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Why don't young men bother learning 'game' anymore and what are the consequences: www.patreon.com/posts/82312853?
In a rigged game, the best move is to not play.
They don’t bother because the game is rigged. Often life is better without dealing with the hassles.
@@annatar6453 you beat me to it. Excellent comment.
Maybe because young men are not into playing "games" with women no more.
All of your "push pull" tricks", "techniques", "Moves" sound like your in a dire strategic battle plan to win a war.
Having self respect, not taking no sh*t and disrespect from women and maybe a little "tease" to poke her from time to time seems fine - but with all this "let her feel that you have power over her, threaten with abandonmend"..
i am sorry but this all reminds me of dire diplomatic conflict with problematic neighbour state country with nuclear power
I doubt that these "techniques" will lead to a forfilling relationship. I further more believe the most likely thing to happen is that young man will "consult" your coaching every 5 minuites to ask what particular move they should use in the particular "state" of their "relationship".
@@captainkirk7513 A good general claims victory. A great general knows when victory is impossible.
"I was recording a TikTok and..." This line should have marked the end of the relationship.
Bingo
I agree with you guys and am sure WE all agree if the guy just randomly Ra*ed her right of the batt
Yup
You’re no fun
It did, they just don't know it yet.
its a truly dangerous and insane thing to marry or even be in a relationship with a woman who clearly doesn't love you. its so destructive.
Guys will forge through the red flags if they think it's the best they can do and the fear of being alone.
Nevermind love, they can love anything but it passes.
If they don't respect you (like most don't since they nowadays try to compete with men), it's over or it never even began.
She doesn't need to be destructive, all she needs to be is temporarily unhappy.
And then it's character assassination, financial ruin and estrangement from your own offspring.
In other words modern day divorce.
@Gohann Actually only select high value men control access to relationships. Those are the ones that women chase because they know he has real power because many attractive women are chasing him. He has options. Also pyschologically these type of men do not get fixated on one woman like most guys do. The high value guys can quickly move to and find another attractive woman easily which most guys cant do. These are traits that women love in a man but will never admit it.
Women can't love.
The worst thing a man could ever do is be the puppy dog of a low quality woman. Fully agree on this.
"We don't talk that way to each other" But it's OK to secretly record each other to watch their response. He deserves better than her. She thinks so little of him that she would do that.
Truth right here. How is secretly testing him at dealing with a nasty person ever a good thing? She was being rude to him just to prank him, why? Why don’t people like her just use reality to test his reactions to things? They can’t because most females are not one with reality to begin with.
@Melville Norberg To me as well.
If it wasn't staged, then she does think little of him. That interaction from her side was giving me 'unfaithful' vibes. If that's normal for them, then I say 100% she's cheating on him.
@@BreezeeGreenz Naah...she just want to brag to other girls.
It’s staged and fake.
A few years ago, I was spending time with a girl. She was going to help a coworker organize a party and she invited me. In the middle of it, she took off with a couple of friends and left me there in the middle of a group of people I didn't know. I never talked to her again. Now jump forward about 3 years. I bumped into a former coworker who also knew her. He told me that the had said that she regretted doing that to me, still missed and wished to see me again. All I did was shrug me shoulders and said nothing. I had no intention of having anything to do with her again. This happened long before I knew anything about setting limits on a woman's actions but it was still disrespectful. It was her loss. Now I do know the impact of walking away and have done it several times. Don't know how it made them feel and honestly, don't really care. Once again, it was their loss.
I would walk away if woman was testing me like that. Why the hell would I want to "pass" some crazy tiktok-test?
It was a fake video. Guy was a terrible actor.
@@therainman7777 My thought exactly. There was little that seemed natural in his reaction.
They need to make your content a mandatory class for late teens to early 20's youth around the world. Alexander Grace is freeing young men and women from society's indoctrination one video at a time!
That wouldve saved me years of trial and error. Its draining to figure this stuff out the hard way.
How did Alexander figure it out? Doing the work is part of the learning experience. No reason to regret working out a problem yourself, rather than copying someone else's answer sheet.
@@malachi405 Who said anyhting about regret? Im just old enough to want to save myself time wherever I can, time is really precious to me.
You said "it's draining". Your words, not mine. 'Time-consuming' would be something else.
@@PennyWise-eu9nz I guess English isnt your first language. Its called a hyperbolic expression. I know its hard to tell when ppl are joking these days but come on.
I like the analogy of Uber vs train. One more element I can see: An Uber is completely in the service of that one passenger. The train has a lot of passengers, no one passenger is the complete focus. So a man should not only be on track going where he’s going, but he should also be immersed in his own social connections of different sorts.
Some Ubers do share rides...but they're still doing door-to-door service.
A train keeps running even if there are no passengers at all. It still has to be at the next station on time. Somewhere, someone's waiting.
The FUN Bus goes out with or without passengers - if she can't make the effort to be at the bus stop on time, she gets left behind!
There's still a major flaw with this analogy. Trains don't run 24/7. If people are at a party then nobody there can rely on a train to get them home unless they're a loser and have to leave the party early in order to catch the last train home. In the UK that's often only around 11-1130pm. The primary choice of transport for parties, nights out and later than expected spontaneous nights is an uber, because simply trains are not running at those times of day.
An uber also won't always be there at your beckon call either - if you as a passenger have built up a poor rating and you've caused the driver problems, been sick, had friends or acquaintances that have made it difficult for the driver, on multiple occasions, then your rating will suffer as a result. Because of this you will find it harder to secure an uber going forward, you'll be selected less by drivers (who go for passengers with higher ratings) and in order to change this you need to change your behaviour and be a more respectful human being generally - which is what we are saying women need to be here instead of taking men for granted and walking all over them, because the punishment from uber here is that the uber has walked away after too much bad behaviour.
If a woman uses you for tictok clout leave. Any woman who does this has proved to you that she is undeserving protection.
No cohabitation
No marriage
No divorce
No Alimony
No child support
Result happy life..😎😁
That's brilliant
Yeah i don’t want to bother dealing with all these games, back in the day you could just give a light smack and it was all good but now you have to make a mockery of yourself and take mockery in a “masculine” way. So dumb.
No family
No legacy
No one cares about you
No one at your funeral
Dont ignore red flags,
No sex
result - no kids no legacy.
Tik Tok is making stupid people stupid....er . If a partner did a ''Tik Tok test'' on me it would be over.
Yeah a girl "pranking" a guy is not attractive.
@@genericdeveloper3966 its for me at least, an invasion of privacy, she could-or even if the guy did it, use it as evidence- it would be immediately taken out of context by a social media witchhunt and that can be devastating. pranking is one thing, invasion of privacy is another.
No tik tok in relationships. It will screw up the marriage sooner or later.
Recording a candid camera type of Tik Tok without prior talk/consent between both partners is a MAJOR RED FLAG!
When your woman cares more about clout than your relationship you are very easily expandable.
I have nothing against couple channels where both partners are have talked and set boundaries and rules.
But a relationship for me should be peace, comfort, laughter. I don't want to be constantly stressed and walking on egg shells. And to constantly question her reactions and emotions. Is this the real her or Tik Tok her. No thank you! We don't do this at my house.
Bingo. This right here.
@hellogoodbye or even when they care more about their looks than how they're as a wife in general. Looks fade, marriage is suppose to be forever. Get over it.
Edit your grammar.
It sucks to be "expandable".
Scripted "pranks" are the bane of UA-cam.
I don't agree with your interpretation of the Tik Tok. The man was way too accommodating and the wife gives off _very_ strong 'unfaithful' vibes. I can't imagine that she's not cheating or planning to cheat on her husband.
On another note, the neglect/abandonment thing is very real with women. Many of them are in relationships or married mostly because they're afraid to be alone. I pick up on that and while I don't play the push-pull games, I don't want women who want me mostly because they don't want to feel alone, neglected, and abandoned.
Standard should be maintained. Noted 👌
Regarding this woman's behavior, this displays the inherently sadistic gauge of men's commitment some women harbor which I made a video on. All I'll say is, this form of behavior only continues if you're not punished (i.e., abandoned) for it.
Link to the video?
@@TheTrendDoctor My comment will likely get deleted if I put a link, but the video's title is Women's Interestingly Sadistic Gauge of Men's Commitment.
That is weird to show that to everybody. Pranks are all good but this was pretty cringy.
Agreed.
He should leave.
Agreed. What would have been the point of the video had he not come in there to confront her disrespectful behavior?
@@nez2598 1 'friendly' warning. After which all bets are off. If she doesn't already know that you really value your privacy.
@@MuantanamoMobile It just the fact the she made it, it's the extremely childish way in which she justifies it, as if making videos like that for TikTok is something valuable and worthwhile.
The best situation a man can be in is having nobody to walk away from.
The point you made at 5:05 was actually something a guy friend did to me. I'm a guy btw. I allowed someone to interrupt our conversation and he felt disrespected so he did that little move on me when I was about to get back to our conversation. It was subtle, but I definitely got his message. It was very socially adept of him. Definitely showed his social prowess
He did tolerate the poor behavior. He needed sternly tell her that is not ok, then turn and walk off. Ignore anything she has to say.
Agree, if a partner pranked me for likes on TikTok I would not be happy. It is just disrespectful.
@@matthewcoombs3282 Very disrespectful. I'd be considering dumping her on the spot since the disrespect will only get worse as she needs more and more social media likes.
Exactly.
The video was fake. The guy was a terrible actor.
Yes he should have been more forceful
It is very important I understand this correctly: The woman in this video is fully aware, that she is not behaving all-right....and yet it is still the mans responsibility to 1) Know she does not mean it, 2) behave completly balanced and polite tell her it is not allright how she behaves,3) not have any emotional reaction ( Be pissed of) 4) and afterwards forget it because she did not mean it and 5) next time she behaves like this again know she doesnt mean it unless 6) if she is seriosly then take her seriosly..........
And off topic: 7) no matter how bad a woman behaves still find her attractive...
Have I understood it correctly? Because then these mindgames is nothing for me. Psychogames are for psychopats.
I went to prison because of this same situation. I came home after a long days work and my ex started to yell. I shot her. Gosh this behavior is so irritating
should have shot her twice...lol
Gawh DAYMN
That escalated quickly.
Bet she didn't do that again in a hurry!
This is a crazy post if this is real LMFAO
3 days ago I discovered your youtube channel and I can not stop to watch your videos. Thanks a lot for sharing your knowledge and live experience!
Even I am a just a scientist :-) I am very happy to have understood, that my thoughts and observations have been evidenced by your videos and presented studies. On top I have got to know, that I have intuitively married a high quality women. Thanks god!
Over the last 35 years I have lived in several countries and had to learn to understand other cultures. The way you describe female nature is an obvious and indisputable fact in some none western cultures. There is no misled and fake narrative about the female and male natures. Most of the people have accepted the reality and are dealing with it accordingly, nevertheless I could observe the growing influence of Hollywood and Disney projection of fake romantic and binary view of good and evil.. :-( !
That's why dating happens too fast nowadays.
I went on MANY dates with my missus, and we both went home alone to our respective homes at the end of the date.
She looked forward to the next date (the next time we could see each other) every time.
For a short while she had me; my attention, good conversation, good fun, and someone to hold on to.
Then it all disappered and she went back to her solo life... and realised how much she hated living solo.
We did this until she had finally had enough and made the decision to leave her home (and her solo life) and to come and be with me.
And we've been together ever since. 😌
This wouldn't work in a modern context because most women have multiple men on the go when dating
@@henry-js if she has "multiple guys on the go" then you shouldn't even CONSIDER dating her - let alone starting a relationship with her.
She may be good for a smash and dash, but you'll put your WHOLE FUTURE in danger for that sloppy 5 minutes.
Wait for a girl who isn't a garden tool, who won't sell you up the river for a quick buck, and isn't a petri dish of all those other guys.
One who appreciates you, with YOU being all they want/need (i.e. loyal).
They do exist, even today, though they are harder to find as they don't put themselves on display for the whole world.
Paul you must have a good one 😂because this is the 2nd video I’ve seen that you mentioned her.
Me personally I’m dating a hot model type that’s allergic to accountability. Just enjoying the ride till she angers me enough to give her back to the streets 😂
There're reasons why lot of women desires their "toxic" ex over their current partner. She might complain her ex was controlling, always put his foot down, and never took any disrespect but he still misses him. While the current partner is really nice, takes care of her needs and emotionally supportive. At time he's her emotional punching bag. Now that's really bad. That's where she loses all respect for him. In all such cases she romanticise and misses the sex with ex lot more than in current relationship.
You mean loses all respect.
Autocorrect happens
I can't speak for all women, of course, but I most certainly do NOT miss my toxic ex. Lost every single ounce of respect for his lying, cheating, ubreliable self. To think, that idiot lectured me on friendship, which I apparently "don't understand" just because I am a woman... while he slept with his own friend's wife every once in a while... What a joke! 😂
My current man is most certainly an upgrade in every way 😛 He has a backbone and knows how to establish boundaries while remaining caring and kind, and without being the least bit toxic or dishonest.
Theres also a positive side to this.
If she acts particularly kind and sweet, its time to REWARD HER.
Best reward is attention. No need for big money gifts.
Just spark some positive emotion in her, if shes yours youll know how to
I don’t agree. This is totally inappropriate. If your girl is pranking you for likes, get rid of her
I’m tired of all the stupid mind games you have to play. Is it even worthy it ?
In my exprerience. 99% of the time with women. No its not. If you are into casual hook ups then playing flirting games is mandatory. But for relationships. Most women today dont even really want that.
For me its just hard to not want some sort of justice
How many times will our sex accept the poking?
He handled it nearly perfectly. The only thing I'd add is no more weird pranks like that. That may have been discussed off cam if this for sure wasn't staged.
Some women are too Caught up in following trends & social media. Or he could have shown weakness another time. There was no need for him to say sorry either. He could have rephrased not trying to rush her. But we're all humans here.
My problem with his response is that he apologized. Never apologize when someone else is misbehaving.
I genuinely feel like you're too smart for your own good, too smart for many people to not understand that you're *not* a misogynist. You're simply just too smart / intelligent for many to grasp your true words and intentions.
While i appreciate your takes, i definitely disagree with your interperetation of the clip. Where you see good husband game, i see blatant disrespect for the sake of a non-consentual tiktok, followed by him apologizing for "rushing" her. And finally he softens the boundry he sets by including himself in the pronoun, "WE dont talk to each other that way", as if he particpated. Thats not a firm stance in my world. Its more like how i'd discipline a young child.
on one hand, he sounded like a feminine soyboy, on the other hand he did say something. which is more than a lot of men
this whole thing could have been an act
I've said this many times before, and some people see it as insecure but imo I just have zero tolerance for BS.
If I was spoken to disrespectfully I'd calmly ask her to leave and I'd say the relationship is over.
Not with any intention of making her feel a certain way - simply because I'm done.
I'd educate my partner on how we should speak to one another and if we're frustrated, to take a few breaths before speaking, stay silent or walk away; never be abusive or disrespectful as to do so is grounds for ending the relationship (I have a track record of doing so - so they know I don't bluff).
Most probably this is fake
It's not
So what I'm hearing, which seems to be a common theme even outside this channel, is that too get a girl, she has to not mean anything to you. Might work for a hook up, but I don't see how you could build, much less maintain a real relationship. If I'm that disinterested, I'm not gonna even care about talking to her. I'm not that guy and don't want to be. If I have to put on an act to be in a relationship, what's the point? And if you really are willing to walk away from someone that easy, why would you want to get into a long term relationship with them.
She has to mean the world to you, and everything in it. And you still must be willing to walk away if she doesn't meet your standards.
You want her, but don't need her.
i loved the Uber vs Train metaphor Interesting !!!
Agreed, there were times that I lost my cool and it was definitely because I was more angry with myself for the situations I had allowed myself to be placed into or the people that I had allowed to take up my time. Not having a secure frame in place for ones self only leads to self-destruction.
Been there, done that.
You are such an eloquent speaker
He knew it wasn’t her usual way of talking, he reacted with surprise and bewilderment, because she isn’t really like that at all.
REALLY BADLY STAGED!
The fact that he's perfectly in frame is one of many dead giveaways.
Im not usually one to learn tacky gimmicks to have more success in the dating world
But dammit, im tired of being open without boundaries just to get used then abandoned with nobody to nurture my hurt as I just did for hers
That's because these games do not come natural for men but it does come natural for women.
Even if you don't like the games, you still need to learn how they play so you can protect yourself. You don't need to play these stupid games if you don't want to but still need to know how to neutralize her stupid games.
He has no reason to be upset since he's not in mortal danger, but he has reason to slow her roll and inquire what is the context of this unexplained mood, exactly as he did. Cheers to him.
For me, my normal mode of interaction with women is one of polite indifference. Being biologically hard-wired to seek attention and validation, l think it sometimes piques their curiosity about you when you seem to be more involved in something else and are socially oblivious to their presence.
That's the way I love my life. It's freeing not having to play the games you seem to have to play when interacting with women.
Straight women here, i think you're spot on
So I'm speaking from experience here and I believe that the way the guy handled this conflict in the video is perfect. If he's interested to have a long-term relationship, you have to handle conflict like this in a calm way. If you're ever in a conflict where one of the two people are too emotional or too angry you immediately have to put the conversation and conflict on ice and take it up again... maybe the next day when everybody's calmed down. I think 'never go to bed angry' is terrible advice. Conflicts need to be solved but a huge blowout will damage the relationship
Why was she talking to him like that while she was recording? What was going to be her point on the video? How she talks to her man and he just puts up with it? Had he not came in there to confront her, what was the point of the outburst going to be?
Great "Train" and "Uber" comparison.
I've come across their videos before, that guy is honestly awesome. He dodges and weaves with a dash of humor. Much respect.
Having the strength to walk away and never look back. Thats a thing i learned from correy wayne's 3% man
When you say women do not want the power its very true. I've enjoyed dominatrix's and ect but they're exceptions most women genuinely want to be submissive in the bed room and i was shocked by this being raised as a feminist it took a while for me to be comfortable going so rough. But wow I look back at how I was raised and I'm like yeah feminism goes against everything that women find attractive. Most male feminists are conditioned to seek another mother and they're often confused and constrained yes I blame the women not the men because like me these men were lied to from childhood
Men also have that fear of abandonment but they have been trained to own that feeling, to claim ownership and be accountable for it. Women aren't expected to have this.
Thanks. I love the analogy between Train and Uber!
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00:00 🚶♂️ Emphasizes the power of walking away from confrontational situations with women.
00:13 🤔 Highlights the importance of maintaining standards and communication in relationships.
01:17 ✅ Asserts that responding maturely and assertively to tests or challenges in a relationship is crucial for respect and attraction.
01:44 🚫 Discusses the inefficacy of overreacting when setting boundaries in relationships.
02:13 💪 Suggests that a calm and confident demeanor when enforcing boundaries indicates strength and self-assurance.
02:56 🚶 Emphasizes walking away as an effective response to conflict, rather than engaging in anger or arguments.
03:08 😨 Describes the innate fear of abandonment many women experience and its evolutionary roots.
04:16 🥶 Discusses social dynamics and fear of being ostracized within female social circles.
04:45 🔄 Explains the "Push Pull" technique used to generate attraction by alternating between showing interest and disinterest.
06:24 🎢 Illustrates how emotional highs and lows can increase a man's attractiveness by being the source of a woman's emotional states.
07:35 💁♂️ Argues that a man's willingness to walk away showcases his high quality and is attractive to women.
08:04 🚫 Critiques men who exhibit clingy, needy behavior, asserting that it is unattractive to women.
08:32 🎮 Social skills and Game Theory are crucial for young men's development; skipping this step is detrimental.
09:01 🎭 Practical experience complements theoretical knowledge in social dynamics and dating.
09:16 🚶♂️ Exiting a conversation at its peak can increase attraction and prevent appearing needy.
10:12 💭 A scarcity mindset prevents men from walking away, potentially reducing their desirability.
10:54 🚂 Being decisive and directional like a train, not accommodating like an Uber, is more attractive to women.
11:50 🛤️ A man should be purpose-driven and not overly influenced by a woman's presence or absence.
12:44 ✊ Women lose attraction to men they perceive as having too much influence over.
13:25 🗣️ Effective communication and setting standards in a relationship are critical; being overly accommodating is not respected.
15:00 💪 Women respect and are attracted to men with strong personal standards and the ability to uphold them.
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the train/uber analogy is perfectly on point !
Even tho it looks like cruel technique i knew this naturally when i was 10. Always talked to all the girls in the room but the one i really wanted. And worked every single time. Its just later on in life i thought that i was using a cheat code, maybe being honest is better. Well tried it. Its not. Once you become yes man and honest 100% of the time you are boring the them. And no matter her character and background they are all the same.
The push-pull is also really effective when she experiences last minute resistance in the bedroom.
Brilliant analogy with Uber vs Train. All aboard!
The girlfriend recorded him to see his reaction to test him. How many more tests will there be? Speaks volumes. He should have also said, "Play stupid games win stupid prizes. We are breaking up."
Just walk away...
Then a couple of days later, set up your camera and give her a slap when she walks into frame.
Then just laugh it off, give her a hug and say, its ok, I was just making a TikTok video.
Problem solved!
The comparison of the train and the uber was magic
Brootal looksmatched couple in 2023
Your advice is solid. With that said I don’t have the energy to deal with someone that does not know how to be a normal God fearing human. I don’t know when this behavior became normal but I refuse to play.
I pushed and pulled unintentionaly. and she calls me manipulator. then I intentionaly leave. cause apearently she doesnt want me. then 2 months later asks me to choose her
From what I noticed, women like to get told what to do but not forced to do anything.
Most want to be rescued from their own agreeableness. As weird as it may sound they would rather have a man who always tells them no over a man who always tells them yes.
@@GeneralProfessor learned that from experience
That video was fake, rehearsed...
9:30. It's one thing to attract women with technique and game pretending to be a high value guy. It's a whole other thing keeping up the appearence of being a high value guy for the next 60 years..
Well. While there is undoubtedly much to be said on this topic that gets my blood "BOILING", I doubt there's much I can say that all of you in this comment section has not already said...
However. As far as my own personal convictions go all I will say on the matter is, an "AUTHENTICALLY GOOD WOMEN", will work to bring peace, love and altogether fulfillment to your life so long as you bring safety, security and altogether abundance to hers.
I understand women's need to feel secure in the presence of the man there with, BUT! Going out of their way to deliberately target men's insecurities to get them to lose control and potentially run the risk of landing him in prison on false charges when she in fact was the initiator, all for the sake of testing the strength of his frame is NO EXCUSE.
Regardless of ones nature, we all still have a choice, and we are what we choose to be, and if what we choose to be is a deliberate manipulator, scammer, deceiver and altogether hypergamy leech, then I am sorry, but such an individual imo does not apply for a man's love or protection; certainly not at the expense of both his own wellbeing and even very life...
I'm just struggling to understand how a man can not only sacrifice a life of peace and freedom where he can use his: time, money, strength, energy, desire, resources, love and ambition to being the best version of himself he wants to be, and if he's both done the work and done it right do whatever he so chooses, and has his pick of the litter concerning women (where he can acquire sex for free for the rest of his life) why he would choose to settle down for just one girl who actively not only make his life an unnecessary living hell, but also has the legal power to destroy him upon a single word and render him disposable...
And yet we as men are expected to genuinely love these creatures almost unconditionally without complaint or protest.
How...?
Maybe I'm being too harsh, but that's my closing question.
How are we supposed to love the unlovable...?
I’m talking to a female friend who is currently wound up over a guy who is making her wait for a reply.
Didn’t you tell me you weren’t interested in him? I asked.
Ya, but I still want him to pay attention…
definitely done this already. greetings from Romania 🇷🇴
uber/train analogy, love it, that about sums it up ⏱😎
The guy was so calm and handled it so well. Admirable.
In the first vid he literally did say "sorry if i was rushing you". What do you mean the guy didnt apologize???
Yeah he's pretty clearly whipped. But then again, just for her to think she could record a video like that already proves that relationship is doomed.
And the guy mentioned he "brought her a drink"
My GF has the advantage of having WORKED for TikTok. Nobody hates it more than her, after she was forced to watch 1,000 of their videos a day, and then chewed out repeatedly by her boss for simultaneously not watching MORE videos in a day, and also not being MOPRE careful in her review of said videos lol.
that train vs uber analogy is *chefs kiss* muah
WALK AWAY AND SAVE YOUR LIFE FROM THOSE INSANE PEOPLE
Good example, we all need to be more like that. That being said that guy could definitely do better.
Really great video. One of the best in the latter times of the channel
omg I just love your uber/train analogy. Now my childhood dream can come true. I wanna be a TRAIN
"I apologize for existing" The funniest sht I've heard all day..got a free laugh out of the video.
All well and done, until she has serious mental health issues that prevent her from shooting for the standards you set and she agreed on.
Like my ex GF and still neighbor. Twice she ended it during a depressive phase and we both know we cannot go for a third try before she dealt with her issues. We talked it through two days ago.
So I have the very unfortunate situation of the almost perfect woman for me living just above me and not being able to get together with her for a long time. Same on her side. She could also be thousands of kilometers away.
If that is motivation for her to really go for it I don't know, we keep our contact to a minimum to not fall for each other again too soon. The incredible strong attraction between us is still there.
That sucks on so many levels. Life is no RomCom.
I might be wrong but you sound like a young guy that is still quite romantic and idealistic. I'm sorry to tell you but that woman is not for you. The fact that you are still talking to her and "waiting" for her to get better so you can be together is subconciously telling her that you can't find anyone better than her and that is not a real incentive for her to actually get better for you. She might pretend so she can have you but she won't actually do it.
At this point she still has your attention and you are basically placing yourself in the friendzone. You already tried it twice and it didn't work and you are patiently waiting for her to decide when you are ready to try a third time.
Your initial boundary was ok but you are showing that you are not that serious about it because you want to keep trying. You should move on.
@@23sergione Thank you very much for your very thorough feedback, but I am all but young (54), had six long time relationships including one marriage and I am not talking to her anymore after this one talk. She's dating other guys anyways, already ran through one other guy (lasted eight weeks) and I am not eager to repeat the very bad breaking up experience with her.
In fact I am dating a different woman right now and so far it looks very promising.
@@Kashban That is very good to hear, you definitely have the necessary experience to see what is happening. Based on what you said, to her you are the safe good guy that she took for granted but she would feel that being with you would be settling and based on her own issues she is not done with the drama that bad boys have to offer.
Even if your new relationship does not work, do not fall in that trap of trying for a 3rd time with her. For your own good, close that chapter in your life completely. Life is too short to keep wasting it with people that do not appreciate you.
Best of luck to you.
When you use such gaslighting , dont blame someone who is using it against you.
Trains run on their own time. They come and go when they want, not when they're called (they might have a published schedule, or some public transportation subways just show up every so often).
The passengers wait at the station to make sure they're not left behind. The train never comes faster because someone's in a rush, never stays longer because someone's running late.
Be a train.
Trains also stop at their stations; not a door to door service!
abandoning women from the beginning - EFFECTIVE AF
You read my mind! I was just going to comment that he was not stern enough and then you explained it right while i was writing my comment 😂 makes sense now
Super advise.
Just to clarify the opening point, you aren't being firm and setting boundaries with her so she will respect you, that's just a knock-on effect. You're doing it because it's the morally correct thing to do, and it just so happens that the nature of women is to submit to healthy boundaries (unless they're entirely gone mentally). The annoying component is that female neuroticism will cause this to be a bit of an ongoing project for you, it's going to be really tough to find a wise enough woman who picks up on these lessons and changes relatively quickly. So you better get used to flexing that (figurative) muscle to keep re-grounding her.
Totally agree with this. It becomes a problem though, if you're married. You can't just walk away. It will take time, effort and especially a lot of money. Bottom line? Don't get married. UNFORTUNATELY, the type of woman that we are all most interested in, feminine, agreeable (I prefer the FFM trait 'agreeableness' to 'submissiveness'), emotionally stable, and not impulsive, is more likely to be interested in marriage. So at the very least, keep things within your control and get a prenup.
tl;dr marriage makes the ability to 'just walk away' extremely difficult. A prenup should lessen that difficulty some, so at the very least, get a prenup.
Ok so he states his boundaries. In a way I would if Im stressed.
My mom would yell a lot , so before I used to act aggressive. But telling her nicely she wouldn't listen. Like I would have to repeat myself like 10 times then she would change.
Putting fear of life takes like 1 second. There's very few scenarios where I'll do this to a stranger, almost did it to ny teacher . But I don't feel like a man , because they are weaker than me , ofc they would be scared .
If I feel like someone stronger than me , I'll be on a "unalive" phase where I don't care what will happen to me if I can do 1% damage to them and 99% on me or if I get unalived in the process it's a win to me.
However, then I learned about the ways of cartels , and I really don't want to continue this mode . Im stooping to their level.
So now what Im doing is I go in this "unalive" phase and try to do my best to do the right thing.
His approach is far too soft if dealing with a woman who really is abusive. No need to yell or get big about it, but soft weakness like this doesn’t faze them.
Belieeeeeeeve me.
What’s most comical about people who get angry is they think they are powerful by displaying it when it actually shows they are unable to control it and therefore are weak.
You should clarify that doing this won't attract a woman you would want to marry, it's good to know the basics of what is going on in a woman's head, but having to play games all the time to get women is a pretty fast way to an unhappy life!
I walked away when abused by my ex her lawyer used that as abandonment and she won hands down.....if you stand your ground to reason with them that the lawyer calls mental/verbal abuse. Eitherway you cannot win unless you Johnny Depp $$$$.....best advice is do not give females any attention besides hi & bye.
Way ahead of you, did it 22 years ago, not worth it.
You can tell the girl only did it once though. Imagine she does it over and over and over like majority of women do. Even that man would eventually break and accept the new boundary..
Also, notice the guy has settled for three maybe even four levels below of his attraction . Of course the wife is going to treat him properly, she knows that she’ll not do better than that guy..
What's the suitable term for her body proportions? Plus? Thick? He seems fit and active.
Lazy 💩
But he did not walk away from her.
Why does he have a girlfriend?
He is better off being single.
He neither said he'd walk away, nor implied it.
The train analogy's good but I hope people don't think being Thomas the Tank Engine is a satisfactory level of that to reach.