Heart Break is a good thing
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This guy isn't just a gym trainer anymore, he's a philosopher
+vHysteriaa Both.
You become a fitness person as a result of obtaining wisdom. Same thing happened to me when I became a Christian . You get so much understanding and it helps with every aspect of your life including women
@@VALERIOSTALLIONBOOTS Become Muslim for your own success in this life and the afterlife.
Jack O'Neill Muslim is a false religion ... I have a real relationship with God and that’s why I prosper because the true book the Bible guides me in life. The Quran could have never gotten me out of Luciferianism because only Jesus can save you from that.
@@VALERIOSTALLIONBOOTS We love Jesus more than you Christians do because Jesus said I am just a bare human, do not worship me. Yet you took his words as a mockery and declared him as the son of God and started worshipping him. How can the one and only God have a son? Think logically as you were given a mind. I love Jesus and I am waiting for his return, just as any other Muslim does too.
"Be grateful for the challenge."
Damn.
And for the experience-that potencially bring knowledge and ultimately wisdom.
The fact that you had the balls to tell her is a good start. Most people just dont do shit.
I'm gonna tell my friend I like her soon, oh man.
Roman Gavanyuk Good luck buddy! I applaud you for having the balls to do it. Don't expect anything and don't rely on anyone else than yourself to make you happy.
Roman Gavanyuk go for it bro. Listen life you get the test then the lesson. Act go for it. She say yes ok she says no ok but you were honest and balls to speak the truth open and honest and that's a man.
+craqqer I did that today... my god, got rejected hard with "Well my boyfriend works down at the store near here, so.. No, I will not go out with you" Errrr, she was a retail assistant I had liked for a week and talked to. But, I had to try.
Most of Hulse fans are all like-minded....We are MEN, but we are in touch with feelings and must confront our issues of rejection / love. Women arent the only ones with feelings, ours are just buried deeper. But its there.
I watched this video a year ago. At the time I dated a girl who cheated on me with this model dude who she told me in the past was just a "friend". Anyways I watched this video and it helped me. I would run into them both at the gym at my college.. I couldn't sleep some nights cause I would think about who she sleeping with what she was doing. I woke up early in the mornings cause I couldn't sleep and started jogged like you suggested. Started playing the piano, wrote down my life goals im going to accomplish. I worked out my heart. A year later I learned that what goes around comes around. My heart is STRONG, I learned I don't need her love, to be happy. I'm not sure if you read this but I just want to say thank you. You helped me through a hard time. Thank you thank you
+vincent bryan good job brother.
Thank you for the testimony brotha. helped me alot.
Still on the process. The pain is still there. I hope to be better just like you bro.
I read it. Thanks for posting brother. I got out of a two year relationship, turned engagement, back in late 2016. Mine slept with some guy less than a month after we broke up (and we were still living together at the time). Ice cold. Women are heartless. You're better than that, we all are.
Man this is a tough comment but something similar to what im going through now. Thanks for jotting that down
I used to watch this when I was heartbroken.. I can now say that I'm not heartbroken anymore and an overall better person(stronger, wiser, smarter etc).
Thank you Elliot.
How'd you do it? Just time
Kristian Malkoun You're absolutely right! I'm going through my fresh bout of 'heartbreak'. Hasn't even been a full 12 hrs yet... and watching this video definitely took me from I'd say a 30% level of bummed out to about a 85 to 90%... hey, this was MEANT to be and it's not all bad. Thanks, Elliott and welcome back! You're the MAN, man! ++ Keep illuminating .
Antonio Drake Bro, I'm telling you.. The shit won't last long I promise.. As soon as you move on, you will look back and just laugh. I promise brother
Kristian Malkoun I’m about a month into my breakup, she’s slept with another guy and it’s now realising the effects...I was almost over her but she keeps bugging me?? She’s back in my head now but I promise myself I will not go back! Is there any advice you can give me?
Same here last year I came here after a heartbreak constantly watching this. I felt like all the things Elliot said was bullshit to make me feel better. Now after 1 year I can finally say that I'm over her and I appreciate this video much more. It seems like a nice experience to have looking back at it and I can't even imagine how unimportant it will seem after a couple of years .
9yrs later and I still find myself coming back to this very video. Thank you Elliot.
Me too. I miss this Elliot. He saved my life.
ME TOO ❤ I LOVE "YO ELLIOT"
@@figgser2144 Yes, 9 years later for me. Lots of growth and more learnings with better and higher quality women. Still on the path...
This was the first vid I saw from Elliot. I was going through some heartache with a girl.
"Every woman that comes to your life is gonna be a lesson or a blessing"
Depression is amazing and will change you, depression is not a personality, it's a phase. You're gonna get out of it.
I was suicidal the most introverted socialy anxious person on earth. I was suicidal a year ago.
Now... I'm not the most social outgoing person you'd meet. But shit changed me. I was forced to act because I didn't want to live my life in fear.
I'm trying, man. It's miserably hard.
R D it’s gonna be brutal but don’t give up and don’t let yourself stay knocked down. Come back with a vengeance and strive towards coming out of whatever your going through a better person. You got this.
Same story here dude! I feel you!
We need teachers like this guy 👌
Anderson Quiroz and fathers and big brothers
Anderson Quiroz dude seriously we could have been better equipped. Better now than ever
Needed this. Recently ended a 9 year relationship.
Best of luck, and be strong!
Be strong man. I'll be rooting for you. going through a break up as well. we'll all get through it. much support bro. keep your head up
Lucky. At least it was long enough to satisfy you, brother. My relationship only lasted like a couple months but i was heartbroken like hell regardless. I can't imagine how bad it must have been for you considering it was 9 years long though. What was that relationship like? What made it last so long? I'm interested to know. Like, what was it based on or what made it so strong?
Eric Smith just ended 4 years relationship. She cheated on me because of loneliness and LDR and the guy was romantic like me during our 1st year of relationship
Eric Smith sob sob 😞
My girlfriend of nearly 2 years left me recently because I quit smoking and drinking and started eating healthy and getting fit
I'm not even mad
disregard women, acquire currency.. bitches only slow you down.
sounds too bizarre to me ''you're getting too healthy so i'm leaving''
good riddance I would say
Im starting to believe all girls are the same
Wow ditch her.. and I’m a girl lol
Any man who can stand in front of a women he feels weak in front of and confess his love Is a man who has my respect.
Most men now a days are so afraid of saying the truth. They would much more prefer to act cool and not even try to get the girl they like
Jonan Bahnsen im 13 and i opened my heart and said ever thing that went trough my heart in 2 years but it still hurts and its fresh
😏😢😢 & that's why i don't trust him
to get to heaven you have to go through hell first
so true
+Roman Hapyak those are just fictional places that serve the function of description. To be happy means being sad because the one doesn't exist without the other.
+Roman Hapyak hell on earth that is :P
Jesus has done it.
+Kainthemain This "Life" is the FIRST death. The SECOND is yet to come. When the Lion returns he will return to judge and to cast vengeance and to separate true Good from true Evil. The status of Good and Evil are Perplexed and Intermingled
Is there anyone out there who has fallen in love, and has lived out an entire relationship in your head? through fantasising and thinking about it. And when it comes to the real thing, you barely do anything or don't even open your heart because you have burned out all of your loving emotions in just your fantasy?
yes omg
Me wasted 6 yrs of my life
Clorox Bleach What was the story? I'd be interested to know, and learn if you don't mind.
I was in 7th standard and this new girl came to our class I am from India btw so when I first saw her I was infatuated a week later our class teacher suggests to write our name on a piece of paper and pass it so that others can write what they think about u so when I got this girls paper I wrote I love u but I dont how she saw that paper in my hands and she took it I acted as if I did not know anything I saw that she read the paper and took a whitener to erase that I love u I had and then she came and threatened that she will tell to teacher if I did that again.......that incident shook even though I gave a smile back that day I cried not because she said no but because I thought she would say to teacher......I wasted 6 years of my life hoping through some miracle she would come back after 6 years I finally gave up the hope.........I learned my lesson
Clorox Bleach Interesting to hear friend, perhaps she did not know it was you who wrote the note, and what would be the issue if she did tell the teacher?
What I have learned from my experience is that you never Love someone until you actually, physically and officially "go out" with someone.
Anytime you are thinking of someone that you rarely talk to, or even express loving emotions, then it is just Lust, or admiration. Until you get with them, it trans-mutates into the feeling of Love.
I'm going to experiment telling people I really like them before I tell the special person I love them.
Good Luck, friend.
I love how it always seems like you go off on a tangent about random things related to the topic but then ALWAYS wrap it back around full circle and make it all make sense as a unit. You are an amazing person, an inspiration, and someone who gets less credit than they deserve. You have helped many people more than you'll ever know, Elliott. Thank you.
Dude...Thank you for this video. Rough time; needed this.
+Someguy676 in the same boat man, perfect time to pick up the weights...
Someguy676 teaching time !!
This video has made me feel sadness and joy at the same time. I opened my heart, basically asking for being stabbed, and then I was. Im sad about the pain I exposed myself to but joy because I know this is making me a better person. I just remembered how Jesus gave all his love to end up crucified. I'm not saying that the sacrifice must be that high, but is the same principle. Thanks so much, Elliot.
It was all good 'till you mentioned Jesus, man, then you dun goofed
Just got not only dumped, but also cheated on by my girlfriend of 2 years. Worst feeling in the world when just a few weeks earlier she's asking you to get her an engagement ring and then she tells you she's been fucking someone else. I've been depressed and have thought about suicide but here's the weird part...when I look back I don't think I really loved her, I loved her company. And that's a dangerous thing, to be reliant on your girl for company. I will never make that mistake again.
zegrated what do u mean by her loving her company and not her?
ryanb01 I mean that I was honestly just happy to have a girlfriend because it gave me reassurance that I wouldn't die alone. I didn't agree with her about a lot of things she did and thought her personality was shitty but I stayed with her because she was pretty and I didn't want to be alone. Which, looking back, was a really horrible reason to be with her in the first place. Gotta love yourself before you love someone else, cliche but true.
Yh I get it man kinda happened to me with my first gf, not as worse as yours though. Say if u get a new girl now how would you know if u really do like her or are just using her for company because your lonely?
zegrated that's pretty bad. it hurts. i just got dumped tonight. i know at the end, you'll just get stronger. what sucks I signed up to do an ultra with her so I guess I will just have to kick her ass to show her she's not better than me.
You’re not alone my brother, but remember you’re the catch !
When legends speak, They sound like Elliot Hulse. Another favorite video to add to my very favorite list.
Did you get your heart broken? If so, I applaud you. Now, move forward, she isn't the one, but I guarantee you that you will find her soon.
I'm pretty sure he's married
SPPSports *_Thanks_*
SPPSports she hot doe and i knew her my whole life
she was the one. Sure you can say that and it helps to say that. But she really was the one.
Thanks u
You are the only UA-cam channel I follow regularly, your videos help me gain insight on matters I need more understanding on.
***** why does your nickname say 'supported'
what ? is this something new?
ty tumbledore. #always wanted to say that
Troy Lozano I
The ending was boss. Thanks Elliot!
I think depression/heartbreak is a good thing because for some reason(For me) it motivates me to go out in the gym and just pump some iron. I don't know why, it's just the other thing I look to to calm me down. That's why i love body building, it makes you feel like you achieved something, it gets away from the other sorry ass bull shit in your life.
Nico Bellic thats what im going through right now , well said
Thank you my friend:)
definitely is a good motivator. I've been working for just a bit over minimum wage and also stuck at the same weight for the last 5 months. getting my heart broken has encouraged me to work harder and be less complacent with myself. I feel like I needed a mindset refreshment and it's acting as a catalyst for that in a way. I enjoyed my time with her and it's alright that it didn't work out, was still a nice experience and I'm gaining something from it for sure
Those intimate moments between the sets when it’s just you and your body, and the man staring back at you in the mirror is a motherfucking beast, that’s just another reason I love gym.
This really helped a lot. Had a rough break up and now I know I gotta be stronger physically,emotionally, and mentally!
Living with the girl you planned to marry for 4 years, only to have her leave because she "loves you, but is not sure that she can compromise" Checking in.
Let me tell you folks, it fucking sucks. But do what you need to on your time. Just make sure that you never take a step back... even if they are baby steps. Progress... Progress is everything, IN everything. Good luck to all of you. I have found contention in isolation, but i look forward to the time when I can believe the words of another again and I will work until then, whenever it may be. Just don't stop.
Power to you, brother.
thank you both. We're all gonna make it
I know your guys's feels.. ive known this girl for almost a year in my class and she made it seem like she was into me and so later on I msgd her but she totally rejected like I was nothing. .. Being into a chick thinking you'd have a chance and being denied sucks like no other feeling in this fucking universe man :/
I love you man. I dont even know you but I relate 100%. It fucking sucks to know everything you comfortably believed and trusted means absolutely nothing in the end in a blink of an eye. But you keep moving forward:) Im going through my toughest one so far :/
sanmiguelpare
Stay strong. Everything comes to an end; both good and bad. We learn to enjoy the good, and endure the bad.
Amazing guy, definitely saved allot of lives out there and changed people for the best, cheers my man
I've liked this video for a long time but now after a very recent break up, not just between myself and a girl, but a breakup in how I pictured myself and my future, this really hits home. Being borderline suicidal, again, for first time since I've discovered weights and exercise this and your other video "how to deal with a bad break up" are exactly what I needed to hear. Whether or not we get back together down the line is in gods hands now, and regardless of the pain this situation has caused me I'll forever be thankful for meeting this girl along my journey. Thank you Elliott, for giving me the perspective to see this pain as a challenge and not an anchor, I'm eternally grateful...
one2three44 im with you buddy
one2three44 I'm in the same boat, hang in there man. Stay strong.
one2three44 Hang in there... We've all got to make it through
Weak pansy
IntrovertedBougieBeauty Seems like you never had the strength to really be vulnerable.
One of the greatest things i have ever heard in my life...eliot u rock dude
you watch these videos??? Is it really helpful ? i wish that it helps you the way you want :-) as i cannot bear to see such things after a few sec. !!!
ya i watch them sometimes he is wise and has a good grasp on social knowledge
PS my brother shared this not me, he is the fan.
I've been cheated on, rejected, rejected rejected rejected etc etc, cheated on, rejected, told i'm worth nothing, not good enough, blah blah blah. I almost killed myself. You know what FUCK THEM! FUCK ALL OF THEM! i am fucking tired of these fucking people bringing me down. I am guna do what I WANT TO DO. I am going to acheive what I WANT TO ACHIEVE. Another fucking bump in the roller coaster will only speed up the process it takes to be that better version of myself. I WANT HEARTBREAK. I WANT HATE. I WANT PAIN. I WANT PEOPLE TO FUCK ME OVER IN LIFE. Because at the end of all that, I will have finally seen it all. I will be unshaken by the final person to try that on me. And that person will be the love of my life. Simply because I won't care enough anymore to let them get to me. They will see that theyre little sly tricks of getting a reaction out of me are over. They will see that I have achieved my top form and will continue going. When that person tries to fuck me over like all the others, and they see that I just continue to move forward, they will chase me. They will try to keep up. They will want me and they will be my wife. Lads, everything is a process.
go get'em tiger! i feel you there, i've said the same thing to myself. your comment was 2years and im just reading it now, and i'd like to ask you how you doing now? keep chasing the dream!
Girl just dumped me and i looked this video and Elliot you give me strenght and motivation to move on, right now, thank you for your work :)
thats true... ALL KINDS OF GAINZ :D
But believe it brother in gainz, because at times when that girl pops you in the head before hitting the gym, flush the tought by thinking of the beastly youll look later with that pump, and so masculinity shall rise again = Pussies! (oh yeah, dont forget to pick up women on weekends)
LazarBB How're you doing with your breakup and life?
+Xavier Cruz Hey, I am new man, better student, better in everything i do now, i opened my own gym in my town, so i think things getting better :D
Xavier Cruz Hey, I am new man, better student, better in everything i do now, i opened my own gym in my town, so i think things getting better :D
As long as you learn from the experience! A lot of people get heartbroken, and then get with the same type of boy/girl that broke their heart (chasing bad boys). Great advice!
you have no idea how much this have get me through the day
I am watching this as I am heartbroken, however a few weeks or months from now I will happily return to this video knowing that I have overcame it.
I've listened to you for some time now. You're a very wise man. I've got a lot of respect for you. As people have said you're a philosopher.
Now that's a good piece of advice worth spreading. Thank you Elliott.
"Always open your heart up" I will never forget those words. Thanks Elliot!
Spent first 19 years of my life getting rejected, heartbroken, humiliated by girls. In the last 2 years, I've had 16-18 girls. Some of the most valuable lessons are learn't through most painful experiences.
Legend
these old elliot hulse vids are the shit man. loved this dude back when i was a young teen going through shit
This has to be the most important video I've ever watched. Truly insightful in how our lives unfold and how we grow stronger - by not getting what we want at first.
"putting your heart out there is never a mistake." thank you.
Thank you. I really needed to hear this. Just got dumped last week. And I've been kinda just keeping myself busy instead of focusing on what I really need to do. Get stronger. As a person. Not because it's to win her back. But because it's the kind of person I want to be. And the message I want to give to other people. Life will always be tough. But to stand firmly on your own feet and face it is what people need to do. And I need to do. Thank you again. I really appreciate it.
LuckyAli92 how you doing 4 years on?
Mr.Hulse,
I know nothing about you but I just wanted to extend a heartfelt thank you for this upload. You have strong words full of life's wisdom. I truly hope all viewers benefit from your support.
Thank you.
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guitar19jeu
the world is going apeshit,rarely someone loves sincere!
Shi I need 8
Honestly I really needed to hear this because I couldn’t still understand what I went through. But because of it. It did make me appreciate the beautiful moments in life.
Wow…this is probably one of Elliot’s best videos. Thanks Elliot for making me stronger version of myself!
yeah it does. sleepless nights, can't eat shit, mind can't stop racing for shit. good luck bro. it all changes and its so awesome when you feel yourself again.
I'm sitting in my University's library and crying my eyes out! Just what I needed to hear. I've been watching your videos for several years now but this one was recommended to me at the right time. *Thank you*.
You are a MAN of your words....I no THE ROYAL WE RESPECT YOU ELLIOT🙋🙋
Gotta say that Elliott has given me a whole new perspective on falling in love. I'm getting through a heartbreak right now but I'm more grateful for it than I ever have been. It's helping me grow. If the opportunity comes for me to fall in love again, fuck it I'm just gonna take it and run with it. If I get heartbroken again then oh well, I'll use that experience to help my character grow even more. Thank God for the struggle because if you want it bad enough, you will come out a better person. Getting through something like that will make you invincible and battle-hardened enough to get through anything.
I watch this video everyday..
Going through a breakup right now and I gotta say this is EXACTLY what I needed to hear. Thank you so much for putting this out there. Bless you Elliott.
What he is saying is soooo.. wise! I have used this advice and being heart broken myself and my man leaving me... and having been together many years. I told my husband that I set him free and only want his happiness it is his choice and I respect what he chooses for himself and his life even if that choice does not include me. I am sending him good vibes and praying for him. Although I am more spiritual then religious. You would think this is hard but when you truly love someone you only want the very best for them and their happiness. Never ever become bitter or be angry you don't own that person.
Its true, wishing for their happiness allow you to set yourself free from those negative attachments
Yes thank you. It's the right thing to do you don't own anyone and its their choice if they want to be in a relationship with you. Yes.
Thank you for this comment. I'm going through the same thing. You're absolutely right.
7 years later and this is just what I needed right now. Thank you for your perspective. I'm ending a 15 year marriage that has been a fruitless endeavor it seems. The storm is upon me but I'm glad that I heard your words this morning.
Thank you, was here a year ago, and still here, i appreciate this word of experience, _arigato_
Your words did go through my heart right
You are like talking to my heart
God be with you.
Started watching his videos to become a bigger person.
Now I watch them to learn to become a better person.
Thanks Elliott
I've watched a number of your videos. This one really stands out and for me epitomizes how great you are able to express yourself with great validity and clarity. You rock man!
Damn Elliott, you're such a bro and so wise. I'm a grown man and I'm almost choking up at how much your videos are helping me man, thank you so much.
Yo Elliott I freakin love you dude, you are one of the wisest people I have ever listen too, helped me through serious hard times, God bless homie!
You're a F^*!king GENIUS! This is exactly what I needed to hear. Nothing more, nothing less.
You really taped into some higher knowledge in your journey.
so much truth and wisdom spoken here, mad respect to you my brother.
Love you Eliott for all your support you give to us when it's worse time. God bless you, Teacher.
The way he explain ideas, makes me really understand the process of becoming a better more stronger version of myself..
I Learn a lot from him. So many tools to be a better man in life.
Thanks a lot for your great service.
Cheers.
"Be grateful for the challenge" I think that's my new mantra
Elliot you're such a boss. I started actually watching your videos today and wow already so much life reflection going on, better perspectives. And of course, better ideas on the way I workout
Somebody give this man a fucking award. Elliot has given a real closure to most broken hearts.
One of the best videos I have seen in my life
Every single word you said in this video is pure gold. You are the father we all need, but not all of us deserve. Thank you so much for this!
Needed this. Thank you.
The strongest part of you is your wisdom.
Much respect.
Every time Elliot's posted a video on facebook recently, I've been hoping that it's a new one, only to find it's old material. COME BACK ELLIOT! Hahaha we miss you man!
Same here old videos are good but old subs need new videos... Elliot come back!
*Elliot spitting some TRUTH*
Im 19 just got out of my first relationship and been feeling pretty down lately. wasnt long or anything but it was the first time i had real feelings for somebody. This video really got to me Elliot thank you so much, im trying my best to look at the positives from it. its been 2 weeks now and its getting easier but i still have my days where im down. Oh well though, ill find someone better
hey man, thank you for your dynamic perspective. i will continue to learn from your guidance. ive been going through the worst shit in my life this year due to the loss of the woman i love but had this crisis not occurred i might not have been available to receive your wisdom. at this moment i feel that im finally ready to begin healing and becoming STRONGER. you will hear from me again as i will certainly be listening to you as we journey on through this trip we call LIFE.
42 - The Doctor
i've seriously watched this video like 20 times. Amazing advice
you can tell he is a very awaken man. I can tell your a person that lived through failure and survived. Thank you.
Absolute truth there man!! Elliott masterpiece!!
One of the best videos ever recorded
I've had exactly this problem ever time I fell in love. I'm almost 19 now and I have never had a girlfriend although I was in love a hundred times and the last four times I told them girls about it, but the answer is always 'no'. I think it is mainly because I'm too kind (saw your vids to that topic Elliott, very helpful stuff!). Even worse is that I have nobody to talk. My mom lives with her new husband (who is actually the mainsource of the problem) and has two children with him. I live with my dad, but we talk almost nothing. He's never there and never asks how I am. He doesn't even know which grade I am and my friends can only say the average phrases you'd tell everybody in this situation, because they didn't have big crises in their childhoods. I think that I am a mentally strong person but slowly but surely I'm running out of patience. I'm in a bad mood all day and I can't motivate myself for anything except going to the gym. I'm not thinking about commiting suicide but I'm just tired of this shit. And I'm to emotionally controlled to ignore my feelings, no matter how hard I try. Would be awesome if you could reply Elliott.
You are 19. You will be a whole different, stronger version of yourself when you are 24, then again when you are 30. Take comfort in this, eventually you will find ways to solve all of your problems. My 92 year old naighbor told me the other day "plan your life as if you'll live to be 100".
I am 24 now and about to start my journey to the next version of my self.
You are 19. You will be a whole different, stronger version of yourself when you are 24, then again when you are 30. Take comfort in this, eventually you will find ways to solve all of your problems. My 92 year old naighbor told me the other day "plan your life as if you'll live to be 100".
I am 24 now and about to start my journey to the next version of my self.
You are 19. You will be a whole different, stronger version of yourself when you are 24, then again when you are 30. Take comfort in this, eventually you will find ways to solve all of your problems. My 92 year old naighbor told me the other day "plan your life as if you'll live to be 100".
I am 24 now and about to start my journey to the next version of my self.
Thank u thank u thank u. I was down and out and u gave me perspective which allowed me to Pick myself up and move forward a step closer to becoming... the Strongest version of myself
Best elliot video. I go back to this during hard times, stay strong brothers and sisters.
I am recently going through a bad break up.This video has made me feel so much better about my current situation. Thank you so much for posting this. I have gained a lot of insight. Even though I am hurting, I know time will make it better and I'm excited to have time to focus on myself. "Putting your heart out there is never a mistake".
thank you for this video.
Elliot, I have been watching you videos for a while now. This one hit home today, hard. Thank you for putting this sort of thing out in the world for all of us.
This shit it's deep, it kick my ass, and I am grateful for that!
i watched your videos a few years ago when I lost myself. here I am again improving my life. elliot, your advice is timeless
thanks man. this helped me.
I need this now man. You are a terrific person for posting this...for reaching out. I imagine you have had your heart ripped out.
Boom, speaking the truth right there :)
BEST HEART BREAK ADVICE EVERRRRR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
*_"What did I learn here, and what can I do differently?_*
Yo Elliot, you have helped so many people with your videos! I was going through all sorts of stupid shit like depression, panic attacks and so on when I found your channel back in 2013, and after only watching your content for about a week I almost immediately felt better in so many ways. I started going to the gym, going out more with friends, I went and found a job... A lot of that was thanks to you dude, I'm forever grateful for your teachings! Peace.
damn man this is exactly what I fucking needed thank you so much
You're such a genuine dude, thanks brotha
Elliott for president!
DGV haha I think someday he will run for it
Extremely authentic and accurate take on heart break in my opinion.
The learning from my breakup of 5.5 yrs has been deeply profound, extending beyond just me and her, a newfound perception on life.
It is utterly nessacary to build your strongest version and learn truths.
No growth without pain; no pain without growth.
your very wise. but I'm way too sensitive. I can't take it anymore. I'm done. it hurts too much and if rejection is that bad. I don't need it. but thank you . your very wise
It's never enough. Again, again and again.
technicalru try 1000 times. For a 6'1 tall, built handsome guy. It feels like ive been cursed.
***** Sounds similar to me. Why do you think this keeps happening?
Because its fucked up thats my reason. Seriously I think about why all the time no one answer comes to mind. Maybe we need to be more rapey
***** Are you serious?
This is EXACTLY me. Was in love with a coworker for months and extremely shy but because of Elliot's videos I asked her out. She said no. This video is so helpful. I cannot put into words how to thank you.
this dude is an introvert and he never talked to her..its normal when he says to her that he likes her out of nowhere and never talked to her its normal for her to say no..he had to talk to her first not just tell her outta nowhere
I used to watch Elliott’s videos 5-6 years ago, looking back I can finally say I’m grateful he changed my life.