Promise wena i love you shem. You can interview! Its a conversation that flows and you ask great follow up questions. There's no podcast like this one! I pray God grows your platform and continues to bless you
I wish she would let the guest tell her own story and stop feeding her of event she wants them to talk about. The story about he guy selling staff in the house etc. Allow the guest to tell us the events of their story
I agree, why am I not blaming and dealing with the person who also call sthandwa sakhe, the person I cuddle with every night sharing our vision, our dreams and our plans.
A sidechick who knowingly dates a married man is also to be blamed. The sad part about it is that it never ends well for the sidechic aswell. As a married woman, I support sidechicks, seeing them get turned into single mothers , being lied to or without a happy ending they have been longing for is just SATISFYING! I dealt with one before and I made it clear to her that I stand with her and support her, however I am not leaving what Ive built just because my man wanted her in bed. Thats where she belongs, end of story. No sidechic wants to be a sidechick forever, remember youre ageing and a woman loses her value with age. Men want younger women EVERYDAY! If you want to be a wife some day, act like one, that way youll attract a potential husband who will take you seriously.
If we're being honest Lethabo never blamed the side chick for anything..she spoke about the husband's actions...promise is the one projecting that the side chick broke Lethabo's marriage
Once again, HER HUSBAND is the one who destroyed HER marriage. Even with using muthi, the sidechick would've never had the opportunity to use it on him if he didn't step out on his marriage. Respect to her for loving herself & her kids enough to not bekezela.
Little knowledge but who knows. These chicks use Muthi to attract rich men. So if you don't have a backbone too bad for u. So it's both sides to blame.
Yo Promise,this is the “over promise and under deliver they speak of in job interviews 😢.You robbed your audience of an interesting story.Almost an hour and we still don’t know what happened in their marriage,how the side chick ruined it,what was her last straw,etc. You didn’t give her a chance to take us through it because you know the story.If you can, please watch this interview from a viewer’s perspective maybe you will see what I mean,your familiarity with the guest ruined it. Maybe you shouldn’t interview people you know personally
Yah, in some parts she kept interjecting and not allowing the guest to fully explain the story for us to understand. She needs to reevaluate the way she interviews her guests
I concur, the host left out many pieces of the puzzle of this story because she constantly felt a need to contribute what she knows distracting the trail of thoughts of the guest.
I am halfway through and I wish you can give your guest chance to really take us through their story without interfering. The fact that you know the story makes you to interfere and this deny us the opportunity to really hear the story in details from beginning to end. I hope you consider the advise.
@@triciakekana yes when she start explaining she interapt her and started her vision of what she told her then, we don't want her to tell it that is not her story let the owner do that without interfering please assomblief.!
She talks openly about it , no anger ,not even defensive as though she is narrating a story from a novel . This can only be God’s grace . What a queen ❤
Men always think we sre nothing without thém. When they see u happy after leaving , they want u back. Not bcos they still love u but bcos they want to finish u .
When will women understand that no one outside their marriage can end it but their own husband? 😂😂 men choose, through actions where they want to be. However the sting of rejection that the man you chose is choosing someone else right in front of your eyes and is actually willing to ruin your marriage for this person is too hard to be. So it’s easier to blame the other woman. Hold men accountable hle!!
This interview is kinda hard to follow because the host knows the story and she was leading and interfering throughout, yes I know an interviewer leads the conversation but its different when you interview your friend and you know the ins and outs of the story. A point for next time i guess. And once again, the muthi side chick wouldnt have gotten a chance to use muthi if hubby didn't step out of his own marriage. In the words of tiktok, he fucked around and found out. Well done to her for leaving, cause he was out there collecting spirits and diseases so she wasn't safe. Knowing your worth is important.
Promise, you handled this one like a conversation between friends who share inside jokes and secrets. Maybe it’s not a good idea for you to interview your close friends cause we got nothing here 💔
Promise you need to stop talking about your marriage when interviewing other people we already know about your husband and you shifting the focus now other wise everything else is dope keep it up cc ❤
Really yoh! The story was all over. She was supposed to write down her question and let her narrate how it happened in sequence. Not be there and there
Women here busy saying it's not the slay queen fault, the way people love looking smart. This woman's story has little to do with side chick, but the tittle was click bait coz creaters are smart enough to know that we will be triggered, so my question is, y are you triggered by this title?😂😂😂 Fear Women!!!
Women are going thru a lot, and as men, we gamble with the lives of our close family. This thing needs to be adressed urgently, otherwise our children are doomed.😭😭😭
Aowa Mommy, It should be “ must Venda men that I came across sleeps around “ stop generalising.. And also bear in mind that MEN will always humble themselves before a women that they truly LOVE.
Side-chick really love defending themselves in the comments. Y'all are low-key saying "I didn't go to him he came to me" nisile!!! I'm glad she left him
This is the reason I will never ever depend on a man! I'm married but I will forever have my own back because unfortunately humans are humans and they change.
This story had great potential. The lady seems to have a story that would motivate others who've gone or are going through what she went through, BUT it was so hard to follow because there was no beginning, middle and end. As viewers, we never got to truly get into it because you'd jump from 1 time line to another and you'd share inside jokes, leaving us blank.
I’m almost 15mins in and soo lost. 😂 So I searched the comments to see if anyone else seemed to think it was inconsistent (so that I can stop wasting my time watching it.) You have confirmed it for me so thank you!
I agree with you. It seems like a tea party conversation between two friends. Promise must must allow her to share her story without explaining what she knows.
Please do another interview because she didn't explain how she found out the man was cheating and how the side chick ended her marriage. We want details .
This is very touching and I just love Lethabo .This guy lost a good woman .Healing looks good on her you can tell shes not bitter and in a good space .
I think you should include subtitles for English speaking viewers because most times guests are comfortable and express themselves better in their own language.
What kind of episode is this? We didn’t or should I say I, it was hard to follow up. Next time please let the guest tell their own story though you know the story
This was supposed to be a catch up in their own private space because mogirl didn’t really share with us how an Instagram slay queen ended her marriage 🙄🙄.
I don’t know this graceful lady Lethabo but she’s all types of good vibes. Promise I do not have anything against your channel, hence I’m still here every now and then watching. Having said that though. I feel like you used a whole lot of click bait captions for her video pushing and projecting the side chick narrative for this one. For me personally watching what you calls a podcast episode for me this was more on umgosi. It is in how you lead the conversation with what Lethabo shared with you in confidant. Granted she agreed to come on your channel however I felt like you could have granted her the opportunity to speak from her own trauma that this man caused her rather than you leading by the screenshot that Lethabo sent you and how you saw nothing wrong to comment about Lethabo not sending you the screenshot from the moving situation that a gardener called her about. I think that was a moment to let her speak, to ask if she wants to take a moment; to affirm her instead of giggles and laughs. Granted that Lethabo laughed too, which could be her trauma response to the trauma caused by the guy. I feel like this could have been labelled as “Chats with my friends about her divorce” or something along those lines. Then you could have led all you want and remind her of screenshots and all other info you got wrong and Lethabo had to correct her ie the other girl not having an apartment ect. Lastly asking someone that took their time to open up about their trauma to speak English in the middle of speaking about her failed marriage journey, was disrespectful. Understanding that you wanted viewers to understand thus increasing views then you could have done the job of adding subtitles. Also the comment about Lethabo renovating the parents house with the guys money. Haibo😢! I don’t know how many time Lethabo mentioned that she’s working and looks like someone that is independent when has to be. The subtle comment of renovation ngemali yomfana gave me a Haibo promise nqandeka! Thank you for introducing us to the amazing graceful Lethabo. I sure will go follow her in Instagram and Tiktok 🌸 On a side note : this was a true reflection of not anyone you meet and open up to on social media is your friend. You did Lethabo dirty here, I hope that you see it from a perspective of not being judged but from a point of learning and taking viewers feedback and implement.
I thoroughly enjoyed this. I had the same thing with the side chick using muthi. What I like about muthi is that it finishes because we serve a God that's greater than that.
I was looking forward to the interview,i am disappointed because sounded like two friends catching up knowing the details of what happened in the marriage. I was hoping to hear all it started in detail and how she got where she is today. Thanks for the video.
To the woman who choose herself and her peace🙌 to the people who defend side chicks even though the Bible holds her and the husband equally accountable🚩🚩... If people didn't help married people cheat they wouldn't be catching bullets, whoever is holding the gun can shoot who she wants.
I couldn't get myself to watch this podcast until today cause as a Pitori hun, I know this womans ex (not personally) as he's friends with my cousins' husband - I was even shocked to find out he's married. Banna lona!! They're not worth it. Nothing worse than not being able to get ahold of your man thinking he's dead or had a car accident khanthe he's deep inside some lipipitlwane la go tlhoka matric at a guest house. I pray for her healing ❤
You know that feeling when you're in the presence of close friends and they are having a conversation and sharing inside jokes and only let you in every now and then. That's exactly how I felt the entire interview. I got nothing of how the side chick ruined her marriage. The only thing said on the subject was muti exists. Unless I missed something
Why is there no structure on this interview damn!!!! You touch this u touch that we are left dizzy at this point. My advise let a person tell their story in a narrative manner clearly interviewing ain’t working for you 🎉
Honestly disliked how Promise would not give Lethabo a fair chance to speak, at some point Lethabo kept saying "listen". Promise would even try complete some sentences thinking she knows everything, only to be corrected. This conversation was really meant to be beneficial to the next woman because Lethabo really did well by speaking on such issues, encouraging women on how to put themselves and their kids first.
She cries because she spoke about her Mom and how her Mom felt . I was going to cry too, once I recall how my Mom felt. I love every one who loves her Mom. Lethabo I love you to the moon and back. I am also crying because you remind me of what I went through with my Mom. Our parents love us more. What we go through hurts them most. Lethabo, ❤❤❤❤❤
Seeing this podcast for the 1st time. Lethabo is very matured 👌🏽the little I know of her based on this podcast. This podcast is so relatable you really took us into the vulnerable space of divorce you should have shot this podcast in your onzees and pj's with hot chocolate ko mpetong this is pillow talk for real❤❤❤❤❤.
Promise, please tell the camera man to stop zooming in and out of faces like that, it becomes distracting. He should just do the zoom out technique that other podcasters do😭😭😭😭…No need for cinematic drama.
The title does not do the content justice. This was such a beautiful conversation at the heart of it was a story of a woman who survived betrayal. Thats the thing with betrayl, its shocks you to the core. Its like you wakeup and your entire life was a lie and you have no choice but to through it❤ I really enjoyed the interview.
Thank you for a great episode. The guest is beautiful and deserves all the best.God will deal with ex and the slay queen.Lets pray for our marriages before we get in.Pray for confirmation before saying yes.Some men are the devils spawns who just come to destroy and waste time.
..the issue is, women "rush" to get into marriages with people they haven't had enough time to learn and truly know the core of who they are.With a lot of black south african women, the end 'golden' goal is being married, the rest they prefer to worry about once already inside 🤷🏾♀️ ...and then you get "shocked" by a person's real persona ..🤦🏾♀️
One of the things that are difficult to comprehend is the depth of hurt that men can cause, and then we say they are bewitched. But to truly understand, we must take into consideration the lack of basic life skills, poor spiritual foundation and traumas that contribute to who they are. We tend to judge the strength of a man by how much they can amass and provide, kanti they are hollow at the core. Marriage and parenting put all of us through the toughest tests of our lives, and when they find one without solid foundation, they can wreak havoc and drive you to total destruction. Sometimes, men do what they do because they are in despair, and have no idea how to do life as it presents itself. Not even the money they have can afford them the tools they need to thrive.
Its so sad when a woman hurts another woman forgetting that the same pain another woman afflicted with will be the return 10 fold . God always vindicates his children 🎉
Woman, pray for your marriages. Lena you become too relaxed the minute you get that ring on your finger. Yaaaaaaayyyyy, kunzima.Well, the interview is all over the place, its like 2 people who knows each other chilling ko restaurant and don't care weather we follow or what. 😅😅😅.Huuuuuuuuuwiiiiii
@@ntabyMsoo I thought I mean like is it my marriage or our marriage.. Yho banna ba tlo re bolaya Shem! let’s just pray for a good health and more money period! Men will settle with whoever they want
Dear Women, accept your patner's charachter for what it is. Stop shifting the blame for their actions to other people. Stop aking excuses for these men & justify their actions with situations, etc. Believe a person for who & what they are!
@@lilybeans6969 I don't know. I didn't watch the video because of the title. But I commented because husbands love being unfaithful and blaming everyone but themselves.
Promise wena i love you shem. You can interview! Its a conversation that flows and you ask great follow up questions. There's no podcast like this one! I pray God grows your platform and continues to bless you
I concur!
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I second that leadership
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I wish she would let the guest tell her own story and stop feeding her of event she wants them to talk about. The story about he guy selling staff in the house etc. Allow the guest to tell us the events of their story
The day we stop blaming side chicks for these things is the day we will start dealing with the real problem
I agree, why am I not blaming and dealing with the person who also call sthandwa sakhe, the person I cuddle with every night sharing our vision, our dreams and our plans.
Amen 🙏🏽
Preach sis❤❤
Amen
A sidechick who knowingly dates a married man is also to be blamed.
The sad part about it is that it never ends well for the sidechic aswell.
As a married woman, I support sidechicks, seeing them get turned into single mothers , being lied to or without a happy ending they have been longing for is just SATISFYING!
I dealt with one before and I made it clear to her that I stand with her and support her, however I am not leaving what Ive built just because my man wanted her in bed. Thats where she belongs, end of story.
No sidechic wants to be a sidechick forever, remember youre ageing and a woman loses her value with age. Men want younger women EVERYDAY!
If you want to be a wife some day, act like one, that way youll attract a potential husband who will take you seriously.
If we're being honest Lethabo never blamed the side chick for anything..she spoke about the husband's actions...promise is the one projecting that the side chick broke Lethabo's marriage
She didn't blame anyone, she just pointed out marital issues which resulted in her getting a divorce.
Hay that’s what i heard also🥴 she never blamed anyone
The interviewer click baiting the title...
Then, the title does not match the video. I started listening, but I stopped.
Who is the side chick?
Once again, HER HUSBAND is the one who destroyed HER marriage.
Even with using muthi, the sidechick would've never had the opportunity to use it on him if he didn't step out on his marriage.
Respect to her for loving herself & her kids enough to not bekezela.
I respect her for walking away
It's depends
@@bongythwala9840 depends on what?
Little knowledge but who knows. These chicks use Muthi to attract rich men. So if you don't have a backbone too bad for u. So it's both sides to blame.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
It is 2023 and we still don't hold men accountable for their actions, lol
Right😂
Women have the full control to deny a man
Why vele? When are we holding men accountable?
My thoughts exactly!
Sad hey!! It can never be them.
I just love how Lethabo is laughing , a sign that she has truly healed ❤
True
Yo Promise,this is the “over promise and under deliver they speak of in job interviews 😢.You robbed your audience of an interesting story.Almost an hour and we still don’t know what happened in their marriage,how the side chick ruined it,what was her last straw,etc. You didn’t give her a chance to take us through it because you know the story.If you can, please watch this interview from a viewer’s perspective maybe you will see what I mean,your familiarity with the guest ruined it. Maybe you shouldn’t interview people you know personally
Yah, in some parts she kept interjecting and not allowing the guest to fully explain the story for us to understand. She needs to reevaluate the way she interviews her guests
@@simplytinkyyyI hope she does,this would have been a great and relatable story
I concur, the host left out many pieces of the puzzle of this story because she constantly felt a need to contribute what she knows distracting the trail of thoughts of the guest.
I was so annoyed by her constant interjections, she literally took over Lathabo's story and made it hers. She needs to do better next.
At 1st I was annoyed but gave up coz hai usisi ishow eyakhe
I am halfway through and I wish you can give your guest chance to really take us through their story without interfering. The fact that you know the story makes you to interfere and this deny us the opportunity to really hear the story in details from beginning to end. I hope you consider the advise.
Yeah hey, the lady talks half way through she can't even finish a story that she starts ai
It's annoying honestly
@@triciakekana yes when she start explaining she interapt her and started her vision of what she told her then, we don't want her to tell it that is not her story let the owner do that without interfering please assomblief.!
This is very true. Because you can't really get the thing in the story.
Let the guest take us through
Promise isn't a good interviewer... all interviews she cinducts are just sloppy
For a first time seeing a woman completely healed after dovorse, the happiness is all over her face, i love it for you
But it is her second marriage. Could it be that she is also hiding something about her? Divorcing twice by different men 😢 24:51
Maybe she is co-dependent. Attracts narcissists.
She has not healed you tripping 😅
This is a very touching and sad story yet the lady somehow still finds some humor in it and thats beautiful... Its a sign of healing and acceptance❤️
My sentiments exactly. She's well on her way to healing and that's a good thing for her. 🕯🙏🏽♥️🤞🏽
She talks openly about it , no anger ,not even defensive as though she is narrating a story from a novel . This can only be God’s grace . What a queen ❤
Nothing is sad here, she marries the guy for money so why cry like she loved him
Men will embarrass you😩😩 she seems like a lovey lady she didn’t
deserve this
He was no asking for forgiveness, he saw she is healed and wanted to take her back to misery.
True, there was no need for him to tell her all those things🤷🏽♀️ they’ve separated mos!
true
You couldn't have said it better!❤❤❤
Offcourse! Evil
Men always think we sre nothing without thém. When they see u happy after leaving , they want u back. Not bcos they still love u but bcos they want to finish u .
When will women understand that no one outside their marriage can end it but their own husband? 😂😂 men choose, through actions where they want to be. However the sting of rejection that the man you chose is choosing someone else right in front of your eyes and is actually willing to ruin your marriage for this person is too hard to be. So it’s easier to blame the other woman. Hold men accountable hle!!
I hear you sis❤
Exactly hle
I am married and agree with you 100% its a he issue.
Exactly what I thought when i saw the topic. We must also learn to fear men
Not even one person coming with the side chick name kanti 😮
HOW MY HUSBAND ENDED MY MARRIAGE!
Thank you 🙏🏽
Thank you!
Yes exactly 💯
Simple
Thank you not this rubbish of a headline
Promise keeps interrupting this lady😢
O maaka tlhe
This interview is kinda hard to follow because the host knows the story and she was leading and interfering throughout, yes I know an interviewer leads the conversation but its different when you interview your friend and you know the ins and outs of the story. A point for next time i guess.
And once again, the muthi side chick wouldnt have gotten a chance to use muthi if hubby didn't step out of his own marriage. In the words of tiktok, he fucked around and found out. Well done to her for leaving, cause he was out there collecting spirits and diseases so she wasn't safe. Knowing your worth is important.
Exactly! She was supposed to interview her as someone who doesn't know anything so she can accommodate us who doesn't know the story.......
I just wrote the same b4 i saw your comment. Happy someone also noticed it
I'm so confused. She should let the interviewee speak for heavens sake. I can't follow the story even!
This is not an interview at all, it's 2 friends chatting 😮😮, this was a poor move!!!
The fact that the gardener had her back speaks volumes about her character.
...what a wonderful guest. Wow
Promise, you handled this one like a conversation between friends who share inside jokes and secrets. Maybe it’s not a good idea for you to interview your close friends cause we got nothing here 💔
True!
Yeah, I didn't feel anything here.
That's how I felt too
Exactly
I came here looking for this comment. I give this interview 0 out of 10 👎🏽
Promise you need to stop talking about your marriage when interviewing other people we already know about your husband and you shifting the focus now other wise everything else is dope keep it up cc ❤
Promise should learn to let the person tell thier story how they experienced it, instead of trying to show us how much she knows.
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Really yoh! The story was all over. She was supposed to write down her question and let her narrate how it happened in sequence. Not be there and there
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Eish… and she has amazing guests who share extraordinary stories. Such a bore actually
Right title
Women here busy saying it's not the slay queen fault, the way people love looking smart. This woman's story has little to do with side chick, but the tittle was click bait coz creaters are smart enough to know that we will be triggered, so my question is, y are you triggered by this title?😂😂😂 Fear Women!!!
Amen
Exactly
Thank you, why are they hurt?😂😂😂
Definitely not clickbait😭😂 Promise believes that side chicks are always wrong and never wants to hold the men accountable for their actions.
@@Life-b01 If it wasn't then why did they not talk about the sidechick more?
Women are going thru a lot, and as men, we gamble with the lives of our close family. This thing needs to be adressed urgently, otherwise our children are doomed.😭😭😭
Lool i laughed with them when they mentioned he started selling things 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Venda men with money sleep around there's no muti here especially those who grew up struggling
Aowa Mommy, It should be “ must Venda men that I came across sleeps around “ stop generalising..
And also bear in mind that MEN will always humble themselves before a women that they truly LOVE.
It's true babes.
You are correct..no lies detected.. even the working class on very Middle class salaries
So according to your logic ,it's only rich venda men who cheat in SA 😂😂😂😂😂.
Most Rich men are abusive and cheat because they want to do it
its true, they grow up with a low self esteem and constantly being looked down at...then when they get money they become players.
53 minutes ka moka, ke gore I don’t understand gabotse botse lere what happened to this lady’s marriage 😂😂
Bad idea to interview someone when u already know the full story..you will not ask relevant questions 😢😢
Side-chick really love defending themselves in the comments. Y'all are low-key saying "I didn't go to him he came to me" nisile!!!
I'm glad she left him
They’re up in arms forgetting they’re also to blame 🙄
It's tiring
He came to you married, and you still dated him.And they think that it gives them a right to use muti and separate the couple.Sidechick tsa satana
Right? But its funny until they get married and get cheated on
Shame Basile please!!!
I like what her dad said to her about coming home.
This is the reason I will never ever depend on a man! I'm married but I will forever have my own back because unfortunately humans are humans and they change.
I love Lethabo's authenticity and transparency!
it felt like we are eaves dropping than a proper enterview
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This story had great potential. The lady seems to have a story that would motivate others who've gone or are going through what she went through, BUT it was so hard to follow because there was no beginning, middle and end.
As viewers, we never got to truly get into it because you'd jump from 1 time line to another and you'd share inside jokes, leaving us blank.
I’m almost 15mins in and soo lost. 😂 So I searched the comments to see if anyone else seemed to think it was inconsistent (so that I can stop wasting my time watching it.) You have confirmed it for me so thank you!
I agree with you. It seems like a tea party conversation between two friends. Promise must must allow her to share her story without explaining what she knows.
I agree with you. Even not seeing the point of this episode.
I couldn't finish the interview. . . I think she must invite her again and this time let her share the story without any interruptions.
I have to agree with you , I love a conversational style of an interview but interviewers must keep the 3rd party (us) engaged.
Already the interviewer knows everything about the guest and she took over and told us the story. Give the guest to tall their own story
Please do another interview because she didn't explain how she found out the man was cheating and how the side chick ended her marriage. We want details .
This is very touching and I just love Lethabo .This guy lost a good woman .Healing looks good on her you can tell shes not bitter and in a good space .
God restores Tee ! She looks really good
I think you should include subtitles for English speaking viewers because most times guests are comfortable and express themselves better in their own language.
UA-cam has subtitle options. Go to "settings," and you'll see which language you prefer to read.
She is not materialistic that's why she left ...babangwe banyaka di Gucci le di LV gore monna wetsang they don't care 🤦♀️
This is true and very sad, a lot of women wouldn’t leave because of money
Left my stupid ex for treating me like a slay queen.
@@nantuli266 Was he buying your love?
What kind of episode is this? We didn’t or should I say I, it was hard to follow up. Next time please let the guest tell their own story though you know the story
This was supposed to be a catch up in their own private space because mogirl didn’t really share with us how an Instagram slay queen ended her marriage 🙄🙄.
It's a click bait.
@@missymakhoba2499 Yeah definitely
Im disappointed there is no hint about the slayqueen name
That’s why I watched in the first place but yoooh they just kept on reminding each other as if they catching up
I don’t know this graceful lady Lethabo but she’s all types of good vibes.
Promise I do not have anything against your channel, hence I’m still here every now and then watching. Having said that though. I feel like you used a whole lot of click bait captions for her video pushing and projecting the side chick narrative for this one.
For me personally watching what you calls a podcast episode for me this was more on umgosi.
It is in how you lead the conversation with what Lethabo shared with you in confidant. Granted she agreed to come on your channel however I felt like you could have granted her the opportunity to speak from her own trauma that this man caused her rather than you leading by the screenshot that Lethabo sent you and how you saw nothing wrong to comment about Lethabo not sending you the screenshot from the moving situation that a gardener called her about. I think that was a moment to let her speak, to ask if she wants to take a moment; to affirm her instead of giggles and laughs. Granted that Lethabo laughed too, which could be her trauma response to the trauma caused by the guy.
I feel like this could have been labelled as “Chats with my friends about her divorce” or something along those lines. Then you could have led all you want and remind her of screenshots and all other info you got wrong and Lethabo had to correct her ie the other girl not having an apartment ect.
Lastly asking someone that took their time to open up about their trauma to speak English in the middle of speaking about her failed marriage journey, was disrespectful. Understanding that you wanted viewers to understand thus increasing views then you could have done the job of adding subtitles. Also the comment about Lethabo renovating the parents house with the guys money. Haibo😢! I don’t know how many time Lethabo mentioned that she’s working and looks like someone that is independent when has to be. The subtle comment of renovation ngemali yomfana gave me a Haibo promise nqandeka!
Thank you for introducing us to the amazing graceful Lethabo. I sure will go follow her in Instagram and Tiktok 🌸
On a side note : this was a true reflection of not anyone you meet and open up to on social media is your friend. You did Lethabo dirty here, I hope that you see it from a perspective of not being judged but from a point of learning and taking viewers feedback and implement.
Can I really say this, even though I don't know you.. I loved your honest contribution in this regard. This is how we learn and grow
😮😮😮😢 men ne😮😮😮
When we date them married n never think of such ruins. Children's stability n the wife's heartbreak
Single women take heed😢
Say that again Tebo
I thoroughly enjoyed this. I had the same thing with the side chick using muthi. What I like about muthi is that it finishes because we serve a God that's greater than that.
She has healed may God give her more peace
what I learnt is in life always have your career and back up in case things go hay wire NO MATTER HOW PERFECT THE LOVE IS....
One thing about this lady, she is matured. She sure knows what she want and is not hiding her feelings ❤️
I was looking forward to the interview,i am disappointed because sounded like two friends catching up knowing the details of what happened in the marriage.
I was hoping to hear all it started in detail and how she got where she is today. Thanks for the video.
Pro next time you interview a friend or you know the story, act like you donot know. Just ask questions and not get too much into a conversation.
To the woman who choose herself and her peace🙌 to the people who defend side chicks even though the Bible holds her and the husband equally accountable🚩🚩... If people didn't help married people cheat they wouldn't be catching bullets, whoever is holding the gun can shoot who she wants.
I couldn't get myself to watch this podcast until today cause as a Pitori hun, I know this womans ex (not personally) as he's friends with my cousins' husband - I was even shocked to find out he's married. Banna lona!! They're not worth it.
Nothing worse than not being able to get ahold of your man thinking he's dead or had a car accident khanthe he's deep inside some lipipitlwane la go tlhoka matric at a guest house. I pray for her healing ❤
You know that feeling when you're in the presence of close friends and they are having a conversation and sharing inside jokes and only let you in every now and then. That's exactly how I felt the entire interview. I got nothing of how the side chick ruined her marriage. The only thing said on the subject was muti exists. Unless I missed something
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My sentiments exactly, the negative side of this interview, the laughing through out the interview and leaving us out..
You’re right 😣😣😣
At some point I felt she was revealing things Lethabo was not ready to talk about. A be are wena you know too much!
Lethabo never blamed the side chick. The title is just click bait. This chat of females blaming the side is irrelevant. niyakhataza shame✋🏾
Why is there no structure on this interview damn!!!! You touch this u touch that we are left dizzy at this point. My advise let a person tell their story in a narrative manner clearly interviewing ain’t working for you 🎉
The ex wife laughing is everything 😂 life sometimes is something else
My ex left when I was 1 month pregnant and my daughter is almost 4 so I could relate with a lot of what was said here.Peace and love to you sisi❤
She is very hurt and she loved him dearly.
Honestly disliked how Promise would not give Lethabo a fair chance to speak, at some point Lethabo kept saying "listen". Promise would even try complete some sentences thinking she knows everything, only to be corrected. This conversation was really meant to be beneficial to the next woman because Lethabo really did well by speaking on such issues, encouraging women on how to put themselves and their kids first.
When she said ka chelete ya monna I really felt like she doesn't care about lethabos feelings she's actually inconsiderate ai
I agree, the host literally took over hey.
And she kept on laughing unnecessarily .
How my unfaithful husband ended our marriage …
Satan hates marriage. He does and he won’t stop attacking families 💔
So very true 💔💔💔
She cries because she spoke about her Mom and how her Mom felt . I was going to cry too, once I recall how my Mom felt. I love every one who loves her Mom. Lethabo I love you to the moon and back. I am also crying because you remind me of what I went through with my Mom. Our parents love us more. What we go through hurts them most. Lethabo, ❤❤❤❤❤
She is blessed. Other mums are not as supportive
Other people are contributing factors but the cause was the HUSBAND.
She is not broken because the guy is broke now...if the guy was still rich yhooooo...the host is lovely.....so is the guest...so bubbly...
I'm so in love with Lethabo❤ such a strong and beautiful woman
I am low-key side eying this Chomie Chomie .
Why
Seeing this podcast for the 1st time. Lethabo is very matured 👌🏽the little I know of her based on this podcast. This podcast is so relatable you really took us into the vulnerable space of divorce you should have shot this podcast in your onzees and pj's with hot chocolate ko mpetong this is pillow talk for real❤❤❤❤❤.
Really being a side chick knowing you are hurting another wiman is a curse, for both the husband and the chick
Can we have men on shows to talk about such😮 want to hear their side.
They're gona get back together..
Lol it’s not a slay queen it’s her husband, he wasn’t forced hhhaw.
Women never hold men accountable for their actions 🙄
@@khensanebaloyi6835😢 the way hate each other
Both of them are wrong side chick iwrong so does the man
This should have been titled, or rather, she should just say, "How my husband ended our marriage"
ONe thing about Promise ke, she will FEEL with you!!!
it was not an interview u were just chatting with ur friend
Like friends chilling ko funeral after tears yooooo😅😅😅😅😅
Yhoo katla ka bhorega because at this am not understanding anything 😂
Yoh but Lethabo is BEAUTIFUL ❤
Promise, please tell the camera man to stop zooming in and out of faces like that, it becomes distracting. He should just do the zoom out technique that other podcasters do😭😭😭😭…No need for cinematic drama.
Guys who’s the husband? Yho!😮
Am sure if we go to Nicho’s gallery and look for a short man we will find him🙈
@@Reset_With_Louisa😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅😅😅
@@Reset_With_Louisa 😂😂😂😂
Sending you so much love Lavish! May God heal your heart completely!!!
The title does not do the content justice. This was such a beautiful conversation at the heart of it was a story of a woman who survived betrayal. Thats the thing with betrayl, its shocks you to the core. Its like you wakeup and your entire life was a lie and you have no choice but to through it❤
I really enjoyed the interview.
Thank you for a great episode. The guest is beautiful and deserves all the best.God will deal with ex and the slay queen.Lets pray for our marriages before we get in.Pray for confirmation before saying yes.Some men are the devils spawns who just come to destroy and waste time.
Truth❤
What's the name of the slayqueen😅
Doro
@@ketie_ shuuu 😭 for some reason i thot they were talking about a young young person
..the issue is, women "rush" to get into marriages with people they haven't had enough time to learn and truly know the core of who they are.With a lot of black south african women, the end 'golden' goal is being married, the rest they prefer to worry about once already inside 🤷🏾♀️
...and then you get "shocked" by a person's real persona ..🤦🏾♀️
Lethabo is such a beautiful woman, she carries a very powerful aura 😊😊😊😊
This is the greatest Podcast episode i have ever seen!!! The Way Lethabo speaks, it's FANCY, and i mean, the combination of Pedi and English!!!
Thank you Mrs Law for nice content🔥
Exactly the same thing happened to me. I thought I was the only woman who went through this. I'm now reliving the experience. It hurts.
😂😂😂Worse when she loya you even after you've given her the same man.. i blame these men totally
I just loke the way she narrate her story she is laughing now and i know by then it was a sad situation men they humble you😅😅
I still don’t know HOW the slay queen ended the marriage!!!!
One of the things that are difficult to comprehend is the depth of hurt that men can cause, and then we say they are bewitched. But to truly understand, we must take into consideration the lack of basic life skills, poor spiritual foundation and traumas that contribute to who they are. We tend to judge the strength of a man by how much they can amass and provide, kanti they are hollow at the core. Marriage and parenting put all of us through the toughest tests of our lives, and when they find one without solid foundation, they can wreak havoc and drive you to total destruction. Sometimes, men do what they do because they are in despair, and have no idea how to do life as it presents itself. Not even the money they have can afford them the tools they need to thrive.
Hallelujah! Amen. You said it all. ❤❤❤
very true, the only solution is to reparent themselves
The laughter is hiding so much pain
so vele theres people who still believe rich men are loyal in 2023??
😂 I mean
broke men aren't loyal either.
Couldn’t finish this 💔 Promise didn’t allow Letha to tell HER own story
Its so sad when a woman hurts another woman forgetting that the same pain another woman afflicted with will be the return 10 fold . God always vindicates his children 🎉
It's so disappointing... you're not giving her a chance to tell her story... it's as if you're catching up and we're left out in the cold
3rd wheel vibes🤣😂
Yes....she should let her tell us a story it is a real story to learn from but she is not giving her time
I hope she read your comment and learn from to not do this again 😢
Good conversation, but for the sake of us who are not South Africans, kindly have subtitles for us to understand..❤😀
Woman, pray for your marriages. Lena you become too relaxed the minute you get that ring on your finger. Yaaaaaaayyyyy, kunzima.Well, the interview is all over the place, its like 2 people who knows each other chilling ko restaurant and don't care weather we follow or what. 😅😅😅.Huuuuuuuuuwiiiiii
Why should the woman be the only one praying for the marriage? Just curious.
@@ntabyMsoo I thought I mean like is it my marriage or our marriage..
Yho banna ba tlo re bolaya Shem! let’s just pray for a good health and more money period! Men will settle with whoever they want
You got it all wrong my dear, same as praying for a healthy working environment, praying for your children. This is a supportive practice..
U gonna pray till Christ comes lala😂😂😂😂
I'm glad Promise can laugh about it today
Healing ne
Sending Lethabo so much love....what a beautiful woman
Dear Women, accept your patner's charachter for what it is. Stop shifting the blame for their actions to other people. Stop aking excuses for these men & justify their actions with situations, etc. Believe a person for who & what they are!
So proud of Lethabo...fly high beautiful Queen....and you are glowing 🎉
Ya ke mmone fela Promise
Bopila bo. Sosha n pedi ❤
The slay queen didn't end the marriage, her husband did. We must stop trying to blame others for our problems.
u are a slay queen
Okay.
Who was the slay queen
@@lilybeans6969 I don't know. I didn't watch the video because of the title. But I commented because husbands love being unfaithful and blaming everyone but themselves.
Today is 18 October 2023 and now til 28 November they will get back together, Loving each other more .