Solo Female Surviving Hard Times By Finding Safety Living In a Minivan “Van Tour”
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- Опубліковано 1 гру 2020
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Living full-time in my rolling tiny home has been the best decision of my life. Off-Grid living offers a peace and connection to life that you just can't explain. When i first started van life i build a stealth camper van with the mindset the you had to live a stealth van life and i soon discovered that you can just live the city van life and boondock in the countryside and as long as you are respectful of the backcountry and cities you live in. Stealth van life in not necessary. Be proud of the life you choose to live, Share this van life journey with everyone. Remember Tiny Homes and The whole tiny house lifestyle is very popular and #vanlife is no different. When you don't hide it people will come say hi and ask you questions. The world is more curious than hateful. Well......Welcome to my everyday van life adventures. My name is Chrome Valdez and i travel full-time with Cruz the bulldog. Stay weird everyone and thank you for being here.
By putting herself out there she has no idea how many women she's helped in writing their own future. Just beautiful.
Well said.
@@chaosdemonwolf1 exactly...
Amen!
Innovative, intelligent problem solver. Thank you
💜
At first I felt sad, but quickly realized this is actually full of positive energy. She was able to leave a toxic situation AND did it her way. She's courageous, smart, and inspiring.
I appreciate your comment. We have to walk in each other's shoes. This may not be something you personally may want to do, but at least it took her out of a potentially dangerous situation and she's able to move at will and do what she needs to do. Kudos to her!
I couldn’t have said it better. She has accomplished amazing things.
Took the words out of my mouth Carlos, I felt the exact same way. Very powerful.
Same💛🙏
Yes!
I'd love to see an update on this lovely lady. She's definitely a trooper.
Sameeeee
Same here
I hope she is having a wonderful life. We need an update.
She´s got an instagram its written in the description box :)
She is wonderful and happy and living her best life!...I just met her and she was so nice!
When I left my toxic marriage, I moved from my large home into a studio apartment and it really was like a cocoon of safety. The feeling is indescribable. I just felt so safe. I hope she goes on to live a beautiful life❤️
I am trying to get this going myself. I have a plan and I think one weekend I will load up everything and go. I will get the apartment first and slowly move things over so not to be noticed then I will find the right time to take the big stuff and go.
@@DiPlanet883 I hope that you are doing well, and that your plans fell into place as you planned. It's hard-I'ver been there, but every difficulty will be worth it in the end if you find your peace again.
I left a toxic 32 year marriage and moved to a small place. My safe place. A place to heal, to feel at peace. To love myself and to heal the trauma. I love what this woman has created. Very impressive. Such resiliency!!!💗
It's sad that studio apartments aren't affordable anymore
@@courtneymeyers82when it comes to getting a roof over your head Nothing us affordable anymore
Im a woman starting out alone at 50 in a strange town where I basically know no one. I admire your positive attitude. We may never meet, but you have a friend praying for you in me.
Bless you too Shawna 🌻
Takes a lot of Courage go to a town that you know no one and start all over again congratulations
Amen
And Im praying for You! Blessings💜
I too have been in a similar situation . Leaving with just my small car and 2 dogs. It is hard starting over at 50 in 2012 with no money in the bank. Slow and steady we can do it. I will get my van one day and that's all I need as a minimalist.
You are an inspiration thankyou
Your Not a SURVIVOR Darling , Your THRIVING, Courageous, Smart, Focused.
Tragedy to Triumph, Wonderful to see your happy
👏 💯%
You will be all right.
You inspire.🌹
So TRUE!!! 🎯 This is Audacious ingenuity!! I love that you know to blend in too. So wise!!! You’re amazing Gail! Bravo to you!!! 💛🙌🏼
It's so amazing how real happiness doesn't come from "things". This woman is happy with her small space and her freedom. So awesome! You go Gail!
Agreed.
It's better than being a whipping post.
She does have a "thing" called a van. I bet that van helps her feel happy or at least more comfortable than being without shelter.
And feels SAFE and Independent ❤️
Possions end up owning you and taking over your life. And in the end you always lose them sooner or later
What I love about this video is how honest it is. Her van is realistic and shows us that it is feasible. While other aesthetic van life videos are visually pleasing, they also feel intimidating and nearly unreachable.
Yes, this is the most memorable set up- looks so cozy too.
There’s nothing to stop it from being a work in progress 😊
Gail showed a lot of courage sharing her story and letting people know they can take back their lives.
A very brave wonderful woman indeed
@@valeriehancotte-galan4790 sometimes you have to be your own support system. That’s all you have.
Pamela Morrison. You are so right, sometimes they are not there for you when you need it the most! Or the abuser has Luther ones believing your blowing it up!! Yes if you have a gut feeling go with it!! 👍🙏
@@valeriehancotte-galan4790 ESPECIALLY in a situation where you don't have a support system, like many don't (abusers alienate your close ones very often) because you'll just end up staying while waiting for a support system ...you definitely only need yourself if you're going to get out, and then once you're out (transition house or other) you can start building a support system going forward
@@valeriehancotte-galan4790 it’s been very tough. I was very isolated and still am for the most part as I’m trying to clear out of this house entirely on my own. I only had one person I turn to in the beginning of the end. But I quickly reached out to a lot of old friends that had slipped away… I was actually surprised at how many old friends suspected abuse but they didn’t know what to do. They’re there for me now over text, over phone but they’re still all so far away. I’m hoping that’ll change soon.
Don’t ever apologize for crying. It’s not a sign of weakness. It is a release. I’m so proud of you. 💪
I agree ,tears are cleansing !
I definitely agree... crying calms the heart and your spirit. It’s a way of resetting
I completely agree. Also I believe it’s super important to release your emotions rather than suppress them.
Not if your heart is shattered it makes worse sometimes
@@jeanyoung1224 you are still healing and have a long ways to go but it will come to you also I'm sorry that you are hurt so bad. But it does get better it took me 13 years before I felt better. Sometimes it sooner sometimes it takes longer. It will come.
Brava! I thought this would just be another van tour, but it is the tale of a courageous woman who turned a dangerous living situation into one that's safe, and full of promise. The Caravan build is very nice, but it's Gail's story that's outstanding. I hope that everything has gone well for her.
i come back from time to time to watch you. there is something about your energy that i find so inspiring. you move me in lots of ways i can’t put into words. i hope you’re doing well, Gail. 💕
You can tell the trail of sadness in her eyes and voice. Trauma can freeze you or move you, she chose to take action. So very proud of you Gail. You are an inspiration 💫💥💕
Can define hear the sadness
Definitely had a sad life. She still has the effects from it.
I applaud your action to preserve your sanity and your life. I completely get your situation. My prayers are with you. May you find peace in your daily life and joy in your soul once more!
You are all correct. She "gardens" her sadness. Hopefully she will grow into a whole person on this journey.
Ones happiness is not given to them by others.
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Praying for you to continue to heal. You have done an amazing job with your van. So very creative. Stay safe!
Important point she mentioned: blending in. Don’t attract attention to yourself.
So sad that women feel that they have to be inconspicuous
I found every couple hours keep moving❤️
@Susan Kerr true, dollar tree has facial wipes and they work great for a clean fresh look👍
Fake story in this video. She didn't even tint the windows, you can see right in.
@@lctlonlonscommunityandthea7361 you missed the part where she showed the blackout screens she has stored in the back for when she needs them.
So inspirational. She just helped so many women who feel trapped like there is no way out. Bravo for making a plan and executing it!
When she opened that van door, I saw the beautiful colours and I said to myself...It's gonna be okay..My heart hurts for her though...Stay strong
The whole UA-cam world is cheering for you!
YES!!!!
YES!!!!!!
We certainly are!
Way to go girl! You are a true inspiration for all women out there.
Exactly ❤️
I left a 19-year marriage and moved into a small house. A counselor told me my new place was a place of healing. This is your place to heal and start anew.
great. When did you make the move and how is it going ?
who's generating the money to pay the rent for that "small house"?
@@jimmy-vn6ip She's got a job?
Yes having a honest job it’s just the best
What a brave and inspiring woman! Sharing her struggles to make others stronger… And a nice little build out on a budget
So proud of her for making a new life. I hope she is doing ok now and finds safety and peace (I’m watching this 2 years later)
A house full of sorrow and darkness vs. A minivan with endless possibilities & inner peace. That’s a no brainer 💛
You are so spot on cindy.👍
She is blessed to be a strong soul with an awesome safe living space that is so practical too.
I agree !!! I have been there too !
Agreed.
Absolutely perfectly said.
"You don't have to be stuck in a bad spot. Plan ahead. " Such powerful words, for ALL areas of life.
I come back from time to time to watch this again…I’m pretty sure it’s more than 50 times I’ve watched this video. And now I am free & safe, this video helped ALOT and I am forever grateful to you CHROME for giving a damn enough to ask someone you may not have ever met for an interview & for giving a damn about someone like me living this lifestyle in my minivan who might need to see another woman in her minivan on a journey to ultimate reality. THANK YOU CHROME & GAIL💐
Your story moved me so much Gail. I can relate to your feelings though I'm not exactly in the same situation. Love the safe, little cocoon you created for yourself, one of the coziest and smartly-designed builds I've seen. You are an inspiration! May you be enveloped in love, beauty, and safety as you move on in your sweet, little pod. Adventure awaits for sure!!! 🌅🌎
To anyone considering the option of car sleeping. Keep in mind join a gym. $20 a month you can take a shower every day. Just one less thing you have to think about...Goodluck and take care.
Thanks, thats my question
@@evangelinegonzales9009 That's how I did it when I was working out of state. That's how I ended up at Graceland main gate.
Even these days there are times and locations available, so still worth it.
Brilliant!
Keep watching Chrome and other Vanlifers for more tips.
She mentions the word safe so many times. I am so glad she got herself out ❤
@@DB-gf5gu bro, your trolling is weak.
@@DB-gf5gu Misogynistic much?
@@DB-gf5gu what do you have against being safe?
@@DB-gf5gu some cannot remove their self from an unsafe situation. like children, handicapp, elderly ect. human trafficking victims fear their life if they leave.
@@DB-gf5gu im not talking about her obviously.
This was the very first solo female van tour I'd ever seen when it originally posted and now coming back to it a couple years later, it's still as inspiring as ever. Kudos to you and great job!!!
It's wonderful. It lets us know that it takes little to setup a simple van.
This brought tears to my eyes. She was in a bad situation and she made it better for herself. I commend her on that. Her van looks cozy and comfortable . Shes a survivor.
Well, hopefully...February is going to be pretty cold in Sask.
Where do you take showers? And where do you park you van at night?
@@marie-joseepaulzak1936 those are great questions!
And she seems pleasantly humble, practical and down to earth. 🇨🇦
Having worked as a Deputy, specifically Domestic Viloence Safety planning coordinator, Gail makes numerous critical points. What an inspirational story and van build. Best wishes for a bright future!
JV Jackson like which points in particular plz explain more if you will
1. Tucked some money away
2. Planned ahead her exit strategy
3. Developed a 'safe place' 4. Follows her gut instincts
5. Air horn
6. Steel bat easily accessible
7. Dog spray
8. Stealth mode
@@KayRay1966 - That or she could be anywhere with snow??
@@KayRay1966 stop
@@KayRay1966 ......
I missed where she said that she was in an abusive relationship, or that the relationship was with a man. She stated that she was in a relationship "that became very toxic". I've known many women over the years that have been in "toxic" relationships because their spouses were opposed to "ladies night out" or their spend happy ways supported by her maxed out credit cards that she paid for with "her money". It seems that toxic is a go to for any woman that isn't "Instagram happy" these days, so they quickly start swiping right, and are then shocked to discover that there are consequences to this action.
She is so inspiring ❤️ I want to just give her a hug 🫂 i cried actually when she cried 😭
Gail I truly hope you are still happy and safe after the ending of your traumatic situation. You made the very wise decision to escape toxicity and seek a new and safer life. Your bravery in stepping into the unknown is incredibly inspirational. Your little home is amazing..so cleverly designed and also very homey. I pray you are doing well. 🌈
There’s no shame in living in a van. What’s important is that you’re safe and are okay inside. ❤️🥰
I wish I could hug her. So very glad she made it out and that she's safe. I really like what she's done to her van.
Awww...I could go for a few hugs right about now. 💕 thank you.
@@gailgillette7337 I love you Gail and I so appreciate your wisdom and just hoped to have seen this back 10 yrs ago to live like you, prayers and peace be with you 🙏 🥰💜
@@gailgillette7337 do you have a channel on UA-cam,?
💖🤗🤗
Thank you for your story. This helped me be okay with walking away with nothing in a toxic relationship. I didn't know how to be okay with starting over alone. Thank you for showing me I can make it even from a car.
Definition of “doing you” way to go! That’s very creative and gives a positive outlook. I’m doing somewhat similar as a young woman in my ‘17 Carolla. 🙏🏾
This hit home for me as I ran away, too. I blended in living in my car and then a van, in NYC, ages 47 through 51. The PTSD, from living life, is real. Whatever we have to do to create safe space and stay safe is what we're supposed to do. It's okay to cry. I'm with you in the thrive. We've got this.
What wonderful encouraging words. I hope 2021 and beyond bring you happiness.
@@amandab8433 🙂🙏🏾 Same to you!
@Heavy Music Group awww thank you. It runs in the family. Casting agents typically book me to play parts that are 20 years my junior. Hilarious 😆 !
@Heavy Music Group oops. I forgot to say I'm a vegan. So that helps me look younger, too.
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I cried with you. I’m currently building a tiny shed on my uncles property as my escape. You are an inspiration.
As are you, Pat. Stay strong and put yourself back at the center of the altar of your life. You are loved and you are valuable.
I am so sorry to hear about how your life took a turn but you seem to be very strong and quite capable. I wish you the best!
I will pray for you also. My mom got out decades ago..i know the fear but persevere and protect yourself.
I watched many of these small living spaces and even self sustaining where growing your own food too. Smart to live simple. Much love to you and blessings for a happier you!!!
Lol
Such a great message. Her sharing her story I'm sure has helped others who are in a bad spot. It may seem impossible, but you can escape a bad situation. When she opened the door I was so surprised at the beauty of the interior! Such ingenuity. Wishing you more healing and happiness!
What an absolute inspiration you are Gail. May you continue to find peace and happiness for the rest of your days.
That has GOT to be THE BEST, most organized van build EVER. This lady is more than amazing in so many ways. WOW!!!!!
Thank you ❤️
@@gailgillette7337 I have to agree, your van build is amazing, so organized and that fireplace...I feel you girl, they are my zen zones! I have one going in my bedroom 24/7 (it is also my office now we are in forced telecommute mode). Value Village and Goodwill has pretty much furnished my home since I started raising my son on my own 20 years ago, I got out of a bad relationship as well. lol, I have a hard time buying anything new because of the years of 2nd handing it. I will always be grateful for those resources! Thank you for sharing your story with us, I wish you the best, may you have many wonderful adventures while you heal in peace! xxxx
I sold my van last summer and found over 200$ in it in coin.
This girl is cool.
@@gailgillette7337 Bless you, Gail. X
@@gailgillette7337 be blessed and I subscribe to your channel
This was a very very very important video. She might have saved a lot of lives with this video.
Her van built was amazing. Thank you for sharing
So true..
Amen. I chose this life but I wish more would see that it IS doable, even temporarily. Thankfully, when I got out of an abusive situation I had a great support system.
I totally agree.
I love your determination, resilience, and outlook! You are an inspiration and should be so proud of yourself. A lot of women need to remember that we are strong and that we make our own happiness and peace. Stay safe and joyful in wherever you go and whatever you do. Thanks for your story. Much love and respect!!
So glad this came my way. Total respect for this woman!! Sad story, sad eyes but so much power and inspiration!! Thank you for sharing your story. I really wish you all the best. Big hug!!
Don’t ever apologize for crying it’s a part of the healing process! You’re a brave amazing lady!
You're right. She has nothing to apologies for. But Sometime we want to or need to say sorry too, for various reasons. take care today
I love your channel name Leslie
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Everything about her and the van screams Smart.
Exactly!
She is a survivor
@@DB-gf5gu The point of this video is to talk about her and her life living in a van. She talks about what led for her to get to where she is- that’s not her playing victim but her stating facts. Why twist it into something it’s not? Lose the negative energy.
@@frida6049 trolls who comment with no name talk about themselves in their comments. He didn't lie, based on how pitiful he sounds. Poor thing. Imagine that voice, only living with it 24/7. Srsly, a self-critic who mocks domestic abuse survivors. Ouch. Not a happy person, as you noticed.
@@DB-gf5gu how do you know she was not abused? Most domestic abuse is men against women.
Please give us an update on Gail’s adventures in her new life Thanks for sharing you are an inspiration ❤
You handled that so well and kept it about her life and things she’s dealing with. Also glad to see she’s got a safe space while she recovers.
I can understand her very well. After being emotionally and physically abused by my former wife for decades, I escaped to live in my car for a year and a half. My car was my refuge and a place to be happy.
What address you use for mail? Po box.
So glad you got out
Congratulations on taking the first step towards a happier life
Glad you got out. Life's short.
I'm so sorry. I walked away from a hell relationship.
Probably the most important van life video ever. Gail is impressive and sincere and I wish her continued safety and peace.
This is really neatly arranged. I admire her will power to adventure out on her own. Wish her the best going forward with her life style.
I'm so happy you got out Gail! I too got out almost 20 yrs ago now and have such a heart full of gratitude for the new free life I have had all these years. Thank you for sharing your story and showing others that they do not have to stay! And thank you Chrome for sharing!
This lady is a genius,she has thought of everything,such a awesome build, something to be proud of to live in and be safe.
I know, right? I kept thinking she would be a wonderful van build consultant. She could have a nice lucrative business, network and help people all at the same time.
Yeah, "thought of everything"...squirreled away thousands of dollars in a relationship for her personal needs, turned to a male friend to build out the van...and thinks that she will be able to survive Saskatchewan's January and February winter weather huddled in a van. It ain't going to be Pinterest easy.
@@danarzechula3769 I agree, I thought so also. I love the little ambient fireplace lantern! You don't have to spend $150 thousand for a living space van!
@@1966johnnywayne sounds negative and resentful towards a woman who needed to be safe!
A nice practical setup. I only wish this lady the best.
100% I couldn't agree more this young woman deserves safety and happiness ♡
Gayle you are a survivor! I have seen many builds & you are very clever . You know your needs.
And you used one of the materials that I want to use in my build Coloplast from UK. I wish the best for you. Keep it moving & happy trail to you.
Thank you💕
@@valeriehancotte-galan4790 yes, I have been involved. I am working with a couple of different counsellors. Unfortunately Covid has put an extra spin on things as far as people feel isolated in situations like this.
@@pennylowe5633 Coroplast-I love that stuff! Light weight, Sturdy and easy to work with!
I love this video so much, I can relate on so many levels, and it's truly encouraging I love her little home
I know this video is from two years ago, but I do wish her the very best and I hope she has overcome her hardships. She's such a lady!
I noticed people who chose to live in cars and vans by choice seem happy, and they are usually creative and well organized that lady is going to be okay she is a survivor.
yes she is ...and much more than that too....appreciate your acknowledgement of those things.
Yea I been noticing that also maybe they know something we don’t 🤔They do say freedom is priceless.I really really been thinking in taking this step my self. if the things I have lined up right now don’t go my way.
@@Gio-un4wh Haha, oke...
It breaks my heart every time she mentions everything she has to do for safety against her abuser 💔 She's an admirable woman. I hope she gets all the peace and safety she deserves. ❤️
she will. she's well on her way and let's all be kind to one another. it has never been difficult for me but the cruelty in this world is just😥
Women in general have to be aware of their safety. I'm glad to see how pro-active she is.
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It broke my heart to hear that slight fear in her voice even talking during the day with a camera person with her.
These are strange times we live in. No one is immune to a potential downturn. Knowing this information gives solutions and hope. Thank you for sharing. Stay safe.
My heart goes out to this strong, determined, lovely down to-earth woman. You are an inspiration. I hope you continue to find peace and happiness. ❤
Yep, this woman is brave. I was moved too tears with this story. Hope she stays safe and warm and gets the future she deserves.
I left a 30 year toxic marriage as well and am saving for a van. This lady is my hero. Thank you for telling your story, Gail. You’ve given me hope that my dream can happen.
Same here. Still working on it tho. Since 1985... haven’t been able to escape it mentally.
@@flfisher Meditation helps. 30 mins a day is all you need.
@@lillysweetle 40 years for me & what I’ve discovered since is shockingly criminal.
@@cynthiar7350 ladies the most important thing is to get our physical and heal yourself. Stay safe.
@@lillysweetle Thank you, I’m trying.
I’m so proud of you girl. Independence and safety. Loving it. Love ur cozy pad. Best wishes dear
I hope you continue to feel safe and heal.
You can be an inspiration for others, and you've done a wonderful job with your rolling ,traveling home.
Using / Storing your sleeping bags as pillow shams is especially clever. 🙂
When anybody is able to get away a toxic relationship and find their safe haven...it becomes our mansion regardless of size! I am impressed with her ingenuity and perseverance. Stay safe!
Man, that was pretty heavy, sad, and inspiring. So much pain, yet so much courage. I hope she finds a better life. It sucks seeing nice people who have been victimized. ✌️
Thank you for saying that - she really sounds “broken” and sad. Gosh I hope she will be ok 🙏🏻🙏🏻. I hope Chrome you can do a follow up to tell us how she is going ❤️
@@carolynthompson6518 she has a UA-cam channel that’s he just started
Frank ... You know one side of the story, perhaps she was "swiping right" and her spouse, male or female, wasn't going to put up with it...why is that whenever a woman turns on the waterworks most people take everything she says as gospel???
@@1966johnnywayne There were no waterworks here. She matter-of-factly stated her situation, and went on to show her van build, and how she maintains safety and peace of mind. Sheesh!
I've watched this twice and got a tear both times. I admire your courage, resourcefulness, and resilience. Keep going. I am praying for your well being and your future endeavors
What an amazing woman and an amazing story. I wish we could get an update as to how you are doing. Either way sending you hugs and prayers that you find the happiness and security that you so deserve 🙏♥️
This isn't an instagram post-- it is a powerful message to a lot of women out there, and she looks like she is doing really well because of it.
I've never wanted to reach out and hug a stranger before, and take her pain away, as much as I did when I watched this.
Same here. I would love to meet this lady and be a lady friend to her and be part of her healing.
Agree 100%
@@hemroidhenry7756 me too
Me to such a lovely woman. xoxo
Such positive energy, love this, love this, leaning so much... And from a lovely lady ..... 💚
I’m so proud of this woman. What an ordeal she must have gone through and what planning skills she must have to get all of this done under the radar.
This is such a cute and well-organized van. I hope you have a safe and peaceful life. I really enjoyed the video!
Proud of this brave lady that even if it took 30 years, she found the strength to create her own safe space. Bless you Gail and best wishes.
@@NonPremiumID I hope he doesn't. I don't want him to know what she is driving.
@@lisa9867 ...Who said it was a "him"?
Florida ... She didn't say that the relationship was "toxic" for thirty years, but that it "became very toxic". You, know, like every women that isn't satisfied anymore...TOXIC.
Much respect.🙏🙏🙏 and any man who is abusive, is not a man.
@Joseph Mayes / Thank You & Merry Christmas !!!
Joseph...I missed where she said that she was in an abusive relationship, or that the relationship was with a man. She stated that she was in a relationship "that became very toxic". I've known many women over the years that have been in "toxic" relationships because their spouses were opposed to "ladies night out" or their spend happy ways supported by her maxed out credit cards that she paid for with "her money". It seems that toxic is a go to for any woman that isn't "Instagram happy" these days, so they quickly start swiping right, and are then shocked to discover that there are consequences to this action.
@@1966johnnywayne The word "safe" should have clued you in immediately.
@@daphnelattimer9952 Right, because women typically resort to 'soft' language when describing their victim victimhood.
@Zzzz Zzzz No, that's called 'battering'. No man or woman should lay hands on another, but if they do you have a right to use necessary physical force to defend yourself if the threat continues to be present...however if you engage in the use of physical force in retaliation for someone having assaulted you, without the threat continuing to be present, then you are now committing assault and battery.
Amazing woman! I wish her the best (including camping in the winter).
I am so moved by you. Your determination to survive to do it your own way is palpable. I am the same and a month away from doing the same thing. I will be in the U.S. so I probably won't run into you but hope our paths will cross. Your van is superb. Homey, lovely, and clearly you. You are an inspiration to me. I wish you peace.
I'm so proud of you ma'am!!!! My mother left my dad with no shoes on her feet, and I'm so proud to say that's my mom. Women like you inspire me ❤
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help your mom,she need normal life.
That’s so sad! I could not imagine what she went through!
Oh sister! A safe home, a fresh start, healing, independence, courage, self-love, adventure. The world is yours. ❤️💫💃🏻🙏🏼🌏
Thank you for sharing your story. I love what you said; you can indeed make your own safety and peace! So glad you're out and you're free. All the best!
I know that feeling of peace and freedom, and there’s nothing like it. I’m happy this lovely lady found it and hope others can, too. It’s great that there is this van life movement and all these videos showing people how to do it and the supplies are more readily available. I think this video will help many people. ❤
Chrome, I love how you let Gail tell her story without interrupting her with a lot of questions. The filming and editing were great too. Very nice job 👍. So happy she was able to get out of the bad situation and still have hope for her future. The van build was so cute too. 😀
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I was thinking that too. The only time we hear Chrome is the very end with “It’s Perfect!”
Outstanding work , Chrome. I agree!
Yes he did an amazing job of capturing it. He is very talented. I’m glad you like my design.
@@mimipacheco722 💕
I'm only 3 minutes in and I am so impressed by this woman. And on top of her genuine kindness, she was so gracious to let us view her safe space. ❤
SHES MY HERO... SHES HELPING THOUSANDS OF WOMEN.
Could not agree more
I love your safe place! It's beautiful and I'm so proud of you for choosing you!!!
What a brilliant little setup, and she empowered herself and shows others in that situation how they can also empower themselves to get out. Well done to Gail 🌈
As a survivor, I can't help but empathize with her. "Whether your 52 or 17, you can create a safe space." YES! Thank you for taking a stand for yourself and for sharing your story with others. You can be the catalyst for another person to get out of a bad relationship. 😍😘🥰❤
That’s that was my main goal of the interview I wanted to get that across. Don’t give up hope-you can create your safe place.
I walked out with a suitcase after 38 years. Thriving!.
Wow. I am so happy to see so many women taking control of their lives.
@@3rdyoutubechannelstopdelet914 Her story is not new. What is new is that women can now get themselves out of those situations and take control of their own lives.
Wishing you much love and happiness ❤️🙏🇬🇧
@@gail-sw9xg the problem is that I don't think it is really safe regardless of what people say
@@sierrachoco5271 Sometimes safe is a relative thing. Is it safer to stay in an abusive relationship where you KNOW you are going to be beaten or killed?
I’m so so so so so so so so glad she was able to get herself out of that abusive relationship and I love that she can now take her time to create the life she wants and deserves. I didn’t check how old this video is before writing this comment, but I hope you’ve been okay since this video was made and I hope you’re still happy and loving life. I’m also looking into vanlife from my own car and I can’t wait to experience it! Best of luck and may you continue to choose YOU 💕💕
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Courageous move. Your van home is lovely, well thought out and comfy. Truly inspiring. Thank you for sharing your story. Keep pushing. Safe travels.
Three stages: Victim, Survivor, Thriver. Gail you've made it to THRIVER! Bless you on your journey. You are in my prayers! I hope to meet up with you down the road.
I was in an abusive relationship, beaten everyday, raped, locked up and starved, i went from 150 lbs to 80 lbs, i escaped with my baby. Keep your head up. Things will get better 💪
You pick winners! Sounds like every other millennial girl who wants the bad guy & realizes they fucker up
@@The_Ladder_Perspective we were in college when we met, i have a career, he had a career and an athlete actually he was vip in football and baseball everything changed when i moved with him and I'm 45 years old. Stop assuming.
@@The_Ladder_Perspective Some people seem to have no idea how some people act before getting in a relationships. Most people aren’t going out looking for a monster. Some are but most are not. Nine times out of ten when you go on a date you never showing 100% who you truly are. You’re molding yourself to be person you’re going on a date with has interest in. That’s what abusive people do they present themselves as nice, respectful, sweet, etc. Then when they finally have you they turn into a monster. When they realize you’re not leaving them they become comfortable and become manipulative so that you won’t have the courage to leave them.
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Kdhjy5...plus ur a beautiful person on the outside (and inside) there r a lot of weird preconceived notions about someone who has outer beauty. Like idk like what...lol
Idky.. it's weird. But u know...we r the same age just by a yr or 2 or 3 :)
Power to you Gail, thanks for telling your story and showing us around your build. Wishing you all the best ❤ Thanks Chrome.
Such an intelligent classy and courageous woman! I applaud you Gail! Would love to know how you are doing at the moment. 🌷❤️🌷
She thought of everything and her attention to detail is incredible.
Miss Tish Creates exactly!!
I think her home is awesome. Everything is where it should be. You deserve happiness, joy and love. I thank you for sharing your story and your home because I'm going to be converting a van soon and I can't wait. I've been watching utube for almost 6 months and learning so all you wonderful people thank you for sharing and teaching me about van life. I wish all of you happiness, joy and love. Be safe always. Hopefully I'll meet you in the future. You're totally Awesome and my kind of folks. Watch out for the idiots.
@AOC's RAPIST That's smart. I think this little van is very nice and I love her organization.
Thank you for sharing your story Gail love you're van it is nice and cozy I am glad you are safe.
This is definitely one of the most moving and emotional episodes I have watched. Bless this beautiful soul... i hope she finds the future she wants.
Agreed.
I am so happy for you!!!
I'm so moved and grateful for her sharing, she gave some of us added hope
So much love and respect for this woman!! She is incredible!
I resonate with her story on every level...as someone who stayed way past the time I should have and is FREE from that life as well I just want to say how proud i felt watching her story...she is finally happy and safe and able to live her life on her terms!!!
Gail is a strong and brave woman. I wish her every success. - Chrome, you've outdone yourself again. Thank you.
Gail I'm sorry I missed your name. 💛
You got that right. An awesome lady.
@@valeriehancotte-galan4790 I was just talking about that with a someone. There’s some women who can’t get into a transition house or the circumstances are different (more psychological torture and emotional torture rather than physical). I wish I/we could create some type of thing where we can help women put something together to that is safer than their homes so they can get out.
@@ml4918 thank you 🙏🏼
@@bookathevanman9948 not a problem...
Can't lie... I teared up a bit when she opened the door. She's really trying to make this simple van as much home as possible.
It is her home awesome!
I agree with you, I really like what she has done with limited space, brave lady.
Where do people living on these van's shower
@@unzipitjoe8928 Some get a gym membership. Others use a portable pump and bucket. They make it work. 😊
@@unzipitjoe8928 Truck stops. Most have nice clean showers.
I love that you're sharing with others who may be in this type of situation or similar. 💞💖
I am so happy for you. We all deserve to feel safe in our own homes. I know exactly how you feel. It is so sad. I am safe now too and it feels amazing 🤩