@@KingstonHawke He literally said you are the meal I order often at a restaurant and you are the dessert, the treat for special occasions wtf. If that doesnt scream red flag lol
dude seriously I am failing to understand how you could be living with your ex for NINE YEARS, while still not even being divorced and just "ending it" NOW?
Literally I was looking for this comment because I busted out laughing when they both agreed it wasn’t him because he definitely thought he was in control😂
yea at times his voice was shaking and i felt bad because i’m sure there’s plenty of feelings going on there and there’s obvious insecurities that might come from the situation. hope the best for him and the couple as a whole
@@superkroger damn, yeah I saw that too. Kelvin appears to be more emotionally invested then the other 2 and that can lead to jealousy, possessiveness even positioning, who’s more important, who’s in love with who more. Kelvin be careful ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
My gf and I are poly but goddamn these are some red flags lmao older married guy with two young dudes, the newest is clearly attached to the young one and Chris ain't gonna mess with that for much longer That one dude is CLEARLY fetishizing the couple. That "really? leader of the group" was MAJOR ick and was definitely had power trip vibes s/o to the ladies they were comfy enough to rate eachother and had such wholesome laughing
ANYONE COULD BE LEADER of the group! It was a hypothetical silly discussion question and MAYBE HE WAS…. 🤷🏿♀️ doesn’t make him wrong literal answering a question
@@oz_peter Imagine being so deluded by status quo bias that you think it's nonmonogamy that's "woke" and "cursed," even though the culture of enforced strict serial monogamy has left half of all marriages ending in divorce. It's time for people to wake up and realize there are other options available, that needs and boundaries can be discussed and negotiated instead of just assumed, and that the healthiest way to manage and process toxic jealousy is not to make it the sole responsibility of your partner.
The guy with the woman and non-binary person is giving me the absolute worst vibes. Comparing their body parts? Calling the relationship his "game of thrones fantasy"? YUCK. I hope they realize how toxic he is and dump his ass.
@@invaderCJ They didn't do anything wrong?? He is new to their very long relationship and honestly, I don't think he needs to be in a poly relationship
this concept is so foreign to me but i admire people who are willing to have such intricate relationships with different layers and dynamics. it's a lot to handle for love.
The ‘we’re in the getting to know you phase’, while Kelvin already tried to bring up his insecurities but immediately disregard them… ouch! I think the ‘we’ and ‘you’ hurts the most. It’s really not equal
From what I personally gathered, Kelvin seems very uncomfortable with the relationship. But I have anxiety and know that I can appear to be uncomfortable in situations that are just stressful, so I don't want to be judgemental and assume something that I don't know.
@@Whirlbee plus he only sees them mostly on weekends since he lives in Canada which is why he might be thinking that they will bring in a fourth member to the group
Lawd the insecurity was heavy. Also, comparing their bodies? Describing their relationship like the game of thrones? Absolutely not. He’s gross and living out some kind of pathetic fantasy. I hope they leave him and live happily ever after
seeing this reaffirms that polyamory isnt for me cos i dont think i could handle feeling like a third wheel or knowing two of my partners had a far stronger bond like damn
What I get from this video is that the all-women thrupple is genuine! Kelvin clearly wants to be with Tony, so he tolerates Christopher but doesn’t seem to like him. And for the other thrupple, same thing. The purple hair lady seems to want to be with the man and the woman. But they both only want to be with the purple hair woman because they both seem to dislike each other.
I felt like Kelvin is in this relationship just because he wants only one of them but he accepts this dynamics to not lose the one he wants 🤔🤔 Edit : thanks you all for the likes much love from France 🇫🇷 ☺️
I'm very monogamous. I respect people who are poly and enter into poly relationships, cause it's hard work and requires a lot of ongoing communication, trust and respect to be healthy and sustainable. I honestly couldn't do it myself, but I have a lot of respect for people who can.
Myself on the other hand, I have 0 respect for someone who lives a hedonistic lifestyle of self pleasure over all. I have 0 respect for the misuse of gay marriage as something you can just invite others into and I have 0 respect for the horrific household for which they may bring in a child. Those creeps can see their way to the door.
This is a perfect comment, too often poly people shun monogamy and vice versa. Both have their own complications but doesn’t every relationship! It’s all about respecting the many different ways love can look like.
@@TryingtoTellYou self pleasure over all might be a bit biased to say, don't you think? They have genuine emotions for each other, and that may be something you don't understand and/or could not imagine for yourself, but that does not make their relationship any less than monogamous ones. None of these couples want to adopt children, in fact children were not mentioned at all. And I don't understand what you mean by "misuse of gay marriage", because you cannot be married to more than one person at once and anyone else who is "invited" into the relationship does not have the same rights as the two who are married and have marriage licenses. In the islands there are a lot of poly couples, it's more common than you think. Depending on the way you're brought up, you can understand or not understand, agree or disagree, but you cannot use that bias as a justification to discriminate.
@@TryingtoTellYou What's sad is you're so quick to judge and name-call simply because you choose to live your life differently. Just because you choose a different lifestyle and way of approaching relationships, doesn't give you the right to judge others who are different and happy with their own choices. These people aren't hurting you in any way, so maybe just let people live their lives 💜
when he said one had better tits and the other had better ass? Bye 👋🏼 i could not be in a relationship where i am compared to another person in the relationship. even at that level. even if they said i’m better in whatever way, no thanks. i’m gone.
I said, "Oh no, why?!" out loud right after he said it. That's the kind of comment your partners never forget. It was cute that the two of them both said, "I like her @ss/t1ts better," but ugh, why did he say it to begin with?
@@orangemarmalade77 he seems like a traditional form of masculinity in a man. He just likes the fantasy of having 2 women. Makes him feel more dominant and manly. It's actually probably gonna end up being the reason they break up
@@archidias no no I mean in a mental sense nor necessarily the physical sense. Traditionally, men are hyper sexual and they taught that their sexuality is a reflection on their manhood. Men are taught that their proximity to women is directly proportional to how manly thet must be so most men grow up fantasizing about having as much sex with women as possible. This creates a dynamic in which men have these fantasies of lesbians and other women in general having sex with each other, usually for the entertainment of a man. This is qat the dude in the video was referencing. He literally says, he's been dreaming of this fantasy for his whole life and just never thought it would be possible. The act of having sex with 2 women at once is a long fantasy of most men and the state of having 2 wives or girlfriends is the exact kind of thing to stroke their masculine ass ego. This dude is CLEARLY a stereotypical Traditional man, just in the mental sense rather than the physical
i feel like there was lots of sad/uncomfy faces at the "who has sex with who more" prompt. that is definitely what would be hard for me too but so impressive that they can work through that
Lol ones married in a thrupple, the guy with comparing these two women, with all three there’s that one person at the table that is CLEARLY more on the outside of the relationship. This was a cautionary tale 😂
I feel like in alot of throuples there's one that doesnt really wanna be in it but does because they're feeling one of them & deals with the other because its a package deal.
Throuples always look like this. And not in a bad way but if I met any of these people individually and they told me they’re poly I’d be like “yeah, I know.”
I feel like the bald guy and Tony use to be a throuple with he soon to be ex-husband and fell for each other leaving the husband out and Kevin only wants Tony but I can't get on feel on how Tony feel about with either of them
Introducing Christopher as being in a 9 year relationship just to reveal he's married and the marriage is JUST NOW ending. So he was cheating on his spouse for almost a decade. Got it.
They could've been in a poly relationship before, and now realizing that maybe they've just fallen out of love or something else, so now they're technically broken up, just not legally.
@MrAlex wouldn't you be? 😭😭 I get that they're poly and they're fine with multiple partners or whatever, but even with that, it'd be very hard to accept that they've been together for NINE YEARS while you've only been there for 7 months.
the way the guy tried to intimidate caitlin with the stare when he said “really? leader of the group?” was soooo 🤢🤮 plus him objectifying both of them the ENTIRE video, they should both leave him tbh
Anyone else feel like them making fun of Kelvin for never being allowed to top was mean spirited? I'm a straight dude so maybe I just don't understand. But he looked hurt by that.
I cannot be the only one who read triplets and thought they were siblings and got so confused as the video went by and let me tell you the thumbnail did not help 😭😭
I could never be in this type of relationship but I think it's admirable how well these couples work. The amount of communication required for it to work is amazing!
3:10 you see his intentions for being in a thrupple and seeing how is is genuinely upset to not be the top of their patriarchy.. even the framing and his reiterating is.. cringe
Feel bad for Kelvin, they're clearly treating him as a "side"... The whole point of polyamorous relationship is to have similar levels of intimacy between all of them and make everyone feel safe and appreciated. Their relationship feels like it's about the other two who occasionally fancy to sleep with someone else... A lot of red flags within this trio. Kelvin, get out of there. Also, the threesome with the guy... Something dodgy about him. How he compared their body parts was messed up.
this concept is so wild to me, I cannot ever imagine this kind of dinamic working for me. But it's always interesting to see other people's concept of love, even though I didn't get a good vibe from any couple except for the girls throuple...
Kelvin is the exact reason why thruples don’t work, unless they all get together at the same time and all click it will never work in the long term, as there will always be two that have been together for longer and have a stronger bond which will end up leaving one out more.
So he was a third in the first marriage, which has failed; now they've been together 9 years, and they've recently invited in a third as well? That's a crazy story, takes a lot of guts and a lot of trust I imagine
I feel for Native guy (don't think we got their name). I'm Ojibwe, and I live two doors down from an LCBO, and across from the LCBO (Liquor Control Board Ontario, Store) is "The Beer Store") so my friends all think I get drunk every week. I haven't had alcohol is 2-3 years. I'm not an alcoholic, I just, can live without it. NOT all aboriginals are addicted to alcohol, not all are violent, not all are reddish/brown skinned. We're as different as the grains of sands.
That's a great description "we're as different as the grains of sands". I like that, it describes humans very well. We're all the same base model, but we have different facets that catch the light in different ways, in different colours and in different experiences that shape us into who we are.
It’s inevitable and completely human. That’s why I don’t see how polyamory is sustainable. Every video I’ve seen, the group have obvious jealousy issues. I’m not saying it can’t work - obviously, it can. I just think that *most* of the time, it’s a situation where one person is selfish and narcissistic and the other is an insecure attachment type, so they’re willing to allow another person into the relationship to appease the other even though they aren’t totally in to it. Oops!
The more I have known and been in the lives of poly people the more I have come to understood how some people can and should be in these types of relationships. But there are certainly limits and I would say some people aren’t made for polyamory. For others, There are some who are naturals and just meant to share and receive love from multiple people.
i know i wouldn’t survive this kind of relationship. With three people- even in friendship, there’s always a third wheel 💀 And i feel like that would be me
I like people who are opened to something new. But these people are laughing nervously like they don't feel comfortable and the issues are still significant
The three girls are the only ones that seemed comfortable and no obvious red flags.
Hi, one of the three girls 👋🏽 we love eachother and have pretty open communication, thats pretty important lol ❤
I disagree. The one with the native guy looked like they got along super well.
@@KingstonHawke He literally said you are the meal I order often at a restaurant and you are the dessert, the treat for special occasions wtf. If that doesnt scream red flag lol
@@oakog8320 you girls are so nice! Love to see ya together!
@@KingstonHawke nope, he objectifies them, he is weird
Married in a throuple and still living with the ex. That’s wild.
Yeah that and considering him and Tony have been together 9 years.
THAT part
dude seriously I am failing to understand how you could be living with your ex for NINE YEARS, while still not even being divorced and just "ending it" NOW?
@Alex they were still married I think when the other dude started dating him
@@aprilsegril they’re still married now 😭 but i wouldn’t be surprised if they were the first throuple
I didn't see the plot twist of Christopher being married coming. That's wild
Yeahhh and isnt he with Tony but with the guy for 9 years ???
Vancouver is and toxic wild place I tell ya!
I was confused
@@lifewithwendy7530he’s married but they’re getting a divorce so he can be with his other bfs i guess?
@@teeheedivingnah they’ve been separated for much longer just never bothered to finalize the divorce
The GUY who THOUGHT HE was THE LEADER of the GROUP 😆
What’re you implying?
Gross. at the end he "commands" the girls too high five each other.
@@blueskiies 🤢🤢🤢 He’s giving major creep vibes
Literally I was looking for this comment because I busted out laughing when they both agreed it wasn’t him because he definitely thought he was in control😂
yes he gives me major ick vibes i dont like his attitude towards his partners.
It looks like Kelvin has strong feelings for the other 2 and looks nervous about a possible ghosting or replacement.
oh yeah. I don't wanna sound judgmental or anything, but he sounded way too insecure to be in a relationship like that.
yea at times his voice was shaking and i felt bad because i’m sure there’s plenty of feelings going on there and there’s obvious insecurities that might come from the situation. hope the best for him and the couple as a whole
Ya I agree. cuz gray shirt dude looks like he got a pattern.
@@superkroger damn, yeah I saw that too. Kelvin appears to be more emotionally invested then the other 2 and that can lead to jealousy, possessiveness even positioning, who’s more important, who’s in love with who more. Kelvin be careful ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
I don't think Kelvin is very much into the old bald guy, also why does he always have to bottom?
Its enough dealing with just one person, more power to these people.
That bald man definitely has a type 😂
Why does this have no replys
@@blizzard1198 right?
He's winning
the bald men also seems to be a lot older than the other two
I don’t ppl realized that he’s also Asian. I think him having no hair hides that a little bit.
My gf and I are poly but goddamn these are some red flags lmao
older married guy with two young dudes, the newest is clearly attached to the young one and Chris ain't gonna mess with that for much longer
That one dude is CLEARLY fetishizing the couple. That "really? leader of the group" was MAJOR ick and was definitely had power trip vibes
s/o to the ladies they were comfy enough to rate eachother and had such wholesome laughing
right the whole “Really..? The leader of the group?” gave me such an ick💀
Thats why in the ‘who loves who more’ they decide to drink, otherwise he’d throw a tantrum
ANYONE COULD BE LEADER of the group! It was a hypothetical silly discussion question and MAYBE HE WAS…. 🤷🏿♀️ doesn’t make him wrong literal answering a question
Completely agree, when the guy said he was "living the dream every night" and comparing them to food 😭 like what
"leader of the group" 🤡🤡
“all of my barbies had multiple partners” that is sending me
@@oz_peter Imagine being so deluded by status quo bias that you think it's nonmonogamy that's "woke" and "cursed," even though the culture of enforced strict serial monogamy has left half of all marriages ending in divorce. It's time for people to wake up and realize there are other options available, that needs and boundaries can be discussed and negotiated instead of just assumed, and that the healthiest way to manage and process toxic jealousy is not to make it the sole responsibility of your partner.
@@oz_peter Wokeness is when more than 2 people love each other.
@@BonShula What a terrible notion! lmaoo 🤣
Honestly my ass was like that too 😭 now look at me, two boyfriends and one metamour
@@pyndr0p_ I'm poly as well and this us my first time hearing the term "metamour", you learn new things everyday !!
I can't be the only one who sees that Kelvin kinda looks like a mix between his two other partners like he could be their son 💀
Came to the comments to find this observation. Yes.
Oh my gosh, you're right.
FOULLLL 💀💀
Bruh
The guy with the woman and non-binary person is giving me the absolute worst vibes. Comparing their body parts? Calling the relationship his "game of thrones fantasy"? YUCK. I hope they realize how toxic he is and dump his ass.
Exactly what I’m saying
yesssss thank you
right from the start it was flags. when the other two said someone else was the leader bc they did all the adult stuff he got so offended
he gives me "one penis policy" energy 🤢
He also compared them to food
The lesbians are the healthiest and happiest it’s like real life too
true
???? But this is real life what you mean skshsijd
you can always count on the sapphics to have the best poly relationships! i’ve only met sapphics who have pulled it off
i stg only lesbians can pull of something like this
Kelvin’s relationship ain’t gonna last 😭 it was so awkward watching them answer
Fr.
honestly, he should get out of there, tony and christopher are both giant walking red flags
Yeah😭
They didn't look at each other when speaking. It felt so awkward to watch.
Kelvin literally deserves so much better, they didn't even look at him or acknowledge him when talking.
All through the video, I was just thinking, "C'mon, Kelvin. You're better than this." 😭
Kelvin deserves (a) better partner/s.
@@invaderCJ They didn't do anything wrong?? He is new to their very long relationship and honestly, I don't think he needs to be in a poly relationship
this concept is so foreign to me but i admire people who are willing to have such intricate relationships with different layers and dynamics. it's a lot to handle for love.
Only alternative people in this video.... so many dad issues lol
@@jvcardoso1997 um okay lol
It’s weird but idc honestly 😅
@@jvcardoso1997 miserable loser alert
I guess it is a foreign concept for almost everyone. I do think it is kinda cool and you love to be a part of one.
Whew chilee “7 months vs 9 years I’ve already accepted the fact there’s different levels” 😭😵💫
That poor guy 😭 he’s suffering
So sad…
He needs himself a new relationship, poly or not.
I feel kelvin is getting the short end of the stick😭
That’s what he said ;)
don't you mean short end of the dick😆😆😆😩😩😩
That poor boy.
Just leave.
It feels like that he’s just in the relationship because the other two wanted to switch things up. As soon as it’s boring again, he will be out🥹
@@backdireinkeks6046 yes
Hannah, Abrina, and Haley all seem to be in a cute and healthy relationship, congrats to them!
The native guy and the two girls is why I don’t think a poly relationship with a man will work for me unless there’s another man
Because you never can be sure if he does it because he enjoys polyamory or if he wants to fulfill a disgusting fantasy
the person on the right uses they/them btw
@@ko-wl7vgoh cmon as if he sees them as a nonbinary and not as a woman
I wish the girls had more self respect to call him out on his self centered bullshit
@@sheshenqyeah. i mean, i think you can find something hot without degrading the people like he did in the video.
“Gold, Silver, Bronze” she’s definitely thought this out before 😂😂
The guy tried to compare body parts because he’s insecure about them ranking him a low lover😂😂
Exactly! He got so offended when both of them ranked him as worst lover😂
The ‘we’re in the getting to know you phase’, while Kelvin already tried to bring up his insecurities but immediately disregard them… ouch! I think the ‘we’ and ‘you’ hurts the most. It’s really not equal
Okay the three girls are the only group that seem to not be SUPER toxic
I very much get the impression of the gay thrupple that it's not a thrupple but a married couple who invite a third in from time to tme
Did you watch it to the end? 😅
@@jonaswolterstorff3460 Yup. And still feel that way.
It felt like they adopted a puppy and want him to feel at home in their house🙈hope it works for them all tho
they were so messyyy my jaw dropped when he admitted he had a husband that wasn’t either of the other two
From what I personally gathered, Kelvin seems very uncomfortable with the relationship.
But I have anxiety and know that I can appear to be uncomfortable in situations that are just stressful, so I don't want to be judgemental and assume something that I don't know.
Not to mention being on camera and your relationship being made public for the first time to an international audience 😅
@@Whirlbee plus he only sees them mostly on weekends since he lives in Canada which is why he might be thinking that they will bring in a fourth member to the group
👀 he was feeling some type of way about not being the leader of the group😅
He was shook for sure
Lawd the insecurity was heavy.
Also, comparing their bodies? Describing their relationship like the game of thrones?
Absolutely not.
He’s gross and living out some kind of pathetic fantasy.
I hope they leave him and live happily ever after
seeing this reaffirms that polyamory isnt for me cos i dont think i could handle feeling like a third wheel or knowing two of my partners had a far stronger bond like damn
Polyamory doesn’t have to be a throuple, I am polyamorous but I have 2 boyfriends who do not date each other, and they both have another girlfriend
@@auri7442 jus say ur cheating on each other atp
@@auri7442 Lol your "boyfriends" aren't taking you seriously 🤣🤣🤣
@@someonejohnson5774 no ❤️
@@blizzard1198 no ❤️
Calvin can't even LOOK at the bald man omg
😂😂
It legitimately amazes me that throuples work out for some people
What I get from this video is that the all-women thrupple is genuine!
Kelvin clearly wants to be with Tony, so he tolerates Christopher but doesn’t seem to like him.
And for the other thrupple, same thing. The purple hair lady seems to want to be with the man and the woman. But they both only want to be with the purple hair woman because they both seem to dislike each other.
I liked the Hannah group dynamics! Kudos to you!
Thank you sm!! We all appreciate the love and support:) 🤍
I know! The giggle squeals…. I couldnt help but smile so wide!!!
I felt like Kelvin is in this relationship just because he wants only one of them but he accepts this dynamics to not lose the one he wants 🤔🤔
Edit : thanks you all for the likes much love from France 🇫🇷 ☺️
My thoughts exactly. Doesn’t seem like he has any interest in the married guy lol
@@Kuromichi08 i know right?? He seems pretty upset too...
felt that vibe too
@@mauddelaunay8399 Right?! Like when the married guy asked if he gets jealous, the aggression he gave felt like it was strictly toward him 🤣🤣
@@Kuromichi08 yes and he barely look at him
I'm very monogamous. I respect people who are poly and enter into poly relationships, cause it's hard work and requires a lot of ongoing communication, trust and respect to be healthy and sustainable. I honestly couldn't do it myself, but I have a lot of respect for people who can.
Myself on the other hand, I have 0 respect for someone who lives a hedonistic lifestyle of self pleasure over all. I have 0 respect for the misuse of gay marriage as something you can just invite others into and I have 0 respect for the horrific household for which they may bring in a child. Those creeps can see their way to the door.
This is a perfect comment, too often poly people shun monogamy and vice versa. Both have their own complications but doesn’t every relationship! It’s all about respecting the many different ways love can look like.
I was just about to comment that people who think relationships are hard ~work~ are probably sitting here horrified lmao
@@TryingtoTellYou self pleasure over all might be a bit biased to say, don't you think? They have genuine emotions for each other, and that may be something you don't understand and/or could not imagine for yourself, but that does not make their relationship any less than monogamous ones.
None of these couples want to adopt children, in fact children were not mentioned at all. And I don't understand what you mean by "misuse of gay marriage", because you cannot be married to more than one person at once and anyone else who is "invited" into the relationship does not have the same rights as the two who are married and have marriage licenses.
In the islands there are a lot of poly couples, it's more common than you think. Depending on the way you're brought up, you can understand or not understand, agree or disagree, but you cannot use that bias as a justification to discriminate.
@@TryingtoTellYou What's sad is you're so quick to judge and name-call simply because you choose to live your life differently. Just because you choose a different lifestyle and way of approaching relationships, doesn't give you the right to judge others who are different and happy with their own choices. These people aren't hurting you in any way, so maybe just let people live their lives 💜
when he said one had better tits and the other had better ass? Bye 👋🏼 i could not be in a relationship where i am compared to another person in the relationship. even at that level. even if they said i’m better in whatever way, no thanks. i’m gone.
I said, "Oh no, why?!" out loud right after he said it. That's the kind of comment your partners never forget. It was cute that the two of them both said, "I like her @ss/t1ts better," but ugh, why did he say it to begin with?
RIGHT i got the ick hes acting like theyre part of some sex menu that he can order from.... hes not even hot either
@@orangemarmalade77 he seems like a traditional form of masculinity in a man. He just likes the fantasy of having 2 women. Makes him feel more dominant and manly. It's actually probably gonna end up being the reason they break up
@@ramonsanders651 bro that man is one punch away from being 6 ft under its is NOT a "traditional masculine man" 💀💀
@@archidias no no I mean in a mental sense nor necessarily the physical sense. Traditionally, men are hyper sexual and they taught that their sexuality is a reflection on their manhood. Men are taught that their proximity to women is directly proportional to how manly thet must be so most men grow up fantasizing about having as much sex with women as possible. This creates a dynamic in which men have these fantasies of lesbians and other women in general having sex with each other, usually for the entertainment of a man. This is qat the dude in the video was referencing. He literally says, he's been dreaming of this fantasy for his whole life and just never thought it would be possible. The act of having sex with 2 women at once is a long fantasy of most men and the state of having 2 wives or girlfriends is the exact kind of thing to stroke their masculine ass ego. This dude is CLEARLY a stereotypical Traditional man, just in the mental sense rather than the physical
Kelvin it's not too late to back out, love! Or come back with these two for the follow-up, "Truth or Drink: Exes" down the line.
i feel like there was lots of sad/uncomfy faces at the "who has sex with who more" prompt. that is definitely what would be hard for me too but so impressive that they can work through that
Lol ones married in a thrupple, the guy with comparing these two women, with all three there’s that one person at the table that is CLEARLY more on the outside of the relationship. This was a cautionary tale 😂
I can't find one person to have a relationship with let alone two 🤣😂
Right
Sometimes when it rains, it pours 😜
And sometimes it feels like it will never rain right on top of me ever again 😭
These couples are exactly how I expected them to look and act
They are all so different tho
@@yume_colored Are they?
@@laceyhaas Yup
💀
I feel like in alot of throuples there's one that doesnt really wanna be in it but does because they're feeling one of them & deals with the other because its a package deal.
the man in the m/f/nb relationship gives me major ick. the way he talked about his partners made my skin crawl.
tony and i went to school together, i SCREAMED when i saw him in the thumbnail 😂. he’s super friendly and lovely 😊.
Had to watch this twice to really grasp all of the dynamics happening here
Throuples always look like this. And not in a bad way but if I met any of these people individually and they told me they’re poly I’d be like “yeah, I know.”
You mean like a grown adult stuck in their edgy teen emo phase?
You could say the same about conservatives lmao. You know they are before they say it.
Lmaooo
Ye they're not obeying fascist rules down to every letter, I'm sure doggies can spot that
No and they sound exactly how I expected them to too
I feel like the awkwardness can be cut with a knife lmao 😂 😂
I feel like the bald guy and Tony use to be a throuple with he soon to be ex-husband and fell for each other leaving the husband out and Kevin only wants Tony but I can't get on feel on how Tony feel about with either of them
I really wish these were longer! Maybe 15 mins or 20!!!
Stay safe, stay sane, stay Strong
Introducing Christopher as being in a 9 year relationship just to reveal he's married and the marriage is JUST NOW ending. So he was cheating on his spouse for almost a decade. Got it.
Maybe his spouse knew about it??
They could've been in a poly relationship before, and now realizing that maybe they've just fallen out of love or something else, so now they're technically broken up, just not legally.
At one point one of them said "entering the marriage." It sounded like it was an open marriage for a while
Why are you assuming a man who is openly dating two other men cheated on his husband and wasn't in an open/poly relationship with him as well...?
Yea....that dude being all threatened and weird about not being called the leader was MAJOR ick!!!
I feel really bad for kelvin😭😭
he sounds salty 🤔
@@itsmj3103 He is. And sounds pretty jealous as well.
@@KINGJERMARCUS no it really wont
@MrAlex wouldn't you be? 😭😭 I get that they're poly and they're fine with multiple partners or whatever, but even with that, it'd be very hard to accept that they've been together for NINE YEARS while you've only been there for 7 months.
Me, too! It seemed kind of resigned to certain things which makes me sad.
They get a lot more awkward then I expected. I expected these topics to be discussed already
Cut always digging people out of nowhere!
the way the guy tried to intimidate caitlin with the stare when he said “really? leader of the group?” was soooo 🤢🤮 plus him objectifying both of them the ENTIRE video, they should both leave him tbh
Anyone else feel like them making fun of Kelvin for never being allowed to top was mean spirited?
I'm a straight dude so maybe I just don't understand. But he looked hurt by that.
I'm gay bro and they were mean as fuck
The “rank by who’s the best lover” question would’ve did it for me
The entire exchange at 4:22 is so funny. I can't imagine having the balls to do one of these and answer such dicey questions haha, they are brave!
I cannot be the only one who read triplets and thought they were siblings and got so confused as the video went by and let me tell you the thumbnail did not help 😭😭
They all got that “trouple” look.
3:48 - 3:55 transformation of Kevin to a red apple. Haha
I hated how that one dude (long hair) spoke about his partners. He was a bit misogynistic
This whole thing was AWKWARD!!!!
Together 9 years…but still married?
I knoooooooow
Christopher is a walking red flag and his boyfriend is also a walking red flag, but I feel like he's kinda of a victim too Idk why
Kelvin is a such a cutie, i find it rare to see throuples of all men but i absolutely love it! :D
I could never be in this type of relationship but I think it's admirable how well these couples work. The amount of communication required for it to work is amazing!
*throuples
Do they really work tho it's obvious they're avoiding some major issues
@@kidsofyesterday17 You mean like most monogamists? lol. It's funny how non-mono's are held to a higher standard
I appreciate these videos that are more about educating the public than these couples learning anything new about each other. Thank you!
texting the group chat good morning lmaooo **throuple goals**
3:08 He really thought he had that 😭
Kelvin seems a bit defensive 😳
The one time a native person is included in something and he’s bad vibes 😭
3:10 you see his intentions for being in a thrupple and seeing how is is genuinely upset to not be the top of their patriarchy.. even the framing and his reiterating is.. cringe
Yea i dont like him. Not a good dude at all
New drinking game idea: take a shot every time cut has "sex" in the thumbnail
sometimes I feel lonely but you could not pay me to be in a throuple
Feel bad for Kelvin, they're clearly treating him as a "side"...
The whole point of polyamorous relationship is to have similar levels of intimacy between all of them and make everyone feel safe and appreciated.
Their relationship feels like it's about the other two who occasionally fancy to sleep with someone else...
A lot of red flags within this trio.
Kelvin, get out of there.
Also, the threesome with the guy...
Something dodgy about him.
How he compared their body parts was messed up.
this concept is so wild to me, I cannot ever imagine this kind of dinamic working for me. But it's always interesting to see other people's concept of love, even though I didn't get a good vibe from any couple except for the girls throuple...
The number of shots that were taken instead of answering the question just radiates discomfort
*intense eye contact* "Really? Leader of the group?"
😳😳😳
Kelvin is the exact reason why thruples don’t work, unless they all get together at the same time and all click it will never work in the long term, as there will always be two that have been together for longer and have a stronger bond which will end up leaving one out more.
Ye completely ignore the other 2 to support ur opinion
@@Lilian040210 i mean in each one there is jealousy you cant please 2 people at the same time so in the end it will always dissolve
So he was a third in the first marriage, which has failed; now they've been together 9 years, and they've recently invited in a third as well? That's a crazy story, takes a lot of guts and a lot of trust I imagine
I feel for Native guy (don't think we got their name). I'm Ojibwe, and I live two doors down from an LCBO, and across from the LCBO (Liquor Control Board Ontario, Store) is "The Beer Store") so my friends all think I get drunk every week.
I haven't had alcohol is 2-3 years. I'm not an alcoholic, I just, can live without it.
NOT all aboriginals are addicted to alcohol, not all are violent, not all are reddish/brown skinned. We're as different as the grains of sands.
That's a great description "we're as different as the grains of sands". I like that, it describes humans very well. We're all the same base model, but we have different facets that catch the light in different ways, in different colours and in different experiences that shape us into who we are.
i loved this. i love your culture as well. it’s so unique and beautiful
@@metislamestiza3708 miigwech gayegiin, from Ontario.
Ah the liqbo...
instinctively feel like kelvin wants Tony more 🥴
Ahh i wish i could see more. I love the ending. Break those stereotypes baby!!
I can’t barely have a duople 🤦🏽♂️
🤣
Still thinking about how they manage to drop all forms of favoritism and treat all the partners as equals🤔
i mean theres clear favorites in all these relationships
It’s inevitable and completely human. That’s why I don’t see how polyamory is sustainable. Every video I’ve seen, the group have obvious jealousy issues. I’m not saying it can’t work - obviously, it can. I just think that *most* of the time, it’s a situation where one person is selfish and narcissistic and the other is an insecure attachment type, so they’re willing to allow another person into the relationship to appease the other even though they aren’t totally in to it. Oops!
The more I have known and been in the lives of poly people the more I have come to understood how some people can and should be in these types of relationships. But there are certainly limits and I would say some people aren’t made for polyamory. For others, There are some who are naturals and just meant to share and receive love from multiple people.
@@Bootlegsupercar This is it, but thats true for every type of relationships. But i can se how poly relationships get way trickier way faster.
@@Bootlegsupercar VERY THIS
Hannah’s group sounded fun lol
i know i wouldn’t survive this kind of relationship.
With three people- even in friendship, there’s always a third wheel 💀
And i feel like that would be me
5:30 wonder if they started as a throuple as well...
I'm calling it now, the two girls and guy couple were either the result of unicorn hunting or just two girls trying to impress the dude
Definitely they could do alot better
This seems way too complicated, all of them are awkward and uncomfortable. Just have a normal relationship
But they don't want a "normal" relationship 💁🏽♀️
I'd disagree. The 3 girls seemed to have a really good foundation
I like people who are opened to something new. But these people are laughing nervously like they don't feel comfortable and the issues are still significant
They were being asked awkward questions. It's like being asked which child you love more in front of your children.
@@sd7785 except that a parent wouldnt fucking compare their childrens body parts and compare them to food and desert.... thats unhealthy as fuck
@@imanieich506 Calm down, mate
I’m not extroverted enough to deal w one, let alone two. 🤨
am i the only one thinking tony's body proportions make him look like the human version of chibi/bobbleheads
I dont have any knowledge of a triple relationship but these couples make it at least very interesting and funny.
what happens when one of the throuple wants to break up with one other and the third one doesnt want to the second person out
i feel like it's not a coincidence that these people all look like they would hangout XD
most of them look like they need to shower
Dude u got beads in ur hair, of course she’s the leader of the group 😂
What an interesting group of people. Continue to slay!
i cannot explain how cringe and reddit like this comment is
@@archidias lol!! No literally
@@archidias are you just going through comments waiting to be offended? Snowflake
@@archidias thought the same💀💀💀 "continue to slay!"
@@pyndr0p_ nah im trying to see people's reactions n opinions didn't expect them all to be this slow
I started this video thinking they were triplets. got so scared for a sec
NAH CUZ SAME😭
The gay guy couple story is WILD.
throuple ...a thing like that exists ..this world has too much to shock me about...
this channel is so creative i love it
This is so great! Can we have more polyamory/ consensual non-monogamy content!