dating is difficult IF YOUR A MAN, woman can basicaly select any guy via SM, but guys MUST be a 6 6 6 10/10 JUSt for a 6/10 so wonder wtf dose a 7/10+ require for a dude? woman ALWAYS suggest "go this and this dating site its easy thats how i met mine" but if as a MAN they will say "all i met on there was hoes"
You should do a video on how to approach woman. The main reason a lot of men don't want to date irl, is because there main fear is being called a creep. And don't want to posted online. and called a creep. Because there's a lot of woman who'll call men creeps for being just awkward.
A few weeks ago I approached a girl at school simply because she smiled as I walked by. I spent 20 minutes talking to her and found out she was actually in one of my classes. She had very little social media presence, and instantly I could tell she is an authentic person. I asked her to lunch, she said no but we still talk at school as friends but thats okay. So glad I decided not to download tinder at college, and that god blessed me with the opportunity to meet someone in a real and authentic way.
5:05 as im watching rn i realize i feel the same. I dont even remember the last time i approached a girl in public, it doesnt even cross my mind bc of dating apps
Never used a dating app and have ended up in a fantastic relationship, I encourage people to just hangout in groups and make new friends, new friends will lead so many positives in your life, including romantic relationships!
I have the opposate point of view: since I don't pay tinder, I only use it 10mn per day. You swipe until you run out and then forget about it for 24h. I get a match once a month or less, and when it happens, it's this little surprise that shine my day "a new soul to discover !". Like you, I rarely end up making a first date, and in 5 years I had 3 girlfriends which lasted few months each. If you approach this as "not a solution to improve your life", but "just a little extra thing on top of your normal existence" then I find it alright.
I agree with just about all of this, but I think dating apps can be good if you’re not looking for a girlfriend on them. In my experience, I used to be horrible at talking to girls, but with enough practice on dating apps, it made it way easier to talk to girls in real life, not to mention the added confidence you can get. After two years on dating apps, I was able to land a solid 10 as my girlfriend (not from the app) & I don’t think I could’ve done it without using dating apps as practice.
honestly thats lame that he said that i would find that cute if someone walked up to me and asked for my number its different in todays society and unique it might be vintage but i like vintage
dating apps ruined dating in general, it's become way odder to simply approach someone in public randomly, clubs and parties have always been for one night stands, which has become even more true with dating apps
I tried dating apps this first semester of college and this is all 100% true lol, its just having a bunch of unproductive conversations since everyone can just jump to another person anytime they like, its almost like the people didn't even want to talk to me. The people that I did feel like I vibe with and went on a date with ended up being completely different in real life and it just turns into an awkward bad date, and then it just turns into another person that I ghosted or got ghosted by. So this semester I have been just trying to be myself more, and not be afraid to just talk to anybody, not just girls. I just try and remember that if I am loving what I'm doing than someone else eventually will too.
Idk man I got social anxiety and can't approach anyone so datings apps may be my only hope(though im average looking at best and boring so probably not)
I’m gay and Interested in more masc guys but I can’t approach in public because most masc guys are straight and (in my experience) pretty homophobic. I kinda have to use dating apps but all of these problems are so annoyingn
I am facing the same issue lol! I actually asked someone out last week that seemed straight and turns out: he was not. (Welp, he ghosted me for some reason, but WHATEVER) You can just ask for their sexuality first, it helps a lot! Instead of directly asking them out, just try to get hints on their preferences depending on their clothes and their behaviors.
Stop dating this is my advice explore your self go to the gym be your self and do what you want whenever you want because this is your life and when you feel its time to find your other part(wife)you well find it.
Things I got from this video:
1) Dating is difficult;
2) Getting pigs into fence is difficult as well.
dude for real, it took me like 30 minutes to get them into the fence
dating is difficult IF YOUR A MAN, woman can basicaly select any guy via SM, but guys MUST be a 6 6 6 10/10 JUSt for a 6/10 so wonder wtf dose a 7/10+ require for a dude? woman ALWAYS suggest "go this and this dating site its easy thats how i met mine" but if as a MAN they will say "all i met on there was hoes"
People who mention the married couples who met on dating apps has the same energy as "90% of gamblers quit before they hit if big!"
You should do a video on how to approach woman.
The main reason a lot of men don't want to date irl, is because there main fear is being called a creep. And don't want to posted online. and called a creep.
Because there's a lot of woman who'll call men creeps for being just awkward.
A few weeks ago I approached a girl at school simply because she smiled as I walked by. I spent 20 minutes talking to her and found out she was actually in one of my classes. She had very little social media presence, and instantly I could tell she is an authentic person. I asked her to lunch, she said no but we still talk at school as friends but thats okay. So glad I decided not to download tinder at college, and that god blessed me with the opportunity to meet someone in a real and authentic way.
that is 100% a win, definitely worth it! :)
5:05 as im watching rn i realize i feel the same. I dont even remember the last time i approached a girl in public, it doesnt even cross my mind bc of dating apps
Down for that video on how to meet ppl irl.
Never used a dating app and have ended up in a fantastic relationship, I encourage people to just hangout in groups and make new friends, new friends will lead so many positives in your life, including romantic relationships!
Classic commentary videos like this hit a soft spot for me. Reminds me of the weekly slap and Woodysgamertag. Loving the content, man 👌
Thank you! Glad you enjoyed :)
I have the opposate point of view: since I don't pay tinder, I only use it 10mn per day. You swipe until you run out and then forget about it for 24h. I get a match once a month or less, and when it happens, it's this little surprise that shine my day "a new soul to discover !". Like you, I rarely end up making a first date, and in 5 years I had 3 girlfriends which lasted few months each. If you approach this as "not a solution to improve your life", but "just a little extra thing on top of your normal existence" then I find it alright.
I agree with just about all of this, but I think dating apps can be good if you’re not looking for a girlfriend on them. In my experience, I used to be horrible at talking to girls, but with enough practice on dating apps, it made it way easier to talk to girls in real life, not to mention the added confidence you can get. After two years on dating apps, I was able to land a solid 10 as my girlfriend (not from the app) & I don’t think I could’ve done it without using dating apps as practice.
fair point!
yo i would love some tips cuz i been trying to figure that out for a while
I remember a few years ago I asked someone for his number and he literally said: 'Omg so vintage!' cause I asked in person.
honestly thats lame that he said that i would find that cute if someone walked up to me and asked for my number its different in todays society and unique it might be vintage but i like vintage
@@PRINCEHOTROD yeah I didn't bother further. Dick move. It also is quite telling of your personality.
"And find the one"
Ok Gollum 😁
dating apps ruined dating in general, it's become way odder to simply approach someone in public randomly, clubs and parties have always been for one night stands, which has become even more true with dating apps
I tried dating apps this first semester of college and this is all 100% true lol, its just having a bunch of unproductive conversations since everyone can just jump to another person anytime they like, its almost like the people didn't even want to talk to me. The people that I did feel like I vibe with and went on a date with ended up being completely different in real life and it just turns into an awkward bad date, and then it just turns into another person that I ghosted or got ghosted by. So this semester I have been just trying to be myself more, and not be afraid to just talk to anybody, not just girls. I just try and remember that if I am loving what I'm doing than someone else eventually will too.
i know it hurt to get those pigs
the video in the background is so sad
Would love video on the UA-cam struggle. Im going through it rn
what would you like to hear more about in particular?
Idk man I got social anxiety and can't approach anyone so datings apps may be my only hope(though im average looking at best and boring so probably not)
Guys, I think he hates dating apps
I’m gay and Interested in more masc guys but I can’t approach in public because most masc guys are straight and (in my experience) pretty homophobic. I kinda have to use dating apps but all of these problems are so annoyingn
I am facing the same issue lol! I actually asked someone out last week that seemed straight and turns out: he was not. (Welp, he ghosted me for some reason, but WHATEVER) You can just ask for their sexuality first, it helps a lot! Instead of directly asking them out, just try to get hints on their preferences depending on their clothes and their behaviors.
@@djamelxyz the problem is that if I ask a masculine guy if he’s gay, Lots of the time he’ll take offense to it as a challenge to his masculinity.
@@thomaspig7684 truee, welp. Good luck!
Jokes on you i dont even have enough self worth to use dating apps
assuming you live in america, wait till you see how bad it is in europe...
worse?
@@solacespeaks american woman mostly want tall dudes and are very rude and spoiled, same with europe but it goes to another level of toxic here.
Stop dating this is my advice explore your self go to the gym be your self and do what you want whenever you want because this is your life and when you feel its time to find your other part(wife)you well find it.
So did you get a girlfriend after you deleted it?
Kinda doubt it
Are you robokast?
sure am!
>le older men are le creepy
soy opinion
My life or your life?
More people should go for their 2nd cousin it works great.
just from the title: 100% no