Dangerous Dog Causes Trouble and Attacks Kids!😱 | Full Episode | It's Me or The Dog
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- A dangerous, hyperactive dog is causing trouble for a couple and their two kids. Victoria works to create a safe haven for the family and their pet.
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So, this dude forgot an anniversary present, got his wife a random dog from the store instead, and then left her to care for it by herself, while raising his children..? True husband material
Preach
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I bet there was a lot more that happened off-screen (such as, say, talks of divorce? With the footage from the show alone, Momma’d get custody, hands down). I am glad they kept that off-screen, though.
Him calm😌 the Wife☠️
Fr. Idk how the mom is still sane
The first half of this episode made me angry to see how overwhelmed and stressed that poor woman is, and how the husband wasn't helping with the house, kids, and dog. He has ONE morning of dealing with what she does 24/7 and he said he was exhausted... um dude, what the hell do you think your wife feels? She doesn't get a break, she doesn't get to "decompress after work", she is taking care of everything all the time.
Me too but I stayed angry. Seriously, I don't know how Victoria keeps her cool. She always sees it and makes them pay somehow but it's short lived. As you can see at the end, mom and kids are the ones training the dog.
I seriously can’t stand the husband about the fact of how rude he is towards his family an not helping her with everything it’s sad because she’s so stressed out
The husband annoyed me. I was surprised, yet glad, he changed. Victoria is amazing
This unfortunately is quite common with husbands that work outside the house. I don't have dogs (I have cats) and I had the same issue with him not being helpful and supportive and consistent with cat training. Thus, I was constantly cleaning up the place because the kitten was crapping everywhere. The female cats started peeing on exclusively my items and displaying territorial behaviors towards me, which added stress to the both of us.
I feel the same. Honestly I would never tolerate a partner who behaved like the husband.
The dad is awful. Doubting Victoria’s expertise, labelling hyperactive as a “screw loose”, buying a dog from a mall (🤯🤯) as a last minute present and then dumping all of the burden onto his wife, no research or consideration of what it takes to raise a puppy, feeling victimised and oppressed that his wife has been invited to the beach for a break. His wife’s face & appearance is screaming stress. She probably aged 15 years since getting the dog. I’m glad Victoria was able to show him the error of his ways and he made a change.
EXACTLY an he said a dog with ADHD was a "spacial needs dog" like???
God this is so true, he gave him to her as a present and well…
They'd benefit from training with The Dog Daddy.
She aged 15 years marrying a man-child! She oughta dump him with the dog and let him figure out his life.
FACTS
Joe is the only part of the furniture that isn't shredded😂
🤭 nice!
😂😂😂
Best comment! 😂
😂😂😂
Funny but it's not funny if you know what i mean 😮
You take a puppy, don’t exercice him, keep him 8 EIGHT hours in a crate and then you wonder why he acts out???
Please don’t take a dog if you are not willing to take care of him.
But but but... I thought it was like an electrical toy you can turn on and off. And when it is broken or doesn't fit your lifestyle anymore you can simply return him...
Also buying dogs from a store is often a red flag, because they are often traumatized by people that work there and do not know how to handle them.
@@oscurasignora They're also very poorly bred and riddled with genetic issues, and have had little to no socialization with people. Forget basic training or house breaking. Selling live animals in retail stores should be illegal.
exactly what I think! it's an absurd!
@@genthespacewitch Yes, it should definitely be illegal like it is in most European countries.
Not the dad saying I cleaned the house “for” his wife 🙄like it ain’t his house too
And a classic example of choosing "outside" chores. It's mainly a legit way to get away from the family.
Yup, and he says it like he expects a pat on the back or a participation trophy🙄
him calling ADHD or special needs a "screw loose," I hope their kid didn't also have ADHD or other neurodivergence yikes
I mean I see dogs and small children on the same level but that was a very ableist comment!
Yeah, Joe was being very ableist. It made me very uncomfortable.
Youre so right
A lot of people are still being raised in an antiquated way of thinking about disability and it's important to see this to gain a deeper understanding of how it happens and how we can fully move past it in the future.
I had to live with relatives like this for a while who, funnily enough, also kept several dogs in cages for most of the day, had zero control over their behavior, and claimed to be too tired every day to train them. I had to move out when their behavior towards me over my disability became hostile. I don't know what became of the dogs.
Remember it's a "sound bite" and may not represent his more human, complex, and family man feelings.
Victoria is so good with kids, too. She is really a family therapist in these episodes! I loved seeing how she explained the issue to Shane.
Lol yep, thats because really young kids and dogs are basically on the same intellectual level.
She's awesome
It's all behavioral psychology really
When I walked and trained dogs I often ended up as a free therapist for clients, it is exhausting and I had no idea to expect that when I started
How the hell you know that
I have a very active boy and he definitely needs (and is getting) the same approach - totally different to the other kids who are more introverted and mindful of what their doing.
"I'm tired after work" SHE IS TIRED TOO! She just got done dealing with your dog and your kids ALL DAY!
The weaponized incompetence from Joe makes my eyes rolls ugh. His wife is being run ragged and he doesn’t seem to have any awareness to the work she puts in.
He’s aware. He doesn’t give a damn.
Wow, what an accurate description , of Joe's nauseating attitude . How is it you called this one, " Weaponized Indifference "? Or something akin to that.
@@user-digitalfarmgirl The term is specifically "weaponized incompetence". Not always, but usually men in relationships purposefully poorly execute or all together avoid doing for instance household tasks so that when the woman in the relationship gets tired of redoing the poorly done task or asking the man to pick up his slack, she does it for him.
It can also extend to lack of effort in relationships themselves. The woman might care about doing things for their partner and takes the time and effort to ask, plan and do them while the man usually thinks it's the "woman's" duty to do "such things" and rarely, if ever, thinks his partner is worth his effort. It has recently been a frequently used term on social media, especially on TikTok.
@@artlover5060 thank you for expounding upon that for me . I think it's a fairly accurate term for what you described. It sounds like mind games. I never did that crap with either of my late husbands & they didn't do it with me, because we realized life is too short for that kind of crap. Being a team & on the same page is very fulfilling & meaningful. I loved being married to my husbands . They were very good men & I will always miss them. A working Marriage between two people, is work & requires effort . It's not 50/50. If it was, that would mean you're going Into a union with only half .
It's actually 100 / 100 , you should go in as a whole person. It seems defeatist to enact weaponized incompetence, it only makes things harder & take much longer to accomplish. What a headache. Most People are so ignorant and self centered & self destructive. Thank you again for the definition & description of such a lame dynamic between two people united by Marriage & working against eachother. Wow. Super lame.
Make puppy mills illegal
Absolutely.... But that doesn't solve the problem of the massive ignorance of people about pets though.
The problem is they haven't set any rules or training in place for children or dog. Dog is just a permanent puppy as he knows no different. The actions of children are encouraging the behaviour. Mostly common sense isn't being used
Puppy mills pay lits of taxes, permits, ect...
@@sandrawillis8966 Labradors stay puppies forever you know
I’m a mother to a 5 year old, have a low energy dog, a competent husband who is always willing to help and it’s STILL a lot of work. I can’t imagine how this woman felt. 🥺
I laughed at the fact that she trained the child too
There's practically no difference between training a puppy and a toddler.
*Nanny
Most ppl who can afford me have had their poorly trained "fur babies" for yrs before baby and I entered the picture. Poorly trained animals are dangerous around babies, so I've taken to training the animals who need it just to safeguard baby. What else can you do? LOL
It's important for children to learn how to handle an animal. Especially if that animal has shown aggression like biting.
There is nothing strange or funny about it. Dog training is 95% training the human, 5% training the dog!!!
Any pet owner should realize this, BEFORE having a pet.
Also, while educating the son with the stop light game, she 100% also educated the parents, which is even more important. But she didn't do that in their face as she also knows when she educated the son in this playful manner, the parents would be far more open minded and pick these things up, instead of when she would do that right in their face. Because if the latter, adults often close up, go into defensive mode, go in denial, etc... This is simple human psychology 101... And rest assure, that was very much her intention! She damn knows what she is doing.
Also, there are NO untrainable dogs!!!! I even dare to say: there are VERY RARELY 'dangerous dogs', if any at all. It is all about the human/handler!
Also also, labradors are highly trainable and family friendly dogs (even the ones with ADHD). But yeah, you need to put in the work.
But, in the end, the family is going to be very much ok, I'm sure. And a lovely caring home for the dog.... *IF* they keep this up (which I often miss in programs like this, although in this case they showed us how it was a few weeks later, but I'd really be interested to know how it is like a year from now, especially when dealing with a puppy).
@@CookieTubehumans before dogs sorry
I love how the dog was diagnosed as having ADHD but the son wasn't.
I mean Victoria is a dog trainer not a human therapist. She's literally trained to see the symptoms in a dog not a person
Based on the husbands response to the dog being diagnosed with hyperactivity, I would imagine he put up a front and stop that potential diagnosis. My dad was similar. None of us were diagnosed as kids, and with my brother the school pushed for testing recommendations SEVERAL times. Two of us are ADHD, brother and I are also autistic. My dad likely was autistic as well, not that he would have every seen a psych for testing. It was hard enough to get him to agree to go to a medical dr. My dad was just about as involved and ineffective as this guy was from the start. It was like pulling teeth to get him to interact with us, even as adults.
I don’t know if the kid really is, or if it’s a by product of the household dynamics.
The dog is a field bred labrador. they need ALOT of outlet. It does not have adhd...... poor dog.
No, the boy is just "spirited"🤦♀️
So??? And the dog's life is more worth than the kid??
Love how Victoria handled the situation with the kids. One of the biggest reasons dogs get rehomed as "aggressive" dogs is because parents don't monitor and guide the situations between their children and their dogs. This is how dogs get totally avoidable bite histories. Parents need to take a proactive role in making sure their kids interact with dogs properly. Otherwise, the kid is in serious danger.
Absolutely. I have big dogs and horses - it's crucial that I taught my kids how to be around both.
These animals are a lot of fun, but they are inherently dangerous.
As a dog trainer, I had to tell someone's kids "stop pulling their tail. It's uncomfortable and he needs to focus".. the parent did NOTHING
@courtneysparkle1960 that's a bite waiting to happen. Ugh.
I absolutely loved the mom getting a break and having dad get a taste of her day. 😂
Mom deserves a break she works so hard and needs time to relax ❤
So did I because it showed him what she has to put up with and he responded to that in a very positive way. Many would not.
Shane’s feelings towards Victoria totally feels like a little kid having a funny little crush on his babysitter
Yeah, I keep cutting to the part of Victoria teaching Shane to do the “red light green light” game for a serotonin boost. 🥰😊
Shane is just the cutest thing ever! It's obvious he doesn't take after his dad.
I’m watching this 16:19 now. She’s so good with kids!!
19:07 😭😭😭😭
@YochevedDesigns He reminds me so much of my 6yo son (minus that little tantrum he had with his dad). So energetic and full of life. Also so sweet and adorable 🥰
this poor woman's life makes me glad everyday that I have no husband or kids🤣
The husband and dog looked like the biggest issue, not the kids 🤣
Actually I think this incredible woman has two beautiful sons and a husband who shows willingness and is open to change and has illustrated this clearly. Many people are unwilling to reflect on themselves and improve so kudos to this family.
watching THIS i feel exactly the same
i m a petsitter, btw, so i find this very interesting and hope to learn more...
My husband wanted a dog, we had 4 children & I said "you can get a dog but you have to walk him, clean up after it & feed it as I'm having nothing to do with it". We didn't get a dog
Poor Indiana. Who knows how his first few weeks of life were, and how early he was separated from his mom and litter mates.
At the very least he got out. The adult dogs tragically live their whole lives in those hellholes if rescue organizations don’t save them.
Yup. That’s why we should do like so many EU countries and close down all these pet stores and puppy mills.
Stronger animal wellfare laws are obviously needed in USA.
@@forrestfey Absolutely, but USA can't even manage proper human health care system..... so..... yeah...
The only thing pet stores in Switzerland are really allowed are fish and reptiles or spiders. Cats and puppies are a no no
I feel bad for the mom, you can clearly see how tired she is and how little support she has from her partner. It is immature for the husband to buy an animal and don’t want any responsibility.
The husband needing "relief" at the end of a busy day, as if he has it so hard, and she's just hanging out with the kids and the dog having fun all day. So often, the husband on this show refuse to face the problem or help at home. 🙄
Yeah and this was her Mother's day present. : (
@@melissatumbach7438 yikes! Even worse.
“He’s a Labrador, he’s going to be well-behaved!” What these people said, no doubt.
It's probably not the breeders fault
@crazycat7678 this is a breeder who sells their puppies through a petshop😢. I adopted a dog which had the same problems. He was also a puppy farm dog
@@phyllisbennett5414 Do you think it is inbreeding that causes the problems ?
@jean6453 I 'm not a geneticist, but yes. Both my probably pure bred border collies died of cancer. My labxspringer developed mast cell cancer,which is genetically linked to both breeds and all 3 of my poodles developed problems genetically linked to poodles. Only my little Turkish Street dog,who must be well over 10 Only sees the vet once a year.
It's a field bred Labrador. From hunting lines. Living in a chaotic household and no job to do is a disaster. Poor dog!
A huge misconception about labs is that they are great family dogs, they are, BUT, only when trained properly.
Labs can be neurotic and can be very stubborn…
Also that is a field bred labrador. Insane amount of energy. A different world compared to the shownline lab (that is usually used as guide dogs)
In my experience Labs are high energy just like German Shepards. I have an older Golden Retriever/ Lab mix and as a younger dog he was extremely high energy trained for bird retrieval and he loved his job at home he was mellow because he spent hours running every day
@@juliehackett1025 There is a difference in field labs vs show labs. Two different worlds
How these men end up with any life partner is baffling to me
I think this is incredibly harsh and an immature opinion. He improved significantly after Victoria took the wife out for the day and he had to deal with the sons and dog. He acknowledged this and his shortcomings which takes courage and love. I think they are a great family.
He improved on camera. He's just putting on a show.
@@07Flash11MRC He improved on camera. He's just putting on a show....a lot of this is just SHOW
HOWever Victoria seems genuine
I'm impressed with this family because they put in the work and continued to put in the work after she left. Their kids are cute, seem like good kids minus the temper tantrum the younger son had there. And mom deserved that break for herself.
Good kids can show their emotions too.
Temper tantrums are normal for children. They don't know how to regulate their intense emotions so they got to let it out somehow, yelling and screaming is the only way they would be able to let it out If they weren't taught any other way. It's all about teaching them how to regulate this emotions and how they can cope when they have big intense feelings like anger.
The kid was testing his dad 🤨 It was a new dynamic & the kid instinctively tested dad's boundaries. They will give their impulses free reign & not curb them like they do with their mom or teachers 😮💨
Victoria‘s profession isn’t just dog trainer but also relationship therapist.
As all dog training actually is.
That was wonderful! Those two boys seemed very intelligent and polite. Must've been a joy to work with them.
The eldest was exceptionally intelligent, both intellectually and emotionally, in addition to being hyper-perceptive. I hope they have him tested.
I honestly didn't think this family could change enough for this dog, but wow, they all pulled together, and the results are brilliant 👏
This dog is a monster
@@raymondthomas1574Gli esseri umani sono gli unici veri mostri, le uniche vere bestie. Questo cane non è un mostro, è semplicemente un cane che non ha avuto una giusta guida sin da quando è nato. Strappato alla madre, messo in vendita in un negozio e comprato per regalo da una famiglia, ovviamente, senza alcuna esperienza. Basta vedere quant'è maleducato il loro figlio più piccolo.
@@raymondthomas1574 leave the poor dog alone
@@panda_pigen dog is a monster like I said
is it bad that i laughed when the kid is having a tantrum and the dad is suffering on how the mother has to deal with every single day lmao. i've been there on a kid having a tantrum while the mother is out and man, he doesn't realize how going to work and not worry about house stuff is a BLESSING lmaoo
I think he DOES realize it. Lots of people use the "job stress" excuse to avoid household responsibilities.
Ive cleaned the house for Karen, um no! Its your house too!
I appreciate when my husband cleans the house. I don't see anything wrong with what he did or said in regards to cleaning
The fact he said it’s a bit overwhelming to be thrown into handling what his wife does EVERYDAY. Should be an eye opener for him as well. Kids having tantrums and the dog is jus whirling should show him exactly what she has been dealing with everyday. This isn’t to say he is a bad man or husband but to point out his lack of knowledge on what his wife was dealing with. I’m glad this is a changer and eye opener for him.
The time to get this under control is when the pup is 10 weeks old, but I’d bet they thought the ‘mouthing’ was cute, till it’s not.
Dogs can deal with always and never.
Making exceptions confuses them.
"I did the basics, so praise me"
When you're a parent you should never let a dog hurt your child. And when the biting is even more often then sorry, get help earlier or search better home for the dog. I'm glad they got help from Victoria
I couldn’t agree with you more😔I’m a first time dog owner, I stay consistent… If need be I’d definitely reach out for help!! So fare so good he’s a 7 month Cane Corso he follows commands. I upload videos and started a UA-cam channel sharing and receiving dog info☺️I feel if we know better hopefully we can do better
@@Solos_journey23cane Carson for your first dog? And he's well behaved? You're a natural ^^
@@lakibrambleI didn’t think of it that way😊I started training with him since he was 2 1/2 months in stayed consistent
Parents shouldn't let a child hurt a dog either.
It tends to go hand in hand yet somehow the dog always ends up with the consequences. It's really sad.
^ some dogs are aggressive and attack for no reason or jealousy. Kids come first, period. Yes,teach kids to be nice and respectful to pets but dont just let your dog keep biting your child and thinking its no big deal wth.
"I think Shane is smitten with Victoria" 🙄 it's almost like shes setting clear boundaries for him in a way he can understand
Then on the beach while the dad is losing control is hilarious
"Victoria is lovely" ahh bless his heart.
Im glad to see how much mom got relief from this. You could visibly see her go from burning out to living again.
Why did the husband bring a dog home and then refuse to help clean up and train it?
Probably seeing an animal as toy and just want the fun but none of the responsibility 😕
That’s what men do
@LOL
The fact that the kid doesn't want to play with Indiana and the dad picks the kid up and forces him is horrible
Joe and the kids needs to help more with everything reduce the stress for Karen she deserves it and she does so much 😊
This almost felt like an episode of super nanny
I think there are similar personality traits. Admire both women.
Don't buy hyper active dog when you have hyper active children
They come with labels?
@@jharris3267 LOL my super hyper active Cocker Spaniel loved all kids, calmed down by about 2 years old mostly, and wouldn't grab a kid like that. Maybe put his paws on him to be petted only. Same with my 3 months old puppy now. But it is all due to him using up most of his energy on me. That father of course should have been the one to walk him after work. I did. Pre and after. This puppy forces me to really walk way more than I want to at 50 years old, but it's awesome. And after that he's too tired to cause trouble as much.
They didn't walk and train their puppy and allowed him to become out of control... he's bored and out of his mind because he has no outlet to get his energy out
Indy seems like a normal dog in a bad situation.
If people cannot train a dog, then they shouldn't have a dog.
There should be an easier way to learn about training dogs. And these videos are a good example of that. I have learned so much from watching Victoria train these dogs and the owners to be better.
not everybody is able to afford a full-blown dog trainer. So videos like this are really nice.
People are supposed to how to tor a dog care before they get the dog. Tons of free training guides on the internet.
This is why people shouldn't get a pet on a whim.
I agree up to a point, but quite often the reality isn't as easy as it looks in many videos or dog training books. I've had many customers who've tried to prepare well, read loads, even owned and somehow managed to train their previous dogs, until they get one that just doesn't work the way dogs are supposed to. So I'd say that people who are not willing to put the effort into training their dogs, including getting help if it's needed, should not get a dog.
@@durabelle Extremely well said! I know a lot of people too who knew they needed to train the dog... but simply couldn't, no matter how well-intentioned they were. It is a skill, which not everybody has. (btw: EXACT same thing can be said about having kids, but that's another topic I guess)
Same with children &this was the first time the husband had been left with them alone?
Victoria really goes over and above to solve this problem, not just giving her advice but bringing in all kinds of experts in their field - sanitation experts, dog experts, even dog compulsion disorder researchers, even takes them to agility classes and even gives the family some much needed human therapy. She is wonderful.
I'm glad Victoria could work with the husband.i was shocked at how little this man realized about indiana.there are still people who think that an animal or a child will grow out of bad behavior
Why are the people in this world so hateful of those with disabilities
Excellent question.
I’m so grateful for Victoria for helping so many families out especially because in most cases these bad behaviors can be reversed with some work by every family member.
They needed super nanny there too!
Dogs never grow out of bad behaviors, they grow further INTO them.
He is not actually really agressive now. And I don't believe he has any disorders. He is a spoiled, demanding puppy. He needs rules and calm, confident owners. And rules for children on how to interact with the dog.
I agree! Dogs can be taught to focus, just like they can learn any other behavior. If a dog has never been taught to focus, it's not fair of him to expect that he will. 100% a spoiled demanding puppy, agreed!
Indiana is 7 months ? Wow I thought he was an adult he's a big boy he's gonna get bigger .. good thing they got victoria
This poor dog I wonder what on earth they did with his mother way too young for him not to have learned any bite control
Puppy's learn to not bite from their mother who'll really get after the puppies when they bite too hard to often .. you can tell they took these puppies away from mom way to early
I don’t fault ppl for not realizing what they signed up for, I fault them for not taking the. responsibility for their own actions when it comes to light. This family should be commended for acknowledging their ignorance, asking for help, and then stepping up to the job at hand. Bravo!
Love "you're gonna decompress right outa here" 😂
Wait one minute...he cleaned the house FOR karen ??????
This wouldn’t have not happened in the first you would have trained your dog as a puppy and plus lots of exercise exercises ❤
100%
walked into the mall, came out with a dog - not the best start
"Victoria is lovely." Shane is a little grown gentleman. Too cute. ❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥
yeah
h e s really gentlemanly, Shane
"Decompress" "Throw it all at me"
When does mum get to DECOMPRESS?
And why are all these big dogs inside around children?
This guy needed that wake up call.
I see so many tears in the couch but no dog toys for him to chew on.
This is proof that positive only training doesn’t always work. Victoria had to use the leash as an aversive to show Indiana that jumping and nipping isn’t okay. But just because it’s an aversive technique doesn’t mean it’s overly harsh or mean. I’m only commenting this to hopefully help people understand that it takes more to fix problem behavior than treats and praise and that’s okay. Balanced training is teaching the dog the behavior you want using positive techniques and then using a combination of praise and correction after they understand the behavior.
if only people would understand beyond that silly square.
I'm all for R+ training, and minimal R- / punishment. But! Sometimes something is necessary to _prevent_ the behaviour, as it can harm both the dog and the human, so yeah. A leash keeps the dog from jumping, and then when he relaxes you can reward. Same with a muzzle, it prevents biting. Like during social training. If the dog got loose and ran to the other dog walking by, it's good to have. You can still praise and reward while using restraints like a leash. Just don't pull harshly, as it can genuinely cause long-term harm.
And you can't always give treats as labs put weight on easily
Saying he cleaned the house"for his wife" says everything. Karen god bless you for your commitment, patience and willingness to try and fix all this.
Victoria, you are the most patient lady I know of. It’s no wonder you do so well with dog training and helping others be able to enjoy their babies and make a great environment for both. Bravo!!!
Watching Victoria with kids is just as if not more endearing as watching her with dogs
I love how Victoria shows them how much potential their “trouble “ dog opens their eyes to how a dog should be.
Now that it’s been brought to their attention, he’s become a family member and not a menace to their safety.
Litterally go to the beach, take a break … take a KitKat 😂
Victoria could be a family counselor too. This was a touching episode.
FYI: dog training is 95% family/owner counseling and 5% dog trainer.
@@CookieTube This is exactly why as much as I wanted to I never did get into dog training, I signed up to teach dogs not be a personal therapist for the owner's shortcomings and inability to be humble.
@@rustyhowe3907 yeah, that's exactly what is holding me back too. Luckily there is a local dog training school here (basic behavior and social training in small groups), and as a volunteer you get to interact with the dogs. Also shelters are a very good alternative too. You can do wonders there.
But as for the "personal trainer" job, yeah, it's more therapy for the owner than anything else.
@@CookieTube Absolutely! I've done some volunteer work at shelters, nothing more than basic commands to help the dogs find a home. It's long and it's a challenge but it's as rewarding as it is sad to find that IF ONLY someone had bothered to train the dog I was working with in that moment wouldn't have been ditched at the shelter as "untrainable", never met a dog that was impossible as of the current moment.
Oh great so not only is the husband incompetent when it comes to the dog but he also thinks that being neurodivergent or having adhd means you have a “screw-loose”. Just really hope his kid doesn’t end up with adhd because jeez what a terrible issue
Not sure who's more of a problem - the dog or that chunky lump that bought the dog as a random present.
The husband is a piece of work 😮
Taking her to the beach was so sweet
I hope some day when you buy pets at pet stores like this they make you undergo a mandatory training course or pass a test to determine if you know how to keep the animal because it was clear from day one the dog had zero healthy outlets for his behavior and the parents seemed convinced he was defective rather than that they were failing him
Generally pets from petstores are puppy mill or backyard breeder dogs
@@Nibs08 It really is heart-breaking that so many pet stores are still selling puppies from puppy mills or backyard breeders, isn't it. Getting all their papers and being able to actually talk to the breeder is what people need to think of when they walk in a store and see that cute puppy's face.
I have an 8 month old pup from a pet store but I must've asked over a hundred questions and made sure I had her papers before deciding to bring her home. She's my best friend and a literal dream come true.
Actually within a short timeframe of Victoria's visit, they both actioned her directives and showed that they genuinely cared for the dog.
Joe inferring that ADHD is "having a screw loose" is wrong on all sorts of levels. Super great guy there.
As someone who was diagnosed with ADHD I was honestly offended when he described it as having a “screw loose.” I struggle to function on a day to day basis and I’ve at times gotten so frustrated with being unable to focus that I can’t help but wanna scream my lungs out. I wish I didn’t have it but it doesn’t help when people say things like it’s no big deal or just stop acting nutty. I bet this dude would say the same types of stuff. /:
I mean it is.
@@ScarletAngleGaaraand you claim that isn't having screws loose? 😅
@@joshjordan1486 describing it like that isn’t necessary. Yes there’s something that’s different in their brain, but describing it as “a screw loose” is a negative demeaning way to describe it.
"you'll decompress alright" ah, new yorkers, beautiful
seemed like they needed super nanny in there as well lol
It's so simple it's not the dog, it's the humans you can even see it with there child.😊
Sounds like the mom would have loved a day off for her anniversary.. instead he "gifted" her even more responsibilities-
Right? Even some old flowers from Safeway (that a grocery story in California). Flowers are ok nothing fancy but nice enough. I’m sure Karen would have appreciated.
Karen is lovely, she’s not a “Karen”.
Training? You mean playing fetch with a dog? Lololololo.
The dog is chaotic because the household is chaotic
Poor woman looks so drained for a good three quarters of this episode. Thanks for the poison gift for your anniversary, husbando. Let's applaud her love and courage for not giving up!
I love how Victoria had 3 kit Kats 😂 she saved one for the camera guy❤ she's the sweetest woman 👠 & a classy one at that 😍
"You gonna decompress alright, decompress right up out of here! 😂"
Something tells me they would let go of the treats or toys when he would come at them open-mouthed. He taught them to let go of the treats so he wouldn't have to earn them.
More like classic laziness and ignorance regarding dogs in general. Thankfully, pet owners like this are rare🙄. If only....
Aw the fam was actually so sweet.
That was a good one, the family did so well. Victoria is amazing at what she does.
She should take the dog to the beach. They could have a great relationship of fun and companionship.
The way the boys and the dog act with just the dad and then just with the mom is actually insane ..
Why do we clap and applaud when straight men do the absolute bare minimum? its like.. no, you should be helping from the very start and regularly.
This!!!!!! 👏👏👏👏👏
Because the bar is in h€||. Same thing for when straight men actually parent for once.
Positive reinforcement, probably - and then you slowly lift the bar
So nice to see the improvement..
Changes in Indiana...God bless the family
I'm so glad that they learned and thought him better!
DOG AND HUSBAND both need to go if don’t shape up
😂😂😂😂
How dare that man say the dog has a screw loose. My son has ADHD and he certainly doesn't have a "screw loose " I wish people would think before they speak 😡
The truth hurts
@@jackwhitbread4583 Troll.
You're right tho...he really didn't think before he spoke. Let's give him the benefit of the doubt and assume that he's a loving family man that wants the best for his wife, kids, and dog.
Yeah, that jarred me, too! I don't know how old your son is, but I'm 34 and have a beautiful life in large part because my ADHD is an asset at my dream job.
I'm a 60-year-old man diagnosed with adult ADHD. I say it about myself that I have a screw loose. I make jokes about it. Don't get so worked up over an innocuous comment.
We have had 8 labs all have been very obedient and gentle. They all have been easy to train. 7months is a teenager in a dog, you have to know how to deal with it.
Dealing with a pet mill puppy versus a garden variety are very different scenarios. Buying him was an impulse buy which we are all guilty of at some point and he has taken responsibility for it which is more than I can say for most people.
Victoria is so good at this, she's an angel. ❤
Joseph is absolutely adorable and incredibly mature and well spoken.
Shane most likely has ADHD too so dad had better shut up about the condition as having a screw loose.
Geezus, what is wrong with all you people. It was an off-kilter comment ffs.
@@m6666asking "what's wrong with you" to neurodivergent and disabled people being very rightfully pissed at an ableist comment is NOT the comeback you think it is!
@@m6666 because for most of neurodivergent peoples life they get asked what is wrong with them and get told that they are wrong and the way they act is wrong and the way they thing is wrong and everything about them is wrong
because of people like you and shane's dad autistic, ADHD, OCD, dyslexic and many other disabled people get depression and anxiety disorders
Probably not. He seems quite attentive. Just an active kid.
The only one having multiple screws lose is the manchild.
Indy is a great dog. Just a little effort and time and he is a spot on easily trained.
i am so happy for indie and the family, they look so happy now together ❤
I think Victoria needs to invite Jojo from Supernanny over too, that Shane is really out of control too