Owner Finds Out Dog is SERIOUSLY ILL💔| Full Episode | It's Me or The Dog

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  • @marielle7505
    @marielle7505 7 місяців тому +285

    I really find it frustrating how these people cry about how much they love the dog, yet nobody wants to be bothered in actually meeting his needs. How is that love?

    • @SPOOKS125
      @SPOOKS125 6 місяців тому +20

      They love the idea of having the dog, love that the dog is there. But when it comes to caring for the dog, they don’t care.

    • @user-digitalfarmgirl
      @user-digitalfarmgirl 5 місяців тому +5

      TYPICAL MATERIALISM AND STATUS SEEKING BEHAVIOUR.

    • @chainamarie03
      @chainamarie03 4 місяці тому +6

      It hurt me seeing how stressed this dog was. I've got cats..,..the main reason being I don't have the energy to care for one. These ppl don't seem to understand how rewarding it is to have a dog. It shouldn't feel like drudgery to care for any animal you choose to become part of ur family.

    • @user-digitalfarmgirl
      @user-digitalfarmgirl 4 місяці тому +1

      @@SPOOKS125
      Just like people who love the idea of children, but don't want to put in half a lick of effort.

  • @Pale_Empress
    @Pale_Empress 11 місяців тому +499

    if your children "wear you down" into getting an animal, it is YOUR responsibility to look out for the animal as well and hold your children accountable. If you know that your children won't care for the animal, and you are not ready to take on their responsibility... DONT GET AN ANIMAL?!?!?!

    • @samwdavis
      @samwdavis 9 місяців тому +7

      This dog does NOT need psychoanalysis. It need standard balanced training that addresses the issues. As a balanced trainer, give me ONE HOUR with this dog away from the dysfunctional family, and then let me bring it back to them. They will be AMAZED by the transformation. Victoria is WAY overcomplicating the situation trying to cling to her positive-only training narrative. This is such overly-dramatic BS. It's a shame that this family didn't find a competent balanced trainer instead of Victoria. The dog could have been transformed IMMEDIATELY and SIMPLY!! IT'S VERY SIMPLE!!! This dog doesn't need to be shown more of what you want. it needs CLEAR communication of what you DON'T want and that there are consequences for bad behavior. This dog NEEDS LEADERSHIP, and needs to learn the power of the word NO. Can it possibly be more obvious???? And BTW... exercise and walking is a good thing, but it has NOTHING to do with behavior modification. That's a LIE!!! She's not coming is as a miracle worker? Let me have ONE HOUR with this dog!!! This is such highly produced TV DRAMA, it just makes me sick. This could be solved SO quickly and simply!!! The dog is NOT a leader, and it has no leader. It's THAT SIMPLE!! Provide some leadership.... problem solved, and you will have a transformed dog with a MUCH better relationship with your family. Victoria said that this is one of the most anxious dogs she has ever met. That's just evidence to her lack of experience. I have met MUCH MUCH MUCH more anxious dogs and completely cured them. How did this woman ever get a TV show? OH yeh, I remember now, she was a professional actress. Keep in mind that I write this as my two German Shepherds are laying down near me for about 5 hours without any exercise today while I can go to the bathroom or the kitchen without any concern that they break command, and when I allow them, they will run to me with affection. This positive-only narrative is total BS!!!!

    • @karinapfel650
      @karinapfel650 7 місяців тому +29

      A one-hour "fix" wouldn't last very long unless the family dynamic is also changed. You'd just be suppressing the dog's behaviour not changing his quality of life and his stressors.

    • @anniesparno502
      @anniesparno502 5 місяців тому +1

      Privileged children……they just don’t know the what they have in that dog….such a shame…

    • @dvkaw7780
      @dvkaw7780 5 місяців тому +14

      @@samwdavisWith all due respect, it’s your narrative that a total BS. My dog, an English cocker spaniel, was trained by Victoria’s method, my cousin’s Golden retriever by a traditional trainer. Guess which dog is better behaved. Hint, it’s not the Golden retriever.

    • @shanmclean2553
      @shanmclean2553 3 місяці тому +5

      ⁠@@samwdavis As a person who has a dog that has emotional issues and has used 3 different trainers in the past, I can tell you that you are full of it. Sometimes the chemicals in the brain don’t work properly and he needed medication.
      Victoria may have a different way to train dogs doesn’t mean you’re more qualified than she is. It just means you have a different approach.

  • @ramonavan9386
    @ramonavan9386 Рік тому +308

    That's the best example why you do not get a dog for a child if you as a parent aren't ready to take care of the dog

    • @shawnalLovesJesus
      @shawnalLovesJesus Рік тому +1

      yep

    • @Angelika5378
      @Angelika5378 11 місяців тому +8

      Exactly the adults will always have to step in

    • @animula6908
      @animula6908 6 місяців тому +2

      Or ready to really make the kids care for it. Or ready to get it a new family for it otherwise.

  • @imalwaysright
    @imalwaysright Рік тому +782

    Seeing a dog in that much distress was disturbing and sad. I’ve been binge-watching Victoria, and it was the illest dog I’ve seen. 5 years and he’s never been in an open field once!? That family failed him. It was cruel. So glad Victoria and the Dr could help him. Imagine this show didn’t exist. Rocky was an adorable ball of fluff when he was getting praise and rubs for doing the training 🥰🥰🥰

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku Рік тому +63

      i don't understand why these people who want indoor dogs get these huge working breeds. if you want a puppy to play with in your house that will be comfortable staying indoors (except for bathroom breaks), you need a SMALL dog with a chill temperament and low activity levels. or just get a cat lol.

    • @m6666
      @m6666 Рік тому +28

      @dietotaku personally, these people DO NOT deserve to have any pets!

    • @AnimalDreams86
      @AnimalDreams86 Рік тому +42

      @@dietotaku Even small dogs with a chill temperament and low activity level, NEED and DESERVE to go out into the world.

    • @ellimckiddy5799
      @ellimckiddy5799 Рік тому +7

      ​@@AnimalDreams86exactly.

    • @ellimckiddy5799
      @ellimckiddy5799 Рік тому +4

      Weaten terriers are one of the cutest breeds.❤

  • @Suzie-he9ni
    @Suzie-he9ni Рік тому +332

    The family arguing gave me anxiety. No wonder Rocky is hyper.

    • @judywright4241
      @judywright4241 Рік тому +32

      You just know they didn’t even bother looking up a Wheaten TERRIER, they are high energy dogs. Your lifestyle needs to be a major focus. An elderly neighbor got a WESTIE, a very high energy terrier and they pointed to my Westie, ‘When will
      Archie calm down like her?!’
      I had to explain my Westie is twelve years old then, and I got her when I was fifty and walked every day thru the neighborhood, she got socialized to dogs and people when I WAS YOUNGER. Dylan has slowed down whereas Archie is now a year old for a couple in their seventies! King Charles Spaniels or even a Shih Tsu would have been better choices for their age

    • @rustyhowe3907
      @rustyhowe3907 11 місяців тому +4

      @@judywright4241 I had to make the same decision when I got my current dog, she's just a pup by hyperactive enough and my busted up body isn't able to keep up with the more shepherd types that I'm used to. She's a mini poodle mix so retrieving is in her blood along with scenting games, she loves her walks but doesn't have that insane work drive the shepherds did.
      We get along great and people always compliment how well she behaves, pretty good for 1 year old pup.

    • @debrathornton-allbee2975
      @debrathornton-allbee2975 9 місяців тому +4

      @judywright4241 I owned 4 King Charles Cavaliers 2 Tries and 2 Blems their a lot of work, constant brushing their slipper feet need trimmed between their toes or they get matted, beautiful dogs that need constant grooming daily.. Mine got 3 walks a day, took them potty before walks but always brought bags, I had harnesses to walk my dogs JMO you have more control of your dog or dogs, they love to lay in your lap, but for this family I Wouldn't Even Suggest A King Charles Cavalier Because Of The Maintenance That That These Dogs Require!!

  • @j800r_aswell
    @j800r_aswell Рік тому +323

    "He's like a child to me."
    If that's how she expects to treat a child then she shouldn't be a parent. They've ruined the poor thing. He deserves a much better home.

  • @FIZZGIG-RARF
    @FIZZGIG-RARF Рік тому +466

    It's always so beautiful how Victoria literally saves the lives of these dogs. It baffles me how clueless and apathetic people can be to their pets!

  • @cheyennerosemarie2949
    @cheyennerosemarie2949 11 місяців тому +98

    When I was a teen, I begged and begged my mom for a dog, she caved, she thought she'd end up taking care of it. That dog went everywhere with me and was MY baby. We went on walks everyday and I personally trained him for service work ❤. He's passed now, but he will always be my heart dog

    • @eb5116
      @eb5116 4 місяці тому +7

      good on you we need more young pet owners like you in the world ❤️ my pets are my world

    • @Adelehalsall
      @Adelehalsall 2 місяці тому +1

      Thanks for being incredible, more teenagers ought to be like you 👏🏻👏🏻

  • @JayslilMelody
    @JayslilMelody Рік тому +293

    As someone who owns a soft coated wheaten terrier, it's so sad seeing someone not meeting the dogs needs I don't care who's responsible for the dog if you or anyone else can't care for the dog you shouldn't have one

    • @SR-iz2eq
      @SR-iz2eq Рік тому +7

      They were very trendy about 20 years ago. I had one too and he was wonderful but a lot of people bought them from puppy mills and didn’t care for them properly

    • @moosedawg71
      @moosedawg71 11 місяців тому +2

      💯 💯 💯

    • @Gacha_Animal
      @Gacha_Animal 11 місяців тому +1

      I currently have one right now she is turning 7 in two days and her name is Wilma! She is an absolute angel 😇

  • @majesticmythicalsart7563
    @majesticmythicalsart7563 Рік тому +188

    I am stunned by the people who have dogs that have bitten multiple people and it always seems like they think it’s a joke! Your niece had to have plastic surgery bc of your dog bit her in the face , absolutely appalling

    • @GG-kn2se
      @GG-kn2se 9 місяців тому

      None of these people thought that was a joke though? Dummy?

    • @samg873
      @samg873 5 місяців тому

      We have a Chihuahua that's mean and old so we don't let her around people. This woman knew her dog was hyper but doesn't care

    • @Zoetheluckygirl
      @Zoetheluckygirl 3 місяці тому

      Omg I would have been so pissed if this happened to my kid.

  • @rawexplorer8373
    @rawexplorer8373 Рік тому +227

    Victoria has a strong nerve. I would have probably taken the dog away. The reason why the dog is in such a bad way is 100% them. 30% due to getting him from a pet store (puppy mill) and 70% by their neglect. On the other hand, the way they changed surprised me. I didnt think these people will ever change. Wishing Rocky the best!

  • @valerieellison2483
    @valerieellison2483 10 місяців тому +40

    I love how she gave them a definitive amount of time for his exercise needs. People don't realize that pets need more than 15 minutes a day to get their energy out.

  • @AisforAwesomeAsh
    @AisforAwesomeAsh Рік тому +345

    A family of 5 people can’t figure out the dogs schedule… mad! Absolutely mad! It’s frustrating watching this when I’m the sole care taker of my dog and manage to walk, play, go on potty breaks, do brain puzzles, cuddle, and train my terrier dog. I hope they figured this out for the long term. ❤❤

    • @anne-vc7bg
      @anne-vc7bg Рік тому +27

      Well the SAHM and her live in boyfriend want to find an excuse to get rid of him, while the kids are busy with school and work and being youngsters, and grandma keeps hiding in her gran-cave.
      A dog isn't property: you can't treat it like a hoodie left on a couch, everyone except the girls not giving a F is unacceptable. If it were a baby instead of a dog, no one would go "well you wanted a kid, I ain't changing a diaper while you're at school or work so it can sit in it's own 💩 and starve".

    • @bibianahumphreys7940
      @bibianahumphreys7940 Рік тому

      Same!

    • @rosedewittbukater4203
      @rosedewittbukater4203 Рік тому +10

      I live alone with my dog and get up EVERY morning, even on Sundays, at 6 a.m. to go out with him, when I am unwashed and face swollen, even if I'm dead tired, my bones hurt or I'm ill. My mood is much better afterwards. My dog keeps me fit and is my health trainer. After all, I've made a commitment. And I love it.

    • @beccam7249
      @beccam7249 8 місяців тому +3

      Right?! When o had my first dog at 26 I was also a shift worker and I managed to make it work on my own. If I was tired, from night shift I didn’t sleep till the dog was fed, played with, and had been to the bathroom. If I knew I would be working long hours I would schedule and pay someone to walk him and give him attention. If you can’t be home with your pets all the time that’s fine, but if you’re a busy person you need to pay someone to let your dog out. And if you can’t afford to do that and don’t have the time to do it yourself, then you shouldn’t own a dog.

    • @dorothyconrad3923
      @dorothyconrad3923 7 місяців тому

      😊​@@anne-vc7bg

  • @kmsch986
    @kmsch986 Рік тому +188

    It’s wild how resistant and apathetic people are to walking their dogs, don’t they realize exercise is good for them and their dog? It’s not an inconvenience to get out and walk, dogs are the most enthusiastic personal trainer you’ll ever have and you can do it without and appointment and for free.

    • @avenger8399
      @avenger8399 Рік тому +17

      Regular exercise can work wonders. I bought a 10 month old Standard Dachshund that hadn`t had enough exercise and was a quivering wreck.Would have bitten me given half the chance.Months later after regular exercise she was a perfectly happy well adjusted dog. I lost her at 12 years old. RIP Gemma.Still much missed.

    • @takumi2023
      @takumi2023 Рік тому +8

      it's an inconvenience if you live in a bad neighborhood :(

    • @prettypleasewithsugarontop4858
      @prettypleasewithsugarontop4858 11 місяців тому +2

      I just lost my dog she was 16 and I miss walking her so much

    • @RainbowFlowerCrow
      @RainbowFlowerCrow 11 місяців тому +2

      ​@@avenger8399Aw gosh.. RIP, Gemma.. That's a nice name for a dog❤ I'm sure that Gemma knew how much you loved her, and appreciated you for giving her a good life❤🌈🐕💖

    • @RainbowFlowerCrow
      @RainbowFlowerCrow 11 місяців тому

      ​@@prettypleasewithsugarontop4858💔🌹 RIP to your dog🌈 If there's a heaven, I know that our dogs are laying in the best patches of sun together, and talking about how their humans gave them skritchies and love every day💜

  • @jlynn1001
    @jlynn1001 Рік тому +62

    “You have to make him a priority because its stressing me out”….that says a lot. Its all about “me” not whats best for Rocky

    • @bethanybergeson4192
      @bethanybergeson4192 Рік тому +9

      I was thinking the exact same thing. About 95% of the people that come on this show are narcissists.

    • @takumi2023
      @takumi2023 Рік тому +2

      @@bethanybergeson4192 really i didn't notice that. maybe i've not seen too much, but i feel like the people in the videos are just not that knowledge about dogs in general.

    • @Libbathegreat
      @Libbathegreat 6 місяців тому

      @@bethanybergeson4192 Yep, a vulnerable narcissist. The worst kind. Hardest to spot and the most deeply manipulative. Feel sorry for her daughters, been there done that.

  • @rainysunflower384
    @rainysunflower384 Рік тому +173

    Seeing Rocky running around in the field and looking so happy literally brought tears to my eyes. I am so glad Victoria was able to help this pup and connect the family with the Behavioral Vet.

  • @robbert1210
    @robbert1210 Рік тому +67

    5 people in that household. They have the absolute luxury of dividing up the tasks. Here I am, walking my Labrador twice a day on top of doing some retrieving and playing, plus, taking my dog absolutely everywhere I go to let her see as much of the world as possible. Even right now while I have got the flu, I still go for a walk with her out in the fields. I do this every single day because that's what dogs need. How can people be so dense to get a dog and expect it to just sit there all day? Do people not place themselves in the paws of their pets? An entire family at that... It should be a piece of cake with that many people. I have to give Victoria credit, she is 100% spot on with everything she says, I've learned so much from her since I had my very first puppy 3 years ago, now a fine beautiful labrador. People are always amazed at how well behaved she is, and that's mainly because of Victoria's tips.

  • @imalwaysright
    @imalwaysright Рік тому +853

    The audacity, vocal fry and all, to try fool Victoria that you actually walk home, get a bag, and go back and retrieve Rocky’s poop 🤯

    • @m6666
      @m6666 Рік тому +12

      Yeah right!

    • @samanthacassidy6377
      @samanthacassidy6377 Рік тому +54

      She's gonna be one of those people who accidentally treads in dog poo on the road someday

    • @109367
      @109367 Рік тому +47

      Lol i had a red nose pitbull some years ago that never pooped on walks so I just never brought a bag. One day he surprised me and popped a squat in a neighbor's flower bed halfway home lol I just sighed, finished the walk, grabbed a bag and had to go back for it xD

    • @annetnedelec9453
      @annetnedelec9453 Рік тому +12

      Arrghgh vocal fry... can't stand it!

    • @oreonighthawk
      @oreonighthawk Рік тому +59

      She should’ve just said “oops! I forgot to bring bags.” I mean with the chaos of a film crew that could be believable that you forgot. But that you regularly don’t bring bags and come back later? Either you never walk the dog so don’t know to bring bags, or you just leave your dog’s poop, either way, you’re lying.

  • @Gilded_Wolf
    @Gilded_Wolf Рік тому +247

    Victoria inspires me to try dog training at my job. I work at a doggy daycare kind of place. But I am working my way up to try dog training. I have Autism and ADHD but working with dogs are my passion and they keep me focused. Dog training is going to be a big step for me but I think I can do it if I tried.
    Edit// Thank you so much everyone for the wonderful and encouraging replies!! 💕

    • @mochikitten745
      @mochikitten745 Рік тому +10

      you absolutely can! i'm p sure i have adhd (diagnosis is unattainable for me) and i adore dogs. i would love to try dog training! you got this!!!!!!

    • @Gilded_Wolf
      @Gilded_Wolf Рік тому +5

      @@mochikitten745 thank you so much!! It brings my hopes up a lot! I can't wait for the day I start doing it!!

    • @imalwaysright
      @imalwaysright Рік тому +4

      Hoping the best for you! 🤗🤗🤗

    • @dinosaurwoman
      @dinosaurwoman Рік тому +15

      Fantastic idea. I think you may find that your autism is an asset to training dogs. I worked with a kid with horses who had ADHD and autism, and he was amazing at it. He seemed to really like the order of how we groom and tack up horses and the mechanics behind riding. He was one of the best riders because of it. So I encourage you to seek it out! Have fun!

    • @Gilded_Wolf
      @Gilded_Wolf Рік тому +1

      @@dinosaurwoman what an amazing kid! Thanks for sharing.

  • @Sam-mh4mc
    @Sam-mh4mc 11 місяців тому +11

    Poor baby. He just wanted to run. I have seen many dogs shut down but this one is still happy and jumpy, they should use that chance to get him the help he needs !

  • @siobhancosgrove2416
    @siobhancosgrove2416 Рік тому +104

    The mother blaming everyone else for their laziness and not taking responsibility as an adult for the dog is so appalling

    • @izagoaszczyk5552
      @izagoaszczyk5552 11 місяців тому +11

      She didin't want the dog. The girls wanted. So it's their responsibility.

    • @grettagrids
      @grettagrids 11 місяців тому +2

      ​@@izagoaszczyk5552 that's for sure.. the novelty of owning the dog wore off.

    • @tylerpistachio6927
      @tylerpistachio6927 10 місяців тому +9

      @@izagoaszczyk5552not when theyre kids

    • @beccam7249
      @beccam7249 8 місяців тому +13

      I mean, she’s the one who bought the dog for her kids so it’s also her responsibility too? If she didn’t want a dog then don’t get a dog.

  • @noras.5355
    @noras.5355 Рік тому +192

    Whoa, this video had ME anxious just watching the family argue! Victoria did an amazing job pulling the family together! Yea Rocky!

    • @GpeanutDoggo
      @GpeanutDoggo Рік тому +9

      God dude. I hate it. The mom reminds me so much of my mom and it freaks me out..

  • @hollywilson5695
    @hollywilson5695 Рік тому +125

    Awesome that Victoria addressed cell phone distraction! It was bothering me too. Gee whiz…

    • @NikkieRoxxx
      @NikkieRoxxx Рік тому +2

      HALLELUJA!!!

    • @sarahsteel8237
      @sarahsteel8237 Рік тому +14

      You can tell when she says “it makes me think that you’re not interested?” that he was very close to replying “well I’m not interested”

    • @stancexpunks
      @stancexpunks 8 місяців тому +1

      Exactly. And men can’t multi task so it’s especially bad for the father to be on his phone

  • @Sam-mh4mc
    @Sam-mh4mc 11 місяців тому +23

    I absolutely love how she taught them responsibility by taking to a puppy shelter. They are not just balls of fluff. You have to be responsible for it.

  • @sajverse
    @sajverse Рік тому +66

    I really want to learn some of Victoria's behavioural characteristics. Just how firm and authoritative she is amazes me every time. Putting everyone in their places and getting them back to their senses.

  • @jameskirk24
    @jameskirk24 Рік тому +109

    Victoria: Am too old and too cynical
    Me: absolutely 100% right without shadow of doubt

  • @lenasamzelius5530
    @lenasamzelius5530 Рік тому +64

    What a pleasure to hear Victoria tell Frank off. Thank you Warrior Princess of the Dogs!

    • @moosedawg71
      @moosedawg71 11 місяців тому +4

      IKR?! When I saw him on his phone, I said essentially the same thing, he couldn't give a crap about the dog or what they're trying to do for him - SO glad she called him out on it!

  • @Sam-mh4mc
    @Sam-mh4mc 11 місяців тому +14

    When they clapped and he looked back at them happily, I started getting teary coz that's all he wanted. Love and attention from them.

  • @Jo-AnneDiaz
    @Jo-AnneDiaz 8 місяців тому +4

    Kudos to you Victoria. You have so much patience with these apathetic people, all blaming each other. I would be tearing my hair out!

  • @andapandacongufanda
    @andapandacongufanda Рік тому +30

    I’m shocked how this family speaks to each other like the dysfunctional behaviors start there the dog never had a chance

  • @c.c2118
    @c.c2118 Рік тому +31

    " I dont bring a bag with me but I do pick it up". Pick it up with what your bare hands. 🤦‍♀️

    • @that_one_equestrian739
      @that_one_equestrian739 Рік тому +9

      Honestly, it’s not that hard to bring bags with you, I’m going to agree with your solution 🤣✋

    • @sluttymctits4496
      @sluttymctits4496 11 місяців тому

      The fact that she returned with a plastic shopping bag and not a dog poo bag shows they never pick up after Rocky and likely don't even OWN poo bags.

  • @mychatpalace
    @mychatpalace Рік тому +44

    the blame game. take the dog out. ask every three hours who walked the dog. if no one responds. THEN YOU GO AND WALK THE DOG. the dog will feel better and you will feel better too. guess what, going outside and walking around even for thirty minutes at a time for about an hour per day, is actually beneficial to people emotional health too.

  • @iamjustsaying4787
    @iamjustsaying4787 11 місяців тому +37

    It’s more important to retrain those daughters. Apparently this woman raised them the same way she has raised the dog.

  • @dinosaurwoman
    @dinosaurwoman Рік тому +53

    It amazes me how Victoria becomes a family/couples counselor over a dog trainer in situations like this. The dog seems to be the recipient of the family/couple's internal problems, and they don't seem to realize their stress and fighting is making the issues worse with their dogs.

    • @Diddldance
      @Diddldance 11 місяців тому +4

      100% Rocky has become their scapegoat, it's sad.

  • @chloehan7597
    @chloehan7597 Рік тому +24

    Total negligence!!! I feel so bad for Rocky. You don’t need a vet to tell u what is wrong with the dog. Rocky is so so stress till he keep doing the circling thing. This family really shouldn’t keep any pets… How can a dog relax in a family that always argue in front of him poor Rocky probably feel that he is a burden to the family.
    Oh wow! The mum I can’t believe her nails is actually more important to her than Rocky her very sick dog.
    The daughters is afraid of dog poop??? I doubt they have shower Rocky before 😤

  • @jeno264
    @jeno264 Рік тому +37

    I would love to see how Rocky went a year or two after Victoria helped the family 💖

  • @Everlien7184
    @Everlien7184 Рік тому +27

    Rocky clearly finds his safe place near grandma

  • @JbunnyC
    @JbunnyC Рік тому +31

    People want a "cute" puppy but do not research the needs of the dog. Pathetic!

  • @laurenschenck5355
    @laurenschenck5355 Рік тому +69

    The whole family needs to get off their butts take responsibility for the dog so he can get lots of exercise and plus some medicine too ❤

    • @elaineb4490
      @elaineb4490 Рік тому +10

      Finally, Lauren, a comment I can wholeheartedly agree with! Butts is a very American word. Us English, especially ones that are angry like I am with this appalling family, is get off their arses and bloody do the right thing or give the poor, unfortunate and bored stiff dog to someone who gives a damn.
      Bloody people that get dogs who have zero idea of how to even care for animals. Should NEVER be allowed.

    • @judywright4241
      @judywright4241 Рік тому

      👍🏻💯

  • @eyrunsigrunardottir6977
    @eyrunsigrunardottir6977 Рік тому +42

    I really hope Rocky is living his best life, Victoria was amazing and the family came around. What a beautiful dog.

  • @helengodber3178
    @helengodber3178 10 місяців тому +18

    How can the Mum start crying and saying he "feels like a child to me" yet not take any responsibility for him.
    As an adult when you agree to having any kind of pet, you have to accept responsibility for it, end of story !

    • @illusionofquality979
      @illusionofquality979 4 місяці тому +1

      I think that she took some responsibility, since you can see how the dog reacts to her. When seeking comfort, Rocky stays close to grandmother or the mother, not the kids or the boyfriend.
      She was definitely against walking Rocky, but she was the one taking him to the vet, giving food and medication, playing with him (you could really see it during the play part) and it seems like she called Victoria, not the kids. If she had to deal with this for five years, she could have been as stressed out about it as the dog, so no wonder she would be very naggy.
      Given how Rocky pulls and the dog belongs to the whole family, not just the mother, it's unfair when the rest of the family doesn't want to walk him. Rocky isn't a toy after all.
      A lot of balls were dropped around the dog, but I'm glad that they decided to seek professional help and put in the work.

  • @tanyabrown9839
    @tanyabrown9839 11 місяців тому +28

    Just Wow at that daughter not even knowing how to wash a floor (not knowing that a mop needs to be squeezed out).. obviously those kids help their mother with very little at home. I hope their mum is now giving them household tasks while she's out walking the dog they insisted they get.

  • @Amanda-uc5jq
    @Amanda-uc5jq 11 місяців тому +13

    I could tell as soon as the mum had that first good walk she would be out with him all the time 🥰.
    It’s a shame they didn’t get help earlier but at least they got some in the end.

    • @Diddldance
      @Diddldance 11 місяців тому +4

      And if just to get away from her family! :)

  • @ngatcombe
    @ngatcombe Рік тому +18

    My OCD dog is also obsessed with cars. I work almost exclusively with anxious and OCD dogs as a trainer. It is a struggle so many owners are ill prepared for

  • @dinosaurwoman
    @dinosaurwoman Рік тому +54

    Concerning cleaning up after the puppies: Did their mom never teach them how to clean? How to use a mop? No wonder those girls believe they have no responsibilities.

    • @durabelle
      @durabelle Рік тому +16

      To be fair that's a slightly unusual type of a mop. I used to be a cleaner in a company that cleaned with the customers' own mops, hoovers etc. and I only saw a couple of those folding ones in the ~100 houses I cleaned over the years. (But at the same time: no, probably not. It didn't really seem like they knew much about cleaning in general.)

  • @maralfniqle5092
    @maralfniqle5092 Рік тому +28

    Those two princesses should work in an animal shelter for a whole month!

  • @stillcoolnana
    @stillcoolnana Рік тому +28

    This is what happens when you go to a pet store and buy a puppy mill dog. Multiple health and behavioral problems. When will people learn?!?🥺

    • @ShermanCassidy
      @ShermanCassidy 11 місяців тому +8

      It has less to do with being a puppymill dog and more to do with lack of training and addressing when he was anxious. The dog was compulsive. He has high energy he needs to play and walk. They dont walk him, he looks like he’s never been groomed and the poor dog cant relax because he’s afraid.

  • @vintagepanj
    @vintagepanj 6 місяців тому +7

    Even Victoria knows Grandma is the safe one! Gives her the schedule and says "don't let anyone rub it out" 😅

  • @kerrybogdanski1027
    @kerrybogdanski1027 Рік тому +49

    You only have to look at the dogs coat to see how neglected he is, it's pelted solid, they can't even be arsed to brush him or het him groomed regularly, so important for these coated breeds! I see owners with dogs they spoil, I had a 6 month old puppy once, who was so bad, I almost sent him home 6 times. Worked out quickly it was the owners, sent them to a trainer, but they only did the puppy classes (at 6 months, not 14 weeks), shame. Because he is a clever clever dog, he is almost perfect for me to groom now a few years down the line, but is very stressed on arrival, fine once the owners have gone. Some things they used to do to him, still cause him issues 6 years down the line, for example, they used to spray him with water to punish, so imagine, shower pointing at him, then the dryer, make him aggressive at times still and no way would I try to spray him with something. It's sad people never understand what a fall they are setting their dogs up for. Groomed breeds have a lifetime of daily brushing, 3, 6 or 8 week grooms, I wish trainers like Victoria with her platform would address the state of the dogs general neglected state, that dog can't even see and the matting will be pulling at his skin every time he moves.

    • @IFChi1904
      @IFChi1904 11 місяців тому +8

      Exactly, the dog looks neglected. I cannot believe they took it "many times" to the vet to address its behavior.

    • @merteazy
      @merteazy 4 місяці тому +1

      I wish they would address grooming issues in the show. from the coat and skin to the long nails. some dogs are going to be more relaxed when they are no longer dirty and tangled and overgrown.

  • @ensabahnur7657
    @ensabahnur7657 Рік тому +154

    They shouldn't be allowed to have Animals PERIOD!😠

    • @MoDavI-sl7iy
      @MoDavI-sl7iy Рік тому +5

      I agree

    • @Purplesquigglystripe
      @Purplesquigglystripe Рік тому +8

      Even an “easy” dog would be way too much for them

    • @MarliesKrumböhmer
      @MarliesKrumböhmer 11 місяців тому +1

      So sehe ich das auch. Sie streiten sich darum, wer sich um den Hund kümmern MUSS. Niemand aus der Familie liebt diesen armen Hund. Ich hoffe sie geben das Tier an bessere Menschen ab.

  • @teamcougars
    @teamcougars 8 місяців тому +8

    When you see a dog spinning like that, it’s your dog telling you they are bored and horribly anxious 😢😢 dogs in the terrier line of dogs are very high energy 😢😮

  • @littleblackcar
    @littleblackcar Рік тому +59

    "Sometimes he hurts me". Yes, lady--that's what happens when you don't train or exercise a dog enough--you get a dog that you can't manage. If you had done what you should have done all along, you wouldn't be here.

    • @sodapopjones260
      @sodapopjones260 Рік тому +1

      Why get one if itll bite you for not spending time on it? Most people have better things to do

  • @pratikshetty452
    @pratikshetty452 Рік тому +14

    Mother was busy with blame game & crying even till the end 😂

  • @OrriG
    @OrriG Рік тому +16

    Frank was on his phone the whole time before Victoria said anything.

  • @donnajohnson9324
    @donnajohnson9324 11 місяців тому +5

    I think Victoria is the best because of her passion and understanding ❤

  • @ashleyquam
    @ashleyquam 11 місяців тому +3

    Awe this poor baby. He’s so anxious and scared of everything 😢

  • @Alice77550
    @Alice77550 10 місяців тому +1

    These shows are great for showing people just how much work goes into having a dog.

  • @janetdobie9722
    @janetdobie9722 Рік тому +31

    Love is a verb ...an action word...
    This is so sad
    This poor dog

  • @alessandrocoppede3066
    @alessandrocoppede3066 Рік тому +15

    I'm gonna use "I'm too old and too cynical to believe stories like this" when I become a doctor 😂😂

  • @melanieroczinski8741
    @melanieroczinski8741 Рік тому +33

    This episode made me so mad and sad!! I know you always try your best, i have a hard time understanding how you and the doctor could even bare to leave this poor dude in this family. I will never understand what people get a dog for if they have not the least understanding about what this animals needs are. To me it is clear that the nice conclusion of the episode will not go on for long. I felt like these people don´t even have empathy for their dog. He would clearly be way better off elsewhere.

    • @judywright4241
      @judywright4241 Рік тому +10

      It’s the same reason WAY too many families do, cute puppies. They get it out of the dog’s looks rather than it’s needs. They should NOT have gone to a pet store, and walking properly as a Puppy, makes it a happier more fulfilled dog. They let this dog on so many levels.

  • @sanscestmultishipper8614
    @sanscestmultishipper8614 Рік тому +5

    This one almost set off my fight or flight reaction when the family started to yell

  • @SuperDeathlyhallows
    @SuperDeathlyhallows 11 місяців тому +4

    I'm always astounded by the fact that people are so ignorant about the level of commitment a dog needs to be well adjusted and healthy. I'm not a dog owner, but even I know it requires a lot of work. I really feel sorry for that poor dog... 😢

  • @vitalucas9452
    @vitalucas9452 Рік тому +13

    That dog only needs to go to another home. Lots of activities and training. One on one. Lots of active people could be matched with him.

  • @angelinacamacho8575
    @angelinacamacho8575 Рік тому +46

    dont get pets unless YOU are able to care for them. dont get a pet on the whim that the other family members in the house will care for it. its great if they do but dont expect it.

    • @brunodacruz5402
      @brunodacruz5402 Рік тому

      You took the words right out of my mouth. It's as simple as that.

    • @shazzqsong
      @shazzqsong Рік тому +1

      100% and every member of the household is responsible.

  • @laurenschenck5355
    @laurenschenck5355 Рік тому +17

    That poor dog so sad and heartbreaking 💔 😢

  • @workliferecognition7002
    @workliferecognition7002 Рік тому +8

    When a dog is in the picture, everybody is responsible to help caring for the dog

    • @disabledbabe
      @disabledbabe 11 місяців тому

      No, the one who wanted or insisted on getting the dog is responsible. I broke up with someone for this. I didn't have the heart and time to do it and I said it several times but they went ahead and got it and expected me to help take care of it.

    • @samg873
      @samg873 5 місяців тому

      ​@@disabledbabe don't have the heart? I hope you never have kids either cause a dog is just like a baby that never grows up cause they can never tell us what they need just like a baby can't

  • @piaogilvie8463
    @piaogilvie8463 Рік тому +10

    Each video by Victoria Stilwell has so very many important messages to both people who already have a dog, but certainly also to people who want a dog.
    Poor, poor Rocky who suffered for so Long. And his fellow sufferers who aren't so lucky as to have Victoria Stilwell changing things.

  • @shawnalLovesJesus
    @shawnalLovesJesus Рік тому +11

    That dog needs a harness, not a collar. That is a lovely dog in need of love and care.

  • @agnieszkajasiczek7401
    @agnieszkajasiczek7401 Рік тому +10

    Correcting dog's behaviour is actually a therapy of the whole family.

  • @laurenschenck5355
    @laurenschenck5355 Рік тому +17

    You tell him Victoria and love ur touch talk with owners give them all a wake up call help them realize it is serious ❤

    • @danielledewitt1
      @danielledewitt1 Рік тому

      What do you mean touch talk?

    • @m6666
      @m6666 Рік тому

      @@danielledewitt1 I think she means tough.

    • @danielledewitt1
      @danielledewitt1 Рік тому

      @@m6666 Then why didn’t she just type tough.

    • @m6666
      @m6666 Рік тому

      @@danielledewitt1?who knows?

  • @Julaeable
    @Julaeable Рік тому +10

    „We love Rocky“ - DO YOU?!
    Holy smokes🤬

  • @deborahsmith8925
    @deborahsmith8925 Рік тому +5

    I have added a second dog to my home. Titan is a sixteen month old Pit mix intact male. He is socialized with people and animals. If he has no interaction then he would act out by jumping up; being leash reactive turning into a tug of war battle. It made me anxious to walk him when other dog walkers are outside. I try so hard to find a solution. A spay bottle, a muzzle and I considered buying a shock collar to break him out of it. One day I walked him on a new and longer route; allowing him to sniff unhurriedly. We made it all the way home and he earned a treat and lots of praise. I also learned to wait until he settled down before putting his harness on. I have to maintain confidence and take the lead; instead of letting him control the situation. I was amazed because I pray for a better interaction between us.

  • @JewelsShaman
    @JewelsShaman Рік тому +14

    Our Pets only "act out" or behave 'badly' because they are trying to tell us that something is wrong ~ unhappy with their home environment, or their health. Hoomans, please Listen to them and Correct what you have created 💚

  • @Aurora-77y
    @Aurora-77y 5 місяців тому

    I begged my mum for a dog, finally got a rescue she was 3 i was 16, she'd been abused by others 😢 i had 8 amazing years with her, she was incredible, loyal & loving retriever, lab, corgi legs mix. I took her everywhere with me, on long hikes & nature walks. I miss her ❤ you show a dog love by meeting all their needs. They failed him hugely. Thank god for victoria.

  • @alexandraweger45
    @alexandraweger45 6 місяців тому +1

    and the father is on the phone while the dog is so distressed; no words for it. This family broke this dog.

  • @leafrazer8440
    @leafrazer8440 6 місяців тому +1

    The dog picks up all of the stress in the family. I am wondering how everything worked out with the schedule. Such a beautiful bread!

  • @heyfreakazoid8175
    @heyfreakazoid8175 Рік тому +18

    I’m so confused on how the mom doesnt work, but also doesnt walk the dog?? And she complains about her daughters having to walk the dog, while one works AND goes to school??? Like its a family dog they all have to take care of him??? What the hell does the boyfriend even do for the dog??

  • @alexhika
    @alexhika Рік тому +13

    Holy crap, I grew up reading Dr Dodman's books 😳 I can't believe I have never seen this episode, it's like my favourite crossover 😂❤

  • @cg9616
    @cg9616 11 місяців тому

    Well done Victoria for saving this gorgeous boy and the family for finally stepping up

  • @jennifers8843
    @jennifers8843 Рік тому +10

    She loves him so much but won’t just walk the dog!!

  • @karenlloyd1705
    @karenlloyd1705 10 місяців тому +4

    Those girls have no respect for their mother. I have 4 sons & not one of them would have spoken to me the way these girls speak to their mum.
    If there is one thing to take away from this episode its - don't give into your kids begging for a dog!
    My boys begged for a dog, we looked after my neighbours dog for 2 weeks whilst they were on holiday. The boys had to take care of her - feed, clean up after her, take her for walks no matter what the weather was like. They never asked for a dog again

  • @bridgetb6582
    @bridgetb6582 Рік тому +37

    get the poor thing a good groom...

    • @vitalucas9452
      @vitalucas9452 Рік тому +14

      They should do that too. Wouldn't be fair to send a dog with a bite history like that to a groomer.

    • @bridgetb6582
      @bridgetb6582 11 місяців тому +8

      ​@vitalucas9452 tbh I was thinking of a groom under full sedation at a vet.... I don't think even the family could groom this dog with any success, and he NEEDS a shave down

    • @vitalucas9452
      @vitalucas9452 11 місяців тому +5

      @@bridgetb6582 A real pity.

  • @reesesduckk
    @reesesduckk Рік тому +3

    jeez, I never understand how family dogs arent taken care of when a family decides to get a FAMILY DOG.
    i have my own chihuahua, she's apart of the family, but she's my dog and I'm responsible for her, my family helps out and she gets all the attention and care she needs, especially if Im not home.
    but, if a family decides to get a dog as a whole, rather than just one person wanting the dog, you ALL have to out in the work regardless.
    a dog is your family, you brought them in and its your responsibility to keep them happy and safe just like you would with any other family.

  • @laurenschenck5355
    @laurenschenck5355 Рік тому +15

    Rocky is so adorable ❤

  • @donnajohnson9324
    @donnajohnson9324 11 місяців тому +4

    In Australia, if a dog bits one person they get put down and now a new law has come in the owner goes to jail no question asked because the owner is not doing the right thing by your dog

  • @michelewood925
    @michelewood925 Рік тому +8

    Maybe stop locking him up in the basement alone.

  • @pennydoyle5905
    @pennydoyle5905 Рік тому +6

    Make me so angry, that they sit and cry when they did this to this lovely dog shame on all of them

  • @hongkonger2661
    @hongkonger2661 Рік тому +3

    I love this video a lot because the adopted corgi with me behaves similarly, spinning when visitors come and even when she’s pooping, snips and bites everyone leaving the home or even elevator. 😊

  • @priscillaalford9711
    @priscillaalford9711 7 місяців тому +1

    The Mother was really sweet. She really wanted to change his behavior. The rest of the family are going to help Rocky.

  • @readingroomcafeproject
    @readingroomcafeproject 2 місяці тому

    When I got my hound he was 10 months old and we are his 5th home. Everyone had said he was too much work. So I walked him for hours a day, but it made a huge difference. He's a sweet old boy now, who can only do a couple of little walks a day, but he still goes out twice a day, he's a dog, they need to go out.

  • @Leanne-of6fb
    @Leanne-of6fb 10 місяців тому +2

    I got my first dog at age 6 and my parents told me that I had to feed him and walk him. I followed through and I was 6 years old. Those girls wanted the dog and they should at least spend time with the dog because raising a dog is like raising a child.

  • @lindziep6319
    @lindziep6319 Рік тому +2

    My nephews dog is also like this before but when i got there they become much better coz i always walk them in the morning at the park then also in the afternoon and the result the old male dog become lively and smiling again then the female dog who bites and aggressive to people become much lighter and she is less aggressive day by day and talking to them makes them listen more 😊 and my nephews learn to walk them and take care of them since then 😊 sometimes families who wants pets also need to be teach how to handle them well and be responsible that its like having a kid not just an animal.

  • @DutchIsraeli
    @DutchIsraeli Рік тому +7

    Those girls are selfish princesses. Their mother is crying over the dog, they don't shed a tear. As long as they can do whatever they want, they don't care that the dog is suffering. That poor animal. I just want to shake them! 😢

    • @Coastpsych_fi99
      @Coastpsych_fi99 Рік тому +7

      The mother needs to set boundaries and really needs to give the dog to a better home. You should never accept a dog or living being you don’t truly want.

    • @that_one_equestrian739
      @that_one_equestrian739 Рік тому +1

      This is so true!

  • @rosedewittbukater4203
    @rosedewittbukater4203 Рік тому +2

    Great that Victoria could help the family!

  • @Niki-xr6cw
    @Niki-xr6cw Рік тому +3

    They have messed up this poor dog by behaving poorly ,a dog belongs to the family not to any individual ,every one of them need to step up to the plate .

  • @Cobalt-Case
    @Cobalt-Case 5 місяців тому

    Okay, my aussie is a notorious puller. She's like a freight train. I've tried everything. Reversing direction is an incredibly fun herding game. The best I've managed is slowly breaking down her desire to pull EVERY walk. That means stopping every step for the entire first half. If another dog barks, forget it, she goes nuts. I've carried her past while she panicked. When we get to the second half, it's great, but I'd really like to enjoy the whole walk. She's smart, just excitable, fast, strong, a little neurotic and has trouble focusing if there's a lot going on. I adore her, and I wanna do everything I can to help her

  • @savitham1560
    @savitham1560 Рік тому +5

    Yeah.. Why Dad was checking phone..??
    I thought he may be taking pics or making video of his dog initially..
    Glad to see girls are learning to pick up poop n got de-sensitized regd that part of care.
    Girls dont make ur Parents work soo much for ur desire. Its painful they pay bills of food, vet n everything n u guys dont show the respect n chip in work as much as needed.
    Mom did her work for years.. Hope she gets the rest n happiness n peace she deserves.

  • @Andrea-ue2uw
    @Andrea-ue2uw Рік тому +10

    People like this who think they are divas shouldnt have a dog like my god GROW UP…you get a high energy dog that has a disorder and you do nothing with this animal

  • @TM2U-1
    @TM2U-1 Рік тому +7

    Can somebody please give Rocky a brush out and a bath?

  • @LibbyZae543
    @LibbyZae543 11 місяців тому +7

    Parents like this drive me nuts. I'm a mom myself and I get it, it's irritating when your kids beg you for something and swear up and down they'll take care of it, and they don't. I get it, that's exhausting. But YOU are the parent, YOU are the adult, YOU technically were the one who brought another living thing into your house. If your kids aren't doing what they're supposed to with the dog, YOU DO IT!!! Period.

    • @izagoaszczyk5552
      @izagoaszczyk5552 11 місяців тому

      So you teach your children to have wishes and expectations and they are free of any responsibilities.
      Yes, the mother is to decide, so she should decide that because the girls don't do what they should do and promised to do, Rocky is going to a shelter.