Found your channel a few days ago. Tried for years to figure out what was up with my wife. Found Dr. Ramani about a year ago and it was very stress reducing to FINALLY understand what was going on. Love your channel! Dr. R. and others are good but hearing from one who has 'been there, done that' is a refreshing perspective. Sadly, some of us cannot just up and leave. In my case there is a child involved. Not only do I now want to put her through a divorce, there is no guarantee that I will get at least 50 percent custody. Don't want to risk leaving my daughter, who is old enough to notice what mom is doing, all alone in this mess. A week after daughter turns 18 papers will be served. Why a week later? I don't want to ruin her 18th birthday.
Most definitely the cheating and complaining, and then I would be the reason for it every single time. I was always a devoted person so that hit me in the core, which she loved. And that prideful grin after.. Why ruin a good time and destroy experiences? Cause they revel in it. It's a shame some are so lost within their own selfishness.
Found your channel a few days ago. Tried for years to figure out what was up with my wife. Found Dr. Ramani about a year ago and it was very stress reducing to FINALLY understand what was going on. Love your channel! Dr. R. and others are good but hearing from one who has 'been there, done that' is a refreshing perspective. Sadly, some of us cannot just up and leave. In my case there is a child involved. Not only do I now want to put her through a divorce, there is no guarantee that I will get at least 50 percent custody. Don't want to risk leaving my daughter, who is old enough to notice what mom is doing, all alone in this mess. A week after daughter turns 18 papers will be served. Why a week later? I don't want to ruin her 18th birthday.
Most definitely the cheating and complaining, and then I would be the reason for it every single time. I was always a devoted person so that hit me in the core, which she loved. And that prideful grin after.. Why ruin a good time and destroy experiences? Cause they revel in it. It's a shame some are so lost within their own selfishness.
Glad I don't have to go through all that s@#$ anymore! Got rid of mine.