok to wanna have sex with your partner especially if he listens to you and what you have to say and fights to keep your relationship strong and healthy thats a keeper
Women only go for the abusers and go to clubs for “hot guys” then wonder why he only wants sex and doesn’t care about being around you when it aint involved they always say the actual good guys are too nice and weird
It's a misogynistic society created by a patriarchal system. Don't feel bad for expressing your feelings.
Thank you to all the creators of this wonderful song 😊🎉
I fucking love it her voice is soooo goooood amd the lyrics are soo true its the brutal truth of what we do for men sometimes
It's actually true about not trusting what's in your cup what the artist is singing because you have to watch your drink 🍻🍷🍹🥂
Nahhh ya don't say
From a very young age my mom always told me to never let my drink out of my sight and if I put it down I shouldn’t drink from it again. At first I didn’t totally get it but as I grew up I understood more and more the reasons why
If the ice sinks, don't take a drink!
If the ice floats, your good to go.
This doesn't work w/ every drink, but if you notice sunk ice it's probably dangerous.
@@harryjester282 😂😂exactly
@@reydragonclaw1128 Ty for the tip
This is such an empowering song I can’t even explain!!! Absolutely love it! Cause sadly it’s the truth that we live in today!
She explainded in 6 words that hit so hard cuz they are true, and she did it so polite and girllike that is just perfect. Amazing job for this song🙌👏👏
Faux sourire, faux orgasme
Faux rire, fais tout pour lui
Soyez poli, passez la nuit
Appelez-le autodéfense
J'ai eu le temps de sa vie à mes propres frais
Mais même s'il était mon homme
Il ne comprendrait jamais vraiment
Ce que signifie être une fille
Mets des rubans dans mes boucles
Ensuite, portez un couteau avec mes diamants
C'est psycho, nous vivons dans un monde
Où j'entre dans les clubs parce que je suis chaud comme de la merde
Mais je ne fais pas confiance à ce qu'il y a dans ma tasse
C’est ce que signifie être une fille
Prends son nom, donne ta santé mentale
Prenez le blâme, mettez son esprit à l'aise
Échangez tout cela contre un faux sentiment de sécurité
Tombez amoureux, tombez en ligne avec tous ses fantasmes
Mais même s'il était mon homme
Il ne comprendrait jamais vraiment
Ce que signifie être une fille
Mets des rubans dans mes boucles
Ensuite, portez un couteau avec mes diamants
C'est psycho, nous vivons dans un monde
Où j'entre dans les clubs parce que je suis chaud comme de la merde
Mais je ne fais pas confiance à ce qu'il y a dans ma tasse
C’est ce que signifie être une fille
Faux jusqu'à ce que nous rendions tout le monde heureux, sauf nous-mêmes
Utilise-nous pour notre corps jusqu'à ce qu'il n'y ait rien d'autre qu'une coquille
C'est une expérience mutuelle que nous ne sommes pas censés raconter
Et n'agissez pas comme vous l'avez ressenti
Ce que signifie être une fille
Mets des rubans dans mes boucles
Ensuite, portez un couteau avec mes diamants
C'est psycho, nous vivons dans un monde
Où j'entre dans les clubs parce que je suis chaud comme de la merde
Mais je ne fais pas confiance à ce qu'il y a dans ma tasse
C’est ce que signifie être une fille
Ce que signifie être une fille
Ah-aah
Ce que signifie être une fille
Ah-aah
Merci
Merci!!
this can't get more relatable and beautiful, right?
The way it’s so accurate. I don’t want to be scared just because men want my body. But I need to be scared. It’s what keeps me alive.
The voice of an angel with bitterly true lyrics
This song is just so good . I'm sure this gonna blow up soon
Great song, great voice, great lyrics…wow!
What I love is that this song has such a...Sing-able quality?? Nothing is too long for a normal person, the lyrics are very memorable, and this is stuff every girl NEEDS TO KNOW! Dark, sad, existential, and of course it is! How else would you describe the world to a group of newly blossomed girls? I needed this over more Avril Lavine bullshit as a kid.
I never really realized this but yeah, your right!!
Hauntingly beautiful because its so real
Them:"Why aren't you drinking what's in your cup?"
Me:"I don't trust what's in my cup."
Them:"Thats stupid."
Every girl in the room:"We aren't gonna drink ours either."
My bf(who I told why we do this):"Guys, leave them alone about it."
Why don't you trust what's in ur cup?
@@Fishylocker Cos it could be drugged by people trying to take advantage
@@Fishylocker and women fear that because its mostly them being targeted if you haven’t watched movies where various women gets drugged or flat out drunk and men would take them immediately somewhere no one knows and most likely, women would get killed as well when that happens
@@Fishylocker date rape drugs and roofies. Disgusting people spiking women’s drinks to get them alone and defenseless to take advantage of the women they’ve drugged. It happens more often than you’d think, it’s not just in the movies it’s a reality that all women have to be aware and careful of.
That’s why girls are always taught to never let their drinks out of their sight and to never put their drinks down.
@@Fishylocker Because, literally people at parties go ahead and put something in the drinks which gets women drugged or literally drunk and then men take advatage of that and do something so horrible and disgusting. How do you not know this...?
I'm a girl and I understand this I love this song because it's a story of meaning and truth
I relate to this song im 14 and I've been sexually assaulted and abused I've been attacked by people on multiple occasions and chased by a dude with a knife and was in a house when it was being broken into by a serial killer so this song is like therapy for me
lol
Yeah that shit never happened lol
@@j.c.2239 Good for you that you can see people say things like this and immediately assume its fake. But not all of us can. S*xual assault and abuse is extremely common. So is being followed by creeps. I doubt the rest but I can tell you the vast majority of these stories you'll hear are true.
@dishwasher lol
@@girm558 Click off this song, kindly.
VOICE OF AN ANGEL SPEAKING THE #BLUNT TRUTH, "CALL IT SELF DEFENSE" LOL LOVED THAT!
🔥✌️🔥
Growing up I had a phobia of men and boys….I grew out of it for the most part and now in my very early twenties I’m starting to have guy friends and I’m learning that I had reason to fear them, even the “good” ones
They will try to shut your mouth with "not all men are bad" pipeline...😂
Btw this song exists and it's from Morgan you should listen to it.
And honestly I am the same scared with you.
Hope u r going to be the pop queen soon, I love her lyrics style
100 reasons to be alive
1. to make your parents proud
2. to conquer your fears
3. to see your family again
4. to see your favourite artist live
5. to listen to music again
6. to experience a new culture
7. to make new friends
8. to inspire
9. to have your own children
10. to adopt your own pet
11. to make yourself proud
12. to meet your idols
13. to laugh until you cry
14. to feel tears of happiness
15. to eat your favourite food
16. to see your siblings grow
17. to pass school
18. to get tattoo
19. to smile until your cheeks hurt
20. to meet your internet friends
21. to find someone who loves you like you deserve
22. to eat ice cream on a hot day
23. to drink hot chocolate on a cold day
24. to see untouched snow in the morning
25. to see a sunset that sets the sky on fire
26. to see stars light up the sky
27. to read a book that changes your life
28. to see the flowers in the spring
29. to see the leaves change from green to brown
30. to travel abroad
31. to learn a new language
32. to learn to draw
33. to tell others your story in the hopes of helping them
34. Puppy kisses.
35. Baby kisses (the open mouthed kind when they smack their lips on your cheek).
36. Swear words and the release you feel when you say them.
37. Trampolines.
38. Ice cream.
39. Stargazing.
40. Cloud watching.
41. Taking a shower and then sleeping in clean sheets.
42. Receiving thoughtful gifts.
43. “I saw this and thought of you."
44. The feeling you get when someone you love says, “I love you."
45. The relief you feel after crying.
46. Sunshine.
47. The feeling you get when someone is listening to you/giving you their full attention.
48. Your future wedding.
49. Your favorite candy bar.
50. New clothes.
51. Witty puns.
52. Really good bread.
53. Holding your child in your arms for the first time.
54. Completing a milestone (aka going to college, graduating college, getting married, getting your dream job.)
55. The kind of dreams where you wake up and can’t stop smiling.
56. The smell before and after it rains.
57. The sound of rain against a rooftop.
58. The feeling you get when you’re dancing.
59. The person (or people) that mean the most to you. Stay alive for them.
60. Trying out new recipes.
61. The feeling you get when your favorite song comes on the radio.
62. The rush you get when you step onto a stage.
63. You have to share your voice and talents and knowledge with the world because they are so valuable.
64.Breakfast in bed.
65. Getting a middle seat in the movie theater.
66. Breakfast for dinner (because it’s so much better at night than in the morning).
67. Meaningful love.
68. Forgiveness.
69. Water balloon fights.
70. New books by your favorite authors.
71. Fireflies.
72. Birthdays.
73. Realizing that someone loves you.
74. Spending the day with someone you love.
75. Spending the whole day in bed.
76. Eating a whole pint of your favorite ice cream.
77. Floating in water on your back and just staring up at the sky.
78. First dates (even the bad ones make for funny stories.)
79. Bonfires and s'mores.
80. Relationships where you love someone but aren’t in love with them.
81. Coming home to someone you love.
82. The color of autumn leaves when they change.
Summer.
83. Singing songs at the top of your lungs with your friends.
84. Cuddling.
85. Being wrapped up in a warm bed.
86. Someone’s skin against yours.
87. Holding hands.
88. The kind of hugs when you can feel a weight being lifted off your shoulders. The kind of hug where your breath syncs with the other person’s, and you feel like the only two people in the world.
89. Singing off key with your best friends.
90. Road trips.
91. Spontaneous adventures.
92. The feeling of sand beneath your toes.
93. The feeling when the first ocean wave rolls up and envelops your toes and ankles and knees.
94. Thunderstorms.
95. Your first (or hundredth) trip to Disneyland.
96. The taste of your favorite food.
97. The child-like feeling you get on Christmas morning.
98. The day when everything finally goes your way.
99. Compliments and praise.
100. to look on this moment in 10 years time and realise you HAVE DONE IT ^^ Daily reminder:
Your skin is not paper, so don't cut it.
Your neck is not a coat, so don't hang it.
Your body is not a book, so don't judge it.
Your heart is not a door, so don't lock it.
Your life is not a movie, so don't end it.
Remember to always love yourself because you're a freakin star
Wow this would of took SOOO MUCH TIME! also I love the saying sown the bottom ❤❤❤❤❤
i love this song her voice is so unique i beleive that everyone has a diffrent talent at singing and dang she is rocking her talen highest of all
The voice of the people ✊
Girl u nailed it! To the point I wanna cry and my hubby all just like "no that's not true" uh yeah, yeah it is!
Why is this so damn relatable in such a scary way? It's like watching yourself in a horror film. Patriarchy is horror.
this song got me. I love it!
I love this song 🖤🖤🖤
This song is soo touchy n being an Indian I couldn't believe these things happen in western countries too ! As I heared women are much more stronger and independent there
They do. Just probably not as extreme
im obsessed with this song
This Song Is So On Point,It's Unbelievable!!😞😭💔
I love it!
I love it 💖😍
What it means to be a girl = Watching your back 24/7 no matter where you are, no matter with whom you are, no matter what age you are cause NO where is safe!
So true, I live in a safe town but even as a little girl I've carried a blade with me when I'm out at night
True, I honestly agree...😔💯🤌
I agree it the sad truth.
This is really good
Why am I just now hearing this woman’s music?!?!
This song really fits and related my life-
Love it
Can't love this enough.
I love this girl !!!!! This songs hits hard aaf
Glad i found this art ❤
Yooooo I saw the tik tok of her making this now she made the full song
This is my new favorite 💗😘
Perfect!
My ears : Listening to the music
My lips : singing along the song
My eyes : seeing comments
My head : scrolling down
My legs : moving in perfect sync with the song
My mind : recalling old memories
Yes I am love with this SONG
As I'm reading the comments, I come across your's. I read every word and realize I am doing the EXACT same things. Crazy. But yeah I love this song, too.
Doing the same thing here 😂
Listening to this while doing makeup is everything ❤
Really it's hard to define "what it means to be a girl"..
No one can ever understand 🥺🥺
True❤..
Tbh from the title I bet it's gonn be cheesey but this is so meaningful.💫💫
By the second line I was already in love 🤣
Love this!
Have to show to my daughter's!!!to prepare them for this world
Not all men are like this don’t give them that impression
@@selena89091 better to not trust and live another day than be proven right and die. But you probably don'y have to think like that. Be happy for that.
@@selena89091 Not everyone will break into your house, but you’ll still lock your doors in case someone does.
@@selena89091 not teaching them that, but being careful of everyone
This song is underrated!
I can definitely relate to the point I want to put big speakers outside my ex's house and play this song over and over again until his ears bleed🙂
d o i t
Go ahead
It's a {fact} reality 👍 wonderful song
Waw really a great song and only telling the truth!
Why is this so therapeutic
Thanks for this song
Truly
Love it❣️
Yo yo yo
Finally
New upload
Waited for this so long
P E R F E C T ✨
Very good song
1:11 I think that part is "For a false sense of security" not self-insecurity
I am a female and this song truely speaks what we go through
Every female regardless of age can experience this.
This song is so true...
this is the best music I heard from 7yrs ago this girl got lyrics
Love the song 💕 xx
GOOSEBUMPS
I love it already. yk there's actually people who thinks we dress up for them, "i get into clubs cuz i'm hot af" while others be thinking you need someone to fuck *like can't we just have fun...with our girls?
This is so true,
also hi stay :D
That was a good rhyme
This is why male self deletion is higher than female self deletion.
This gives me Melanie Martinez vibes
I hate to be “that girl” but Emeline doesn’t give off any vibes of another women. Each lady/girl is her own person and the correct comment would have been “This gives me EMELINE vibes.”
Yesss mel
I love this
Ok everybody here is talking about the lyrics which are 100/10 btw. But I love that nat is the background (black widow from the avengers)
❤️🔥💕💔❤️💖
Lyrics 🔥🔥🔥
She she said "fake a smile " and carry around a knife with my diamonds"hitter me so hard
Epic Song
I listened to this song and although I am not a girl i do understand the hell they experience when it comes to men..I watch as my gender bullies,degrades and downright physical abuse because they feel entitled to do so. Well ladies just know there are some men who understand and are your allies. My mother taught me to respect and honor women..hopefully there are alot more like myself who feel the same
This song really got me
To be fair the 257 dislikes (yes this is the number) are from the Boys who feel attacked by the song
Heh okay
Well that was an year ago😅
Uffff what an amazing Song🎉
The fact that it ONLY has 6K...
Straight into my feminine rage playlist~
Love it!!
This song brings me to the verge of tears, the words are so real to my experience as a woman and growing up.
I hope I'm a man in my next life so I can compare the experience lol
Amazing
This songs speak truth
I when I first heard this song I fell in love with it
This is giving me Billie Eilish vibes. I like it!
BANGER!!!!
I showed my dad this who is old fashioned and even he wasn't aware of what females have to do to get a point across and how guys like to treat them like gold then like an optional item once they get tired of them and nothing we think has value to them till we just go ahead and leave to find something better just for a repeat
As a girl,yes all the boys reading this,THIS SONG IS TRUE
Yes, and I'm sure you think that being a boy is all peaches and rainbows.
Would love to get the karaoke version ❤
I love this so much !