How I lost my Marriage!

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  • @najjembabarbra23
    @najjembabarbra23 7 місяців тому +85

    I think Bahat can sit down Daniella koz we need to hear her story like this..

  • @elishadamba6583
    @elishadamba6583 7 місяців тому +88

    If there's one thing satan does not love, is marriage. If you have chance to have the gift. hold on to it.

  • @nagawajustine787
    @nagawajustine787 7 місяців тому +23

    You can see how she is trying to hold that pain inside it was really hard for her I can feel her. Thanks for bringing her

  • @rachelakatusiime7794
    @rachelakatusiime7794 7 місяців тому +126

    Carol actually styled my hair and did my makeup for my wedding in 2017. I didnt wven have a clue of what she was experiencing. Hugs dear Carol

    • @lydiaamwesiga1837
      @lydiaamwesiga1837 5 місяців тому +2

      In that situation one always needs that one person to understand them, give them shoulder . glad to hear this testimony

  • @Pauline12365
    @Pauline12365 7 місяців тому +17

    As she speaks I can empathize with her. I recall how I thought of Yeshua what he went through and how he still loves us. The challenge as a believer is to strive to be like Him but the journey is rough! What I love about the bible is that it tells us how the ones who lead us in this blessed journey struggled. We are all redeemable. The challenge is to strive to be like him, it is not perfection but earnestly seeking God. Thank you for sharing. I feel encouraged.

  • @ShalomKamya
    @ShalomKamya 7 місяців тому +76

    Whoever has ever passed through a depression understands where she is coming from.
    I’m going to take it upon myself to pray for you sister, the lord will use that testimony to overcome the powers of Darkness.

  • @Twebaze-Joshua
    @Twebaze-Joshua 7 місяців тому +14

    My very first Interview was with Carol Flower on NTV. She is very inspirational. Prayers for you Carol.

  • @444333222shot
    @444333222shot 7 місяців тому +16

    Depression is a very dangerous mental health issue and it attacks and destroys souls in utter silence. Bahati thanks for the programme and I am grateful that Carol shared her story. She is obviously in a better place.

  • @marymaina9626
    @marymaina9626 5 місяців тому +4

    Please put subtitles where you speak kiganda, it's my first time I came a cross the channel and love it, I'm from kenya, thanks

  • @kabaterinealoysius6821
    @kabaterinealoysius6821 7 місяців тому +11

    Women are never given benefit of doubt.But surely it's your life and live it to your potential.

  • @janetilaguha1851
    @janetilaguha1851 7 місяців тому +7

    Carol Flower i wish i would hug you and tell you all will be well. God is a restorer , God will continue fighting for you, God can never be mocked.

  • @lornab
    @lornab 7 місяців тому +15

    Sending much love and hugs your way Carol! May you always keep your head above waters & one foot in front of the other. The scars will heal and you will raise above all this ❤

  • @ojosephsnsereko6321
    @ojosephsnsereko6321 7 місяців тому +5

    My OG, I have been there before and I can understand what you went through. The devil is a liar and uses people to damage us but God is faithful and remains faithful through it all. He eventually vindicates your name.

  • @tukwasikanyeliz3422
    @tukwasikanyeliz3422 7 місяців тому +20

    Just got here and Carol says,in all my dark times I NEVER STOPPED SERVING GOD❤❤❤this is it...

  • @pamelanayiga4704
    @pamelanayiga4704 7 місяців тому +11

    You're so brave Flower, thanks Hilda, for sharing your story....

  • @janeninsiima4883
    @janeninsiima4883 7 місяців тому +3

    Thank God for pulling you through the dark time. Depression is only understood by someone who has experienced it. Seeking help from a therapist is good when no one understands you. Hugs and prayers

  • @CotildaNakyeyune-rj6vh
    @CotildaNakyeyune-rj6vh 7 місяців тому +9

    Sorry to hear what you have gone through. I used to enjoy GXP when I still had time for TV. God bless you Carol.

  • @manenowinfred3117
    @manenowinfred3117 5 місяців тому +2

    The church has so much to learn more especially in the spear of judgement.
    Experience teaches us to be kind.Thanks for sharing

  • @lukomaedith8914
    @lukomaedith8914 7 місяців тому +11

    Don't leave God, leave the people of God. Wow....amazing

  • @nalukwagosuzan
    @nalukwagosuzan 7 місяців тому +49

    How I pray that pastor Kayanja gets to see this and invites Carol Flower just to tell her it is okay. This will give her peace and take away that guilt ❤

    • @arinaitwelydia6448
      @arinaitwelydia6448 7 місяців тому +1

      8

    • @evejuliaug
      @evejuliaug 7 місяців тому +1

      Nobody will ever give you comfort and make u feel ok until u have settled it in your mind. Infact, I stopped looking up to people because u become so dependent on people who are also depending on God.

    • @matabalovincent2422
      @matabalovincent2422 7 місяців тому

      Nga tebigatta

    • @slyviaokougha8210
      @slyviaokougha8210 6 місяців тому +1

      Do you think that pr kayanja doesn't know what is happening to carol????note this once you find your self into such situation, you have to stand alone with your God

    • @nalukwagosuzan
      @nalukwagosuzan 6 місяців тому +1

      Sylvia, whether pastor is aware or not, kindly don’t ignore the fact that he’s her spiritual father from way back when she was young. All strong and powerful people in the Bible had spiritual fathers too so pastor has a divine role as a mentor and shepherd to comfort and help Carol find peace plus forgiveness.
      Even Jesus himself had the 12 disciples who he would talk with and share agony with while on earth, since he’s supernatural he would have been talking to only God in heaven. Moral of the story is, God put people around us so he can reach out to us through them. Talk with them, pray together and you will experience his divine power.
      Pray in silence alone to your God but most times he’s willing to work through the people you’re avoiding. While on earth, you need people, no shortcuts!

  • @kyampeirebernadette5345
    @kyampeirebernadette5345 2 місяці тому

    Thanks for the inspirational shows . Been inspired most times it's the wearer who knows where the shoe punches. Thanks for speaking to my situation. Often we are judged but none can even wear our shoes

  • @mastineliatha4476
    @mastineliatha4476 7 місяців тому +5

    Praying for Carol and Family. May God continue to heal you and Deliver the message of Christ

  • @atugonzajulljoy1662
    @atugonzajulljoy1662 7 місяців тому +12

    Thanks Carol for sharing am inspired

  • @Bekahtsa
    @Bekahtsa 7 місяців тому +8

    What a testimony... thank you Carol.. God bless you

  • @bekaogoro7071
    @bekaogoro7071 7 місяців тому +11

    ❤❤, thank you Carol for sharing your testimony

  • @James-ek5mh
    @James-ek5mh 7 місяців тому +8

    This is encouraging show. Sorry for judging you wrong. However, everything in life happens for good.
    Thank you for coming out to share your story.

  • @judeecebu3624
    @judeecebu3624 7 місяців тому +9

    We must step up as the church. Back to the true love of Christ. I have heard a number of stories like this including Exodus and Jesse. And each time, we have failed them when they needed us the most.

    • @marthalutz2011
      @marthalutz2011 6 місяців тому +2

      How about we learn to look up to Christ other than the church? Even Jesus' disciples were chasing away the sick who sought for healing from Christ. This is not new.
      Focus on the purpose of salvation

  • @tendotendo6784
    @tendotendo6784 7 місяців тому +4

    My prayer is for Carol to reconcile with her husband. She’s said it they both good people and now they’ve both grown, I believe it can work. Please Hilda talk to them both. Marriage is the most attacked ministry but also God’s hand is not shortened that it can not work

    • @darcybirungyi8948
      @darcybirungyi8948 6 місяців тому

      Amen. May the Lord restore your marriage dear Carol. His more than faithful

  • @Mukisawhite6740
    @Mukisawhite6740 7 місяців тому +6

    If Cooper is not remarried i pray you re-unite which pleases GOD. Oh LORD may your will be done. Hugs CAROL

  • @mutesibetty1630
    @mutesibetty1630 7 місяців тому +10

    Thanks so much my mentor woman of substance 🙏🙏🙏🙏😘😘😘😘

  • @ainebryta7126
    @ainebryta7126 7 місяців тому +3

    I pray for restoration upon your marriage dia

  • @nakyeyuneanna5138
    @nakyeyuneanna5138 7 місяців тому +3

    Complete healing starts the moment you start sharing your story. Trust me, you never feel the same way when you speak it out yourself no matter how bad it is. I love you Carol. Thank you for inspiring us. And remember that many are looking upto you. Keep going. The glory of God shines brighter on you.

  • @ndibalekeraagnes2237
    @ndibalekeraagnes2237 7 місяців тому +4

    Oh dear Carol, you have been an inspiration since school days till now.May the Lord strengthen you always.
    God's got you..God's got us all.

  • @doreenpedun3302
    @doreenpedun3302 7 місяців тому +6

    Thank you Carol for sharing your story.Hilda you are a blessing

  • @petermukisaa
    @petermukisaa 7 місяців тому +3

    Powerful Testimony by Carol Flower. Thumps up to Hilda

  • @nakayijjagladys9884
    @nakayijjagladys9884 7 місяців тому +6

    Thanks dear Carol for sharing, blessings 🎉

  • @peteropata8892
    @peteropata8892 6 місяців тому +3

    Copper needed to believe in you a little more with regard to this character assassination. You are a strong woman, you will overcome.

  • @maridiovigil
    @maridiovigil 7 місяців тому +23

    I was going through a rejection in my relationship...but when I came across your video... trust me I quit the relationship last Friday it's actually the first time I'm staying days without thinking a single thing about this love...im healing,im having hope each single day ❤ thanks bahati

  • @meekness3385
    @meekness3385 6 місяців тому +3

    Okay God I see what you’ve done here! You just spoke to me! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾I needed this!

  • @mubirujackiewonder6033
    @mubirujackiewonder6033 6 місяців тому +1

    One place I know that has broken so many hearts is church.It’s hard to mend and heal fellow broken Christians but they are easily buried and condemned for just rumors but we thank GOD for personally loving us regardless of what we have been through.Thanks for sharing this Carol.

  • @GlowFashionHouseouseLTD
    @GlowFashionHouseouseLTD 7 місяців тому +4

    Now that i watched this interview..
    I love her more.

  • @agnesmusuyaokello8030
    @agnesmusuyaokello8030 7 місяців тому +5

    Wow beautiful,I have enjoyed every bit.
    My prayer for you Carol is to reunite.with Cooper.
    There's always hope for a tree that has been cut

  • @estherakello9638
    @estherakello9638 7 місяців тому +3

    I love you Carol, u r an inspiration to many young girls. Strong, courageous, graceful above all God fearing.
    May God restore marriage to you 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @witonzejosephine2476
    @witonzejosephine2476 7 місяців тому +2

    That’s why judging is not ours. Carol stick on God He still loves u and have good plans for u , thanks for sharing

  • @prossykamashazi8560
    @prossykamashazi8560 7 місяців тому +2

    She is such a sweet soul with a beautiful spirit. I also gave up on christian people, it's just me and my God

  • @esthernakibira3451
    @esthernakibira3451 7 місяців тому +2

    Thanks Carol for allowing us into your world.I have just learnt not to judge people

  • @benardsenyonga6860
    @benardsenyonga6860 7 місяців тому +3

    My Prayer is one that those two lovely people ( Carol and Cooper) can re-unite in their Marriage at least I have ever met Cooper at church and he is such a wonderful person and for Carol, we are in the same neighborhood and at least I have watched her programs, she is also a wonderful woman, I pray that God can re-unite them in marriage in Jesus' Name.

  • @angelanabirye8948
    @angelanabirye8948 7 місяців тому +3

    We still love and appreciate you Mama Carol ❤
    Thanks Mrs.Bahati Hilda I love you too since 2016. ❤

  • @dinahmirembe7675
    @dinahmirembe7675 7 місяців тому +3

    This is healing. thank you for sharing. May the Lord use me to deliver others too. God bless you

  • @princessklv247
    @princessklv247 7 місяців тому +4

    Oh Carol!!! May God's grace always be SUFFICIENT 😊

  • @hillsmat9036
    @hillsmat9036 7 місяців тому +14

    *MAY GOD RESTORE YOUR MARRIAGE SWEAT HEART*
    We are all on second chances.
    Be strong girl! Jesus has got you.

  • @codmn1824
    @codmn1824 7 місяців тому +3

    I listened to everything naye nze i was just admiring the beauty of Carol😂

  • @leahnakabugo3226
    @leahnakabugo3226 7 місяців тому +9

    Thank you Bahati & Carol
    In marriage we go through different challenges but it's only hope that keeps us going.

  • @WinnieCollections
    @WinnieCollections 7 місяців тому +2

    In life we all need a support system

  • @busingyevangilister5594
    @busingyevangilister5594 7 місяців тому +5

    Beautiful story here, thanks Coach Bahati for hosting her 🎉

  • @daphnekkarusoke1381
    @daphnekkarusoke1381 7 місяців тому +6

    So sorry for what you have been through Carol. You are an amazing person ❤❤

  • @ampeiremercy2189
    @ampeiremercy2189 6 місяців тому +2

    Bambi, d burns & marriage issues, u a so brave & healed to share n sincerity. GBU.

  • @sharonangel-pe3dk
    @sharonangel-pe3dk 7 місяців тому +6

    This story is so inspiring. Thank u carol

  • @kobusingescovia2640
    @kobusingescovia2640 5 місяців тому

    I've been there too. Depression is real, and the words shoot sharp straight into the bones into the soul. May the good Lord come through for everyone out there that is going through hard times❤

  • @phionakatz
    @phionakatz 7 місяців тому +1

    I remember Carol. I was wondering where she had gone. Life is very unpredictable but if we keep pushing, it gets better. The twists and turns are what make it beautiful. Glad to see she’s doing fine.

  • @peggyhlungwani-fu4wh
    @peggyhlungwani-fu4wh 6 місяців тому +2

    Thanks a lot for this show
    Watching from South Africa, I have learnt a lot, depression is real, 2023 something happened to me and i tried to explain to people so that they can understand but it's get worse, I have lost self esteem even loose focus on my job
    ..Thanks a lot for today, I have to be strong and follow my dreams again

  • @bobi_holictherealnupbae2182
    @bobi_holictherealnupbae2182 7 місяців тому +2

    Powerful Powerful Testimony 😊Thanks beautiful Hilda for hosting sister Carol 💖Thank you for not running away from GOD.

  • @mabelnabateregga9279
    @mabelnabateregga9279 7 місяців тому +2

    It must have taken extraordinary strength and bravery to share such a painful but hopeful story… thank you Flower Carol for displaying such grace, most women are not able to exude such kindness in traumatic situations. Thank you Bahati Hilda for creating such a safe space for such complex topics. We have been blessed!

  • @mbabazihelen
    @mbabazihelen 3 місяці тому

    Thank you Carol for sharing your story. I have been through the same horrific journey of media harassment and public humiliation. Thankfully, not to the scale of National TV. But it was terrible for me. I was repeatedly accused of prostitution, home breaker etc. It was hard. I also spent years without going back to church because i felt I couldn't belong anywhere. Thank God for saving me from depression that resulted from all this.

  • @NakiryaBlessings
    @NakiryaBlessings 6 місяців тому

    This what i am going through church instead of correcting me they are putting me down even i cried 😭😭while watching this but i am blessed i will never stop serving God no matter what thanks sister more blessings 🙏

  • @nicksonankunda8928
    @nicksonankunda8928 6 місяців тому +1

    Thanks Carol for sharing your story. I am sure a soul is restored.

  • @nakittohellen3934
    @nakittohellen3934 7 місяців тому +12

    Thank you for sharing

  • @sanyusarah-mv5jj
    @sanyusarah-mv5jj 6 місяців тому +2

    Thanks for sharing with us your testimony! people are so Judgemental, full of envy may God protect and bless you abundantly

  • @christinekclare
    @christinekclare 7 місяців тому +1

    Funny i am watching this today when last night Pr. Ssekisaka Joseph preached about Identity in the generals overnight!

  • @victoriavicky5728
    @victoriavicky5728 7 місяців тому +7

    So much love for you Carol all the way from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼. Your testimony just brought so much healing to me. Thank you for your ministry. God bless you and increase yoh richly. In Jesus Name Amen. What God cannot do does not exist ❤️

  • @Twine256-nx1pl
    @Twine256-nx1pl 6 місяців тому

    There’s that saying of there’s no hate like the love of Christians. That rings so true every time. Happy to see you Carol and at the point where you can share your story. Wishing you healing. ❤

  • @blessedmonica2091
    @blessedmonica2091 7 місяців тому +1

    Kituffu nyo simanyi why naye that genda olemwa.

  • @sarahnkimeze3919
    @sarahnkimeze3919 7 місяців тому +1

    May the Lord heal you , deliver you and restore your marriage, joy, peace, happiness, ministry, and favor. May His glory shine on your. May He vindicate you from those evil accusations and clothe you up with His glory. Thank you for sharing your ❤❤

  • @mutesibetty1630
    @mutesibetty1630 7 місяців тому +4

    Thanks for hosting her Bambi I love her ways 😘🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @sarahkukiriza6174
    @sarahkukiriza6174 7 місяців тому +1

    Hey Bahati just bump into here and subscribe right away. I used to enjoy yo teachings on mwasuze mutya ntv and radio .i love u since then

    • @BahatiHilda
      @BahatiHilda  7 місяців тому +1

      Welcome aboard Sarah! Thank you

  • @nicholasmulindwa
    @nicholasmulindwa 7 місяців тому +4

    Amazing Interview. You touched on topics that I totally relate to.

  • @KimonoJemimah
    @KimonoJemimah 6 місяців тому

    That lady who told you to use kakutiya was right. The kutiya she talked about is a sisal one. I also used it when I got burned in just days I got healed

  • @PeaceDestiny7
    @PeaceDestiny7 7 місяців тому +10

    Thank you for this story Bahati and Carol. Some of us needed this to know that we are not the only ones that have suffered from extreme depression... that have done things we shouldn't have done because of brokeness, whose own christian friends have given up on us and judged us very harshly without knowing what we are going through.

  • @ashanamulawa2001
    @ashanamulawa2001 7 місяців тому +1

    I thank God for his restoration for you Carol

  • @mutetsipraise7662
    @mutetsipraise7662 6 місяців тому +1

    Woooow, this session has taught me alot especially not to judge people

  • @miriambridget4464
    @miriambridget4464 7 місяців тому +1

    His still on the throne, God got you

  • @janetbahizi9996
    @janetbahizi9996 7 місяців тому +1

    It's about the Lord receiving you the way you were. I'm sure pastor Kayanja wouldn't judge you. He has a heart of compassion and he knows his God. You will never impress God enough by not drinking, more than that believe. Remain in the faith

  • @tibendazununa6452
    @tibendazununa6452 7 місяців тому +1

    Surely being hopeful is key

  • @matildaathieno1713
    @matildaathieno1713 7 місяців тому +3

    Awwww @Carol hugs 🎉

  • @kabasinguzisusan9811
    @kabasinguzisusan9811 7 місяців тому +2

    people around us the women I have gone through that wow God bless you

  • @namugerwarachel948
    @namugerwarachel948 6 місяців тому +3

    Now why am I crying 😭

  • @namudiirapeaceg.charene2245
    @namudiirapeaceg.charene2245 7 місяців тому +1

    I'd like to meet this Lady, Carol.

  • @brendanakirya1379
    @brendanakirya1379 7 місяців тому +2

    God's grace is sufficient.

  • @NakayovuOlivia
    @NakayovuOlivia 6 місяців тому

    I remember i was going through a hard depression. When everyone was judging me.. my mum was always on my side... and i thank God we made it through. 🙏...

  • @flavianakiruuta4486
    @flavianakiruuta4486 2 місяці тому

    Wow! My story is so similar to Carol's. Depression is real, hating church is real, feeling betrayed by Christians is real too, going to church and sitting at the extreme back is real, remaining in ministry & serving God is real, people around you making the situation worse is real, withdrawal is so real. Kwegamba Carol nkutegeera bulungi. Healing comes a step at a time. May God continue healing us.

  • @sookastephen6649
    @sookastephen6649 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your life story. As God restored you, May He use your story to restore many others going through similar situations. ❤

  • @CathyMugabi
    @CathyMugabi 7 місяців тому +2

    It's the people around us that add salt to our problems...

  • @marthalutz2011
    @marthalutz2011 6 місяців тому

    Akakutiya really works on burns by the way. It sucks the liquid out of the burns. That church elder was misunderstood actually.

  • @TheRwenzoriGirl
    @TheRwenzoriGirl 7 місяців тому +3

    We've always loved your shows Carol. We love you ❤

  • @onalerona3735
    @onalerona3735 7 місяців тому +1

    I remember this story that used to move around of how cooper had a girl he was about to marry and left her for carol and then she got depressed and died,apparently she was buried in her what would be her wedding gown and the mother gave a speech that it’s the dress that killed her. Here and today kilabika I will get the truth

  • @adongosheila9215
    @adongosheila9215 7 місяців тому +3

    I suffered from depression too in my marriage..it was healing listening to your side of story.I am praying that God reconciles you back to your husband Carol.Sheila

  • @carolmalingu6899
    @carolmalingu6899 5 місяців тому

    Hi Carol you are my namesake no matter what you have gone through never stop serving God, there's light at the end of the tunnel, God loves you and so do l

  • @brendahnabakka7644
    @brendahnabakka7644 7 місяців тому +1

    Have loved Cooper's music since childhood . Its painful you separated .

  • @justinekyanjokivumbi
    @justinekyanjokivumbi 6 місяців тому

    Oh thank you Hilda for bringing Carol. This got me emotional. She is a strong and beautiful woman. Relates with what I’ve been going through(not divorce) False accusations...
    God is the defender!
    Thanks again.

  • @Carynne6969
    @Carynne6969 7 місяців тому +3

    I've always loved you Flower..May God see you through dearie 💙