100% agree on all three. I accept my (Chinese) wife exactly how she is - she is perfect and the most beautiful; and she treats me the same way. The rising tide lifts all boats; I lift her up and she lifts me up.
Well, maybe the man point of view. maybe personal, because gorgeous as my wife was, she was a narcissist. So before I watch the videao - 1 Don't rip your husband of to fund the asian family 2 don't nag your man if you can help it and Never in bed or he will find another one, 3 don't slag off your husband to anyone else who will listen..
You are very pleasant to hear. I appreciate the advice. My fiance is Chinese, I am American. We have great conversations but some things she is quiet about. I am used to more direct communication. I can relate to your husband. Some things i just think are funny when in her world they aren't funny at all. And when she is upset oftentimes its hard for me to understand, I do see her as beautiful. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
Treat all things and persons like Gobby says and you will have a happy life. We or our parents never teach this to our children one reason for so many divorces. Gobby you have a wonderful smile that brightens the day.
hilarious Lisa!!! thank you so much. always a delight listening to you and your wisdom! Loved the part whereby you're angry and your husband says you are cute! haha! He is being truthful! really really donderful listening to your vlog! let's share this vlog.
The husband should never yell or raise your voice to his wife. I was married to a Chinese Malaysian for 51 years (before her death). I learned it hurt my wife badly when I raised my voice.
I have been happily married for over 50 years and I would never dream of saying any of these things. If I called my wife a dumbass, she would knock me into next week.
American guy here, I love the beauty of the Chinese women. But the cultural difference is really a large mountain to overcome. Lise, do you think Chinese women would be interested in American men?
If they make you something, even with love, that you dislike, you should praise the person but not what you dislike, so they can improve it next time, otherwise they will think you like it and continue to make it.
@@GobbyLisa99 Besides I get tired of people asking why I have no girlfriend, and they aren't going to do something about it, like introduce me to a friend.
My husband doesn’t like vegetables and l love vegetables before. So …… After he has cancer, he is cooking vegetables every day and sometimes I have some.
Hi Lisa, great video of wisdom from you. Thank you.
Thank you.😊
You are so very wise Lisa!
Thank you.
I could listen to you all day! What you say is 100% correct, but how you say it is priceless.😊 Thank you Tony
Thank you
100% agree on all three. I accept my (Chinese) wife exactly how she is - she is perfect and the most beautiful; and she treats me the same way. The rising tide lifts all boats; I lift her up and she lifts me up.
Well, maybe the man point of view. maybe personal, because gorgeous as my wife was, she was a narcissist. So before I watch the videao - 1 Don't rip your husband of to fund the asian family 2 don't nag your man if you can help it and Never in bed or he will find another one, 3 don't slag off your husband to anyone else who will listen..
You are very pleasant to hear. I appreciate the advice. My fiance is Chinese, I am American. We have great conversations but some things she is quiet about. I am used to more direct communication. I can relate to your husband. Some things i just think are funny when in her world they aren't funny at all. And when she is upset oftentimes its hard for me to understand, I do see her as beautiful. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
That is a very mature and intelligent advice you give.
Appreciation and respect are two of the more important aspects of relationships..nicely done you 👏👏🌹
Thank you.
You are very wise Lisa, excellent advice.
Thank you for the inspiring information. Great job.😊😊😊😊
Treat all things and persons like Gobby says and you will have a happy life. We or our parents never teach this to our children one reason for so many divorces. Gobby you have a wonderful smile that brightens the day.
Thank you. Actually, my growing up story is different from what you think. My parents didn’t teach me anything and I grew up in domestic violence.
hilarious Lisa!!! thank you so much. always a delight listening to you and your wisdom! Loved the part whereby you're angry and your husband says you are cute! haha! He is being truthful! really really donderful listening to your vlog! let's share this vlog.
Thank you so much 😊
Very good advice!
You have great wisdom. You should write advice articles sharing your outlook and wisdom.
Thank you, I don't know where to write it.
Mutual respect!
I have no respect for my wife. She gets unhappy with little things.
hi lisa people give up too easy you have to work at it like you said man be man woman be woman
Money is not the root of all evil.
Unkind and harsh words are.
I have banned them from my life.
The husband should never yell or raise your voice to his wife. I was married to a Chinese Malaysian for 51 years (before her death).
I learned it hurt my wife badly when I raised my voice.
Yes. You’re right
I have been happily married for over 50 years and I would never dream of saying any of these things. If I called my wife a dumbass, she would knock me into next week.
Great advise ❤
You are a wise women Lisa, do many Chinese people feel this way?
Not Chinese people thinking . They usually blaming each other. This is just my opinion.
American guy here, I love the beauty of the Chinese women. But the cultural difference is really a large mountain to overcome. Lise, do you think Chinese women would be interested in American men?
Besides of your good advices I like very much your pronunciation And accent .
Thank you! 😊
If they make you something, even with love, that you dislike, you should praise the person but not what you dislike, so they can improve it next time, otherwise they will think you like it and continue to make it.
Sound advice! I can imagine your husband thinking you’re cute when you’re angry. His smile makes your anger subside.
Your content you make the your position is why, people want to go to East Asia to find a Chinese or Asian wife. PASSPORT BRO!!!
She's doing good job promoting colonialism.
Thanks for this Lisa, but unfortunately I'm unlikely to need that advice, as I'm the least likely man to get a girlfriend or get married.
Or Boyfriend?😊 My husband planned to be single all his life, but he got married when he met me.😊
@@GobbyLisa99 Nope I won't get involved at all, I am straight but celibate, especially as nobody wants me like that.
@@thomastoseland7113As long as you’re happy, nothing else matters.But I’m sure someone will like you.
@@GobbyLisa99 Not in that way, I'm not a family kind of man.
@@GobbyLisa99 Besides I get tired of people asking why I have no girlfriend, and they aren't going to do something about it, like introduce me to a friend.
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Hello Lisa :)
Tell yr Husband u are Beautiful But he Probably Tells u that Anyway
Thank you.
LOL - dumbass to me is serious word not to be said in a fun way...
Haha .I don’t mind. Because I call my husband Donkey face.
Maybe your husband should Cook for you.
I often Cook for my wife
My husband doesn’t like vegetables and l love vegetables before. So …… After he has cancer, he is cooking vegetables every day and sometimes I have some.