How to Deal with Jealous People
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Jealous people are insecure and incompetent. Instead of improving themselves, they would rather spew their hate.
Jealous people are people too. We should love everyone. I am jealous sometimes, and insecure, but i don't "spew hate", and sure am not incompetent. Sometimes i put in the effort to change my jealousy into appreciation for what someone else has achieved. It's not always easy to have a clear mind.
To each his own! I do it my way and you do you! I really don't give a damn.
Clarence Stinson true mate
Yes. True. I agree
Omg yeah
Some People spend more of their life worrying about someone else’s life than their own
Pathetic sad little people. It's funny and ridiculous at the same time.
Often they will destroy their own life just to make sure you don't succeed.
Some people are jealous of you if you don’t take part in the rat race because they are basically lost and enslaved and they don’t want to think about it
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So true. So parasitic & pathetic. It's ridiculous & dangerous at the same time. When it gets serious it's not funny anymore. Life gets critically critical like in a coma. If only anybody knew what I'm going through because of too many people like that you wouldn't be able to believe just how strong that jealousy is.
I think jealous people truly hate themselves and the life they live. They hate you because you love yourself and your life and are a happy confident person with being yourself.
Yes, so reach out to others as Brandon says as long as you set limits - the amount of time with them if they're not behaving appropriately, not allow them to mistreat you... Love sometimes it's all it takes to get someone to begin to love themselves, which I'm turn leads to them loving others.
Well said they will bring you down
Wow... my professor said this the other day because I'm dealing with a jealous "so called friend now" there always making little side comments on my life! I just ignore it it's funnt because he always wants to be around me!!!
@@dominicbrogsdale3348 Yes! Dominic, he hates you for being you, he envy you but still wants to be around you. I cut people off that are Jealous of me. Trust me I have alot of jealous people that hate me for being me. I try to stay away from jealous people because they aren't good for my spiritual well being.
Awww Thank you this made me feel much better❤❤❤
The thing is that you can't always just "ignore it". Some people's jealousy is so big that they will do evil things to you and try to ruin your life, even if you cut them off and ignore them. Even if you're nothing but kind to them. Jealousy can really be dangerous.
Or they show jealousy in a nice way ,dishing compliments and smiling and touching you ,people are strange
So true.
exactly. what if the 'person' is my friend
this kind of people spy on your ideas
@@carlarespuesto7669 your face looks smashed in lol
My experience of jealous people in general is this rule..
..when they become particularly jealous = I'm doing something RIGHT.
Very true
@@shynep0807 it's the way one has to look at it so as to not be manipulated by their jealousy I think!
Very veery TRUEE!!!
+100
100%
Jealous people are trying to drain your energy by saying bitter comments. Just neglect them
OMG so true and you can feel the hurt deep down!!
Dominic Brogsdale ik like I still have feelings! It’s hard to just ignore it
Don't just neglect avoid them
Im working out and once i got buff my "friend" out of nowhere calling me a nobody.Look at you.You are nothing etc.
Sure
It's hard when close friends are jealous of us.. feel betrayed..
I came here searching for this video for the same exact reason
be grateful its not affecting more than that
That's the worst
Be better when you kinda become unreachable by the ordinary they 'll be okay with that they 'll appreciate you I 'll some how put up with them it's just the beginning that's hard going through the same thing here 🍻let's somehow succeed!
@@LaissezFaire7 so he's not ur friend
You don't 'deal' with them.....you cut them out of your life. Jealous people are toxic and they drain your spiritual energy from you......they make you feel bad about yourself and they DO NOT belong in your life. Have NOTHING more to do with the person that is jealous of you because I can tell you from personal experience, they will ALWAYS be jealous of you. My sister has been jealous of me all my life (she is a lot older than me) and now I very rarely see her. I just could not handle her toxicity any more.
and also my mother is sometimes jealous and mean to me (for the same reasons as the woman I told you about, I just have some particular skills that they don't have but wish they did (nothing that special tho). It's really painful, but I can imagine it's also painful to them. For me, I tend to be jealous of my friends' looks (I have some beautiful friends, while I'm kinda less than average) and that jealousy sometimes gets the better of me.
I really liked it from yourself experience . this make feel better. because my life in also more jealous peoples . if even said about my .I'm feels such bad .im so much happened emotional from jealous peoples .I'm feels bad from myself . thanks I got this lession some better experience thanks alots this video made person. And thank you also ☺
Can you please tell me how to cut them off? Because they follow me everywhere.
Help me with tips.
My mother and whole family is jealous of me but do u think the jealousy cause more pain for them then the pain they try to make me feel...
I have a same story like u girl, i agree. Once u give them the chance & the love that they dont deserve, they'll keep coming back ....to drain you.
Some people are just jealous of you. You don't have to do anything they just hate you.
I respect people jealousy,that means they think highly of me. Losers!!
Razor ruddock Love it!!!😎
preach! It’s so true
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Yes absolutely
Good way of putting it yeah
"Get better, not to spite them, but despite them" that's great!
Jealous people makes you feel what they feel. They are eager to do something just to put you down. They are happy when they see you suffering or can't do something. But I just couldn't stop feel pity to them. They are just hurting their own feelings. Hurting their own self. That's why, insecurities and jealousy can make them do something inappropriate.
if they are hurting themself arent they also hurting you when they're putting you down? you gotta make them feel like they belong in this world, pitying them is a first step. then make them understand your own difficulties, remind them of their own strengths, and lift them up to become a better person!
Some people dont want to be helped. They want to wallow in their own misery and then bring other people down. I work full time, im pregnant and study a masters. I get so much jealousy because I have my head down on my own life. People are so bitter and want to drag you down even if you help them. I dont know what more these people want.
We need to be PROUD to ourselves when other people are so much hating and jealous for what we have..
as they are only talking about their own poor pity life.. their barking and hatred are talking about themselves..
WHY they like to waste their time, energy and money only to make someone get sick and feel ill?? the answer is their hatred and jealousy, and they are mourning grieving a lot about their unhappy poor pity life..
They have PROBLEM, their jealousy, that's WHY they are mourning barking a lot.
we should be HAPPY and PROUD about their insults and harrassment..
means we are so much IMPORTANT for them.. 😀
@Amathyst80 now see, you may think people dont want to be happy, but is that really what they think? Can you really read people without them having their say in the story? I have been told not to control others but myself, but that doesnt mean i shouldn't try helping others nevertheless. Not helping people makes one no better than them. You could live alone, but eventually you have to reach out to someone...
Coming back to this comment, seeing the replies makes me want to say that having one's pride itself is a deadlier sin than their envy. Perhaps they need something more than sharing their own story of insecurity. Give them as much help as you can, and if they refuse to change, cease contact with them, but give them an ounce of kindness by wishing them the best. Us humans all have fault, there may be no win win for everything, but there is always a chance at life.
"It's hard to hate someone that is a champion of others." Love this!!
Agree Man
But it still happens
Dean Wayne haha
Yeah, let them hate whilst you continue to make a positive impact in other people’s lives, makes you look even stronger
Jealousy is the habit of whamen they do it from their childhood men don't commit crime because of jealousy whamen do. There have tons of record whamen ruining men's life by false accusations because of jealousy also whamen killed other whamen because of jealousy.
Jealous people fall under the umbrella of toxic people. Showing them love and compassion, or going out of your way to make them feel better by downplaying your accomplishments, doesn't do any good because jealousy isn't the only toxic trait they possess. They are also often greedy, entitled, hypocritical, two-faced, etc, and will use your "weaknesses" (of which kindness is viewed as one) against you. They don't feel content until you're a bug squashed under their feet and completely under their control.
So true.
This is SO TRUE! Amazingly true!
So wrong! People don’t fit in boxes, we call all have the capacity to be jealous but by putting people into boxes, “jealous people” “toxic people” that’s isn’t truth
Well said
Absolutely..jealousy is avery dangerous disease and its work of satan ...unless your someone of pure heart and pray ...dis disease cn finish especially wen that person is a family member that you keep seeing and you cant hide your progress from them....prayers protect.
when people are jealous of you, it’s not your problem, it’s their’s so there’s no point of you worrying or stressing about something that doesn’t concern you😊😊
I get stressed because I know they spread rumors and lies behind my back even though I have helped all of them with their bills including their gambling debts.
Except when they bully you because of their jealousy. Then it becomes your problem unfortunately.
@@annchovey2089 don’t help them anymore! It just enables his addiction
Yes, that's true but also cut them out of your life they will plot against you
I think most people get jealous from time to time. However, we all have the responsibility not to make other people suffer becasue of our own insecurities. Some people get that, others don´t.
I don't jealous.
I have never jealous of anyone
Jealousy is everywhere and it can come even as close as Family and Friends! Please do not try to understand jealous people or have sympathy for them, majority of them are evil people who will do everything they can to destroy you mentally, physically and spiritually! Find ways to protect yourselves from this evil bad energy!
Amen so true, sometimes they stop at nothing to get you, these days people act on their jealousy, it's scary.
wayy to true
Ridiculous - envious people are dangerous.
I see the wickedness in their eyes ....it's so devastatingly dangerous indeed
You never know how far they can go, and they can do some very evil life destroying things, I also agree with the comment from Gerri Miller, you can see it in their eyes, yes they can be so dangerous without doubt
@Pr.incorporated They can touch you in ways that are dangerous to your reputation or job security your kids.
@@deirdremorris9234 Very scary you have to just watch your back and just make up excuses that you’re doing other stuff just slowly ease away from them ……. slowly………
@Pr.incorporated whst if they touch you and do bad things
I had a jealous hater ruin a relationship with a woman I've loved since childhood. He was so intent on driving a deep wedge in between us and spreading lies and rumors about me. Sometimes it's not so easy to just ignore the hate when it escalates into dangerous cowardliness that risks your life or reputation.
That is so true, sometimes these people can cause us real harm.
@IG Clout Monster true, my ex and I were so in love and his close friend was always telling me nasty things about him. Every time he would do that I would tell my guy. I never let him come between us. But anyway I think he managed to manipulate him in the end🤣😅. When he saw I wasn't gullible, he decided to consistently target him.
she probably did care enough about you, if she did she would have seen past it or atleast given you a chance to explain, maybe you lucked out, she didnt love you enough
@IG Clout Monster yup, what i said too, rides you of the losers and the cowards
Cut it out ASAP, distance yourself from that asswhole
Best revenge is to live a great life! Travel, enjoy your wealth... we do.
My in-laws hate it that I don’t work even though I don’t ask for help with anything and in fact have helped them with all their bills including their gambling debts.
I do! Enjoying life to the fullest! 😎
Right! And right again! 😎
The worst thing about jealous people is that they admire you yet resent you at the same time. Then they try to compete, be like you, steal your energy and try to copy you. It’s weird. It’s like they hate you for being yourself but then like you because they want to be like you. Confused bunch lol. They also spend a large amount of time “concerned” about you or trying to find out details and you and your personal business. A hater is basically your biggest fan but rather than love it’s hate and bad energy they give.
I recently made the mistake of casting pearls at swine thinking my kindness will win them over. Big mistake, it only made my hater resent me even more. Cutting them off seems to be the best solution.
Hi, Christian. Thanks for sharing your experience and your wise words. You are absolutely right, and I 100 percent relate to you. The reason the haters become more resentful after casting pearls before swine is because they know they are beneath us. We are high-vibrational, and they are low-vibrational. They feel too small and inferior to get it together.
@@victoriasegall3404 indeed, they’ve accepted a lower state. God grant us mercy! 💚💜🙏
Is it more than jealousy, can't it be they're deliberately showing you evil and trying to force their jealous nature on you to make you lose your spirituality. They don't want to learn.
@@JulietSpoto-pn2lx wise words Juliet, thank you! 🙏
take their greatest power from them and that is YOUR ATTENTION , starve them to death.
moksh india 🇮🇳
You nailed it I swear I will literally disappear from their lives.
my neighborhood were so jealous ,they talking about me so bad , i had to change my home ,
jealous people are empty from inside
they're catastrophe dangerous
sad but it's truth
Had to move that's bad.it got that bad
I know how to deal with jealous people....... DON'T!!!!! Kick them to the curb.
It's true about jealousy over short term success. I find that new people I meet have been jealous because they don't understand how long I worked to achieve my goals... like they don't know it's been looooong term, they just weren't there in the beginning. Thanks for this message, Brendon. Just a reminder to keep focused on my goals... never stop working 💪🏼
Exactly!
What do you do, if I may ask?
Exactly! I have to be more determined
well you gotta let them know so they will see the bigger picture.
Very true....
Flash news: Jealousy is a disease of the heart!!!
Yep. Interestingly, this is a belief in Islam
@@Sam-ng3of ...i was just about to comment this.. that's so true😊
Exactly ♥️
I couldn't agree more
5:45 it is kinda hard to lift someone up when they are continuously trying to bring you down
It seems like ever since I started climbing up the ladder with my career and focussing on myself and taking care of my body everywhere I go I encounter envious people trying to drag me down. I usually ignore it though because my eyes are on my goal and no one can shift that. When i wasn't doing anything with my life that's when everyone was ok with me.
I think jealous people hate themselves and the life they have. They hate you because you have a better life than them and are a happy confident person.
Some people are so wrapped up in being jealousy and hate that they will go to the extreme just to make you feel bad. We are all adults but yet they act like a teenager. Grow up. I don’t need to get revenge, I just move on and stay in my own lane. 😌🙏🏻
*jealous
I'm not being big-headed, but I have self-love and alot of people tell me how pretty I am. But I notice other girls get very jealous and it's extremely off setting. I get alot of attention (even though I don't really want it) and I seem to get on better with guys because I grew up with older brothers, and girls view that as a threat. It really sucks, you could be the kindest person and people still hate you. I'm ignoring it but it sucks when you all you're doing is existing and people dislike you because of it
Honestly same but in my case it's my older sister, whenever we go out I get more attention(I dont want it I swear😭) and people compliment me, which is bad cuz she'll be right next to me, shes so toxic and insecure and I've tried to make things work between us but it just wont, we dont speak to one another at all, and I just cant wait to move out and never meet her again
Yeah and unfortunately it results in loneliness not having a lot of female friends. I always reach out and make friends but the fear that once I let me guard down they try to sabotage me. It’s hard the price to pay for it is loneliness
I know all too well how you feel. I have had this reality for over 40 years. I'm not joking. I tried being friends with other people of the same gender. Forget it! I have male friends, and I wouldn't have it any other way. I get FAR more respect and appreciation.
@@sumaiya771 give it time. People mature and views change. Don't be too quick to disown a member of your family. Life is short and in the end it's family that's important. Good luck.
@@sumaiya771 it's a problem I know, I would say find something that your sister is good at and praise her for that because you can't do it as well as her, they just want to excel at something and see you as being the target of their inability to shine.....it's called boosting their ego....
But don't keep doing it just have a convo once about it and don't change who you are.
I think what so many jealous people fell to realized is that the person that they’re jealous of, sometimes has their own battles and weaknesses too, regardless of their life looks perfect from the outside. Some People always looking at other people lives but they need to understand that they need to find their own path, and look within themselves, their destiny. We’re all special. Hard work pays off. Some work hard to be successful and so it’s important that the jealous person work hard to get what they want, instead of being jealous of others. Support people and honor their success but very important to find your own destiny.
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They not gone do it! Pointless to even say it!
Unfortunately most Jealous people don't want to getting pulled up, because they are incapable of it, they prefer to drag you down. I think it's better to ignore them.
Very well said , i can relate to that.
I don't understand jealousy, the only emotions I developed are love and care for others.
I listened to that song jealous... and it helped me understand why people are jealous. If someone is jealous its cause your touching tasting feeling something they want and can't have, and that is a love for themselves..I love who I am..and I can hear her saying I hate myself..I would tell her we have a lovely life and she would agree just to be close to me. Not cause she loved me. Cause she loved how I loved her. She was jealous off how I was happy without her and in all my pain I still loved the world and myself. She just needed her dad to love her. She never grew up.
I had my dad who absolutely would have died for me. Her dad wasn't there and now she hates herself. And hates women. She likes men.
I can be inspired and impressed but not jelly
I've started not to care. Like at all.
I hope i reach this level soon. Ive dealt with jelousy for years and it gets me sometimes
@@osmankalif3500 me too.
"Get better. Not to spite them... But despite them."
Beautiful. I love your wisdom.
It’s common in family, cousin etc, you gotta push through and make them more jealous. Just do you.
Thanks Brendon! I just respect how you keep delivering practical content with ZERO F-BOMBS! You're not only super intelligent but very respectful in your communication skills.
Francoise Alice. 8y
Thanks for this insight. Our attention, time and energy feeds the jealous ; so we should truly feed ourself 😊🙏🏽 May everyone reading this comment be protected from hateful, toxic, jealous and negative people!
I'm struggling on envy..its been a year..I'm feeling so ashamed of my self..
My mother's cousins are really jealous about my studies because they're really scared that I will become a doctor in the future..🤔😒🤭😅
MG. nayanathara And you will hunny.❤️
Same hahaha
It's then I would really chow down and go for it.
Same
Be a doctor !!
Yes, I feel like others want to bring me down to their level, because they are content where they are. I want more. I like how you said to stay on my path of excellence and continue to get better. I needed to hear that, because that is what I want to do!
I spent the last 5y saving money to buy a small flat in my city (my first home)... and I finally did it this year. I thought I had good friends to share this with, but turns out... both of them reacted with bitterness. I can only assume it's jealousy. It's really hurtful...
Good for you saving for your first home ,when you realise people don't want you to do better to them ,just keep on your path 👍.
People will always try to drag you down, but you need to find strength to ignore them and go ahead.
Thank you for your video. You've just described my blood relatives and their behavior. It is very painful to realize that people who you expect to be happy for you are actually doing the opposite... Sad truth. But I am so grateful for your teachings and thankful that I get an opportunity to learn and grow!
The sad part is many people are jealous of things they invent in their head about other people. It's sad but now days people don't even get to know people anymore. I assure you if most people got to know the people they are jealous of, they wouldn't be so jealous. We are all imperfect humans and the only difference is how we choose to carry on in life. It's all about perspective.
Knowing that someone hates me and is jealous does not inspire me. It makes me sad and depressed, it causes me emotional pain and injury.
It may work for y'all
But not for me.
lila kilonen
I understand what you mean 😣
Don’t let them win
Same
It's hard but the point is don't let them win what haters think of us is none of our buissness so don't let them win and God bless 💪👍🙏
I was finally discarded after doing that. I thought the complaints were because I wasn’t good enough and so I kept improving. No, it turned out it was just because I was good enough and that was threatening.
I want to say that you’re advice is excellent and thank you for this channel.
Pray for them and have compassion for them
I am the man with the best and natural hair ever, ever. No man or no woman would have a hair like me ever. When I am walking everybody looking at me. Peoples are tremendously jealous. I am the most discriminated ever, ever. Specially those people with partially or all lost hair from their heads, or people that their family members lost partially or all hair from their heads, when they see me they can't take it. But there is always someone approaching me and telling me that I have the best hair in the world. Lot of peoples are making comments to each other about my hair.
Hi! How about that! I am in the same boat as you. I have naturally wavy blond hair, and, I wear it long because of my ancestry, and also because it suits me best. My high school friend says I look like a blonde Hawaiian. I get OODLES of compliments on my hair.
@@victoriasegall3404 hey Victoria can you tell us how can we see your picture. When it comes to me, you can see me on UA-cam. Then you see that nobody else on this planet has so much hair. So the jealousy is tremendous. Even UA-cam is not allowing me to have a viewers, do to saying things about my glorious hair.
You know when they all come out of the woodwork at once? All the negative Nancy’s just picking at straws and trying to bring your day down, flaw finders? Shout out to everyone who has people jealous of them, proves your not like everyone else, proves your doing something right. Love individuals who stand out 👊🏻
love it " picking the straws" got a so called buddy like that, always making bitter comments about my life and your can feel the pain deep down! but gotta stay positive!!
Facts
@@dominicbrogsdale3348 looking at it objectively mate if I was your friend I wanna try and lift you up, bringing you down does nothing for me unless I wanna see you there, and if I do wanna see you there, I'm not your friend
@@Mcfc2Rich dang man kind of deep man thanks Ill keep that in mind!!! especially when i around so called friend NOBODY SHOULD EVER PUT YOU DOWN OR HURT YOU! the only time they should hurt you is with TRUTH!! Id rather have the cold hard truth and it hurts me for a little bit then put downs and lies! Thanks man needed to see this!!
@@dominicbrogsdale3348 100% bro. They'll be critical with truth cause they wanna see the best for you. You can do something with the truth, you can't do anything with lies they're useless and lifes too short to be spending time with people who wanna bring you down
thank you! I've been struggling with people who derail me on a constant basis!
Ignoring is the key, even when they go to incredible efforts to be in your face and drag you down. The trouble is, you can waste time on these people. Great advice all round, I live by that last segment. I try and be there for others. ♥️
Some people are givers and some people are takers. The takers are destructive. ♥️
So, I am going to finish off, hopefully it will help someone. I think givers are very confident people because they do not feel it detracts from them or need to be the centre of attention all the time. Takers in the other hand have huge self esteem issues and insecurities and that is why they spend their valuable time on others instead of working on themselves. I think you have to tackle this from an early age. A confident child makes a confident adult. Many problems in the world are rooted in a person's self doubt and that goes from the top down and so they compensate for these feelings of inadequacy by choosing negative behaviour instead of positive. Working on your self esteem is a good start.
Very last thing! 😊 95 per cent of the people who have these emotions towards me are other women, what does that say about female empowerment? What does that say about how a lot of women feel about themselves and is that an issue society as a whole should be trying to address?
"not in spite of them but despite them" Thank you Brendon!
That's right keep on climbing mountains walking humble and in humility in righteousness 👍🙏🙂
Thank you for sharing this video...Love ❤️ it
who wants to be told that theyre jealous? thats crazy. you will enrage them.
GOOD! make these jealous monsters self-combust
Their problem if they can't hear truth. Not yours. But I'd personally not give them the satisfaction of getting any reaction out of me.
@@errinmora yup or if you say somthen then they'll deny it!!
@@heyyyyy1111 😂😂😂
Great advice but in reality would you really tell someone don't be jealous of me. Personally I would just ignore them or just gradually take them out of my life, for example spend limited time with them.
I also do the same
Aziz Rahman The women in my family that I am close to are jealous and mean , I really don’t know how to handle this issue, I get so angry and hurt.
@@julietteSoul Start by Not handling them. Dont answer them. Limit your time or move away.
That’s exactly what I will do.
@@deirdremorris9234 I can come up with so many excuses to not be around certain people I’m a professional now ! teeeehe , I’m saving my money and moving away
This is amazing and the reminder i needed!..I will never shrink myself for others insecurities
WHERE HAVE U BEEN ALL MY LIFE????
WISHED I HEARD THIS WHEN I WAS IN HIGH SCHOOL. LIFE WOULD HAVE BEEN BETTER
Love this.
They usually ignore the work you have done though, especially if you don’t brag about it, or it’s not bragged about by others, and project that it’s all short term, or from someone else’s favoritism. Or that you’re “just trying to get attention “ . The undermining is the hard part.
I always deal with jealous people and I honestly just want to be on my path, live my purpose and be happy.
My mom's cousin is jealous of me just because I'm taller.💁 She always gives me a disgusted face when she says hi to me and when people compare our heights she always says I'm wearing tall shoes with a very passive aggressive tone.
my mother's cousins are also really jealous about my studies, because they're really being scared about that I will become a doctor in the future....😒🤭😅
Lol that's so funny
I don't know why I laughed so much.
People are so petty.
What a nasty piece of work! I would have said:"Speak for yourself, hun!"
Don't give her the close distance and don't fear anyone
People can be that way for any reason ... even good looks or great personality.. some are insanely jealous by their personality, though I find many high achievers can be braggers or ego trippers , they often get lost in GREED... why be in a race with others... that's competitiveness. You do not need to be a million dollar man. JUst be happy being you..in the end all the big bucks remain on ground ZERO... anyway !!!!!
Its not always about money by the way. Some people want to try and leave a positive mark on the world, and master their respected area.
I have 2 sisters that have brutally bullied me. I finally cut ties 💯 I never ask questions about their lives and I give no info. about my life. No doubt they have found other people to hate on.
It's a nauseating world where all manner of evil and corruption abounds.
It's nice to see how you've developed, grown & matured, Brandon. I always feel fortunate to get to see that in people. Thank you for staying connected to your path & true to yourself. Good video!
what if they're jealous because you're 'richer' than them?
Ask them to work for you.
A woman gets jelous because I talk to my coworkers
Nobody gave me money ijs ... Ño👣👅
MR..DR...i GUESS ...they will go crazy....because..there will allway,s be some one smarter perttyer..body..that,s better than..your some.one.RICHER than you...so those people NEED..help...they hate there life them..self..and they don,t feel.. L0VED...they will DRIVE them self crazy....let them be..keep..0N being RICH. I wish i was rich so i could move to HAWAII..becauss to live there you have to have an IN.
Come 2800 A month..S0 THAT,S count,s me out brothere but happy for you..i just keep..looking for the FAITH..THAT god can bless ,me any time.. keep..makeing your money god bless you .don,t let people take your joy... NEVER..🌝🌝🌝
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Thats the reason you interact with people of your type ...Also jealousy is a human nature..
You should be strong and dont get impacted by them ..Focus on your passion and work. .
One factor can also be your own behaviour too .. Like if you are womaniser or arrogant with people , then you heading for trouble ..Laws of nature , Be good best of luck. Some times it can be our own mistake too .. some times when you have money you try to act like you some riches perosn in world Best example warren buffet rich but people are not that very jealous of him cause he behaves very simple.. Again depends on type of humans near your surrounding ..Be human , Be Good and pray too Best of luck other method i can say is to be invsible...
Jealousy can be very dangerous cause sometimes people will do what ever it takes to see your down fall it hurts when it's people close to you
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Bless that jealous person because they are operating on SCARCITY mindset and realize they too deserve the abundance blessing from the universe.
Why have enemies when you got family
When your own family are your enemies...:)
Yes indeed!
Sooooo true!!!
Family members is the worst enemies 🙏🙏🙏
I've only ever known JEALOUS PEOPLE MY ENTIRE LIFE!!!!!
I just heard some ppl are even jelous of your smile..your vibe..i was like..WOWSERS!
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People are jealous of something they feel that another person has that they think they cannot get/have/achieve.
Drop /cut anyone from your life who exhibits jealousy. Yes, help people who do not show signs of envy or jealousy. Life is too short to invest in those who mean nothing but harm for you. There are so many others who will truly appreciate what you can offer to help them. Jealous people are harmful and sick. They need to work on themselves and there is nothing you can do to help them. No need to be mean to them, but cut them out of your life like a cancer!!!
Thanks Brendon, love your work!!! My success came because I do service to help others. It is really really really difficult to be affected by anyone's jealousy about my success. It's kind of funny. My inner response is, I AM HELPING A LOT LOT LOT OF PEOPLE. So if THAT is success they are jealous of, BRING IT ON! I hope they are jealous of how many people I help, jealous of the changes I am creating in the world. Be jealous of me. I make a difference. I live in love.
Thanks for the smile! 😁 Keep on trekking ! 👍
1. Affirm or Ignore them
2. Revisit your WHY
3. Get better/Excell even more dispute their say
4. Remember to Serve others on your way up.
Thank you for this great video, it really helped. I now know what was happening to me...annoying thing is I believed the things that was happening to/around me and didnt understand why certain people were on my mind. Im one that is about lifting others and celebrating their success and going through my obstacles.All you mentioned happened to me, and it derailed and got me in a deep depression because it was family...I saw them at a level I couldn't imagine them. Annoying thing is a lost all my investments and non of them cared if anything they were happier. This got me feeling so sad and took 2yrs to come out of my depression because as I have been trying to achieve. Now at 37 I'm starting again...wish me luck. 🥰🌻
Best wishes ❤️
So true.
And sometime the only thing we can do to those people is just respect.
One thing that I do feel glad is the more they do petty things to me, the more momentum I find. 💪🏻
I so appreciate you for your words and for making this video! I needed to hear this today!
Sometimes it's so hard not to get affected by other's behaviors when they get jealous but this video calmed my soul and made me more humble! Thank you!
Thank you Brendon. You're absolutely right. "It's hard to hate someone who's a champion of others"
Brendon, thank you so much! You words are confirmation that I am doing the right thing! Three of my four immediate co-workers are covert malignant narcissist! Their behavior is so appalling. inappropriate and unprofessional that I have ceased ALL contact with them! I ignore them completely! No verbal or written contact whatsoever! Doing do allows me to maintain my peace and joy, my professionalism and successfully fulfill my professional obligations and remain passionate about the work that I do! After several months of my co-workers' covert behavior, I believe that others, including management, are now beginning to see what is going on! Again, thank you!
6:10 I’ve been living thish way, just helping people, everyone I can, but some people get jealous even of that and transform into a “who can be more generous” competition. Like it’s for attention.
What I’ve learned is, yes, help people, but not to an extend where you are being unhelpful to yourself because you can’t tell no ones intention at the end of the day. Only yours.
Best thing is to ignore and keep moving!
Thank you for the video! 🙏 liked
I am a jealous person myself. Boiled down to 2 things: Hatred towards myself and fear. What helps is to focus on positive self talk, and genuinely believing that no matter who hurts me, I am strong enough to face it and walk away. Also, I stop myself from putting on my partner. It’s not his fault I’m jealous. But it’s easy to blame. I learned to take responsibility for my feelings of jealousy.
I’m not envious of successful ppl but am jealous in my relationship. My boyfriend is a reliable and loyal type of person (doesn’t mean he would never make a mistake). But my point is that I hardly have any reason to be worried. I get jealous b/c I do not “approve” of myself, and I am fearful of what “could happen” that would hurt me. It’s truly selfish.
‘Serve others on the way up’ I love that! Great video thank you 🙏🏽
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This really set me free. Jealousy and envy from people was my greatest fear. I would always cut them off and run but the universe is teaching me how to overcome that so I can be free ♥️ what a gift!
The best advice on dealing with this issue of jealousy is already discussed in the Bible. And you're correct. 😊
There are some people who like to call their ex friends “hater, or jealous” because they rather say that than look at their own faults. To this day My ex friend still calls me a hater but wont admit that she was a horrible friend to me who always backstabbed me. They like to feed their ego.
3:30 Third point really spoke to me!!! Thank you! I understand and see clearly now! I will continue to be on the rise to success and soon the jealousy will turn to respect!
I have done alot of good stuff and yes I have haters lol. Graduated college too. I'm now 39 and medically retired. US Army. Ended up being a Correctional Sergeant and they could not handle it. I quit and make the same money off my disability and a weekend job. I'm so done with my haters trying to live in peace now.
Why so much Hate and wickedness in the world? Why can't people just be happy for other people's achievements?
Some people are so spiritually withdrawn and need love within their souls🥰 Namaste
no my dear, they are just evil, i thought like you did, but no, evil is the word
A heart ❤at peace gives life to the body,but Envy rots the bones....
Proverbs 14:30. Amen!
@@mariaamor2496 Amen...
I love the last part of your video, about staying humble, and giving back to the community! Beautiful message!
TY for the reminder that people who are jealous of me are projecting their own insecurities upon me. Ignore them. Stay focused on the "why.". Pay it forward and help others. ❤
Get better not to spite them...despite them👏🏻
Thank you for this. Sincerely. I don't believe I've ever commented on a youtube video in my life, but I am leaving this because I gain a lot of strength and hope from your lessons and your videos. I often remember your words in my trying moments. This particular video really hits home. It's so real, and so brave. So thank you. Thank you for all of your videos. You and I are not of the same religion, but thank you for always reminding all of us to serve others in our best ways. I appreciate what you do. Thank you.
Thanks for your advice and reflection, I was feeling confused and wondering in my situation with my companions in the school, I have tried my best to be kind with them and I never boast of my achievements is just that I work hard for my betterment and future for what is waiting me ,I hate competition.
I have ignored them several times but it's too much, I have no even friends in school because they all together and hardly someone shares or do anything with me and I just find myself walking alone or facing any difficulty alone,but I trust in God and myself.
I think I needed these encouraging words of yours, thanks🙏
I like the fact that he went right into what he saying and not rambling before what he was talking on his subject. I like his lessons .......
I am inspired with your message on Jealously as I am aspiring with excellence in my calling with a passion. Keep up the good work.
This helped me so much. When I first watched this I was struggling with jealous people and I didn't know how to deal with them . Over a year later I need to say thank you. Thank you!
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I have a family member who's been jealous of me for the longest time.. I don't get why. So I gotta be clear on what I want and my mission. I just gotta do my thing lol
KALEIDO jess Same here. the thing is that this person spreads the hate and talks smack behind my back. It's really hurtful. But our path is more important!
Gemini Neils That's probably because they haven't dealt with their real issues. And yes, it is! Besides, there will always be someone with something to say.
my cousin was like this. She bullied me for years and I never knew why until I got a clear answer. She was jealous of my long term success. She's working in a factory working job in taiwan and I'm in the US working as a nurse practitioner.
I confront my sibling and he's a boy. A few minutes later we acted like brothers again like nothing happened. It's different from my big sister cause girls are complicated.
What to do if u become anxious by their presence😞
Someone thought of me as fake. I went to the gym and squatted twice my weight the same day. And I realized I also came a long way to be where I am now from my accomplishments, which allows me to keep teaching others and moving foward.
I don’t know why people always want to compete me and beat me rather than they focus with themselves and have fun with what they like. Everyone have their own strengths and weaknesses. Just focus with what you can and do the best with that. I feel bad with those people who always targeting me.