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  • Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
  • Are you a deep thinker, or can you easily dismiss any notion of thinking a problem through to it's conclusion? Maybe thinking about something has become an obsession and you can't let go. Is it possible to over think things?

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  • @meanqueensuperscrimper8908
    @meanqueensuperscrimper8908  22 дні тому +2

    Blog post to go with this. With photo's.
    meanqueen-lifeaftermoney.blogspot.com/2024/08/ill-think-about-it.html

  • @king77703
    @king77703 21 день тому +29

    If your friend said you overthink things then you said 'I never thought of that' obviously you dont overthink things. You've got critical thinking skills which is missing in nearly everyone in the world, if more people thought things out properly, we probably wouldn't be in the mess the world is in now 👍

    • @juliejr
      @juliejr 21 день тому +4

      So very true 👍

  • @mariarooney6262
    @mariarooney6262 22 дні тому +11

    Yes, you are correct in what you said. I’m the same way. Thinking is how we figure things out. There’s no such thing as overthinking as long as it is not making us anxious or depressed. It is healthy to use what we have, physically, mentally, spiritually. I’m very active and I’m thankful that I am able to do things with what I have left. Jack LaLanne lived to be 93 and said we don’t die from too much activity, but from under activity. It’s good to see you again. You are young and vibrant and keep on going. ❤️

    • @thissideupthatsidedown
      @thissideupthatsidedown 21 день тому +1

      I worked out with Jack LaLanne when I was a kid. It was the only exercise on the TV at the time. Loved it.

  • @leslieclaire
    @leslieclaire 21 день тому +4

    I’m sorry someone judged you like that. Stay true to yourself. All artists wonder when a project is done. It’s finished when you feel it! 💕

    • @meanqueensuperscrimper8908
      @meanqueensuperscrimper8908  21 день тому +1

      She didn't judge me. We are good friends, we are honest with each other. We can say what we like.

  • @dianeturner1742
    @dianeturner1742 21 день тому +5

    Critical thinkers are often told they “overthink” by those without the ability to think critically.
    As a critical thinker I would say those that cannot are actually “under thinking”, they happily agree with what others tell them…
    x

    • @king77703
      @king77703 21 день тому +1

      I've just put a comment on here similar to that 👍

    • @dianeturner1742
      @dianeturner1742 21 день тому

      @@king77703 great minds 😌💕 x

  • @capriciahughes7245
    @capriciahughes7245 21 день тому +4

    Hello lovely Ilona….if you are over thinking then everyone else is not. You bring attention to the topics or thoughts that many don’t stop to actually think about. Question everything and thank God and your mother for the common sense to use the your brain! Stay safe and healthy ♥️🌴🇺🇸

  • @almasmyth9361
    @almasmyth9361 21 день тому +4

    Yes I think you should continue with the leaves on the stems.
    You have an active brain and you are what we call “can do IIlona”
    Don’t change you are a very interesting person

  • @Amysdustybookshelf
    @Amysdustybookshelf 22 дні тому +5

    The leaves do look lovely on that stalk!

  • @tmarie7463
    @tmarie7463 21 день тому +2

    Your picture is very pretty. I like the leaves on the stalks. Your hair looks nice pulled back behind your ear. 😊

  • @gailm1230
    @gailm1230 22 дні тому +3

    2 things came to my mind as you were speaking. My father (who is no longer with us) was somewhat paranoid-- but he had been through WW2-- but I saw him as someone who wrote poetry when he was younger and no longer wrote. So I kind of think that creative people who don't create become paranoid. It's all in your head. Number 2 is that you see a picture and I see the back of a red jacket. It's beautiful by the way. Overthinking is not bad, but think about solutions while you're at it! Who can switch off? Hello from Ontario!

    • @grumpy_poo
      @grumpy_poo 22 дні тому +1

      I saw a pinafore front... Creatives eh??

  • @pamelacourtney8998
    @pamelacourtney8998 21 день тому +1

    My brain keeps ticking. I think it's where I am retired. It's a what's next and how am I going to do it. To me, it's over when it's over, it's done when it's done. Blessings to all ❤

  • @judimantos904
    @judimantos904 21 день тому +2

    The leaves enhance your picture! I design jewelry+ I often try different designs over a few weeks until I really like the creation. Keep overthinking as your creativity is spot on!

  • @brendabates4983
    @brendabates4983 21 день тому +2

    That's pretty, I thought it was Balloons now I see it's flowers .Hope you have a wonderful Weekend.

  • @marilyn9155
    @marilyn9155 21 день тому +2

    Love your hairstyle. Very becoming on you .
    Ha!! I am Queen of “over-thinking”- a variety of thoughts racing my mind all competing for ‘ top billing’ ( bit of Levity there) I have a friend whom I have NEVER seen sit and read a book even. Her mind is so active she does not even sleep at night . She never “switches off” .
    Just do as you do - Ilona. It’s actually good for your brain . At least you are not depressed and able to move on ..
    Love your sewing project !! I love the leaves ! It will be finished when it’s finished . ❤
    Xx Marilyn

  • @nikkijackson2981
    @nikkijackson2981 21 день тому +3

    .. Don't over think the comment that you over think ! , dearest Ilona !! ❤xx

  • @anneosullivan4107
    @anneosullivan4107 21 день тому +2

    I think you've got the right balance Ilona.... do all your thinking and doing during the day and switch off at night. 👍

  • @user-do3qz7kt2m
    @user-do3qz7kt2m 21 день тому +3

    Over thinking is fine as long as it doesn’t turn into worrying ❤❤❤

  • @denisewehling649
    @denisewehling649 21 день тому +2

    I feel you have a gift from God. You're thinking helps you create....taking discarded items, turning it into beautiful art and sharing it and your ideas with others. Not everyone has that gift. We love you the way you are.

    • @marilyn9155
      @marilyn9155 21 день тому

      @@denisewehling649 amen to that !

  • @sueprice4082
    @sueprice4082 21 день тому +3

    No, many people do not think before they act these days - they underthink😂

  • @leighwiseman8389
    @leighwiseman8389 21 день тому +1

    Hi Ilona, absolutely love your sewing, beautiful, you are extremely creative. Overthinking can be a nightmare. I am the same myself and find it really hard to turn my brain off😂 I'm trying to do this mindfulness business and stay in the moment.
    Lovely to hear from you,
    All the best xxx

  • @adriennebyrne8237
    @adriennebyrne8237 21 день тому +2

    I fully agree with you about creative thinking. I think it’s a good thing 😊👍. Your work is very beautiful

  • @joannedibben2352
    @joannedibben2352 21 день тому +2

    Hey Ilona your hair looks fab suits you so much. I don't think you over think your just you🌈🌈 Jo dorsetxx

  • @thissideupthatsidedown
    @thissideupthatsidedown 21 день тому +1

    Agree. I say I think like the old 8-track cassettes. Lots of thoughts running at once and switching. I wouldn't call it over thinking just thinking. Like you the mind doesn't turn off. Maybe your friend doesn't want to think about things or do many things? I'm eating my lunch and watching you right now. Also when I exercise/clean/crafting/get ready for the day with a video or podcast going at the same time. My to do list is longer than my life span the way it should be. You're not overthinking, nor should you stop trying to do the things you are doing. Thanks for the video.

  • @gretanumbturd5451
    @gretanumbturd5451 21 день тому

    You only think about issues that you have not resolved. Once you get too the bottom ( rabbit hole) of it then it stops. The trouble is as we find out we have been lied to about everything then we start too question and think about everything. Until we find the truth. Its a healthy thing to do or we would all be blissfully ignorant. So u take the blue pill of lies or the red pill of uncomfortavle truths and be brave. Like you :) hugs dont ever change. Your art is lovely your such a blessing and a joy.

  • @lauraslilhomestead9208
    @lauraslilhomestead9208 21 день тому +1

    Your hair is really pretty ! Stay the way you are ….. you are intelligent and interesting 😊

  • @chrismaas5182
    @chrismaas5182 21 день тому

    Nothing wrong with being an overthinker. I have been an overthinker since I was a child. Seems very normal to me. Love your needlework, very pretty.🙂

  • @dandelionwishes9842
    @dandelionwishes9842 21 день тому

    Hi iLona ,ty time video,you look young an pretty, love your hair that color on you and lovely art your doing, reminds me of Christmas and a different country 🥰

  • @adriennebyrne8237
    @adriennebyrne8237 21 день тому +1

    I fully agree with you about creative thinking. I think it’s a good thing 😊👍

  • @94hydenseek
    @94hydenseek 21 день тому

    I don't think it's something you can change easily if your the sort of person that like to keep busy. I'm the same, as im sitting here watching you now I'm ripping back some knitting i started, (not happy with it), I read my book while i'm eating and always thinking about what's to do next. I can't honestly remember the last time i sat and did nothing!
    Love your picture 🙂

  • @lindagbukvic9441
    @lindagbukvic9441 21 день тому +1

    That would make a beautiful T-Shirt or Sweat shirt.
    Love it!

  • @msmuffitt654
    @msmuffitt654 21 день тому +2

    I like the leaves on the stalks

  • @wendyparry437
    @wendyparry437 19 днів тому

    Yes you can overthink and this can get to the worrying stage if not careful . Life is so difficult for people at present and i expect it leads to overthinking about problems . No easy way of this . The best thing to do is keep busy .. by the way you are a superb crafts person . There is talent there .

  • @mssdn8976
    @mssdn8976 21 день тому +1

    I’m often needed for babysitting duties, so my daughter can work and I have a husband who needs attention. If I lived on my own I’d be just like you, creative and able to switch off

  • @valeriephillips9048
    @valeriephillips9048 21 день тому

    I think you do what you want to do for you. No two people are the same and as long as you are happy you have it sussed. Good on ya😊

  • @lynnhensley4326
    @lynnhensley4326 21 день тому

    Your hair color looks nice. The color is good for your complexion. ❤❤

  • @mssdn8976
    @mssdn8976 21 день тому +1

    Those flowers would look nice on a plain sweatshirt

  • @juliejr
    @juliejr 21 день тому

    The fact that you sleep tells me you have a healthy balance.. Thinking exercises the brain, your walks, and your many projects are all part of motivating you ... I'd say you're doing just fine 😊

  • @christinehowells5845
    @christinehowells5845 21 день тому +1

    Love listening to you illona

  • @robertanderson2142
    @robertanderson2142 22 дні тому +3

    it will be finished when you finish it ilona

  • @olga1_____30
    @olga1_____30 22 дні тому +1

    My mind is never at rest!

  • @lulucly
    @lulucly 21 день тому

    Keep on keeping on ❤

  • @gilliansmith6485
    @gilliansmith6485 22 дні тому

    I am the same always thinking and I never seem to switch off. I also am creative I am either crocheting, crafting, knitting, learning things on UA-cam or going to my yoga and fitness classes. At night I read I can't stand doing nothing.x

  • @grumpy_poo
    @grumpy_poo 22 дні тому

    The new hair colour suits you. You are going 'about it' the right way for you.... I am having 'enforced' slow down at the moment due to a hip injury I am very frustrated.... garden is doing it's own thing, decorating isn't getting done. can't walk far ( driving me totally bonkers!! but at least I can still sew and have visitors and I have called in a few favours regarding transport as I can't drive very far for now.... Like you I am always trying to find things I can do... If we wake up this side of the sod, it's a good day!!

  • @denisekarding1844
    @denisekarding1844 21 день тому +1

    If you can't put something to rest and keep thinking about it in an obsessive way i would call that over thinking. To be honest I'm not sure exactly what it means? Maybe different things to different people.

  • @ruthie2222
    @ruthie2222 21 день тому +1

    There’s absolutely nothing wrong Ilona with your thinking. There’s absolutely nothing wrong in what your doing. Life is short and I believe you are an inspiration of not wasting time. I think these friends are actually jealous 🤣

  • @dawnyWestScotland
    @dawnyWestScotland 22 дні тому

    I’m with you on the mind, it’s my creative side of me. ✂️
    But my border collie keeps me active too! 💙💙💛💙🐕🐾🐾🌲🌲

  • @angelakneller2880
    @angelakneller2880 21 день тому

    Sometimes my brain will switch off other times not especially if I’m working on an idea and the story is playing out through my head. Not in dreams but thinking. This I need to stop. I need to write this story down so it stays out of my head. Then it’ll probably make way for the next story x

  • @starlatangen6472
    @starlatangen6472 21 день тому +1

    I like the leaves

  • @wendyhellion8798
    @wendyhellion8798 18 днів тому

    It’s like the countdown clock in your head

  • @jenfyre2211
    @jenfyre2211 22 дні тому +2

    I don’t believe you can over think things. Relax and enjoy how splendid your brain is!

  • @user-gm1kl6xy4m
    @user-gm1kl6xy4m 21 день тому +1

    Hi lovely❤

  • @julieteakel1384
    @julieteakel1384 22 дні тому

    I don't think you overthink. You have a very active busy mind. As for multi tasking, starting one thing, and going over to something else, I do that all the time. I love the leaves that you have put on that picture. You just carry on with where your thinking takes you.

    • @grumpy_poo
      @grumpy_poo 22 дні тому

      It's when the thinking stops, the problems start...

  • @happydodson6920
    @happydodson6920 21 день тому +1

    Your friend must have meant well in saying you are an over-thinker, but what seems comfortable and natural for her is not what feels comfortable and natural for you. Perhaps the real situation is that she is an under-thinker? But that seems natural for her. My opinion is that we should accept people as they are, not be critical of them when they are not identical to us.

  • @ygm_dom6702
    @ygm_dom6702 20 днів тому

    You should do the leaves on all the stalks and add a ladybird or some kind of insect then call it a day😊

  • @angelakneller2880
    @angelakneller2880 21 день тому

    I often do that with my embroidery and often think I need to add French knots in between spaces x sometimes it works but sometimes it’s overkill x

  • @grandpahickory613
    @grandpahickory613 21 день тому +1

    appreciate you !!!

  • @jemmajames6719
    @jemmajames6719 21 день тому

    My father said this to me recently when I was talking about the state this country is in, I think that’s code for its a hard, upsetting, worrying topic and I’d rather bury my head in the sand! In fact he did say later he was burying his head in the sand, at eighty and with a few health problems suppose it’s understandable.

  • @AnneTaylor-kk8ze
    @AnneTaylor-kk8ze 21 день тому

    Your doing fine the way you are,I’m exactly the same as you 😊

  • @tinyshamrocks2172
    @tinyshamrocks2172 21 день тому

    Never shut your brain off during the day… to me, that’s not normal! Always think!

  • @dandelionwishes9842
    @dandelionwishes9842 21 день тому

    Yes multitask if doing a lot of stuff at one time ,my daughter dose that , I can only do one thing at a time, it's good to give your mind s rest an not think about anything,is there any thing helps you do that ? Like when you walk or bath sit in yard garden ?

  • @marshamagic8551
    @marshamagic8551 22 дні тому

    Not usually..

  • @marymarysmarket3508
    @marymarysmarket3508 22 дні тому

    This overthinking....being wrapped in our own thoughts and ideas....comes from living/ being alone a lot. Yes...one of the side effects of this type lifestyle🧏🏻