The Narcissist’s Biggest Weakness🗣️🫢
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A narcissist is incapable of joy. Demons cannot experience joy.
They feel so thrown off when they see me with joy like they just can’t grasp the fast I choose happiness
Exactly 💯
Exactly
So people who have been traumatised or abused just are demons? Because the more I’m understanding this disorder is that most people don’t know a lot about it or even take a step back, rather than generalising a whole group of people
People are forgetting it's still actually a mental disorder. They're not demons, just people born with a mental illness.
Narcissists are energy vampires 🧛
That part☝️🎯💣💯
I feel lonely when I'm with him 😢
Same here, with my whole family I always felt that way. Please do your ya favour and leave him too, he won’t change. Ever. Get out while you can. My mother is one and I only broke away 4 years ago from her codependency conditioning. They are sick people.
Beautiful soul I have heard when we will leave these kinda people they will begin the journey of self love at some of point of time ❤️ this is his story 🙏🕉️♾️ he wants everyone to love their own soul.
They will only ever focus on their needs sadly xx
Get out. Never once is it a good choice to stay. The longer you're abused the harder to recover. I'm sorry you feel this way.
I no this feeling all so well
It is sad when people screw up life for themselves. The more you love them the more they need to break you. When you then leave them because of the abuse they are devastated🤷🏼♂️
With the NPD up is down and down is up.Back to front thinking.
They should be out in jail 🤬
It’s their nervous system hard wiring, it’s just human nature, life is very adaptable, the human brain has lots of plasticity in childhood, it’s very hard to re wire it after u have developed it a certain way for so long
Empty vessel's occupied by dark energy
Great description!
Nailed that description
This is so true. I feel empty . I left him. I called him out on all his crap. He hated me
I felt like I had to constantly entertain that man. As soon as I slowed down, he started letting the mask fall.
100%
They're never truly sane, either. 🤮
Exactly.
That's the truth
Narcissists are ‘bottomless pits of need.’ No matter how much narcissistic supply they have,it’s never,ever enough for them! I don’t think they’re ever truly happy either!
So true . That emptiness in their eyes is so sad to see, they can't smile a real smile
Or laugh a real laugh
There is NO warmth in them whatsoever 😢
@@Jec_2815Fake laugh.
I just asked him that I have never seen your teeth or a smile or real heartfelt laughter
So sad
Dead pan eyes. The eyes are the window to your soul !.It's really sad that they can't laugh or really have a good time. Because the ER are to busy trying to control others. So fake ! I can spot em a mile away now. I've done a lot of research on the subject. I do believe there is a demon in them. Controlling them ! All they want to do is lie lie lie put down others hurting others makes them happy. So sad
Run don't walk away. Run, they are demons not just unhappy.
The biggest weakness is when they're discarded. It shatters their false grandiosity and reminds them of their infant trauma
They will do everything within their power to make sure this never happens!
@@CarolineStrawsonHealing true. Evenything including falsifying reality and rewriting history if they need to.
Exactly @@AdamKraft-hq8pn
@CarolineStrawsonHealing I also avoid abandonment like the plague. Struggling with it but I allways learn to let go at times and surrender. I walk the line where you almost step into narcicissm. I get the derangement and discarding tendencies from time to time then I feel like guilt that I had that thought and impulse and ask God for forgiveness and strength to fight this. Bpd with narc tendencies maybe? What are your thoughts
Your comment, just hit me on another level. Stay Away, Stay Strong!
Even when u see them with someone else, it don’t matter because your healing and don’t look back ever. That the new person’s problem now
They ain’t happy no way so no need to get jealous or worry.. they just need somebody to stroke their ego, somebody to be there, some kind of attention
Sounds like you guys don't want to see your ex's happy moving on and need to make excuses to make yourselves feel better 😂
It's true. It's always about their cruelty but there is also their very broken and very unhappy side which actually provoke this cruelty. Unhappy broken monsters that need to abuse other people to go on.
That’s the word , narcissist supply.
😂😂my ex is a mesirable bastard, and she married my narcissist friend. 😂😂the ultimate self-inflicted injury 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 misery loves company. God's wrath Nahum 1: 2-8
They DONT SEE YOU AS A HUMAN BEING. You are just a container to get supply. You are a coffee cup that once is empty will be discarded the same way. That is how they see you. It’s sad but true. Stop taking things personal from someone that doesn’t see you as a person.
The tricky thing is to not feel our self worthiness wounds being triggered so it's very hard to stop taking things personally. However it can be done when people take the steps to work on their healing x
It’s just mind games to keep you stuck!!!Its all in their mind
I never knew about how very serious Narcissism is, until recently. It's really shocking when you see and experience it. It's surreal, really, it's that bad. Just Never let your guard down. Ever. Be very vigilant to everything.
This. Surreal is the weird, but definitely in a bad way
Silence and walk away....silence...walk away...no words..no contact...nothing
When you're always at their feet doing things for them, they are "decent" with you. As soon as you start to slow down with some things or are unable to serve them, they literally switch like that. A complete different person. Their true hidden feelings about you are revealed, then you realise actually this person has never loved me or ever will. They only love that you can serve them for their needs. It's quite ironic actually... They expect you to give them 100% and will cause havoc if you are not, but when you ACTUALLY need them... They are never to be found and do NOT support you.
I’m a parent of a covert narcissistic daughter. I’ve been discarded. I no longer have any value. It’s so disgusting and disturbing.
@@beaglerescue5281 I'm really sorry to hear that. I can imagine it is 100 times worse when it is your own child, someone who you naturally love. May God give you peace. Xxx
So so true I’m seeing the mask off right now and the gaslighting and twisting the words to make her the victim is unbelievable and so confusing but I’m on to it now
@@elizabethf9096 Isn’t it great to finally understand what the heck is going on with them. I’m finally at peace. I was with my daughter tonight and she made a few devaluing comments and it didn’t effect me whatsoever. That’s strength and growth. I don’t see her but once a month and now I feel that’s all I want. I’ve come along way from six months ago where I felt devastated.
Perfectly put .Everything 100% agree because it is e at how you said
I knew it, not being able to sympathize with others means being disconnected from all there is, thus they’re never happy, they chose themselves they agreed to go down and not elevate, they can only feel shame with a false ego and false self and five sense pleasures and addictions to stay numb
Yeaa I’m a victim 😞 idk what to do
Support groups especially ones that your Narc doesn't know about, have helped me. Love peace and strength sent your way, it's a difficult road but I bieve you can do it. 💚✨️
I need to milk to same thing happened to me
I was married to a narc exactly like this. Being in that relationship literally almost killed me. Now, she's 1,000 miles away, and the kids are with me thriving and flourishing. She's in her own personal hell, working multiple jobs, no husband, no kids, no family, and is unstable as ever.
" most deeply wounded, most unhappy people in this world" 🎯🔥💯
She has multiple sources of supply. She will use sex to get
She give you kids so a bit respect will not hurt you.If you can’t do it for her then at least do it to her kids.
Well done....that's great news and it gives me hope. I'm recently separated from a covert narcissist. We are still living in the same house as I won't leave my boys in her care. I'm prepared to go to battle in court for the sake of my sons emotional wellbeing and future.
@@ifnotnowthenwhen9063 you are the epitome of self righteousness
The poor people function as narcissistic sources to to the rich people. That's why it's necessary for some to play the role of a havenot. The haves can enjoy themselves and feel superior when they see the poor person struggling to get by.
Yes ,my ex narc friend, enjoyed speaking about all the stuff she would buy,her vakays,cars, education,degrees,she would send photos of her house,clothes,tell me how much she spent on stuff,looking back i realized she was tryna a rise out of me,make me jealous of her,,look at what i can have or buy,,and you can't.I never asked her or any friends their salary,she was dying to tell me,I said good for u.,that's some goood money..nothing I said to her was ever impressive to her,stopped speaking about any thing good that happened to me,It would be an automatic put down,,never noticed,when I stopped..she would speak 100% about herself,her friends,co workers,family,how well they were all doing,if i was doing fantastic she would not know😮,,then it's I have to go now,,.I would say good night,good bye,speak to u later,, so self absorbed, then one day she said I was jealous of her,,its like she had been dying to say it to me for a very long time,,,,like it was rehersed,,,,that was it for me...She never realized that me with half the stuff she had,,she was the one jealous and envious of me..I went cold turkey,,36 years "fiend" ship came to an abrupt end.i ask myself where do you start again with someone,after that statement?.no energy for that anymore.
And why we (the masses) should stop supporting the rich and famous.
Lol my mother in law and her crew
They need “supply “ let’s use clinical words. Without supply they will implode. It’s like kinking the oxygen line on a scuba diver
iv been with a narracasist for 26yrs
Please leave I am going to try to leave before the new year. I’ve been with mine for 7 years
WHY
@@ysabelcastillo1880 29 years here 😢
I'm staying home. Alone is seriously better.
Do you have some support my love? x
This is so true! This is my peace when I walk away. They may pretend and show everyone that their so happy 😂. But people don't know them like I do. I seen and gone through the hardest and darkest with them. I just laugh about people's comments. I also remind myself when I miss them, feel sorry for them, and want to contact them, forgive, and reach out. The best thing is stay away forever!
When dealing with narcissism, you should know that it's not personal. "It isn't personal" is one of those cliches used to cushion all kinds of bad actions taken by people who need an out for being immoral, but in this case it actually gets near the truth.
Narcissists don't know how to love or be a friend; they can't afford to spare the energy to learn, because they're always in a state of high emergency, cataloging potential threats and redoubling their defenses. When they claim to love you, it means nothing. They may even think they mean it, but they don't understand the concept - they can't feel it. They never attach to you or anyone else. Other people are paper cut-outs to the narcissist, like those cardboard figures of celebrities you pose next to for a selfie. Narcissist value their own children only as mirrors of themselves. When they destabilize you or attack you, it means nothing.
They are stuck in an endless conversation with themselves, in which you are an inanimate object, to be assigned their own faults and used as a surrogate punching bag for their hatred of themselves. When they toss you out, it's no more meaningful than a junkie tossing away a needle; when they try to reel you back in, it only means that they tired of the new drug and need a hit of the old.
None of this is personal. They're too terrified to have personal relationships, opting instead for extraction of admiration from a subservient partner whose range of action they strictly constrain. This is not personal. None of it. The narcissist does not know who you are - it doesn't know how to know other people. Like the vampire or the chainsaw-wielding creature in the horror film, it's from another world, bereft of the concept of human connection.Moreover, People wonder why they end up hurt, seriously hurt, and even killed for their own actions.Cheating is a choice and there's simply a lot of ignorance in the process..Thank you so much for helping me out cyberalbert4@gmail. com.Your advice and services helped me so much. You are a lifesaver !!! The information you gave me about my cheating partner when you gave me access to his phone was everything I needed to get,..thank you very much..
Besides the ending, this was a good reading
Wow Jana well said you have respect and I know you’re doing better just like I’m. Good luck on your journey
But how did the narcissist chose this horrific path in life? Who would chose this knowingly?
@@beaglerescue5281because they aren’t living in reality.
@@cryptonize2105 stuck in past
Hey ladies, before you throw that ex under the bus here (which seems to be the trend)... keep in mind:
Narcissists always deny any responsibility for their dysfunctional behavior. To achieve this they use inherently use denial, delusion, gaslighting, minimization, deflection, blaming the victim, and playing the victim.
Exaggerated victimhood is a textbook feature of narcissistic grandiosity. Narcissists play the victim to garner sympathy and avoid responsibility for their abusive behavior.
Recent studies show that many female narcissists dress in sexually provocative ways-revealing clothing and/or wearing a lot of makeup. Many use sexual seduction to manipulate or financially exploit others.
Now what about the narc men? How do they behave
@@1stBorn538super charming, love bombing, feigning a connection, mirroring your likes and hobbies, values
@Clevelandsteamer324
Bingo! Cuz there's no gender specifics..Which is why commenting on what female narcs do (only) without including men is ridiculous, and this person's point is pointless. Male narcs also dress in certain ways to get or attract a person's attention, tight clotging, show their physic, a lot these so called weight training videos, work out video were men are on display they get a lot of attention, and if they are not physically attractive, they will dangle things like nice expensive cars, money, trips, etc, to manipulate women. So if you gonna throw the woman under the bus, then make sure the male narcs are included in the mix
To say they dress provocatively is silly. Most of them are extremely intelligent and the worst kind, for example, the covert narcissist will use their intelligence to manipulate and gaslight. She could look like an old nice grandma. Don't get it twisted. They're everywhere, and they're all shapes, colors, and sizes. Please beware of everyone around you in life at all times so you don't get taken for a ride right under your own nose. 😢
@cloudbreak23
To say they dress provocatively is a truth and has nothing to do with their level of intelligence. And some of them are not that intelligent, they act a little slow and touched in the head, if you ask me. Because somewhere in their brain, they think that what they do to people is the best way to handle relationships to get what they want, it has been proven that they are operating on the same emotional level of a 5 yr old child, which why they have temper tantrums, they lie profusely, and repeat the same toxic behavior with wvery victim, and yeah it may work for a minute, but eventually people get tired of their crap and walk away, and the narc will go and repeat the exact same behavior and tactics on the next person, expecting different results....And that's called INSANITY NOT A HIGH LEVEL OF INTELLIGENCE. Both narc women and narc men alike use their looks to attract victims, I've dated one...Some not all are your gym rats, that's their play ground where they go to attract more supply and or become bait for potential supply. But none of this is new, it's just never talked about...
They're happy in defeating competition,conquering and winning in any circumstances.
Thank you.
Is it normal to be accused and even start believing your the actual narcissist, my mind is fried 😣😢
If you are even asking yourself the question then you are most definitely not a narcissist. A narcissist will never believe there is anything wrong with them x
100% . You lose your sense of self, and that's what they want. Get away from them and surround yourself with nice people. Otherwise you'll never be truly free. If you can't get away, then just minimize contact and never go to them with a problem or confide in them. Even if it's painful to do this, it's to protect your own sanity and safety.
It's normal, get sum self time every day so subconsance can recognize truth. And if someone repeats something enough, one maybe accidently believing it,brainwashing!
@@CarolineStrawsonHealingthank you I needed that I was questioning myself maybe I am the problem
It is cycles they have to go through around the full moon.They need excitement so ok at the beginning but when you settle into a long-term you need to have life changes together to make it fresh.Like moving with their job.Otherwise you need new experiences because they get bored with life. You need to be good on your own but better together.Unfortunately the NPD is not able to be ok on their own so will look for an option to fill their lack of attention.They are effectively looking for a lover as well as a substitute female in lieu of an NPD mother figure who wounded them in childhood.
This's really reason, they stuck in past.
You are truly an inspiration
29 years and never once been on the bank account as joint . Housewife ( maid) i barley even go outside anymore he has me so screwed up. 😢 complains about everything cooked . A big huge drawer of new underwear. Im touch starved and punished for asking questions. So many secrets ( swear up and down) that they don't have any lol . Ask a simple question and it blows there lid . Im tired
Please leave him
she knows shes never happy
I use to talk with a guy . I started like him and decided to tell him that i think he is cute and that i really want to know him . I meant to say cute in a way that i like and hope that he feel the same about me but he said that he is not cute at all . And he is narcissistic and arrogant and i said its not very nice thing to say about yourself and he said he is actually proud of it . I was totally caught offgaurd and afcourse i blocked him .
I always thought there is some gap about him and something i m not getting. He would only message me when he needed me now that i think about it and i m a sensitive person so i started to care about him . I always felt exhausted after i talked to him too and that was all through text . Imagine having such person in real life . I m glad . I said out my feelings and actually came to my senses . I have further long story before this and how i got there but its a long story
This is so true
So very true!!
I needed this video today
Thank u!!
Leaving them permanently is THE BEST AND HEALTHIEST OPTION for anyone stuck in a relationship with these cursed beings, irregardless whether it's a parent, sibling, partner, lover etc. Period.
Left my ex narc husband 4 months ago and now he's engaged. I feel sorry for the new supply. She loves him so much and think she got the man of her dreams! Poor girl.......she have no clue who that deceiver is. 😢
How are you feeling now? x
@@CarolineStrawsonHealing relieved 😌
What are you doing to help yourself to heal? @@leeleejm2749 xx
@@CarolineStrawsonHealing the word of God has helped me and loving myself
Do you think they will change for someone else ? Will he eventually start doing the same thing with a different person?
He’s never happy. He eventually yells at everyone if they don’t do what he commands. And he accuses me of not being happy. All signs he is miserable. He’s Gods now.
Can you now explain what a vulnerable narcissist is for the audience?
Yessss I KNOW ALL OF THIS ABOUT NARCS
i was on to that there vwry miserable
If I was a narcissist, I'd go get some help from a professional.
Unfortunately, a narcissist never know that they were
My husband
I am not in normal world I am in hell
GOOD, damn demons😈
In conclusion,all negative people only in this temporary world actually are fool themselves actually 💯
I don't believe narcissist need any body.
Mann can you make a video to help Naracissim like dang I'm looking for help but all the videos on line is to bash us or tell people to stay away from us like where monsters like for me Im in my relationship I did a lot of things sub consciously to hurt her and I own it and here I am looking for how to be better but the only help is for the victims it's like we might aswell kill ourselves or something
Nah fam don't do it, it ain't worth it. Don't listen to people like her they are content farming. The best advice I will give you is try to be conscious about your shortcomings as much as you can. Practice some mindfulness techniques and incorporate them into your morality so that you essentially have a"do/don't do" List in your social interactions. It's not easy cause it doesn't come naturally but it's worth it
I’ll tell you my mother is a narcs, that time I didn’t knew that terminology. Through the years the way to deal with it is “less/small talk = less narcissistic trigger to no trigger at all”
I have a 2 narcs in my family
They are sucking the family dry …I call them vampire 🧛
This is my bros wife and mother-in-law they both have been so damaging to the entire family …. I’ve walked away …. Others are still under her trap 💩🤬😡
My narc ex signed for an engagement ring then found his next wife behind my back. I moved alone to go back to study and work on myself. 3 years later I found someone to love and respect me. The narc thought he could pick up his bookmark after posting very profound social media photos of every milestone with his wife leading up to him visiting back to our home state and trying to hook up with me behind her back after making HER feel special to fly home with him to meet his family. See how that cycles? Never trust a narc. Love yourself so much more.
Why do they continue to hurt people.
Her poor old white husband 😮
Also, I’d like to see her hairstyle and debt Golf digging the hole for Superficial
How do i change and stop being a narc i would do these things without even realzing it or thinking about it and i just want to fix it now i lnow i cant overnight but i do wish to fix this one of my most toxic worst traits
You are very narcissistic
It's genuinely amusing that these cringe channels talking about other people being narcissists still don't realise life is a reflective mirror...and their identity of dysfunction in any other is identifying their own dysfunction..silly little tragic people
I spotted one online lol
@@timegoesby421yeah it's the chick in the video
You're not lying there, girl. This is 90 percent of my family only them north of the border are to be really trusted, the rest of you I've got your number, Money you poor fools😂
The fact that she went viral on TikTok, is beyond a joke It’s just her absolute unawareness 😂
I believe a constant praise and admiration can fulfill the narcissist egos, and when they think theyre having you all in their hands, they got weakens. Just dont leave them, bcs it hurts them more, and they wont healed yet got more nacisst bcs of the inner denial from the neglection.
So we're supposed to give them everything. They want while they walk all over us and destroy our lives?
It's all fake. Go from there.
My narc doesn't return back to get a high from loving kindness -- he comes back to create confusion and disruption. I reached the conclusion that he must have certain ppl in his life to dump his own vibes. When he is up he is WAY up. When he is stressed he is way stressed. (Go through the emotions) He seeks ppl to dump whatever emotion he is feeling. Does this make sense?
3 years of it, thank god I'm out of it all now, over that time I would ask her from time to time who am I to you ? Because at times she would treat me as her partner, her lover, but then her dad or one of her exes, resulting in so much confusion. I watched over the 3 years she would latch herself onto someone new, a complete stranger. So much so she would change her opinions on stuff based on the opinions of the new person. Only to then fall out with the new person, take out her anger on me. I'd be expected to apologise but I wasn't apologising for someone thing I had done, I was apologising on behalf of the new person who she fell out with. It was so weird. I truly believe happiness hurt her, she would thrive in crazy, drama, panic, urgency. But during happy moments of peace she there would always be something to ruin it. Even randomly bring up something from her past, and I'd have to react in a certain way if I didn't she would get angry and storm away. 3 years and I saw and experienced enough to know I needed to get away and distance myself.
That’s why I removed all K Drama and associated songs to reduce contact. No contact is best. I do not want to be any supply for online narcissist.
Now, if that is the case, doesn't anyone feel sorry for them? Why not? Don't they need compassion like everyone else?
No s**t
How do you make a narcissist suffer forever ? you need to destroy narcissist ego and pride.you need to bring them back to reality.and there is a way you can do that without harming them directly. that is by working on yourself. And go back to being the person you were before you involved with the narcissist. The person that they where attached to. And then become a better version of yourself. If you do that and let them see it. but you reject their hoover attempts. it will destroy their ego. because they can't deal with rejection. They can't deal with being ignored. especially if it's from something that they believe they should have. Narcissist find pleasure in breaking you down. They find pleasure in your pain. It gives them satisfaction. So the last thing they want to see is you building yourself up. You are happy. Because what really destroys their ego Is when they see that you're not affected by their attempts to destroy you. You're still able to live the life that you want to live. You're still able to do what you need to do. You're still able to laugh and smile. Which means that their efforts have gone to waste. Their plan has failed. They didn't get the result they where intended for. Because now you are even more successful. You look better than you ever did before. You're in better condition than when they first met you.
Which destroy them. Because they remember how good things were Back then. That's why they lovebombed you. And they would love to have that again. But if they can't, it will crush them. So you don't need to revenge on the narcissist. you don't need to do anything to them. Just focus on yourself. Focus on your own life. Focus on building yourself up. Making your life better. And don't let them partake in it. Don't let them partake in it. Don't let them be a part of it. That is how you do it. All thanks to the cyber expert who was able to investigate his phone and get me the information and evidence that I needed to gain my freedom From the abusive relationship. If you are in similar situation you can contact him on Instagram @spy_bruceHow do you make a narcissist suffer forever ? you need to destroy narcissist ego and pride.you need to bring them back to reality.and there is a way you can do that without harming them directly. that is by working on yourself. And go back to being the person you were before you involved with the narcissist. The person that they where attached to. And then become a better version of yourself. If you do that and let them see it. but you reject their hoover attempts. it will destroy their ego. because they can't deal with rejection. They can't deal with being ignored. especially if it's from something that they believe they should have. Narcissist find pleasure in breaking you down. They find pleasure in your pain. It gives them satisfaction. So the last thing they want to see is you building yourself up. You are happy. Because what really destroys their ego Is when they see that you're not affected by their attempts to destroy you. You're still able to live the life that you want to live. You're still able to do what you need to do. You're still able to laugh and smile. Which means that their efforts have gone to waste. Their plan has failed. They didn't get the result they where intended for. Because now you are even more successful. You look better than you ever did before. You're in better condition than when they first met you.
Which destroy them. Because they remember how good things were Back then. That's why they lovebombed you. And they would love to have that again. But if they can't, it will crush them. So you don't need to revenge on the narcissist. you don't need to do anything to them. Just focus on yourself. Focus on your own life. Focus on building yourself up. Making your life better. And don't let them partake in it. Don't let them partake in it. Don't let them be a part of it. That is how you do it. All thanks to the cyber expert who was able to investigate his phone and get me the information and evidence that I needed to gain my freedom From the abusive relationship. If you are in similar situation you can contact him on Instagram @spy_bruce
Don't be hatin'. My Mom really loved me.
She wasn’t biased,you have a problem there buster
Trauma bonding, buddy. Same with my mom and bro
So what can I do? Running is too late. How do I give them narcissistic supply? I don't care anymore, I just need the semblance of sanity and minimize the abuse
Had a narc female (friend)
Looked into her eyes one day
I could feel her emotions she was in torment.. and I just filled with compassion for her
I was astonished at her emotional state
Months later I mentioned it to her and asked if she believed me
She wouldn't answer but did say she knew I was a compassionate person
About 6 months later I ended what was a one sided friendship
Wow!!! Well put!
Thanks for sharing this messages ! Surely it is so.😮😢😮😢😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
It's no surprise to me my wife is never happy and there is no reason in the world for her to be unhappy. She's verbally abusive with me always taking and never giving I'm sick of the it. Oh wait she does give. Gives me a headache
So good kw that the Narcisssis un happy people in the world asdly need a lots of attention deeply wonded people Higho stem cells very weak no standed
have you seen Dopesick his part where the guy that plays Richard Sackler who are the absolute archetypes of doctor? I had really Machiavellian narcissistic and say distich anyway there’s a line and it really says to his cousin I don’t know how to feel joy. Wow there it is these billionaires are so greedy they don’t get pleasure from the money, but what they do get pleasure from is the rest of us writhing in misery. then they feel some kind of normality and they have to have that. That’s why they’re so dangerous is it’s not like they’re thinking oh yes I want everybody else to suffer so I feel good. They cannot self reflect like that they don’t see it like that, but that is absolutely what they do and they get so envious of others. They want to steal what other people have kill other people, even not realising that they won’t automatically get happy you’ll get what they jealous of just because they kill someone all they’ve done is suck up more karma. But I have to play with your choice of words that they’re never happy. They are absolutely gleeful when they’re high of their adrenaline rush adrenaline is going. They feel intensely lost Griedge foods that kind of power that is very happy to them but now are they happy no no not everything is intense with them they’ve only got negative emotions to work with that’s why they keep pushing boundaries to get some kind of reaction from other people and just as an aside so as you know I was abandoned at birth and brought up by two narcissistic, foster parents. The foster mother was the sadistic dominant abuser her husband enabled and delighted Annette. They did black magic and witchcraft on me. I was removed for my own safety when I was 15 because I nearly had a permanent psyche fracture, but I went on to have emotional and romantic relationships with the same template narcissists know I am middle-aged, I can see it all in hindsight and I’m so glad I’m still alive because people commit suicide over this shit you know or they end up in psych wards forever. That’s what they want. They want you to destroy you. This is what we need to get through to the world So many people are talking about narcissism now but it’s funny when you’ve been through it as you will know because you’re teaching us, but it’s a cognitive dissonants and the disassociation when these abusive things are happening which is your brain to a protecting you yeah so she don’t actually acknowledge it at the time but it’s still having around in your subconscious and it has to come out somewhere and it’s not until I looked into criminology. That’s when the clubs come off this kind of all they have these traits. They tell you they tell you that this is a deviant and dangerous personality disorder. It’s in the DSM-V for a reason these people will destroy you they torture they are sadists and Christian Louis de Canville, who is an author on cluster B personality disorders who is part of a team that went into Broadmoor and all the big psych hospitals, and she said that is where the victims of narcissistic abuse are behind close doors that’s how dangerous it is yeah so yeah and the other thing I’d like to say you’re a lady a lovely beautiful young woman I’m not blow smoke up your bum but I’m just saying this to you because you will probably get lots of trolls and negative comments, et cetera well this is what pisses me off about social media on Facebook. Lives are lost assist really verbally assaulted me on Facebook calling me this on the other and I just said to him, you’ve completed all nitrate to the DSM-V before you were out the trash. Well done. Don’t fuck with me because I will sort you. Regards Valerie d’Arcy. Now not once did the moderator come out and tell him to take his comments out, ever never happens, and he was awful to me, do you know I mean who are these faceless moderators? They certainly don’t like women that’s for sure, but again, that’s another insidious part of flying monkey enabling abuse and what I liked about my comment was that it was very deadpan very much of that he didn’t get a rise out of me and I signed it with my name. You know I mean business but bloody hell anyway thank you for listening. Sorry for my rent and thank you for everything you do and help us
I feel bad (I don't but yk if I could feel bad I would) for my mom because she's a extreme narcissist. She can't feel happiness
I am sure of that, so many cheating and women and he came back even more unhappy than ever....my fault i accepted him back cause live him, never ever again 😢
Why do they expect everything from others when they won't do it for those others?
As an ex narscisst I was a fan of cartoons in which the main character never care about his 'friends' but his friends would give their life for him. The limelight was always on him and I wanted the same
@@wanderingsoul3708how did u changed yourself?
@@pakistan3608 after watching some real life documentaries i saw myself in the bad guy. Seeing myself from the victims pov i couldn't bear with myself. So...
@@wanderingsoul3708 immense respect for you
@@wanderingsoul3708 I have gone through narcisstic abuse and it hurts like hell. I loved him a lot and he broke me into pieces.
don't play their game, they throw the line out there,, and if you're not playing attention you'll fall for it, * And they use different lures too,
They love doing brain salad surgery on unsuspecting victims.
I just don’t understand how these narcissist can treat women like complete sh!t and all i hear women talking about how hard it is to leave him…
Meanwhile here i am at 34 years old, never had a girlfriend because I get a little nervous on first dates..
I feel like you women WANT to be with a narcissist on purpose just to get a good victim story.
No, i don’t hate women. I just don’t understand it.
As a narcissist i don't know what to say or do when happiness is not for me am alone after seeing how wicked i am but can I be helped
Narcissists are HOPELESS LOST SOULS.
and this is so very true
He will never be happy because nothing is ever enough … but I decide that it’s enough mental abuse ..
I used to tell my mom I wanted to look like people I t thought were excellent when I was a little girl. She always said, "okay."
💯 In a dream I saw them for who they really are. Fragile and insecure along with a mask of happiness 😅
I shouldve remembered this when my narcissistic ex told me “i cant be happy”
They will even pretend to be single 16 months after the divorce just so they can appear not to be the narcissist
Is "supply" praise? Awe? Constant validation? That's truly sick.
Is it helpful to tell a narcissist 'I don't trust you' when they ask why I'm going no-contact?
I feel drained around my mom because I have to constantly keep her mood up or else my whole family suffers
I need to stop watching all of these videos about narcissists because now I think I am a narcissist but then again I’m not because narcissists don’t claim to be narcissists.
Can cptsd turn into narcasim?
I think so? Since it stems from childhood abuse.
There is a jezebel spirit in them it’s evil
What are you talkimg about?? They dont give them there choice of drug!!!!
Yeah I know that’s there problem not yours your not a babysitter goodbye jog on…..