Sithembile is our last born daughter. Yes; she went through a rough patch at a very tender age; got divorced at age 29 after they were married for 4 years and 5 months. Her hubby divorced her because she would not agree with the path of worshipping he was deviating to.
Listened to the entire video and I couldn't get how a true born again, spirit filled blood washed child of God could possibly get married to a pastor who later turned out to be a Sangoma without any signs or warning of danger. As a divorcee myself I've studied this topic intensity because I really wanted healing and understanding. One thing I've noted is that the wages of sin is death and divorce is truly death. I've learnt that God always warns His children of danger and we choose to listen to Him or chase what we want, mostly due to lack of knowledge, lust of the flesh or pride of life. However, I had my aha! moment when Sithembile mentioned only in the end that the elders of her childhood church did try to warn her against marrying this man. So God did warn her but she chose what she chose, the wages of sin is death regardless of what our hearts may think. My marriage did not work because the foundation was not Godly, I fornicated with my ex and I certainly did not ask God for permission to marry him amongst other things. Fortunately I did not go through all the 5 stages of divorce Sithembile mentioned - anger, bitterness and doing crazy partying/ drinking because through out the process I seeked God to understand my part, my sin and His heart. My experience drew me closer to God and He is faithful. I was overwhelmed by His intense love for me. I repented of my part and God was gracious to heal and restore me. I honesty believe that if I had focused on what my husband did to me or didn't do, it was going to take longer for me to heal if I ever healed at all. The bitterness might have been hard to leave my heart. *Edit - forgot to add that my ex husband also divorced me ultimately due different religions. After being given the choice between My God or maintain the social status quo of being a married woman, I chose God, my Daddy Dearest, my Everything. Jesus is Lord❤ Well done Sithembile for choosing God in the end.
You are so good in interviewing Queen Rammy.you are not competing with the guest, you give the guest time to express themselves well. You ask relevant questions, it doesn’t sound like you are trying to find some juicy story. You are respecting the story. As for the topic in hand, I relate tooo much. Thanks for creating this space, so that we can reflect
Greater is He that is in us, than the one that is in the world. He comes to steal, kill and destroy uSathane.. God will never leave us nor forsake us . Amen.
Wow, plz keep sharing such stories. We go thru hardships on closed doors and think your alone and no way out. Holding on and having faith that tomorrow will be better is what we need. Thank u. Loved it.
Sthembile my daughter..you are beautiful..I am taking my hat off for your God our God and for you.Thank you for choosing your God and choosing yourself.I am happy you are co parenting your little girl.. Soldier on my daughter❤ ❤
this was so beautiful to watch, God Restores my sister and its how you narrate the story it shows you are fully healed, learnt and understood why God had to make you go through all of that❤ you are so beautiful and for the fact that you chose God He is going to reward and you still young marriage will come God willingly❤❤❤
For a while now I've been watching podcasts where people that are being interviewed are divorced people within the church. I'm noticing that the voice or opinion of God regarding who to marry seems to be disregarded or rather maybe confirmation isn't being asked? I believe that the lord we serve is so faithful that if we were to seek Him regarding the people we are supposed to marry then he would intervene. I think as a church in SA we forget that we also need to be led by the voice of God when it comes to choosing our partners and not for us to just take matters into our own hands. We cannot trust ourselves to make such an important choice rather let us trust the one who created us. I think we forget that marriage itself is ministry so God's glory should be reflected by it. I think we need to emphasize to the church more about being guided by God's voice especially when it comes to this matter because marriage is a covenant that isn't meant to be broken. The rate of divorces that take place should be a sign to us that there's something we are missing, we are missing the voice of God. Our judgement is not sufficient, especially when it comes to such matters. However we are so blessed to have a merciful God who makes everything work together for the good of those who love him. We are so blessed that he restores whatever the enemy tried to use to cause our destruction.
Well said, God's voice and His will in all we do, including who to marry. I also think we overly credit the devil for our own ignorance, pride of life and lust of the flesh. The sooner we take accountability and responsibilities the better equipped would be to avoid a second divorce for example.
Amen , God is the author of our lives that includes marriage. We often chose husband or wife based on our own views and discernment and the enemy uses it to fall into the trap of marrying the wrong partner. When the children of Israel made a covenant with the Gibeonites The Israelites couldn’t not kill the gibeonites because of the covenant they made without first asking God (Josh. 9:16-27)
That was me, from being born again Christian to ubungoma, but by God's grace I went back to God because I was told in a dream that whoever sacrifes to the pple who hv passed on will go to hell.
I followed her ex hubby on FB and honestly, I discerned the 360 turn she talked about. Though it must’ve been hard to do, I’m so proud of you for choosing God over your ex-husband. May God continue to show off his faithfulness in your life, sisi Sithembile!
The story has made me realise the importance of being honest with your partner before entering a relationship and how important communication is in any relationship..
Spiritual dancing I remember those days home Oasis girl. yho divorce compared to grief it must be really tough wow. I'm so proud of you girl you are helping so many people
I know they say divorce is painful,but my marriage was more painful and I’m going through divorce right now and I still can’t forgive myself for not doing it earlier
You will heal my sister, after 20 years of marriage and a divorce later, I didn’t think I would live to see this day! Five years down the line, I love God more and regret not doing this earlier, it would have saved me from a lot. God’s restoration is at work! Courage and strength my sister!
The word never changes my daughter. As long as he is alive , reconciliation is still possible for you guys. 1Corinthians 7:10. So there’s no re- marriage!! I am talking from experience it’s possible 🔥🔥
Well mannered woman💪.. Divorcees usually become very bitter after divorce and speak filthy things about their exes..yes you went through a lot but there is maturedness when telling your story..may God continue to heal you Sis❤
One thing about God, angeke avume unyawo lakho lushelele 🙏🏼 I also got separated because of having an alter introduced in our home…. Soze sana 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
Yhooo divorce is painful,you feel that you are torn apart. You feel confused, and after it, you feel lost . What makes it worse is that people judging you and yet there were not in your pain😢. I thank God that I am still in His hands and I love Him more. Still worshiping Him regardless
Wow!! Sithembile I just went to google your ex, he is the Chosen One “ he didn’t go thwasa anywhere, ancestors did all the job kuye because he is the King. Something big is coming dear you will go back to him as you were chosen for him. NAWE you are one of the Chosen One “ kodwa you going to learn to preach or worship God African way. Just that as Africans we still confused and colonised about our religion or spirituality. Wearing beads doesn’t mean you are a sangoma holding ishoba like your Husband it means he is a King you will see it’s coming. He is not a sangoma because he didn’t go thwasa anywhere, UnguMfundisi African way(African Christian). Let’s wait and pray for Jesus as he is coming back with the truth. God bless you ❤
People should understand too that being a sangoma(its a traditional doctor)is a gift from God(you are able to communicate with spirit and heal spiritually using herbs,plant created by God,it is not in competition with church.evil is everwhere,it is up to an individual choices
"I do what I want" radical individualism at its best 🎉, background check; You wanted to be a Pastor not Mamfundisi, you didn't see him as a husband since inception besides later on when he runs church. Queen Rummy I appreciate everything you are doing but I don't think I understant these beautiful souls you're bringing, for me they all sounds like convenient Christians... In short we're celebrating brokenness in African society, our society is falling because of our broken family unity😢
wrong advice just because he choose darkness over your marriage then you say women must'nt leave their careers for their marriages that is wrong, as it comes from pain
Women should make sure that marriage doesn't make you loose yourself or forget your career ,you are your own person and when you where born your had your own dreams...pursue your goals and be the best wife you can don't regret getting married
@SithembileMasilela-wk4gj ok. I was just curious because your story is exactly as mine. Even my resident pastor warned me not to marry the guy, and I did. And it sadly played out exactly as yours did.
Your ex husband made a very good decision by letting you go, your husband has abantu abadala which wena you don't understand because you are a born again.
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Sithembile is our last born daughter. Yes; she went through a rough patch at a very tender age; got divorced at age 29 after they were married for 4 years and 5 months. Her hubby divorced her because she would not agree with the path of worshipping he was deviating to.
You raised a rock ntate, well done
You did a great job Ntate. She stood her ground and chose God.
You are awesome papa ❤ well done 👍
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Respect to you sir
Listened to the entire video and I couldn't get how a true born again, spirit filled blood washed child of God could possibly get married to a pastor who later turned out to be a Sangoma without any signs or warning of danger. As a divorcee myself I've studied this topic intensity because I really wanted healing and understanding. One thing I've noted is that the wages of sin is death and divorce is truly death. I've learnt that God always warns His children of danger and we choose to listen to Him or chase what we want, mostly due to lack of knowledge, lust of the flesh or pride of life. However, I had my aha! moment when Sithembile mentioned only in the end that the elders of her childhood church did try to warn her against marrying this man. So God did warn her but she chose what she chose, the wages of sin is death regardless of what our hearts may think.
My marriage did not work because the foundation was not Godly, I fornicated with my ex and I certainly did not ask God for permission to marry him amongst other things. Fortunately I did not go through all the 5 stages of divorce Sithembile mentioned - anger, bitterness and doing crazy partying/ drinking because through out the process I seeked God to understand my part, my sin and His heart. My experience drew me closer to God and He is faithful. I was overwhelmed by His intense love for me. I repented of my part and God was gracious to heal and restore me. I honesty believe that if I had focused on what my husband did to me or didn't do, it was going to take longer for me to heal if I ever healed at all. The bitterness might have been hard to leave my heart.
*Edit - forgot to add that my ex husband also divorced me ultimately due different religions. After being given the choice between My God or maintain the social status quo of being a married woman, I chose God, my Daddy Dearest, my Everything. Jesus is Lord❤ Well done Sithembile for choosing God in the end.
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Five minutes in and I am already learning... I loved the part where she said it's all about choice. ISo good
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You are so good in interviewing Queen Rammy.you are not competing with the guest, you give the guest time to express themselves well.
You ask relevant questions, it doesn’t sound like you are trying to find some juicy story. You are respecting the story.
As for the topic in hand, I relate tooo much. Thanks for creating this space, so that we can reflect
Wow, thank you
Divorce is painful...but the grace of God is sufficient ❤ I saw the grace of God when I was going through the divorce.
Amen 🙏
Greater is He that is in us, than the one that is in the world.
He comes to steal, kill and destroy uSathane..
God will never leave us nor forsake us .
Amen.
Amen 🙏
Wow, plz keep sharing such stories. We go thru hardships on closed doors and think your alone and no way out. Holding on and having faith that tomorrow will be better is what we need. Thank u. Loved it.
True
Absolutely
Sthembile my daughter..you are beautiful..I am taking my hat off for your God our God and for you.Thank you for choosing your God and choosing yourself.I am happy you are co parenting your little girl.. Soldier on my daughter❤ ❤
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😊 Thank you so much. I'm truly humbled
Queen, you definitely know the assignment. Good job . Sthembisile, you are such a strong and beautiful woman of God.
Wow, thank you 🙏
this was so beautiful to watch, God Restores my sister and its how you narrate the story it shows you are fully healed, learnt and understood why God had to make you go through all of that❤ you are so beautiful and for the fact that you chose God He is going to reward and you still young marriage will come God willingly❤❤❤
Thank you 😊
For a while now I've been watching podcasts where people that are being interviewed are divorced people within the church. I'm noticing that the voice or opinion of God regarding who to marry seems to be disregarded or rather maybe confirmation isn't being asked? I believe that the lord we serve is so faithful that if we were to seek Him regarding the people we are supposed to marry then he would intervene. I think as a church in SA we forget that we also need to be led by the voice of God when it comes to choosing our partners and not for us to just take matters into our own hands. We cannot trust ourselves to make such an important choice rather let us trust the one who created us. I think we forget that marriage itself is ministry so God's glory should be reflected by it. I think we need to emphasize to the church more about being guided by God's voice especially when it comes to this matter because marriage is a covenant that isn't meant to be broken. The rate of divorces that take place should be a sign to us that there's something we are missing, we are missing the voice of God. Our judgement is not sufficient, especially when it comes to such matters.
However we are so blessed to have a merciful God who makes everything work together for the good of those who love him. We are so blessed that he restores whatever the enemy tried to use to cause our destruction.
Amen 🙏
Gospel truth. Very 👍 ✔️
Well said, God's voice and His will in all we do, including who to marry. I also think we overly credit the devil for our own ignorance, pride of life and lust of the flesh. The sooner we take accountability and responsibilities the better equipped would be to avoid a second divorce for example.
Amen , God is the author of our lives that includes marriage. We often chose husband or wife based on our own views and discernment and the enemy uses it to fall into the trap of marrying the wrong partner. When the children of Israel made a covenant with the Gibeonites The Israelites couldn’t not kill the gibeonites because of the covenant they made without first asking God (Josh. 9:16-27)
Refreshing chat highlighting Gods restoration.
Amen
That was me, from being born again Christian to ubungoma, but by God's grace I went back to God because I was told in a dream that whoever sacrifes to the pple who hv passed on will go to hell.
Thank you for sharing ❤️
I followed her ex hubby on FB and honestly, I discerned the 360 turn she talked about. Though it must’ve been hard to do, I’m so proud of you for choosing God over your ex-husband. May God continue to show off his faithfulness in your life, sisi Sithembile!
Amen 🙏
Amen
The story has made me realise the importance of being honest with your partner before entering a relationship and how important communication is in any relationship..
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Absolutely
I thank God for this episode.
Amen
Spiritual dancing I remember those days home Oasis girl. yho divorce compared to grief it must be really tough wow. I'm so proud of you girl you are helping so many people
Thank you 😊
Just stumbled on this and m so taken by both of you ladies nibahle. Sthembile you are a strong blessed woman❤
Thank you so much 💓
I know they say divorce is painful,but my marriage was more painful and I’m going through divorce right now and I still can’t forgive myself for not doing it earlier
When you are healed and ready to open up please contact sent studios to share your journey 🙏
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What happened???tell us hleeee 😢😢😢before we go there
You will heal my sister, after 20 years of marriage and a divorce later, I didn’t think I would live to see this day! Five years down the line, I love God more and regret not doing this earlier, it would have saved me from a lot. God’s restoration is at work! Courage and strength my sister!
Sthembile is soooooooo beautiful, so confident and very inspiring ❤️ 🙌 👏 ✨️ 💖 💕 ❤️ 🙌 👏 ✨️ 💖 💕 ❤️
I totally agree!
Thank you so much ❤
The word never changes my daughter. As long as he is alive , reconciliation is still possible for you guys. 1Corinthians 7:10. So there’s no re- marriage!! I am talking from experience it’s possible 🔥🔥
Thank you 😊
Why does it feel like you are telling my story 😩😩❤️
We will be ok 🫂 🤗 👐
Same here 🙋🏽♀️
Me too 😮
Queen is such a great interviewer❤❤❤
Thank you 😊
Very grounded, I fully agree😊
The best❤
Well mannered woman💪.. Divorcees usually become very bitter after divorce and speak filthy things about their exes..yes you went through a lot but there is maturedness when telling your story..may God continue to heal you Sis❤
Definitely
I thank you ❤
Oh how I pray and anointed the things in my house
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binge watching recebt episodes...beautiful testimony
Thank you so much 💓
Eish...l hear you Sis. Exactly my story😢
Love and light to you
Sithembile thank u for sharing your story sis. May God keep you forever
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I thank you
Woooow thank you so much my dear sister…. After listening this interview, I have found peace, I’ve learned a lot. May almighty God bless you
Love and light ✨️ 💛
Amen . Thank you
Enjoyed this. Enlightening
Thank you 😊
Love you Woman of God..waze wakhula
Ngyabonga ❤️
😢😢😢 40:41 that part...
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What a great interview
Keep up the great work
Thank you 😊
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This is Heart Work Queen Rammy🙏🏽🤗❤. Incredible and inspiring conversation 👌🏽👏🏽
Thank you 😊
Im just addicted to watch your podcast, saw a clip yesterday on fb, been watching interviews since yesterday.
You guys are beautiful
Thank you so much ❤️ 💓
You are right.Majority of divorces are from churches.The question is : Why?Do couples suffer in silence for years fearing what the society will say?
Oh I loved them as couple, but with her husband turning to sangoma I was really happy for her to leave. I am happy she is till fired up for God
Me too..She’s such a humble lady ❤️
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I thank you ❤
Sthe this is good, God first thank you woman of God for sharing.
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Good work queen, I enjoyed the podcast.
Thank you
God is faithful we bless God for healing.
Amen
Amen
Great interview. Learning a lot everyday. God does restore indeed❤
Amen 🙏
One thing about God, angeke avume unyawo lakho lushelele 🙏🏼 I also got separated because of having an alter introduced in our home…. Soze sana 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
Amen
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Wow i know her and she's very humble ,neat and beautiful lady yhooo love & peace sisters ❤😊❤
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Thank you so much ❤
Thanks for sharing with us about your journey
Thank you for watching
Ke ntje Kere yho😢... What a podcast queen❤ vip gang😊
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Yhooo divorce is painful,you feel that you are torn apart. You feel confused, and after it, you feel lost . What makes it worse is that people judging you and yet there were not in your pain😢. I thank God that I am still in His hands and I love Him more. Still worshiping Him regardless
Importantly, don't lose yourself in a relationship
Amen 🙏
Kudos Queen Rami ,for allowing the guest speak 👏 ❤
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Queen Rammy is the best
Right, no competition with the guest. Love it
@@SithembileMasilela-wk4gjyou are so well spoken ,thank you for sharing your story.you are amazing and may God continue to bless you. 🥺❤️
100% well said❤
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❤❤❤❤❤powerful podcast Sis Rammy... #Acceptance truly stood out for me
Thank you 😊
Wow!! Sithembile I just went to google your ex, he is the Chosen One “ he didn’t go thwasa anywhere, ancestors did all the job kuye because he is the King. Something big is coming dear you will go back to him as you were chosen for him. NAWE you are one of the Chosen One “ kodwa you going to learn to preach or worship God African way. Just that as Africans we still confused and colonised about our religion or spirituality.
Wearing beads doesn’t mean you are a sangoma holding ishoba like your Husband it means he is a King you will see it’s coming. He is not a sangoma because he didn’t go thwasa anywhere, UnguMfundisi African way(African Christian). Let’s wait and pray for Jesus as he is coming back with the truth. God bless you ❤
Thank you so much for watching
Lord help South Africa....spirit of divination will send many down the wrong path😢
@@sebentilezanini1085 Colonised
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I just love how this channel is revolving.
Thank you 😊
head her first at oasis of life her story changed my life
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Thank you so much my sis. To God be the glory
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I love her strength in the Lord
Amen 🙏
I thank you
But she said she left work for ministry something that she wanted to do even before getting married.
Powerful
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SThembile is the best ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
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I know exactly into ye groove after a divorce.
It's real hey
my apology with my first comment the ending was painful that you went through that but look at you wow
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I like it when you said,"I worshipped the ground on which my husband walked on".That was MY downfall...I loved my ex-husband more than GOD HIMSELF.
Indeed many wives make this mistake 💔 Only God is to be worshipped
Sthembile sisi❤️♥️
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Why am I crying 😅😅😅...
We love and appreciate you sisi ❤️
Thank you so much for sharing your journey with Us Sis🫂🫂❤❤
I agree with the adolescent stage after divorce, but I'm grateful to be full back in christ
Amen Sis 🙏
❤She is beautiful 🎉
Very beautiful 😍
I thank you ❤
Thank u Sthe❤❤❤
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Been following her on Instagram little did I know did I know that she is such golf
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This is my strory
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Kuyahambeka
How long did you date and got engaged before settling down?A year?That was very quick indeed.
What country are our sisters from? Beautiful
SA
24:48 hhayi God did what 😢took him away 😮
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God bless you sis ❤
Thank you 🙏
I can slightly relate on this"resent the church",,,,however the church was innocent 😢
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Yes it was just a phase
Great interview 👏👏👏
Thank you 😊
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My sister Rammy i wanted to be clear before you become the sangoma kumele uyothwasa, so her ex uyenini ukuyothwasa before getting married or what?
After getting married my sister
@@SentStudiosProduction Ok thanks
Owuu my baby
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Thanks for watching
Fight for your marriage I hear you, but in the spirit realm you are enemies, then must must happen???
It's a choice... I LEFT
God wants marriage but why allow divorce, you ask why nothing wrong with her people consult traditional healer before getting married.
Sangomas believe in God... It's a misconception that Sangomas non-belivers...
Even demons believe in God... the question is do you do His will and what please Him and Him alone?? He is a jealous God..
The alliance masilelas ?
Lol yes
Her story way interesting but I expected a lot more details on the sangoma part
Notes ❤️
People should understand too that being a sangoma(its a traditional doctor)is a gift from God(you are able to communicate with spirit and heal spiritually using herbs,plant created by God,it is not in competition with church.evil is everwhere,it is up to an individual choices
I wish to have this kind of conversation on camera
Sadly dy dnt understand ND take it as demonic as dy call it
@@SentStudiosProductiontrue 😢
let it be done by a wyt/pink person they won’t demonise it😂😂😂😂😂😂😂akeretheyll use the word “Medium “😂😂😂😂😂
I can't be forced to understand something I don't know
John 10:10
Thank you 😊
That guy has mental issues from high school.. I felt so sad when I saw you go through that path.. Rise my darling.. Rise mama.. ❤️❤️
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May we also get her ex husband's side of the story?🤔🤔
Tell him to come
Yoooo i went through a terrible divorce
Its very painful seeing your husband with another woman in public
I know what you are talking about
I was shattered
I STILL SAY HE IS NOT A SANGOMA AS HE DIDN’T GO THWASA TO ANYONE. HE IS A PROPHET.
I'm so much relating to the sister. I see my ex marriage in the mirror
Very sad 😔
😂😂I can attest to that I regret live my life
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Sthembile ❤❤❤
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I know the lady and the husband(Clive) they called them awoba pastors bcs they only wear gucci label and drive ayoba cars
"I do what I want" radical individualism at its best 🎉, background check;
You wanted to be a Pastor not Mamfundisi, you didn't see him as a husband since inception besides later on when he runs church.
Queen Rummy I appreciate everything you are doing but I don't think I understant these beautiful souls you're bringing, for me they all sounds like convenient Christians...
In short we're celebrating brokenness in African society, our society is falling because of our broken family unity😢
Sorry i had to go thru this but it seems like he was having his own child truamas. He needs help
Yes help is available 🥲
wrong advice just because he choose darkness over your marriage then you say women must'nt leave their careers for their marriages that is wrong, as it comes from pain
My story, my choice neh... Everyone has a choice in life
@@SithembileMasilela-wk4gj not fighting don't advice that they mustn't as many took such then they're single but with big careers
Women should not leave work to focus on marriage. That's inviting abuse.
@@tebogolesaba9520I agree
Women should make sure that marriage doesn't make you loose yourself or forget your career ,you are your own person and when you where born your had your own dreams...pursue your goals and be the best wife you can don't regret getting married
Ndivhu T sold her channel?????😢😢😢😢
She did??? 😳😳
My church turn against me for caring curse on them 😂😂😂
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Are they married now with the one that came after you?
No their relationship lasted for 2 years
@SithembileMasilela-wk4gj ok. I was just curious because your story is exactly as mine. Even my resident pastor warned me not to marry the guy, and I did. And it sadly played out exactly as yours did.
Your ex husband made a very good decision by letting you go, your husband has abantu abadala which wena you don't understand because you are a born again.
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Hha, Sthembile! Copy cat. Why are you sharing my testimony
Eish 💔
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