Thank you so much David for all of your videos. The connection I’m in right now which started as coworkers since June ‘23, (I was a parking enforcement officer, but had to resign and he works in security ) has evolve into a strong friendship. I exhibit a good bit of the feminine traits you mentioned, and the good man I’m connected with has all those masculine qualities that I am attracted to when we first met. I also want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for being honest and getting it through women heads that we need to strive to be Mrs. Right, and put in the work and lean into those feminine qualities in order to have a man wants to respect us. And it takes a lot of security, self-control and a lot of self respect for women to investing and supporting and nurturing, showing the three qualities that men want; respect, appreciation , intimacy instead of going straight to sexual intimacy. Of course, I have fantasies and physically attracted to him, but I know that when the time comes for that and that’s what I want, it will be in a way where it’s the right timing. Even though my past has been a harrowing and difficult one and the scars of incest are still present for me. I am willing to put in the work to really heal and experience fullness of love. I bring those top three traits and the 15 qualities with each interaction with him. By bringing those feminine traits you mentioned and not becoming a black feminist, feminism, or leaning into the masculine stuff to try to control him. I religiously watch your videos for the past six months and implement your advice. I have a great deal of peace with his presence and his support and his emotional connection and his encouragement and his prioritizing my well-being. We’re both going through familial , health and financial hurdles, but we’re not alone in the struggles, and it just makes it more bearable and gives each other hope to keep going. Humor is our favorite thing ❤ Another thing I wanna mention it is extremely important for everyone, but women specifically to define what it means to be loved and to show love, because when you’re getting advice from family and relatives and books and UA-cam your head and your heart can be really confused because the person that you care about isn’t living up to other people’s expectations of love . And especially as women were so used to the guy having six figures and six packs and six cars and six houses and six jobs that when he is striving for more we don’t want to build a man because we don’t wanna build ourselves either we just want to have the cake and eat it without having to go through the process of making a damn cake. I’m so grateful that he’s pushing me to grow and be a better woman and focus on the things that are important to me like my education and finances and that just means so much to me. I grew up where women weren’t supposed to do those things. Just get married to a rich guy and that’s it. If women in my family did it was just because the man didn’t want to provide because she was able to do it on her own, and he had no reason and then it became abusive. So the areas I am define for myself on how to love and be loved are; love, trust, healing, gratitude, compassion, connection, and forgiveness. And this is an exercise anyone can do to really focus in or what matters to them, and it changes your life. So, thank you very much for everything that you do for us ladies. I am grateful to have men like you in my life to teach me how to be a woman worthy of respect and love! God/Allah bless. Much respect to you and your family. One thing I want to know or ask your advice is how to teach him to pray and seek Allah/God for that deep pain and sadness I can’t heal. I’m always praying for him, even before I met him, I always prayed for him, he is my Naseeb. He shows interest asking me questions about Islam (he was always Atheist and isn’t into his upbringing of Christianity) so I just want to go at his speed and do what he is okay with, but I feel like just sitting down with him and showing him to pray.
Thank you so much for taking the time to write this. 🙏 it definitely sounds like both of you are working in a path towards a great and loving life. On the praying/reaching out to God/Allah, I was actually raised an atheist and would laugh at the idea of the supernatural. Until I was paralyzed and had my own encounter… it’s hard for men, we get set in our ways and think they are rightwe try to be in control of our destinies and by praying or acknowledging the divine we have to acknowledge there are things we are not in control of and never will be. But for a man, a relationship with God is the one thing above all else that will ground him and keep him on a path to greatness, love and peace. If he seeks Him out, your man absolutely will become even better for it.
Thank you so much David for all of your videos. The connection I’m in right now which started as coworkers since June ‘23, (I was a parking enforcement officer, but had to resign and he works in security ) has evolve into a strong friendship. I exhibit a good bit of the feminine traits you mentioned, and the good man I’m connected with has all those masculine qualities that I am attracted to when we first met.
I also want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for being honest and getting it through women heads that we need to strive to be Mrs. Right, and put in the work and lean into those feminine qualities in order to have a man wants to respect us.
And it takes a lot of security, self-control and a lot of self respect for women to investing and supporting and nurturing, showing the three qualities that men want; respect, appreciation , intimacy instead of going straight to sexual intimacy.
Of course, I have fantasies and physically attracted to him, but I know that when the time comes for that and that’s what I want, it will be in a way where it’s the right timing.
Even though my past has been a harrowing and difficult one and the scars of incest are still present for me. I am willing to put in the work to really heal and experience fullness of love. I bring those top three traits and the 15 qualities with each interaction with him. By bringing those feminine traits you mentioned and not becoming a black feminist, feminism, or leaning into the masculine stuff to try to control him. I religiously watch your videos for the past six months and implement your advice. I have a great deal of peace with his presence and his support and his emotional connection and his encouragement and his prioritizing my well-being.
We’re both going through familial , health and financial hurdles, but we’re not alone in the struggles, and it just makes it more bearable and gives each other hope to keep going. Humor is our favorite thing ❤
Another thing I wanna mention it is extremely important for everyone, but women specifically to define what it means to be loved and to show love, because when you’re getting advice from family and relatives and books and UA-cam your head and your heart can be really confused because the person that you care about isn’t living up to other people’s expectations of love . And especially as women were so used to the guy having six figures and six packs and six cars and six houses and six jobs that when he is striving for more we don’t want to build a man because we don’t wanna build ourselves either we just want to have the cake and eat it without having to go through the process of making a damn cake.
I’m so grateful that he’s pushing me to grow and be a better woman and focus on the things that are important to me like my education and finances and that just means so much to me. I grew up where women weren’t supposed to do those things. Just get married to a rich guy and that’s it. If women in my family did it was just because the man didn’t want to provide because she was able to do it on her own, and he had no reason and then it became abusive.
So the areas I am define for myself on how to love and be loved are; love, trust, healing, gratitude, compassion, connection, and forgiveness.
And this is an exercise anyone can do to really focus in or what matters to them, and it changes your life.
So, thank you very much for everything that you do for us ladies. I am grateful to have men like you in my life to teach me how to be a woman worthy of respect and love! God/Allah bless. Much respect to you and your family.
One thing I want to know or ask your advice is how to teach him to pray and seek Allah/God for that deep pain and sadness I can’t heal. I’m always praying for him, even before I met him, I always prayed for him, he is my Naseeb. He shows interest asking me questions about Islam (he was always Atheist and isn’t into his upbringing of Christianity) so I just want to go at his speed and do what he is okay with, but I feel like just sitting down with him and showing him to pray.
Thank you so much for taking the time to write this. 🙏 it definitely sounds like both of you are working in a path towards a great and loving life.
On the praying/reaching out to God/Allah, I was actually raised an atheist and would laugh at the idea of the supernatural. Until I was paralyzed and had my own encounter… it’s hard for men, we get set in our ways and think they are rightwe try to be in control of our destinies and by praying or acknowledging the divine we have to acknowledge there are things we are not in control of and never will be.
But for a man, a relationship with God is the one thing above all else that will ground him and keep him on a path to greatness, love and peace. If he seeks Him out, your man absolutely will become even better for it.
@@David_Talks. Thank you for the perspective and reply.