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Seeing Doctor Ramani enjoying a fun board game with her friend is the cutest thing I've seen today.
❤ thank you!! It was so much fun!
Right!? Just needs the purple dress!
Right?? 🥰🥰
I love that its an actual game and NOT on an electronic device! Also keeps the mind sharp!
Yes! A game we can play anytime, anywhere!
Yes!
Yesssssssss! 💕
Yess!! Good old school games rules!!! 🙌
Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it..
there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
this is helpful, I will look her up. I hope this works for me too, I really miss her.
Love seeing Dr Ramani having a fun happy moment, what you share is so important but even this has such an impact. You're awesome gorl.
Thank you so much! You’re so sweet!
Too adorable Dr Ramani supporting her friend ❤
Oh you look so happy❤
Sudoku does it for me as it makes you move from the emotional to the logical/rational. Especially good when waiting in dentist waiting room! LOL
Could be a narcissism test lol. Good thing you can bring it with you :) If you're playing with someone who really lashes out if they're losing....
Still would prefer to play with someone that doesn't behave like that. Keep the game in decent condition. Looks fun.
I love this. Great idea. I don't mean to provoke, but they will out themselves. Maybe not after one round, but they all seem to be competitive each in their own way. Even the one who sulks cuz they aren't good with words and aren't willing to play is gonna "show their hand ".
You have a beautiful house (from what you've shared) -- it's cool to see this different, personal side to you, Dr. Ramani. THANK YOU for doing what you do.
Would you be willing to do a video on how to deal with enablers/flying monkeys? It feels like the original narcissist has triangulated or poisoned the well and there's confirmation bias and other things involved but it just feels so jarring to feel the need to defend yourself when these 3rd party relatives assume you're the bad guy. Exhausting and feels so alone. And it feels dangerous to try to "correct the record" and try to correct all the lies and stuff the narcissist said behind one's back. I just want to run away somewhere safe and surround myself with healthy people who understand.
This! Yes, that need for escape to safe people is so real and if you can do that. Only interact with even the enablers on a necessity basis. I mean to the degree you can. I assume yellow rock is about the best you can do in some circumstances, but if you're aware they are enablers it's similar to the narcissistic person. Radical acceptance and all the rest that follows. Sounds like you're already on a great path knowing they aren't safe to defent the truth to. Wise.
That looks super fun. And if it weren't for at least two narcissists in my ladies group I would totally take it there but I'm going to look into it for other people and myself. Thank you for sharing it with us. I love that you're backing your friends stuff this way. All success to you both on your new releases. 🙏🏽
Thank you for your kind wishes! ❤
Love it! ❤
Hi, Dr. Ramani. It's great to see you doing well. I just wanted to let you that you've been such a blessing to me in my journey. I'm the same age as you and have finally moved out this past weekend from the house I shared with my narcissistic spouse of over 36 years. I change my youtube name from time to time to avoid family members. I had Iris-Angela when I was listening frequently to videos based on understanding the abuse I've gone through. I'm going to sign up for classes to continue pursuing knowledge and further myself. I'm so happy to shop for the groceries I need for my health (which he and my mother had wrecked), find my own style and set my own schedule. I think most people take these things for granted. We close on the house today and will be divorcing soon.
I don't know you but this makes my heart happy for you so much. All blessings to you as you walk this path out and to a much freer and healing YOU! Even tho there's miles to go, this is huge, Yay!
@@orielwiggins2225 thank you so much. Blessings to you!
Looks fun. I love word games. 😊
My order is complete! I love word games! Thanks for sharing about this new product!
Hope you enjoy it! And thank you so much for your support!
@@DoctorRamaniYou are welcome! Continued and Greater Blessings to you both!!
OMG looks like so much fun! 🤩🫶🔆
Aww, thank you
Dr. Ramani
I will definitely order the game, my daughter and I will love it.
Was so good to see you chilling out with your friend and having some fun! 😊
Love games too. Looks fun.
Ooh loved the video and am excited to receive the two I ordered. One for my daughter too. Sounds like fun!!
Ohhh wow! My day job is mostly communication (technical writer) so this sounds especially awesome!
My mother will never let me sit in peace- she stalks me and always *has* to ask me for something just to exert her control. It’s constant! I get panic attacks and get stressed but she’ll quietly start saying ‘sorry’ like she’s the victim.
Sometimes i wish i was dead
Oh no. That sounds awful. I hope you've found something on this channel resonates and helps find next steps for you.
Oh, dang. My mom causes me to have panic attacks, too. So I know the feeling. I'm sorry you're dealing with that.
yes, the time is right for a 2nd channel, Dr Ramani Gaming channel!
I just stopped by because so sad the thumb nail and you so pretty dr love you so much ❤
I’m not a game person, but this looks ok
Love your new photo you look gorgeous in it ❤
Prayers….
My ex narc hates not winning. She would always cheat even in solitary.
Hahaha. I think I know your ex. That's hilarious.
I love word games! I’ll have to check this out! 😄
Spellio! 😊 Looks like fun!
When I was a kid, the only way I connected with my narc dad was playing games. He played for blood, had a fit if he lost--"You cheated!"--but I got good at them and learned how NOT to act when losing. So I owe him that.😏
oh my goodness I just learned something new don’t play with a narcissist!! now you tell me!!!😢😮🤪🤯😭 I never would have again, but it’s good to know I’m not crazy.
You look beautiful and happy 😍😍
I thought Candy crush got some new levels at first. 😆
I love word games, any games that get people together and away from screen time.
Don't forget folks that you can buy second hand games too if struggling with cash.
Great idea playing games....not mind games!
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Fun stuff. I love games, board games ... card games ... dice games... etc. Nice to see Dr. Ramani having fun. Hey who says you can't do sales? Would've been nice to see the other gal enjoying herself as well. Trying to look inconspicuous actually made her stand out more. For me anyway... I'm a visual person....
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Would you please tell what are signs that a narcissist abuses a child. My mother is a covert narcissist NPD. She has chosen her golden child since birth. the boy. And I feel that she shows some unlike to girl (you know narc mind is sick and I guess she feels her as competition or I dont know what. she just always hated girls)
She has got full access to grandchildren (she says and arranges that brother cannot cope with parenting and got keys and half moved to brothers house) The girl was a harmonious and happy child in her first years. now she is 7 and I noticed that she has changed - got tense, insecure and hyperreactive when f.ex. brother takes her toy she overreacts and with pain.
My mother never felt shy to show her different attitude towards tho boy and the girl. Which is particularly toxic in such age I guess.
Another episode whats coming into my mind from about 2 years ago- Coming to mothers house I found the otherways happy go lucky girl crying on full volume. she was in the room my mother was not near her. Not talking to her, trying to calm. Mother was ignorant. When I came I went to the girl, started to talk and hug try to comfort her and ask mother what happened. Obviously the reason was irritation in girls eyes, which (as mother told happened during the sleeping hour at kindergarten - she had rubed in something in the eye) In that moment what seamed strange to me - that the happy-go-lucky girl was crying so expressively and mother just ignored her. She is a doctor and a supersensitive and hypervigilant feminine covert narcissist trying her best to show off as a perfect caretaker of children to get access to children. An untypical behaviour from bouth the granddaughter and the grandmother. Now telling this I find strange also that a child could not cry that intensively for so many hours - since midday sleep -as minimum for 3 hours.
Another short episode I noticed recently - girls 7th birthday. all eyes on her. Cuting the birthday cake. In this moment my mother asks the girl "Anna, did you bake this cake yourself?" (i know this unpleasant intonation so well) She knew well that the cake was brought by the other grandmother. My mother almost lives in brothers house. So such question is so strange..
So do we have information, experiences what signs, changes in childs behaviour we should look for if a child suffers from a narcissist. The girl obviously looses her confidence and peace.
And WHAT CAN I DO? An brothers family is mothers main narc resource now, its a hudge risk for me to try to tell something to brother and his wife. Mother has become the top person in that house. The covert narcissist, Mother Theresa.
Maybe I should risk and tell girls mother to pay attention wether the girl is not loosing her former selfconfidence and harmony? And ask grandmother look after it and encourage her? And demand improvement of this? Would such trick work. Because for my mother its hyper hyper important to get access to this resource.
anyway I cannot think how to do it so that it does not look bad from aside.
I have to take into account that mother has done some little smear work. It is a classical pattern of behavior in such situations.
Don't expose the Narc, or the flying monkeys will attack and you will become the "problem" and not "mother Theresa"...
Narscissist only like games if they can rework the rules or if you let them win
I must tell you people that don't get it are kinda getting on my nerves tell me you do that too
Finishing previous post… Dr. R - I’m hoping this was a one-off. It chips away at your credibility. Having spoken my mind, please know I wish you well - always.
Fun ROCKS. Fact! Except if you're a poor sport narcissist, in which case: at least TRY and get with the program.
No? Oh I see -- you're actually a good sport.
AYE see... Got it.
"NEXT!!" 😊🤨🥴
Oh Dr. R….. even if you are a NYT bestselling author, you water down your credibility when you shill board games for your friend. This is a one-off unfortunate misstep -