100% accurate. As far as I can remember, I always abhorred and despised all forms of, so called, "socializing", especially with intellectually inferior people who firmly believe going to bars and getting drunk is what life is all about. Ugh.
Hate to say it but it was my own “family” and “close friends” that pushed me into this mindset. In all honesty, my biggest irritation as a man in my late 20’s is not being taken serious or feeling valued by the people I choose to communicate with, whether it’s at a job doing business or with people I personally know that I try to connect with, these days the minute I feel even a drop of disrespect or any sense of not seeing eye to eye, I just simply keep to myself at that point. Can’t be around those that don’t appreciate what I have to offer any longer. 💯
The vast majority of people are not worth my time. Having to put up with people's pathetic conversations about TV soap operas and planning their holidays to Ibiza and Majorca. Absolute wastes of space.
Mallorca - how to get sunburnt Ibiza - how to get shitfaced Batumi, Georgia - how to save money for retirement and free up more time for hobbies (1% flat income tax, cheap rent)
It's really difficult to date nowadays. I've told multiple women I have no friends and I can tell they think less of me. I just don't care for them. Haven't met anyone who felt like a real friend to me.
Even as a child I endured the “get out and make friends” from my mother and sisters. I like my path, I let only a few people in my circle when it suits me
I only did it to make my mother keep her mouth shut on the matter, otherwise she wouldn't let it go, and would go as far as to brutally beat me as a punishment for staying indoors instead of going out.
THOSE THAT ARE ON THE TRICKY PATH OFFER SOME COMPASSION TO WE ARE BROTHERS IN ARMS AND THE JOURNEY IS TOUGH ONE ,STILL STAY KIND TO THE COSMOS WE ARE IT .
Big part of the problem is that in my personal experience when people are lonely toxic people will take advantage of that... To find friends that truly understand your vibe, the reality is that you have to deal with many toxic people first... Then the questions hecomes is that process even worth it?
I'm gonna 29 in 10 more days and I come to this point in my life where I don't even wanna bother socializing anymore. In the past, I really thought or believe socializing and engaging with others would be a good idea at first... until, eventually, I ended up facing the consequences for allowing myself to be comfortable. One of which is realizing I've been with the wrong company all this time and that they only want to be around me out of pity. Should've stayed alone a long time ago. Don't get me wrong, I really love being around people, but I just can't handle so much loneliness, fakeness, toxicity and insensitivity. All I really want is somebody is genuine, humble, caring, level-headed and unproblematic. Don't care if it's a romantic partner or an available person. Like I said: never had problem being alone, just hate feeling alone.
I remember playing Civilization 1 at age 9 or so - my life was fulfilled. I remember playing Oxygen Not Included at age 41 yesterday - my life was fulfilled. Guess what I'm doing once I'm done with work? Oxygen Not Included. I do communicate quite a lot thru e-mail, sometimes chat, sometimes my mom on the phone. Sometimes warning my nephew about red flags in women, etc. But I'm 100% happy playing an appropriately "autistic" single player PC game. And sometimes I play Overwatch 2 for a quick fix.
New Year’s Eve. How do we even know it’s a new year? That’s what gets me every time. I don’t mean to wax philosophical, but fuck it, I will anyway: If the current calendar we follow was created by the Vatican in the 1500s, and if certain cultures in the world (like the Chinese) don’t even acknowledge said calendar, then how can anyone possibly assume a new year has started on any given date? How do we even know it’s 2025? We don’t, we just take it at face value that it is. New Year’s Eve is a giant scam, just like other occasions. I’m happy staying home with my cat and cooking up a storm on that night. Beats wading through crowds of drunken dullards.
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The best part of getting older is that socializing becomes far less important, if not outright tedious and annoying.
100% accurate. As far as I can remember, I always abhorred and despised all forms of, so called, "socializing", especially with intellectually inferior people who firmly believe going to bars and getting drunk is what life is all about. Ugh.
Hate to say it but it was my own “family” and “close friends” that pushed me into this mindset. In all honesty, my biggest irritation as a man in my late 20’s is not being taken serious or feeling valued by the people I choose to communicate with, whether it’s at a job doing business or with people I personally know that I try to connect with, these days the minute I feel even a drop of disrespect or any sense of not seeing eye to eye, I just simply keep to myself at that point. Can’t be around those that don’t appreciate what I have to offer any longer. 💯
I'm more comfortable being a hermit and work in my current job & myself
Live ur life free, not according 2 norms set by society.
" society moving in the wrong direction" understatement of the century😂
The vast majority of people are not worth my time. Having to put up with people's pathetic conversations about TV soap operas and planning their holidays to Ibiza and Majorca. Absolute wastes of space.
God damn bro....I think you're my spirit animal
I hear ya man!
It’s Mallorca, but I feel you.
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@ Hahaha
It's really difficult to date nowadays. I've told multiple women I have no friends and I can tell they think less of me. I just don't care for them. Haven't met anyone who felt like a real friend to me.
Why care about something that despise you?
Even as a child I endured the “get out and make friends” from my mother and sisters. I like my path, I let only a few people in my circle when it suits me
I only did it to make my mother keep her mouth shut on the matter, otherwise she wouldn't let it go, and would go as far as to brutally beat me as a punishment for staying indoors instead of going out.
Set your own agenda, don’t let others set it for you.
Also found dealing with other people annoying,tiring,and pointless. Rather be alone. If society doesn't like it,it can stuff it.
THOSE THAT ARE ON THE TRICKY PATH OFFER SOME COMPASSION TO WE ARE BROTHERS IN ARMS AND THE JOURNEY IS TOUGH ONE ,STILL STAY KIND TO THE COSMOS WE ARE IT .
Big part of the problem is that in my personal experience when people are lonely toxic people will take advantage of that... To find friends that truly understand your vibe, the reality is that you have to deal with many toxic people first... Then the questions hecomes is that process even worth it?
I'm gonna 29 in 10 more days and I come to this point in my life where I don't even wanna bother socializing anymore. In the past, I really thought or believe socializing and engaging with others would be a good idea at first... until, eventually, I ended up facing the consequences for allowing myself to be comfortable. One of which is realizing I've been with the wrong company all this time and that they only want to be around me out of pity. Should've stayed alone a long time ago. Don't get me wrong, I really love being around people, but I just can't handle so much loneliness, fakeness, toxicity and insensitivity. All I really want is somebody is genuine, humble, caring, level-headed and unproblematic. Don't care if it's a romantic partner or an available person. Like I said: never had problem being alone, just hate feeling alone.
I remember playing Civilization 1 at age 9 or so - my life was fulfilled.
I remember playing Oxygen Not Included at age 41 yesterday - my life was fulfilled.
Guess what I'm doing once I'm done with work? Oxygen Not Included.
I do communicate quite a lot thru e-mail, sometimes chat, sometimes my mom on the phone.
Sometimes warning my nephew about red flags in women, etc.
But I'm 100% happy playing an appropriately "autistic" single player PC game.
And sometimes I play Overwatch 2 for a quick fix.
What a sad,pathetic life
💯 true thank you
💯
Long live the manosphere!!
Thank you! This dhamma talk was liberating. 🙏
New Year’s Eve.
How do we even know it’s a new year? That’s what gets me every time.
I don’t mean to wax philosophical, but fuck it, I will anyway: If the current calendar we follow was created by the Vatican in the 1500s, and if certain cultures in the world (like the Chinese) don’t even acknowledge said calendar, then how can anyone possibly assume a new year has started on any given date?
How do we even know it’s 2025? We don’t, we just take it at face value that it is.
New Year’s Eve is a giant scam, just like other occasions.
I’m happy staying home with my cat and cooking up a storm on that night. Beats wading through crowds of drunken dullards.
What is socialising now it seems to be all online and people seem to be everything you listed so why bother
One of the biggest lies ever told
Wrong.
Indeed, people that rely on external validation are usually shallow and unfulfilled.
Don’t agree with many things said.
Then don't watch it. Duh.
Then move along kid
Thats ok, its up to everyone how they want to think 👍
Seems like i upset the hermits 👌😁
@@Ali01007 You triggered the Hikikomori...😆
Too many commercials bro.