Shes sugarcoating😂😂 they do it raw and married man dont respect their wives as much they spend 70% of their time with sidechicks they give them money and forget to tale enough money home 😢
It's easier to speak about what a man wants or needs from the outside, become the "head office" and see what type of man you'll be dealing with. Wives want their marriages to work so they try most wives try theyll put the kids ti bed early to spice things up but a man who lacks discipline will never be disciplined! And the same goes to women. One has to want to be faithful to remain faithful. He will always cheat until the day he decides to be and stay committed. We will be trying kamasutra in these bedrooms but if he wants to cheat he will 😂😂 love from zim Promise ...English subtitles please whenever you can❤
Men want to be respected as head of the family, they want a home with tranquility, appetising food, lots of sex and lots of children. If any one of these is missing then the man will definitely get a second or third wife. If you control him and treat him like an immature person he will look outside. The point is that men want to be treated like kings and be seen to be in control
I enjoyed this interview,life is not a one size fits all thing,these things happen and most married women are awaere of their husbands shenanigans...@promise try interviewing a wife that intentionally decide to stay in they marriages with cheating husbands!
Just hold the person you have an agreement with accountable..... The rest is history. Some married people are still looking for their soulmates...they say😢 it's sick but true
I think there are pyschological issues here.the way she is explaining it she literally agreed to breadcrumbs.no normal human being wants to be second best.saying she only gets 5% tells you she is deeply wounded so is the cheating husband.they both have deep rooted issues
The fight between married men, side chicks and married women will never end. This thing has been there since nako tsa our great grandparents. Rena re rasa fela mo social media but it will never end. Cycle of life
It won’t end. Women must just accept and draw up boundaries for men to cheat. Use protection Don’t make babies Don’t cheat in the area we live in Don’t get calls from sides at home Don’t take away providing for the wife and home For example
Side chicks seem to understand male nature better than wives do but not well enough to replace the wife. Wives understand men well enough to convince him to commit to them long term but not well enough to keep them entertained long term like a side chick can. It's an interesting dynamic. But being a wife seems like an innate thing I don't know if it can be taught.
Side chick will always be 100 steps ahead of wifey becoz there is no commitment, finances, kids , bills involved ...married women would also excel in being side chicks to other people's men , becoz those men are not their husbands and don't have any obligations towards them
No matter how you beautify nonsense it will still be nonsense. Someone will watch this and think it's a good idea to go for that married guy, pathetic!!!!
@@siyandamolefe1867 if u approached by a married man and you agree to it, does it make it right??.i believe both parties contributed.as ladies we can say no but we choose to tag along.
@@siyandamolefe1867 I believe some "women go for married men" because they get involved with them, and some married men approach single women. However, it doesn't lessen the crime on either side. These illicit relationships happen because both parties agree to participate in them. Willing buyer, willing seller.
What kind of desperation makes y'all date married men? I'm 32 and this guy told me that soon I will get desperate and I'll date married men😂😂😂 I laughed because I've been single for years and I don't wanna be in a relationship for the sake of being in one. Being alone can be lonely but I think a married man would make me feel lonelier Thatha! Wena side dish, wena escape from reality, wena de-stressor, wena fun time 😂 and of course sexual tension reliever. Sebenza girl😂
@@JoyCharmaindo you get to nag him . Give him a hard time when you are hormonal? What’s the point of being with a man. If I don’t see the point of being with a married man….
I have an experience where I was approached by a married men while I was still in Matric 😭😩. Mo guy was driving with his family (wife n kids), wearing a ring. Did he not get out of his car to come and approach me while his wife was there? He came and acted like he wanted to ask me something about my school and decorations for our matric farewell since he did decorations. He straight up told me that he is married so he told his wife that he's coming to enquire about decorations and stuff so that she wouldn't suspect 😭😭I was so shocked and traumatized 😂mo guy was bribing me telling me that he will buy me nice things. I didn't agree anyways, I've always been scared of dating older guys, let alone married men😭. I'm 22 now, done with university and I sometimes bump into the guy and he still asks me out, he doesn't forget my face shame utata wabantu😂🚮
I just love Adelaide she sounds so respectful while being naughty with ppls marriage 😂😂she's not here to BREAK anyone's marriage but to balance her finances there n there....and remember DONT judge modimo more rata kao fela 🥰
Married men do ask for babies, some stay in these relationships for more than 6 years. Babangwe we have two babies with a married man we've been with for over 8 years.
Promise we love you but don't be shady when your guest is speaking because of what you think about them or their situation.... I also think this side chick is not make sure we need another one. It was fun to watch though ❤
Adelaide is such a very good story teller. So authentic and honest. There are many women who live this lifestyle yet they are acting all innocent, some are even judging her hear in the comment section. Big ups to you Adelaide for coming upront and sharing your experiences with us. Enjoy this lifestyle while it last, however I wish you one also find your own husband and u get to enjoy the privileges of being a "Head Office. 45:34 "
I am a great fan of this podcast, but today I was really disappointed because the discussion was in their language 😢and I am listening all the way from Namibia. Please Promise, tell your guests to speak English
Can Jesus please come now🙇🤦And to y'all who are saying no wonder she is from hammanskraal guyz am from there and I've never been a sidechick in my entire life it's disgusting to degrade yourself like that such a xam
As a Christian, I can't help but think of this verse "Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral" (Hebrews 13:4). Women like this are controlled by evil spirits periods.
It's not about looks, or age, it's not about the lack of sex... A man can still have the greatest sex with his wife and love her dearly and still get some on the side. It's all about the thrill and liberty and no responsibility attached to the experience. Adelaide is such a sweet lady... But she is operating under the marine Kingdom spirit. Lol one day she will be married she will be a wife. There are always consequences for actions
@@inathindabeni5112 she knows Jesus she is just under demonic oppression, she has wife qualities, she respects, she is kind. The spirit is keeping her in bondage she could have met her own husband by now. That's what a demonic spirit dies, I bet you it's generations someone in her ancestory opened the door to this spirit. She thinks it's just having fun it's not, adultery is serious
Thank you for this interview I thought I was the only one but honestly speaking married man are so carrying and loving and we also want the share of the pie bathong we didn't say they must get married earlier these people are also our soulmates😂
He will still cheat even though he is treated well cheating is about the person who is doing it not the other person it's a character flow deciplin control and ma have no control some
😂 why does the host seem like she’s taking this convo personally? Entlek I hope her husband is the camera man because where exactly is he while Promise is spending 2 hours recording these podcasts???? 😂😂😂 ska bala bala sesi
Why wouldn't she take it personally when she's been on the receiving end of an extra-marital affair? Don't act like you wouldn't if you found out your wife was cheating with another man.
“Married men don’t force side chicks to be in relationship” LOL anything to exempt the MARRIED husband who INITIATED the whole thing😂 Promise you always seems to have a projecting tone when it comes to these interviews with side chicks. Interview the person from a neutral perspective. Genuine respect is never feigned, If you truly respect someone you respect them behind their backs too… let’s call it what it really is: Yes, he’s DECEIVING you into thinking he respects you. I don’t judge women who do this because theres a level of self-loathing that goes along with being ok placed second to another!
Most of the married ones with side chicks dont even like being home!! they spent more time with sides more than their wives and kids!! and they fall inlove quickly!! I once had the wife call me, she was calm and wanted to understand our affair, she even confided in me about what he wasn't doing at home, things that I actually never asked and he did for me... I left because I felt sorry for her!! We were chatting for a while and she asked that we meet, I refused!! That man didn't wanna let go, until I relocated!! I really dont understand how their brains work!! More than anything, dating a married man is a side hustle and I think most women, especially the wives think that we fall inlove and we actually want a future with the men... Maybe some do but majority of women dont!!
@@PalesaSawukazi-fc9mk I hope this is learning curve for her. It doesn't make for good viewing and it may deter other guests. To get the most out of your guest... remain neutral and let them talk.
You can betray people you respect. That said, usually a guy cheats because he either doesn't actually care about his wife/girlfriend (most common reason) or his marriage is sexless and he gives in to his impulsive 'need' (not strictly a need, but fairly close to one) to have sex.
I will say this with love, if you respect headquarters, how much more you should respect GOD. It is His institution, tswada!!! Surely this lifestyle has comebacks my dear ❤️❤️❤️
We must stop blaming women for our cheating husbands they are the ones breaking the promises they made to us pls stop fighting the ladies deal with our husbands.
I am unmarried, but I hope young girls are not aspiring for this life style. Hope the young lady will heal. She may seem proud, but underneath there is hurt there. We all wanted our own families, our own husbands, not other people leftovers.... No young girl dreams of dating a married man when young. Life happens.
Nope, you’d be suprised how many normal women are sidechicks. Not even for financial benefit. Educated, great job, house, Mercedes Benz. But still a side chick.
There are two types of side chicks. The one who is in it for the fun of it, the money and no commitment expected from the guy as long as he keeps paying up. The second one is looking to replace the "head office" and take the lead position because she sees herself as part of his future. She usually has everything except a man who wants to commit. The first type can be detached from at any moment, but the second type can be very dangerous to such an extent that they'll even use Muthi to get what they want.
There's a 3rd type, too. The one who has a man of her own, but he can't totally fulfill one or two aspects that the side piece needs in a relationship to feel complete. However, she's content enough with her man that she doesn't wanna start all over with someone new. Instead, she dates a man who's already attached who can fill in the spaces of what she's missing in her primary relationship. That void might be sexual, financial, companionship, intellectual intelligence, etc.. A lot of people tend to think that all side pieces are these lonley women who can't get a man of their own. I've met a lot of married or partnered side pieces over the years who have no intention of leaving their primary relationship. They're everywhere.
Truthfully, it's been happening for as long as our grandparents were alive. Its just that our grandmothers were rather secretive about the dynamics of married life
Let us judge positively. Adelaide Thank you for being authentic, ur Boldness n Honesty. Good advise and affirming to HQ dat "they will 4ever occupy that seat in parliament. HQ shud know Side Chicks comes in levels, Promise please bring the" other level of side chick(Competing, Entitle, Wrecker type) n in both Males n Females. This is Not spoken about among society and it's happening. HQ should know that "Thz Maparas" becomes greedy!!
I am not married but I must say 28 years she's still young, eventually she will want to settle down and definitely she will taste her own medicine. They start like that then later on they use muthi on poor wives... Indeed we live in a sick world!!
You can lie to Promise, lie to the viewers and lie to yourself but you cannot lie to your conscience. Deep down you know that what you are doing is not normal
It's all fun,game and exciting until it backfires . We have seen a lot of people menstruating non stop because of man that belong to other people or that are being fought for. Unfortunately when its that bad she won't be this excited to tell the story. When I see such I remember uthando noxolo episode of a lady that was also from hammankraal who bled to death because the boyfriend decided to have outside relationship and the woman showed that lady flames
@@nette2144I think she does have somewhat of a conscience my guess is that she’s broken. Like she admitted at first that she was in a relationship that made her insecure. If she knows that she can’t build a home on another woman’s tears then there’s hope that there’s a little bit of conscience left. Let’s just hope she grows and heals her insecurities so she can be normal again ❤
@matanato01 that's why there is or being fought for. I don't excuse man for cheating at all I just say that sometimes one will be in a relationship with a man that has someone else who will do you bad. People use things to make others suffer it does happen. So we can't intentionally go for people that are married and be proud of that because we say they are not properties they don't belong to no one. Married man belong to their families until they get out even if they can be dated by the whole world
This one wa my husband this and that😂😂😂🚶🏾. You’ll regret and delete this channel one day. She’s on the spot light 💡 now.
Witchcraft 📍
I’m with you and you on that one. She’s definitely on the spot. Wenza ngathi she’s the only woman with a husband.
This girl is honest. Normally side chucks speak bad about the wife's. I like her she is light headed 🎉.
Shes sugarcoating😂😂 they do it raw and married man dont respect their wives as much they spend 70% of their time with sidechicks they give them money and forget to tale enough money home 😢
Yes, she lied. Married man like it raw and they are scared of their wives not respect. There's a difference.
The saddest truth
Why do you think they are scared of their wives?..i think due to the huge respect for their wives contrary towards the side chick?@@Ntombi_Lusenga
Sad reality😢no protection
I like that she's honest.Married women will always be bitter.Your husbands are chowing out there and using prep unfortunately
This was such a fun episode. I love her authenticity. So real. Your energies flow
It's easier to speak about what a man wants or needs from the outside, become the "head office" and see what type of man you'll be dealing with. Wives want their marriages to work so they try most wives try theyll put the kids ti bed early to spice things up but a man who lacks discipline will never be disciplined! And the same goes to women. One has to want to be faithful to remain faithful. He will always cheat until the day he decides to be and stay committed. We will be trying kamasutra in these bedrooms but if he wants to cheat he will 😂😂 love from zim Promise ...English subtitles please whenever you can❤
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Uqinisile
You're right, if he lacks discipline and is lustful, nothing will keep him faithful.
True, this lady has no business giving advice to married women😂😂😂..she knows nothing about it. Being a side chick is different from being a wife.
Men want to be respected as head of the family, they want a home with tranquility, appetising food, lots of sex and lots of children. If any one of these is missing then the man will definitely get a second or third wife. If you control him and treat him like an immature person he will look outside. The point is that men want to be treated like kings and be seen to be in control
She was my roommate for like 3 months last year. I know this girl, she’s actually a good person
Nchoo
good people do not date married men. lenyalo ke Modimo and if one can't respect marriage then clearly they don't respect God
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Nothing good about someone who sleep with another woman's man idc whether the marriage is not working. Rong is rong
good person for sleeping with a married man.???nah nothing good here no morales,standards and dignity is gone🤣🤪
I enjoyed this interview,life is not a one size fits all thing,these things happen and most married women are awaere of their husbands shenanigans...@promise try interviewing a wife that intentionally decide to stay in they marriages with cheating husbands!
Just hold the person you have an agreement with accountable..... The rest is history. Some married people are still looking for their soulmates...they say😢 it's sick but true
If he's married he mustn't approach me. Those boundaries haykhona. I'd rather be single tjo!
Right?! Ba mbora nna batho bao. I'm good being single.
“He wanted you vele “ , Promise don’t kill me 🤣🤣🤣
I think there are pyschological issues here.the way she is explaining it she literally agreed to breadcrumbs.no normal human being wants to be second best.saying she only gets 5% tells you she is deeply wounded so is the cheating husband.they both have deep rooted issues
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Imagine 5% Yoh ka gana
en bcz we don't wanna commit to anyone...so a rena prblm at all
Adelaide is not alone at all
She is smart, playing her cards very well. Wives receive the worst treatment from husbands not love. She wants soft life not wife life.
@@LukeRev480people can never accept that some people don’t care to have what the masses want
The fight between married men, side chicks and married women will never end. This thing has been there since nako tsa our great grandparents. Rena re rasa fela mo social media but it will never end. Cycle of life
It won’t end. Women must just accept and draw up boundaries for men to cheat.
Use protection
Don’t make babies
Don’t cheat in the area we live in
Don’t get calls from sides at home
Don’t take away providing for the wife and home
For example
@@robbylebothayou know very well that this bucket list will not happen!
@@robbylebothaEasier said than done 😂
It will end one way or the other!Nothing lasts forever!
Side chicks seem to understand male nature better than wives do but not well enough to replace the wife. Wives understand men well enough to convince him to commit to them long term but not well enough to keep them entertained long term like a side chick can. It's an interesting dynamic. But being a wife seems like an innate thing I don't know if it can be taught.
Meanwhile, these married cheating husbands seem to lack discipline and self-control. They're lustful and irresponsible, therein lies the problem.
These men be marrying for money as well…
Side chick will always be 100 steps ahead of wifey becoz there is no commitment, finances, kids , bills involved ...married women would also excel in being side chicks to other people's men , becoz those men are not their husbands and don't have any obligations towards them
Interesting analysis. Please do one about men too cause I must give it to you, you're good dear
@@mphomamadionce you are on paper you can never be side chick. The law is always on the side of the wife.
Most of these husbands meet their soulmates after marriage😂😂
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I agree😂😂😂
Men will say anything to sleep with people 😂😂😂 imagine believing he has found his soulmate AFTER 😢
is not like they telling their sidechick mos it is a bitter truth@@Yeye__
You know it is very true the same as women
I'm not even surprised, she's from Hammaskraal after all🤣🤣
Is it common over there😂😂
You should be saying I'm not surprised our husband are cheaters shame they will leave us at home and hunt in hammanskraal
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No matter how you beautify nonsense it will still be nonsense.
Someone will watch this and think it's a good idea to go for that married guy, pathetic!!!!
You are right! I wonder how she grew up..
thanks Hlengiwe.
Do women go for married men or do married men go around asking out single women ?????
@@siyandamolefe1867 if u approached by a married man and you agree to it, does it make it right??.i believe both parties contributed.as ladies we can say no but we choose to tag along.
@@siyandamolefe1867 I believe some "women go for married men" because they get involved with them, and some married men approach single women. However, it doesn't lessen the crime on either side. These illicit relationships happen because both parties agree to participate in them. Willing buyer, willing seller.
Promise, promise , promise, how many times did i call you 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yooh nna ke tshaba di union tsa batho angeke!!
What kind of desperation makes y'all date married men?
I'm 32 and this guy told me that soon I will get desperate and I'll date married men😂😂😂 I laughed because I've been single for years and I don't wanna be in a relationship for the sake of being in one.
Being alone can be lonely but I think a married man would make me feel lonelier
Thatha! Wena side dish, wena escape from reality, wena de-stressor, wena fun time 😂 and of course sexual tension reliever. Sebenza girl😂
You love yourself. Big up to you
Congratulations
That's on you 😂😂Im a happily lonely side chick😂😂❤
@@JoyCharmaindo you get to nag him . Give him a hard time when you are hormonal? What’s the point of being with a man. If I don’t see the point of being with a married man….
@@AmyMapena congratulations for reading ❤️
I have an experience where I was approached by a married men while I was still in Matric 😭😩. Mo guy was driving with his family (wife n kids), wearing a ring. Did he not get out of his car to come and approach me while his wife was there? He came and acted like he wanted to ask me something about my school and decorations for our matric farewell since he did decorations. He straight up told me that he is married so he told his wife that he's coming to enquire about decorations and stuff so that she wouldn't suspect 😭😭I was so shocked and traumatized 😂mo guy was bribing me telling me that he will buy me nice things. I didn't agree anyways, I've always been scared of dating older guys, let alone married men😭. I'm 22 now, done with university and I sometimes bump into the guy and he still asks me out, he doesn't forget my face shame utata wabantu😂🚮
You did the right thing. Never hurt another woman! Dat guy has demons in him!
Promise did say after shooting this that she is SHOOK 😂😂😂. I think she lied on some parts, like using protection. Girl we know!
Exactly. U are ✅💯
They never use it, never😂😂
I also don't believe that
They hit it raw
😅@@mphomamadi
I just love Adelaide she sounds so respectful while being naughty with ppls marriage 😂😂she's not here to BREAK anyone's marriage but to balance her finances there n there....and remember DONT judge modimo more rata kao fela 🥰
I was looking forward to this episode, but unfortunately I felt excluded since the guest spoke less English and there were no subtitles 😔.
Click on the “CC” option on the screen, it will show subtitles
@@mathapelomphahlele5309 Those do not translate vernacular languages..
Is it you or me? 🤔 😢
Married men are the most sweetest beings in this world❤❤❤❤❤
They are not sweet to their wives m sure
Exactly specially to us side chick,ausi oo dated men who hated her Rona our married men can move the world for us
@@busisiwemichelle5391yes they not
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Wedding Anniversary wouldn't be there If level 1 side chicks wasn't in the picture
Married men do ask for babies, some stay in these relationships for more than 6 years. Babangwe we have two babies with a married man we've been with for over 8 years.
Ebile ba agetše le di side chick metse.
While others raise kids alone,going to public schools then kids in marriage go to private
Most fatherless kids in south Africa are for married men
@@KholoKhangale-yq7ig waaai! Some side chick's kids are in private schools too. This thing is not cast on a stone. It's different for everyone.
Yes, it depend on how responsible is the man@@malebomammile9283
True.@@KholoKhangale-yq7ig
You found out about the pain commitment can bring, so you've decided to be the pain vehicle for those that are committed?.
This is confusing..
Promise we love you but don't be shady when your guest is speaking because of what you think about them or their situation.... I also think this side chick is not make sure we need another one. It was fun to watch though ❤
She's not make sure because you like drama. This is a peaceful side chick now you doubt her.
Agreed... keep the biases at home and take the guest as she is.
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@@patienceikombele9161 🤣🤣🤣 peaceful side chick
I am going to watch this more than once 🤞🏻😂😂😂 Mpete wa tla ka truck!!!
Adelaide is such a very good story teller. So authentic and honest. There are many women who live this lifestyle yet they are acting all innocent, some are even judging her hear in the comment section. Big ups to you Adelaide for coming upront and sharing your experiences with us. Enjoy this lifestyle while it last, however I wish you one also find your own husband and u get to enjoy the privileges of being a "Head Office. 45:34 "
You cant hate Adelaide 😂😂, she's such a beautiful soul❤❤
Shes lying,they chow it raw,no man will take care of you o sa mofe raw!hei angazoxoka lo!
True my experience with the married man we've never used it even on our first attempt
Exactly she’s lying
That part she lied😂
that part she is lying vele...tlkng from experience
They love it raw...they catch
Attention to Men: Next Men's Conference will be held in Hamaanskraal
😂😂😂Eix I’m no longer from hammanskraal 😢
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Please add Mabopane the capital city of bofebe in the list😂😂😂
@@tebogosophymoagi7463 Please move away from that place after this podcast
As a Hammanskraalian, I suggest you go to Garankua guys😅
Me too “Ausi Promise” I love Adelaide 😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Promise you are killing me 😂😂😂😂😂
I am a great fan of this podcast, but today I was really disappointed because the discussion was in their language 😢and I am listening all the way from Namibia. Please Promise, tell your guests to speak English
We are together I am from Namibia 🇳🇦 too, I feel left out.
Also from Namibia. Luckily I understand the language. I enjoyed it
She did tell her to speak English as much as she can haow
Some topics are much easier being explained in our language.
She said nothing but the truth😂But there's nothing sensible about being one ai
Promise "hona rea performa" 😂😂😂
Promise ! Promise!😂😂😂😂😂lerago le lekoto, letswele le emi🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I’m screaming and ke bošego
Adelaide is more matured than Promise.
Adelaide chose her path and let's respect her.
Who are we to judge?
Bathong ausi😂😂kunini ngithi yohhh
Can Jesus please come now🙇🤦And to y'all who are saying no wonder she is from hammanskraal guyz am from there and I've never been a sidechick in my entire life it's disgusting to degrade yourself like that such a xam
Don’t take it personal. Obviously not everyone from there has the same mentality. And big ups to you for having a self esteem 🥳
As a Christian, I can't help but think of this verse "Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral" (Hebrews 13:4). Women like this are controlled by evil spirits periods.
Am hearing a repeat of one thing on this conversation. "One thing about me I stay in my lane, HeadOffice ka respecta" am bored
😂😂😂ereng boredom mo ngwaneng
@promise I love your content, please consider subtitles😒 I’m trying so hard to get the full story….
go jolla tlala sometimes💔
Some times hase tlala mamas its love😂😂
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@@JoyCharmainKe tlala, so that the man can pay your rent, buy you a refrigerator etc
@@tendanipelaelo6293truth
@@tendanipelaelo6293Exactly. Who are they fooling vele?! 😅
Adelaide is so likable, she's every men's ideal mistress.
It's not about looks, or age, it's not about the lack of sex... A man can still have the greatest sex with his wife and love her dearly and still get some on the side. It's all about the thrill and liberty and no responsibility attached to the experience.
Adelaide is such a sweet lady... But she is operating under the marine Kingdom spirit. Lol one day she will be married she will be a wife. There are always consequences for actions
God forbid.. Kingdom marine spirit🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 she will accept Jesus as the personal saviour
@@inathindabeni5112 she knows Jesus she is just under demonic oppression, she has wife qualities, she respects, she is kind. The spirit is keeping her in bondage she could have met her own husband by now. That's what a demonic spirit dies, I bet you it's generations someone in her ancestory opened the door to this spirit. She thinks it's just having fun it's not, adultery is serious
Thank you for this interview I thought I was the only one but honestly speaking married man are so carrying and loving and we also want the share of the pie bathong we didn't say they must get married earlier these people are also our soulmates😂
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so true my dear
What a sick world we live in. Celebrating and glorifying such nonsense. God is not mocked, the day of reckoning will come.
Like super sick people exist in this world sies
Le nna ke tsamaile Ka koloi ya Ka..😅
I had to subscribe, thank you for the content.
di married women dilo lala di sa robala.😭
Di married women have their sides too, gone are those days
Ke sare kea shoota ngwana shu 😂😂😂 mpolaye gape
Hi Promise I love your podcast , please add translation so u don't loose your global audience
One day the wife will find out... And wont be happy with you messing with her bread.... And she will make a spiritual plan... 😂😂😂😂
She must make that spiritual plan now so that the husband doesn’t cheat tlogela di threat tsa fake
Marr it’s not only married women who make spiritual plans everyone can do that
Mara di pump tseo di yang stressa like u said married man take care of u mos so di pump bjang if u are taken care of?
Nna ke ya mo judger honestly.
Pumps but you are taken care of 😂
#South-Africa's reality Lifestyle😪😪😪
You did not decide honey its spiritual hence you only attract married men and its nothing to be proud of.
"mummy what are you doing?" 🤣🤣🤣
Thanks for the honesty from Adelaide that was enjoyable,eye opener
2017 I was starting to date😂😂😂mind you I was 21 and someone my age was already tired nho mjolo😩I’m a slow learner Shem!
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Adelaide lefatshe kela gao girl😂😂😂✊🏼
Can you guys please get subtitles 😢
IM A FAN FROM NAMIBIA. PLEASE PUT SUBTITLES OR TRANSLATE THIS LADY LOVES HER NATIVE LANGUAGE TOO MUCH.
He will still cheat even though he is treated well cheating is about the person who is doing it not the other person it's a character flow deciplin control and ma have no control some
I couldn't watch the whole thing...she's clearly broken and immature. She's still naive
Married men are more scared of losing the lady Shem they please the side chicks too much
I’m here because of Hot and Serve ssg’s😂😂😂😂
Thou shall reap what you sow
😂 why does the host seem like she’s taking this convo personally? Entlek I hope her husband is the camera man because where exactly is he while Promise is spending 2 hours recording these podcasts???? 😂😂😂 ska bala bala sesi
Why wouldn't she take it personally when she's been on the receiving end of an extra-marital affair? Don't act like you wouldn't if you found out your wife was cheating with another man.
“Married men don’t force side chicks to be in relationship” LOL anything to exempt the MARRIED husband who INITIATED the whole thing😂 Promise you always seems to have a projecting tone when it comes to these interviews with side chicks. Interview the person from a neutral perspective. Genuine respect is never feigned, If you truly respect someone you respect them behind their backs too… let’s call it what it really is: Yes, he’s DECEIVING you into thinking he respects you. I don’t judge women who do this because theres a level of self-loathing that goes along with being ok placed second to another!
Mara Mrs Makunyane😍.....gotla nna manyokenyoke.....di aga malapa
You can’t be well mannered and date married men…hopefully you will be healed from childhood trauma that led you into dating married
Most of the married ones with side chicks dont even like being home!! they spent more time with sides more than their wives and kids!! and they fall inlove quickly!! I once had the wife call me, she was calm and wanted to understand our affair, she even confided in me about what he wasn't doing at home, things that I actually never asked and he did for me... I left because I felt sorry for her!! We were chatting for a while and she asked that we meet, I refused!! That man didn't wanna let go, until I relocated!! I really dont understand how their brains work!! More than anything, dating a married man is a side hustle and I think most women, especially the wives think that we fall inlove and we actually want a future with the men... Maybe some do but majority of women dont!!
Not promise wanting to know how she's introduced to the side chick 😂😂😂😂
But it's interesting, Imaging being in public platform like promise then the side chick knows something else.
The love I have for myself will never allow me to be a side chick to any men, self-love is important girlies!!
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It's one thing to find out that you were a side.. but WILLINGLY?!!! Aowa ban!!
Sending hugs 🙅❤
What if u are a side chick 🤔
WHEN DEMONS ARE GIVEN PLATFORMS TO SHINE
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Dear Podcaster Please include English subtitles at the least because that enables me to enjoy the whole interview thank you in advance
I can even be the translator even 🤝
I know right? Not all of us are SouthAfricans yet we love this show
That would be nice…I trust Promise to deliver on this one
Yes please they should do that!!👏🏽
Us❤
The host is projecting her own life into the interview.
& She can’t help herself
@@PalesaSawukazi-fc9mk I hope this is learning curve for her. It doesn't make for good viewing and it may deter other guests. To get the most out of your guest... remain neutral and let them talk.
Like she is asking for herself and she is even down forgetting her job . With fake smile inside he is burning 😅😅😅
@@shartinahkentse5873 Yep. The entire interview is cautionary tale FOR HER.
It was hard to watch
Those people respect their wives, How on earth is that respect please?????
You can betray people you respect. That said, usually a guy cheats because he either doesn't actually care about his wife/girlfriend (most common reason) or his marriage is sexless and he gives in to his impulsive 'need' (not strictly a need, but fairly close to one) to have sex.
They're actually using the wife's to cheat. They're too broke to leave 🤣💔
I will say this with love, if you respect headquarters, how much more you should respect GOD. It is His institution, tswada!!! Surely this lifestyle has comebacks my dear ❤️❤️❤️
So true cc. I feel sad for her. Cause this is not it.
Promise must learn to be professional don't put your emotions or make it about you when interviewing someone
Heban
Y'll are just judgemental, you wanted Promise to side Adelaide or what?
She is just voicing her view too.......pls rest.
I'm glad she did. This lady needs shame
I am a married woman, but I like Adelaide!😂🙊 She's owning her choices, wrong as they are. She's a smart girl and quite likeable.
😂I’m married but she’s likeable person .
Will you allow her to be your sister wife?
True. Even me. We can't always blame the ladies. Our men go out there and presuit these girls / woman
We must stop blaming women for our cheating husbands they are the ones breaking the promises they made to us pls stop fighting the ladies deal with our husbands.
@@matomehillariousramere7998 I said I like her. I never said anything about sister wives. Her choices have nothing to do with me.
I am unmarried, but I hope young girls are not aspiring for this life style.
Hope the young lady will heal. She may seem proud, but underneath there is hurt there. We all wanted our own families, our own husbands, not other people leftovers.... No young girl dreams of dating a married man when young.
Life happens.
The amount of people disturbingly praise her is scary
The way the world turned out to be this days nonsense has been normalised🤦🏽♀️ but anyways life goes on
Serious, and it's quite shocking that a there are many people in the comments normalising and condoning this.
Am sure she has childhood traumas for her to view life like that shows that the gurl have deep issues
Nope, you’d be suprised how many normal women are sidechicks. Not even for financial benefit. Educated, great job, house, Mercedes Benz. But still a side chick.
Some women just don't want commitment nje.
The host could barely focus on the show because her mind was busy auditing her intra-marrital behaviors from the beginning 😂😂
Lol i saw that, she was flabbergasted
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Exactly the lady just woken up the insecurities
Did you see that
@@thobilemqwathi7292 I'm pretty sure she was sweating the entire time
Insecurities make you date married man fix yourself sisi
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Bathong Adelaide was a lovely guest hle. Funny as well. I mean I listened to the whole interview. I enjoyed her xem
I didn't think I was going to enjoy this. A married woman myself fell in love with her.
I hope she finds her soulmate and builds a future.
So true because whether we like it or not this things are happening and you have a right to your opinion
I’m also married but yhooo I love her so much 😂❤️
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🙃🙃 I was ready to hate on this lady lol she’s hard to hate on
Same, but she's so sweet and adorable 😅
True hey. I watched the whole interview guys.
So true😂😂😂
There are two types of side chicks. The one who is in it for the fun of it, the money and no commitment expected from the guy as long as he keeps paying up. The second one is looking to replace the "head office" and take the lead position because she sees herself as part of his future. She usually has everything except a man who wants to commit. The first type can be detached from at any moment, but the second type can be very dangerous to such an extent that they'll even use Muthi to get what they want.
There's a 3rd type, too. The one who has a man of her own, but he can't totally fulfill one or two aspects that the side piece needs in a relationship to feel complete. However, she's content enough with her man that she doesn't wanna start all over with someone new. Instead, she dates a man who's already attached who can fill in the spaces of what she's missing in her primary relationship. That void might be sexual, financial, companionship, intellectual intelligence, etc.. A lot of people tend to think that all side pieces are these lonley women who can't get a man of their own. I've met a lot of married or partnered side pieces over the years who have no intention of leaving their primary relationship. They're everywhere.
There is a 4th type too. The one who wants to be a second, third or fourth wife without displacing the first wife or head office
@@CC-mp7id I prefer the 4th - one who loves your wife/s and kids
She is still young this one,she thinks that she has all the time in the world😢😢😢😢
I respect Adelaide (sp) for being so open about this, it’s happening worldwide, whether we like /accept it or not.
Truthfully, it's been happening for as long as our grandparents were alive. Its just that our grandmothers were rather secretive about the dynamics of married life
Let us judge positively. Adelaide Thank you for being authentic, ur Boldness n Honesty. Good advise and affirming to HQ dat "they will 4ever occupy that seat in parliament.
HQ shud know Side Chicks comes in levels, Promise please bring the" other level of side chick(Competing, Entitle, Wrecker type) n in both Males n Females. This is Not spoken about among society and it's happening. HQ should know that "Thz Maparas" becomes greedy!!
Those braids are popping. ❤❤❤
Very beautiful
The joke is on her. Married men are chowing her time and youth.
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My dad used to say “when I am making advances to someone and they mention my wife or kids “🤮🤮
😂😂like the nerve the dad has😅😅
Trash of a father. 🚮
..... but when we say don't make every interview about you ba re are wrong
Makes sense why she stands for not leaving marriage for a side chick ...looks like a normal thing ...but I'm honestly not judging her reasons 😊
@@kefentsemamabolo5520 makes sense . I get where she is coming from. Mom endured , therefore it is now normalised.
Not the side chick giving married woman advise 😂😂😂😂 initiatiate😂😂😂
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I am not married but I must say 28 years she's still young, eventually she will want to settle down and definitely she will taste her own medicine. They start like that then later on they use muthi on poor wives... Indeed we live in a sick world!!
she will be crying blood screaming ma2010 showing her hell 10 years from now
You are not lying yaz
Ke yona cycle of life mapara will do what mapara want to do. This is the wild, adapt or die…the girlies are adapting
You can lie to Promise, lie to the viewers and lie to yourself but you cannot lie to your conscience.
Deep down you know that what you are doing is not normal
Its now a norm meiskat😅
aee ska jaja
I wonder if he's seeing other girls besides her.
@@JoyCharmain I see that
It's also not norm to married men, so this life is not norm then 😅😅😅😅😅
It's all fun,game and exciting until it backfires . We have seen a lot of people menstruating non stop because of man that belong to other people or that are being fought for. Unfortunately when its that bad she won't be this excited to tell the story. When I see such I remember uthando noxolo episode of a lady that was also from hammankraal who bled to death because the boyfriend decided to have outside relationship and the woman showed that lady flames
She doesn't have a conscience or she's broken.
@@nette2144I think she does have somewhat of a conscience my guess is that she’s broken. Like she admitted at first that she was in a relationship that made her insecure. If she knows that she can’t build a home on another woman’s tears then there’s hope that there’s a little bit of conscience left. Let’s just hope she grows and heals her insecurities so she can be normal again ❤
Human beings are not property,they belong to no one🤣🤣This is why men won’t stop cheating guys,you’re enablers
@matanato01 that's why there is or being fought for. I don't excuse man for cheating at all I just say that sometimes one will be in a relationship with a man that has someone else who will do you bad. People use things to make others suffer it does happen. So we can't intentionally go for people that are married and be proud of that because we say they are not properties they don't belong to no one. Married man belong to their families until they get out even if they can be dated by the whole world
Why is this lady saying ausi promise promise ele age mate yagae???shes 28 promise is 30