Three things shouldn't do in marriage.

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  • @ace1926
    @ace1926 Місяць тому +4

    Hi Lisa, great video of wisdom from you. Thank you.

  • @tonyfusilli7914
    @tonyfusilli7914 Місяць тому +3

    I could listen to you all day! What you say is 100% correct, but how you say it is priceless.😊 Thank you Tony

  • @peterclark-c6s
    @peterclark-c6s Місяць тому +3

    You are so very wise Lisa!

  • @vectorm4
    @vectorm4 2 місяці тому +10

    100% agree on all three. I accept my (Chinese) wife exactly how she is - she is perfect and the most beautiful; and she treats me the same way. The rising tide lifts all boats; I lift her up and she lifts me up.

  • @loneranger668
    @loneranger668 Місяць тому +1

    Very good advice!

  • @johnsonshieh50
    @johnsonshieh50 Місяць тому +1

    Mutual respect!
    I have no respect for my wife. She gets unhappy with little things.

  • @gilbus4989
    @gilbus4989 2 місяці тому +6

    That is a very mature and intelligent advice you give.

  • @norrisbethke7770
    @norrisbethke7770 Місяць тому +3

    Appreciation and respect are two of the more important aspects of relationships..nicely done you 👏👏🌹

  • @garybean2205
    @garybean2205 Місяць тому +3

    You have great wisdom. You should write advice articles sharing your outlook and wisdom.

    • @GobbyLisa99
      @GobbyLisa99  Місяць тому

      Thank you, I don't know where to write it.

  • @erniealonzo536
    @erniealonzo536 8 днів тому

    Thank you for the inspiring information. Great job.😊😊😊😊

  • @albin2232
    @albin2232 2 місяці тому +6

    Money is not the root of all evil.
    Unkind and harsh words are.
    I have banned them from my life.

  • @captaintorch983
    @captaintorch983 2 місяці тому +3

    You are very wise Lisa, excellent advice.

  • @reeu5five534
    @reeu5five534 16 днів тому

    hilarious Lisa!!! thank you so much. always a delight listening to you and your wisdom! Loved the part whereby you're angry and your husband says you are cute! haha! He is being truthful! really really donderful listening to your vlog! let's share this vlog.

  • @gregrichards1601
    @gregrichards1601 12 днів тому

    You are very pleasant to hear. I appreciate the advice. My fiance is Chinese, I am American. We have great conversations but some things she is quiet about. I am used to more direct communication. I can relate to your husband. Some things i just think are funny when in her world they aren't funny at all. And when she is upset oftentimes its hard for me to understand, I do see her as beautiful. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.

  • @neilkent8296
    @neilkent8296 2 місяці тому +5

    hi lisa people give up too easy you have to work at it like you said man be man woman be woman

  • @keithromersenior155
    @keithromersenior155 Місяць тому +3

    Treat all things and persons like Gobby says and you will have a happy life. We or our parents never teach this to our children one reason for so many divorces. Gobby you have a wonderful smile that brightens the day.

    • @GobbyLisa99
      @GobbyLisa99  Місяць тому

      Thank you. Actually, my growing up story is different from what you think. My parents didn’t teach me anything and I grew up in domestic violence.

  • @KingArtexerxes
    @KingArtexerxes Місяць тому +1

    If they make you something, even with love, that you dislike, you should praise the person but not what you dislike, so they can improve it next time, otherwise they will think you like it and continue to make it.

  • @doubleplusgoodthinker9434
    @doubleplusgoodthinker9434 19 днів тому

    I have been happily married for over 50 years and I would never dream of saying any of these things. If I called my wife a dumbass, she would knock me into next week.

  • @ΓΕΩΡΓΙΟΣΔΡΕΤΑΚΗΣ-ω9β
    @ΓΕΩΡΓΙΟΣΔΡΕΤΑΚΗΣ-ω9β 2 місяці тому +1

    Besides of your good advices I like very much your pronunciation And accent .

  • @dlhanson51
    @dlhanson51 Місяць тому

    The husband should never yell or raise your voice to his wife. I was married to a Chinese Malaysian for 51 years (before her death).
    I learned it hurt my wife badly when I raised my voice.

  • @DonFarmer-hq5sw
    @DonFarmer-hq5sw 2 місяці тому +1

    Great advise ❤

  • @AReese-eu5zs
    @AReese-eu5zs 2 місяці тому +1

    Sound advice! I can imagine your husband thinking you’re cute when you’re angry. His smile makes your anger subside.

  • @AvgAsianJoe
    @AvgAsianJoe 2 місяці тому +1

    Your content you make the your position is why, people want to go to East Asia to find a Chinese or Asian wife. PASSPORT BRO!!!

    • @davidpark2509
      @davidpark2509 Місяць тому

      She's doing good job promoting colonialism.

  • @peterbaylis2111
    @peterbaylis2111 Місяць тому +1

    Tell yr Husband u are Beautiful But he Probably Tells u that Anyway

  • @thomastoseland7113
    @thomastoseland7113 2 місяці тому

    Thanks for this Lisa, but unfortunately I'm unlikely to need that advice, as I'm the least likely man to get a girlfriend or get married.

    • @GobbyLisa99
      @GobbyLisa99  2 місяці тому

      Or Boyfriend?😊 My husband planned to be single all his life, but he got married when he met me.😊

    • @thomastoseland7113
      @thomastoseland7113 2 місяці тому

      @@GobbyLisa99 Nope I won't get involved at all, I am straight but celibate, especially as nobody wants me like that.

    • @GobbyLisa99
      @GobbyLisa99  2 місяці тому +1

      @@thomastoseland7113As long as you’re happy, nothing else matters.But I’m sure someone will like you.

    • @thomastoseland7113
      @thomastoseland7113 2 місяці тому

      @@GobbyLisa99 Not in that way, I'm not a family kind of man.

    • @thomastoseland7113
      @thomastoseland7113 2 місяці тому

      @@GobbyLisa99 Besides I get tired of people asking why I have no girlfriend, and they aren't going to do something about it, like introduce me to a friend.

  • @MrBongBarango
    @MrBongBarango 2 місяці тому +1

    😊😅😅😅😊😅

  • @VitoKhanna
    @VitoKhanna 2 місяці тому

    Sweete matte swatches new shades lipstick thank you

  • @zakariabadis5896
    @zakariabadis5896 2 місяці тому

    Hello Lisa :)

  • @mussersbowsboatsandscience6610
    @mussersbowsboatsandscience6610 2 місяці тому

    LOL - dumbass to me is serious word not to be said in a fun way...

    • @GobbyLisa99
      @GobbyLisa99  2 місяці тому

      Haha .I don’t mind. Because I call my husband Donkey face.

  • @petmur2451
    @petmur2451 2 місяці тому

    Maybe your husband should Cook for you.
    I often Cook for my wife

    • @GobbyLisa99
      @GobbyLisa99  2 місяці тому

      My husband doesn’t like vegetables and l love vegetables before. So …… After he has cancer, he is cooking vegetables every day and sometimes I have some.