I came out to my mother after Christmas and she doesn´t accept or support me... at least I have my friends and my girlfriend. She is always telling me that being gay is not okey and it is not a normal thing, but you two guys give me the strength enough to confront her and be myself. So lots of thank u for the great job you do supporting your weirdos and the LGBTQ+ community. I REALLY LOVE YOU SO MUCH.
I'm 14 years old and this is helping me so much ! Thank you ! You know I can relate with a lot of things you say I have OCD, and anxiety problems but your videos help me so much and I'm just so thankful I found your channel. Love from Portugal
"It's been held up by Jesus, and a whole sh!t ton of bobby pins" 😂🤣😂 On a more serious note, thanks for the contents you guys put out. You have no idea how much it helped me through my bad days. You're changing the life of a lot of people and that's amazing!!!
Chalking this Darling talk up with the other countless videos/tweets/etc that provide a sense of understanding, acceptance, compassion, comradery and above all, LOVE. Thank you!
I'm 18, i dated 4 guys but I always said that I'd be "open to whatever". I had friends saying "you're a lesbian" "you're so gay" and I would deny it. Until last summer when I met this girl at work, I never really put it together. I've always been attracted to girls, but I never met a girl that I'd see myself dating. We hung out for a few weeks every night, and the one night I got scared and held her hand. The next week we kissed. There was always this connection that was like nothing I've ever felt. She asked me to be her girlfriend and I told my mom, and at first she said "you better not be messing with this girl" because I don't think she believed me because I had only dated guys. She is supportive as of today, and so is the rest of my family. Now, I've been dating her for 9 months. I'm the happiest I've ever been and I'm so in love with her. I always knew I never truly loved my boyfriends. There was always something missing. I now know it was her
I came out to my mom and she was just like 'oh my god' and now she's always saying things like 'wait till you have your first boyfriend' or 'I would never kiss a girl' and well... this hurts, I mean she don't have to like that I'm gay but I want her to accept it and understand me...
I am so sorry about that. You are amazing just the way you are and no one should jugde you for that. My parents always accepted me and I can't imagine how hard it is for you. If you ever need to talk to someone, I am right here.
My mom is the exact same way. She says that she still prays I'll find a guy/she knows this isn't me...but the worse/most absurd thing she has said was asking if I needed to see a gynecologist! Like seriously?!? It hurts but I know I have the power to still be happy with my loving and amazing girlfriend.
You guys are so unique for so many reasons, but one of the main ones for me is that you are able to put me at ease and make it seem like everything's gonna be ok through just a couple of words. You two are the best.
I love this! Your videos have absolutely helped me become more comfortable with myself, because I used to force my true self down out of fear of judgement. But seeing your videos encourages me to be totally open, and it turns out that nobody judged me when I told them!
I think in the past week and a half I have watched every single one of your videos except the live because those are to long for me but after I think the second video I watched I subscribed right away. you guys are literally the funniest UA-camrs I am subscribe to and I can't wait to see more of what you make.
You guys are gorgeous humans. I didn't come out until I was 23 but I probably would felt a lot more comfortable if I had someone to give me advice so I love that people are more openly discussing sexuality now days. Good for you ladies for putting out positivity & sharing your thoughts & experiences.
You definitely should do another video :) , I'm currently still living in the closet and trying to work out how to tell my parents so theses videos have been such a help and I honestly can't thank you both enough
This is such an amazing and powerful video. I love how genuine you both are. It is obvious that you care about your audience by taking the time to do this video. You gave great advice, and it is really appreciated. Sending love to you both!
Also, just wanted to say that I absolutely love your videos. I look up to you guys as individuals but also as a couple. Your relationship is such a beautiful thing to watch and honestly it just is a great representation of what Love really is and nothing makes me happier. You guys fill me with enormous amounts of hope and always cheer me up. I look forward to your videos every week because each one somehow helps me feel more comfortable and acceptable of myself. Thank you so much. I absolutely adore you two. Please keep doing what you're doing for as long as people of you can even just touch one more human beings life the way you touched mine the world will be better for it. ❤️
I find it to be soo cute that you guys look at each other while you talk ❤️❤️your videos are so fun and helpful for me being so young or younger than most ( I'm not sure )
i was scrolling through some videos and clicked on this and i honestly had no idea how much i needed this. thank you. i love your channel - keep doing what you’re doing
You guys are amazing! You should def keep doing these videos I think everybody can agree that everything you guys say is helpful and just plain awesome.
You should really do another one. I already came out to like everyone, but a friend of mine isn't out yet and I send this to her and it helped her so much. You both are a big inspiration for me thank you so much for everything you do. I love you so much and I wish I could meet you one day.
Thank you for making this video. I'm questioning my gender and sexuality, but that's okay. This channel is helping me figure out who I am. It's also helped me to stop self harming little by little. I appreciate the videos you make and I will always use them as an outlet. Hope you see this and see that you are helping at least one person. Thank you. -TJ
I don't need advice or anything I just love you guys and you guys inspired me to come out.... and surprisingly my family is very supportive of me... but any way great video love you guys 💚💚
11:52 was my question, and I appreciate your answers soo soo much!! Thank you! I do feel confident in myself and I don't feel like I have to prove anything, yet my mom keeps doubting cos i have no experience with girls (yet). She's accepting but doesn't understand me even after a yr now, grew up in a heteronormative world n I guess it's challenging. I'm giving her an open-mind and lots of time. At the end of the day she just wants me happy! 💓💛💚💙💜
Thanks girls for all these advices! ❤️Also I have a special request.. can you do a video more about you? Favorites songs or movies.. your life dream.. favorites activities or sport? I love you so much! 😇
Thank you for this video, I'm already out about being bi but some of my friends have issues because of their families and this video help them lots. Also love your guys channel!
I love you guys! This video really made me think and guided me a little further to coming out to my parents. I enjoy listening to you guys so much! Thank you for all that you do!
Thank you so much! :) Your videos always make me feel like part of a loving and accepting community and that's so amazing! Please keep making such videos for all of us who live in homophobic environments that make us feel unloved and like things will never get better.. Thank you ❤️
Thank you for all the advice I've been out for a short time and have gotten support from extended family that i didn't think i would have. Plus I'm older, so age really doesn't matter
I've watched video's about the same topic with the same type of questions before and I have to say that you guys did such a great job. Great answers and very informative! Love you 💕
At the beginning of the video, I didn't think I needed advice until the last question regarding having religious parents who pretend you never came out to them. I was feeling a bit awkward about bringing dates over (I live at home) but the advice that was given made me realize I just gotta be me. Thank you for the amazing video!(:
thank you very much for this video. I came out to my family by writing a letter and now I'm in a happy relationship and I'm meeting my girlfriend for the first time in November 😍❤
Okay, for real I'm on my period (I also have PMDD) and I've been binge watching a shit ton of UA-cam the past two days and a lot of your content comes up in my feed (cause duh you guys are great). Every time the entry to your video plays it takes so much for me to not fucking cry. IT'S SO SWEET AND Y'ALL ARE SO ADORABLE. (also I've been having relationship problems with the love of my life (or so I think/hope) and she almost broke up with me like twice so it reminds me like oh you guys are happy and I'm depressed and I'm not sure where this is gonna go and I don't know, I'm just super scared). I just wanted to say I love you guys so so much and I wish you two the best of life, also if you have any advice for me that would be very much appreciated.
I know you guys were talking about not knowing what you wanna do with your channel and I love when you guys do things like this! I think you should make more LGBT related videos!!
Finally coming out at 23. My parents are assholes and it has been a process. I feel like I'll be the disappointment, but what the hell ever. At this point, it's time for me to be happy, out, and proud.
Really like your videos ! You have helped me to come out to my friends and my parents... any advice on how to come out at work ? (and sorry for my engluât, i'm a french canadian)
I can totally relate to one of the questions.. My mom never fails to tell me that I should be really straight. Its not that I'm not but she keeps asking me about it when I tell her about few friends who happen to be bisexual and lesbian. But i also have friends doubting my gender for watching lesbian videos. I don't think something's wrong about it. Thanks for the vid!! Loved it 💙💙
I just broke up with my girlfriend because she was not at all comfortable with herself and she was not out. Honestly I did not care that she was not out. It bothered me a little but I had never been in this situation and I never pressured her. After about 9 months, it became more and more apparent that she would never come out fully and she wanted to be in the closet in some shape or form for the rest of her life. She told me to my face once that she a lot of the time wished she wasnt even gay. I wasnt allowed to put anything on social media, I wasnt allowed to tag her in things on facebook, I wasnt allowed to touch her at all in public, and if I did comment on a status on facebook, she acted like I didnt exist in front of her friends (WHO SHE IS OUT TO).I dont think we ever took one picture just the two of us in that 9 months. I simply couldnt go on like that. But I definitely felt guilty for leaving when I felt it was something she couldnt control. Her parents are conservative and would kick her out. I guess in a lot of ways, being with her felt like I was being dragged back into the closet with her. I now know that I cannot date someone who is not out. Thank you for helping me feel a lot less guilty about it. PS...Love you guys bunches and keep doing you! Love your content!
I was so confused for a moment when I saw Alyssa's hair lol. ALSO THIS VIDEO IS IMPORTANT AND I NEED TO THANK YOU A MILLION TIMES OVER 💖
I came out to my mother after Christmas and she doesn´t accept or support me... at least I have my friends and my girlfriend. She is always telling me that being gay is not okey and it is not a normal thing, but you two guys give me the strength enough to confront her and be myself. So lots of thank u for the great job you do supporting your weirdos and the LGBTQ+ community. I REALLY LOVE YOU SO MUCH.
#1 Why are you commenting in Dutch? #2 logisch* #3 of course it's gay, duhh.. and what's wrong with that?
sam: "notice alyssa's bun"
alyssa: "it's being held up by jesus, and a whole shit ton of bobby pins"
ALL TIME FAVORITE QUOTE
I'm 14 years old and this is helping me so much ! Thank you ! You know I can relate with a lot of things you say I have OCD, and anxiety problems but your videos help me so much and I'm just so thankful I found your channel. Love from Portugal
All the jawlines in this video is killing me!!
SeanThe Lllama right
"It's been held up by Jesus, and a whole sh!t ton of bobby pins" 😂🤣😂
On a more serious note, thanks for the contents you guys put out. You have no idea how much it helped me through my bad days.
You're changing the life of a lot of people and that's amazing!!!
Alyssa's bun moment made me so happy as I am also growing my hair out (but keep getting tempted to cut it...)
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I'm 18, i dated 4 guys but I always said that I'd be "open to whatever". I had friends saying "you're a lesbian" "you're so gay" and I would deny it. Until last summer when I met this girl at work, I never really put it together. I've always been attracted to girls, but I never met a girl that I'd see myself dating. We hung out for a few weeks every night, and the one night I got scared and held her hand. The next week we kissed. There was always this connection that was like nothing I've ever felt. She asked me to be her girlfriend and I told my mom, and at first she said "you better not be messing with this girl" because I don't think she believed me because I had only dated guys. She is supportive as of today, and so is the rest of my family. Now, I've been dating her for 9 months. I'm the happiest I've ever been and I'm so in love with her. I always knew I never truly loved my boyfriends. There was always something missing. I now know it was her
Rsinke9904 this is so cute and amazing😍🖤
Rsinke9904 this is so cute !!! Congrats!!!
I came out to my mom and she was just like 'oh my god' and now she's always saying things like 'wait till you have your first boyfriend' or 'I would never kiss a girl' and well... this hurts, I mean she don't have to like that I'm gay but I want her to accept it and understand me...
I am so sorry about that. You are amazing just the way you are and no one should jugde you for that. My parents always accepted me and I can't imagine how hard it is for you. If you ever need to talk to someone, I am right here.
My mom is the exact same way. She says that she still prays I'll find a guy/she knows this isn't me...but the worse/most absurd thing she has said was asking if I needed to see a gynecologist! Like seriously?!? It hurts but I know I have the power to still be happy with my loving and amazing girlfriend.
Lori McCartney why would you need to see a gynaecologist??
Same
The same thing happend to me my parents just denied it but we all got you
I'm so happy I've found youtubers who have went through what I'm going through
you guys have no idea how helpful this is...thank you so much:')
You guys are so unique for so many reasons, but one of the main ones for me is that you are able to put me at ease and make it seem like everything's gonna be ok through just a couple of words. You two are the best.
8:35 "I know that I'm gay but I can identify an attractive person. I can be like 'you're hot as hell'" I'm dead 😂
Wow I feel loved someone actually answered my question for once lol, thanks for the advice guys!
I love this! Your videos have absolutely helped me become more comfortable with myself, because I used to force my true self down out of fear of judgement. But seeing your videos encourages me to be totally open, and it turns out that nobody judged me when I told them!
I think in the past week and a half I have watched every single one of your videos except the live because those are to long for me but after I think the second video I watched I subscribed right away. you guys are literally the funniest UA-camrs I am subscribe to and I can't wait to see more of what you make.
You guys are gorgeous humans. I didn't come out until I was 23 but I probably would felt a lot more comfortable if I had someone to give me advice so I love that people are more openly discussing sexuality now days. Good for you ladies for putting out positivity & sharing your thoughts & experiences.
You definitely should do another video :) ,
I'm currently still living in the closet and trying to work out how to tell my parents so theses videos have been such a help and I honestly can't thank you both enough
This is such an amazing and powerful video. I love how genuine you both are. It is obvious that you care about your audience by taking the time to do this video. You gave great advice, and it is really appreciated. Sending love to you both!
Also, just wanted to say that I absolutely love your videos. I look up to you guys as individuals but also as a couple. Your relationship is such a beautiful thing to watch and honestly it just is a great representation of what Love really is and nothing makes me happier. You guys fill me with enormous amounts of hope and always cheer me up. I look forward to your videos every week because each one somehow helps me feel more comfortable and acceptable of myself. Thank you so much. I absolutely adore you two. Please keep doing what you're doing for as long as people of you can even just touch one more human beings life the way you touched mine the world will be better for it. ❤️
I find it to be soo cute that you guys look at each other while you talk ❤️❤️your videos are so fun and helpful for me being so young or younger than most ( I'm not sure )
My question first!🙈 thankyou for the advice it really helped☺️ love you both 🌈❤️❤️
Love you, girls! Keep up the great work! :)
Thank u guys so much for this. Have been binge watching you two for a few months now and you've helped me so much more than you know x
i was scrolling through some videos and clicked on this and i honestly had no idea how much i needed this. thank you. i love your channel - keep doing what you’re doing
You guys are amazing! You should def keep doing these videos I think everybody can agree that everything you guys say is helpful and just plain awesome.
You should really do another one. I already came out to like everyone, but a friend of mine isn't out yet and I send this to her and it helped her so much. You both are a big inspiration for me thank you so much for everything you do. I love you so much and I wish I could meet you one day.
Thank you for making this video. I'm questioning my gender and sexuality, but that's okay. This channel is helping me figure out who I am. It's also helped me to stop self harming little by little. I appreciate the videos you make and I will always use them as an outlet. Hope you see this and see that you are helping at least one person. Thank you. -TJ
I don't need advice or anything I just love you guys and you guys inspired me to come out.... and surprisingly my family is very supportive of me... but any way great video love you guys 💚💚
I happy y'all did this video, it helps me soooo much. Thank you Sam and Alyssa y'all are awesome!!!
yeah you guys should totally do another one it's really helpful you two are amazing love you both
I found y'all right after I came out to friends and family and your content has been extremely helpful!
11:52 was my question, and I appreciate your answers soo soo much!! Thank you! I do feel confident in myself and I don't feel like I have to prove anything, yet my mom keeps doubting cos i have no experience with girls (yet). She's accepting but doesn't understand me even after a yr now, grew up in a heteronormative world n I guess it's challenging.
I'm giving her an open-mind and lots of time.
At the end of the day she just wants me happy!
💓💛💚💙💜
Thanks girls for all these advices! ❤️Also I have a special request.. can you do a video more about you? Favorites songs or movies.. your life dream.. favorites activities or sport? I love you so much! 😇
The timing of this video couldn't be better! Planning to come out tomorrow!
Alyssa with a bun is LIFE👌🏽😍
Thank you for this video, I'm already out about being bi but some of my friends have issues because of their families and this video help them lots. Also love your guys channel!
you two always give such real, amazing advice. your videos are the best 💜
I love you guys! This video really made me think and guided me a little further to coming out to my parents. I enjoy listening to you guys so much! Thank you for all that you do!
Thanks ❤️ I love when you talk about important stuff! You're a great!
I love the advice you gave us. Y'all should do more advice videos that this one. Thank you so much it will help me. I love y'all.
Thank you so much girls!! This video has helped a lot!! Love from the UK xx
Thank you so much! :) Your videos always make me feel like part of a loving and accepting community and that's so amazing! Please keep making such videos for all of us who live in homophobic environments that make us feel unloved and like things will never get better.. Thank you ❤️
8:51 sams face i love it 😭
This video has made me feel a lot better with myself. Thank you guys so much for making this video
This video is AMAZING 13/1. Thank you guys so much, honestly. I love you both.
I love you guys!!! And Alyssa's hair looks great!!!
Thanks you for doing this video! 🙏🏼 These advices will help a lot. I love you and you're great role models to follow 🌟🌟
Thank you for all the advice
I've been out for a short time and have gotten support from extended family that i didn't think i would have. Plus I'm older, so age really doesn't matter
Thank you so much for all of your advices, many thoughts and feelings have been cleared up. 💖
I've watched video's about the same topic with the same type of questions before and I have to say that you guys did such a great job. Great answers and very informative! Love you 💕
You both have helped me so much with your videos you've put out. I saw this at the perfect time, thank you 💕
Rockin' a bun again Alyssa! 😍 btw the new channel picture and banner look great
i'm so proud of myself for being this early...and also for being gay
Roka Skarica I'm proud of you too
Roka Skarica me too
PRIDE!!! Im a RAINBOW
that was awesome, a second part would be great ♡
I'm glad your bun is back! I missed it!
I love how they look at each other
YASS A 16 MINUTE VIDEO!😍😍
you are both amazing!! love how real you are!
At the beginning of the video, I didn't think I needed advice until the last question regarding having religious parents who pretend you never came out to them. I was feeling a bit awkward about bringing dates over (I live at home) but the advice that was given made me realize I just gotta be me. Thank you for the amazing video!(:
Thank you! This was really helpful!
Great video! Always enjoy your content and the great subject matter you present. Keep it up!
And please do a follow up video. Thanks!
Love you guys! Definitely do another q&a!! Also didn't know Sam lived in Connecticut for a bit! I grew up in CT and still live here!
I love y'all so much and y'all have helped me through a lot thank u so much ❤️❤️
I love you guys! This video is so important. Thanks for making it💗
This is such a good and helpful video. Thank you guys so much!
Related to almost all of these questions, thank you so much!!!💕
wahou, I love you guys so interesting for those who wants to come out, I'm proud to follow you, keep going ! 😘
this video helped me so much! ty ty i would love to see more in next weeks video!
thank you very much for this video. I came out to my family by writing a letter and now I'm in a happy relationship and I'm meeting my girlfriend for the first time in November 😍❤
just 2 powerful words... THANK YOU!!!
Thank you so much for this video, it's helped me figure out a few things❤️
thanks to you guys i came out to my friends i love you guys so much
Ahhh this was so helpful! Thank you ladies
I feel like I can't thank you enough for your amazing help, thank u girls thank u so much ❤❤
Okay, for real I'm on my period (I also have PMDD) and I've been binge watching a shit ton of UA-cam the past two days and a lot of your content comes up in my feed (cause duh you guys are great). Every time the entry to your video plays it takes so much for me to not fucking cry. IT'S SO SWEET AND Y'ALL ARE SO ADORABLE. (also I've been having relationship problems with the love of my life (or so I think/hope) and she almost broke up with me like twice so it reminds me like oh you guys are happy and I'm depressed and I'm not sure where this is gonna go and I don't know, I'm just super scared). I just wanted to say I love you guys so so much and I wish you two the best of life, also if you have any advice for me that would be very much appreciated.
This answered a lot of my questions, and I feel a lot better about everything. Thank you so much 💕💕💕🌸🦖
I know you guys were talking about not knowing what you wanna do with your channel and I love when you guys do things like this! I think you should make more LGBT related videos!!
Please do another one. This hapless me a lot ❤
this video helped a bit. I would love for you to do another .
i like this video ... its nice for helping people need to coming out goood job! :)
that bun is so nostalgic oh my god
Loved the video! You ladies are amazing!! Have a great day!
Funny how u relate to all the questions
Thank You for the video
You guys are the best :) :*
Finally coming out at 23. My parents are assholes and it has been a process. I feel like I'll be the disappointment, but what the hell ever. At this point, it's time for me to be happy, out, and proud.
I love you guys so much and you should definitely make more of these
Please do a part 2 !!!! Or a younow talking about it
totally need a part 2! loved this so much!
another video like this would be great!
Thank you for this video and for all of the videos before. It helps. :)
U2 R great love it always the hair of Ally YES😂BUT Sam's face is uncany looove it 15:40 😍 hahaha
Very good advice... Thank you!
I love you guys so much! This video is so awesome!!!
Really like your videos ! You have helped me to come out to my friends and my parents... any advice on how to come out at work ? (and sorry for my engluât, i'm a french canadian)
do another one of these videos!!! Love you's 💕💕
You two are so sweet and special 😍🙌🏻 love you! Please do a second video:)
I can totally relate to one of the questions.. My mom never fails to tell me that I should be really straight. Its not that I'm not but she keeps asking me about it when I tell her about few friends who happen to be bisexual and lesbian. But i also have friends doubting my gender for watching lesbian videos. I don't think something's wrong about it.
Thanks for the vid!! Loved it 💙💙
Not gay, and not really in need of advices, but gosh love your videos!
I just broke up with my girlfriend because she was not at all comfortable with herself and she was not out. Honestly I did not care that she was not out. It bothered me a little but I had never been in this situation and I never pressured her. After about 9 months, it became more and more apparent that she would never come out fully and she wanted to be in the closet in some shape or form for the rest of her life. She told me to my face once that she a lot of the time wished she wasnt even gay. I wasnt allowed to put anything on social media, I wasnt allowed to tag her in things on facebook, I wasnt allowed to touch her at all in public, and if I did comment on a status on facebook, she acted like I didnt exist in front of her friends (WHO SHE IS OUT TO).I dont think we ever took one picture just the two of us in that 9 months. I simply couldnt go on like that. But I definitely felt guilty for leaving when I felt it was something she couldnt control. Her parents are conservative and would kick her out. I guess in a lot of ways, being with her felt like I was being dragged back into the closet with her. I now know that I cannot date someone who is not out. Thank you for helping me feel a lot less guilty about it. PS...Love you guys bunches and keep doing you! Love your content!
Hai guys this was really helpful thx for making great content 😊😊