Absolute best dating advice ever holy crow. I’m not being sarcastic. This is exactly how you have to do it. It doesn’t matter if it “feels” inauthentic. You don’t dismiss what works just because you “feel” a certain way. That’s a recipe for failure.
Hey there, my awesome friends! I hope you're all doing well and enjoying life. Just wanted to take a moment to say hello and remind you all how much I appreciate having you in my life. Let's keep making amazing memories together!
This is probably the most important but simple rule for dating that there is. A simp is a guy that keeps giving it 100% effort while the girl does 5% effort. Honestly don't go for women that show low interest.
@@allnonethevoid1487 Hey there, my awesome friends! I hope you're all doing well and enjoying life. Just wanted to take a moment to say hello and remind you all how much I appreciate having you in my life. Let's keep making amazing memories together!
Hey there, my awesome friends! I hope you're all doing well and enjoying life. Just wanted to take a moment to say hello and remind you all how much I appreciate having you in my life. Let's keep making amazing memories together!
As a woman all I care about is if a man never stonewalls me just because I’m mad at him and never is interested in porn because he is grossed out by slutty girls. If a man can do both those things it’s the most attractive thing ever. If he’s fit on top of that, being fit is the cherry on top. If you have a dad bod and do all those things, I will still be so amazed even if there are no muscles
Not really. Try to initiate and give them the feeling that you’re a little interested and would like to get to know the person instead of showing that you’re attracted immediately.
@@shoruda None of them care about your mind games. If you look at her once she already thinks she is your queen. Your only chance to be successful is to be above average in attractiveness.
He has a point my husband told me he loved me early and he was the first to say it but because some days he wouldn’t respond to me at all because “he was busy” in the beginning I was better able to accept the “I love you” and being more attracted and happy to hear him say that
I watched a dating coach once that said women are like cats and men are like dogs. You can chase a dog and he thinks it's time to play. If you chase a cat, it just runs out of fear. Just pet the cat when it wants to be pet. Don't chase it. Don't chase her or you'll scare her off.
This is 100% true. My wife chases me 23 yrs ago and I actually stood her up on our first date (it was an accident) but it did completely reflect what you are saying.
brandon carter - she left b/c she thought she could do betta, you gonna prove the skank right, or you gonna prove the skank wrong she belongs in da streets if you ask me!
How is it too late brother you still fucking alive, this was simply a lesson for you to learn. God or the universe got someone that is more of a match for you, keep improving yourself in a healthy way not an obsessive way and the rest will follow much love 🫡❤️
He’s right. She definitely didn’t match my interest, and that situationship fell apart like The Hindenburg. Years later, she hits me with “I thought you lost interest”, when I was all tore up about it for months on end. Done twisted the knife, and the emotional scar feels fresh, 3 years later.
I am just after a breakup. Because my ex gf approached me i thought she will be so interesting in me, but it was no the case. I always try to be nice to her, say how she beautiful and i love her, but she didn't do the same for me, and now we brokeup (she decided), and now I will be smarter for my next a relationship
I wish someone would do a questionnaire of couples that have been married for 30+ years. Ask them how they met and what the beginning of their relationship was like. It would need to be more than 1000 couples, and 10,000 would be even better. Then divide the data between meeting younger that 20 and older than 30. I met my wife in high school. So I do not have input for people dating in their 30’s.
Feels weird peeking into what it's like for guys trying to date. Its like this exhausting game where they have to give everything but are never guaranteed anything except rejection sometimes.
Fml went on first dates with like four people and didn’t lead to anymore. It’s so annoying they are attractive and I know it’s not my appearance. It’s very frustrating to just see them go
@@wakeupthisisntreal8168 the worst part is I’m looking for the right connection so bad & the ones I go on dates with I’m very selective. I only pick the ones I think will work out. It’s those ones that don’t work out. WTF.
@@Soeales Your mindset might be the problem. You should let things happen more naturally. Why would you want to rush and make dating so systematic if you're going to spend the rest of your life with this person? Instead, go to events, places, and other agents of socialization, and form meaningful bonds/friendships with others that aren't so "forced", and then move on to the dating stage. People who immediately skip to dating just don't have the same depth.
You are winning when you feel content with yourself first. Love should not make you complete, it's just something you shower at others and yourself without any possessiveness or returns. ~just my opinion
Hey man would appreciate it if you reply I need some motivation, what are you thoughts on approaching every opportunity you get? I moved to a less populated state and not really feeling I could get any girls, I recently just travelled and went through the airport and saw some of the most beautiful women, I guess I’m a handsome guy and usually can pull any girl I want, but I don’t know why man I just didn’t talk to these girls in the airport man I feel like I’ve been living in Alaska and I feel some type of way seeing those woman and wondering the potential with them
Noooo don’t listen to this!! Oh my goodness please just be authentic if you like someone let it be it known. Playing games on both sides is bs and that’s why there so many single unhappy people both bitching about the opposite sex. Just be you and the right one will stay ✨
I haven’t got times for games I just be myself simple as if u like her go for it if she don’t like u just move on there is plenty of women in the world for every guy out there
I started seeing what advice is out there for men and I'm mortified, haha. Was just curious what kind of information is mainstream. From m what I gather maybe one or two people may agree with me, haha, but if you're a guy that has done work on himself and is self motivated in his life (health, fitness, job, friends, family, hobbies, spiritual/religious path) and wants a long term or life commitment then this isn't the advice for you. This advice would be for the guy looking for scrappy overall unfulfilling dynamics. It will attract an unhealthy kind of woman and she'll never be enough and you'll end up wanting a different woman who you can actually be the pursuing. It's natural for a man to go towards a woman and pursue her. Here he is saying let the woman lead, let the woman pursue you, let the woman take the relationship somewhere, make the decisions, let the woman be the initiator. If you do this then the guy is putting himself in the role.if the feminine and putting the woman in the masculine role. This is a very wounded way to go. Trying to stay safe. You'll get women, just not the right one (s). To each their own though. The guy should initiate, pursue, lead, always a step ahead. And you shouldn't want a woman where this is not genuinely activated within you all on its own. If she truly lights you up, this is natural. We should all be grown adults and know how to emotionally regulate ourselves. Everyone is so hyper focused on getting hurt. Hurt isn't because you love, because you care, because you trust. Hurt happens when there is attachment. An advanced level is to be able to invest in someone while simultaneously be unattached. You have a strong preference to with with said person or have things go a certain way but you are okay no matter what, either way. Love is not attachment. Having a bond does not equal attachment either. I really do wish all men a good journey and partner that is fulfilling. Cheers.
She either doesn’t reply for a long time, or makes no effort to continue the convo. If you ask how her day was and she just says “fine” or “good”, full stop, just end it there.
I am assuming this is happening to you... Love is a very strong word, interested is a better word. Women have desire like us and they too have needs. With respect throw a bone and see what happens tbh. A good question to ask yourself every now and then is what you even want from her as well and where you want to end up. Or continue to feel it out until you come up with your decision. Much respect to you brother and I hope by now you have your answer.
Hes right. I would also add - don't date sad girls. I mean girls who tend to be quiet and kind of sullen, who wait for a man to make them smile. Those girls always end up unhappy. The bubbly natural positive girls are always best.
Psychologically this tugs on us in a several directions the first approach is the whole low hanging fruit thus easy to obtain... The second which seems more common and the crowd that wants to be a hero and needed. That is not saying it cannot be a hybrid of these things. But sad girls tend to be fly paper from what I have noticed.
Guess I need to tone down my interest because I get the girls number I text her the next day and she ghosts me. I send one text, if she don’t respond that’s it.
bollocks, thats what girls do, if he doesnt invest that much, when shes not even investing in the first place, nothing will happen. This only works if SHE is interested, otherwise she just wont see anything in the guy.
As a girl, I would say, this piece of info, is not accurate, you might loose the girl you love with this kinda info, lol good luck, here to understand what man thinks so I can actually know what my ex thinks of me, ik, he doesn't love me, but it's me, still trying to move on, lol.
What does that even mean? Why would you expect a man to invest more when the girl doesn't even show interest. If anything that guy is being spineless. It takes two of them to develop a relationship.
Btw I strongly believe this works for both ways. If a man is treating you as if it's an honour for you to spend time with him you should leave him as well. It's not worth it.
Absolute best dating advice ever holy crow. I’m not being sarcastic. This is exactly how you have to do it. It doesn’t matter if it “feels” inauthentic. You don’t dismiss what works just because you “feel” a certain way. That’s a recipe for failure.
Hey there, my awesome friends! I hope you're all doing well and enjoying life. Just wanted to take a moment to say hello and remind you all how much I appreciate having you in my life. Let's keep making amazing memories together!
This is probably the most important but simple rule for dating that there is. A simp is a guy that keeps giving it 100% effort while the girl does 5% effort. Honestly don't go for women that show low interest.
'Low interest' usually means 'I'm not into you but I don't want know if you'll get violent if I say no'
@@allnonethevoid1487 Hey there, my awesome friends! I hope you're all doing well and enjoying life. Just wanted to take a moment to say hello and remind you all how much I appreciate having you in my life. Let's keep making amazing memories together!
Hey there, my awesome friends! I hope you're all doing well and enjoying life. Just wanted to take a moment to say hello and remind you all how much I appreciate having you in my life. Let's keep making amazing memories together!
And have ripped vascular biceps like this man 💪🏾
hey i’m nowhere near him myself, but that’s something you can achieve if you stay consistent enough
As a woman all I care about is if a man never stonewalls me just because I’m mad at him and never is interested in porn because he is grossed out by slutty girls. If a man can do both those things it’s the most attractive thing ever. If he’s fit on top of that, being fit is the cherry on top. If you have a dad bod and do all those things, I will still be so amazed even if there are no muscles
You don’t need to single so woman that we can trust
You don’t need to single so woman that we can trust
Trying to Hide the balding with that horrible Cut while sayin look dont matter? 😆
Men have to initiate so its already a lose lose situation.
Not really. Try to initiate and give them the feeling that you’re a little interested and would like to get to know the person instead of showing that you’re attracted immediately.
@@shoruda None of them care about your mind games. If you look at her once she already thinks she is your queen. Your only chance to be successful is to be above average in attractiveness.
THIS IS SO TRUE!
He has a point my husband told me he loved me early and he was the first to say it but because some days he wouldn’t respond to me at all because “he was busy” in the beginning I was better able to accept the “I love you” and being more attracted and happy to hear him say that
You don’t need to single so woman that we can trust
I watched a dating coach once that said women are like cats and men are like dogs. You can chase a dog and he thinks it's time to play. If you chase a cat, it just runs out of fear. Just pet the cat when it wants to be pet. Don't chase it. Don't chase her or you'll scare her off.
You don’t need to single so woman that we can trust
yeahs
Coach Corey Wayne. The best
This is 100% true. My wife chases me 23 yrs ago and I actually stood her up on our first date (it was an accident) but it did completely reflect what you are saying.
Too late I was the nice guy then she left me 😢😂 now I'm single again 😂
Unfortunately it be like that
brandon carter - she left b/c she thought she could do betta, you gonna prove the skank right, or you gonna prove the skank wrong
she belongs in da streets if you ask me!
So learn from your mistake and try again with this in mind
How is it too late brother you still fucking alive, this was simply a lesson for you to learn. God or the universe got someone that is more of a match for you, keep improving yourself in a healthy way not an obsessive way and the rest will follow much love 🫡❤️
No problem bro
You'll get arranged marriage
No tension
Yes and sometimes woman have more interest then you. Don't be a douche and take advantage of this, couch her about interest, life.
He’s right. She definitely didn’t match my interest, and that situationship fell apart like The Hindenburg. Years later, she hits me with “I thought you lost interest”, when I was all tore up about it for months on end. Done twisted the knife, and the emotional scar feels fresh, 3 years later.
My personal dating tip I just thought of is ask the woman if she has any pronouns if she says yes, just leave She ain’t worth it
I am just after a breakup. Because my ex gf approached me i thought she will be so interesting in me, but it was no the case. I always try to be nice to her, say how she beautiful and i love her, but she didn't do the same for me, and now we brokeup (she decided), and now I will be smarter for my next a relationship
Use that knowledge to your advantage!
I wish someone would do a questionnaire of couples that have been married for 30+ years. Ask them how they met and what the beginning of their relationship was like. It would need to be more than 1000 couples, and 10,000 would be even better.
Then divide the data between meeting younger that 20 and older than 30.
I met my wife in high school. So I do not have input for people dating in their 30’s.
It goes both ways.. I don't chase men.
Feels weird peeking into what it's like for guys trying to date. Its like this exhausting game where they have to give everything but are never guaranteed anything except rejection sometimes.
Fml went on first dates with like four people and didn’t lead to anymore. It’s so annoying they are attractive and I know it’s not my appearance. It’s very frustrating to just see them go
@@Soeales There are lots of beautiful women who aren't shallow like that. You just gotta find them, but you you have to look in the right places.
@@wakeupthisisntreal8168 the worst part is I’m looking for the right connection so bad & the ones I go on dates with I’m very selective. I only pick the ones I think will work out. It’s those ones that don’t work out. WTF.
@@Soeales Your mindset might be the problem. You should let things happen more naturally. Why would you want to rush and make dating so systematic if you're going to spend the rest of your life with this person? Instead, go to events, places, and other agents of socialization, and form meaningful bonds/friendships with others that aren't so "forced", and then move on to the dating stage. People who immediately skip to dating just don't have the same depth.
Thank you......good...sound advice
Perfect advice!
best advice i’ve heard in dating!
Are you really winning if you're still single ? Or is it winning when you find the love of your life ?
You are winning when you feel content with yourself first. Love should not make you complete, it's just something you shower at others and yourself without any possessiveness or returns.
~just my opinion
Well that depends on you. If you are content with being single then I guess yeah
Thanks bro
Thank You! ❤️
Thanks. That's really true.
Hey man would appreciate it if you reply I need some motivation, what are you thoughts on approaching every opportunity you get? I moved to a less populated state and not really feeling I could get any girls, I recently just travelled and went through the airport and saw some of the most beautiful women, I guess I’m a handsome guy and usually can pull any girl I want, but I don’t know why man I just didn’t talk to these girls in the airport man I feel like I’ve been living in Alaska and I feel some type of way seeing those woman and wondering the potential with them
Noooo don’t listen to this!! Oh my goodness please just be authentic if you like someone let it be it known. Playing games on both sides is bs and that’s why there so many single unhappy people both bitching about the opposite sex. Just be you and the right one will stay ✨
This is not the way. As he said, do you want to be a loser or do you want to be a winner?
@@shorudaLove & competition are two different things.
I haven’t got times for games I just be myself simple as if u like her go for it if she don’t like u just move on there is plenty of women in the world for every guy out there
Facts 💯
100% accurate
He’s right. And SO NOT my type.
If he pursued me I’d run the other way!
No offense intended. There’s someone for everyone and I’m older than him.
Fair enough.
Agreed
I agree somewhat. Many women are very passive though, i like to do comedy about it
Inspiring.
Agree
I started seeing what advice is out there for men and I'm mortified, haha. Was just curious what kind of information is mainstream. From m what I gather maybe one or two people may agree with me, haha, but if you're a guy that has done work on himself and is self motivated in his life (health, fitness, job, friends, family, hobbies, spiritual/religious path) and wants a long term or life commitment then this isn't the advice for you. This advice would be for the guy looking for scrappy overall unfulfilling dynamics. It will attract an unhealthy kind of woman and she'll never be enough and you'll end up wanting a different woman who you can actually be the pursuing. It's natural for a man to go towards a woman and pursue her. Here he is saying let the woman lead, let the woman pursue you, let the woman take the relationship somewhere, make the decisions, let the woman be the initiator. If you do this then the guy is putting himself in the role.if the feminine and putting the woman in the masculine role. This is a very wounded way to go. Trying to stay safe. You'll get women, just not the right one (s). To each their own though. The guy should initiate, pursue, lead, always a step ahead. And you shouldn't want a woman where this is not genuinely activated within you all on its own. If she truly lights you up, this is natural. We should all be grown adults and know how to emotionally regulate ourselves. Everyone is so hyper focused on getting hurt. Hurt isn't because you love, because you care, because you trust. Hurt happens when there is attachment. An advanced level is to be able to invest in someone while simultaneously be unattached. You have a strong preference to with with said person or have things go a certain way but you are okay no matter what, either way. Love is not attachment. Having a bond does not equal attachment either. I really do wish all men a good journey and partner that is fulfilling. Cheers.
Exactly, and I think what he means is don’t come off as desperate. That is just not attractive.
How do you know when a girl shows a lack of interest when texting with you ?
She gives one word replies like “okay”, “wow” or “lol”. Other subtle words like that shows she doesn’t care much
Go to her house and show her who da boss
Avoid everything related to online dating
@@sabn9139 this
She either doesn’t reply for a long time, or makes no effort to continue the convo. If you ask how her day was and she just says “fine” or “good”, full stop, just end it there.
Good advice
ok ok
I do this unconsciously so I’m good on that
True dat, great advice!
If she shows super high interest cause your attractive, do I reciprocate the energy or will that mess up the reason she fell in love with me ?
I am assuming this is happening to you... Love is a very strong word, interested is a better word. Women have desire like us and they too have needs. With respect throw a bone and see what happens tbh. A good question to ask yourself every now and then is what you even want from her as well and where you want to end up. Or continue to feel it out until you come up with your decision.
Much respect to you brother and I hope by now you have your answer.
let him cook
So basically I’m going to be alone forever then?
Hes right. I would also add - don't date sad girls. I mean girls who tend to be quiet and kind of sullen, who wait for a man to make them smile. Those girls always end up unhappy. The bubbly natural positive girls are always best.
Completely agree. If they can’t make themselves happy, chances are they’re not gonna be able to make you happy either.
@@shoruda yup. Dudes always get attracted to those dark sullen types though
Psychologically this tugs on us in a several directions the first approach is the whole low hanging fruit thus easy to obtain... The second which seems more common and the crowd that wants to be a hero and needed. That is not saying it cannot be a hybrid of these things. But sad girls tend to be fly paper from what I have noticed.
Thank you man I got this Information at the right time.
So you saying if she does not show enthusiasm I just move on to another chick?
Yes
@@BulldogMindsetArchive thanks dude! 👍
The Problem is that Most guys dont get any attention from Women.
With Your rule they Stay Single forever
I thought i just didn' t play the game. But in reality i was in the game from the first text. I just lost
Or simply get a great Dane, and buy a boat at your new cabin and live and enjoy your life
Guess I need to tone down my interest because I get the girls number I text her the next day and she ghosts me. I send one text, if she don’t respond that’s it.
NEVER CHASE A MAN!!!!!!!
Hi beautiful queen 👑
This is probably true, but make sure you want the kind of woman who chases men, because that’s what you’re going to get.
Then you will see the real character
Dating and marriage is a losing game for high value men.
So what do you guys think of paying for sex?
Bro looks like he just step out of a WWE Ring
Good advice.
A game of who cares less
I don't want to play the game how about just stay single its way simpler
Steven Crowder
First thing to know
Women is not a Man
bollocks, thats what girls do, if he doesnt invest that much, when shes not even investing in the first place, nothing will happen. This only works if SHE is interested, otherwise she just wont see anything in the guy.
Are you playing jacked Jesus in the new passion of the christ? Looking good John!
Women don’t chase
Fuck, I lost the game...
Restart the game bro, don’t give up. Master the techniques of the game and you will win!
Isn't this a huge correlation-causation fallacy?
He is old now.
not years but mileage!
Use positive and negative body language, you will have her confused and she will try harder.
Then you run into a narcissist and they ghost you for nothing lol.. ahh what time to be dating women
If she’s a narcissist, you wouldn’t wanna date her anyways!
If you believe this advice…you must like being single.
Disney movies provide better dating tips than this!
Brush ur hair kid 😂
So you just gave a common sense advice
This is not common sense for everyone :)
What woman chases a man? Lol
As a girl, I would say, this piece of info, is not accurate, you might loose the girl you love with this kinda info, lol good luck, here to understand what man thinks so I can actually know what my ex thinks of me, ik, he doesn't love me, but it's me, still trying to move on, lol.
What does that even mean? Why would you expect a man to invest more when the girl doesn't even show interest. If anything that guy is being spineless. It takes two of them to develop a relationship.
Btw I strongly believe this works for both ways. If a man is treating you as if it's an honour for you to spend time with him you should leave him as well. It's not worth it.