THINGS TO KNOW BEFORE HAVING SRS | TRANSGENDER SURGERY
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- Опубліковано 20 вер 2024
- A list of things I wish I knew before having SRS surgery.
Just some things I think are helpful to consider. Remember to always do what right for you :)
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I am a CIS man, and you are absolutely gorgeous. I was raised in a household where my mother didn’t even like me dating black women. Now, I find beauty in everyone, CIS or not, it’s the human being inside that love.
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I love how you mentioned that , GD is a life long condition with no cure . Surgery just makes life a bit easier to cope with .
Very informative video , respect Melissa xx
Lovely to hear a fellow Scottish accent,especially from someone so beautiful in both looks and deeds. You're videos help many Melissa which is a beautiful thing to do. Keep the great work girl..xx.
Congratulations. Do not let anybody disrespect you, enjoy your life, have a great day be safe.
Hi Melissa, thank you so much for sharing your experiences in such an honest, balanced way. I'm so sorry you had to deal with so much hate comments; they say nothing about you - you are an amazing, beautiful and oh so courageous woman!!! Your videos are a huge help for me, personally! 💝 Melissa
I am so sorry to hear about the hate comments that you receive you do not deserve them. You are truly one of the most beautiful women in the entire world.
Doing SRS or not is important. You felt it was right, and that is ok. Quit beating yourself up over it, you needed to make reality fit what you felt like, and that is ok. Keep in mind, when you die, your body doesn't go with you, but your soul and desires do. So, if SRS makes you happy, then I am glad for you. If it doesn't, then don't get it...period.
Eww creep
Hard to believe that people would be so closed minded as to not consider dating you. You're so beautiful it's unreal tbh.
Melissa, I sincerely hope that you have a loving man in your life. You deserve it and he would be one lucky dude!
I consider myself trans lesbian. I love women and support women. I can’t wait for my surgery, thank you for sharing 💕
Acceptance of the self is key to happiness
Wow, never seen a fellow Trans-person with a Scottish accent before!
You’re right it’s a lot easier to find out more about SRS these days, I’m on the list for mine after negotiating the NHS list of downsides/risks! These kind of videos are really helpful, thanks for doing them 👍❤️🏳️⚧️😬
Hi Melissa, Thanks so much for your videos, they have been very helpful for me. Your charm, honesty, and relaxed attitude are very reassuring. I'm 56 years old, baby transfeminine, and should be starting HRT in about a month. Fortunately, my wife, friends, and family have been very supportive. Keep this content coming! I always look forward to your new videos.
I thank you very much for letting me know how much I have to do in the future as regards dilating and other things I do know that I am looking forward to having the surgery eventually. I'm really grateful that is girls like you to give advice out anyway. I really don't understand how anyone would give you negative comments. you are extremely beautiful and it does not make any sense to me at all
As a cis het male, I just wanted to say that you look and sound great! Wishing you all the best in your search for your dream boyfriend (future husband?).
Also, I could listen to you talk all day long. For that reason I enjoy every one of your videos.
Thank you! I’m glad you enjoy my videos 💕
@@Melissa.Carmen :: Same here, I listen often to your videos.
I'm a straight guy and you look very pretty and passable to me. I think many straight guys would want to date you.
Very good information! I am getting my orchiectomy later this month so excited .
Smiling ....I could really hear you and I THINK YOUR BEAUTIFUL and your thoughts are very relevant and will be looking foward to seeing your channel again ..... GOD BLESS. Chance
I cannot believe anyone would treat you badly. You are beautiful
I am planning to get SRS soon, but i am afraid that no guy will wanna date me anymore, have your dating experiences improved after SRS?
Hi
I wouldn't say dating has improved. I'd say it's just the same as being pre op; most men are still only interested in fun. However I find the majority of guys who already like TS are still interested because they like cis females too so being post op isn't a turn off.
5.25, darlin thousands already love you for who you are 🌹
Melissa i think you are beautiful ....stay strong...and true to yourself
Love your videos girlie-its very informative for een post op girls like us xx
Love you!! Hope you’re going well :) thank you so much for these videos 💞💞
Hi you're welcome, glad you like my videos :)
@@Melissa.Carmen ofc!
Love your makeup today! 😘😘😘
Thank you 💕
@@Melissa.Carmen 💞💕💞💞💞
You are very lovely ❤️❤️❤️
I like your voice ❤️❤️❤️
I like on the new videos and is excellent for the explain to hope for before surgery, you're looking amazing and wonderful🥰💖💞👏🙏✨
Thank you so much ❤️❤️
Dilation sounds like a nightmare.
At the risk of sounding cliche, you are one beautiful woman! Both inside and out
As a female, I don't fake tan, do my nails or my hair. I'm slacking lol
Haha I slack sometimes too
You're absolutely gorgeous!!
Thanks for sharing Melissa.
I'm having bottom surgery October 18th I'm so scared but so excited 😊😊
Good luck with everything beautiful ❤️
Beautiful
Wow as a transgender woman, you are so beautiful. Your make-up is flawless. Beautiful!!!!!!!!
Just letting you know your absolutely beautiful baby x
I tried normal girls but no luck as far as dating goes so l still am looking for an alternative since l didn't get to transition l still want breasts but don't want to do implants. Dating was an issue for me l tried lgbt date sites but found very few transgender women.
So you label normal Vs abnormal?
Get on therapy ASAP, you are the problem it seems...
You are reasoning so maturely, have come a long way. Maybe you can use the LGBT network more.
Always a joy to see this beautiful trans. :)
You are Gorgeous.
Yes I love Girls but had early problems. Until one evening I met up with a couple of Far Eastern ones I was 19. 1980. WOW I had luckily found my type and realized what I needed to do. I am now with my second wife from China and we have a lovely Daughter. Love from David and Lily.
Like your videos. ❤️
i like this video thanks boo, your pretty by the way but we should think of it like this yeah we wasnt born in the body we wanted but atleast we wasnt born deaf, blind, with one arm or handicap (in a wheelchair). im young but im starting to think differently and yeah it sucks that were trans and we have dysphoria but were doing alot better than other people no ones perfect and we just gotta remember that . honestly if they gave me a choice of being handicap and a girl or being fine but as a transwoman i wouldve picked trans woman. sorry for this long comment but your video made me wanna speak my mind. i plan to get my srs this year too ive watched so many videos lol
Thank you for sharing your earnest experiences for so many years. ^‿^
Sweet lady, don't listen to negative comments, think of them as toilet paper and drop it off down the toilet.
I need this surgery did you get it done in the UK?
Yeah in Brighton.
I couldn't help but notice something just watching youtube videos hmm :D
Gorgeous lady
😲😲😲😲😋you are so beautiful. X
Very beautiful, and sensual.....
For anyone thinking of having "sex reassignment surgery", please know that you cannot change your sex. You can only be a surgically altered man or woman.
Please study the regrets experienced by detransitioners, and please do not look to these clumsy and harmful procedures to do anything for you. Your problems are in your mind, so fix your mind, and do not give yourself a lifetime of medical complications.