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Talanoa Kaungafononga: Part 10. Discrimination within Oneself
We present our 'Talanoa Kaungafononga' series. This is a conversation on journeying along with one another or in the Tongan language, Kaufakataha or Fetokoni'aki.
Our 10 week series consists of videos with counselling tools to educate Tongan people on discrimination, prejudice and mental distress. The programme will be in Tongan and English.
Today, we launch our final video Part 10: Discrimination within Oneself, Laulanu pe koe fakahilihili'i kita. In this video, Penisimani and 'Ilaisaane discuss taking ownership, tracing the thoughts, replacing lies with truth, default moods and meditation.
We hope our series resources you all and raises your awareness of discrimination, detachments andin your community.
Malo 'aupito.
We would like to thank Noku Te Ao for funding our programme.
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Talanoa Kaungafononga: Part 9. Discrimination within Oneself
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We present our 'Talanoa Kaungafononga' series. This is a conversation on journeying along with one another or in the Tongan language, Kaufakataha or Fetokoni'aki. Our 10 week series consists of videos with counselling tools to educate Tongan people on discrimination, prejudice and mental distress. The programme will be in Tongan and English. Today, we launch Part 9: Discrimination within Onesel...
Talanoa Kaungafononga: Part 8. Discrimination in family
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We present our 'Talanoa Kaungafononga' series. This is a conversation on journeying along with one another or in the Tongan language, Kaufakataha or Fetokoni'aki. Our 10 week series consists of videos with counselling tools to educate Tongan people on discrimination, prejudice and mental distress. The programme will be in Tongan and English. Today, we launch Part 8: Discrimination in family, La...
Talanoa Kaungafononga: Part 7. Discrimination in family
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We present our 'Talanoa Kaungafononga' series. This is a conversation on journeying along with one another or in the Tongan language, Kaufakataha or Fetokoni'aki. Our 10 week series consists of videos with counselling tools to educate Tongan people on discrimination, prejudice and mental distress. The programme will be in Tongan and English. Today, we launch Part 7: Discrimination in family, La...
Talanoa Kaungafononga: Part 6. Discrimination in school and work
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We present our 'Talanoa Kaungafononga' series. This is a conversation on journeying along with one another or in the Tongan language, Kaufakataha or Fetokoni'aki. Our 10 week series consists of videos with counselling tools to educate Tongan people on discrimination, prejudice and mental distress. The programme will be in Tongan and English. Today, we launch Part 6: Discrimination in school and...
Talanoa Kaungafononga: Part 5. Discrimination in school and work
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We present our 'Talanoa Kaungafononga' series. This is a conversation on journeying along with one another or in the Tongan language, Kaufakataha or Fetokoni'aki. Our 10 week series consists of videos with counselling tools to educate Tongan people on discrimination, prejudice and mental distress. The programme will be in Tongan and English. Today, we launch Part 5: Discrimination in school and...
Talanoa Kaungafononga: Part 4. Discrimination in the Western Society
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We present our 'Talanoa Kaungafononga' series. This is a conversation on journeying along with one another or in the Tongan language, Kaufakataha or Fetokoni'aki. Our 10 week series consists of videos with counselling tools to educate Tongan people on discrimination, prejudice and mental distress. The programme will be in Tongan and English. Today, we launch Part 4: Discrimination in the Wester...
Talanoa Kaungafononga: 3.Discrimination in the Western Society
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We present our 'Talanoa Kaungafononga' series. This is a conversation on journeying along with one another or in the Tongan language, Kaufakataha or Fetokoni'aki. Our 10 week series consists of videos with counselling tools to educate Tongan people on discrimination, prejudice and mental distress. The programme will be in Tongan and English. Today, we launch Part 3 with a new topic: Discriminat...
Talanoa Kaungafononga: 2.Discrimination in the Tongan Context
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We present our 'Talanoa Kaungafononga' series. This is a conversation on journeying along with one another or in the Tongan language, Kaufakataha or Fetokoni'aki. Our 10 week series consists of videos with counselling tools to educate Tongan people on discrimination, prejudice and mental distress. The programme will be in Tongan and English. Today, we have Part 2 of Discrimination in the Tongan...
Talanoa Kaungafononga: 1. Discrimination in the Tongan Context
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We present our 'Talanoa Kaungafononga' series. This is a conversation on journeying along with one another or in the Tongan language, Kaufakataha or Fetokoni'aki. Our 10 week series consists of videos with counselling tools to educate Tongan people on discrimination, prejudice and mental distress. The programme will be in Tongan and English. This week, we start our series with Discrimination in...
Talanoa Lelei 22: Identity vs Role Confusion
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Malo e lelei, We present our 'Talanoa Lelei' series. This programme is a mini series of Facebook Lives by 'Ilaisaane Langi sharing practical tips on parenting teenagers with their mental health and well being. The programme will be in Tongan and English. During June, Ilaisaane will be speaking on the topic 'Identity vs Role Confusion' for 12-18 year olds. In this final video of the series, Ilai...
Talanoa Lelei 21: Identity vs Role Confusion
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Malo e lelei, We present our 'Talanoa Lelei' series. This programme is a mini series of Facebook Lives by 'Ilaisaane Langi sharing practical tips on parenting teenagers with their mental health and well being. The programme will be in Tongan and English. During June, Ilaisaane will be speaking on the topic 'Identity vs Role Confusion' for 12-18 year olds. In this video, Ilaisaane shares specifi...
Talanoa Lelei 20: Identity vs Role Confusion
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Malo e lelei, We present our 'Talanoa Lelei' series. This programme is a mini series of Facebook Lives by 'Ilaisaane Langi sharing practical tips on parenting teenagers with their mental health and well being. The programme will be in Tongan and English. During June, Ilaisaane will be speaking on the topic 'Identity vs Role Confusion' for 12-18 year olds. In this video, Ilaisaane shares a perso...
Talanoa Lelei 19: Identity vs Role Confusion
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Malo e lelei, We present our 'Talanoa Lelei' series. This programme is a mini series of Facebook Lives by 'Ilaisaane Langi sharing practical tips on parenting teenagers with their mental health and well being. The programme will be in Tongan and English. During June, Ilaisaane will be speaking on the topic 'Identity vs Role Confusion' for 12-18 year olds. In this video, Ilaisaane shares how at ...
Talanoa Lelei 18: Industry vs Inferiority
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Malo e lelei, We present our 'Talanoa Lelei' series. This programme is a mini series of Facebook Lives by 'Ilaisaane Langi sharing practical tips on parenting teenagers with their mental health and well being. The programme will be in Tongan and English. During May, Ilaisaane will be speaking on the topic 'Industry vs Inferiority' for 5-11 year olds. In this video, Ilaisaane shares on the effec...
Talanoa Lelei 17: Industry vs Inferiority
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Talanoa Lelei 17: Industry vs Inferiority
Talanoa Lelei 16: Industry vs Inferiority
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Talanoa Lelei 16: Industry vs Inferiority
Talanoa Lelei 15: Industry vs Inferiority
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Talanoa Lelei 15: Industry vs Inferiority
Talanoa Lelei 14: Industry vs Inferiority
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Talanoa Lelei 14: Industry vs Inferiority
Talanoa Lelei 13: Initiative vs Guilt
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Talanoa Lelei 13: Initiative vs Guilt
Talanoa Lelei 12: Initiative vs Guilt
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Talanoa Lelei 12: Initiative vs Guilt
Talanoa Lelei 11: Initiative vs Guilt
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Talanoa Lelei 11: Initiative vs Guilt
Talanoa Lelei 10: Initiative vs Guilt
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Talanoa Lelei 10: Initiative vs Guilt
Talanoa Lelei 9: Autonomy vs Shame and Doubt
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Talanoa Lelei 9: Autonomy vs Shame and Doubt
Talanoa Lelei 8: Autonomy vs Shame and Doubt
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Talanoa Lelei 8: Autonomy vs Shame and Doubt
Talanoa Lelei 7: Autonomy vs Shame and Doubt
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Talanoa Lelei 7: Autonomy vs Shame and Doubt
Talanoa Lelei 6: Autonomy vs Shame and Doubt
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Talanoa Lelei 6: Autonomy vs Shame and Doubt
Talanoa Lelei 5: Falala pe Ta'efalala (Trust vs Mistrust)
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Talanoa Lelei 5: Falala pe Ta'efalala (Trust vs Mistrust)
Talanoa Lelei 4: Falala pe Ta'efalala
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Talanoa Lelei 4: Falala pe Ta'efalala
Talanoa Lelei 3 : Falala pe 'Ikai falala (Trust vs Mistrust)
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Talanoa Lelei 3 : Falala pe 'Ikai falala (Trust vs Mistrust)

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  • @haanganahalaufia2425
    @haanganahalaufia2425 28 днів тому

    Fkfeta'i malo 'ae si'i Fkmaama moe talanoa lelei kuo tau mohuu 'ihe kelesi'ia pea koe fu'u tapuaki lahi ia kihe 'etau nofo Fkfamili

  • @haanganahalaufia2425
    @haanganahalaufia2425 Місяць тому

    Malo si'i fai mai 'et ngaue Fkmafana pea Fklaumalie pea mahino 'ofa atu Ta'okete Penisimani mo 'Ilaisaane Langi 'ofa llahi atu moe lotu eeeeee

  • @user-mf6cy7zt9t
    @user-mf6cy7zt9t Місяць тому

    Osi afee malie moe fale'i fklaumalie iate kimoua.

  • @tuitupouhuakau4175
    @tuitupouhuakau4175 Місяць тому

    Malo Peni mo Saane 'a e vahevahe faka'ofo'ofa.'Ofa atu kia moua.

  • @jmjm1920
    @jmjm1920 Місяць тому

    Malo e vahevahe mahu'inga 'aupito 🙏

  • @alailupefakauafusi6911
    @alailupefakauafusi6911 Місяць тому

    Malo mu'a Penisimani mo 'Ilaisaane ae ngaue lahi mahu'inga mai mei hena fakatauange kemou ma'u ha aho fiefia mo mohu tapuekina moe lotu kiate kimoua ke kei fkivia moua he ngaahi vahevahe mahuinga oku ako ai 'eku mo'ui he okuou si'i fihia ai. 'Ofa lahi atu kiamoua moe lotu God blessed ❤🙏

  • @alailupefakauafusi6911
    @alailupefakauafusi6911 Місяць тому

    Katau manatu'i koe 'alelo koe ki'i me'asi'isi'i ae 'elelo ka okune 'omai ae me'a oku kovi pea toe 'omai ai ae mea oku lelei. Malo 'aupito ae polokalama malie mo po'uli aa. GB ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏

  • @user-wp9ys6lk1x
    @user-wp9ys6lk1x Місяць тому

    Haven’t seen this channel before and it’s a good channel to watch malo e ngaue keep it up

  • @sisiliakisina5927
    @sisiliakisina5927 Місяць тому

    Ofa atu kamoua malo ❤

  • @tikelipesis5227
    @tikelipesis5227 Місяць тому

    Ko e polokalama ‘Eni a Vaiola Hospital

  • @haanganahalaufia2425
    @haanganahalaufia2425 2 місяці тому

    Ma'alahi pea Fkmafana fau 'etau polokalama Fkfeta'i lahi kihe 'Otua 'ihe tokonaki 'ae lelei ko 'eni 'o mau kau ai pe 'ihe Maamangia 'ofa lahi atu ma'u pe kia kimoua eeeeee

  • @haanganahalaufia2425
    @haanganahalaufia2425 2 місяці тому

    Malo si'i ok9oko 'ae lelei 'o vahevahe mai ke tau 'inasi 'iai mo mau ako ai kimautolu 'okukimautolu 'oku fkpo'uli ke ki'i 'iai ha maama 'ofa lahi atu moe fklotolahi ke hokohoko atu ho'omo ki'i polokalama kemau si'i kau 'ihe maamangia 'iai malo 'aupito moe 'ofa lahi atu

  • @malmotumotu5218
    @malmotumotu5218 2 місяці тому

    Ko e loto fale ‘o Tonga oku tuku hifo ai e fanau tu’utamaki (fanau ‘eve’eva).Oku ikai fakaiku ia ki he tamai! Ko e tui eni ne uluaki omai ehe kau Pilitania,ka Kuo nau liliu kinautolu kae kei piki pe kiai e Tonga ia! Oku iai hoku kaungatangata ko e foha tokotaha pe ia ‘o ‘ene tamai.Ikai ha ‘ane to e fanau,pea na’e tauhi pe he’ene tamai ‘o a’u ki he fu’u tangata.Pango,ko e malolo pe ‘Ene tamai,ko e mole ia e ‘api ne tupu ai,fale,’api kolo,’api ‘uta.Mahalo Kuo taimi ke liliu e lao ke faka tatau mo e liliu ‘a Pilitania.Oku tatau pe ,fanau mali mo e fanau ta’e mali!

  • @haanganahalaufia2425
    @haanganahalaufia2425 4 місяці тому

    Mali 'Ilaisaane 'ae Fkmaama moe vahe😢 lelei 'o ifo 'emau fanongo

  • @JB-dk4cm
    @JB-dk4cm 4 місяці тому

    Malo e poupou

  • @brigittakehlati
    @brigittakehlati 4 місяці тому

    koloa mahuiga kei moui ete matua kenau akonekina mo tokonii kita moete fanau ai tapuaki mavahe ai

  • @falemanutaufa1115
    @falemanutaufa1115 5 місяців тому

    Fakafeta’i ki he ‘Eiki ‘a e talanoa lelei mo faka’ofo’ofa ❤

  • @tasifaleafa
    @tasifaleafa 6 місяців тому

    👍👍👍👍👍

  • @kevintaufatoutai8319
    @kevintaufatoutai8319 6 місяців тому

    Ikai keu amanaki kuo iai ha kakai Tonga ako lelei , toe fe kumi ilo’i Laulanu i he mo’ui i Tonga. Kou pehe pe Koau tokotaha pe moe kau PHD muli ni . Teuteu moua kihe tolo kapekape atu kau mamami’i fonua namu pipi moe ahi. Lol

  • @KellyWelch
    @KellyWelch Рік тому

    😻 Promo>SM

  • @siopeotutaha2153
    @siopeotutaha2153 Рік тому

    thank you for this post.....i remember some of the things from some of my days studying psychology.....for example, you are right that we do form a lot of our identity during the developmental years of our life and the foundation is kinda strong and maybe difficult to change one you get older as well. i guess what you are doing is also very good for the Tongan community who are also living abroad and away from the actual Tonga Islands and who are facing different challenges that their parents and their parents parents are facing as well which may add to the total burden of also trying to make ends meet as well. thank you.

  • @siopeotutaha2153
    @siopeotutaha2153 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing. You commented on a lot of good things e.g. how we should Trust in the Lord Jehovah who sees the bigger picture. and also that we should be humble and also "surrender" to the lord things such as anger and dissapointment etc. if things are not going our way which is a very good example towards the children who will see this and also behave accordingly, and will give them the right choices to choose later on in their lives because in life there are always bad times and hiccups, and we should also teach our children to not make things worse by choosing choices out of a bad "condition" e.g. do n ot be fakalotoloto and manumanu etc. I think i may just be able to comment lightly on this seeing as how I am not married. I think you should also keep going within yourself too because I have read that Marriage is always difficult for all who get married, and i think you posting these things is a good and healthy way for you to let off some steam AND, you are doing it very well....i.e. good fakaapaapa, though, it is a bit unusual for a Tongan woman to talk about such things,,,,,but its still good. lol i hope this helps

  • @siopeotutaha2153
    @siopeotutaha2153 Рік тому

    okay, i know you didn't ask me to,,but i'll give you some feedback....okay, so i understand where you are comming from. I think you were trying to also explain that some of the youths experience "learned helplessness" and that their exploring behaviours, e.g. when they are learning more about the environment that they are in especially during the developmental years can become "extinguished" and associated with shame hence why they give up trying. Hmmmm........I think the Tongan way is excellent in some ways....for example, in the Bible you can read "spoil the rod, ruin the child" which is part of the original Tongan culture.....but you are also right i.e. when it is associated with shame instead of "learning the proper lesson". my dad is old school in many ways and one thing i notice is that alot of Tongan parents will "show" their love for their children in different ways, but they won't "tell you" they love you as often as a NZ father would....which both are fine, but i can see how confusing it can be for a Tongan growing up in two dominant cultures. I also read in a journal article that it is a Tongan thing for someone to possibly experience something, and then they would turn to their friends or loved ones, for example, to have them approve or disapprove the thing that they learnt........i.e. we sometimes needs emotional reassurance from other fellow Tongans which is a very Tongan thing and instead of being independent etc. and not conforming to the proper standards. i don't know....i hope this helps

  • @keheliutai7518
    @keheliutai7518 Рік тому

    Thank you ! Amazing ❤ !

  • @keheliutai7518
    @keheliutai7518 Рік тому

    Thank you Ilaisaane. This is wonderful and elevated learning.

  • @jamesuihamohaanotupou198
    @jamesuihamohaanotupou198 Рік тому

    Very neat counsel for children particularly the parents.

  • @bradleysika
    @bradleysika Рік тому

    Malo ❤❤❤ae lea

  • @Mitsuri_663
    @Mitsuri_663 Рік тому

    Malo mua sii vahevahe Mai hoo ausia oku ou muimuii lahi hoo gaahi vitioo pea oku aoga lahi aupito kia teau moe tauhi fanau oku fkhoko Malo lahi.

  • @dazlomanofa5015
    @dazlomanofa5015 Рік тому

    Mooni lahi aupito.

  • @taanielatauataina5622
    @taanielatauataina5622 Рік тому

    Malo e tokoni ofa atu

  • @marinaaluesi5307
    @marinaaluesi5307 Рік тому

    Malo aupito love lelei Eni ,mea oku mooni,mei Brisbane

  • @sisiliakisina5927
    @sisiliakisina5927 Рік тому

    Malo mu'a si'i Fa'e ko eni 'ae poupou lelei mo fk'ofo'ofa 'aupito kia tekitautolu kotoape si'i ngaahi matu'a ofa atu❤

  • @sionenai7418
    @sionenai7418 Рік тому

    Keep on doing your polokalama. Someone up there is smiling at you. Blessing to your family.😂

  • @sionenai7418
    @sionenai7418 Рік тому

    Malo 'aupito ho'o vahevahe mai 'ae Koloa mahu'inga ko e tokanga'i 'ae faanau. 'Oku 'ikai ko ha ngaue faingofua tautefito ki he faanau ta'u 1 kihe ta'u 10. Ka tonu 'a hono tokanga'i 'ihe ngaahi ta'u ko'eni ko e 'amanaki lelei ia ki he kaha'u. Ko e akonaki ia 'ae palofesa, pea na'aku muimui kiai pea na'e hoko pe 'o mo'oni. Keep doing your polokama someone up there is smiling at you. Blessings to your family.

  • @malmotumotu5218
    @malmotumotu5218 Рік тому

    Fakafeta’i!!! Ko e ngaahi live eni oku mahu’inga pea productive ki he nofo mo e fonua

  • @tapaitaopeti9907
    @tapaitaopeti9907 Рік тому

    Malo Rev 'Ilaisaane Langi mo Dr Siale Foliaki, ke tapuekina kimoua he 'Otua he ngaahi tokoni kotoa pe kiate kimautolu matu'a tauhi fanau. 'Ofa lahi atu pehe ki ho'omo ongo famili.