Hey guys.. i see the common comments and i have to say its really difficult to interview an introverted person... However i believe everyone needs to share their story regardless ❤️ thank you for your patience
She was overwhelmed."Christians like to impose" Everybody expected her be an angel.Sgandaganda. I think I would have ended like her more over lookwise IAM on the opposite side😂.
I haven’t had the courage to watch this interview because I’m often so hard on myself! Lol I’m here for the comments and thank you for the positive words. It took a lot for me to speak out as I had been gagged for so long! Sharing my truth has come with a lot relief and pride. What I want my sons to learn from me is to be brave, be truthful, kind and most importantly fear God!
You have risen. Keep shining. Some of the things we go through, even when we hurt no one is hard to process and understand. Pray about not falling prey to the useless and harming partners. U will be fine
Nothing wrong with this interview. People just like stories that demonize the ex or told in a horrible way. She's here to tell her story not to demonize her ex. She sounds like someone who has healed, and I love her and how she told her story with grace. May she continue to heal and find a man deserving of the gracious woman she is.
I wholeheartedly agree. From reading the comments I thought the interview was bad. But when I actually listened, it flowed well. Some Ppl are more introverted than others & we should respect that! ❤
I don't agree with you. The problem is that she was not telling her story freely, no matter what it is. Promise had to dig out basic things out of her, that did not even have to do with her ex husband
I agree 100%, I read the comments before watching and now that I've watched I'm confused cause there's nothing wrong with this interview. The conversation flowed beautifully.
What a lot of people don't understand is that some of the deep stuff that she went through is difficult to express because of legal implications. People just want to hear the story for the sake of it but she's the one who will remain in trouble. I suggest we take what we are given and stop critising and judging, people are not the same. This lady was married to a narcissist and its not easy to explain and for listeners to understand if they have not gone through that. I also don't think she's healed. Healing from such trauma is like going through the waves, sometimes you may think you're okay and the next thing you are down. I know this because I was married to someone like her husband, with a family like his, and he too married quickly after the divorce, to one of the reserve players who were on the bench. I heard a lot between the lines, and I wish her peace, joy and prosperity in her single journey. May she grow spiritually and serve the LORD with her life.
Absolute facts raised, but she shouldn't have come to share her story if she wasn't ready as yet because we hardly got the story but instead got bored on how she failed to narrate it
I love how humble she is, she with everything that happened to her she still speakers with so much Grace. I pray God continue to be her number one lover and her next husband will find her in Christ.
Beautiful interview, I like this lady. She told her story the best way she can, ofter all it her story. And I like how she tells her story with respect still for everyone involved, like I mean she's a better person than I am
I agree , but the main thing I need to be educated. Why are they referred to as "man of God" Mamfundsi is just a beautiful lady who needed time before getting into marriage, worse of all a mfundisi. hayi no she got a raw deal , why was she not scared of a blended family. What a waste, Mapuleng just take it easy its very important , you are very young .Look after your children.
Yho, this interview is just emotionally draining, you can tell there's is just a lot to unpack but it's not coming. Thank you for being so patient with her, it's clear she's is still going through a lot.
The interview was not bad as most comments depicts. The ladies may have been thrown off by the reshot . Love and light Mapuleng. Promise you are very patient , this is a good virtue. With time you will come alright
Religion & Patriarchy has led women into their own oppression be demise. This is why being SUBMISSIVE NEVER benefits Men. I have never 👎🏾 seen a submissive woman survive marriage without trauma or struggles and hardships. All the submission in the world 🌎 and these Men will STILL RESENT YOU and want more and stray. PRAYER CANNOT & WILL NOT FIX LACK OF STRATEGY AND BEING FOOLISHLY NAIVE. 💯🤷🏾♀️ When women use their Divine Feminine Powers to ELEVATE Men into higher positions like Clergy, Pastors, CEOs, Kings, they will then repay you with the story in this video. That’s why MOST men wait until a woman is most vulnerable state (pregnancy 🤰) to knock her down more to exert his power.
This is typical of an attack from the Jezebel and Ahab spirit. Attacks leaders in ministry and those talented or gifted people. This was a spiritual attack.
I'd say before you accept a role of being a Pastor's wife you need to be sure that God has called you for it, because it's a spiritual role. You don't need to be at the same level of maturity as your husband is, but you have to understand his role that he's called as a minister to human beings and he may also not be perfect. The fact that he's a Pastor doesn't mean he's perfect. God doesn't call the perfect but He perfects the called.
Me, I see beauty in her, Married with a child with special needs and hubby is all over the show and you need to still take care of him and the church😮😮 That could be an exhausting excercise.
Am glad I listened to the whole interview first before reading the comments.As a married woman I understand you fully Mapuleng. There's clearly alot to unpack in your story but it's okay to share whatever you're comfortable to share. I wish you healing and the very best in your new journey! Lot's of love from kenya🇰🇪
This lady is smart, intelligent. I think she was not inducted properly at church. The fact that she could not pray is not her fault. I struggle to pray within a bigger group. I get her shame. Husband could have coached his wife.
This notion of coaching people on how to pray is honestly beyond me. Isn't everyone's relationship with God a unique one? I'm no attacking you on your response but seek clarity because I have grown to learn that the church is big on this....
@@philisithole5735 yes agree. I think she was just not fully inducted into the role. If a husband leaves me because I can't pray, maybe he should not have married me in the first place. We grow into these things.
I broke off a relationship with a pastor who was excactly like this. He confides with other women and never present never providing just empty promises and i now understood why the first wife left. It will never be different with any other.
Mfundisi was supposed to lead his wife and be her Priest and teach her the ways of God, she would have moulded into what God wanted her to be, his approach let things slip ...I wish they made it she seems so sweet and so beautiful too😍
I saw that mfundisi was not make sure with red flag number 1, of him divorcing his first wife with their 2 kids! What happened in that marriage? why didn't he lead that wife and be her priest? Mfundisi is a problem. 🤣
I blame the pastor for choosing a partner not compatible with his calling. I can imagine this must have been frustrating marriage for both of them. Kids to the mountain prayer . Yho
I know a pastor who is getting married to a wild woman. He has played games with her. They have been going on trips but no intercourse. This is frustrating her. She broke up with him but he showered her with gifts to come back. He got her a bigger ring when she came back. Not every pastor has been called by God to the ministry.
Hahaha! You can say that again, take kids to the mountain prayer? She was and seems she still is a babe but I agree with you, the pastor is to be blamed. He should have known better, he also needs some growing up to do.
Mamfundisi is pretty However, for a person who wrote to a podcast to be interviewed, I feel like some of the questions weren’t supposed to be asked by Promise 💁♀️ Mamfu was supposed to flow with her story. For example, the story about kids and previous marriage was supposed to be on the line 💁♀️
Yes....I saw that even the bedroom part...why do u write to promise that u wanna tell Ur story n u don't wanna open up.....they are now ruining other ppls podcasts.....
Mamoruti has a story to tell but she is a private person, let's respect that. I mean for promise to ask if her & pastor were having sex while dating, is very intrusive. Story can be told without trying to embarass the person
Baby girl needs to heal. Parts of her are still bleeding. She prematurely went public about her story. But she seems like a good person who just went through an unfortunate ordeal.
Shame, she sounds sweet but seems she was not ready to be a wife. Even more was not ready to be a wife of a pastor, she can't even explain how she supported her husband's ministry and vision. The pastor did not find a suitable helper he was looking for. But seems he is also shallow as he should have known that this lady is still a babe and not ready.
Its so sad how a man will lose respect for you when they feel like that don't want you anymore, the worse is when they allow their new partners to disrespect you 😢 I know the pain.😢
The interview is flowing ...i feel the problm is mamfundis has to tell her story fr the second time..nd Promise is askin direct questions as she knows wht transpired.
This interview was not as bad as people say it, the thing is the lady here is not eloquent, and she just needs a lot of self introspection (they were not compatible, and the communication was a problem) that's what i picked up. But there's a lesson at the end for some.👍
Bona wena Promise Mukunyane !! I'm a Ninja I tried to not like u when u fought with Queen Ninja...but u r really good at this interviewing and unpacking issues ...my favorite is when u blatantly laugh at or in ur guests faces ..u know that silly laugh, then u say Bathong!!!, then u say : wena,wena wena
This interview started off on a bad note but I think the guest was not yet comfortable because she wasn’t answering questions freely. It’s understandable but as the interview goes on she opened up. Well done Promise! I thoroughly enjoyed it.
This is why praying and consulting God before you marry someone is very important…You need to ask God to reveal someone’s intentions before you decide to marry Man of God or not God will reveal their true intentions
I couldn't finish this interview. First mistake the pastor made was marrying someone who just had a baby, it shows that he lacked discernment and as for her no words. She was supposed to be focused on her baby, healing journey n bettering herself. All she did was come here to show us she still has straatmate tendencies. This story did not need to be told. Sis Promise le lona when selecting interviewees can it be stories with lessons and growth. Not people who want clout for the sake of it
As for not answering questions well… she is trying to forget things that happened…plus… let’s be kind to each other. The expectations of her was too much she obviously struggled… she wore the shoes.. she only knows better.
I'm saddened about this marriage separation.. I think her husband was still young and mama's baby. I hope umam mfundis will heal and continue with life 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Religion & Patriarchy has led women into their own oppression be demise. This is why being SUBMISSIVE NEVER benefits Men. I have never 👎🏾 seen a submissive woman survive marriage without trauma or struggles and hardships. All the submission in the world 🌎 and these Men will STILL RESENT YOU and want more and stray. PRAYER CANNOT & WILL NOT FIX LACK OF STRATEGY AND BEING FOOLISHLY NAIVE. 💯🤷🏾♀️ When women use their Divine Feminine Powers to ELEVATE Men into higher positions like Clergy, Pastors, CEOs, Kings, they will then repay you with the story in this video. That’s why MOST men wait until a woman is most vulnerable state (pregnancy 🤰) to knock her down more to exert his power.
First time I watch your podcast, and I subscribed immediately. I like the fact that you ask relevant questions, just like us you want to know and get clarity. Coming to the lady I think she and the apostle were not spiritually on the same page, she says so herself. I feel she didn't do enough to play a pastor's wife role. I have big question marks about her role in the whole mess. I'm sure if we could hear the other side it'd reveal what type of a wife she is. Nice interview 🙏🏼
Sadly it seems like there was no marriage from day one.. also Promise some people don’t like to discuss intimate details, it’s too private to explain issues of intimacy? I understand why she’s not being open about it.. 28:17
I think she has not really healed or maybe not over the guy. It happens and thats ok. I think she truly thought this man was her soulmate but unfortunately things went south. What i know is men respect themselves better that they respect the woman who sacriifice everything for them. She probably is not sure about what she wants for herself right now and thats really fine such is life and i think I also can relate a lot with story we are all human afterall and im glad there's a platform where people can express themselves the best ways they are comfortable. I commend Promise for being able to host such a show because it really cant be easy but also helpful even to the people coming to the show. Whats important is being able to express your feelings and you might just be helping someone else out there going through the same challenges. This life this is never easy irregardless of the status you hold. But thanks for this Promise❤ much respect
Eish it is so disappointing to hear what some so called men of God do to their wives 🤞 You are so beautiful and so young, the Lord has not started with you. May you take time to grow in the Lors, dig deep in the word and strengthen yourself in prayer. Wa rateha hle Sotho girl❤
I think this interview was not handled well,from what l got you read everything on email she wrote you and forgot us hearing the story 4 e 1st time,like there wer low key missing puzzles,l dont know if its only me who got this,but anywhere thank you Promise
She's not vague, she's reserved. Yena le Promise are the perfect pair. Promise can hold down a conversation, the lady is good at answering questions nje, she's just not a talker. Love to both phenomenal women ❤.
She is not a good storyteller. She knows what happened, but she fails to translate it to us, the audience. I am going to finish this episode to support the podcast. But my goodness, this is foolish.
The problem here is not the interviewee but interviewer,unless u go tru a marriage where u don't feel supported by your partner,everybody thinks they have something to say about your marriage,family dictates ,u will think its not enough to divorce but I get this lady perfectly bcoz I've been tru it ,well done for leaving gal
Because she is lying , she is blackmailing him . Very abused my son back forth . She is evil , locking him out of the house , you have hear other side of the story , swearing at the Pastors grand mother , she is a very Rude girl
Yeah your right she’s not honest she’s probably hiding some other stuff and I also think she wasn’t fit enough to be dating a pastor she’s not yet matured spiritual.
Great conversation but feel like "vet your story" kinda feels like there are stories that aren't deserving of being aired here. I'd suggest finding a better way to.invite people to share their stories
I will subscribe the day you become proud and value of our Sotho,Tswana n pedi. Put subtitles for those who won't understand. Zulus don't care if you understand their language or not and their podcasts are doing very well. Leatn to value your language and people will start respecting and taking you seriously
Promise, I think you really tried here. You listened & asked all the relevant questions & even though some of the answers were vague, or seemed structured. & Promise you had this look like you were not fully convinced.
Congregants mistreated the wife of the Pastor by calling her 'mother' and enslaving her with unrealistic demands that they themselves would never carry thus leading to her burn out. What happened to Church members going to church to seek God Almighty? In Africa these days church members prefer to flood churches to worship fellow men and women leaders many who are deceptive diviners. Time has come when each must study the Bible, seek the Holy Spirit yourself to guide your own daily life and thus grow, excell in one's calling, blessedness and one's talents as we do kindness to ourself and to each person we meet on this earth
Hey guys.. i see the common comments and i have to say its really difficult to interview an introverted person... However i believe everyone needs to share their story regardless ❤️ thank you for your patience
Mosadi wena wa leka shem...wa lwela and that matters the most. We will keep watching 🤗
Sana wena ke and positive vibes ❤️❤️😍! We stand with both women cc🌹!
Noted Promise. We still love it here and appreciate that you consider feedback. Much love
No no2 for this one.
She was overwhelmed."Christians like to impose"
Everybody expected her be an angel.Sgandaganda.
I think I would have ended like her more over lookwise IAM on the opposite side😂.
I haven’t had the courage to watch this interview because I’m often so hard on myself! Lol I’m here for the comments and thank you for the positive words. It took a lot for me to speak out as I had been gagged for so long! Sharing my truth has come with a lot relief and pride. What I want my sons to learn from me is to be brave, be truthful, kind and most importantly fear God!
You have risen. Keep shining. Some of the things we go through, even when we hurt no one is hard to process and understand. Pray about not falling prey to the useless and harming partners. U will be fine
Well done. Speaking about it is another level of the healing process....
This is the great step you have taken, you shall surely be restored in Jesus name❤❤❤
Nothing wrong with this interview. People just like stories that demonize the ex or told in a horrible way. She's here to tell her story not to demonize her ex. She sounds like someone who has healed, and I love her and how she told her story with grace. May she continue to heal and find a man deserving of the gracious woman she is.
Thank you for posting that comment, well said
I wholeheartedly agree. From reading the comments I thought the interview was bad. But when I actually listened, it flowed well. Some Ppl are more introverted than others & we should respect that! ❤
I don't agree with you. The problem is that she was not telling her story freely, no matter what it is. Promise had to dig out basic things out of her, that did not even have to do with her ex husband
Amen
I agree 100%, I read the comments before watching and now that I've watched I'm confused cause there's nothing wrong with this interview. The conversation flowed beautifully.
My grandmother always said "stay away from men of God and policemen" and i listened 😂
😅😅😅😅❤❤
Now what if he becomes a man of God after years of being married? Life changes
Kill me again😅😅😅
😂 tell Gogo I love her
People must step down from being called Pastors when they are doing things that brings God into disrepute
Wow if a man refuses you once DONT GO BACK!!
What a lot of people don't understand is that some of the deep stuff that she went through is difficult to express because of legal implications. People just want to hear the story for the sake of it but she's the one who will remain in trouble. I suggest we take what we are given and stop critising and judging, people are not the same. This lady was married to a narcissist and its not easy to explain and for listeners to understand if they have not gone through that. I also don't think she's healed. Healing from such trauma is like going through the waves, sometimes you may think you're okay and the next thing you are down. I know this because I was married to someone like her husband, with a family like his, and he too married quickly after the divorce, to one of the reserve players who were on the bench. I heard a lot between the lines, and I wish her peace, joy and prosperity in her single journey. May she grow spiritually and serve the LORD with her life.
Absolute facts raised, but she shouldn't have come to share her story if she wasn't ready as yet because we hardly got the story but instead got bored on how she failed to narrate it
Woow positive comment with understanding her pain.
Thanks.❤
Jah neh, tough
I love how humble she is, she with everything that happened to her she still speakers with so much Grace. I pray God continue to be her number one lover and her next husband will find her in Christ.
Beautiful interview, I like this lady. She told her story the best way she can, ofter all it her story. And I like how she tells her story with respect still for everyone involved, like I mean she's a better person than I am
@gugu... they are all pretending 2 be better people or de bigger person on videos...
That's why when you marry a divorced person you must do a background check 😢
I agree , but the main thing I need to be educated. Why are they referred to as "man of God" Mamfundsi is just a beautiful lady who needed time before getting into marriage, worse of all a mfundisi. hayi no she got a raw deal , why was she not scared of a blended family. What a waste, Mapuleng just take it easy its very important , you are very young .Look after your children.
Truth
Yho, this interview is just emotionally draining, you can tell there's is just a lot to unpack but it's not coming. Thank you for being so patient with her, it's clear she's is still going through a lot.
I get that too she gives very vague responses making it difficult for the interviewer she wasn’t ready at all for this interview in all honesty
She’s awesome lady n your interview was awesome I fail to understand why complains I guess we different but you ladies nailed it ❤❤
The interview was not bad as most comments depicts.
The ladies may have been thrown off by the reshot .
Love and light Mapuleng.
Promise you are very patient , this is a good virtue. With time you will come alright
I always feel like pastors wives are going through a lot
THEY ARE GOING THROUGH A LOT😢😢
Yes they are, a lot I saw with my own eyes
Looks like that 100%. Pastors need the grace of God to be able to escape the temptations of women throwing themselves to them.
No relaxation in marriage indeed my sister, im also a pastor's wife,hey this journey,its not easy but through prayer we survive
Religion & Patriarchy has led women into their own oppression be demise. This is why being SUBMISSIVE NEVER benefits Men. I have never 👎🏾 seen a submissive woman survive marriage without trauma or struggles and hardships. All the submission in the world 🌎 and these Men will STILL RESENT YOU and want more and stray. PRAYER CANNOT & WILL NOT FIX LACK OF STRATEGY AND BEING FOOLISHLY NAIVE. 💯🤷🏾♀️ When women use their Divine Feminine Powers to ELEVATE Men into higher positions like Clergy, Pastors, CEOs, Kings, they will then repay you with the story in this video. That’s why MOST men wait until a woman is most vulnerable state (pregnancy 🤰) to knock her down more to exert his power.
"This pray about it" at times seems meaningless 😮
Kobongwa namaqhawe dear, hold on. Remember this life is about the life to come. Jesus sees it all ❤️
@@thembimathebula8969 😂😂😂😂 I see what you did there. Because jeez it's annoying
I am in the same boat, @Khensani I even need a prayer partner
It’s ok Mapuleng my dear! Your journey with God is unique&personal. To everything there is a time. Don’t feel that you were inadequate
This is typical of an attack from the Jezebel and Ahab spirit. Attacks leaders in ministry and those talented or gifted people. This was a spiritual attack.
Read 'The three battle grounds" a book by Francis Frangipane. A chapter on the Jezebel Spirit
I'd say before you accept a role of being a Pastor's wife you need to be sure that God has called you for it, because it's a spiritual role. You don't need to be at the same level of maturity as your husband is, but you have to understand his role that he's called as a minister to human beings and he may also not be perfect. The fact that he's a Pastor doesn't mean he's perfect. God doesn't call the perfect but He perfects the called.
Me, I see beauty in her, Married with a child with special needs and hubby is all over the show and you need to still take care of him and the church😮😮 That could be an exhausting excercise.
This lady❤❤❤😊
😊😊
Amazing story. Thank you Mapuleng for sharing God bless you it takes courage❤
Am glad I listened to the whole interview first before reading the comments.As a married woman I understand you fully Mapuleng. There's clearly alot to unpack in your story but it's okay to share whatever you're comfortable to share. I wish you healing and the very best in your new journey! Lot's of love from kenya🇰🇪
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The interviewer doesn't give the lady a proper support and she's not sympathetic..
True that..
Promise not everyone is comfortable with talking about intimacy. Shouldn't have pushed that section.
This lady is smart, intelligent.
I think she was not inducted properly at church. The fact that she could not pray is not her fault. I struggle to pray within a bigger group. I get her shame. Husband could have coached his wife.
Agree with you 💯
This notion of coaching people on how to pray is honestly beyond me. Isn't everyone's relationship with God a unique one?
I'm no attacking you on your response but seek clarity because I have grown to learn that the church is big on this....
@@philisithole5735 yes agree. I think she was just not fully inducted into the role. If a husband leaves me because I can't pray, maybe he should not have married me in the first place. We grow into these things.
Sad,her story is still so fresh. She's still in the healing process.Sorry mama.
Red flag was he was with his kids when he came to pursue you, no judging but that was the red flag
I broke off a relationship with a pastor who was excactly like this. He confides with other women and never present never providing just empty promises and i now understood why the first wife left. It will never be different with any other.
Mfundisi was supposed to lead his wife and be her Priest and teach her the ways of God, she would have moulded into what God wanted her to be, his approach let things slip ...I wish they made it she seems so sweet and so beautiful too😍
I saw that mfundisi was not make sure with red flag number 1, of him divorcing his first wife with their 2 kids! What happened in that marriage? why didn't he lead that wife and be her priest? Mfundisi is a problem. 🤣
I blame the pastor for choosing a partner not compatible with his calling. I can imagine this must have been frustrating marriage for both of them. Kids to the mountain prayer . Yho
Imagine hle, They were not compatible at all.
I thought so too...for me the being divorced twice and married 3rd time makes me question his maturity
I know a pastor who is getting married to a wild woman. He has played games with her. They have been going on trips but no intercourse. This is frustrating her. She broke up with him but he showered her with gifts to come back. He got her a bigger ring when she came back. Not every pastor has been called by God to the ministry.
Hahaha! You can say that again, take kids to the mountain prayer? She was and seems she still is a babe but I agree with you, the pastor is to be blamed. He should have known better, he also needs some growing up to do.
Mara sana,m also blaming her 2 say "Yes", knowing that alot will b expected frm her as the wyf 2 the Apostle.
Not all interview are the same, thank you both for sharing.
This was a great story ❤ may she heal and Promise congratulations 🥂 your interview style is beautiful 🙌
I thoroughly enjoyed the interview I honestly don't get what others expected but it was good enough.
Mapuleng thank you sharing your story its a great lesson and thank you Promise for bringing the story out.
Men do not take breaks to heal or self introspect after long commitment relationships...he's going to take his toxicity to the next woman watch
This is true
Mamfundisi is pretty
However, for a person who wrote to a podcast to be interviewed, I feel like some of the questions weren’t supposed to be asked by Promise 💁♀️ Mamfu was supposed to flow with her story.
For example, the story about kids and previous marriage was supposed to be on the line 💁♀️
Yes....I saw that even the bedroom part...why do u write to promise that u wanna tell Ur story n u don't wanna open up.....they are now ruining other ppls podcasts.....
Mamoruti has a story to tell but she is a private person, let's respect that. I mean for promise to ask if her & pastor were having sex while dating, is very intrusive. Story can be told without trying to embarass the person
Baby girl needs to heal. Parts of her are still bleeding. She prematurely went public about her story. But she seems like a good person who just went through an unfortunate ordeal.
Great testimony and the flow is awesome. Thanks for sharing your story
I enjoyed the interview. Wishing your guest all the best 🙏🏾
I understand this lady,being pastors wife needs a lot from a person and it needs a Pastor who also have time for his family.
240 views n 27 likes? 😢.. Plz let's like guys to keep this podcast growing ❤
Akere people are still at work
How do we like when the guest is not forthcoming with info#cnn
I didn't even finish watching@@basathumbongwe1386
Shame, she sounds sweet but seems she was not ready to be a wife. Even more was not ready to be a wife of a pastor, she can't even explain how she supported her husband's ministry and vision. The pastor did not find a suitable helper he was looking for. But seems he is also shallow as he should have known that this lady is still a babe and not ready.
There is nothing wrong with this interview. Its a good thing thing to talk😊 She just needed to talk and vent her story.
Its so sad how a man will lose respect for you when they feel like that don't want you anymore, the worse is when they allow their new partners to disrespect you 😢 I know the pain.😢
Wishing you a blessed new journey ahead queen❤
I still appreciate this interview.There are many in the same position at this stage. It still ministers to us.
The interview is flowing ...i feel the problm is mamfundis has to tell her story fr the second time..nd Promise is askin direct questions as she knows wht transpired.
This interview was not as bad as people say it, the thing is the lady here is not eloquent, and she just needs a lot of self introspection (they were not compatible, and the communication was a problem) that's what i picked up. But there's a lesson at the end for some.👍
Bona wena Promise Mukunyane !! I'm a Ninja I tried to not like u when u fought with Queen Ninja...but u r really good at this interviewing and unpacking issues ...my favorite is when u blatantly laugh at or in ur guests faces ..u know that silly laugh, then u say Bathong!!!, then u say : wena,wena wena
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂it's tha bathong for me
This interview started off on a bad note but I think the guest was not yet comfortable because she wasn’t answering questions freely. It’s understandable but as the interview goes on she opened up. Well done Promise! I thoroughly enjoyed it.
It's lies that's why
Yoh, I waited 50minutes for the story to reach it's climax but it didn't, the lady wasn't really forth coming and yet the title seemed so interesting.
I thought I was the only 1.didnt finish watching mxw
@@kamogelokoloane5182 me too hey
I had to fast forward
Christ lives in this lady. What a mature person..
Why did this women come to the this show if she didn’t want to talk it’s like she is being forced to be here
Promise is asking negative questions boarder-line attacking her and it’s making the guest uncomfortable, and promise yimbokodo
Yes yes, my point exactly
MAPULENG YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL MOMMY
This woman is so vague..😮
Why did she even come to the show?
What does vogue mean
@@TheSouthAfricanPostvague means unclear,indirect, not precise
I finished the interview, but it was such a dread. Promise fought for this one shame.
Also Promise your insight on spirituality wow!
This is why praying and consulting God before you marry someone is very important…You need to ask God to reveal someone’s intentions before you decide to marry Man of God or not
God will reveal their true intentions
I couldn't finish this interview. First mistake the pastor made was marrying someone who just had a baby, it shows that he lacked discernment and as for her no words. She was supposed to be focused on her baby, healing journey n bettering herself. All she did was come here to show us she still has straatmate tendencies. This story did not need to be told. Sis Promise le lona when selecting interviewees can it be stories with lessons and growth. Not people who want clout for the sake of it
Mamoruti you rock 🎉keep going
As for not answering questions well… she is trying to forget things that happened…plus… let’s be kind to each other.
The expectations of her was too much she obviously struggled… she wore the shoes.. she only knows better.
I'm saddened about this marriage separation.. I think her husband was still young and mama's baby. I hope umam mfundis will heal and continue with life 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Religion & Patriarchy has led women into their own oppression be demise. This is why being SUBMISSIVE NEVER benefits Men. I have never 👎🏾 seen a submissive woman survive marriage without trauma or struggles and hardships. All the submission in the world 🌎 and these Men will STILL RESENT YOU and want more and stray. PRAYER CANNOT & WILL NOT FIX LACK OF STRATEGY AND BEING FOOLISHLY NAIVE. 💯🤷🏾♀️ When women use their Divine Feminine Powers to ELEVATE Men into higher positions like Clergy, Pastors, CEOs, Kings, they will then repay you with the story in this video. That’s why MOST men wait until a woman is most vulnerable state (pregnancy 🤰) to knock her down more to exert his power.
I also feel she was not ready self....
I wish you well, God be with you and protect you and your babies, Yes I am joining you in prayer ,hold on Jesus Christ will fight for you,Amen
First time I watch your podcast, and I subscribed immediately. I like the fact that you ask relevant questions, just like us you want to know and get clarity.
Coming to the lady I think she and the apostle were not spiritually on the same page, she says so herself. I feel she didn't do enough to play a pastor's wife role. I have big question marks about her role in the whole mess. I'm sure if we could hear the other side it'd reveal what type of a wife she is.
Nice interview 🙏🏼
Sadly it seems like there was no marriage from day one.. also Promise some people don’t like to discuss intimate details, it’s too private to explain issues of intimacy? I understand why she’s not being open about it.. 28:17
I don't have any issues with the interviewee, I think the interview is flowing
Such a beautiful and humble lady... Hope u heal and find true love.. Just be strong.... Some scars are there as learning curve
I am loving this story. ❤
Promise I admire your patience , I think the lady came for publicity ngoba something is not make sure
I have a hunch- she’s guilty!!!
@@ThobileMacaws nyani
I think she has not really healed or maybe not over the guy. It happens and thats ok. I think she truly thought this man was her soulmate but unfortunately things went south. What i know is men respect themselves better that they respect the woman who sacriifice everything for them. She probably is not sure about what she wants for herself right now and thats really fine such is life and i think I also can relate a lot with story we are all human afterall and im glad there's a platform where people can express themselves the best ways they are comfortable. I commend Promise for being able to host such a show because it really cant be easy but also helpful even to the people coming to the show. Whats important is being able to express your feelings and you might just be helping someone else out there going through the same challenges. This life this is never easy irregardless of the status you hold. But thanks for this Promise❤ much respect
35 minutes in and I'm not sure why the guest is being interviewed😢😢Will keep watching i guess
If catching a wrong train was a person🤦♀️ I was so lost vha 🥲
Wena I fast forward, still nothing...gave up to try to get the story from the comments 🤦♀️
@@kamogelokoloane5182 😂🤣🤣🤣
@@lindatafeni9402 😂🤣🤣
So many gaps. How does a staunch Christian, with spiritual even, have a child out of wedlock and the reaction from these people is not mentioned
yo! I'm confused shame sabathe ngiyalalela hayi khona is not make sure
Sibanda nca esi story😢 maybe I’m a bad listener 🤷♀️ because wow
Hayi, I am a good listener. I am still trying to figure out what the point of this interview is.
@@Andtherewaslight427 ayivakali tu 🤦♀️ Promise had to drag herself asking questions but nothing came out 💁♀️
Hahahaaahahaha ngathi I’m with you 😂!
Lies only that's why it doesn't make sense. She is lying " it will good to hear the other side of the story
Eish it is so disappointing to hear what some so called men of God do to their wives 🤞
You are so beautiful and so young, the Lord has not started with you.
May you take time to grow in the Lors, dig deep in the word and strengthen yourself in prayer.
Wa rateha hle Sotho girl❤
I think this interview was not handled well,from what l got you read everything on email she wrote you and forgot us hearing the story 4 e 1st time,like there wer low key missing puzzles,l dont know if its only me who got this,but anywhere thank you Promise
A chunk of I information is missing shame🤭
some of you sound like you are the aunties of the Pastor
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🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂
That's true ...why this woman hate ...u really sound like u are on the side of the pastor😮
😂😂😂Brenda maaan😅
It’s the aunties, cousins and his crew continuing to show the emotional abuse I was subjected to 😂
Your story girl sounds like my story, so yah ....I get you more than anything, and it was happening so early in mine😢
This studio is so beautiful 😍🎉❤
She's not vague, she's reserved. Yena le Promise are the perfect pair. Promise can hold down a conversation, the lady is good at answering questions nje, she's just not a talker. Love to both phenomenal women ❤.
When you are married to Ps your duty to Pray more
This is a great story and the lady is not a sensationalist, very descent conversation
@vuyo...she is in video,what did u expect?
Gave up after 10 mins, I’m sure you have a story to tell sisi all the best💫
This interview is like a teeth pulling conversation. It's not flowing.
Maybe the lady was nervous
Was about to say the samething😂😊
It started off that way but flowed towards the end.
She is not a good storyteller. She knows what happened, but she fails to translate it to us, the audience. I am going to finish this episode to support the podcast. But my goodness, this is foolish.
Yah, I think she's not a good storyteller.
This thing of calling these fake pastor's "man of God "
Why? Why? Everyone is God's child
The problem here is not the interviewee but interviewer,unless u go tru a marriage where u don't feel supported by your partner,everybody thinks they have something to say about your marriage,family dictates ,u will think its not enough to divorce but I get this lady perfectly bcoz I've been tru it ,well done for leaving gal
In her defense...I also struggled with the good my ex did when we where together because there was so much bad that it overshadowed the good
What is this interview all about?
You are beautiful, you have a heart with people. I wish if l knew you earlier.
This lady shouldn't have asked to be interviewed cos she clearly doesn't wanna share her story .
Because she is lying , she is blackmailing him . Very abused my son back forth . She is evil , locking him out of the house , you have hear other side of the story , swearing at the Pastors grand mother , she is a very Rude girl
Yeah your right she’s not honest she’s probably hiding some other stuff and I also think she wasn’t fit enough to be dating a pastor she’s not yet matured spiritual.
I feel like she would have interviewed better in her mother tongue. Her vocabulary is probably limited
I agree with you. She just wanted clout
@@gladymolobela8929you know her personally?
Someone called men of God who are players "izigebengu zase Calvary"😂
😂😂😂😂😂no wayyy
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@@Ownnarrativepodcast phela yay they can be such smooth operators abo bradas nabo MoG
I can attest to your story as mamfundhisi
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Amen soo true though😊
Oh shame, this lady was thrown in the deep end, she had no idea the shoes she was stepping in. She had a lot going on, New mom, new wife and a leader.
We are going through a lot..😢😢😢😢😢..but one day o tla loka.
I foresee a response from the ex husband here.
Hi mkhaya i enjoy watching your show
Thanks so much
Nice interview
Great conversation but feel like "vet your story" kinda feels like there are stories that aren't deserving of being aired here. I'd suggest finding a better way to.invite people to share their stories
I get you because it's one sided no accountability just resentment and finger pointing
Why Mapule wants to be probed mara.
Who is Mapule?
I will subscribe the day you become proud and value of our Sotho,Tswana n pedi. Put subtitles for those who won't understand. Zulus don't care if you understand their language or not and their podcasts are doing very well. Leatn to value your language and people will start respecting and taking you seriously
Promise, I think you really tried here. You listened & asked all the relevant questions & even though some of the answers were vague, or seemed structured. & Promise you had this look like you were not fully convinced.
He wanted a beautiful wife. He got her. She wanted a husband! She got him! Khwensekhwenses! 😅😅😅😅😅
Promise mara o domo weitse😂😂😂, are im shocked as if im hearing this for the first time. You are so funny
Mapuleng is my childhood friend I'm so sorry for what she's going through.
Congregants mistreated the wife of the Pastor by calling her 'mother' and enslaving her with unrealistic demands that they themselves would never carry thus leading to her burn out. What happened to Church members going to church to seek God Almighty? In Africa these days church members prefer to flood churches to worship fellow men and women leaders many who are deceptive diviners. Time has come when each must study the Bible, seek the Holy Spirit yourself to guide your own daily life and thus grow, excell in one's calling, blessedness and one's talents as we do kindness to ourself and to each person we meet on this earth
Amen! I love what you said ❤️