Damn. Mine said he dont want to make me upsat and that he has feelings for me then the next day ,gone with the wind. We use the same karaoke app,I see him there when he s online,but he doesnt say a word to me,I don t either. On Whatsapp I cant see when he s online or when he was. I didnt send any message , didnt block him yet but I will soon,if he sends any message,I will tell him that I dont talk to ghosts and block him .I dont want to veg for his atention when he clearly was playing with my feelings.
1 - because he got what he wanted. 2- because he feels he won't get what he wanted. 3- he's simply engaged with / interested in someone else. 4- he was put off during an exchange. Nothing more nothing less.
I match energy. I ghost in return and I ignore permanently after 3 days. Consider it a favor if you get ghosted. Eliminate him from any consideration for anything serious if you even still want to be bothered at all.
@@roberttyler5808 typically before sex. By the time I have sex it’s a relationship. In which case I go to where he is and ask him what’s up. How do I know he isn’t dead? I make them face me.
Once you go cold on me I let you know straight that this is not what I wanted. So do you I'm gonna go ahead with my journey on my own looking for what I need. Then I cut all ties completely
Derrick has proven that no matter how screwed up you are, if you continue telling people what they want to hear they’ll forgive and forget. It’s really quite remarkable.
I literally just got done going through number 4, it was such a huge shock and hurt like hell! You have given me some peace and understanding, thanks so much!
Mental health is Wealth. Go cold 🥶 on me. Imma leave you right there with yo winter ❄️ coat 🧥, mittens 🧤 and snow ⛄️ boots 🥾. I understand depression. I am familiar with it. It takes time to heal. If I love you 😘 Imma see you through. If not imma let you and yo therapist work it out. You decide to patch things up with someone else. Bless y’all. Have a happy 😃 life. Dueces ✌🏽!
#4 No! That doesn't apply, either! He's so scared of the feelings he started having for me . He's trying to convince himself, that he doesn't really, truly love me.
He went cold and i call him didnt answer and didnt call me he unfollow me on instagram and i block him for good i deeply like him but i don't want someone to treat me that way on beginning so i choose me😢
Thank you Derrick for keep on going and you are a inspiration to me really I’m anonymous here on UA-cam but in the Netherlands I’m quite famous and I will recommend your channel to my friends and colleagues
Hi @scarlett-fg2hh, I am so sorry to hear that you're going through a tough time right now. Breakups can be incredibly difficult and it's completely normal to feel lost and heartbroken. Remember to be kind and patient with yourself during this healing process. Take the time to focus on self-care and surround yourself with loved ones who support you. And always remember, you are strong and capable of getting through this challenging time. If you want further guidance and support, I invite you to check out my new master class on relationships. It's filled with valuable insights and strategies to help you navigate through heartbreak and emerge stronger than ever. Take care and believe in yourself. You've got this.
I do everthing for my friends, If I meet a girl that is chill imma treat her the same way but I'm not flirting I'm just built like that. Whenever I think they get the wrong idea I go cold because I get uncomfortable with them. I'm not meant for relationships I belive ;-;
interesting. but why cannot they.discuss what is acceptable and what is not, with good reasoned ground why not. it happens when a.couple probably.may not understand where they.are in a relationship. like she thinks is real love and seriously cares and he is not.that serious and keeps her in a friend zone. or she does not see any.signs of real relationship and he decided he is going to marry. both.just percept the situation from their dellusion of what they.think about the partner.with no understanding how their partner sees it.
Me too... I don’t have to be in a high vibration to talk to people about being in a high vibration, he Learned from his mistakes and continues to spread the light regardless
Hey @nplatt91, I just want to say that I hear you and I see the struggles you're going through. It's okay to feel lost and confused in relationships, but know that you are not alone in this journey. Remember to be kind and patient with yourself as you navigate through these challenges. I believe that with the right guidance and support, you can overcome any obstacles that come your way. If you're looking for more personalized advice and strategies, I highly recommend checking out my new master class. You can find the link to it in the description below the video. Keep pushing forward and never give up on finding happiness and fulfillment in your relationships. You've got this! 💪🏼
Total red flag.
I’m just moving on.
He told me he wanted me to feel safe with him and be open. I did…a little…and he has now gone cold.
He lied…😢
Damn. Mine said he dont want to make me upsat and that he has feelings for me then the next day ,gone with the wind. We use the same karaoke app,I see him there when he s online,but he doesnt say a word to me,I don t either. On Whatsapp I cant see when he s online or when he was. I didnt send any message , didnt block him yet but I will soon,if he sends any message,I will tell him that I dont talk to ghosts and block him .I dont want to veg for his atention when he clearly was playing with my feelings.
Likely an avoidant attachment. When they add no value, subtract.
Same. The minute I listened and did just as he said he switched up
EVERY REJECTION IS A PROTECTION, let him go, u deserve so much more
💯💯
I'm gonna remember this forever. Thanx so much.
Just like that☝🏿
What about if they leave you while pregnant. And don’t want anything to do with the baby?
God has better.
1 - because he got what he wanted.
2- because he feels he won't get what he wanted.
3- he's simply engaged with / interested in someone else.
4- he was put off during an exchange.
Nothing more nothing less.
Nough said 🧐
Not a complete list but ok
You don't know men psychology at all
He told me when I went to see him he don’t ignore my text
me he’s just shy & depressed bc he lost his bff.
Those are the only reasons I stop taking to girls. You nailed it.
Umm. Cuz he's with another woman. Come on, ladies.
With another lady and lil Wayne the rapper can get away with having 4 women.
@@arethaboddy7490 wtf?
Most definitely with another woman.
NOT ALWAYS
Exactly ❤
I dont play with red flags, once i see them I'm gone no time wasted.
I match energy. I ghost in return and I ignore permanently after 3 days. Consider it a favor if you get ghosted. Eliminate him from any consideration for anything serious if you even still want to be bothered at all.
Is this before after sex
💯💯 gotta move on
@@roberttyler5808 not everyone has sex right off or at all without a commitment.
It saves time.
@@roberttyler5808 typically before sex. By the time I have sex it’s a relationship. In which case I go to where he is and ask him what’s up. How do I know he isn’t dead? I make them face me.
Then they say you want too much. Men want women they can control and manipulate. As soon as you pop off, they gone.
If they say you want too much, it’s because he doesn’t like you enough… go get somebody else to do it
I chose me. I let go, and had all the closure I need.
Sounds brave, but without the full learning experience you'll find yourself having to let go a lot.
good for you! I'm dealing with some real pain... 😢
@@JoeMoss83 no she won’t because if she’s DECIDED to let go of men altogether, there’s no need for her to continue to ‘let go’ 👍🏽😁
@@aleayh Maybe, but she didn't say she let go of men altogether
Once you go cold on me I let you know straight that this is not what I wanted. So do you I'm gonna go ahead with my journey on my own looking for what I need. Then I cut all ties completely
Mental health is real! I was dating someone and he fell into a deep depression and that ended everything between us.
Same here
Awe...that's so hard on everyone involved. 😢
Damn sorry , maybe you didn’t seduce him
Yep, so did I. It was hurtful cause I didn’t know what I had did, on the end I knew it wasn’t me he has issues!
All a person has to do is say it. Doesn’t matter if they’re interested or not, just open your mouth. It’s not that serious.
If he’s not talking to you,, he’s talking to someone else, or making a baby with her.
I match energy & move on gracefully. ✌🏽No hard feelings move on they are simply not the one for you.
Derrick has proven that no matter how screwed up you are, if you continue telling people what they want to hear they’ll forgive and forget.
It’s really quite remarkable.
Fascinating. What, exactly, is he even saying?🤔
It doesn't matter, he's helping me cheat on my girl better.
@@jimmydean5663 and I wish you weren’t born 😬
@@lc2014 i wish you and your pimp Derrick the best. Happy holidays.
@@jimmydean5663 wtf
I literally just got done going through number 4, it was such a huge shock and hurt like hell! You have given me some peace and understanding, thanks so much!
Naw you are right. I put it on the line: if he can’t handle it; then he can’t handle me. No matter how good our “friendship” may be.
Mental health is Wealth. Go cold 🥶 on me. Imma leave you right there with yo winter ❄️ coat 🧥, mittens 🧤 and snow ⛄️ boots 🥾. I understand depression. I am familiar with it. It takes time to heal. If I love you 😘 Imma see you through. If not imma let you and yo therapist work it out. You decide to patch things up with someone else. Bless y’all. Have a happy 😃 life. Dueces ✌🏽!
That's funny 😄
@@arethaboddy7490 Funny 😁 lol but my truth.
Point blank
Where’s your husband at nowhere to be found
I agree with you Derrick . I’m the one who goes ghost & now I just simply to people I’m not interested so don’t waist your time .
Simple and short
Right on time with this message Derrick! Thanks 🙏🏽
I’m glad he’s back making these videos, no one breaks it down like him in such a small amount of time 😇
I'm glad women like you are still listening to Derrick jaxn it's helping me cheat on you better.
@@lFrenzied she'll never leave her pimp.
Love the insite from a mans perspective!!
Nothing but truth all the time! Love your videos!
#4 No! That doesn't apply, either!
He's so scared of the feelings he started having for me . He's trying to convince himself, that he doesn't really, truly love me.
This ‼️‼️‼️
Is this possible?
Stop fooling yourself. If he loves you he won’t let you go.
In this situation, he told me he is depressed and I don't know what to do.
Tell him get therapy and see what he does.
What would you have expected him to do if u were in his position??
Ride him tf
He went cold and i call him didnt answer and didnt call me he unfollow me on instagram and i block him for good i deeply like him but i don't want someone to treat me that way on beginning so i choose me😢
Idiot. Never unblock him
Ride him tf
He is cruel, you don't deserve to be treated like that
Bc he never truly loved you
Wow! Thank you. You’re so right!
Makes so much sense!
He controls the pace that way
You said a lot now I get some understanding as of why but Communication is key to all healthy relationships
My husband went cold & could careless what i do. Emotional ghost
Thank you Derrick for keep on going and you are a inspiration to me really I’m anonymous here on UA-cam but in the Netherlands I’m quite famous and I will recommend your channel to my friends and colleagues
#2 No, sweetie! That doesn't apply, either !
He's scared of being hurt, again or abandonment!
Yes, brother-en ! Glad you're creating videos like this again. I gain lots of wisdom and sound info from them. God bless you and the family.
This video came just in time 🤔.. I guess I will take this as a sign
Same.
LOVE this one. neva disappoints👍🏽
So True
Superb content D 👌
Not the phone being dead for 9 days straight tho 😮😅🤦🏽♀️
Amen u so on point🤔🤔
I experienced the last one. After I miscarried and I ended things with him, he jumped into a relationship.. like what?
Yes, totally 4 happens often
Thanks you for that message
I love you guys so much ❤️❤️
Resonated with reason 3
That can be true for mental health
On point
Ur so right on.
Yeah the first one is what broke us 💔😢
I swear Derrik you dun met my ex🎯💯😅 the way you bring the insight
All facts! Thanks D!
I’m so glad I found you. Thank you so much!
Hi @scarlett-fg2hh, I am so sorry to hear that you're going through a tough time right now. Breakups can be incredibly difficult and it's completely normal to feel lost and heartbroken. Remember to be kind and patient with yourself during this healing process. Take the time to focus on self-care and surround yourself with loved ones who support you. And always remember, you are strong and capable of getting through this challenging time.
If you want further guidance and support, I invite you to check out my new master class on relationships. It's filled with valuable insights and strategies to help you navigate through heartbreak and emerge stronger than ever. Take care and believe in yourself. You've got this.
Amen.
Mine was mental illness ....too much for him.
I do everthing for my friends, If I meet a girl that is chill imma treat her the same way but I'm not flirting I'm just built like that. Whenever I think they get the wrong idea I go cold because I get uncomfortable with them. I'm not meant for relationships I belive ;-;
🙏🏽❤️
Yes we do it too and goes both ways
U are so knowledgeable I appreciate men like yourself 💯💯💯
You mean Men like you (not "yourself")
Work then goes Derrick. You have thrown them off completely
I love you so much Derrick ❤️❤️
Yes you’re right🙏🏼I’m going through that right now, you first reason🤔
Hey mental health is real, don't forget he could be on the spectrum . It may not always be that obvious
Well duh! I'm a woman and even I know that when he goes cold, his interest is elsewhere.
Yall still listening to him
he's speaking about himself
He is not a honest person
He is not an honest
❤️❤️❤️❤️
His not worth it just leave his a$$. Move on someone better will come to you who values you for what you are.❤️
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Derrick have you gotten the help you need?
#3 Didn't apply, either !
interesting. but why cannot they.discuss what is acceptable and what is not, with good reasoned ground why not.
it happens when a.couple probably.may not understand where they.are in a relationship. like she thinks is real love and seriously cares and he is not.that serious and keeps her in a friend zone.
or she does not see any.signs of real relationship and he decided he is going to marry.
both.just percept the situation from their dellusion of what they.think about the partner.with no understanding how their partner sees it.
Your link to your class doesn't work
Glad you didn’t stop sharing your knowledge.
Me too... I don’t have to be in a high vibration to talk to people about being in a high vibration, he Learned from his mistakes and continues to spread the light regardless
Should I ask for an explanation?
Why not? He'll either tell you the truth or he'll tell you something that makes you realise he's talking BS.
Because. He. Was. Lying.
#1 didn't apply .
Cause he wants his cake and eat it too
Honestly this is why the birth rates are dwindling.. this is why the b4 movement even exsists..
Or he has BPD and he painted you black and suddenly changed on you
Thank you. I needed to hear this. 🫶🏻
❤
Hey @nplatt91, I just want to say that I hear you and I see the struggles you're going through. It's okay to feel lost and confused in relationships, but know that you are not alone in this journey. Remember to be kind and patient with yourself as you navigate through these challenges.
I believe that with the right guidance and support, you can overcome any obstacles that come your way. If you're looking for more personalized advice and strategies, I highly recommend checking out my new master class. You can find the link to it in the description below the video. Keep pushing forward and never give up on finding happiness and fulfillment in your relationships. You've got this! 💪🏼