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  • @krystalx214
    @krystalx214 15 днів тому +6

    pls la, sue-ann is not ugly and she is highly capable with a masters in english language and linguistics. ive read her works when she was still a print journalist in sph media, i was v impressed, so i dont think it is fair to say wj is more intelligent than her or she has sky high expectations lol. everyone has expectations pls. tbh, wj seems like a pretty decent and accomplished guy with his own AI generative project and all, but they really dont have any romantic sparks at all fr. usu first date can check vibes immediately and have an idea if you vibe well with the person. wj seemed very nervous throughout the whole date and was sorta reserved. whereas, sue-ann seems pretty outspoken, lively and confident; it's evident in how she tried to lead the convo with wj. i aint a professional dating practitioner, but based on my observation, both of them are incompatible in terms of forming a romantic connection. oh wells, at least now we know it's just not worth to spend $2k on one matchmaking session all thanks to wj and sue-ann bruhhhh👍🏻👍🏻

  • @Eugene-cd9qn
    @Eugene-cd9qn 8 місяців тому +52

    They should interview the guy after the date as well. Maybe he also think they can at best be friends. Sometimes we need to take a good look at at ourselves before setting so many criteria

    • @SantoryuX3
      @SantoryuX3 8 місяців тому +8

      would be nice to have both perspective

    • @sugarly69
      @sugarly69 8 місяців тому

      I see what you did there. Spoken like a champ. These days feminism has invaded conventional media as well. Everything is from the girls POV.

  • @aclp003
    @aclp003 8 місяців тому +16

    It's great to have a list and hold on to the list! Being single is better than to be w someone who doesn't fit the criteria. Keep it up, Sue Ann! Just take the time to know more ppl. Hope you find the right guy :) enjoy your precious singlehood in the meantime!!

  • @rching7700
    @rching7700 8 місяців тому +9

    Knowing self worth actually helps a lot in dating life

  • @ennmin
    @ennmin 8 місяців тому +17

    She’s so nervous whenever she waits for WJ to respond, she’s already thinking of the next question 😂

  • @robingoh2325
    @robingoh2325 8 місяців тому +15

    Sometimes, it's necessary to reflect upon oneself in the mirror.

  • @toni-kaku
    @toni-kaku 8 місяців тому +19

    I think having a long list of criteria can hold you back from meeting the right person.

  • @nicholasgoh3526
    @nicholasgoh3526 8 місяців тому +18

    Honestly I think she will have a much better chance in an Ang Mo country. Ang Mo like this kind of looks and ‘character’. Ang Mo also generally taller.

    • @muppetzz
      @muppetzz 8 місяців тому +1

      I feel so too. Her vibes are more suited for Caucasian

    • @winwinwin282828
      @winwinwin282828 8 місяців тому

      Ang mo got weird taste when it comes to the looks of Asian women lol

    • @DionLYA
      @DionLYA 8 місяців тому +1

      When I went to watch all the Western videos, a lot of them are thinking of finding a wife in Asian countries because their country women have too high standards. They call themselves the passport bros.

  • @Shinichiakiyamaaa
    @Shinichiakiyamaaa 8 місяців тому +26

    The expectations....

  • @22Harponyo
    @22Harponyo 8 місяців тому +19

    U choose people, people also choose u.

  • @tehosiudai8488
    @tehosiudai8488 8 місяців тому +21

    But i find it a lil ironic, she wants the guy to be open-minded but when she found out a few traits of the guy she already turned off by it.

  • @Staar624
    @Staar624 8 місяців тому +26

    Why so Singaporean women like tall guys so much? Like I’m 160 and my husband is 174 he still taller than me when I wear heels that’s good enough. Why must be like 180 187 then satisfied ?

    • @jamesmadison3108
      @jamesmadison3108 8 місяців тому +3

      No point finding tall men but no substance and money hehe..

    • @octovanfoo968
      @octovanfoo968 8 місяців тому +2

      I have no idea either. I am 177-178 a girl once called me short when she is not even 150 herself.

    • @jamesmadison3108
      @jamesmadison3108 8 місяців тому +2

      @octovanfoo968 I am only a 165 male. Happily married with 2 kids. Wife is about 158 or 160 can't rem. Height does not matter. Money, stability and looks matters hahaha

    • @sugarly69
      @sugarly69 8 місяців тому

      @@jamesmadison3108 Height is the number one filter girls look for in dating apps. Its sexist, but its true and society supports it. As a 180+ man with 30+ bodycount, I can tell you this is the reality. For this reason I am seeking 165 + partners myself, so my kids will have a genetic headstart in life.

    • @jamesmadison3108
      @jamesmadison3108 8 місяців тому +1

      @sugarly69 yup I don't disagree. Dating apps have such filters thus women will out height as a requirement right away. I don't use dating apps and met my then gf in real life. Won her over with my own charisma and that's history. :)

  • @Chinix
    @Chinix 8 місяців тому +5

    Is it me or when he mentioned ai generative, she switched topic? Idk how cut up this is but if I heard ai generative I want to know more like that's so interesting leh (as a guy ah, maybe girls might think differently)

  • @izac79
    @izac79 8 місяців тому +19

    178-180 requirement in an Asian country lol, cringe

    • @DeRizzlo
      @DeRizzlo 6 місяців тому

      while the average male height is 167 in asia LOL.

  • @rebel.taylord
    @rebel.taylord 8 місяців тому +3

    Am I the only one who don't care about height and ambition lol? I'm super nua, after a long day at work the last thing I want is an ambitious guy telling me to hustle more.
    I don't really get the attraction to tall guys either. To me guys with liberal values, a curious mind, a shiny backbone and loves dogs are always way more attractive. WJ mentions Nietzsche, I'm more of a Camus girl myself, hopefully one day I too can find someone who is into philosophy to go on a date with 😆

  • @shurakishi4707
    @shurakishi4707 8 місяців тому +3

    There is nothing wrong with the girl or the guy. But just that they are not for each other.
    Not sure is it how this video was made. The guy comes across as geeky, meek and pretty introverted. While Sue-Ann is pretty assertive.
    I am not a person to judge either of the couple, but I would say Sue -Ann will prefer a person who takes more of the leadership role in the relationship even though I’m not saying she be the submissive one.
    WJ won’t be the one for her.
    There is also nothing wrong with WJ, nothing wrong with being geeky or meek or introverted, but when it comes to dating and relationship, pls learn how to juggle the game and hold the reins. Girls are usually more impressed with guys who take the initiative and show the guy/male side in them.

  • @TPH25
    @TPH25 8 місяців тому +10

    now i know, after watching for 5 mins why she has a difficult time looking for a partner!!!! for sure la, well good luck to the guy anyways!

    • @jamesmadison3108
      @jamesmadison3108 8 місяців тому +1

      I can imagine when she become 40 year old. Will look like aunty, buibui. Like the typical aunty at ntuc shopping for groceries hehehehe

    • @jamesmadison3108
      @jamesmadison3108 4 місяці тому

      @clearsky4003 sorry hor. Limpeh married already

  • @lycan2494
    @lycan2494 8 місяців тому +10

    "eye opening experience" LJ. just say u disappointed la LMAO

  • @markshippo
    @markshippo 8 місяців тому +58

    She has a bossy, talk-down judgmental approach and that may be her issue.

    • @LuBre
      @LuBre 8 місяців тому +1

      But she wants a tall guy, 1.80 possibly. That's one of her "deal breakers".

    • @Shtackhauz
      @Shtackhauz 8 місяців тому +5

      Loving the smol deak energy marks hippo

    • @lycan2494
      @lycan2494 8 місяців тому +1

      @@Shtackhauz ???

    • @godsamazinggrace5331
      @godsamazinggrace5331 7 місяців тому

      That's why she wants tall guy
      So she can look up and talk like a little girl

  • @carnesir
    @carnesir 8 місяців тому +10

    asks for 178-180, gets 173. LOL

  • @anneeli3089
    @anneeli3089 8 місяців тому +5

    Tall guys in sg are in low supply - please leave the tall ones for us tall girls (1.75m here, towering over most of my guy friends)

    • @KaranKumar-di9fw
      @KaranKumar-di9fw 8 місяців тому

      So go for the shorter ones lah. What's the problem? Scared he'll look like a midget next to you ah?

    • @HelloHello-qf3ui
      @HelloHello-qf3ui 8 місяців тому +2

      Yes leave the short girls for us short guys. Short guys really no market here in SG (162M here)

  • @lollipopsadrain
    @lollipopsadrain 8 місяців тому +44

    hear her talk for 5 seconds and i already know why she is single

    • @tomatopotato5897
      @tomatopotato5897 8 місяців тому

      🤣

    • @tomatopotato5897
      @tomatopotato5897 8 місяців тому +1

      I paused the video at 2.47, and then I think it is enough to continue watching...🤣

  • @viviencky
    @viviencky 8 місяців тому

    Hey Sue Ann, WJ seems nice. Don't lose hope! I think try to sit back and wait for him to ask you some questions, rather than sending all the questions his way. There are things like shoes that can make a guy seem taller, sometimes the perfect guy for you is just 10cm shorter. Because the 10cm taller guy wants women with other criteria too. All the very best! Dont give up and keep meeting people.

  • @Callsign-Blade_RunnerSG
    @Callsign-Blade_RunnerSG 8 місяців тому +3

    It’s actually a pretty good match. Moreover, they kinda lookalike. Especially with the Small eyes. 😁

  • @twist777hz
    @twist777hz 8 місяців тому +2

    There's an ample supply of tall, single men in northern China. Unfortunately for her they tend to be quite conservative. But hey everything is a trade off.

  • @evelynlim6230
    @evelynlim6230 8 місяців тому +5

    I tried this company before , years back in KL .More like a scam . Cin cai match you with old uncle and weirdo . My ex-colleague had the same experience as well. Be careful

    • @KaranKumar-di9fw
      @KaranKumar-di9fw 8 місяців тому +2

      Maybe only old uncles and weirdos are 180cm tall😂

    • @evelynlim6230
      @evelynlim6230 8 місяців тому +1

      @@KaranKumar-di9fw 180cm was not I ask for 😅

    • @evelynlim6230
      @evelynlim6230 4 місяці тому

      @@KaranKumar-di9fw😂

  • @stanleyyeep1
    @stanleyyeep1 8 місяців тому +1

    Walan Wey! Like that cost $2000, siao Liao lah, got such people pay for this kind of simple job, kenna con already…. But good earning in this trade for the match making agency. No need license, no governor bounding, no contract agreement! Better than working in real estate. To get a life partner, just open your mouth ask on the street, go attend conferences, camping or mountain hiking tour, biking tour or backpack tour…u will need a lot of buddies. Gila!… pay $2000.

  • @DukeShanks
    @DukeShanks 8 місяців тому +2

    I think you need to learn and understand what is matching principle.

  • @teomichelle8463
    @teomichelle8463 8 місяців тому +8

    They look like twins.

  • @bk8pa323
    @bk8pa323 8 місяців тому +7

    Bruh this WJ is quite a catch.

  • @hotline333
    @hotline333 8 місяців тому +8

    I like sue ann, she speaks her mind and knows what she wants. I see a confident lady, confidence is the sexist thing about a lady! cheers.

    • @KaranKumar-di9fw
      @KaranKumar-di9fw 8 місяців тому +2

      Bro so down bad he mistakes obnoxiousness for confidence 😂💀

    • @lycan2494
      @lycan2494 8 місяців тому

      this@@KaranKumar-di9fw

    • @Shtackhauz
      @Shtackhauz 8 місяців тому +5

      @@KaranKumar-di9fw rejection can b hard so sorry nobody loved u enough my guy

    • @KaranKumar-di9fw
      @KaranKumar-di9fw 8 місяців тому

      @@Shtackhauz better to be single than to be delulu. I hope you find the most toxic girl or guy in existence and they make your life miserable 🤣

    • @KaranKumar-di9fw
      @KaranKumar-di9fw 8 місяців тому

      @@Shtackhauz actually, got one woman who I had feelings for. It's too bad things didn't work out between us. Say hello to your mom for me, yeah? Really miss her...

  • @lanevomax
    @lanevomax 8 місяців тому +2

    i only can say everyone want a good deal and high expectation ..... but has no Self-reflection

  • @kc776
    @kc776 8 місяців тому +7

    In simple term, her standard is angmoh. Of course, matching with chinese surely failed lor. Anyway, must give her a thumbs up for braving herself in this show. Hope she found her loved one soon! Angmoh love someone like Sue-Ann, a typical asian look with angmoh character. Lol

  • @fayea78
    @fayea78 8 місяців тому +10

    Wow. The commenters here are harsh. What's with trashing her looks? She's not as bad as some of you make her out to be. Perhaps Singaporean men just can't handle an outspoken, confident lady.

    • @KaranKumar-di9fw
      @KaranKumar-di9fw 8 місяців тому

      Singaporean men can't handle toxic women with delusional standards. Keep defending your fellow toxic woman. You go girl✊🏼

    • @socktrines
      @socktrines 8 місяців тому +1

      @@KaranKumar-di9fw daddyyy behave stop scaring the nice lady

    • @sugarly69
      @sugarly69 8 місяців тому +1

      haha that's a good trolling

    • @winwinwin282828
      @winwinwin282828 8 місяців тому

      Already said she is better for ang mog lol its not singapore men cannot handle, Singapore men don't like lol

    • @loganmystic1676
      @loganmystic1676 Місяць тому

      She looks at best 5/10. Her demeanor and the way she talks to the guy lowers her to a 3/10. No sound minded guy would go for such girl.

  • @richtan6081
    @richtan6081 8 місяців тому +5

    Ai-yah...don't be shy..Just be brave to go out with any boys..soon u will find the best one..why let match making pair u..No standard lah..

  • @jonlim555
    @jonlim555 8 місяців тому +3

    Swiping left !

  • @HelloHello-qf3ui
    @HelloHello-qf3ui 8 місяців тому +1

    Bruh min height 178-180 and above?..

  • @Skythelimit4u
    @Skythelimit4u 8 місяців тому +4

    There is a saying in chinese...
    “自己撒泡尿,照照自己。”

  • @nehaa2919
    @nehaa2919 5 місяців тому

    It was $2k for 1 date??

  • @devisweeta
    @devisweeta 8 місяців тому

    The amount of people commenting without knowing all these were staged to promote the dating company 😂

    • @nomanisanisland2109
      @nomanisanisland2109 8 місяців тому

      After the interview, company goes …. bust … now who is the scammer? 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @jamesong8512
    @jamesong8512 8 місяців тому +1

    She looked like a person who uses tinder lol

  • @kennytan5055
    @kennytan5055 8 місяців тому +6

    Omg! She expects a Brad Pitt for her standards? Seriously?! There is a reason why she is single while her friends are married.

  • @naramoon2745
    @naramoon2745 8 місяців тому +1

    As long you pay for your own dates; not tax payers money🙄.

  • @DeRizzlo
    @DeRizzlo 6 місяців тому

    lets face it, we all know he got friendzoned the moment she saw him.

  • @Taz_DD
    @Taz_DD 8 місяців тому +1

    Her height criteria is a reason for her being single. Don't know why some Singaporean women have an obsession with having tall partners?

  • @LuBre
    @LuBre 8 місяців тому +3

    She's going to be alone forever, unless she does a complete 180° on her attitude and expectations.

    • @sugarly69
      @sugarly69 8 місяців тому

      She already is...

  • @eugenechill
    @eugenechill 5 місяців тому

    oof 8:28

  • @yenfong2564
    @yenfong2564 2 місяці тому

    damn 2k upfront... and you don't even know if he's the right one...

  • @annieteo7169
    @annieteo7169 8 місяців тому

    Prive got nice food??

  • @markwong1730
    @markwong1730 8 місяців тому +7

    Look into the mirror first

    • @markwong1730
      @markwong1730 4 місяці тому

      @@clearsky4003 I do, everyday.

  • @deschan2246
    @deschan2246 8 місяців тому +5

    Bossy woman will hv problem. For her look, She is asking for too much. The guy they introduced to her do match in look.

  • @mohamadyusoff9091
    @mohamadyusoff9091 3 місяці тому

    My first impression is Sue-Ann looks like a 3/10. Even with the guy being smarter than her, can do programming and have stable career, its not good enough.

  • @hatchegg80
    @hatchegg80 8 місяців тому +3

    probably end up with angmoh, no face, but wants this want that, angmoh

  • @kartikselvaraju6675
    @kartikselvaraju6675 8 місяців тому +1

    It’s a no from me dawg (randy jackson voice)

  • @renj123
    @renj123 8 місяців тому +1

    Well, 'where have all the good men gone' is a common trope but... WJ was a good man. Driven, intellectually curious, takes care of his body. I think women should stop bemoaning the shortage of good men because despite good men actually existing, women seem to treat them like shit.

    • @lycan2494
      @lycan2494 8 місяців тому +3

      "takes care of his body" u sure?

  • @BenGoh-n4q
    @BenGoh-n4q 8 місяців тому

    No comment

  • @user-kc9uz2ml9z
    @user-kc9uz2ml9z 8 місяців тому

    Singapore media like to showcase early 40s aunties dating err.

  • @toy3825
    @toy3825 Місяць тому

    he cmi la

  • @Vebjorn_wotBlitz2507
    @Vebjorn_wotBlitz2507 8 місяців тому

    Nahh

  • @20pointer
    @20pointer 8 місяців тому

    elegant butterfly

  • @nomanisanisland2109
    @nomanisanisland2109 8 місяців тому

    Height? What as about King Kong or Godzilla 🦒🐘🦣😂??

  • @LonganLee
    @LonganLee 8 місяців тому +1

    I am sure its not due to your political affiliation? 🤭🤭🤭🤣🤣🤣🏳️🏳️🏳️
    I only want money. Got money, got my honey.
    Clearly your problem is your expectations.

  • @0xBlockchain
    @0xBlockchain 8 місяців тому +1

    Omg