Im a 64 year old CIS male and I have no idea why your videos popped up on my feed - but this is the 4th one I've watched and I just want to say you're an amazing person. You are so freakin' brave and together given everything - more than most who don't have your adjustments to deal with. I know you will survive and thrive - best of luck and have an amazing life!
No pls when day you will regret when you grow up 🤮🤮🤮 just be happy the way god create you omg and good luck in the grave and hereafter l wish all the best
Agreed. No stupid outtakes, no staring into the view finder all the time, no life story explaining why her hair or face “looks a certain way today” and no “ um”/ “erm”/ “like”... very refreshing!
My girlfriend still isn’t sure if she wants GRS or not so I’m trying to watch and read up as much as I can so I know what she might go through and experience if that’s what she decides to do further down the line. This was really informative and helpful for partners of trans people who want to support their SOs through surgery and transitioning, thank you so much and I hope recovery goes well for you! ❤️
Not sure where she is considering for surgery. But for most it is not too bad. Typically in the uk, 1 week in hospital. Surgery on the first day, with a few days bed rest. 5 days later, catheter out and allowed out of bed, and dilating starts (3 times a day). 2 days later sent home. 2 weeks at home before being allowed out. Another week until allowed to drive. Dilating 3 times a day for 8 weeks, slowly reducing until once a week. Pain minimal. Far less than you would expect. Paracetamol was all that was required after a couple of days. Worst part with some surgeons was 3 days of a “clear liquid diet”.
I’ve never heard anyone share the intimate details of a surgery like this, and so thank you for courageously sharing this. I hope that several months down the road, you’ve found that going through with this procedure has brought you every bit of fulfillment you felt you were lacking & more. You’re a beautiful, brave young lady. Continue to stay blessed my dear. Hugs from Connecticut xo
@@danny_fanta_692_9 If that is who you are, Sweetheart, then do what you need to, to become whole. It's a long, hard road. Do your research, take your time..Choose your doctors carefully. Treat yourself with love. I don't know you, but you have my love and support! XOXO, from Seattle.
Girl! So proud of you, take good care of yourself! I really wish you some healing, in all aspects and i hope everything turns out perfect when you do! Please keep us posted 💗
One line, from the Final Fantasy VII Remake, you might like is "True beauty is an expression of the heart. A thing without shame, to which notions of gender don't apply."
Um.... Any comment you post that you feel the need to say “I’m not trying to offend you, but...” “Not to be rude, but...” “Don’t take this the wrong way, but....” “This is not an insult or a joke btw...” Don’t say it. Because if you feel the need to say that, it probably isn’t necessary to say in the first place.
Finally a video telling more truth about the surgery than all of the videos I have watched on UA-cam. In fact this video has me excited as I myself am scheduled for the surgery in a few months. I want to say thanks for the most detailed informative video I have seen so far👍
Didn't anyone tell you gender is a social construct and you don't need to change your physical sex to be transgender? But please, PLEASE get the surgery. I wish ALL trans people would get the surgery, especially women turning into men. We need as many of these as possible. PLEASE get the surgery!!!
Your video popped up in my feed and i just LOVED how honest, real and Still positive you are!! Gender reassignment surgery IS the BIGGEST and difficult surgery to heal from!! Even back surgery is hard ... But i think what you went through is harder. And i love that you're explaining the truth of how you feel about this stage of your surgery. Super mentally healthy for you. I enjoyed your video. Thank you for sharing it!!!
I myself am a straight male, but I have 3 friends that are trans, and I'm trying my best to understand it and not be a crappy friend. Thank you for documenting your experience!
@@ScienceGuy232 You and the original commenter both sound like amazing friends. Tell your friend that you're putting in this effort. You're not tooting your own horn... you're showing them you care, and learning things without asking them incredibly personal questions.
@@DJMightyChip I'm just worried. In the outside im a very aloof guy but inside I can't stop thinking about his sadness, I couldn't imagine looking at myself in the mirror and feeling so much disgust to the point of doing this extremely agressive procedure. I do not consider myself a good person, but i want to at least show my silent support to him.
You do such a great job at assessing the situation & giving straight forward honest answers. So interesting to hear about the recovery & pain. You are a Rock Star Girl!
I’m so impressed by your composure following what sounds like an awful and scary process. I think you are so brave. Sending loads of love and healing thoughts xx
Maya Thanks for updating us with this video. I have been sitting on the edge of my seat waiting for news. I am so glad to hear that everything is going well.
Good to see you looking well! Bless your heart❤️ Sounds like you have been through a lot! Sorry that you had to be alone during such a challenging time. Continue healing, getting stronger, and feeling better! Prayers and much love, dear one!
Around when I was 15 or 16 years old, I found myself really wishing I'd been born a girl. I am now 34 and have decided I'm happy being a guy, but I still stand by the decision that if I'd had the choice at my conception whether I wanted to be a boy or a girl, I would have chosen girl.
I can’t remember if she said anything about going to the bathroom on her own after. I can imagine both peeing and pooping would be incredibly uncomfortable experiences plus you’re trying to keep that area constantly clean and free of bacteria because you quite literally have open wounds down there. Every aspect of this type of transition and healing has got to be one of the most difficult things a person could go through and I will never understand how anyone could think a person would go through it for attention or as part of a “phase”. If she does read this comment, I’m so happy you’ve got such a wonderful supportive partner and I wish you nothing but the best and a smooth recovery.
Thank you so much for the kind words Ashley! 💗 using the bathroom was definitely an uncomfortable experience for the first couple of weeks! I will try to go into further detail on a future update video! 🙏🏼
You are such a brave young lady to share with all your experiences throughout this process as well as the complete journey. I wish you all the best. Take care.
Been following your channel since 2015 now, and you’ve helped me through some rough times. I really wanna thank you for that, and I hope your recovery will get easier soon. Hugs from Sweden ❤️
You are so brave to be sharing your experience so openly and in such detail. I hope the best for you and your recovery!! You have a new subscriber :) cheers from Seattle Washington x
So glad you're doing well! You're so wonderful for sharing this with all of us, I still watch your 'How to Love Yourself as a Trans Woman' video every time I'm having a rough day ♥♥
I’ve been following you for about 4 years and am so happy you posted. I was thinking of you this past month. It takes time but I have faith you will heal beautifully 💜
I just had my surgery six weeks ago here in the states, so I can relate to almost everything you mentioned. It is nice to hear your experience since I don't know many trans women who have had surgery. I wish you the best with recovery going forward!
Wow 😮 thank you for sharing your experience it's really quite something, I hope you're doing well ♡ even though theres no pictures or anything just your beautiful self talking, I loved listening to you telling us your confirmation story 🥰 the insight into a trans experience is great
God bless you! I'm glad you are doing well and healing beautifully! I am very proud of you for being brave and daring! You ARE a beautiful young lady and I hope you are truly happier more now than ever!! Stay strong!👍😊
I’m a cis female and nurse. Lately, I’ve been watching so many videos regarding GRS and let me just say I’m glad YT led me to your video! First of all you are gorgeous! You are very well-spoken (medical and general wise) and pleasant to watch! You explained everything well and honest. I am sure this video will help trans women decide if they want to do GRS or just relate to your experience. I’m glad you are healing well and doing everything to prevent infection. Wishing for your speedy recovery!😊
Nice you healing well! I’ve been following you for the last years and I feel happy you’re doing it! And that you’re being totally honest about the surgery. Good luck on the recovery! Xoxo
Congratulations, Maya. I’m watching your 1 month post op video, and I’m so happy for you. Thank you for your courage in truthfully sharing your experience with your gender confirmation surgery. I know that you are helping hundreds if not thousands of young women who may be waiting for their own surgery. I have to admit that I’m still learning about all the LGBTQ community and experience, but my daughters have been very patient and generous in explaining things to me. I watch your videos to further educate myself, just I think to be a better person. So again congratulations, and thank you for your videos. Cheers, Ricardo Nascimento
you're literally SO gorgeous!! This all sounds so scary but I'm so glad you're able to make this happen even during the pandemic. You're so brave, and you just gained a subscriber
Wow, never would I guessed what you went through and still are going through. You explained everything so well, while being real. I’m looking forward to seeing a video in the near future, where you are completely healed and happy with the results! Be well! 🤗
Congrats, girl! Not gonna lie, Maya, the whole experience sounds super intense. I’m a bit squeamish/straight up scared of hospitals and medical stuff and I was feeling a lil lightheaded at points during this video! 😅
I have a huge amount of respect and admiration for you. You are incredible in every way. This vid, as well as many of yours, are so well done and are quite emotion evoking. thank you
I love all the information you have given. I'm just 1 year and 2 months into my HRT and have wanted to know anything I could about the surgery and you tell it straight. Your words have given me more understanding on what I can expect and I do thank you for that. You are an amazing and inspirational woman.
Maya, so glad you're through it. Sounds like you could write a nice little screenplay treatment about that Montreal Holiday Inn! Best wishes for a smooth, uneventful full recovery!
Its interesting how we all react differently to the surgery. I was operated on the 14th August and had little pain. But when it came to dilation....horrendous! I remember waking up in the middle of the night a few days after going home and bursting into tears because of the thought of having to continue with dilation with unbearable pain..... but now I'm ok and glad its no longer painful. Good luck and well done xxx
Maya I’ve been here since you started your journey. You’re literal first video...I’m so happy for you. I have faith you’ll heal beautifully and that you’ll soon be up on your feet and fully healed. You are such a great role model for Trans people!
@@paulaharrisbaca4851your existence and opinion here is not only not needed, it's also not welcomed at all. From the same crowd that yells "Stop pushing your agenda" it's pretty ironic that you can't seem to let go of trans safe spaces...Hope you get better soon of whatever is irking you to comment non-stop negativity here.
I'm happy to hear that this is going pretty well for you. I have to say that much of what you described reminded me of my postpartum experience like the sitz bath and the adjustment to the experience of being so exposed as well as the discomfort vs pain discussion. In a sense, I feel like you have experienced giving birth to the new you. I hope you experience great joy as the beautiful woman you are.
So happy that you are now complete. I transitioned in 1988 at 36, and now at 69 planning on getting my SRS next summer now that I can finally afford down here in the states with the cost of $24,500. But, I am really looking forward to it
You're amazing! I'm a closet follower of you and now I'm "out of the closet", with respect to your story. Congratulations on your bravery and your surgery! I work for the L.A. County Public Health Division of HIV and STD programs and I have the pleasure to work with so many of our transgender population here in Los Angeles. I wish you the best in your continued recovery Maya.
A very well put together video again. This was my 2nd one of yours I've seen. Glad your doing these videos. Not really sure I could be as brave as you. Good luck to you in the future.
I really do like how honest you are when talking about the surgery. Like it definitely isnt something to be taken lightly. It really is a lot that trans people have to go through! You're so strong and brave for going through with this. I wish for you a speedy recovery and hope you're healing well!
Wishing you a speedy recovery! I'm not transitioning nor I intend to, so maybe I'm not the target audience, but I wanted to tell you how informative your story was, so thank you for sharing it with us. Sending you love!
Yay your back, we missed you! I had some questions for you and messaged you on Facebook, but now I forgot what they were hehe. I'm starting hormones today! Glad to see your back 💜 ^_^
I love this explanation of the realism of your surgery. I had to get a surgery down there myself and it wasnt for gender reassignment, it was for a pathology or medical issue that developed. It is traumatic getting surgery there, especially when things become changed in appearance and in functionality. I could really relate to this vlog. I thought Maya was so brave to be real about this and it is very high maintenance to get that part of the body to recover. It seems really unfair that some people do not feel they are born into the right body. I am ready for a new different body myself, but I think lots of people can be unhappy inside their body, its not just a gender thing. So to be compassionate for those who are not happy in their body, to honor in your case the difficulty of what you have been through to find your inner peace. This is how to be a supportive human. Bless you dear Maya
Thank you so much for this video. I'm preparing for GRS surgery and I've been talking to all my friends who have had it and they all say the same things. I love hearing others experiences so I can prepare. BTW you're absolutely beautiful and I wish you so much love, mental,emotional and physical wellness, a speedy safe recovery and many blessings and positive vibes 💖💯😘 be encouraged and strong 😊
Isn't it strange that we focus on a result but not the individual steps necessary to achieve victory. Hang in there and carry on. A year or two from now you'll look back and understand how strong a person you were and are to persevere and succeed!
Honestly, I appreciate you so much, Like Alot. This was so helpful especially the visuals on the catheter (WHICH FREAKED ME OUT). I've been sitting on the GRS application form for 2 weeks now because I'm just not sure if i'm prepared mentally and this video gave me my answer. I definitely need more time, research and probably a shoulder to cry on lol! Thank you so much for sharing your journey, I look forward to more updates & a speedy recovery!
It is certainly seems a traumatic situation. Not that it is "bad" it seems more it is in an overwhelming context. I am a cis male 49 years old but very open-minded and empathetic student of life. Always been fascinated in how, we as humans, find our way to make things better for ourselves and eachother. It does seem to be a thing that you can digest and accept better once you're at a point of "Zen" about. I wish you the best, yourself, no matter what choices you make and when you do! Keep your support network tight and never regret being YOU no matter where that journey takes you!
11 months later 1st time seeing this...girl you did the damn thing amazing that you went through this in that manner...I would need full sedation don't wake me til its over type thing. Amazing glad you're doing well and thnx for taking the time to make this video. Yell are so gallant
Congratulations on the success of your surgery. As an "old fart", I've had numerous operations, so your descriptions of the pain, discomfort, annoyance of the hospital food and general reactions to the surgery seem to me to be spot on. Hospital food has improved dramatically over the past 50 years; one of my meals when I was young was cold meatloaf and mushy peas! Your boyfriend deserves a big "thank you" for his attention to your well being. Stay safe, stay sane and enjoy life. My hope is that you continue to do well and have a long and loving life. namaste, Roger
Thank you so much for doing this video! I know it's something so intimate you've shared, but it was so informative, and it will help so many people like me. ❤️ I am approved for an Orchi first very soon (due to certain complications), and will be doing full SRS in a year or so, both in the same clinic as you. TBH I'm kind of terrified about the whole thing, so it's good to know what to expect.
Maya, I'm so happy for you. Glad you're healing well. Your videos first came up on my feed three days ago and I've been keeping up with your progress. You are the first transgender I have been super happy for. I'm happy for all who got the opportunity to make it as far as you. Please keep the videos coming. We all want to know more of Maya's journey. 💖
You will get through it love, just know that the aesthetic will turn out good eventually and that your hard work will be so worth it when you are fully healed. It is so liberating once you get through the hard part and you can just be for the first time In life. You got this girl! Stay positive.
You brave,BRAVE girl. I am so impressed with your honesty and your intelligence.And I've always been curious about gender reassignment surgery or whatever the correct term is. And your explanation was very thorough,so thank you. Going forward I hope all goes wonderfully well for you and I wish you much health and happiness.
It will get better at 2 months and you will see what shes going to look like more. I used topical cream on my incisions which helped with the healing and scaring. also bamboo silica vitamins for skin hair and nails.
Chelsea. Wow - after researching bamboo silica vitamins for skin hair and nails - I want to use this for myself as a normal part of the rest of my life - not only for my skin health but also to help with the problem I have been having with hair breaking when brushing my hair. I just have wanted my hair long ever since I was a teenager. So now at over 60+ and at 9-Months 20-Days on Hormones -- and 1-Year 4-Months 7-Days of living full-time authentically -- and having already been growing my hair long for years -- for me this is really an emotional thing because of how much I love my long hair. Then too with my nails included -- you have really touched my heart. Thank-You can never tell you how much I deeply appreciate learning about Bamboo Silica Vitamins for skin, hair and nails. From the depth of my heart -- Thank-You, Love, Daisy Rose
You are such a great person, I'm looking at getting GRS within the next year and its so helpful to have other women talk about what it is like so I can prepare myself mentally 😊❤
@@aaliyahmacintosh5794 no, I won't. I am a 22 year old woman and I am in the medical field. Just because SOME regret it doesn't mean all of us will let alone me with my background
@@aaliyahmacintosh5794 and after looking at your other hateful comments I can tell you that I don't care what you say. Take your "you still look like a man" comments to us and shove them
Thank you soo much for this video! As someone who is simply nosey this saves asking someone an intrusive question. You look soo natural, congratulations on your transition xx
My best friend will be going through this more than likely in the next 6 to 7 months and I want to learn all I can so I can be there for her. I want her to still be seen by someone just so she doesn't get depressed afterwards. I don't know a whole lot but maybe I can help some ❤️ you are absolutely Beautiful 😍
A friend of mine had this surgery a few years ago and it was a huge success. She ultimately healed beautifully and has gorgeous lady parts. Wish the same for you. Hugs and support..
@@bananaspice1967 it’s weird that op said “she has gorgeous lady parts” which means that those two friends are probably being NSFW with each other. How else would op know that the ‘friend’ has “gorgeous lady parts.”
I grew up with Gene who went through this process. You were recommended. I watched and subscribed. Gene did all this in 10 years.. She became the person she dreamed of. You will too. Its more forgiving nowadays.. Gene had alot of negatives to walk through. Heal well. Love from Los Angeles ✝
Im a 64 year old CIS male and I have no idea why your videos popped up on my feed - but this is the 4th one I've watched and I just want to say you're an amazing person. You are so freakin' brave and together given everything - more than most who don't have your adjustments to deal with. I know you will survive and thrive - best of luck and have an amazing life!
Adorable 💖💖💖
Your confidence she will be okay, that's so good to read. Ah, it'll be okay, she can cope with anything... Thank you for posting.
this is such a sweet message, we need more people like you ❤️
you’re a good man, ken. thank you for supporting t girls!! 💓
What is a "cis" male? You mean male???
I’m so glad you’re doing alright and healing well, great video! 💚
Thank you Samantha 🙏🏼♥️😊
@@Mayavhenry you are my dream girl in the world becouse you are very very beautiful 💋😍😘❤
No pls when day you will regret when you grow up 🤮🤮🤮 just be happy the way god create you omg and good luck in the grave and hereafter l wish all the best
@@osmanxxrngxx1369 boy stfu
@@osmanxxrngxx1369 boomer🤢🖕🏻
After many years in the medical field I can say without a doubt this is most REAL strait up honest talk I’ve heard. Best of luck .
I stumbled across this video and I really must say, she’s a gifted storyteller.
Best of luck doll
Love & Light from Miami🦚✌🏼
Stay safe everyone🌎🙏🏼
@@katherinea.williams3044 she is. I love her voice and I love listening to her.
Agreed. No stupid outtakes, no staring into the view finder all the time, no life story explaining why her hair or face “looks a certain way today” and no “ um”/ “erm”/ “like”... very refreshing!
"Her"
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Thank you for your honesty. My granddaughter will be going through this in a year so it is nice to know what will be happening.
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@@leangroundbeef2322 ?
i know your granddaughter is so grateful for your acceptance. you are a good women, ma,am. stay blessed and safe
Sad to hear because only god has the right to choose your gender, you don’t .On what authority can you say to god , I’m not a man I’m a woman.
@@Nick-lr3ik Not everyone believes in your god, whichever may it be.
My girlfriend still isn’t sure if she wants GRS or not so I’m trying to watch and read up as much as I can so I know what she might go through and experience if that’s what she decides to do further down the line. This was really informative and helpful for partners of trans people who want to support their SOs through surgery and transitioning, thank you so much and I hope recovery goes well for you! ❤️
Not sure where she is considering for surgery. But for most it is not too bad. Typically in the uk, 1 week in hospital. Surgery on the first day, with a few days bed rest. 5 days later, catheter out and allowed out of bed, and dilating starts (3 times a day). 2 days later sent home. 2 weeks at home before being allowed out. Another week until allowed to drive.
Dilating 3 times a day for 8 weeks, slowly reducing until once a week.
Pain minimal. Far less than you would expect. Paracetamol was all that was required after a couple of days.
Worst part with some surgeons was 3 days of a “clear liquid diet”.
This is the most adorable post!
Best of luck to you and your girlfriend for the future, I hope that whatever she decides to do goes well❤️
Hell na
So adorable x
This is a decision you will regret for eternity. Seek God before you do any such thing.
I’ve never heard anyone share the intimate details of a surgery like this, and so thank you for courageously sharing this. I hope that several months down the road, you’ve found that going through with this procedure has brought you every bit of fulfillment you felt you were lacking & more. You’re a beautiful, brave young lady. Continue to stay blessed my dear. Hugs from Connecticut xo
Thank you Allyson 💗🙏🏼
This right here!!!
@@Mayavhenry I want to become a woman.
beautiful words of love and affection for such a beautiful person elegant charming Just like this goddess
@@danny_fanta_692_9 If that is who you are, Sweetheart, then do what you need to, to become whole. It's a long, hard road. Do your research, take your time..Choose your doctors carefully. Treat yourself with love. I don't know you, but you have my love and support! XOXO, from Seattle.
I'm 6 months HRT and thank you for your video. You did a great job elaborating and giving me the confidence in my dicision.
Decision
@Follower yes she’s technically female
Think very hard about neutering yourself.
Keep it up. Dm me if you need a friend
@@seanjohnston1355 hi
Girl! So proud of you, take good care of yourself! I really wish you some healing, in all aspects and i hope everything turns out perfect when you do! Please keep us posted 💗
One line, from the Final Fantasy VII Remake, you might like is "True beauty is an expression of the heart. A thing without shame, to which notions of gender don't apply."
This is actually a great quote that I fully agree with.
Andrea is such a good chatacter
You look like Chloe Grace Moretz and Amanda Seyfred had a baby together.
That was NOT an insult by the way.
And sounds like hulk hogan
Um.... Any comment you post that you feel the need to say “I’m not trying to offend you, but...” “Not to be rude, but...” “Don’t take this the wrong way, but....” “This is not an insult or a joke btw...” Don’t say it. Because if you feel the need to say that, it probably isn’t necessary to say in the first place.
@@Marshie_12237 Well I guess the 76 people who liked my comment don't agree with you.
How is that an insult, do you mean Amanda Seyfried? cause I would take that as a compliment they're both beautiful women
@@idaormark3079 yep
I haven't checked in with Maya's videos for quite a while. So happy for her that she had this surgery! Wishing her many years of happiness to come.
Finally a video telling more truth about the surgery than all of the videos I have watched on UA-cam. In fact this video has me excited as I myself am scheduled for the surgery in a few months. I want to say thanks for the most detailed informative video I have seen so far👍
Didn't anyone tell you gender is a social construct and you don't need to change your physical sex to be transgender? But please, PLEASE get the surgery. I wish ALL trans people would get the surgery, especially women turning into men. We need as many of these as possible. PLEASE get the surgery!!!
Your video popped up in my feed and i just LOVED how honest, real and Still positive you are!! Gender reassignment surgery IS the BIGGEST and difficult surgery to heal from!! Even back surgery is hard ... But i think what you went through is harder. And i love that you're explaining the truth of how you feel about this stage of your surgery. Super mentally healthy for you. I enjoyed your video. Thank you for sharing it!!!
Yay Maya! So happy for you! Thank you for describing everything in detail. These are things one does not consider often when contemplating surgery.
I myself am a straight male, but I have 3 friends that are trans, and I'm trying my best to understand it and not be a crappy friend. Thank you for documenting your experience!
I am exactly in the same spot, my long time friend is going through this
@@ScienceGuy232 You and the original commenter both sound like amazing friends. Tell your friend that you're putting in this effort. You're not tooting your own horn... you're showing them you care, and learning things without asking them incredibly personal questions.
@@DJMightyChip I'm just worried. In the outside im a very aloof guy but inside I can't stop thinking about his sadness, I couldn't imagine looking at myself in the mirror and feeling so much disgust to the point of doing this extremely agressive procedure. I do not consider myself a good person, but i want to at least show my silent support to him.
Try fucking tham. That is the best way to understand them.
@@012751W124K that’s not an option for many reasons, so I’ll just have to do the best I can…
You do such a great job at assessing the situation & giving straight forward honest answers. So interesting to hear about the recovery & pain. You are a Rock Star Girl!
I’m so impressed by your composure following what sounds like an awful and scary process. I think you are so brave. Sending loads of love and healing thoughts xx
Maya
Thanks for updating us with this video. I have been sitting on the edge of my seat waiting for news.
I am so glad to hear that everything is going well.
Good to see you looking well! Bless your heart❤️ Sounds like you have been through a lot! Sorry that you had to be alone during such a challenging time. Continue healing, getting stronger, and feeling better! Prayers and much love, dear one!
Thank you Debbie 💗
Around when I was 15 or 16 years old, I found myself really wishing I'd been born a girl. I am now 34 and have decided I'm happy being a guy, but I still stand by the decision that if I'd had the choice at my conception whether I wanted to be a boy or a girl, I would have chosen girl.
oh honey. how are you doing now?
@@oliviaburch7971 I'm fine now. Maybe if reincarnation exists, I can be reborn as a human female in a future life.
I can’t remember if she said anything about going to the bathroom on her own after. I can imagine both peeing and pooping would be incredibly uncomfortable experiences plus you’re trying to keep that area constantly clean and free of bacteria because you quite literally have open wounds down there. Every aspect of this type of transition and healing has got to be one of the most difficult things a person could go through and I will never understand how anyone could think a person would go through it for attention or as part of a “phase”. If she does read this comment, I’m so happy you’ve got such a wonderful supportive partner and I wish you nothing but the best and a smooth recovery.
Thank you so much for the kind words Ashley! 💗 using the bathroom was definitely an uncomfortable experience for the first couple of weeks! I will try to go into further detail on a future update video! 🙏🏼
@@Mayavhenry that must have been so painful! Like one huge UTI 😬
It's not one of the most difficult things s person can go through... trust me on that!!
@@Mayavhenry I remember carrying the hemorrhoid cushion around! Having to wear maxi pads. Sits baths and dilating taking up so much time!
@@mmojorissen it may be the worst thing she will go through and I think that’s what she meant. Of course they’re worse things other people go through.
Has it been one month already?? Crazy! Happy for you Maya :)
Time goes by so quickly 💗
Wow you are really beautiful and brave. To go through that huge operation and pain your truly an amazing person many blessings 🙏 ❤ 🌹
You are such a brave young lady to share with all your experiences throughout this process as well as the complete journey. I wish you all the best. Take care.
Been following your channel since 2015 now, and you’ve helped me through some rough times. I really wanna thank you for that, and I hope your recovery will get easier soon. Hugs from Sweden ❤️
You are so brave to be sharing your experience so openly and in such detail. I hope the best for you and your recovery!! You have a new subscriber :) cheers from Seattle Washington x
Thank you 🙏🏼💗
Thanks for your honesty! You really did a great job of explaining the process!
congratulations lady, i hope the rest of your life is blessed with all the happiness one heart can hold.
So glad you're doing well! You're so wonderful for sharing this with all of us, I still watch your 'How to Love Yourself as a Trans Woman' video every time I'm having a rough day ♥♥
I’ve been following you for about 4 years and am so happy you posted. I was thinking of you this past month. It takes time but I have faith you will heal beautifully 💜
Thank you, for that.
youre so pretty!!
@@MrJamiez I’m bi, a holes a hole
I can’t stop watching this information is so useful and it’s incredibly immersive.
I just had my surgery six weeks ago here in the states, so I can relate to almost everything you mentioned. It is nice to hear your experience since I don't know many trans women who have had surgery.
I wish you the best with recovery going forward!
Its great to see you! I cant imagine being conscious during that surgery. I hope it doesnt hurt so much now
Wow 😮 thank you for sharing your experience it's really quite something, I hope you're doing well ♡ even though theres no pictures or anything just your beautiful self talking, I loved listening to you telling us your confirmation story 🥰 the insight into a trans experience is great
God bless you! I'm glad you are doing well and healing beautifully! I am very proud of you for being brave and daring! You ARE a beautiful young lady and I hope you are truly happier more now than ever!! Stay strong!👍😊
I’m a cis female and nurse. Lately, I’ve been watching so many videos regarding GRS and let me just say I’m glad YT led me to your video! First of all you are gorgeous! You are very well-spoken (medical and general wise) and pleasant to watch! You explained everything well and honest. I am sure this video will help trans women decide if they want to do GRS or just relate to your experience. I’m glad you are healing well and doing everything to prevent infection. Wishing for your speedy recovery!😊
Thank you for the kind words Mica! 💗
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Been watching forever and I’m so happy for you! 💕
Nice you healing well! I’ve been following you for the last years and I feel happy you’re doing it! And that you’re being totally honest about the surgery. Good luck on the recovery! Xoxo
Such a pretty, personable, and brave girl!
Thanks for picturing this "adventure" so truly. Usually girls just picture it wonderful and not much to go through.
Congratulations, Maya. I’m watching your 1 month post op video, and I’m so happy for you. Thank you for your courage in truthfully sharing your experience with your gender confirmation surgery. I know that you are helping hundreds if not thousands of young women who may be waiting for their own surgery.
I have to admit that I’m still learning about all the LGBTQ community and experience, but my daughters have been very patient and generous in explaining things to me. I watch your videos to further educate myself, just I think to be a better person.
So again congratulations, and thank you for your videos.
Cheers,
Ricardo Nascimento
You're so strong Maya. So happy for you. 💕
This is so inspiring. You are so inspiring! I hope you heal well and continue to grow into the person you have always meant to be 🤍
you're literally SO gorgeous!! This all sounds so scary but I'm so glad you're able to make this happen even during the pandemic. You're so brave, and you just gained a subscriber
Wow, never would I guessed what you went through and still are going through. You explained everything so well, while being real. I’m looking forward to seeing a video in the near future, where you are completely healed and happy with the results! Be well! 🤗
Thank you Laura 💗
Awwe Bless your heart! I’m sorry you had to endure all that. I hope you continue to heal and be well. Prayers for a speedy recovery.🙏🙏🙏🥰🥰🥰
I am so wishing you the absolute best Maya! You made me cry just feeling your ... whole journey.
It’s so cool watching this as a trans male to see what we go through similarly but also so different
Yeah, I still appreciate, so thanks.
No, it is not "cool".
@@danielmconnolly7 yeah, it’s interesting.
Congrats, girl!
Not gonna lie, Maya, the whole experience sounds super intense. I’m a bit squeamish/straight up scared of hospitals and medical stuff and I was feeling a lil lightheaded at points during this video! 😅
I have a huge amount of respect and admiration for you. You are incredible in every way. This vid, as well as many of yours, are so well done and are quite emotion evoking. thank you
I love all the information you have given. I'm just 1 year and 2 months into my HRT and have wanted to know anything I could about the surgery and you tell it straight. Your words have given me more understanding on what I can expect and I do thank you for that. You are an amazing and inspirational woman.
Maya, so glad you're through it. Sounds like you could write a nice little screenplay treatment about that Montreal Holiday Inn! Best wishes for a smooth, uneventful full recovery!
I’m so happy for you. I hope you have a speedy recovery and you’re rocking the robe look btw 💖
Your honesty is astounding. Thank you for your candor.
Thankyou. This is really helpful. I've got my surgery this year and really good to have an idea what to expect x
Its interesting how we all react differently to the surgery. I was operated on the 14th August and had little pain. But when it came to dilation....horrendous! I remember waking up in the middle of the night a few days after going home and bursting into tears because of the thought of having to continue with dilation with unbearable pain..... but now I'm ok and glad its no longer painful. Good luck and well done xxx
Maya I’ve been here since you started your journey. You’re literal first video...I’m so happy for you. I have faith you’ll heal beautifully and that you’ll soon be up on your feet and fully healed. You are such a great role model for Trans people!
Wow, that is amazing to hear, Jeremy! Thank you for all of the support over the years. 🙏🏼💗
I feel so afraid for how you guys and gals will feel about this in 10 years. BUT I sense you will be incredibly wealthy after you get a good attorney.
@@paulaharrisbaca4851your existence and opinion here is not only not needed, it's also not welcomed at all. From the same crowd that yells "Stop pushing your agenda" it's pretty ironic that you can't seem to let go of trans safe spaces...Hope you get better soon of whatever is irking you to comment non-stop negativity here.
I'm happy to hear that this is going pretty well for you. I have to say that much of what you described reminded me of my postpartum experience like the sitz bath and the adjustment to the experience of being so exposed as well as the discomfort vs pain discussion. In a sense, I feel like you have experienced giving birth to the new you. I hope you experience great joy as the beautiful woman you are.
You speak beautifully and honestly, thank you! I wish you a smooth recovery.
So happy that you are now complete. I transitioned in 1988 at 36, and now at 69 planning on getting my SRS next summer now that I can finally afford down here in the states with the cost of $24,500. But, I am really looking forward to it
Congratulations! I'm so happy that you're finally able to get your surgery!💜 I hope you have a safe and speedy recovery!
Hey there! How have you been doing? Did you get the surgery? Would love to hear about your experience!
@@sinemguclukol1932 Yes I did. Got it July 6th of last year, healed fast with very minimal pain, and I haven't been any happier at 7 mos post-op
Can't wait for chat, have to work. Wishing you a happy recovery.🎉
Maya, thank you for sharing your experiences with us. Wish a speedy and happy recovery.
What a frank and informative explanation of your surgery experience. Thank you.
I had mine on Oct 20th. And I am right there with ya girl! This is a life changing surgery. You have to relearn yourself all over again
You're amazing! I'm a closet follower of you and now I'm "out of the closet", with respect to your story. Congratulations on your bravery and your surgery! I work for the L.A. County Public Health Division of HIV and STD programs and I have the pleasure to work with so many of our transgender population here in Los Angeles. I wish you the best in your continued recovery Maya.
A very well put together video again. This was my 2nd one of yours I've seen. Glad your doing these videos. Not really sure I could be as brave as you. Good luck to you in the future.
I really do like how honest you are when talking about the surgery. Like it definitely isnt something to be taken lightly. It really is a lot that trans people have to go through! You're so strong and brave for going through with this. I wish for you a speedy recovery and hope you're healing well!
Came for the taco , not disappointed
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@Alex Reviews 😋🤪
I love tacos. O course, I'm thinking the kind with cilantro, braised onions, radishes...
I'm hungery.
Wishing you a speedy recovery!
I'm not transitioning nor I intend to, so maybe I'm not the target audience, but I wanted to tell you how informative your story was, so thank you for sharing it with us.
Sending you love!
Just found your account! Really appreciate your detailed story, thank you. Stay well and hope you heal quickly ❤️
Congratulations! You look positively stunning! I hope you heal to perfection & thrive going forward.
Yay your back, we missed you! I had some questions for you and messaged you on Facebook, but now I forgot what they were hehe. I'm starting hormones today! Glad to see your back 💜 ^_^
Thank you for opening up and sharing your personal journey. Wishing you the best!
Thank you for sharing your honest experience, we wish you continued healing and comfort.
Bro you're insane.
*sis
Bro I thought the same think, like that dude is insane
He said what is said, bro
I love this explanation of the realism of your surgery. I had to get a surgery down there myself and it wasnt for gender reassignment, it was for a pathology or medical issue that developed. It is traumatic getting surgery there, especially when things become changed in appearance and in functionality. I could really relate to this vlog. I thought Maya was so brave to be real about this and it is very high maintenance to get that part of the body to recover. It seems really unfair that some people do not feel they are born into the right body. I am ready for a new different body myself, but I think lots of people can be unhappy inside their body, its not just a gender thing. So to be compassionate for those who are not happy in their body, to honor in your case the difficulty of what you have been through to find your inner peace. This is how to be a supportive human. Bless you dear Maya
Thank you so much for this video. I'm preparing for GRS surgery and I've been talking to all my friends who have had it and they all say the same things. I love hearing others experiences so I can prepare. BTW you're absolutely beautiful and I wish you so much love, mental,emotional and physical wellness, a speedy safe recovery and many blessings and positive vibes 💖💯😘 be encouraged and strong 😊
Isn't it strange that we focus on a result but not the individual steps necessary to achieve victory.
Hang in there and carry on.
A year or two from now you'll look back and understand how strong a person you were and are to persevere and succeed!
This journey sound so scary i dont think i am ready. but you’re so brave recover well love ❤️
Honestly, I appreciate you so much, Like Alot. This was so helpful especially the visuals on the catheter (WHICH FREAKED ME OUT). I've been sitting on the GRS application form for 2 weeks now because I'm just not sure if i'm prepared mentally and this video gave me my answer. I definitely need more time, research and probably a shoulder to cry on lol!
Thank you so much for sharing your journey, I look forward to more updates & a speedy recovery!
It is certainly seems a traumatic situation. Not that it is "bad" it seems more it is in an overwhelming context. I am a cis male 49 years old but very open-minded and empathetic student of life.
Always been fascinated in how, we as humans, find our way to make things better for ourselves and eachother.
It does seem to be a thing that you can digest and accept better once you're at a point of "Zen" about. I wish you the best, yourself, no matter what choices you make and when you do! Keep your support network tight and never regret being YOU no matter where that journey takes you!
You are such a strong, courageous, beautiful young woman. Sincere wishes for a full and beautiful recovery. 💜
11 months later 1st time seeing this...girl you did the damn thing amazing that you went through this in that manner...I would need full sedation don't wake me til its over type thing. Amazing glad you're doing well and thnx for taking the time to make this video. Yell are so gallant
Thank you so much for a great video. You are so smart, so informative, funny...and ofcourse a bombshell
Congratulations on the success of your surgery. As an "old fart", I've had numerous operations, so your descriptions of the pain, discomfort, annoyance of the hospital food and general reactions to the surgery seem to me to be spot on. Hospital food has improved dramatically over the past 50 years; one of my meals when I was young was cold meatloaf and mushy peas! Your boyfriend deserves a big "thank you" for his attention to your well being. Stay safe, stay sane and enjoy life. My hope is that you continue to do well and have a long and loving life. namaste, Roger
Thank you so much for doing this video! I know it's something so intimate you've shared, but it was so informative, and it will help so many people like me. ❤️ I am approved for an Orchi first very soon (due to certain complications), and will be doing full SRS in a year or so, both in the same clinic as you. TBH I'm kind of terrified about the whole thing, so it's good to know what to expect.
Your voice is soooo soothing. Thank you for sharing your experience with us! Educating QUEEN :)
Maya, I'm so happy for you. Glad you're healing well. Your videos first came up on my feed three days ago and I've been keeping up with your progress. You are the first transgender I have been super happy for. I'm happy for all who got the opportunity to make it as far as you. Please keep the videos coming. We all want to know more of Maya's journey. 💖
You will get through it love, just know that the aesthetic will turn out good eventually and that your hard work will be so worth it when you are fully healed. It is so liberating once you get through the hard part and you can just be for the first time In life. You got this girl! Stay positive.
Thank you Capri Celia 💗💗💗
You brave,BRAVE girl. I am so impressed with your honesty and your intelligence.And I've always been curious about gender reassignment surgery or whatever the correct term is. And your explanation was very thorough,so thank you. Going forward I hope all goes wonderfully well for you and I wish you much health and happiness.
So crazy, your experience with this surgery was almost identical to my c-section surgery!! I can relate so much!
It will get better at 2 months and you will see what shes going to look
like more. I used topical cream on my incisions which helped with the
healing and scaring. also bamboo silica vitamins for skin hair and
nails.
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@@daisyrose9968 Your Welcome... I’m glad I could help
You are such a great person, I'm looking at getting GRS within the next year and its so helpful to have other women talk about what it is like so I can prepare myself mentally 😊❤
@Code_
DONT DO IT!!!!
You will live to regret this decision.
@@aaliyahmacintosh5794 no, I won't. I am a 22 year old woman and I am in the medical field. Just because SOME regret it doesn't mean all of us will let alone me with my background
@@aaliyahmacintosh5794 and after looking at your other hateful comments I can tell you that I don't care what you say. Take your "you still look like a man" comments to us and shove them
@@lollollolskeet That was a constructive criticism advice!! How dare you tell me to shove it!!!
It’s okay - I still pray for you 🙏🏼
As a straight guy, I would of never guessed you had reassignment surgery. You are rocking womanhood.
@J K lmao no, cis women can also have deeper voices. Either way, she's a woman
As a gay man I would have known. But what relevance does mentioning your sexuality have?
@@aerokayo6137 hi how? Ty
Thank you soo much for this video! As someone who is simply nosey this saves asking someone an intrusive question.
You look soo natural, congratulations on your transition xx
My best friend will be going through this more than likely in the next 6 to 7 months and I want to learn all I can so I can be there for her. I want her to still be seen by someone just so she doesn't get depressed afterwards. I don't know a whole lot but maybe I can help some ❤️ you are absolutely Beautiful 😍
You are so sweet xx
If he/she is your best friend, convince her/him not to mutilate her /his body!
A friend of mine had this surgery a few years ago and it was a huge success. She ultimately healed beautifully and has gorgeous lady parts. Wish the same for you. Hugs and support..
thats fucking wierd
@@Bountylicious And why is that weird?
@@bananaspice1967 it is.
@@armellentalaja3972 Still not giving a reason why that's weird
@@bananaspice1967 it’s weird that op said “she has gorgeous lady parts” which means that those two friends are probably being NSFW with each other. How else would op know that the ‘friend’ has “gorgeous lady parts.”
I grew up with Gene who went through this process. You were recommended. I watched and subscribed. Gene did all this in 10 years.. She became the person she dreamed of. You will too. Its more forgiving nowadays.. Gene had alot of negatives to walk through.
Heal well.
Love from Los Angeles
✝
Bravo, I hope your recovery goes well. You’re the first person to be so honest about your progression to your gender. Best wishes for your new life.
I could listen to her talk all day. Just so eloquent, even when speaking candidly about something so private ♡
Eloquent.