Men, How To Get More Matches On Bumble

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  • Опубліковано 25 тра 2023
  • Dating apps are a tempting way to get “more dates”, but especially for men, they ONLY work if you have a great profile. I’m sharing my friend Paul’s A+ profile here so you can take notes and improve yours!
    3 simple fixes to upgrade your dating app profile:
    ✔️ Clear high quality photos
    ✔️ Highlight hobbies and interests
    ✔️ Verify your profile
    #bumble #datingapps #datingtipsformen #datingadvice #fyp #shortsfeed #shortsvideo #shortsyoutube

КОМЕНТАРІ • 727

  • @makersmark101
    @makersmark101 Рік тому +2162

    Yet she won’t sleep w him

    • @slimesita9998
      @slimesita9998 Рік тому +99

      because it’s not her boyfriend

    • @machinegurlll
      @machinegurlll 10 місяців тому +16

      she probably has 😂

    • @yyysamuel3215
      @yyysamuel3215 10 місяців тому +1

      Yeah. She probably won’t sleep with him because this guy is average looking dude and his profile look super beta nice guy. I guarantee she will match with the mirror selfie chad/tyrone f**kboy and sleep with them rather than these average dude

    • @fahid3342
      @fahid3342 9 місяців тому

      @@slimesita9998pretty sure she’s single

    • @jabbaweezy
      @jabbaweezy 9 місяців тому +36

      doubt it@@machinegurlll

  • @oldsport2016
    @oldsport2016 10 місяців тому +834

    The “Why can’t I find a guy like you” profile

  • @Pr2two
    @Pr2two 8 місяців тому +261

    And he got 0 matches 😂

    • @pbmc_
      @pbmc_ 21 день тому

      😅

    • @elid2532
      @elid2532 19 днів тому +4

      Nah. He got a match and she probably never messaged lol

  • @morganyu812
    @morganyu812 Рік тому +801

    Guys don't listen to women. Stay off Online Dating.

    • @pavithraj2303
      @pavithraj2303 Рік тому

      Second this! If you asian, no girl swipes you right.

    • @guitarsandcars2586
      @guitarsandcars2586 11 місяців тому +29

      Online dating is fine if you take advice from a dude. Haha.

    • @JhonnyStone100
      @JhonnyStone100 10 місяців тому +14

      Online dating is the best way to meet women. You sound like cope

    • @mela3889
      @mela3889 10 місяців тому +41

      I just made a Hinge 5 days ago and am at 20 matches, convos with almost all, and been out with 2 with plans for next week. Don’t be hopeless give it a try

    • @pickler_pickler
      @pickler_pickler 10 місяців тому +17

      I met my wife through tinder and we're married with kids 4 years later. She was the only one out of 200+ women I saw on the two weeks I used tinder that I thought was a decent girl. So yeah, you have to get lucky.

  • @mihadalzayat6957
    @mihadalzayat6957 8 місяців тому +227

    “Does Paul have a boat” tells you everything you need to know about women today

    • @SahramiSaukko
      @SahramiSaukko Місяць тому +3

      Imagine if she actually meant 'vote'

    • @natashadickson4819
      @natashadickson4819 26 днів тому +3

      It doesn't tell you anything about women. It's just fun to have a boat. 😃 Don't overthink everything.

    • @isaacjackson2770
      @isaacjackson2770 24 дні тому +1

      100%

    • @martycech5844
      @martycech5844 10 днів тому

      Paul owns a wake board and rope… No boat. LoL

    • @haydenhelms3874
      @haydenhelms3874 2 дні тому

      @@natashadickson4819ya ok 🤣

  • @screentimer5614
    @screentimer5614 3 місяці тому +130

    You lost me at, “My friend Paul.”

    • @Radog99
      @Radog99 2 місяці тому +11

      Right he's in her friendzone, probably because he's 5'9"

    • @royjones7831
      @royjones7831 Місяць тому +2

      Heh, oh man, the western world is screwed

    • @dorino9057
      @dorino9057 Місяць тому +1

      @@Radog99 she might be married already besides he might not be interested either that’s why he’s on a dating app

    • @Sheabuttertend
      @Sheabuttertend Місяць тому +6

      @@Radog99…Or she’s not attracted to him. YALL need to stfu and stop acting like you’d date someone you weren’t at all attracted to.

    • @dragonfist25
      @dragonfist25 Місяць тому

      Facts 💯

  • @doctormudbone4432
    @doctormudbone4432 Місяць тому +57

    4/10 girl takes a basic selfie *135 likes in 24 hours.

  • @Administrator7
    @Administrator7 5 місяців тому +61

    This is a woman that's been on dating apps for wayyyy too long

    • @user-pg3iq1eq1k
      @user-pg3iq1eq1k 2 місяці тому

      Most women on dating apps are "lifers" they have no real intention on deleting it. They are on there to alleviate boredom, play games or just get their ego stroked. Harsh reality.

  • @paganizonda1000ps
    @paganizonda1000ps Рік тому +282

    Does he have a boat. These chicks are living in a delusional world😅😅

    • @Karim_Belgique
      @Karim_Belgique 11 місяців тому +2

      true

    • @DanTuber
      @DanTuber 10 місяців тому +7

      they love fantasy

    • @WaldoTheWombat
      @WaldoTheWombat 10 місяців тому +15

      Ohhh it thought she said "vote"

    • @VanderbiltMr
      @VanderbiltMr 9 місяців тому +1

      @@DanTubertotal truth. it took me some time to figure it out but yep living I fantasy land is what the end goal is

    • @royjones7831
      @royjones7831 Місяць тому +3

      A boat is important to his potential as a partner. It vastly improves how they'll relate to eachother....oooooor, we are right back where we all knew we were

  • @nelsonmejiaslozada9362
    @nelsonmejiaslozada9362 Рік тому +402

    This is a ""you will find a good women some day for you but im not interested" profile hahahahahaha

    • @dmark2639
      @dmark2639 10 місяців тому +16

      "God is giving you the gift of being single right now". Bless your heart...

    • @drksimi3
      @drksimi3 4 місяці тому +2

      😄

    • @VelcroKittie
      @VelcroKittie Місяць тому +4

      Ouch! I got that rejection earlier today. She said "Hi, I think I need someone with a different energy. You are a good and pleasant guy. I think that you will find your match."
      I almost wet myself laughing.

    • @Sheabuttertend
      @Sheabuttertend Місяць тому +6

      @@VelcroKittieOh no! One woman out of billions wasn’t personally into you and gave you a polite, direct answer about it and wished you well! Whatever shall you do!

    • @user-oq3wt9rz8h
      @user-oq3wt9rz8h 27 днів тому

      @@VelcroKittie Always same bullshit babble

  • @petermello55
    @petermello55 6 місяців тому +27

    That sassy finger point, combined with head nods and condescending tone is an easy F for you.

  • @lucygilbertson3746
    @lucygilbertson3746 11 місяців тому +394

    Guys never put a baby picture on dating apps for god sake. Also she is capping.. she wouldn't swipe right on this guy. Never ask a fish how to catch a fish.

    • @YourMajesty143
      @YourMajesty143 11 місяців тому +14

      There's your problem right there, you're framing dating as a hunt where women are seen as prey. Please, please don't take our advice. I get worried when women give insight into how we think bc it gives predators an edge on how to game the path of dating.

    • @lucygilbertson3746
      @lucygilbertson3746 11 місяців тому +58

      @@YourMajesty143 Its a figure of speech. Women don't have to understand men to attract them. Whereas men DO need to understand women. Being perceived as attractive is incredibly difficult for men and most women have no idea. Women don't understand the first thing about how to be attractive to women, AS A MALE. This has been proven in role play studies many times. I have 3 brothers and see what they have to deal with. The equivalent is like an average male trying to give us advice on period pains and mood swings. How would they know when they have never experienced it from our perspective!

    • @akapilka
      @akapilka 9 місяців тому

      ​@@YourMajesty143online dating is a hunt.

    • @rutgerhauser2377
      @rutgerhauser2377 7 місяців тому +11

      @@YourMajesty143
      Obviously analogies aren't your strong suit so I'll handhold you through this.
      The fishing analogy isn't necessarily to objectify women. The idea is in this hypothetical world where fish have human levels of intelligence, they don't understand the experience of a fisherman, because they aren't fisherman.
      Fish have the lived experience of being a fish, a fisherman knows how to be a fisherman.

    • @rutgerhauser2377
      @rutgerhauser2377 7 місяців тому +7

      @@YourMajesty143 Also at the end of the day, like it or not, dating is a type of pursuit.
      It ain't inherently predatory, but it is a pursuit of sorts so a pursuit analogy works bests.

  • @saw31489
    @saw31489 9 місяців тому +286

    My friend Paul, who i won't date....

    • @Zyncra
      @Zyncra 3 місяці тому +8

      Maybe Paul doesn't want to date her either? Ever thought about that? No of course you didn't, because the manosphere has poisoned your brain and view of healthy interpersonal relationships

    • @kingsguard5614
      @kingsguard5614 2 місяці тому

      What an incel and whoever liked this lol. Youre single for a reason

    • @Thugg12
      @Thugg12 2 місяці тому +11

      @@Zyncra Paul probably would date her

    • @royjones7831
      @royjones7831 Місяць тому

      @@Zyncra yeah, that's it, you nailed it.

  • @Texas117
    @Texas117 11 місяців тому +386

    Doesn’t matter who the guy is, you will still think the grass is greener on the other side
    -Modern Women

    • @jessebooth2371
      @jessebooth2371 7 місяців тому +17

      So true. For some girls it doesn’t matter who it is…I’m a .1 percent guy…Successful at a young age, highly educated, athlete shape, work in healthcare, play professional poker and invest on the side with lots of hobbies. And some girls will still treat me like I’m the one interviewing for the position haha all because “one time” they hooked up with a celeb or pro athlete and now that’s the bar.

    • @qegvW3H
      @qegvW3H 6 місяців тому +1

      so accurate

    • @MrSaxobeat020
      @MrSaxobeat020 4 місяці тому

      Men think that too don't act like men are angels

    • @Ben-eh1qt
      @Ben-eh1qt 4 місяці тому +3

      I go out of the country 2 months out of the year.
      I rarely date in the states but I do toss in a date or two every month on the weekend and sometimes things go well. Sometimes it's just a wasted night.
      But I typically just date girls from other countries that I go to. All of them are way hotter and way skinnier and just way happier and More fun to be around than girls in the states.
      I don't like Mexico that much, but even Mexico City you can find girls that are way cuter on bumble then most other cities in the US. I'm also 5'10 so most girls in the USA are 5'6 ish vs 5'2 everywhere else.

    • @trentreffner5699
      @trentreffner5699 4 місяці тому +3

      @@MrSaxobeat020 "Men think that too don't act like men are angels"
      It's not that hard for a woman to keep her viginity past high school... but most throw it away on some loser... so now we already go into dating settling for a loser.

  • @jmwlife2k
    @jmwlife2k 10 місяців тому +131

    90% of women will look at the first picture and swipe left, another 8% will see he’s 5’9” and swipe left. The other 2% were backup dancers for Micheal Jackson’s thriller and they didn’t need to wear makeup… and half of those will still find a reason to swipe left too. Good luck!

    • @ryuxfx52
      @ryuxfx52 9 місяців тому +15

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I am dying at the Michael Jackson comment

    • @pachasnft9954
      @pachasnft9954 8 місяців тому +5

      Micheals backup dancers🤣🤣🤣

    • @illla
      @illla 5 місяців тому +9

      90% of the women on the dating apps have boyfriends and they use the dating apps just for fun or because of they are bored

    • @orb3946
      @orb3946 3 місяці тому +1

      Michael Jackson backup dancers ... Hahah.. too good

    • @dorino9057
      @dorino9057 Місяць тому

      This is just incel lies

  • @tmac326
    @tmac326 6 місяців тому +33

    “Does Paul have a Boat so I can take advantage of him and his wealth?”

    • @gotthecutenessoverload1086
      @gotthecutenessoverload1086 4 місяці тому +8

      And then sleep with his best friend and take half his things after divorcing him😂

  • @keifer7813
    @keifer7813 6 місяців тому +23

    Social proof doesn’t matter if you're attractive enough. Chad isn't a loner, he's a mysterious lone wolf

    • @MidwestFarmToys
      @MidwestFarmToys 5 місяців тому +11

      Exactly. Women just use those silly things as excuses to make themselves feel better about being shallow

    • @handsomeX
      @handsomeX 3 місяці тому +2

      Facts 🎯💯

    • @dorino9057
      @dorino9057 Місяць тому +1

      This is just in cell lies. My cousins husband is 58 and not that handsome social proof definitely helps. Everyone’s different and some women like that.

    • @dorino9057
      @dorino9057 Місяць тому

      @@MidwestFarmToys men are the ones who just swipe right on everyone it’s not shallow. It’s because over 70% of dating app users on places like tinder male so there are a lot more options for women and women can’t swipe right on everyone

    • @keifer7813
      @keifer7813 Місяць тому +1

      @@dorino9057 That doesn't invalidate my point at all. If your cousin's husband was a chad, he wouldn't have needed any social proof.
      Besides, you didn't mention how successful he was with women. Sure, he married your cousin but your cousin might not even be that attractive. Of course you'll be biased and say she is though

  • @barlescharkley3976
    @barlescharkley3976 11 місяців тому +86

    Key word friend he’s in the friendzone for a reason

    • @Mushin367
      @Mushin367 4 місяці тому

      He’d be dateable to her if he was 3” taller.

  • @focus0000000
    @focus0000000 6 місяців тому +18

    your average joe VP of finance with a harvard business school education, just be like him guys it's that easy

  • @pickler_pickler
    @pickler_pickler 10 місяців тому +20

    The sheer amount of ways this video can be eviscerated is astonishing

  • @sumitpurkayastha819
    @sumitpurkayastha819 6 місяців тому +19

    Yet, he is "My FRIEND". He is too good guy. Good guys don't get p**sy

    • @FarfettilLejl
      @FarfettilLejl 16 днів тому

      They do but only if they’re an 8 or above

  • @slimluka2947
    @slimluka2947 Рік тому +17

    its funny asf when this guy is trying so hard then a hot guy can jus have a pic of himself with a white background n get matches

    • @billr5842
      @billr5842 11 місяців тому +6

      Poor dude is going to attract nothing but gold diggers lol.

  • @listen9416
    @listen9416 4 місяці тому +13

    This woman is a major red flag, i wouldnt date her😅

    • @dorino9057
      @dorino9057 Місяць тому +1

      What did she do? You’re clearly just copping.

    • @fireteamomega2343
      @fireteamomega2343 12 днів тому

      I wouldn't either she's screaming trendy dork I'm blowing in the wind whatever is expected of me at anytime I will certainly do. I don't think I could stand more than a few minutes of the fakeness. "feugo" to upscale her friendzoned boy. Used so effortlessly in a majority English rant yes you've convinced me you are culturally tapped into the social fabric. Oh that's not popular anymore you should go change and don't worry I won't wait.

  • @Freakazoid123
    @Freakazoid123 11 місяців тому +141

    I ran 2 dating accounts 1 male 1 female. I took the same image and used a gender swapping app and then posted the profiles. The woman’s profile got over 300 matches in a month without ever swiping. The man’s got like 3-4 matches and I worked that right swipe like it was going out of style. Dating apps are a rip off for men especially since women filter out men under 6ft

    • @alb12345672
      @alb12345672 10 місяців тому +14

      And looks, high income, good pics etc. This example shows he is very high income

    • @machinegurlll
      @machinegurlll 10 місяців тому +8

      two of my long term relationships were guys i met on bumble and they were well under 6ft, fairly normal looking, not rich or anything. we just really clicked. but keep lying to urself that all women are shallow im sure thatll help u find someone ❤

    • @machinegurlll
      @machinegurlll 10 місяців тому +4

      They set things up this way for themselves.. men swipe right on anything and barely try, women work hard to maintain looks. if we have to work harder for beauty we get to be pickier. it is what it is

    • @Freakazoid123
      @Freakazoid123 10 місяців тому

      @@machinegurlll I guess you’re 2 guys disprove years of dating and the experiences of many other men.

    • @Freakazoid123
      @Freakazoid123 10 місяців тому

      @@machinegurlll men barely try lol I work out 6 days a week, gym, 3 miles everyday abs, martial arts, have a masters degree, house and car lol yes but men hardly try, you have no clue what men go through and what life is like for us, continue to live in delusion with the 2 people you dated but didn’t marry from bumble

  • @STEPHxCA
    @STEPHxCA 6 місяців тому +12

    Right off the bat: be born attractive

  • @JOSEATJG
    @JOSEATJG Місяць тому +10

    The man went to harvard and is a VP of finance. Like his profile doesnt even matter beyond that. How about highlighting average joes.

  • @richlrn64
    @richlrn64 Рік тому +58

    There are those of us who do not have a lot of friends. It doesn’t make us toxic or loners. It’s just not everybody has a ton of friends.

    • @ASMRAffirmationsASMR
      @ASMRAffirmationsASMR Рік тому +5

      Was thinking the same but from the female perspective, have wonderful friends but don’t see them as often as Id like

    • @jasonchavez8706
      @jasonchavez8706 11 місяців тому +10

      I'm a introvert....my best friend is my dog. At least I don't have a s ton of fake friends like females

    • @psidhu1979
      @psidhu1979 9 місяців тому +4

      Or, like myself... I only moved to the US recently and only in this city for the last 4-5 months.... I can relate

    • @illla
      @illla 5 місяців тому +5

      I know some persons have tons of friends but they are still incels

    • @sm-yu7dt
      @sm-yu7dt 5 місяців тому

      skill issue@@jasonchavez8706

  • @user-qt5jb9ee1g
    @user-qt5jb9ee1g 7 місяців тому +16

    1. be white
    2. be 6'4+
    3. Be rich

    • @alwa7sh698
      @alwa7sh698 5 місяців тому +3

      People in the us cares a lot about height and race

    • @MidwestFarmToys
      @MidwestFarmToys 5 місяців тому

      Wtf are you talking about be white? That is the stupidest thing I've ever heard. I am 2 out of 3 of those things.
      Just replace 6'4 with 6' even and it's me.
      I'm 38 and still single.
      In other words, you don't know what you're talking about and are just looking to blame something and move up the social victim scale

    • @lightfm90
      @lightfm90 4 місяці тому

      @@alwa7sh698 West*

    • @lifemocker85
      @lifemocker85 Місяць тому

      @@alwa7sh698 interracialism is cancer

  • @icarusthefly5458
    @icarusthefly5458 Рік тому +251

    I challenge you, Blaine, to use his account on tinder for 2 weeks but with a 5'7 and a regular job. Im curious what your next tips will be.

    • @user_01xx
      @user_01xx Рік тому +29

      Just stop with the victim mindset, it's exhausted

    • @icarusthefly5458
      @icarusthefly5458 Рік тому +72

      @@user_01xx it is called an experiment. My hypothesis is that just by 2 ,what should be insignificant, factors, the impact will be significant

    • @ASMRAffirmationsASMR
      @ASMRAffirmationsASMR Рік тому +2

      If he’s those things but is funny as fk and seems kind I’d be swiping. Am so sick of corny guys who flash the cash but then say they don’t want a gold digger. I’m 5’7 with a normal job. It is not easier for women to find someone good. Could get a ONS easier but not a relationship.

    • @chandraray7798
      @chandraray7798 11 місяців тому

      @@user_01xxY'all act like you don't have that mindset by default. If you were a dude you'd kys.

    • @Ryan-lc9lb
      @Ryan-lc9lb 11 місяців тому

      Women don’t want to get to know men. They just want men that are literally like them because they don’t want to be challenged in any way.

  • @johnnylego807
    @johnnylego807 4 місяці тому +24

    He looks like a wonderful guy. Unfortunately. 99% of woman on that app won’t even give him the time of day. When you have 1,999+ matches/likes as a average or overweight woman, a lot of them guys being attractive, this guy just gets buried by all the CHADS. Get real lady

    • @royjones7831
      @royjones7831 Місяць тому +1

      Step 1: UnBumble

    • @dorino9057
      @dorino9057 Місяць тому +1

      This is Incel lies my cousins husband is ft5.8 and they met on a dating app. Most women date average men.

  • @lightbringer019
    @lightbringer019 5 місяців тому +15

    She kept Paul in the friendzone because he isn't over 6' tall and is only a VP, not CEO. Paul only has a boat, not a yacht. She has standards.

    • @Mushin367
      @Mushin367 4 місяці тому

      She might just have a boyfriend/husband.

    • @handsomeX
      @handsomeX 3 місяці тому

      😂😂

    • @Sheabuttertend
      @Sheabuttertend Місяць тому

      Why do yall write fanfiction to makes yourselves miserable 😂

    • @carolinerondon8934
      @carolinerondon8934 3 дні тому

      @@Sheabuttertend Its pretty fitting to a lot of women on those apps, ive seen it on my friends phone

  • @Ressuu
    @Ressuu 9 місяців тому +9

    The key word is *friend*. Now show the profiles of the guys you actually bang with.

  • @mikef55
    @mikef55 Рік тому +55

    The issue with high-quality photos is that most guys do not have high-quality photos of themselves 😭 it's not a case of overthinking

    • @Nobeastmode82
      @Nobeastmode82 Рік тому +6

      You gon have to hire a professional photographer for all that😂

    • @averagejoe404
      @averagejoe404 Рік тому +3

      @@Nobeastmode82 Not really, An iphone can do the work

    • @IceCreamSplat
      @IceCreamSplat 11 місяців тому +6

      they could literally just bring out their phone and stand in front of a mirror just to get the job done. Most profiles only have grainy distance pics of themselves that some friend of theirs snapped randomly

    • @arebelscum9495
      @arebelscum9495 9 місяців тому

      ​@@IceCreamSplatMy phone is trash even in front of the mirror.

    • @arebelscum9495
      @arebelscum9495 9 місяців тому

      ​@@averagejoe404
      Gross, an iphone. Would rather be single lol.

  • @Newstyle87
    @Newstyle87 11 місяців тому +11

    “Future dad vibes and doesn’t take himself too seriously” 🤦🏻
    “Social proof he has friends”
    Just wow 🤦🏻
    Literally a. Sloppy average picture of him holding a baby well done 👏👏👏
    Don’t take dating advice from random nobody’s on the internet guys.

  • @uncomfortabletruth1548
    @uncomfortabletruth1548 Рік тому +106

    This is so dumb, why does it matter if he has a boat or officiates a wedding? So many people miss out on awesome connections when they look for materialistic things, and judge by a profile. I know a lot of people who would love you better than you ever have been, and they struggle financially everyday but always show up and never ever quit. They're not into materialistic things, or if he was chose for a wedding. They choose them by connection and feeling.
    It's a shame how women look at men as ATMs anymore

    • @krenan-hb8qr
      @krenan-hb8qr Рік тому +37

      I also hate that. People think just because you don't have a picture jumping out of a plane or taking a trip overseas you have "no life". Extremely superficial and even immature view of dating, sincerely.

    • @billr5842
      @billr5842 11 місяців тому +22

      Like the girl in this video, you want to avoid shallow women. If you're rich do not make it known on your profile otherwise you'll attract gold diggers.

    • @IceCreamSplat
      @IceCreamSplat 11 місяців тому +4

      it shows traits in action instead of descriptions. Him agreeing to officiate a friend's wedding shows that he's loyal to his friends AND that he has friends. The water skiing shows and outdoor activity that proves what he picked in his prompts, you don't even have to own a boat to do it, it could be a friend's boat, maybe it's from a vacation, maybe he booked a specific water skiing activity. Either way it shows what he's written out so that's a good thing if you're an adventurous spirit yourself. Why do you only see money in this? It's not something I'm personally into, the girl in the video even said the same that it's not her preferred activities, but there's girls out there that also love being adventurous so seeing it like that is great

    • @billr5842
      @billr5842 11 місяців тому +6

      @@IceCreamSplatI see what you're saying but the reason he is successful on the app is absolutely because of his money. Those other things help but if he was portrayed as a more average guy (not rich) he for sure wouldn't have as good of a profile. There's nothing wrong with having preferences, most women want rich men to pay for everything while having no career themselves, there's nothing wrong with that. It is annoying to gaslight men though.

    • @YourMajesty143
      @YourMajesty143 11 місяців тому

      ​@@billr5842- Men need to stop using this as an excuse for why they can't get dates. The whole "women just want money & no career" is a myth. There are more women going to college and becoming financially independent than ever before, more women opting to be single and self-sufficient, more women choosing to be single-mothers (or childless) and focusing on platonic relationships to fill their time, etc. The reason men are struggling to find partnerships is bc of socialized misogynistic tendencies that place women at a disadvantage. This power dynamic can create exploitative environments, where men use their wealth to control their partner. Bc even the "career-less gold-digger" contributes more to a relationship than the guy who only provides money, but no substance.
      Statistically, women bear the brunt of the domestic labor, the emotional labor, the child labor and the sexual labor. This doesn't equal out when she has a career, she still bears the majority of the responsibilities. Research shows that single, childless women have higher rates of longevity, mental health balance, financial stability, and contribute more to society, when compared to partnered women. In contrast, partnered men have the highest rates of longevity, financial & mental health stability, etc. And that's bc sadly men do not have safe spaces to be emotionally vulnerable, and so the women they date offer them that emotional outlet. Also, men save money on cooking, cleaning, bookkeeping, hobbies, household expenses, etc. bc much of this is offloaded unto their partner. This allows men to be more productive in their day, and much more stress-free & capable to succeed at work. Men stand to gain the most in relationships, even when he's the sole provider and she's career-less.
      Women are beginning to realize there isn't much equity in relationships, and men's money is insufficient as an exchange rate, considering domestic labor is equivalent to the 3rd highest GDP globally. So women have calculated that it's cheaper and less stressful to just opt out of dating altogether, that is until men can treat women equitably. Just something to consider, bc your take was fairly superficial, and there's greater nuance behind this issue. I'd try talking to women and asking them their perspective on this cultural shift, I think you'd be surprised what you'd learn. In any case, best of luck on your dating journey!

  • @moahammad1mohammad
    @moahammad1mohammad 2 місяці тому +4

    Bumble? That app with the CEO laying off half the staff and nearly going bankrupt? 😂

  • @trophy8174
    @trophy8174 11 місяців тому +73

    I had a woman recently like my pic on hinge, I hit her up and we exchanged maybe 4 or 5 messages until she stopped responding. I reached out 5 days later and she got back to me saying she “didn’t feel connected” how tf can you just quickly come to that thought process when we barely even messaged each other? Such bone heads

    • @scott8934
      @scott8934 10 місяців тому +27

      @EverybodyLovesGregthis is the correct answer

    • @machinegurlll
      @machinegurlll 10 місяців тому +1

      Or maybe your 4 or 5 messages sucked

    • @ghostridersinthesky21
      @ghostridersinthesky21 10 місяців тому +23

      More like she later matched with someone more attractive than you. I don’t even think its 90/10 rule, its more like 95/5 rule

    • @CK-wv5hg
      @CK-wv5hg 10 місяців тому +5

      Your messages probably bored/annoyed her

    • @n.s.9156
      @n.s.9156 7 місяців тому +1

      She obviously thought you looked fine but she didn’t enjoy talking with you. If someone doesn’t like you after a few messages, I guarantee they’re not the one for you.
      Better that they weed themselves out early and waste less of your time so you can find someone better for you!

  • @billr5842
    @billr5842 11 місяців тому +11

    Firstly, the vast majority of men aren't nearly as rich or successful as this guy. This further just reinforces the fact that many women are just gold diggers.
    Secondly, if you are a guy and you're this successful, DO NOT make it known on your profile!! You don't want to attract the wrong kind of woman. This is terrible advice and a delusional video.

  • @BWater-yq3jx
    @BWater-yq3jx 5 місяців тому +5

    He looks like he's standing in front of cheap flats or a public toilet, lol.

  • @user-pf7kw2ti8l
    @user-pf7kw2ti8l 4 місяці тому +4

    "Does he have a boat?!" Tell us you only care about money instead of connection without telling us you only care about money instead of connection.

  • @johnccc27
    @johnccc27 6 місяців тому +5

    Why would it matter if he has friends? Many people just dont trust easily

    • @gotthecutenessoverload1086
      @gotthecutenessoverload1086 4 місяці тому

      Fr, as if not having a thousand friends is a bad thing. Maybe to an attention-seeking mook like the girl who made this video it is😂

  • @Way_Of_The_Light
    @Way_Of_The_Light Рік тому +22

    Let go of desires and strive for enlightenment. That’s the only everlasting happiness. All other forms of happiness keep you trapped in the hedonic treadmill.

    • @shisui3878
      @shisui3878 Рік тому +3

      Or let people live how they want …..and don’t project your failure with women on to other men

    • @Way_Of_The_Light
      @Way_Of_The_Light Рік тому +4

      @@shisui3878 I’m married

    • @Miguel-ng5wm
      @Miguel-ng5wm Рік тому +6

      ​@@shisui3878having dates on apps doesn't mean men are happy. It's still empty and sad

    • @MK-cn6xo
      @MK-cn6xo 11 місяців тому

      @@Way_Of_The_LightBeing married ≠ having lots of success with women

    • @Way_Of_The_Light
      @Way_Of_The_Light 11 місяців тому +3

      @@MK-cn6xo being married is the ultimate form of success with women. It means that you both found the ideal partner and you both are willing to spend the rest of your lives together. I lived my playboy lifestyle already. Marriage is the final stage.

  • @scuffedposeidon
    @scuffedposeidon 4 місяці тому +2

    This woman gives off serious depressed psycho vibes

  • @PhotonTrooperGaming
    @PhotonTrooperGaming 7 місяців тому +4

    dude I can read on her speech that she would not swipe right on this guy, no matter how cool the profile is

  • @MillionDollarWetback
    @MillionDollarWetback 5 місяців тому +3

    I cringed so hard when she said “fuego”

  • @Will5353_
    @Will5353_ 3 місяці тому +2

    Who the hell bought that much thought into swiping left or right

  • @littlebird6506
    @littlebird6506 9 місяців тому +5

    The problem with a lot of dating apps is that they want you to buy credits to chat. Fuck that. Go for a walk and stumble across some random and start a conversation.

  • @IceCreamSplat
    @IceCreamSplat 11 місяців тому +7

    the wedding photo is kinda risky bc if it's the first time seeing him you can't tell if he's the officiator or the groom LMAO

  • @DonkeyFrog
    @DonkeyFrog 4 місяці тому +13

    The irony when she says "My Friend" Paul's profile photo. HAHAHAHAHAAH.

  • @chandraray7798
    @chandraray7798 11 місяців тому +18

    Paul made a mistake, he dropped his height 😂.

    • @lechanneldemysterieuxmante1807
      @lechanneldemysterieuxmante1807 10 місяців тому

      I’m way too shy for the dating game so I ask as an outsider but why is that bad? He is 5,9, I think most think of that as pretty tall. Is 5,9 somehow unattractive?

    • @chandraray7798
      @chandraray7798 10 місяців тому +7

      @@lechanneldemysterieuxmante1807 Most actually don't think that's tall. Though that's the statistical average most view that as short. They see 5'10 as average and 6 feet tall as tall.
      And most women prefer guys over 6 feet. In fact statistically the dropoff is like 40% in right swipe rate from 6'0 to 5'11.

    • @ireland278
      @ireland278 4 місяці тому

      😂😅

    • @eclipsegaming5366
      @eclipsegaming5366 Місяць тому

      @@chandraray7798 for the record 5'10-5'11 is the average male height in the US

  • @dan22482
    @dan22482 11 місяців тому +8

    Funny she just skips over his VP job title. Change that to “sandwich artist” and let’s see her reaction to the profile…

    • @alb12345672
      @alb12345672 10 місяців тому +2

      And Harvard Business Grad. It screams very high income.

    • @lianadotjpeg
      @lianadotjpeg 4 місяці тому

      I mean...obviously. Why would I want to marry a man who makes $8-9 an hour when I could marry a man who earns a higher salary? Women want someone who can provide for her and raise a family comfortably, without the man working himself to the bone or having multiple jobs that he hates. If you're 30 and working as a sandwich artist, we will likely be living in poverty or I will be the breadwinner. Neither is an ideal situation.

    • @dan22482
      @dan22482 3 місяці тому +3

      @@lianadotjpeg I totally get it, all I’m saying is the whole premise of this video is bs. A woman like this is only going for top tier guys in terms of looks and income. It doesn’t matter what his profile says.

  • @paulninan7580
    @paulninan7580 6 місяців тому +3

    This woman appeared on Shark Tank and the sharks asked her how she would be qualified as dating coach. She said she lost her job and was looking to do something and started being a coach! It's nice to know that anyone can declare to be a dating coach one fine morning!

  • @projectRaMan
    @projectRaMan 4 місяці тому +3

    She knows damn well she'd swipe left or wouldn't respond 😂

  • @VancouverTip
    @VancouverTip 6 місяців тому +3

    She is showing a guy she friend zoned.

  • @FelipeRivas-cm1fw
    @FelipeRivas-cm1fw Рік тому +40

    The baby photo is a RED FLAG. NO ONE wants to be swiping on this ADULT app and suddenly see a BABY.

  • @0hopscotch0
    @0hopscotch0 8 місяців тому +4

    Alll the talk but she friendzones him

  • @user-yw9ys3dz7x
    @user-yw9ys3dz7x 3 місяці тому +1

    Am I the only one who sees the irony in having friends but they're on a dating app?

  • @jaytc3218
    @jaytc3218 Місяць тому +1

    Paul is definitely in the Friend Zone w/ this one.

  • @pb7133
    @pb7133 11 місяців тому +20

    Well obviously he’s not doing something right because he’s 38 and still single. Divorced and broken or cannot keep a relationship going.

    • @Oakden
      @Oakden 11 місяців тому +10

      He’s 5’ 9”. Aka red flag for all American women no matter how good of a job or guy you are you’re getting few to no matches with that

    • @meteoriteeeee
      @meteoriteeeee 11 місяців тому +6

      @@OakdenI’m 5’9 and do great on dating apps, would I do better if I was 6 feet yea def, but I don’t think 5’9 is that bad

    • @Oakden
      @Oakden 11 місяців тому +2

      @@meteoriteeeee From your profile photo you look like you’re in good shape and above average looking. So yeah man you’ll get more matches. I’m saying for the average guy that’s 5’9” in comparison to 6 ft average guy. Even at 5’9” to compete with taller guys you have to max out your stats looks wise to get girls that average or slightly above average taller guys get. Just the way it is for most woman. However, other ethnicities and cultures care less about height than others so you may be apart of that community

    • @carloscristo2092
      @carloscristo2092 11 місяців тому +3

      @@Oakden You talking about 5'9'' like if it was 5'5' and not the average height for a male in the US....

    • @scott8934
      @scott8934 10 місяців тому

      @@meteoriteeeeeyeah and I’m 6’3” and do terribly

  • @Curt__
    @Curt__ Місяць тому +3

    Paul is 38 with a picture of holding someone elses baby? It's over for him. Also over for him since he's on Bumble. He looks like he's melting in the face. Plus this girl friendzoned him. It's done.

  • @taggmanibanez
    @taggmanibanez 6 місяців тому +2

    There are moments in life, where I just realize maybe I'm just too much of a curmudgeon for regular people. Watching this clip, just reminded me. The douche guys profile, this lady's voice, all of it.

  • @gaiseric9518
    @gaiseric9518 9 місяців тому +14

    Yeah he'll make a fine husband for you to cheat on. Never take a woman's advice on dating.

  • @tradchadpremium
    @tradchadpremium 5 місяців тому +2

    Ya don't listen to her boys, this is a solid 4/10 profile

  • @10TallDwarves
    @10TallDwarves 4 місяці тому +1

    So he’s an ordained minister, graduate degree holder, is great with children, has plenty of friends, and a boat, water skis, speaks Spanish and has good style BUUUTTT he’s 5’9” so he’s a “friend”

  • @lukeg3947
    @lukeg3947 2 місяці тому +1

    He's got a perfect profile. It's just I MYSELF am completely unattracted to him and wouldn't date or sleep with him 😂

  • @bleuwarrior
    @bleuwarrior Місяць тому +2

    Even if a girl set up his profile he still get skipped. these apps suck

  • @randomphantom6499
    @randomphantom6499 Місяць тому +5

    Yup, online dating is dead for sure.

    • @KericBurleson
      @KericBurleson 23 дні тому

      No. You just have to upgrade your image online. Dating apps does work. Just not for YOU!

    • @randomphantom6499
      @randomphantom6499 23 дні тому

      @@KericBurleson I never said it didn't work for me, non the less it is dead.

  • @AroundTheBest
    @AroundTheBest 7 місяців тому +8

    If she says your photos aren't good, it means she thinks you're ugly. 98% of women would swipe left on him in under 2 seconds.

  • @pacmanwocka
    @pacmanwocka 3 місяці тому +1

    Red Flag: good looking woman friendzoned him and he’s still hanging around lol

  • @disguyovaheere8140
    @disguyovaheere8140 2 місяці тому +1

    Okay but what if you have no friends, and a high-quality photo is more complicated than just knowing what he looks like.

  • @famousmcfly80
    @famousmcfly80 29 днів тому +3

    She’s using a guy she friend-zoned as an example. Oof. If he only had a boat……

    • @KericBurleson
      @KericBurleson 23 дні тому

      Yeah this dog shit advice. Never take dating advice from women

  • @gamercatsz5441
    @gamercatsz5441 7 місяців тому +2

    She friendzoned him, big L

  • @harysuper
    @harysuper 9 місяців тому +2

    Been off the apps for years. Been single for about 6 months. Getting back in the app scene and have had zero luck in person. (Tried Bible groups, social gatherings, bars etc). Wish me luck fellow men of culture.

  • @gsc76
    @gsc76 3 місяці тому +1

    Please tell me nobody is paying this woman for actual dating advice.

  • @johnnyjericho8472
    @johnnyjericho8472 2 місяці тому +2

    How to Friend Zone. Fixed the title.

  • @vinnylt2408
    @vinnylt2408 4 місяці тому +2

    She’s lying.

  • @JesusChrist2000BC
    @JesusChrist2000BC 6 місяців тому +4

    Lmao this beta would get no matches.

  • @DonkeyFrog
    @DonkeyFrog 4 місяці тому +1

    Yes, step 1 become Vice President (30+ years of work)

  • @dothedewinme
    @dothedewinme Місяць тому +1

    “My friend Paul”…. that’s all you need you know fellas. Don’t ask a fish how to catch a fish.

  • @ENZOxDV9
    @ENZOxDV9 7 місяців тому +2

    Doesn't matter how good his profile is if he's unattractive

  • @Suchen_Wahrheit
    @Suchen_Wahrheit 10 днів тому +1

    Paul's profile is the bait profile for women who hit the wall.... Concrete wall!
    Boat, wedding pics, baby 😂 Bingo!

  • @Dino-po1wi
    @Dino-po1wi 3 місяці тому +1

    The be a hollywood star to get matches, ok I get it.

  • @brandonjean-pierre3504
    @brandonjean-pierre3504 15 днів тому

    You don’t ask a fish how to catch fish. You ask a fisherman

  • @chandraray7798
    @chandraray7798 11 місяців тому +6

    Dk paul looks kinda plain.

  • @oceanlagoon7733
    @oceanlagoon7733 Місяць тому +1

    People with few friends tend to be more loyal actually, and him in a wedding means nothing, one of the worst people iv'e met came off like a great person in pictures.

  • @antoniofrederic6737
    @antoniofrederic6737 3 місяці тому +1

    All you have to do is be 6’6 and make 500k, not difficult guys 😅

  • @thewitchfindergeneral4015
    @thewitchfindergeneral4015 8 місяців тому +3

    Not tryna hate, but if his profile and his overall swag/game was as Fire as she says he wouldn’t have been just a “friend” to her lol

  • @michaelmoneytv
    @michaelmoneytv 6 місяців тому +2

    She said "Friend" homie come on

  • @artempik8366
    @artempik8366 8 днів тому +1

    The dude is a VP in Finance ...lets start with this .

  • @sydguitar99
    @sydguitar99 4 місяці тому +1

    She would never actually date him because he seems TOO put together and women dont like that for some reason 😂

  • @kumadori9627
    @kumadori9627 6 місяців тому +2

    Boys this has to be satire no? this is acted no? There is no human this foolish to post sth like this? "does he have boat?" Dear lord help us in these difficult times ...

  • @Chandra355
    @Chandra355 3 місяці тому +1

    She says her friends profile is ‘Fuego’, that must mean full of 💩 cuz she ain’t dating him.

  • @iblaze1085
    @iblaze1085 4 місяці тому +1

    You don't ask the fish how to get better at fishing 🎣

  • @luckyjinxer
    @luckyjinxer 2 місяці тому +2

    5'9", dont know why he's trying online dating. Better chances in the real world.

  • @agroproducepitahayatv9830
    @agroproducepitahayatv9830 6 місяців тому +1

    This girl is a bomb of emotions … my gosh I feel unsafe (as if I were close to an wild animal)

  • @companymen42
    @companymen42 4 місяці тому +1

    "VP of Finance" well boys, unless you're a fucking millionaire, good luck. Goes to show

  • @xuchilbara21392
    @xuchilbara21392 4 місяці тому +1

    I want the times back, when fathers decided who their daughter should marry and women actually helped men building society instead of becoming unprofessional social media 304s

  • @ireland278
    @ireland278 4 місяці тому +1

    Woman want means ,she doesn't want 😂

  • @austinzizzi1142
    @austinzizzi1142 Місяць тому +2

    Is Paul giving provider zaddy vibes????

  • @origins5490
    @origins5490 7 місяців тому +2

    You're a woman in your 30s and maybe even 40s. So, your time left to have a child is coming nigh. Which means that you're going to be more serious about dating apps. Women in the 18-29 age range are not serious about dating at all. They just want to have fun and mess around. While men in that age range and above are looking for a wife.