Professional Dating Coach Rates Our Online Dating Profiles | RATED Ep.5

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  • Опубліковано 11 гру 2024

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  • @TheSmartLocal
    @TheSmartLocal  3 роки тому +34

    Hope you guys enjoyed the video! If you have your own advice, feel free to share in the comments below. As everyone has different opinions on relationships and dating, please keep this comment section a positive learning environment for everyone.

  • @HuLittlemissbrenda
    @HuLittlemissbrenda 3 роки тому +211

    The coach should totally try out the apps! Her advice doesn’t seem to address the main problems of dating apps. The ghosting culture is sooo real man. The way ppl connect these days are just so different. Relationships grow and end at an incredible pace. People are becoming disposable, because new ones are easier to find, and relationships are easier to build. It only takes a swipe, a match and a short chat.

    • @mkpehlaki
      @mkpehlaki 3 роки тому +10

      'Relationships grow and end at at an incredible pace. People are becoming disposable, because new ones are easier to find and relationships are easier to build.'
      Best advices compared to whatever the coach have said. So true especially when you are using all these apps. Which is why success rate for dating apps is low. Go old school, walk up to a lady or wing man your buddy. These relationships are way different because you're working one at a time and not all at once.

    • @head0fmob
      @head0fmob 3 роки тому +2

      It's all about your looks girl or boy, same as going out in real life. Better spend on plastic surgery for real return.

  • @beckham48
    @beckham48 3 роки тому +156

    Jes is comfortable in her own skin and is very confident With herself

    • @joyced4691
      @joyced4691 3 роки тому +1

      @@beckham48 not saying she isn't I'm just trying to joke around don't take it too seriously :)

  • @awkwardsmile
    @awkwardsmile 3 роки тому +36

    I think the lady raised a lot of good points. Very straight to the point and useful. I totally agree with the tip on meeting after texting a bit. The point of dating is to meet in person and connect. Not to connect over texting.. Modern dating has ruined a lot of good things.

  • @getfitwithnicol
    @getfitwithnicol 3 роки тому +75

    Also totally disagree with the dating coach on jes’s pics - I love all of Jess’s photos!!!! Shows her style

  • @meluvcats
    @meluvcats 3 роки тому +159

    I would totally wanna hang out with Sangeeta if I were a straight man. She seems like a ball of fun and I don't care if she seemed like she talks too much. I'd rather meet someone who's spontaneous than an orchestra of crickets.

  • @hamburger_milkshake1585
    @hamburger_milkshake1585 3 роки тому +147

    Actually everyone in the video had very nice photos. Even rainer who only have 2 pictures. You should see the photos of some guys on dating apps… it’s either pics from like 7-8 years ago when they were in army, blurry pix, group photos where you don’t know who to look at, or just bad unflattering photos

    • @Serperi0r
      @Serperi0r 3 роки тому +6

      I think because they are content creators, that's why the photos are better and more on the artsy side

  • @LittleMiss0926
    @LittleMiss0926 3 роки тому +53

    She has some good points but some I don’t agree. If Rainer is not looking for a serious relationship and his character is not serious or sexy than portraying himself that way would be catch fish and attracting the type of girls that are not compatible with him.

  • @spiltmatchaa
    @spiltmatchaa 3 роки тому +49

    rainier WHAT ABOUT RENAE?

  • @kimberlylong640
    @kimberlylong640 3 роки тому +60

    wtf she was so mean to rainier, you could tell he was so sad. the lady should find better word choices instead of saying such mean things man.

  • @eitherway_8r9
    @eitherway_8r9 3 роки тому +13

    disagree from the start when she said girls shouldn't put they're looking for a serious relationship because they'll scare away guys. that's literally the point of putting that???

  • @mkpehlaki
    @mkpehlaki 3 роки тому +48

    Never was a fan of this dating coach in all the videos she was featured in. Don't mean to be rude but I don't think her advices fits us (29 here). Her advices would fit those really traditional formal match making kind of thing. Also pretty sure most people use these apps just for casual fun and interactions (especially with these lockdowns and WFH) so don't put your hopes too high that you'll find the love of your life there.

    • @fearlighte
      @fearlighte 3 роки тому +6

      i'm 23 and i agree that a portion of her advice does not reflect the reality of online dating, although there were also a few valid pointers here and there :^) alsooo a lot of people use these for casual fun but from experience there actually is a lot of potential for serious relationships on dating apps like tinder if you use it correctlyy

    • @jaywai755
      @jaywai755 3 роки тому +4

      Agreed, in the previous video on guessing who the real couple is, she was so bad that she basically smashed her own signboard during the show. Too many self proclaimed experts everywhere these days, from property to investment and now dating, lol.

    • @Xxxxxxxxxxcxccc
      @Xxxxxxxxxxcxccc 3 роки тому

      ya sia, feel like she damn traditional

    • @potatoes3212
      @potatoes3212 3 роки тому

      She's too dreamy.... Like these days dating app is so diff.... And ppl using it are also diff

  • @dreamlax203
    @dreamlax203 3 роки тому +5

    Someone ever said: Tell me more about yourself. And it felt like going for a job interview :/

  • @joylee007
    @joylee007 3 роки тому +5

    How any of them are single I cannot understand, they all seem really great

  • @tha_oz
    @tha_oz 3 роки тому +14

    Bruh rainier is 30?! I thought he was at most 25 lol

  • @getfitwithnicol
    @getfitwithnicol 3 роки тому +14

    Um I love Lery’s food pic it’s hilarious!

  • @ariel3725
    @ariel3725 3 роки тому +19

    I also am like Rainier, I only install the apps when I'm out of the country. But I only use them for hookups lol

  • @AiWaWawa
    @AiWaWawa 3 роки тому +8

    Aikk Rainer not with Renae? I hope each other still be a best friend.

  • @RobertHeslop
    @RobertHeslop 3 роки тому +8

    Hold the phone, Rainer went to Newcastle University, as in, in the UK? That's my hometown...

  • @ywta9227
    @ywta9227 3 роки тому +17

    Dang, Rainier looks damn good in the pics. Lol.

  • @KeyserTheRedBeard
    @KeyserTheRedBeard 3 роки тому +1

    amazing upload TheSmartLocal. I smashed that thumbs up on your video. Keep up the solid work.

  • @LWL-sz5lh
    @LWL-sz5lh 3 роки тому +27

    Sadly chris is not in this video. :(

  • @maedaydreamer8386
    @maedaydreamer8386 2 роки тому +2

    I agree that the best place to enable the dating app is oversees😂

  • @gen6555
    @gen6555 3 роки тому +5

    hii i love yall vids

  • @getfitwithnicol
    @getfitwithnicol 3 роки тому +8

    Love Sangee’s new hair and her profile! So her!

  • @adelinetay7178
    @adelinetay7178 3 роки тому +3

    Rainier is so so handsome!!!! 100% would have superliked!!!

  • @secretvguilongzxc0520
    @secretvguilongzxc0520 3 роки тому +7

    if i saw rainer, i would totally super liked haha

  • @Whitedarkish
    @Whitedarkish 3 роки тому +6

    Rainier and sangee probably didn’t need to be in this video

  • @leechong2291
    @leechong2291 3 роки тому +20

    Sangeeta is so pretty n bubbly💜🤞. She'll get many suitors 🥰

  • @ABC-ed8cg
    @ABC-ed8cg 3 роки тому +4

    ‘I like the ambiguity, U’re straightforward yet no BS’?
    I don’t think the dating coach knows what’s she’s saying..
    The feedback she gave came from her own perspective. I disagree that the topless pict of the guy is attractive. An open gesture is good but many ladies like myself don’t like in-your-face profile photos like these. A more subtle pict showing depth of character is more important.
    It’s also the same reason why I don’t use Tinder as it’s based purely on appearances. Other dating apps allow one to fill up fields that showcase your unique personality. A guy who leaves the fields empty or who doesn’t have anything interesting/witty to fill in speaks a lot of his bland & nonchalant personality.

  • @Mr4evergdragon
    @Mr4evergdragon 3 роки тому +24

    Bruh how is jes single, i would kill to date her

    • @getfitwithnicol
      @getfitwithnicol 3 роки тому +1

      Hahaah hope she sees this!

    • @head0fmob
      @head0fmob 3 роки тому +3

      virtue signalling at it's finest

    • @bertlander
      @bertlander Рік тому

      Hard to imagine romance with a tomboy

  • @Bernardjytan
    @Bernardjytan 3 роки тому +9

    For a start, become handsome or pretty.
    If not pose with animals.
    Punch line list out your hobbies or tell a joke.

  • @icelemon6085
    @icelemon6085 3 роки тому +16

    See a guy name "Rainier"
    Me: TRAITOR!
    If you don't get the reference.. welp

  • @MagicalKid
    @MagicalKid 3 роки тому +23

    It's funny there's no mention of Grindr because the criteria for profile photos are different, you need to have at least one shirtless pic 😂.

    • @15icyfire
      @15icyfire 3 роки тому +2

      Well, I saw a cast from this video that uses Grindr ;)

  • @deannad8554
    @deannad8554 3 роки тому +1

    I may be overthinking but I think the BMI comment was really unnecessary and out of place?

    • @bertlander
      @bertlander Рік тому

      It does matter. Some people look good closeup but not full length.

  • @Vanzy18
    @Vanzy18 3 роки тому +4

    Jes so funny haha

  • @Jxnjy
    @Jxnjy 3 роки тому +3

    I thought Jes looked really good in the photos tho 🤚😓

  • @kerlowee
    @kerlowee 3 роки тому +1

    rainer looks like he was about to cry :((((( hope he's ok!

  • @farisazman5376
    @farisazman5376 3 роки тому +3

    The lady in the pink pants very pretty what is her IG?

  • @junjunx1989
    @junjunx1989 3 роки тому +9

    Either use the term "other half" or " gender neutral "terms for everyone or not use it all . If not it is easy to tell just to be fair to the people featured in this video.

  • @charmingsmiles
    @charmingsmiles 3 роки тому +1

    i don't mind dating Rainier~ :P

  • @jessical3038
    @jessical3038 3 роки тому

    Good advices given

  • @Karma-wh6qb
    @Karma-wh6qb 3 роки тому

    Wait i tot rainier and renee were tgt??

  • @GaT-ik8mn
    @GaT-ik8mn 3 роки тому

    Why don’t TSL start a dating app? It’ll be so cool!

  • @leechong2291
    @leechong2291 3 роки тому +9

    WE STILL STAN 🛳️ RAINAE4EVER ❤️. Hahhahhahh 😍

  • @Breadca
    @Breadca 3 роки тому +1

    Omg Lery is from BSU?!

  • @bubbletea5097
    @bubbletea5097 3 роки тому +5

    15:43 angle , great video neverthelessss

  • @vanillasoftworks6876
    @vanillasoftworks6876 Рік тому

    Why dating apps are for losers who can't manned up and approach people in real life - If a man be truly confident, charismatic, with good communication skills, he could talk to anyone anywhere. Why would he be on a dating app in the first place? Why is he hiding behind a dating app?

  • @potatoes3212
    @potatoes3212 3 роки тому

    #selfClaimed"DATINGCOACH"
    her advice is like zaman dahulu advice 😂
    I liked lerrys and jess photos no prob tho.

  • @peejays6301
    @peejays6301 3 роки тому +2

    hi amandaaa

  • @lanaitgirl
    @lanaitgirl 3 роки тому

    hi rainier pls use hinge and find my friend‘s profile

  • @shanebleu7742
    @shanebleu7742 2 роки тому

    I really want to date the dating coach...She hot! 😍

  • @peejays6301
    @peejays6301 3 роки тому +1

    1??

  • @a.k.8727
    @a.k.8727 3 роки тому +3

    The best advice for our current generation of young men out there.. cut this online dating crap and approach women in person.

  • @user-hp2pt3db5y
    @user-hp2pt3db5y 3 роки тому

    Any dating site recommendation please

  • @farisjaafar3640
    @farisjaafar3640 3 роки тому +2

    Rainer single?

  • @maedaydreamer8386
    @maedaydreamer8386 2 роки тому

    Rainer!! I am just 1yr older than you!!! Hahaha just saying

  • @enjoyinglifeish
    @enjoyinglifeish 3 роки тому

    I honestly agree with everything the dating coach said.

  • @annievon4631
    @annievon4631 3 роки тому

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  • @angoonyeekaylas2-069
    @angoonyeekaylas2-069 3 роки тому +2

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  • @itzpeijia4718
    @itzpeijia4718 3 роки тому

    helllooooooooooooooooo :D

  • @snsdjerry
    @snsdjerry 3 роки тому +1

    San is hwat

  • @auudacity8335
    @auudacity8335 3 роки тому

    10th

  • @wantstolearnsheng
    @wantstolearnsheng 3 роки тому +1

    Suppp