Out-of-Control Dogs are Ruining Owner's 20-year Relationship | Full Episode | It's Me or The Dog
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- Опубліковано 24 вер 2023
- Victoria tries to mend a deepening rift in a couple that is inundated with four unruly dogs.
USA Season 3 Episode 9
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Victoria is equal parts dog trainer and marriage counselor.
I’d go 20/80.
She really is 🥰
This show is couples therapy disguised as dog training
😂 sorry, but your remark is quite funny!
@gabotron94 yours is,too!😂
woman gets slammed into the tree and her husband is yelling at her that hes right...its awful
I've been binging these episodes, and one of the most common themes is how fragile masculinity ruins a family. Nothing makes me more mad than a man watching his wife struggle, and not lifting a finger.
Yes. It’s dangerous either way.
We hate “Happy wife, happy life”
It should always be “Happy spouse, happy house” 🥰
@julias2855 I couldn't agree more! For a relationship to flourish, it takes everybody involved! Besides, helping out is fun and gives you a sense of purpose! ♡
She was the problem though. Making the dogs more anxious and not listening to his advice. Why would you want to help someone who doesn't listen to you?
A man that is embarrassed of his wife should not be married
It's ridiculous how he projects his insecurity about the backpack, thinking other people are judging them about it. The backpack is actually a good idea. People are probably judging them because he's being pathetic as a husband.
The fact how quickly the training paid off, shows, that despite all insecurities and worries this woman had regarding her dogs, she actually had an amazing love and connection with them, and they were constantly looking up to her, they just weren't properly guided before. This is amazing to see ✨
Right?? I was surprised by how immediate the effect was.
Seeing the two finally relax for the first time without worrying about the dogs is just, amazing. Like I admit, I giggled for a bit seeing these two being happy together. The happiness is contagious.
I KNOW
I teared up omg it was so sweet
I teared up a few times. Like when he walked in with roses and they went to dinner. This was a good episode.
The way all the dogs came around when she started crying 🥺🥹
That made me tear up 🥹 how precious
The sweetness of these two on their date!! "You really look handsome." "Cuz my suit?" "Nope, you just are." 😭🥰 I'm so happy for them to start to build a relationship together again.
That was prob the most genuine and kind moment I’d seen between a husband and a wife in a long time!!!! Warmed my heart.
like !!! she melted my hearrtt with that one ohmygosh
Amazing that the son, daughter, and in-laws have tolerated this lack of training and poor behavior for so long.
It's probably because they didn't want to divide the family.
@@daniellamcgee4251 Yeah, they're extra-loving people--of each other and the doggos.
They love them too. Did you hear their son say “he just likes to be with you” when Victoria was kinda appalled that Midnight jumps on people’s heads? He was understanding/excusing him a bit because of love. He has sympathy for the dog just wanting to be with them and he can appreciate that as someone who cares for the dogs too. They just have to keep their kids safe though.
@@Jayyy048I don’t think they loved those dogs while they were biting their heads off. They tolerated because they loved their mom. That’s all.
No way would they have been allowed to bring those dogs to my house acting like that. Shame on the mother for putting ppl through her bad decisions.
The smug looks on the family’s faces when Connie was told she was causing the problems broke my heart…🥺
Connie is an absolute natural trainer!!!! Her timing and tone are phenomenal and I’d love to see her train other people’s dogs 🐕 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🐾
Now this was a beautiful episode. Connie obviously loves her dogs and was so committed to changing her behavior to what they actually needed from her.
This sweet woman is the BEST „bad“ owner this show ever had!
Yeah she is a good owner at heart; she used to tolerate an hour walk of them pulling because she knew they needed exercise.
😂 Midnight is absolutely hilarious 😂 hes just a fun loving kinda dude. He wants to take people to his bed coz he loves people, he sings for them at the door, he loves doing canon balls in the pool it just so happens to be onto someone 😂 lmao hes the best 😂
🤣🤣🤣🥰🥰🥰😍😍😍
he really was singing LOL! i lovee him. pitties are the absolute BEST!
ikr I was like "wait, you should make it so he just does the howl while patiently sitting because that's kinda cute actually."
I can't believe how well Victoria can change those those dogs and know what strategy to help them. Their like a whole new dog!
Im more shocked by how well she handles all these owners💀❤absolutely amazing
@@kiwiiistrawbartzy She trains people well :'D
Seeing the two of them go on a date together and be sweet to one another warmed my heart. So sweet! 🥰
Great episode. I'm older with 4 large dogs. It's good to see the family made so fantastic progress. I'm guilty of loving my dogs like she did but since watching Victoria I'm slowly making changes.
That's wonderful! I hope it makes for a happier life for you and your pups.
🥜🥜
It is imperative to have control of your dogs. When I was leash training my lab, she seriously injured me pulling and she was only 65 lbs then. Now she's 100 lbs, had I not worked her then, she would be uncontrollable on a leash now.
@@anonymoose116 ....and greatly reduced how bad injuries could get.
@@MoonyToonyDoony that too. If she wasn't well trained on leash now, she could easily drag me along.
I love how Midnight seems to be the first dog on the door training that re focused like thinking "yay, finally I got a task to do, and I got treats for it!"
Midnight: as a welcome, let me sing you the song of my people! xD
I thought the same thing 😂😂😂😂
the blues lol
The change after two weeks is incredible. Connie is glowing, she seems to be so much happier and less stressed. The dogs are doing great as well, the couple did a great job. ❤
I'm glad they asked Victoria for help, she's the best I've seen . And I learned so much from her and even have implemented it with my dog and I have a really good boy❤ I was shocked she doesn't have them crate trained or didn't consider taking one at a time out for walks , put a safety fence around the pool you have babies anyhow need baby safety and to keep dogs out of the pool too , they aren't bad dogs they just need help learning how to be dogs❤ , they'll be much better after Victoria's help . You can't feel bad for these dogs like they're very loved and taken care of you just have to train them proper training gives you a well behaved baby❤
I have worked with feral cats, frightened biting ferrets, a mink, defensive snakes but dogs are a fright to me. This is why I am here, to confront my fear, learn to read them. All the people who own houses near my house have them. What better way than watching Victoria can I learn about them? Midnight Dock Diving was fun to watch. I liked him the best, did not mind his howling. Lovely couple who, thank you to Victoria, can enjoy each other. loved it.
Quick question. Do you have any best tips for socialing a somewhat feral rescue cat?
I'm sure you know this, but what you see on this channel are extreme cases. I've never met dogs like these in person.
But it's definitely a good way to learn about them and how to communicate and train them.
I hope you get to meet some good doggos to help you conquer your fear. Best of luck!
You could always use the turn around technique at the door when you visit. I used it on my neighbor's German shepherd puppy. That dog learned and respected the hell out of me for it.
Oh my gosh, Midnight sure makes it know he has something to say! 😂
And how absolutely precious when he ran over when his mama started crying 😢😭🥹
Love how Victoria gets the family working together at the end, but it is frustrating in the beginning when all the family does is fight ❤
Being an animal behaviorist is dealing with 20% pet problems and 80% human failure😂
I love seeing that instant switch in midnight while swimming it was literally like the flip of a switch
I love that my husky just lays and watches this when they are howling and barking. He couldn't care less
3:37 Victoria's face of disbelief is amazing XD she is truly a comedic genius
Out of all celeb dog trainers, victoria is the best hands down. Cesar is a 🤡
Seeing her comfort that woman was so sweet.
Cesar Miller is questionable.
@@racheljackson4428 "Questionable" puts it very nice.
Victoria is great, but it would be nice to have a celeb dog trainer who makes their training more pro-human, rather than just the dogs 🐕.
I'm thinking some more structured dog training to ease the difficulty for the humans. They should do what Victoria asks them to do, but a lot of them are just too inept and/or unmotivated.
Victoria's methods definitely work on the dogs 🐕, but her success in changing the behaviour is inconsistent.
Cesar is disgraceful and I don't agree with his tactics 😕
Cesar is all about himself. I never saw him truly helping the dog owners overcome the issues for the long term. He's a meatball surgeon basically. And I got very tense watching his videos. With Victoria, I can watch her videos with a smile and in total agreement on what she's done for these stressed dog owners and their families. She's a healer.
Connie should train to be a dog trainer. She loves dogs and she'll love that job!
Sometime the editing kills me 😂
The imagine of victoria looking at the guy who left his wife alone with the 2 “problem dogs” while he walks the 2 docile ones and saying “I see the problem” 😂😂😂
7:52 7
This is a great family who actually just needed some help they are great people
I t warm my heart when they went out on their date, Thank you Victoria for helping the owners as much as you help the dogs. ❤
Its funny how she being a professional dog trainer and doing that her entire life and for a living people get so astonished and baffled when her tricks and her stuff works on their disbehaived dog its funny like yea it will work she knows how to deal with.
I am so impressed by how calm and patient Victoria adresses all these different problems!!! Just amazing! This is what professional dog training looks like!
She is Way better than Caesar Milan and that's the truth
He’s very talented but most people can’t imitate his techniques or have a pack of dogs handy to help train their own dog. I agree Victoria’s methods are much more suited for the average person.
@@firenze5555 average person? He floods when he trains. My dad even agrees with me. Dogs and wolves and coyotes and foxes tell their counterparts to back off in the ways Victoria does. He isn't a dog trainer but5a dog abuser.
Oh my gosh!🥺🥺🥺 All the 3 dogs when they saw the woman (sorry can't remember the name)crying they went closer to her,sniffed her to check her up and assure themselves that she was okay... it's the same thing that my brother's lab does when he perceives I am upset or in distress! Aw,so sweet and adorable!!🥹😍🥰
I don't understand why do all 4 dogs have to come with you when you visit your daughter and her family, just leave the dogs at home and enjoy your daughter/son-in-law and granddaughter
Now it could be a possibility, but it seemed they didn't leave the dogs at all until Victoria told them to. The weird thing is dogs didn't have any issues with it! On the other hand I get it if the family lives a bit further away, or they'd just like to spend the whole day there sometimes, can't leave dogs home alone for too long.
@@durabellethe dogs had a problem before because their owner made a big fuss about leaving. She thought she was reassuring them, but she was raising their anxiety.
Notice the difference when they went on the date was they just walked out the door, and didn't make an ordeal of it.
Midnight needs to be a water rescue dog...doesnt need to be trained to mouth the arm and pull 😂
Um, the pit mix is also growling and biting in the pool - he drew blood on the adult son but the mother thinks it’s all “play” - yet no one mentions this and thinks it’s okay around very small children?!!
Yes, I was surprised that this was ommited. That is unlike Victoria to not focus on biting behaviours, But she did say that she didn't think the dog was aggressive, just anxious, and addressed the influential anxiety in the owner, as well as the dogs.
@@daniellamcgee4251It probably didn't make the final cut
@@Shishiochan You are probably correct. There are time limits. 😊
I know that frustrated me too. And what Victoria told them to do didn’t solve the issue of his diving… it just added a distraction for the dog so the person doesn’t get “as injured” well that’s still dangerous for small kids. It didn’t teach the dog to think before reacting like Victoria said it did.
@@JEM471025it was cut out of the episode lol
Sasha looks so much like my husky mix! She'll be 2 in December. We're still working on the loose leash walking thing but she's made a lot of progress. I definitely will be adding in more of Victoria's sudden turns so she has to pay attention to me!
She looks like mine too ❣️ same expressions and body language. Loose leash walking has been our only struggle with her
Her age is part of that too, she's still a pup.
I've also trained my lab to sit between my legs when there are other people/dogs passing, when a car is passing, and when we're waiting to cross the road. Highly recommend, it gives me a lot more control over her. If we're not moving, she's right between my knees.
I feel so, so sorry for Connie because it's so obvious that she loves her dogs to death and she wanted to try everything she could to help them and make them feel better. She really went out of her way to give them the home they deserve and it's just so nice to see an owner who obviously needs help but who is so invested in trying everything in their power to be a better owner for their puppies ❤
Hi Victoria I also want you be like you when I grow up but I am a commerce student. The way you change people and dogs life is amazing. I just started watching you recently and was fascinating to see people and dogs life changing I don't just wanna be like you but also to open a rescue centre not just for dog but cats also and few animals which I could handle. I have everything planned doing my research on animals. Seeing video has motivated and encouraged me to do so. Its so beautiful amazing and fantastic to humans and animals living happily. ❤❤❤
The organised date mate me sooo emotional 🥺🥺🥺🥰
Wife gets plowed into a tree, falls down with the dog.
husband:… not are you okay…. But “ you never learn”. 😠 wow
LMFAOOO
But he saw her make that mistake again and again. If you love someone, and they constantly put themselves in danger, very soon you will get frustrated and angry at them. Also because you care.
It's very commun even if it's doesn't help.
@@justine2695but why doesn’t he just take the stronger dogs as a man? He sounded like an as* to me. It’s like watching a woman struggle with heavy luggage and saying “I told you not to pack so much” well she did and the bags are here now so what does that help, carry the sh*t. Don’t be a d*ck.
Victoria is hired to train dogs and roast the owners 😂😂
I have so much respect for victoria.... I personally dont like dogs one bit, and ive been watching her show for years.. she is legendary ❤😢🎉
I almost cried watching this.
Fr this episode ate down 😪😪
He is so mean and selfish not helping her poor thing she ends up in the hospital and hurt many times that is so horrible makes me sad 😢
What about her? look at her behaviour, its all about "i am the only one who knows what to do and how to do it". She litrally admits she doesnt listen to her family and check her reaction when Victoria tells her the dog is controling her life and she is the one making it happen. Its been years for them until this show of them clearly trying to do something and her constantly dismissing them so yes she ends up doing it on her on but its not because people around are dcks.
He's been walking two of the dogs from the beginning. They were both so worn down that they couldn't empathize with each other anymore....
What a lovely couple. And those dogs (and Connie) have come so far in such a short space of time ❤
Watching max before she victoria handed him off His body language was so relaxed and he almost had. A puppy facial expression
Wow! Great to see such improvement in all the dogss❤ ... but even more wonderful to see the changes in the humans❤ Especially Connie- she looks like a different person by the end of this. Everyone is so much happier+ more relaxed, humans and canines. All the frowns+ anxiety turned into smiles.
Great training video❤️
This is my FAVORITE episode 💐 I love this family 💕
This was kinda hard to watch. These do
g were totally out of control and have been for a while. I really hope Connie changes her behavior for the sake of her safety, the relationship with her family and these dogs. She really humanized these dogs especially Max.
It was great to see Midnight diving off that dock!! It was even better to see John and Connie enjoying each other 😊
Beautiful family and beautiful dogs God bless them all!
I call my dog when he is about 100 yards from me and I call sit, car coming. He sits without hesitation. It is repetition and love. I am a Btilt, think Victoria is fab.
Man, That was a good episode. Sweet ending. I hope they're doing well.
Real hard work Victoria! Love and Regards for the family, so happy to see them relaxed and enjoying the life with their lovely dogs! ♥
What a beautiful episode! Always have to cry watching. But this time out of happiness. They are really lovely 🧡
I appreciate you so much Victoria you are the best all the hard work and devotion and determination ❤
Loved the episode, loved the family. Really heartwarming ❤️
Why have more dogs and big dogs and small dogs if you can't handle responsibility?
Many people love dogs but don't understand them or their needs or even their own human needs. I've been guilty of that at times and have learned a lot from Victoria. I also learned a lot doing dog walking. When I watch the dog next door, I have him sit before he gets a treat as he has a tendency to snap it from your hand. He gets it and does well, until the next time I watch him and have to do it all over again. They just let him grab it or drop it for him...and are fine with their way.
Knowledge is power, well done Victoria
It’s so fun to see ppl who are at their last chance.
Then seeing how much fun having a dog can be!
This is a reoccurring problem. Men not helping their wives. Out of pride. 🙄🙄🙄
And women not listening when someone is trying to help them.
@@carolmullins they would not have to listen .. just do the thing instead of telling the other person to do it.
@@capsulamental both sides have to do it without being told. We tell kids what to do, but adults don't need to be told to clean their room, sweep the floor, and do the dishes, they are supposed to just do it. If you have to tell someone to do something that they should be already doing then they are not behaving as adults.
blame feminism
Victoria is just amazing. Totally amazing
Fantastic video, great dogs and such a lovely couple.
Very entertaining and ditto educational!!!
I just have one large GSD/husky and she takes all my attention to train her, I couldn't imagine having four her size! I might get another in a few years but not until my current dog is a bit older and calmer and her training is down pat!
The transformation is beautiful. ❤
Here’s a super easy fix, don’t get high energy dogs that you aren’t willing to properly train. Imo these people shouldn’t have had these types of dogs let alone this many. They’re lucky Victoria came to help.
Amazing that that girl can realy help dogs
Damn, they really should implement an owning license for dogs. At least people would have to learn some basics that way, if they apply them is a different story though.
Besides that, midnight and Sasha are beauties.
Seeing this, makes me really glad my parents knew their way with our huge walking carpets I grew up with.
Hmm. It’s more about training owners than training dogs isn’t it? Well done Victoria for sorting everyone out!
a great episode 👏
Victoria you are amazing ❤❤❤
I love these shows🥰🐶
Victoria is awesome. ❤
john sounds SO MUCH like carl from aqua teen hunger force!!!1!
Why is there always a dog name "Sasha??
omg! I hope this couple are still healthy and happy and if not these dogs, then some more they can love!
Midnight is almost protecting the people.
I adore how the women had many health problems and pain and still walked her dog meanwhile other owners on this show refuse to take their dog on a walk because they don’t feel like it.
@14:35 was so cute when homie checked up on his owner, I really think that midnight just thought his owners couldnt swim that good either. its that retriever in em
Lovley dogs, and the owners seems to very good people. I'm sending them prayers from Denmark🙏❤️🙏
6:35 corgo!
Connie is amazing!!
Wishing them many more blessings. Dogs are very smart! Great job!! God is good 🙌🏾. Beautiful 💕💕💕
The way he lit up when she told him he looked handsome and he understood she actually meant it.
Yeah, he's not the best guy but it seems like the stress of the arguments between them due to the dogs and the lack of private time might've soured him up. You can tell they're still in love.
I could watch their date over and over again.
Such a lovely lady!!! The dogs are lucky
Omg 😂The lab’s response is so damn funny howling haha
Very impressive with four larger dogs!
My goodness I can’t wait to see Victoria work her magic, these 4 dogs are out of control😮
But why would she keep adding to the chaos??? She already was in way over her head… why???
veri good ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
So many times, you've helped me. I watch each video to glean what Penny(giant) Poodle & I can learn from it.
Thank you for sharing them. Each has a similar & different component which allows for remembering & developing techniques.
Standard poodle.
She's larger than a Standard@@m6666
Its great that she is so good at this. However, every time she enters in to one of these situations and I hear people with many big dogs that live in city's blaming everyone else for their dogs' behaviors I just want to yell Who was the one that thought getting this many dogs was a good Idea? YOU'RE the one that is to blame. STOP pushing your own vanity and hubris off on all those around you, and making your dogs miserable so you can childishly indulge your own BS. Thats why I admire Victorias patience with people as much or even more then her ability with dogs. Some of my family raised Iditarod sled dogs and working dogs. From them I learned much of what real responsibility you must take for each and every one. Care feeding exercising and stimulating them mentally and physically. Bless and be well all.
Connie is so loving.
I definitely recommend that more knowledge of dog psychology (like VIctoria has) be taught in schools. People and dogs would surely live in harmony so much better!
Aw she sounded so sad when she said she is probably letting Max down.