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  • @piscessister3137
    @piscessister3137 Місяць тому +290

    raymond saying early 20s in 2005 i fully thought he was 23 at most😭😭

    • @allykanyce
      @allykanyce Місяць тому +7

      My thoughts EXAXTLY

    • @rubysr16
      @rubysr16 17 днів тому +1

      I was so taken back when he said his early 20's. So I definitely agree.

    • @jamielees4331
      @jamielees4331 4 дні тому

      Nahhh he is obviously over 30

  • @enola8800
    @enola8800 Місяць тому +1967

    love that raymond met someone as sweet as his girlfriend, they really look happy together!

  • @ijustneedmyself
    @ijustneedmyself Місяць тому +977

    The point of prison in this country has NEVER been to reform anyone. Once you get that in your head then it all makes sense.

    • @BrandayRose
      @BrandayRose Місяць тому

      Literally though!! This country is about putting people in there to ruin lives, not reform criminals. I wish people in this country would realize that.

    • @piececake5820
      @piececake5820 Місяць тому +56

      Its all about cheap labor

    • @music0cool
      @music0cool Місяць тому +55

      @@piececake5820 And punishment, and hoping to be scary enough to act as a crime deterrent (which studies show doesnt work because its bandaid on a deep complex issue)

    • @user-ps2sy8yg8h
      @user-ps2sy8yg8h Місяць тому +1

      I am curious are these girls or transgender, i'm confused

    • @mindfulstoic3095
      @mindfulstoic3095 Місяць тому

      @@user-ps2sy8yg8h Me too, especially the one on the left.

  • @saoirseviolet9284
    @saoirseviolet9284 Місяць тому +1345

    I just love Raymond.

  • @enola8800
    @enola8800 Місяць тому +839

    raymond's gilfriend is absolutely stunning

  • @Greatgodofcows1111
    @Greatgodofcows1111 Місяць тому +871

    I think the blond woman is still going through a lot. It usually takes a crap ton of therapy and years of effort to get through the impact prison has, and she just got out a couple of years ago. Hopefully, she is going to get better and stronger!😊

    • @sw8547
      @sw8547 Місяць тому +28

      Agreed. People are judging but they don’t understand what went she went through. You dont come out of that situation normal

    • @cashmoney865
      @cashmoney865 28 днів тому +1

      i was so glad to see them not cut the parts where she kinda spaces out and stuff, makes me feel a bit more normal. i’ve not been incarcerated in any way but i do deal with ptsd and people often judge you when you space out in conversation or don’t make eye contact

  • @yake222
    @yake222 Місяць тому +473

    as long as prison is a business it's never going to get better

    • @asdqwertz2842
      @asdqwertz2842 Місяць тому +13

      That’s all of America sadly

  • @carligirrl
    @carligirrl Місяць тому +560

    I adore Raymond! Every time he is in a video, I'm gonna watch! He seems like he's really turned his life around and is such a great person, and whenever he talks about his kids, you can just tell what a deeply loving father he is. Adore him!

    • @jennifernwaneri5731
      @jennifernwaneri5731 Місяць тому

      Has he been in any other videos??

    • @rockyrae3455
      @rockyrae3455 Місяць тому

      ​@@jennifernwaneri5731 Several others.

    • @alyssaroxanne9084
      @alyssaroxanne9084 Місяць тому +2

      @@jennifernwaneri5731He has been in quite a few videos! He was in either one or both of the guess who has a criminal background Lineups, he and his wife were guessers in a Lineup where they had to put the child with the right parent, and they were part of a Lineup where the guesser had to guess how many kids each person had. Those are the ones I know off the top of my head, but I know there have been more!

  • @leggyegg2890
    @leggyegg2890 Місяць тому +104

    The way the blonde woman brushed over the DV assault, then her gf said it was dumb she got in trouble for breaching the restraining order to contact her ex is… unsettling

    • @peyote.
      @peyote. Місяць тому +26

      Literally toxic and she's takes no accountability which is not chill

    • @sierramotiee-moore9597
      @sierramotiee-moore9597 Місяць тому +129

      I think she meant it was dumb that she called because she later said something like, "you know those calls are recorded, right?"

    • @leggyegg2890
      @leggyegg2890 Місяць тому +4

      @@sierramotiee-moore9597 ohhhh that could be it

    • @javaristurner6146
      @javaristurner6146 Місяць тому

      Yeah both them bitches crazy

    • @alyssaroxanne9084
      @alyssaroxanne9084 Місяць тому +12

      @@leggyegg2890Yeah, at first when I heard her say it I was like “oof, bad look”. But then I realized she was calling her girlfriend dumb for calling and violating the order.

  • @Greatgodofcows1111
    @Greatgodofcows1111 Місяць тому +360

    2:14 That is so sad. Sorry, you had to go through that dude! You seem like a better person, and your girlfriend is so sweet for judging you for you, and not your tattoos!😊

  • @peyote.
    @peyote. Місяць тому +53

    Raymond is a genuine cool dude who you can automatically tell has a good heart and learned a lot from him experiences

  • @earthscorcher
    @earthscorcher Місяць тому +19

    From what I can tell, Raymond got arrested for doing what needed to be done. It's a shame he was scarred the way he was there.

  • @whitneystriggow2368
    @whitneystriggow2368 27 днів тому +12

    I like the way Raymond answered that “are you reformed question”

  • @antvilleda95
    @antvilleda95 29 днів тому +16

    That man giving his kids prison sweet snacks 😭😭 #Bestdadaward

  • @Devin_Art
    @Devin_Art Місяць тому +78

    This is incredible, honest and humanizing. Really good entry for those unaware at how draconian the American Judicial system is.

  • @bethanywest5257
    @bethanywest5257 Місяць тому +71

    Sad thing is, prison has always been about punishment and isolation(from the rest of society). Not reform. I wish it was different, but unfortunately it will probably be a long time before it is, if it ever is.

    • @erinfennessy5332
      @erinfennessy5332 Місяць тому

      I’m confused…. Why is that “unfortunate”…. Prison IS FOR PEOPLE DANGEROUS TO SOCIETY

  • @jenniferyounger2916
    @jenniferyounger2916 Місяць тому +63

    I would love to hear more about Raymond's story. Just what we got to hear in this video is insane. Being convicted at 16yo for a crime you didn't commit? Being arrested for existing in a public space? I'm so sorry you had to live through that. A huge fear of mine is being accused of something I never did. Terrifying. 😢

  • @Sinbeenwinning
    @Sinbeenwinning Місяць тому +28

    Like Raymond said most ppl are doing longer sentences because they can't afford to fight the crime, nothing about prison is about reform. It's literally modern day slavery.
    This is not to say some ppl don't belong but for the ones who can't afford to be are doomed when they get out. That needs to change.

  • @neckbone4941
    @neckbone4941 Місяць тому +28

    Yeah the blonde chick needs therapy. And those two dont seem like they fit each other very well.
    They remind me of the two junkies who never break up.

    • @ghostophelia2245
      @ghostophelia2245 Місяць тому +11

      Yeah... you're not really supposed to date in rehab for this exact reason. Trauma bonding is real and can cause real damage down the road

  • @astralfluxaf
    @astralfluxaf Місяць тому +73

    Raymond is amazing thank you for speaking up about all of the injustices and TRUTH ❤💯

    • @user-ps2sy8yg8h
      @user-ps2sy8yg8h Місяць тому +1

      I am curious are these girls or transgender, i'm confused

  • @mariahv7549
    @mariahv7549 Місяць тому +60

    I love this and the last note that Raymond said. It’s so true. Just because some people are in prison it doesn’t make them less human and not everyone in there is the same stereotype people often think of or label them as. You realize a lot more about it when you’re curious and have family members that have been in the system. The stereotypes can sting. The prison system needs more reform in areas. Sometimes it really does set certain people back and I wonder is the “lesson” ever gotten over when you spend so much of your life after prison stilll paying for something you did a long time ago. Depends on the crime for sure though. I don’t think it’s something as simple as people try to make it and shouldn’t be treated as a blanket concept of “dealing” with it. Some people need real help and mental health advocacy.

    • @user-ps2sy8yg8h
      @user-ps2sy8yg8h Місяць тому

      I am curious are these girls or transgender, i'm confused

  • @bsimms583
    @bsimms583 Місяць тому +106

    Damn I remember this guy from previous videos, this gone be good.

  • @goblinwizard735
    @goblinwizard735 Місяць тому +44

    love that yall did this one

  • @giorgiminasidi233
    @giorgiminasidi233 Місяць тому +19

    I feel so sad that people get incarcerated for having a healthcare problem - addiction! Even worse, upon release they are not able to find a job, which further exacerbates their socio-economic situation, thus their health.

    • @leggyegg2890
      @leggyegg2890 Місяць тому +1

      I agree, but in her case it was for domestic violence

    • @giorgiminasidi233
      @giorgiminasidi233 Місяць тому +3

      @@leggyegg2890 It is all interlinked. It's called social determinants of health.

    • @leggyegg2890
      @leggyegg2890 Місяць тому

      @@giorgiminasidi233 I get that, I thought you were assuming she was arrested for possession or something

    • @giorgiminasidi233
      @giorgiminasidi233 Місяць тому

      @@leggyegg2890 not her but people do get arrested for possession!

  • @sylviazupfer4201
    @sylviazupfer4201 Місяць тому +7

    WE NEED MORE OF THESE 👏🏼👏🏼

  • @sourcherry341
    @sourcherry341 Місяць тому +2

    raymonds n his girls smile is very similar its so sweet!

  • @Ceerads
    @Ceerads Місяць тому +102

    All former felons should be allowed to vote.

  • @estrellalujan6608
    @estrellalujan6608 Місяць тому +7

    As someone who has a partner that was formerly carcerated, I would really love to see more of these videos and this topic💜

  • @ranveer10
    @ranveer10 Місяць тому +8

    Happy for Raymond. His gf is sweet just like him❤

  • @sunny5ma
    @sunny5ma Місяць тому +5

    I loved this so much. I hope to see more of all these people.❤❤ they're all such amazing humans. And that McDonald's story.... that's just fucked. It literally borough tears to my eyes. I'm rooting for them all, honestly. 😔💖

  • @BaloonieFloat
    @BaloonieFloat Місяць тому +29

    He looks like James Franco

    • @speaktruth896
      @speaktruth896 Місяць тому +1

      EXACTLY doppelganger cool 127hrs mooovie lol

  • @Keyairus22
    @Keyairus22 Місяць тому +5

    The slang term he taught her "dope fiend" (the cake). Next question she like why do you always gotta go to the bathroom as soon as we get somewhere 😅 hhmmm.

  • @dakotac180
    @dakotac180 Місяць тому

    Raymond is such a cool dude, she is lucky to have him.

  • @cloudico
    @cloudico Місяць тому +40

    loved the couple with the man and the woman!

  • @alannadvorak2198
    @alannadvorak2198 Місяць тому +84

    For the record, felon voter restoration depends on the state.

  • @tannershanksftw
    @tannershanksftw Місяць тому +96

    1:28 "I do now" you did at the time too. It literally says "these calls are recorded" 🤦

    • @theekatspajamas
      @theekatspajamas Місяць тому +21

      I'm pretty sure it depends on the prison whether or not it tells you it's recorded, at least on both ends. They also might've just been making a joke. Many people joke to cope. Like, they obviously weren't in a good place, and even if they knew, they likely didn't care at the time. That's such a weird thing to nitpick about.

  • @alxmon6478
    @alxmon6478 Місяць тому +1

    Raymond and Clois are always so fun to see!! Hope they’re going well!!

  • @Lhayes113
    @Lhayes113 Місяць тому +1

    This was a really great video

  • @Atpeacewithoneself
    @Atpeacewithoneself Місяць тому +2

    I love this episode. For anyone who has issues on finding a job. See if there is programs in your state that will help. I know a couple of people whom served 25 yrs. And gotten out and went through programs to help them get a job. Keep your head up ❤

  • @utobots
    @utobots Місяць тому +3

    This video brings a lot of great perspective :)

  • @jabareywells6815
    @jabareywells6815 Місяць тому

    This was a great video, Cut

  • @dot_t
    @dot_t Місяць тому +23

    My son's father went to jail then prison for over 13 years. He got to finally re-meet and hug his 18 year old son. Major PTSD over all of that. We live in different states. ❤️✨

  • @amberrodriguez851
    @amberrodriguez851 Місяць тому +7

    Congrats to the two who got and stayed clean! One day at a time ❤

  • @catherinegrogan1343
    @catherinegrogan1343 Місяць тому

    Really interesting!

  • @EvilAnomaly
    @EvilAnomaly Місяць тому +34

    No way in hell I'd take a charge for my s.o. They decide to do something that stupid I'm not going to take that ride. Then again chances are small I'd be with such a person to begin with.

  • @stayhappylittlemermaid
    @stayhappylittlemermaid Місяць тому +12

    Any day that you can watch the sunset is a great day.
    🌅🌄

  • @vulasquez
    @vulasquez Місяць тому +3

    Preach Raymond

  • @user-px4eu2et7j
    @user-px4eu2et7j Місяць тому +25

    Here’s ur reminder to like the video cause Ik people be forgetting sometimes

    • @carligirrl
      @carligirrl Місяць тому +1

      I did forget. Lol. Thank you!

  • @Imdebbae
    @Imdebbae 15 днів тому

    Great video!!! 🎉

  • @mr.lincoln5154
    @mr.lincoln5154 22 дні тому

    Grandma was wondering who stole her table cloth.😅

  • @iftitamaharani6665
    @iftitamaharani6665 Місяць тому +24

    I'm very sorry what your government had put you through 😢
    That's terrible

  • @gibsterzz
    @gibsterzz Місяць тому +1

    the lesbian couple is so beautiful. i wish them the best & strength through their sobriety journeys!!!

  • @AH-sn9sl
    @AH-sn9sl 27 днів тому +2

    Raymond is awesome

  • @ranveer10
    @ranveer10 Місяць тому +1

    9:03 i love oitnb too ❤

  • @Uzyz
    @Uzyz Місяць тому +3

    Anyone know where to buy the guy's hat?

  • @mylahf5479
    @mylahf5479 Місяць тому +8

    Dr Mike with tattoos?! Okkkayy Raymond, we see youu!!

  • @jamesb8818
    @jamesb8818 Місяць тому +25

    that girl has a super deep voice lol

    • @ijustneedmyself
      @ijustneedmyself Місяць тому +1

      Makes me wonder if she de-transitioned and that's why it's like that. Or she could be trans 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @zercora
      @zercora Місяць тому +6

      I love it

    • @lanijay8782
      @lanijay8782 Місяць тому

      She may be transgender

    • @theneekolascleo
      @theneekolascleo Місяць тому +2

      @@zercorame too i literally searched for this comment

  • @Casper15CTRP
    @Casper15CTRP Місяць тому +85

    That blonde girl comes off as mad weird to me

    • @Queerbookwitch
      @Queerbookwitch Місяць тому +52

      Frrr she seemed very flippant about the DV :/ The other couple was really sweet though

    • @ShizukaRose
      @ShizukaRose Місяць тому +1

      Why

    • @Casper15CTRP
      @Casper15CTRP Місяць тому +19

      @@ShizukaRoselike another commenter said, you are aware that calls are recorded. Then when asked what qualities or traits she has that are felon like she got super defensive and was like yeah don’t answer that

    • @fabuleuxlyfe2333
      @fabuleuxlyfe2333 Місяць тому +30

      It’s probably the years of trauma and addiction

    • @sw8547
      @sw8547 Місяць тому +1

      DV will result in a lot of trauma

  • @Ytmetzc
    @Ytmetzc Місяць тому +7

    Fyi, you don’t get a felony for assault 4 DV and order violation.

  • @philipgarcia546
    @philipgarcia546 Місяць тому

    Okay cut maybe chill it with the music when they’re talking about their traumas

  • @lildevil3105
    @lildevil3105 Місяць тому +3

    I got a felony because a cop put me in a headlock when i had cuffs on till the point i was light headed nd almost passed out when i came back to reality i headbutted his arm BUT I GOT CHARGED 7 cops came and the reason they were there was because my mom called them for a welfare check because i just lost a few friends and i was homeless so i was depressed i never committed a crime before that either. And because i couldn't afford a lawyer my public pretender told me because Wisconsin is a cop state the judge was gonna take there side nd it also dont help im black ( mixed) right then my( white) mom realized my life was gonna be alot harder even tho i didnt even do anything

  • @Bambitz
    @Bambitz Місяць тому +3

    Hi

  • @MiriamA766
    @MiriamA766 Місяць тому +6

    Raymond is so likeable!

  • @FabulousIcky
    @FabulousIcky Місяць тому +23

    I wonder what will take for majority of the world to be less prejudiced against people with criminal record. I'm tired of judgmental and small-minded people.

  • @sangosister
    @sangosister Місяць тому +10

    love this game but when playing with mutal player we became confused. Could ya'll do a video on how to play with 3+ players.

    • @thisisforvids
      @thisisforvids Місяць тому

      probably take turns asking a question to the group (like never have I ever).

    • @sangosister
      @sangosister Місяць тому

      @@thisisforvids we tried that but as we read the directions we became more confused. To be better understand i need to see it to better understand it.

  • @notlu_
    @notlu_ 11 днів тому

    Raymond is sooo fineee❤

  • @1lAnimel1
    @1lAnimel1 Місяць тому +5

    Ever done a video for truth or smoke? It exactly like this but weed 🤣.

  • @mimijuarez8981
    @mimijuarez8981 Місяць тому

    I wnna do this with my man ! We are pretty funny 😂 & we get to drink lol

  • @SANGLORENSMITH
    @SANGLORENSMITH Місяць тому

    LOVE!!

  • @everythingslive
    @everythingslive Місяць тому +7

    Damn Raymond, I’d take the fall for you 👀

  • @doliyolanda9903
    @doliyolanda9903 Місяць тому

    Reserved

  • @Nina-xk9sq
    @Nina-xk9sq Місяць тому +5

    You can get truth or drink in Germany in the mayersche!!!

  • @staceyshere
    @staceyshere Місяць тому +1

    Like America, prison is strictly a business

  • @DogBread1
    @DogBread1 25 днів тому

    If you cant do the time dont do the crime

  • @user-of8qw8bh3h
    @user-of8qw8bh3h Місяць тому

    @6:27 it’s a vicious cycle. We need to help other humans.

  • @Catseye189
    @Catseye189 15 годин тому

    "People going to treat me different because of my face tattoos" Over and over, then go get them removed!!!! LOL I get that you like the shock value and now can use them as a crutch that other people are judging you, but grow the F up.

  • @Tenseiken_
    @Tenseiken_ Місяць тому +1

    gah damn the neck game is insane

  • @keannawilson6036
    @keannawilson6036 Місяць тому +1

    I think it depends on what state you live in when it comes to voting. my husband’s a felon & still can’t vote.

  • @astilounlewise9784
    @astilounlewise9784 Місяць тому

    This man's shirt is dope. Anyone know where that's from?

  • @BeeSunshine-vf2im
    @BeeSunshine-vf2im Місяць тому +3

    Um...this is...something. I know everyone in the video grown..it's just..definitely not relationship goals. A women with no children tied herself the a ex-convict with 5 kids and a woman is with an ex-convict that committed domestic violence on an ex. Not saying neither aren't changed people for the better, it would have been nice to hear the ex-convicts talk about the mental help they received since being released. The man with 5 children should not have been ok with getting with a young woman with no kids and watching her change her life for him. Hopefully the other learned how her way of thinking and changed for the better.😐

    • @ghostophelia2245
      @ghostophelia2245 Місяць тому +1

      It's incredibly doubtful that he sees them much anyway. I'm sure his baby mama(s) have full custody given his history. I doubt she's had to change much in that regard

  • @alexlachapelle9065
    @alexlachapelle9065 Місяць тому

    🥺❤️

  • @moomoo6998
    @moomoo6998 Місяць тому +14

    The lesbians hate eachother or just got in a fight right before getting there

    • @begforstar
      @begforstar Місяць тому +2

      why do u say that? i feel like the pixie cut is still getting over her time inside

    • @peyote.
      @peyote. Місяць тому +1

      Yeah no chemistry at all

  • @tabathastaples7884
    @tabathastaples7884 Місяць тому

    Shepherd's Chapel Network !!!!!!! Do you know where America is mentioned in the Bible ???????

  • @LeoArcie
    @LeoArcie Місяць тому +2

    Raymond is so hot I can’t 🤧

  • @fabuleuxlyfe2333
    @fabuleuxlyfe2333 Місяць тому +12

    Prison Abolition ✊✊✊

  • @Jimmyjim3641
    @Jimmyjim3641 Місяць тому +3

    Raymond is cool👍🏻👍🏻

  • @ilhuicatlamatini
    @ilhuicatlamatini Місяць тому

    Hmm…

  • @cloudico
    @cloudico Місяць тому +13

    idk why, but that one couple with the blonde gave me interesting vibes. came off as a little standoffish

  • @TheOnlyTaps
    @TheOnlyTaps Місяць тому

    🙏🏿💜

  • @mattyp6908
    @mattyp6908 Місяць тому

    That dude has harsh Main Character syndrome.

  • @ShizukaRose
    @ShizukaRose Місяць тому +3

    The blond pixie cut woman has very millennial mannerisms.

  • @miaaaaa9744
    @miaaaaa9744 Місяць тому +1

    So happy to not live in the US honestly

  • @julieta9913
    @julieta9913 Місяць тому

    can someone explain to me why people get teardrop tattoos? i understand that it means they served time, were in a gang or killed somebody but i don't understand why anyone would want a sign of that permanently on their face? why would you want everyone to know you went to prison/are in a gang/killed somebody? it's like you're singlehandedly outing yourself

    • @shintososotrill5122
      @shintososotrill5122 Місяць тому +2

      It's like a badge of honor for criminals or a reminder they did some they can't take back

    • @froze2778
      @froze2778 Місяць тому +2

      most people in the prison system are repeat offenders and stay and a sign on your face that you have killed multiple people is a dominance sort of thing in prison

    • @julieta9913
      @julieta9913 Місяць тому

      @@froze2778 ohh that makes sense thank you

  • @GeriDoesASMR
    @GeriDoesASMR Місяць тому

    3:05 the girl on the right with the short hair (not the one with the beanie) is hot 🥵🔥

  • @AyoCarina
    @AyoCarina Місяць тому +2

    Unpopular opinion. Raymond played the victim the whole time . Rewatch and see he took no accountability in any sentence he said

  • @louiss1625
    @louiss1625 Місяць тому +14

    he needs to let his girlfriend talk a bit more, he's interrupting a lot

  • @waalex11
    @waalex11 Місяць тому

    Dull couples...

  • @XtraOrdinariness
    @XtraOrdinariness Місяць тому +64

    I love u but I shall not ride nor die…. Go with God❤️‍🩹

    • @lisam7771
      @lisam7771 Місяць тому +2

      😭😭😭😭

  • @hafidhwijaya3820
    @hafidhwijaya3820 Місяць тому

    Leave the commend down bellow, so if someone like the commend I will back here again

  • @GJH3735
    @GJH3735 Місяць тому +2

    What’s wrong with the brunettes voice?