Lupus is destroying our relationship! | Sam&Alyssa

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  • @michelleb8363
    @michelleb8363 7 років тому +99

    "Oh sorry, I have lupus I forgot" omg Alyssa I love you 😂🙏🏼

  • @CaseyLeviPinkham
    @CaseyLeviPinkham 7 років тому +207

    "Sorry can't give you a massage, I have lupus" 😂😂😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I love you guys. I was trying to sleep but I saw this notification and I had to watch it. #priorities

  • @idonthaveaname1625
    @idonthaveaname1625 7 років тому +162

    I want someone to look at me like alyssa do when sam is talking. 💕😍

  • @vh2865
    @vh2865 3 роки тому +1

    Hey Alyssa! I was diagnosed with Lupus when I was 16 I’m now 54. Keep up with the healthy lifestyle, I wish I would have. My health right now isn’t so great but God has Blessed me in sooo many ways. Just keep him in your heart and he will Bless you as well.

  • @destrim7
    @destrim7 7 років тому +21

    Alyssa's sarcasm is on point! I love it!

  • @autumnb7634
    @autumnb7634 7 років тому +117

    As a lesbian and someone with a chronic illness I really hope to find someone like Sam someday

    • @lize7107
      @lize7107 7 років тому +4

      Make America Gay Again i hope you do too

    • @ookoobshoob5632
      @ookoobshoob5632 7 років тому +1

      A B same

  • @amberbenally3879
    @amberbenally3879 7 років тому +1

    Omg. I was diagnosed with lupus in 2014 and it's ended one relationship. Now, I am with a girl who loves me unconditionally and has learned about the disease inside and out. I am happy and beyond blessed to be in remission.
    Love this video. 💚

  • @CaseyLeviPinkham
    @CaseyLeviPinkham 7 років тому +43

    Negative Nancy and Positive Patty. Sicky Samuel 😂❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @sabrinaspeas
    @sabrinaspeas 7 років тому +11

    I think all us #weirdos needed to see this. Thank you for being open with all of us! I love you two so much❤

  • @williammichaels5938
    @williammichaels5938 7 років тому +8

    "I can't I have lupus, I'm sorry" 😂😂 I love you guys

  • @thisgirl5011
    @thisgirl5011 7 років тому +9

    "I have lupus i forgot" lol 😂😂😂I'm the same. Can't look at someone with watery eyes. i'm not really a crier, but for some weird reason my eyes just water 😆

  • @sommerjade7353
    @sommerjade7353 7 років тому +10

    my mum also has Lupus (SLE) affecting her skin, kidney and she is one of two people in Australia to receive a special treatment sent from Germany because of her allergies to several medications, injuries etc. and if she was not on daily injections of this she would not be in the world today, to which I am so grateful she is. Its good to hear how others deal with their day-day and work together xx

  • @yasssslayyy821
    @yasssslayyy821 7 років тому +2

    I had finally finished binge watching all of your guy's videos. You guys are literally goals. 💖 love you guys

  • @TheBunnyBooties
    @TheBunnyBooties 7 років тому +21

    You're both beautiful souls! ❤❤

  • @casperlie8582
    @casperlie8582 7 років тому +266

    who just stops what they are doing and sit to watch their video😘

    • @mariahstewart9791
      @mariahstewart9791 7 років тому +1

      Caius D'cruze I do

    • @casperlie8582
      @casperlie8582 7 років тому

      Yenna Nguyen are u on WhatsApp???

    • @casperlie8582
      @casperlie8582 7 років тому

      Yenna Nguyen just asking😘

    • @CaseyLeviPinkham
      @CaseyLeviPinkham 7 років тому +3

      Caius D'cruze aha yes. I was sleeping and I had to wake myself up to watch this. #priorities

    • @ShyanneHawkins97
      @ShyanneHawkins97 7 років тому +1

      Caius D'cruze i got lucky and the baby just fell asleep haha

  • @mare.wesselink9277
    @mare.wesselink9277 7 років тому

    And this is why I love you so much. You handle things together and just love each other no matter what. Stay strong and be proud of what you are doing, cause you are amazing!

  • @shutupandloveme9621
    @shutupandloveme9621 7 років тому +24

    I was about to go to assist my private flight that has landed a few minutes ago and while I was getting ready , I heard notification from youtube about a new video had just been posted and it was from you so I left everything and set watching you till the end ..... and when I go to my flight the hotess said ( she's American BTW) "hey girl, what takes you so long" and I was like " Alyssa and Sam has just posted a new video and I needed to watch it first so I can come to you with my smile" and she was like " Don't make it worried" and I was like " Always make it worried" and she goes alright , now I believe you. hahaha
    Alyssa , I almost don't know how it feels to have a "dad" around too. You guys brought my special smile back into my face again , which I was almost sure that it has gone for like FOREVER and for that I can't thank you guys enough. Sam , get better soon. Your words at the end says it all . You guys are perfect together.
    I wish I'll could have a hat or any other thing that made by you guys oneday .....I love you ladies

  • @jennaluzeilgallardo7444
    @jennaluzeilgallardo7444 7 років тому +2

    What everybody needs is a mind and heart like theirs. We dont get to choose everything that happens in our lives. Having someone who thinks of the other as much as the other thinks of herself is the best person we can have in our lives. Love you both. ❤️❤️💜💜
    Hated the fact that i received the notif an hour after

  • @uluwehi8082
    @uluwehi8082 7 років тому

    I applaud u for educating the public! luv is luv no matter how u look at it. and to those of u who stated Sam can do better and/or doesn't deserve to be in a relationship w/someone w/a dx?!? there's tx options & med care that helps ppl w/dx live PRODUCTIVE LIVES! Education is paramount in order to gain insight & awareness about ALL aspects of life! MAD LUV 2 U, SAM FOR BEING THE LOVING PERSON U R & MAD LUV TO ALYSSA FOR LIVING LIFE AS U R... CARE FREE! Sendn +lite, luv, & ALOHA ur way! LIFES SWEET w/y'all innit...!

  • @jalynmccoy6793
    @jalynmccoy6793 7 років тому +11

    "Girl... I'm not like...bedbound" - Funniest moment of 2017

  • @cariannesconzo3727
    @cariannesconzo3727 7 років тому

    You guys support each other so much and it bring positivity to me and I'm sure so many others. Love you guys

  • @samethen513
    @samethen513 7 років тому

    This video make me cry, stay healty Alyssa

  • @Elementl19
    @Elementl19 7 років тому

    You two are very inspirational, informative, helpful, funny, loving, positive, and I really appreciate your videos!! Love you both!

  • @toothhurty8901
    @toothhurty8901 7 років тому +1

    "I can't I have lupus" well played Alyssa, well played
    I laughed harder than I should've at that

  • @1717fearless
    @1717fearless 7 років тому

    So much love for the two of you! Thank you for sharing with us your love for each other! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @erinbruce9248
    @erinbruce9248 7 років тому +1

    You both have such a beautiful relationship! Youse are definatley a perfect match.!

  • @skippygirl959
    @skippygirl959 7 років тому +40

    Lol its like all of the questions are like "SAM, HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH ALYSSA'S CONSTANT PAIN AND SUFFERING R.I.P."

  • @lustekofta6945
    @lustekofta6945 7 років тому

    I relate so much. I've struggled with autoimmunity pretty much my entire life, and during the past few years I've been smacked on and on again with new illnesses, intolerances and allergies, on top of getting pneumonia twice a year. Through it all I have my wonderful amazing girlfriend who stands by me and loves me.

  • @britneynicole5225
    @britneynicole5225 7 років тому

    Y'all are awesome! I have chiari malformation which is a life long illness That's resulted in brain surgeries and I feel the same way... we just gotta love life and live it everyday! It definitely makes you not take life for granted..
    And I'm just saying you are pretty awesome sam for sticking by her side no matter what!! love both of you ladies ❤

  • @sspiegler
    @sspiegler 7 років тому

    I really like your sincerity and vulnerability. Few bloggers are like you two. Mostly, young women make sexy, flirty videos to turn on 15 year old boys, under the guise of education.. But, regardless of your gender preference, I think your videos are honest, compassionate and plain old fun to watch. I admire what you have, and particularly in the ways you take care of each other.

  • @jenconkright6975
    @jenconkright6975 5 років тому

    I have lupus as well. It is a very nasty chronic illness. I’ve had it for 20 years now. Everyone has good days and bad days for sure. And you have to take it day by day. My ex wasn’t to understanding about it at all and it made it very hard. I live in Colorado and boy does the cold make it suck worse. But anyways stay strong and make the best of it. Love you guys

  • @TheKyann26
    @TheKyann26 7 років тому

    1:11am here in Australia but worth staying up each week for the new vid! 💜💜💜

  • @luzmdiaz4194
    @luzmdiaz4194 7 років тому +2

    Alyssa you look healthier than me and I'm not even sick like your positive vibes in everything you do I hope Sam gets well soon love you girls keep loving each other❤️😍🇵🇷

  • @abigaillevy4234
    @abigaillevy4234 7 років тому

    Ugh i love how much they are inlove and also i want the phone case to already be in my life love u guys

  • @lucybradshaw8943
    @lucybradshaw8943 7 років тому +1

    I love your hair Alyssa. I think you should keep it like that but it's your choice! 😊

  • @harpertodd980
    @harpertodd980 7 років тому

    Thank you for this video! I have epilepsy and even though I'm just in high school, I'm scared it'll effect things in all of my life in a negative way. This gave me hope

  • @RagnarWolflord
    @RagnarWolflord 7 років тому

    I like your video so much, you guys are so positive in life. Keep it real.

  • @bonteesstory7995
    @bonteesstory7995 7 років тому

    Haha, I love the "video" part!! Lol! You too are so nice together! And it just means that you too care about each other so much! :)

  • @tairaj2273
    @tairaj2273 7 років тому

    Haha you both are couple goals and you guys are amazing ,love ya !!

  • @mibellapanama4510
    @mibellapanama4510 7 років тому +1

    So beautiful both of you girls, a big hug from Panama, Que viva el amor!!!

  • @josefinadiaz3269
    @josefinadiaz3269 7 років тому +1

    You guys are so awesome together 💜

  • @alexzandriaferrell8240
    @alexzandriaferrell8240 7 років тому +1

    My mother died of lupus when I was 6 and now I'm 14 and about to graduate from 8th grade and it's sad to see that she won't be here to see that and more things she already and will miss

  • @vjmala7675
    @vjmala7675 7 років тому

    Sam, you are very beautiful inside & out and Alyssa, you are very strong and confident. I am very sure with support and love for each other, you both will live a long, beautiful and adventures life together💖

  • @atenaslozano5310
    @atenaslozano5310 7 років тому

    Y'all are perfect!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @seniorsunshine11
    @seniorsunshine11 7 років тому

    Awww i love you guys so much! i love your love for eachother! ❤❤

  • @ShanyMay15
    @ShanyMay15 7 років тому

    You girls are the best you've inspired me so much keep doing what your doing cause you inspire so many ppl around the world love you guys don't make it weird always make it weird ❤️❤️❤️

  • @nenab8128
    @nenab8128 7 років тому +6

    yay new video 😍❤️❤️

  • @coralcombs3147
    @coralcombs3147 6 років тому

    Alyssa is sooo funny😂😂😂

  • @duelbuster123
    @duelbuster123 7 років тому

    NOTE TO YOURSELF. always live safely, take care of your health. my gf had MCTD which is a branch of lupus. she was diagnosed 5 years ago before i met her, doctor said she have to take extra care. of herself i and her fanily always do but she really love outdoor activity regardless of her health condition. she never showed that she was sick so at some point i almost believe that she was fine and her condition will be stable eventually. but one day she just got worse and passed away by midnight. i learned this in a hard way so i would like to warn you guys, always! take extra care! and take every pills. :) i hope you guys will live a happy life forever.

  • @molly1755
    @molly1755 7 років тому +31

    Some say Sam never sneezed and still to this day suffers.

  • @SummerHelene
    @SummerHelene 6 років тому

    Love what you guys have to say! While diet does help (my lupus is chemically induced), I did find a diet that helped dramatically, it is called the Palm Springs diet by a gentleman named Dr Kenneth Russ - since being in his care I have not been hospitalised, it is been two years and it was meant as weight loss diet and (it nothing to help me lose weight) but kept me out of the hospital from the moment I started it. It was never meant as a lupus a diet but I have recommended it to a lot of friends with Lupus (they have a mild version like I do) and they have the same effects I did, I did nothing for the weight but it helped Control the lupus (I do not know why and I do not know how) but it did help!

  • @mikelugo5871
    @mikelugo5871 7 років тому

    stay strong and you will get through anything your love for one another is the best medicine for anything the two of you are strong and beautiful women and with your strength you will overcome what ever is in your path

  • @TheMissMBass
    @TheMissMBass 7 років тому +13

    I love this. I've got a chronic illness and it makes me think that no one will ever want to be with me :(

    • @bbpretty96
      @bbpretty96 7 років тому +9

      Margarita Bass if someone wouldn't want to be with you because you have a chronic illness, then they don't deserve you anyway

    • @happyliving5626
      @happyliving5626 7 років тому +8

      Margarita Bass that's not true !stay positive you will find love 🙏💪

    • @ariannabehiter9599
      @ariannabehiter9599 7 років тому +1

      Margarita Bass don't worry you'll find someone that will love you for who you are and if anybody says something bad about your illness they're probably just sad or angry about something that happened in their life

    • @shayne0005
      @shayne0005 7 років тому +2

      Even were in a chronic illness, there's a perfect one for us. 🌈

  • @paigemaguire7859
    @paigemaguire7859 7 років тому +1

    why do people think even though people are ill or have long time illnesses everyone is different and do things differently but everyone is equal sam and alyssa : keep up the positivity guys and keep doing what you do xxx:) :-)

  • @sallywu5723
    @sallywu5723 7 років тому

    Love you guys! Hope you get better Sam! 😄😄

  • @phobotherobo904
    @phobotherobo904 7 років тому +23

    Love from the U.K. ❤️

  • @shannonbarker8848
    @shannonbarker8848 7 років тому

    I have Lupus, as well, and this video is exactly what I've been wondering for a while now, thank you so much.

  • @keepinit100onthebayou2
    @keepinit100onthebayou2 7 років тому

    Keep talks heads up y'all look great and y'all look very strong... Stay strong for each other.. love y'all!! ❤️

  • @lucasmcloughlin4917
    @lucasmcloughlin4917 7 років тому +2

    "You can give me a massage."
    "I have lupus. I can't. Sorry." Lol. Love it.

  • @soniaalvarez7118
    @soniaalvarez7118 7 років тому

    Hi Alyssa. My names sonia and im 15. I have lupus and epilepsy. last year on my 14th birthday I was in the hospital because I was having constant pain and ache on a daily and I didn't know why. that day was when I got diagnosed. Now a year and half later Ive learned how to cope with the pain/aches etc. that lupus is. sure I'll have my bad days but even tho I do I stay strong and go on with it. but what I'm trying to say is that yes, lupus is horrible and its different for every person, but the key is to stay strong and you WILL get through it and it well get BETTER.

  • @asiamoon77
    @asiamoon77 7 років тому +1

    I think you guys are absolutely beautiful to one another. 🌈❤

  • @aashnaarora5361
    @aashnaarora5361 7 років тому

    Hey guys.. I really love you both... Its really fun watching you... You are so lovable ❤.... I wish I could meet you up someday😍😍... Love you both

  • @lejune8
    @lejune8 7 років тому

    I'm so happy I found your channel! ! I have an Auntonomic Nervous System Dysfunction, (dysautonomia ) specifically Hyperbetandrenegia P.O.T.S. I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for almost 9 years in June. We grew up playing soccer together and fell in love with my best friend. She's been by my side and my advocate through all of my tests, hospitalizations, etc. Glad we found a couple we can relate to, finally! Thanks for sharing! well wishes and positive vibes your way!

  • @NinjaJoanie
    @NinjaJoanie 7 років тому +1

    I wonder if some of the people who asked the questions have a chronic illness themselves. The severity of each persons case is so different (like you mentioned) and it's understandable if they can't get out and about, and or need a lot of help. Before I was diagnosed with lupus, I could hardly sit up from lying down.
    Anyways, just started watching your channel and subscribed!

  • @nenab8128
    @nenab8128 7 років тому +2

    💜💜💜💜
    it looks like i have lupus too at the moment 😫 it also runs in my family..

  • @rxwest3244
    @rxwest3244 6 років тому

    I had a neighbor who had lupus but she didnt have the emotional support to get her self out of bed to do simple things like eat three times a day , vitamins , the 8 cups of water and the essentials really but she was also like 5o years old so the symptoms couldve been different but i hope sam and you have a happy healthy long life

  • @sosoPapa
    @sosoPapa 7 років тому +3

    i was in university and i stopped an experiment to watch Alyssa &Sam!!!

  • @hannahremmel9550
    @hannahremmel9550 7 років тому

    Thank you so much for making this. I have multiple chronic illnesses and gay/single. And the meds/flare ups/positive patty thing.

  • @bbpretty96
    @bbpretty96 7 років тому +12

    How do you make such a serious video so funny? Hahaha I love it

  • @shannonclaro934
    @shannonclaro934 5 років тому

    Guys just be positive evendo the happenings are negative,Love conquers all

  • @Sophie.L.H
    @Sophie.L.H 7 років тому

    Love this video, super important message!

  • @kaykimmi3806
    @kaykimmi3806 7 років тому

    Spread the love people ! 💕💕💕

  • @Despina687
    @Despina687 7 років тому +1

    "I can't be with a healthy person" 😂😂

  • @vikakinny7242
    @vikakinny7242 7 років тому

    if i'am there I will give u both a big hug it so emotional sam u are an honest,kind alyssa don't ever give up u are gonna get cure nyway love the same as u both love each other now though i'am not a lesbian I support

  • @thaiseathaydesantos
    @thaiseathaydesantos 7 років тому

    I also have a life long desease, Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome. My partner is amazing about understanding​ and helping. Recently I lost a lot of mobility and pulmonary capacity and I think I could only cope with it with his support.

  • @sumayyahhussain8597
    @sumayyahhussain8597 7 років тому

    Love you guys ❤️

  • @AndreaGonzalez-vl9rv
    @AndreaGonzalez-vl9rv 7 років тому

    Love you guys!!!

  • @KrisP1995
    @KrisP1995 7 років тому

    I love this so much. This probably doesn't really go with this, but my cousin and I both have Epilepsy well... (I do have permission to share this) Her first husband made her stop taking her seizure meds because she wasn't having seizures anymore. Well she listened to him because she didn't want him to take their kids and just leave her. Well because she just stopped she started having seizures again. They are now separated and she now has daily seizures all kinds of different one. She just recently stopped having gran-mals. She got remarried a few years ago and the love he has for her is amazing. I hope and pray when the right guy or girl comes into my life he/she will treat me the way he treats and loves her.

  • @tinyokami968
    @tinyokami968 7 років тому

    I have major depressive disorder and horrible anxiety but I am still the most healthy one, my girlfriend has depression as well but also is sciliac and is epileptic

  • @daniecliffe2847
    @daniecliffe2847 7 років тому

    love you guys ❤

  • @sarat7240
    @sarat7240 7 років тому +3

    "You could give me a massage once in a while" "I can't I have lupis" LMAOO

  • @msmuaa
    @msmuaa 7 років тому

    I have healthy problems too. I don't want say what. But I fell that when I meet someone. That
    person won't understand me. Or love me for who I am. I get sick so much. There time where I have to be hospitalized and I hate. But I just want to say. That Sam really nice and caring.. For taking care of you and understand you. She really a keeper. And yeah lol. Love you guys. 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜.

  • @markhughes3560
    @markhughes3560 7 років тому

    Great video I love both of you.

  • @fionamueller
    @fionamueller 7 років тому

    Love you guys 😍❤

  • @mcelliotdawson7700
    @mcelliotdawson7700 7 років тому +2

    Sam and Alyssa you are just the best couple, love you both so much. I can't wait for your wedding... I wish you would just elope 😀
    Bless you both, always keep on keeping it weird mates
    As always sending you both love and hugs from the land of OZ.
    😎🇦🇺

  • @Will-wp5tt
    @Will-wp5tt 6 років тому

    You guys are so cute!

  • @bellacaes3521
    @bellacaes3521 7 років тому +3

    Okay, no idea if any of you will see this but I would really love it if you reacted to the buzz feed video you did "being in love with your best friend" I love that video so much, I can't even explain it haha. Love you guys 💙

  • @carmentong5085
    @carmentong5085 7 років тому

    Love this video 💜
    yeah, you two are funny and cute😊

  • @Alykat128
    @Alykat128 6 років тому

    I have lupus also and I swear it sounds like it's me answering those questions! 💜

  • @mikacenteno4010
    @mikacenteno4010 7 років тому

    everything will be okay.. love you guys💙💚💙💚

  • @marianunez3196
    @marianunez3196 7 років тому +49

    I dont even have anything to say, but i wanted to comment 😊😂

  • @noahzed843
    @noahzed843 7 років тому +2

    god bless you alyssa

  • @dianedoherty3118
    @dianedoherty3118 7 років тому

    your love is why you're together. no other explanations needed. strong for each other because you want to!

  • @srini2395
    @srini2395 7 років тому

    Just go a way who u are., don't care about other feelings, i am simply say both are rocks.. be happy forever :-D sam get well soon.. love you guy's..

  • @lamarchickk
    @lamarchickk 7 років тому

    that's awesome that you're not letting it effect you. I'm the same way. i do the best i can, and do what i want, to the best of my ability with my fetal alcohol symptoms. so Lupus is suppose to get worse over time, and glue bad is the pain. worse overtime too???

  • @haleyrodriguezdabomb1607
    @haleyrodriguezdabomb1607 7 років тому

    you guys are so cute I love the end

  • @dinahsorrosaadlaon590
    @dinahsorrosaadlaon590 7 років тому +1

    Love has no bounds 👭

  • @reneshmetorez8923
    @reneshmetorez8923 7 років тому

    If we had to drink everytime Sam said "But I mean" we would be drunk af before the end of the video LOL

  • @reynbaby2
    @reynbaby2 7 років тому

    People need to keep their judgements to themselves. And why does having lupus or any illness make some less worth loving or having a partner? That’s fucked up. I think you are both amazing and I think you are absolutely meant to be together.

  • @alyssa-pp7oz
    @alyssa-pp7oz 7 років тому

    Love you both💜💜💜💜