Enneagram: Am I Type 7?
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- Опубліковано 31 лип 2024
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Dr. Tom LaHue is a graduate of Florida Christian College. He holds 3 Master's Degrees including an MDiv from Liberty Univ. His Doctoral degree is from Grace College and Seminary. He is also a certified Marriage Coach. He and his wife Traci have been married since 1991. They are the proud parents of 5 children and 5 grandchildren.
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I don't think anyone who is not 7 would understand the phrase "u are happiest when u are happy"
it sound confusing but makes so much sense
laughing at myself after you said "if you dont like your job you probably already quit" so true omg! #sevenforlife!
I’m really really trying to channel some 1.
I haven’t even started this video. This statement actually made my jaw drop.
This was amazing. Lots of people kept telling me I was a 7, but looking it up most people just say "7s are party animals". (I'm only the life of the party until the party starts going, then I sit back and enjoy everyone enjoying the party.) This description fit me EXACTLY... especially spinning the positive, interested in many subjects and avoiding (like the plague) any type of micromanaging. Thank you so much Dr. LaHue!
I was skeptical at first about this Enneagram, but when I heard what you said about 7 --- yikes -- it almost like you know me in person!! i am totally obsessed when I am on a project for sure! Absolutely true about limitation/micromanage. HATE IT!! And when I get bored at work -- I find things to do or start - work like a charm all the time 😆
I’m definitely a 7, positivity can be super annoying and toxic sometimes tho. Like repress every bad feeling and only want to be positive and feel positive emotions so much that I just ignore it. And then it’ll just come out after a while and I’ll have a breakdown (also ENFP)
"Jack of all trades and a master of none" Yup, that's me!
Full quote for Jack of All Trades: "Jack of all trades master of none, though oftentimes better than master of one.” :)
ADHD be like
I love how humble you are on your own type, Tom!
But you don't have to be!
This video only lasts 12 minutes
Whereas your "Am I type 8" is around 35 minutes long.
Right now I'm figuring out whether I am a 7w8 or 8w7
These videos help a lot
Thank you so much 🙏🏼
Kind regards from Germany ✌🏼
Putting this video on, doing something else on the other phone, then realising that you actually had some important emotions you sort of had to deal with but felt stuck with, which you managed to forget. All while eating cookies.
Yeah...
But on the other note, I feel that the fear aspect of 7 can make things very complicated. I may enjoy new things but on my own I tend to redo old things unless I have company pushing me to try what's new. I don't like feeling put down or out of place but tend to stick to things where I can be the person I like myself to be.
I’m 41. And this explains my whole life!!!!! It’s almost embarrassing.
Would love for you to address tritypes and how to determine your core type
Agree
I don't think he believes or teaches tritypes. I personally don't believe in it.
So I'm right about being a 7 after thinking I was a 9 all this time. Yes I look like a 9 from the outside, especially around strangers and acquaintances (and even most of my extended family members) because of my extreme social anxiety so I can see how people thought I was a 9. But from the inside, I'm actually a 7. I don't relate to everything he said on this video though, but I don't have to relate 100% to identify with a type. Thanks Dr. LaHue for this video!
Great video Tom. I am getting ready to be president of a pretty large group and I was reminded of my leadership style with your video. I thank you and Bea for the tips and descriptions of the 7 style because most of them apply to me.
Thanks
Ok, you got me, loud and clear!!
Woah, I thought I was a 9w1 but this resonates A LOT (especially how I was as a child).
Both types are very similar
Thank you for this!! Took the test and I got 7 but 5 was like neck and neck then took it again out of fear and got a 5 so yeah this helped a lot I’m a type 7 infp😳
Who in the world would thumbs down this?? This is an awesome video. I’m a 7 and love it, God has worked on me and helped me with my weakness and I’m a best 7 now which makes a huge difference in my sphere of influence and people like being with me and I love people so it’s a win win to give God all the glory and let Him shine thru me😁
Every single one fits expect for not complaining. I kept having jobs that did not fit my nature and I felt perpetually trapped in them, in their procedural nature, ugh. But couldn't just quit due to a variety of reasons. Now I'm trying to go for something else that has lots of prospects of growth and necessitates being a lifelong learner, creative problem solving and good teamwork so I hope it will go well!
Really helpful thank you
After watching this and almost every videos of your channel, I feel like i am 7. But sometimes, I doubt whether I'm a type 1. Because when my happiness is gone, I will make-up my mind thinking "That's my fate or It's all my fault" or something like that. But I'm mostly afraid of being a bad person. If I felt I did hurt someone or did a wrong thing, I immediately want to make it right and prove that I'm a good person. I'm an introvert and i'm not a funny, bubbly person like most 7s. Also I think my MBTI type is INFJ. Other than these, all of the things which you described as a 7 are matching with me.
It sounds like you've been doing a lot of self-reflection, which is great for personal growth.
@@twlahue can you give me some guidance to figure out whether I'm 7 or 1?
🤯 For a year, I've thought of myself as a 5, but you maybe convinced me that I am a 7 🤯
I'm having an exam in a week, but I'm seeing some hours of enneagram research coming up the next days 😅
7's integrate into 5 and the intellectual depth of study and wisdom help keep us grounded focused and on track!
Nervously laughing the whole video? I think I found my type
This was so helpful I’m definitely a 7
I thought I was a 7 just like my boyfriend.
Boy, was I wrong. To all you sevens: You are way too chilled hahaha. It's like a jack in the box and you dont know if or when they will throw you a cake in the face because they love you so much.
Thanks a lot, I just found I'm definitely 7 hahaha. I guess I will learn some ways to allow negative emotions and just flow me by.
You are describing ADHD. I am an 8 (perhaps w7) with ADHD, so I identify strongly with your description of the 7, but I think it’s my ADHD more than my 7 wing :).
Being a social 4 and still resonating with some of this is cool
Hi Dr. Tom Lahue, very FUN video lol - I am an 8 so relate to 7 as a wing- certainly to the part about not wanting to be controlled! However, I do have a question related to being a friend to a 7- if I see a frustrated seven is it okay to ask if she is okay? Or how can I help a seven to tap into the part of them that wants to feel cared for?
Oh gosh... I dropped out of engineering at one university two years in, did a year at another for science, and I still don’t know what I want because I want to try everything... this is very dangerous, I don’t know what to do or focus on and I’m falling way behind in life and not becoming self-sufficient. I think I’m a 7, but a depressed one. I can’t help but sit in those feelings, maybe that means I’m not a 7, because I don’t have that optimism and I see the negative in everything (unless it’s something that happened to other people). I don’t know :/
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Love your videos! They really hit home for my family and I and have been life changing. I have a question about the 7's though. Many articles describe 7's as being very extraverted. Can one be an introverted 7, or at least an ambivert 7?
Yes, 7's tend to be extroverted introverts. Absolutely.
@@Sherbetlemons totally agree!
@@twlahue yes! That’s exactly how I feel. And I’m an ENFP so that makes sense too. 😁
If you use Se or Ne, maybe an ambivert 7. I'm a 7w6, 4w3, 8w7 and acted ambivert as a college girl. Once, I tested SP, Sensing Perceiving, so I'd be an Se, as I seem to use Fi and Se in my fanfics.
@@erical6338 tests aren't reliable for mbti
"A jack of all trades is a master of none, but is much better than a master of one." You forgot the rest of the quote! Perhaps it takes a 7 to know this quote. 😂 (You are a 7, but maybe I am, too!)
Finished the video, and all was true!
How does Enneagram work or compare to Briggs personality? I am 7 and INTJ - seems to be in conflict, no?
Dr. Tim, I would like to take one of your classes but would like to ask where should I start.
If you are brand new to the Enneagram: "Understanding The Enneagram." If you want to use the Enneagram to help yourself and others: "Enneagram Coaching Certificate." If you want to go all the way, "Mastering the Enneagram."
Lol, doesn’t everyone want to be happy!?😂
Right???
I totally identify myself as a Type 7 but I am also introverted. Is it possible to be an introverted type 7?
If you're an IN_P or IS_P, as Ne or Se seems to be needed to be 7.
tell my doctor to stop saying me im bipolar how am I "manic" always make no sense
What's a 7 that has always focused on their feelings and don't ALWAYS jump from one adventure to another (wing 6? Social? Sexual?)
I *AM* like this with concepts and ideas, however.
My thought is negative first and then I reframe (which I taught myself/ mother did), but I definitely think of the negatives. I don't know if this is because I was on punishment a lot as a kid, so parents wouldn't let me explore until much older (my parents were enneagram 1 and 2, ISTJ and ENFJ). I am generally a positive person but have always sat with my feelings, and taught myself from young age to self soothe my sad emotions but they are ALWAYS at the surface, not really suppressed. I have to *consciously* suppress them. My only sibling is also a 7 (ESFP) but more aligned with the description, but also has feelings on surface because of how we were raised (imo).
(I feel like I gave too much info and also not enough info lol)
Also, most times I take a test I get 5, which I know I am not lol. But I do research a lot (but so does a 6), and don't jump from huge project to another huge one (I don't have THAT MUCH energy lol). However, with little projects, I am like this, but try to do things that are still productive like if I get bored while working (from home), I'll stop and wash some clothes/ dishes to break up monotony.
type 7 sounds a lot like me with ADHD
Okay thank you now I know Im not a seven lmao
Is Thor (the Marvel Character) a 7?
yes! also, tony stark and scott lang
Most of it is just ADHD lol
Right