Just finished reading ‘Raising Warriors: Preparing Your Children For a Godly Life’ and it really opened my eyes to some new ways of guiding my kids in their faith. Highly recommend it if you’re looking to strenghten your family’s spiritual life
“You’re never going to get any sleep again” and “you think you’re tired now, just wait” is all I hear all day every day and it’s honestly so heartbreaking. My husband and I have dreams to continue camping and traveling and everyone makes it seem like we can’t have that life anymore and I just refuse. Our daughter is half of each of us, right? So why shouldn’t she be involved in everything we do, too? My sister didn’t take drives further than two hours away until her kid was 5 years old. While my husband and I are moving across the world when our daughter will be 4 months. (Military) I just refuse to let these remarks rule our lives.
Me too. FTM in 3 months and it’s so heartbreaking to think our live will never be the same again. I really wish our baby is just another better addition to our experience, not to take away
I am pregnant after a several months of infertility meds. So whenever someone says how hard it is after childbirth, I can't help wondering how miraculous it was for me to get pregnant at all. Thank you for all the positive tips. Best of luck for the second one!
Congratulations!!! I’m so so happy for you. When I tried to get pregnant it was the most discouraging thing when I saw negatives. You’re going to be a wonderful mamma!
i dont mean to be off topic but does any of you know a trick to log back into an Instagram account?? I was dumb forgot the login password. I appreciate any tricks you can give me.
Wow, congratulations!! I'm sorry the way I worded things offended you. Not my intention at all! You're absolutely right! I truly believe all pregnancies and births are miraculous.
@@margaretmatheny No no, you don't need to say sorry at all. In fact you have uploaded one of the most uplifting videos about new parenthood. It's really hard to focus on the positives when people around me keep hanging on to the negatives. I am so excited to meet my little one and best of luck to you too!
This video was very comforting!! I'm 33 weeks pregnant and let me tell you, I'm scared of post-pregnancy. I love the part where you mentioned that people talk about your relationship being basically over once the baby comes. My husband and I have a tight bond and honestly I don't see us distancing once the baby's here because this is all we ever wanted... but of course... people got to my head. This video got me back on track on my positive vibes and I feel so relaxed!
I'm so so so glad to hear! If I'm being completely honest, my husband and I got closer post-baby. There was just a deeper, more meaningful love that we both had for the child and for one another. Not everyone will have the same experience, but that was ours
While it can be an overwhelming time it’s so rewarding. Take it one day at a time, honour how you feel and spoil yourself loads. Keep your boundaries tall and strong and enjoy your new family dynamic 🌹
Currently 15 weeks pregnant and I am so happy I found this video. Thank you for the positivity. I’ve been having so much fear and anxiety about being a first time mom (losing my freedom & career which I worked so hard for my whole life). Your video helped me feel more calm ❤️
@@TheOrganizedPineapple yes! I just had my baby girl 2 weeks ago and I love her so much ❤️. Still recovering physically and adjusting mentally, but I’ve learned to take things one day at a time and slow down. One of my favorite things is watching my husband love being her dad. She has made both our lives brighter ☀️.
@@alessandrabenner6058 congratulations 🎉 I have 3 littles and my oldest is 11 ! None of these helpful things were around when I was having my babies. Glad they are around now.
THANK YOU, I could cry... first time mom at the age of 33. People really do make parenthood seem so terrifying the moment you announce you're pregnant, when it's too late to go back. I am slow to accept change and I know that about myself, which is why it's taken me so long to be ready for children, I needed to hear these things. I know in my head that I can do this and we will be fine, but man the encouragement I got from this video really helped.
How are things for you? I am currently 18 weeks pregnant and I also have a hard time with change. Despite stocking up on supplies and my growing belly, the fact that I'm having a baby still hasn't really hit me in a lot of ways I feel, it probably won't until he's here! Curious how your experience has been, hope all is well!
@@AmallieGames we are doing great! I won’t lie, those first few months were tough in a lot of ways, I was induced after being rear ended on a highway exit and labored for three days as my body just wasn’t ready to give birth yet, the epidural was worth it for me! As a result of the accident, I didn’t have a car the whole first month, which was tough. After a 5-day hospital stay, I was very tired coming home, I didn’t expect that the baby wouldn’t sleep all night, but I later learned that is normal! So if it happens for you guys it is ok and you’re not doing anything wrong! Remind yourself everyday, WE ARE LEARNING! That was so helpful for me. Something shifted around that 4 month mark, I loved my baby when he was born, but in the months that have followed, watching him understand that he loves me and all the milestones we’ve reached together… I finally understood the huge shift that is a mother’s love. It’s overwhelmingly wonderful, I would do anything for this kid! The other thing to know, the gross stories and scary sounding stories that people tell: those things you just handle one step at a time, you’re completely in the moment and you don’t really have time to think about anything other than the next step, you’ll reflect later and be like wow that was tough! And you’ll feel proud that you handled it, and that’s why people share those stories. Not to scare you. I still don’t think it’s very nice of them, but I understand from their perspective a bit more now. You have totally got this, momma. Take it one step at a time, one day at a time, it will be ok and you and baby and your partner are just learning. It turns out pretty wonderful on the other side. 💜
I love this! I’ve been so nervous because of all the negativity surrounding postpartum. A lot of people tried to scare me when I got pregnant too about how terrible pregnancy is. They were SO wrong. I have loved my pregnancy, even when it’s been challenging or uncomfortable. You are so right! It’s all about your mindset. Go into pregnancy and motherhood with a positive and grateful attitude and you will have a positive and fulfilling experience!
I absolutely LOVE being pregnant! With my first pregnancy, I thought I was some kind of freak because it was such a great experience for me. I was pregnant last spring, and it was starting out great again, so I thought, "Maybe not everyone always hates being pregnant." Unfortunately, I had a miscarriage and was devastated. I'm currently 25 weeks pregnant again, and I am SO happy and am enjoying being pregnant SO much again! I know a lot of women have a really rough pregnancy, and I feel for them, but I guess I'm just one of the blessed ones that really love being pregnant! ❤I
This is literally the number video out of the thousands I have seen so far that has eased my anxiety and given me a sense of relief omg! Thank you!! All the best for baby number two and congratulations on mama hood!!
I was going to say the same thing !! The way most people describe having a baby it’s like going to jail or something. Always saying say goodbye to your friends, say goodbye to alone time with your husband, goodbye to sleep until they turn 18 . I truly believe it’s the reason I’m afraid to have a baby . I was looking for a video like this . THANK YOU !!!
This eased my anxiety so much, it's just hard when my parents don't realize how much has changed since they had kids so I'm always hearing different ways to do things and it's incredibly stressful but I know now they're just trying to help from how they remember things
12 weeks first time pregnant here! This is so true! My dad just told me that baths for babies are absurd because in their times they bathed the baby in the sink. That’s the level. My parents are so stubborn and strong minded though, I’m quite afraid of them pushing on how to take care/raise the baby , because I hate having conflict with them. How did you handle it? Any tip please? 🙏🏻🙏🏻
"Motherhood is what you make of it" LOVE THAT ADVICE! ❤ I'm going to start telling people "I'm sorry YOU feel that way." And walk away when they say negative crap to me. I don't need that kind of negativity. We tried to conceive for 14 months. My husband & I are about to celebrate 9 years together ❤ We're so excited to be parents. I know it won't be a walk in the park or all rainbow & sunshine... but I really don't think we will be as miserable as everyone makes it out to be. I feel like the joy of bringing our baby girl home will outweigh all the hard moments. 🥰
this video is everything 🥺 !! Ive been struggling SO hard today with the anxiety of everything thats changing... so much fear mongering online about what to do/not to do, being a good mom etc..i just want to be a good mom and be relaxed 🥺
I am a 48 year old grandma to be and I love this video> I recommended it to my daughter soon to be FTM. Love your honesty and positive attitude. Being a mom is awesome!
“It’s not a tired that’s ruining my life…” thank you for putting it that way. I’m 34 with my first and the tired is hard for me but putting it that way is so true and helped me place my feelings about being tired better. Thank you
17 weeks pregnant. Only 19 years old and newly married. My husband and I got married and chose to have kids right away knowing that we were absolutely not ready for it but that no one ever really is ready and you just have to dive in and do it. People tried to say everything they could to scare us out of getting married and to scare us out of having kids this young, but we’ve found that marriage truly is the most beautiful and joyful thing, and I’m sure having a baby will end up being just as wonderful. I’m so excited for this little one!!
Thanks for the video. Im 31 weeks with my Miracle baby girl after 6 years of infertility. 💖I'm so excited but I am starting to get a little nervous. I just hope I can be the best mom ever to my girl 💕🤰☺
I'm saving this to watch again, amazing video! I'm so fed up with the horror stories people tell, I mean the whole "it is what you make of it" advice I've really started to use in my life and it really does change things.
This is one of my favorite videos I have watched in my entire pregnancy, and I have watched so many haha. Everything you said, and the way you speak is so calming and true. Thank you so much!!! This video I’m saving to watch over and over.
Wow this was SUCH a comforting video. You kept it so real and I love how you kept saying how empowering motherhood is. I really needed to hear this! Thank you!
Congratulations for your second little one on the way. I had my first baby almost 2 months ago now and am still in the learning curve of accepting that family and friends are genuinely happy to help. I feel the need to do as much s I can myself, accepting that help tho builds relationships. Letting people hold my baby too for the first few weeks was so hard, i didn't want to be one of those overprotective mums tho so made myself accept others hold her and I'm so glad I did too Trusting your mum instinct is so on point too and needed, all we want as mums is to do the best for our child and trusting our Instinkt is like an inbuilt internal GPS it's such an uplifting feeling, makes you feel more trust in yourself I find, so empowering
I love your video. I am 4 months pregnant now and I super relate with your 1st tip. Dont let people scare you. This is something I've been dreading about but listening to you kind of made me feel better. ❤️
Your video is filled with positivity. I am 34 weeks now and first time mom freaking out with mixed feelings. This video is really helpful. Thanks for the wonderful tips.
Oh man, that's so good to hear, I love that! "motherhood is what you make of it" All I have heard from people is negative things like our marriage is gonna be over etc. But so good to hear! I'm excited!
So glad I found your channel! Currently 19 weeks pregnant and my anxiety is starting to go in overdrive with anticipation and not knowing what to expect. I love this video and it made me feel so much better! following you immediately and love these realistic, positive videos!!
I love this, thank you! It took us two years to get pregnant and we’re so excited but everyone has been giving their opinion and some comments do sound scary! And I’ve been an infant nanny for years so definitely know more about infants than others, and still feel unprepared. Thanks for the tips!
I'm due in a couple of weeks and you are the only person who seems to feel the same way as me about not wanting to ask for help and other people wanting to hold the baby. It's made me feel so much better knowing that somebody else feels the same way! Xxx
27 weeks currently and I've been getting really anxious about the shopping and taking care of a baby without having any experienced person directly around me. This video has really helped me calm down. Thanks a lot.
29 weeks, second time mom, I had my mother helping me with my first and till today I still think I would rather do it alone. You have your own thoughts and ideas for how to take care of baby, and mom did not really agreed with it, so we argued, like a lot. Doctors will help you with advises and , of course, internet. Just do not trust every information 😉
@@anastasiakholod2222 I agree with that, the older generation sometimes tends to be quite rigid in their ways and some of them are unnecessary and wrong.
I love this. Thank you for sharing. I’m 16 weeks with my first at 27 and being scared is definitely on my mind quite a bit. Your positive energy is so calming and helpful. I hope to be a strong mama like you!
I’m pregnant rn and i really dislike when people feel the need to make those negative comments you were talking about. I had a pretty rough first trimester, but i’m still so happy and excited about this pregnancy, so now i just immediately shut down the negative comments ‘cause... people!
Good for you! For some reason, people think they can relate to us through negativity. It's so false and actually hurts us more than helps. I'm so glad you're aware and acting on it. WAY ahead of the game!
This is relatable, I’m just under 12 weeks with fraternal twins (my first). Yes I am aware that it’s going to be super hard but I’m happy and excited to meet my babies. I also shut down negative comments, coz no one got time for that 👌🏼
This video helped me so much you have no idea! Just the positivity and empowerment of it. Everyone is SO negative! I am trying to decide if I want to try for a baby and like I know I want to and I know I will love it but everyone always is so negative about having a baby! I looked for a positive pov and I found it. Thank you!
I love how your video is not only very comforting for all the new moms, but also straight to the point. I see all those 30 minutes long videos for the same topic, and man, ain't nobody has this much time!
I cannot tell you how much I relate to this video. I don’t understand the point of scaring a new mom. Thank you for all of the advice!!! I really loved this video (and I have watched a lot) 🥰
I'm over here super emotional and teary-eyed because this video was such a blessing to me. I'm about to go into my third month of pregnancy and I literally know nothing about it and don't have much support. But you are such a light! May God bless you, and encounter you. I pray that if you don't know Jesus, that you come to know him in such a real way. He created you beautifully, thank you so much for all of your help!
Hi! ❤️ I'm currently a week away from my due date and have been having a bit of anxiety about post pregnancy and this really just reassured me to cut out all the negative comments and remain positive. I know motherhood isn't easy, but it really peeved me when my aunts made it sound like the worst thing that could ever happen, to my life and relationship. If anything, i am so excited to be a mom and me and my partner who are already so close knit, have become even closer...i love my bundle of joy so much and the sleepless nights, exhaustion and painful boobs will be worth it and i wouldn't trade it for anything
I feel like the thumbs up is not at all enough to say how much I loved your video and your attitude!) You are so wise and so right) I found myself smiling during the video and I keep smiling afterwards) I have two more months before meeting my previous one ❤️ And if I’m getting nervous or unwell I remind myself that my body is doing such an incredible magic, and I need to trust it. Thank you for all your advices and for the feeling of ease you gave 🥰🌹
I just want to say thank you for this video! Im a minimalist with a green heart & I wanted to learn something about this new journey I'm going on. You're tips were fabulous & wonderfully helpful, you were to the point & enjoyable to watch. Thank you so much for putting you & your heart felt ideas out there to the world 🥰
True simple and clear. 3 weeks before baby comes! Thanks for the insight and this is one of the few videos where I haven’t felt “pushed” to buy something but it was clear counsel and direction.
So many first time moms gets anxious because of what other women tells them.. I was one of those first time moms. watching your video made me feel even more excited to share my experiences❤️❤️❤️very informative.. All first time moms you got this!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️
I'm 14 weeks and a FTM. I'm so excited but have been nervous about some things. This video is a godsend, thank you. I'll be saving to re-watch with my husband a couple times 😊
I loved this video, such a light hearted presentation and so many helpful tips. We're expecting our first and this made me really pumped for his big debut
This is SO helpful!! With the guidance of Mamas like yourself and my super gracious boss who has 4 girls of his own, I’ve been nothing but calm throughout these first 3 weeks. Thank you!
Awesome tips!! And honestly... the best advice you gave was in your demeanor 😂 Like, you were keepin it real and also letting the whooooole process have its own kind of happiness. Thanks a bunch for the video!
This was so helpful!! I’m having my first baby in 5 months and I’m so excited but so nervous at the same time. This brought me a sense of relief and I’m glad you shared these tips!
Ah congrats!! You’re going to do great, trust your instincts, they will kick in dear♥️. That’s exactly why I shared this, hoping to bring relief that I never had. Best wishes to you!!
Im 36 weeks pregnant and have stuggled with severe depression and anxiety disorder all my teenage years. but, for some reason when i got pregnant its like it went away. Maybe its just distraction but its great. Even though this pregnancy was not planned as i am 16 but im happy that i feel happy.
I remember I saw this video when we were trying to conceive, and now that I am pregnant I rewatched it again.. It hits you after you are faced with reality, it is a challenge.. But I definitely ask for help from now, and nd I ask for support.. but some days feel fine so you live life nd suddenly symptoms hit.. may god bless you mamas
I love the idea of putting baby to sleep late! It makes so much more sense, having the morning free to get stuff done, especially if I don’t sleep until 23h/midnight anyways. Great tip, going to try it
Thank you sm for this video. I feel so reassured and confident. I sometimes get so scared. But i know deep down everything will be okay. Thank you for these tips. Love your energy, your way of thinking❤️
when you said women just have it in them this instinct and started talking about the "let your partner help" I just started smiling. I'm currently 37 weeks and i'm so excited to be a first time mom (nervous about delivery of course haha) and trying to figure everything out. I'm excited to hopefully do everything with my partner as well and include him as much as possible.
I'm not even fully through this video yet, but I had to comment because you are a breath of fresh air! I loved your personality and outlook immediately! And then when you started giving the heads up about all the toxins in those synthetic fragrance products, I was like yesssss! As a person who suffers from allergies to many synthetic chemicals, it forced me to look into why they are so harmful, and I am amazed people continue to use them. I just don't think most people know the harm they are causing to themselves and others... But anyway!! Just wanted to say thank you for making this lovely video, and when I finish it I'm going to go explore the rest of your channel and probably subscribe because you're so wonderful! 😊
These words are SO kind Emily. Thank you!!! I'm always so happy to hear that people pay attention to the same things I do. Thanks for your encouragement and for your support. Truly means so much.
Yes!!! First time mom here, 3 weeks post partum and the first tip. Everyone seems to want to tell you horror stories and that “you don’t matter” once the baby comes like wtf is wrong with you. All these changes and hormones and you wanna stress me out on top of it?! Ugh. Its so much better than the predictions for us. And I’ve distanced myself from those crazy ppl.
That was really helpful! Touched on my biggest fears. Sleep deprivation. And not getting time with my husband. Also asking for help (keeping up with house chores).
Ahhh this is just what I needed to hear! Especially about time being even more special with hubby and growing closer. This is the one fear that society has put in my head that being a mum will be really hard on my marriage. Here's to it making us even stronger!
Wow as a soon to be Father and a older brother of 7 I've been telling my girlfriend most of these things you are saying. I'm so glad a woman is saying it . God bless you and your family.
Thanks for this video! I needed to hear so many of these things. I'm pregnant with our first and people''s stories are starting to scare me, and its so good to hear your view. Love the line, "If you're negative, it will be a negative experience." Holding on to that one! I'm naturally pretty positive about the whole thing, and I get the sideline glance of "just you wait" from many people for being that way. Glad to hear I'm not crazy!!
I watched this before and after having my baby and the words are soooo much more meaningful and relatable now that I have my baby haha thanks so much for the encouraging video!
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Just finished reading ‘Raising Warriors: Preparing Your Children For a Godly Life’ and it really opened my eyes to some new ways of guiding my kids in their faith. Highly recommend it if you’re looking to strenghten your family’s spiritual life
“You’re never going to get any sleep again” and “you think you’re tired now, just wait” is all I hear all day every day and it’s honestly so heartbreaking. My husband and I have dreams to continue camping and traveling and everyone makes it seem like we can’t have that life anymore and I just refuse. Our daughter is half of each of us, right? So why shouldn’t she be involved in everything we do, too? My sister didn’t take drives further than two hours away until her kid was 5 years old. While my husband and I are moving across the world when our daughter will be 4 months. (Military)
I just refuse to let these remarks rule our lives.
Me too. FTM in 3 months and it’s so heartbreaking to think our live will never be the same again. I really wish our baby is just another better addition to our experience, not to take away
I am pregnant after a several months of infertility meds. So whenever someone says how hard it is after childbirth, I can't help wondering how miraculous it was for me to get pregnant at all. Thank you for all the positive tips. Best of luck for the second one!
Congratulations!!! I’m so so happy for you. When I tried to get pregnant it was the most discouraging thing when I saw negatives. You’re going to be a wonderful mamma!
@@makaylaboren445 Aww thank you so much!!
i dont mean to be off topic but does any of you know a trick to log back into an Instagram account??
I was dumb forgot the login password. I appreciate any tricks you can give me.
Wow, congratulations!! I'm sorry the way I worded things offended you. Not my intention at all! You're absolutely right! I truly believe all pregnancies and births are miraculous.
@@margaretmatheny No no, you don't need to say sorry at all. In fact you have uploaded one of the most uplifting videos about new parenthood. It's really hard to focus on the positives when people around me keep hanging on to the negatives. I am so excited to meet my little one and best of luck to you too!
“Motherhood is what you make of it”. I love how you said this! It is all about our mindset!
It really is! Thanks for the encouraging words!
This video was very comforting!! I'm 33 weeks pregnant and let me tell you, I'm scared of post-pregnancy. I love the part where you mentioned that people talk about your relationship being basically over once the baby comes. My husband and I have a tight bond and honestly I don't see us distancing once the baby's here because this is all we ever wanted... but of course... people got to my head. This video got me back on track on my positive vibes and I feel so relaxed!
I'm so so so glad to hear! If I'm being completely honest, my husband and I got closer post-baby. There was just a deeper, more meaningful love that we both had for the child and for one another. Not everyone will have the same experience, but that was ours
While it can be an overwhelming time it’s so rewarding. Take it one day at a time, honour how you feel and spoil yourself loads. Keep your boundaries tall and strong and enjoy your new family dynamic 🌹
I watched this when I was pregnant. Came back to watch after having baby boy and everything you said is 100% true!
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Currently 15 weeks pregnant and I am so happy I found this video. Thank you for the positivity. I’ve been having so much fear and anxiety about being a first time mom (losing my freedom & career which I worked so hard for my whole life). Your video helped me feel more calm ❤️
Hope it's going well!
@@TheOrganizedPineapple yes! I just had my baby girl 2 weeks ago and I love her so much ❤️. Still recovering physically and adjusting mentally, but I’ve learned to take things one day at a time and slow down. One of my favorite things is watching my husband love being her dad. She has made both our lives brighter ☀️.
@@alessandrabenner6058 congratulations 🎉 I have 3 littles and my oldest is 11 ! None of these helpful things were around when I was having my babies. Glad they are around now.
THANK YOU, I could cry... first time mom at the age of 33. People really do make parenthood seem so terrifying the moment you announce you're pregnant, when it's too late to go back. I am slow to accept change and I know that about myself, which is why it's taken me so long to be ready for children, I needed to hear these things. I know in my head that I can do this and we will be fine, but man the encouragement I got from this video really helped.
How are things for you? I am currently 18 weeks pregnant and I also have a hard time with change. Despite stocking up on supplies and my growing belly, the fact that I'm having a baby still hasn't really hit me in a lot of ways I feel, it probably won't until he's here! Curious how your experience has been, hope all is well!
@@AmallieGames we are doing great! I won’t lie, those first few months were tough in a lot of ways, I was induced after being rear ended on a highway exit and labored for three days as my body just wasn’t ready to give birth yet, the epidural was worth it for me! As a result of the accident, I didn’t have a car the whole first month, which was tough. After a 5-day hospital stay, I was very tired coming home, I didn’t expect that the baby wouldn’t sleep all night, but I later learned that is normal! So if it happens for you guys it is ok and you’re not doing anything wrong! Remind yourself everyday, WE ARE LEARNING! That was so helpful for me. Something shifted around that 4 month mark, I loved my baby when he was born, but in the months that have followed, watching him understand that he loves me and all the milestones we’ve reached together… I finally understood the huge shift that is a mother’s love. It’s overwhelmingly wonderful, I would do anything for this kid! The other thing to know, the gross stories and scary sounding stories that people tell: those things you just handle one step at a time, you’re completely in the moment and you don’t really have time to think about anything other than the next step, you’ll reflect later and be like wow that was tough! And you’ll feel proud that you handled it, and that’s why people share those stories. Not to scare you. I still don’t think it’s very nice of them, but I understand from their perspective a bit more now. You have totally got this, momma. Take it one step at a time, one day at a time, it will be ok and you and baby and your partner are just learning. It turns out pretty wonderful on the other side. 💜
currently 38 weeks pregnant and i found your video this is so calming brought me away from pressure and anxiety
I love how straight to the point you are!! I don't have the patience to sit through an hour long video with a bunch of filler info.
I love this! I’ve been so nervous because of all the negativity surrounding postpartum. A lot of people tried to scare me when I got pregnant too about how terrible pregnancy is. They were SO wrong. I have loved my pregnancy, even when it’s been challenging or uncomfortable. You are so right! It’s all about your mindset. Go into pregnancy and motherhood with a positive and grateful attitude and you will have a positive and fulfilling experience!
I'm so glad you enjoyed and that it resonated with you. You've got it!!!
I absolutely LOVE being pregnant! With my first pregnancy, I thought I was some kind of freak because it was such a great experience for me. I was pregnant last spring, and it was starting out great again, so I thought, "Maybe not everyone always hates being pregnant." Unfortunately, I had a miscarriage and was devastated. I'm currently 25 weeks pregnant again, and I am SO happy and am enjoying being pregnant SO much again! I know a lot of women have a really rough pregnancy, and I feel for them, but I guess I'm just one of the blessed ones that really love being pregnant! ❤I
When you said “welcome to the club, mama” I immediately teared up! Ughhh all these pregnancy emotions. Thank you for this video💕
Ugh same 🥺
SAAAMMMMEEE! LOL I was like...OMG!.. Hey that's me.. I'm gonna be a mama! 😭🥰.
This is literally the number video out of the thousands I have seen so far that has eased my anxiety and given me a sense of relief omg! Thank you!! All the best for baby number two and congratulations on mama hood!!
Oh my goodness, that made my heart explode. I'm so happy it helped you. That was my exact intention. Honesty and encouragement! Wishing you the best!!
I was going to say the same thing !! The way most people describe having a baby it’s like going to jail or something. Always saying say goodbye to your friends, say goodbye to alone time with your husband, goodbye to sleep until they turn 18 . I truly believe it’s the reason I’m afraid to have a baby . I was looking for a video like this . THANK YOU !!!
Yes, also such a nice voice of a nice, honest person!
This eased my anxiety so much, it's just hard when my parents don't realize how much has changed since they had kids so I'm always hearing different ways to do things and it's incredibly stressful but I know now they're just trying to help from how they remember things
12 weeks first time pregnant here! This is so true! My dad just told me that baths for babies are absurd because in their times they bathed the baby in the sink. That’s the level. My parents are so stubborn and strong minded though, I’m quite afraid of them pushing on how to take care/raise the baby , because I hate having conflict with them. How did you handle it? Any tip please? 🙏🏻🙏🏻
"Motherhood is what you make of it" LOVE THAT ADVICE! ❤ I'm going to start telling people "I'm sorry YOU feel that way." And walk away when they say negative crap to me. I don't need that kind of negativity.
We tried to conceive for 14 months. My husband & I are about to celebrate 9 years together ❤ We're so excited to be parents. I know it won't be a walk in the park or all rainbow & sunshine... but I really don't think we will be as miserable as everyone makes it out to be. I feel like the joy of bringing our baby girl home will outweigh all the hard moments. 🥰
this video is everything 🥺 !! Ive been struggling SO hard today with the anxiety of everything thats changing... so much fear mongering online about what to do/not to do, being a good mom etc..i just want to be a good mom and be relaxed 🥺
I am a 48 year old grandma to be and I love this video> I recommended it to my daughter soon to be FTM. Love your honesty and positive attitude. Being a mom is awesome!
That's the sweetest thing! Thank you! Being a mom is SO awesome, I agree!
“It’s not a tired that’s ruining my life…” thank you for putting it that way. I’m 34 with my first and the tired is hard for me but putting it that way is so true and helped me place my feelings about being tired better. Thank you
17 weeks pregnant. Only 19 years old and newly married. My husband and I got married and chose to have kids right away knowing that we were absolutely not ready for it but that no one ever really is ready and you just have to dive in and do it. People tried to say everything they could to scare us out of getting married and to scare us out of having kids this young, but we’ve found that marriage truly is the most beautiful and joyful thing, and I’m sure having a baby will end up being just as wonderful. I’m so excited for this little one!!
All the best mama, wishing you a safe delivery when the time comes❤😊
Thanks for the video. Im 31 weeks with my Miracle baby girl after 6 years of infertility. 💖I'm so excited but I am starting to get a little nervous. I just hope I can be the best mom ever to my girl 💕🤰☺
Finally realistic and positive advices ❤️ I needed that thank you
So welcome. Happy to help!
Yeah. Thanks!
I’m pregnant w my first and god freaking bless you for these videos😭😭
Why do they say “ready for no sleep?” I already can’t sleep with this big belly 😂
Girl same
Exactly! And having to pee every 2 hours
SAME. i havent been able to sleep since the first month that i got pregnant, im like at least now ill have some company once my baby is born 😂
I've never been a good sleeper even before getting pregnant 😆
Girl for real. I feellikd it's the training before the baby come
I'm saving this to watch again, amazing video! I'm so fed up with the horror stories people tell, I mean the whole "it is what you make of it" advice I've really started to use in my life and it really does change things.
I'm so happy you found hope in this video. Wish you could see my face, means so much! Wishing you the best
This is one of my favorite videos I have watched in my entire pregnancy, and I have watched so many haha. Everything you said, and the way you speak is so calming and true. Thank you so much!!! This video I’m saving to watch over and over.
Wow this was SUCH a comforting video. You kept it so real and I love how you kept saying how empowering motherhood is. I really needed to hear this! Thank you!
Aw I'm so glad you found this page. That's exactly why I made it. Thanks for your encouragement, means so much!
Congratulations for your second little one on the way.
I had my first baby almost 2 months ago now and am still in the learning curve of accepting that family and friends are genuinely happy to help.
I feel the need to do as much s I can myself, accepting that help tho builds relationships.
Letting people hold my baby too for the first few weeks was so hard, i didn't want to be one of those overprotective mums tho so made myself accept others hold her and I'm so glad I did too
Trusting your mum instinct is so on point too and needed, all we want as mums is to do the best for our child and trusting our Instinkt is like an inbuilt internal GPS it's such an uplifting feeling, makes you feel more trust in yourself I find, so empowering
I love your video. I am 4 months pregnant now and I super relate with your 1st tip. Dont let people scare you. This is something I've been dreading about but listening to you kind of made me feel better. ❤️
Your video is filled with positivity. I am 34 weeks now and first time mom freaking out with mixed feelings. This video is really helpful. Thanks for the wonderful tips.
I'm so glad to hear this.
Oh man, that's so good to hear, I love that! "motherhood is what you make of it"
All I have heard from people is negative things like our marriage is gonna be over etc.
But so good to hear! I'm excited!
I agree with the whole ‘people around you will freak you out’ thingy. Thank you for the reminder !
Absolutely! Thanks for being here!
Thank you for the boost of optimism! The “just wait” world we live does create fear!
So glad I found your channel! Currently 19 weeks pregnant and my anxiety is starting to go in overdrive with anticipation and not knowing what to expect. I love this video and it made me feel so much better! following you immediately and love these realistic, positive videos!!
Thank you so much for this video ❤ I’m 13 weeks and this is my first little one, so much going through my mind and this helps a TON !! 😊
I love this, thank you! It took us two years to get pregnant and we’re so excited but everyone has been giving their opinion and some comments do sound scary! And I’ve been an infant nanny for years so definitely know more about infants than others, and still feel unprepared. Thanks for the tips!
I'm due in a couple of weeks and you are the only person who seems to feel the same way as me about not wanting to ask for help and other people wanting to hold the baby. It's made me feel so much better knowing that somebody else feels the same way! Xxx
Yessss, gosh it was so hard for me. But in the end, they are offering to help because they want to! Still have to remind myself of that!
27 weeks currently and I've been getting really anxious about the shopping and taking care of a baby without having any experienced person directly around me. This video has really helped me calm down. Thanks a lot.
29 weeks, second time mom, I had my mother helping me with my first and till today I still think I would rather do it alone. You have your own thoughts and ideas for how to take care of baby, and mom did not really agreed with it, so we argued, like a lot. Doctors will help you with advises and , of course, internet. Just do not trust every information 😉
@@anastasiakholod2222 I agree with that, the older generation sometimes tends to be quite rigid in their ways and some of them are unnecessary and wrong.
I love this. Thank you for sharing. I’m 16 weeks with my first at 27 and being scared is definitely on my mind quite a bit. Your positive energy is so calming and helpful. I hope to be a strong mama like you!
I’m pregnant rn and i really dislike when people feel the need to make those negative comments you were talking about. I had a pretty rough first trimester, but i’m still so happy and excited about this pregnancy, so now i just immediately shut down the negative comments ‘cause... people!
congratulations on the baby!! Im sorry people are like that! i wish you the best!!
Good for you! For some reason, people think they can relate to us through negativity. It's so false and actually hurts us more than helps. I'm so glad you're aware and acting on it. WAY ahead of the game!
@@margaretmatheny Yes such a good way oh putting it!!
@@margaretmatheny Exactly!
This is relatable, I’m just under 12 weeks with fraternal twins (my first). Yes I am aware that it’s going to be super hard but I’m happy and excited to meet my babies. I also shut down negative comments, coz no one got time for that 👌🏼
This video helped me so much you have no idea! Just the positivity and empowerment of it. Everyone is SO negative! I am trying to decide if I want to try for a baby and like I know I want to and I know I will love it but everyone always is so negative about having a baby! I looked for a positive pov and I found it. Thank you!
Welcome 🥺I'm so so glad and grateful I could be of help to you!
I love how your video is not only very comforting for all the new moms, but also straight to the point. I see all those 30 minutes long videos for the same topic, and man, ain't nobody has this much time!
hahaha, I feel you! Thanks for these kind words!
I cannot tell you how much I relate to this video. I don’t understand the point of scaring a new mom. Thank you for all of the advice!!! I really loved this video (and I have watched a lot) 🥰
Ah, so happy to hear. Thank you for sharing those kind words too!
I'm over here super emotional and teary-eyed because this video was such a blessing to me. I'm about to go into my third month of pregnancy and I literally know nothing about it and don't have much support. But you are such a light! May God bless you, and encounter you. I pray that if you don't know Jesus, that you come to know him in such a real way. He created you beautifully, thank you so much for all of your help!
I’m 24 and barely 7 weeks. I’m so excited and this really helped ease my anxiety 🥺❤️
So fun! Do you know if it’s a boy or girl?
Hi! ❤️ I'm currently a week away from my due date and have been having a bit of anxiety about post pregnancy and this really just reassured me to cut out all the negative comments and remain positive. I know motherhood isn't easy, but it really peeved me when my aunts made it sound like the worst thing that could ever happen, to my life and relationship. If anything, i am so excited to be a mom and me and my partner who are already so close knit, have become even closer...i love my bundle of joy so much and the sleepless nights, exhaustion and painful boobs will be worth it and i wouldn't trade it for anything
This is the best video I’ve watched to ease my thoughts and anxiety levels about this new chapter in my life. Currently 40 weeks and 1 day 😁
I'm 24 years old pregnant with my first baby! This video has relived a bunch of stress for me! Thank you so much!
Ah, I'm so so so happy to hear this. It's exactly why I made this video. Thanks for sharing!
This may be the best UA-cam video I've seen on new motherhood and at 28 weeks let me tell ya, I've watched thousands 🤣 thank you for your positivity!
Im having my first and this past week has been rough.This really calmed me down
I feel like the thumbs up is not at all enough to say how much I loved your video and your attitude!) You are so wise and so right) I found myself smiling during the video and I keep smiling afterwards)
I have two more months before meeting my previous one ❤️
And if I’m getting nervous or unwell I remind myself that my body is doing such an incredible magic, and I need to trust it. Thank you for all your advices and for the feeling of ease you gave 🥰🌹
About to have my first baby and just wanted to say thank you for this!! There is so much negativity out there and this is such a breath of fresh air
I am so going to recommend this video to anyone who has their first baby! Mine is 4 months now and I agree with everything you said here!
I just want to say thank you for this video! Im a minimalist with a green heart & I wanted to learn something about this new journey I'm going on. You're tips were fabulous & wonderfully helpful, you were to the point & enjoyable to watch. Thank you so much for putting you & your heart felt ideas out there to the world 🥰
OMG I feel so much better after watching this. I am 26 and just had my first baby and this is just what I needed to hear.
Ah I'm so glad to hear! Truly, that's why I make these videos, in hopes to help others who were once in my shoes. Wishing you all the best.
Ay! Same age, fellow first time momma. You've got this. :)
Saving this video so my wife and I can watch it again once baby is here. 3 more weeks ❤️
True simple and clear. 3 weeks before baby comes! Thanks for the insight and this is one of the few videos where I haven’t felt “pushed” to buy something but it was clear counsel and direction.
So many first time moms gets anxious because of what other women tells them.. I was one of those first time moms. watching your video made me feel even more excited to share my experiences❤️❤️❤️very informative..
All first time moms you got this!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️
Ah this is so kind and encouraging! Thanks for being here!!
I love your calm, positive attitude. Thank you!
I'm 14 weeks and a FTM. I'm so excited but have been nervous about some things. This video is a godsend, thank you. I'll be saving to re-watch with my husband a couple times 😊
Honestly I’m super glad I found this video I feel so much better about being a first time mom 💗
suuuuch a good video! I have had three and i love all of your tips here. Basic but i wish i knew all of this before my kids!
I loved this video, such a light hearted presentation and so many helpful tips. We're expecting our first and this made me really pumped for his big debut
This is SO helpful!! With the guidance of Mamas like yourself and my super gracious boss who has 4 girls of his own, I’ve been nothing but calm throughout these first 3 weeks. Thank you!
I'm nearly 7 weeks and your advice is giving me life! Thanks for sharing. 🥰
Awesome tips!! And honestly... the best advice you gave was in your demeanor 😂 Like, you were keepin it real and also letting the whooooole process have its own kind of happiness. Thanks a bunch for the video!
This was so helpful!! I’m having my first baby in 5 months and I’m so excited but so nervous at the same time. This brought me a sense of relief and I’m glad you shared these tips!
Ah congrats!! You’re going to do great, trust your instincts, they will kick in dear♥️. That’s exactly why I shared this, hoping to bring relief that I never had. Best wishes to you!!
Im 36 weeks pregnant and have stuggled with severe depression and anxiety disorder all my teenage years. but, for some reason when i got pregnant its like it went away. Maybe its just distraction but its great. Even though this pregnancy was not planned as i am 16 but im happy that i feel happy.
The other things needed for baby listed at 3:40 made me smile:) “you get the idea”😂
Great Video! ✨
I have lots of Newborn Baby tips on my channel & I really enjoyed this video!
Thanks for making this video & I just subbed! 👶
UA-cam recommended☺️. I’m 15 days pp and really could use tips for my new normal 🌞💕 thank you for the video!
Very helpful tips. I deliver my first child sometime in the next two weeks and I instantly feel better, less worried.
Ah, bless you! You're going to do great. You've got instincts and will know what to do. Congrats momma!
Meal prep girl as much as possible! My best tip as a first time mom. Freeze as much as you can !
How can I like this video multiple times? You are a gem Margaret thanks for your tip!
hahaha, ah thank you
Ohhh your video made me feel so much nicer! Thanks for all the tips. xx
I remember I saw this video when we were trying to conceive, and now that I am pregnant I rewatched it again.. It hits you after you are faced with reality, it is a challenge.. But I definitely ask for help from now, and nd I ask for support.. but some days feel fine so you live life nd suddenly symptoms hit.. may god bless you mamas
So glad I found your channel ❤
I love the idea of putting baby to sleep late! It makes so much more sense, having the morning free to get stuff done, especially if I don’t sleep until 23h/midnight anyways. Great tip, going to try it
33 weeks pregnant here! These seem so helpful yet so simple
This may be my favorite new mom advice video.
Thank you sm for this video. I feel so reassured and confident. I sometimes get so scared. But i know deep down everything will be okay. Thank you for these tips. Love your energy, your way of thinking❤️
when you said women just have it in them this instinct and started talking about the "let your partner help" I just started smiling. I'm currently 37 weeks and i'm so excited to be a first time mom (nervous about delivery of course haha) and trying to figure everything out. I'm excited to hopefully do everything with my partner as well and include him as much as possible.
I'm not even fully through this video yet, but I had to comment because you are a breath of fresh air! I loved your personality and outlook immediately! And then when you started giving the heads up about all the toxins in those synthetic fragrance products, I was like yesssss! As a person who suffers from allergies to many synthetic chemicals, it forced me to look into why they are so harmful, and I am amazed people continue to use them. I just don't think most people know the harm they are causing to themselves and others... But anyway!! Just wanted to say thank you for making this lovely video, and when I finish it I'm going to go explore the rest of your channel and probably subscribe because you're so wonderful! 😊
These words are SO kind Emily. Thank you!!! I'm always so happy to hear that people pay attention to the same things I do. Thanks for your encouragement and for your support. Truly means so much.
@@margaretmatheny ❤️❤️❤️ So glad to have blessed you with my sincere feedback! Thanks for doing what you do!
Also - meal prep as much as possible and freeze WEEKS of meals for your family. The best thing I did prior to delivery a few months ago
We had a meal train that helped us, but YES great idea!
What a helpful video - You made each point well and succinctly! Thank you!
first time mom here never thought about some of these awesome tips thank you!
Yes!!! First time mom here, 3 weeks post partum and the first tip. Everyone seems to want to tell you horror stories and that “you don’t matter” once the baby comes like wtf is wrong with you. All these changes and hormones and you wanna stress me out on top of it?! Ugh. Its so much better than the predictions for us. And I’ve distanced myself from those crazy ppl.
IKR! It feels like people lose their ability to think and behave when they talk to a pregnant woman😩
i loved this. literally eased my anxiety. my due date is in May, thanks for simple tips!
Oh my goodness, you're so welcome. Best wishes to you! So glad you came across this video
Me too 🥰 may 10
Mine too! May 18 💖.
Me too! May 3-5! Good luck to all!
That was really helpful! Touched on my biggest fears. Sleep deprivation. And not getting time with my husband. Also asking for help (keeping up with house chores).
I'm so glad to hear this. Things will really work out the way they are supposed to. Tough times included. You've got this
Ahhh this is just what I needed to hear! Especially about time being even more special with hubby and growing closer. This is the one fear that society has put in my head that being a mum will be really hard on my marriage. Here's to it making us even stronger!
Yes!! We're living proof of that. you've got this momma!
I am in my 5th month and yes...loads of panic happening with each anecdote I hear from mothers. This was super helpful. Thanks :)
Wow as a soon to be Father and a older brother of 7 I've been telling my girlfriend most of these things you are saying. I'm so glad a woman is saying it . God bless you and your family.
Thanks so much, Kenny. Best wishes to you both on this journey!
Thanks for saying the first part of the video about negative vibes. Made me rethink how I’ve been feeling ❤️
I'm so so happy to hear that. The mind is everything!
Such a sweetheart!! I recently found out im expecting again after a miscarriage & its all starting to hit me. Needed to see this!❤❤❤
Thanks for this video! I needed to hear so many of these things. I'm pregnant with our first and people''s stories are starting to scare me, and its so good to hear your view. Love the line, "If you're negative, it will be a negative experience." Holding on to that one! I'm naturally pretty positive about the whole thing, and I get the sideline glance of "just you wait" from many people for being that way. Glad to hear I'm not crazy!!
This is extremely helpful, thank you so much 🥰 I’m 14 weeks pregnant and so excited to be a mommy.
This was so encouraging. Thank you for being so positive and sharing this information! Congratulations on the new baby!!
Thanks!! I'm so glad you found it encouraging. That's exactly why I made it!
Hi Margaret! You're funny, I enjoyed your video! I appreciate your realism. I am 4 months in. I look forward to watching more!
telling the baby they are allowed to cry and listing off everything you've already done to soothe them helps you too! love that tip :)
:) So glad!
I watched this before and after having my baby and the words are soooo much more meaningful and relatable now that I have my baby haha thanks so much for the encouraging video!
Just got my first ever positive test yesterday 🥺 your words definitely help calm the soul. Thank you!
I'm so happy to hear that. Wishing you all the best on this journey. The greatest one you will ever go on!
Best mom prep advice video I’ve heard yet!! Thank you!❤️😭
Ah, thank you!! Those words are so encouraging. Wishing you all the best!