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Myself, each other, and God

Many conservative marriage books treat the marital relationship differently than any other relationship. They make it about wooden roles, and often make things way more complicated than necessary. Like if we treated normal friendships that way we wouldn’t have friends.

Being male doesn't mean you are competent at anything. Learning is a path. Competence is the goal Competence is riding the wave. When you fall off, if you don't get back up, then you haven't gotten back up. Knowing the path is different than following the path. The Path to Manhood. Follow the Path! OR? Oblivion - Nothing - Worthless

Amen sister! I think teaching discernment (seeking the will of a God in our lives) and prayer (conversing with God and an openness to the Holy Sprit) to our children is a foundational step. Preach the original definition of marriage again; a sacred covenant between a man, woman and God. Then, if a person discerns marriage as their vocation, they understand its design and purpose and will choose a person that is right for them and that goal.

Parents teach their kids how to have loving relationships and should be showing their kids how to love as Christ did. That is what it means to be Christian.

Truth

A marriage preparation course was mandatory at my church. I say to people I know how when we were first told to take it, I was offended... but I am.so happy we did it. I highly recommend taking a marriage prep course before getting married. People think about the wedding as a party they are prepping for... but rarely do people get themselves ready for the trials of the future of sharing your life with someone. As Catholics, one perspective is that we are trying to make our spouse a saint. With that in mind, we support each other in our spiritual lives and it pours out into the rest of our life.

My husband and were 18 & 19 when we were married. Next month will be 40 years of God's blessings.

Milena has really chanhed and become on fire for Christ over the years and is such an inspiration ❤

I'm grateful for my husband because he speaks highly of me so much that my kids tell me the good things he says. 😊

Wow....the first 3 mins is EXACTLY what I needed today.!!!

Thank you for sharing! I was Enlighten and truly Bless!!! And Again Thank you!💕

AMEN no we do not give people the training and cultural expectations they need

My marriage is in CRISIS, and I feel we DESPERATELY NEED to have counseling after seeing this video! PLEASE contact me!!!!!!

“We don’t get the training we need to be married “… In theory we should’ve been getting the training since we were young children. In theory, your parents raised you to show you what a loving relationship looks like. Obviously we don’t get that anymore. …. it’s gonna take a while to fix this.

very good content! I love the idea of checking in!

Im am grateful for my husband because he us detail oriented and dependable ❤

You give everything you will get everything and then some back x

I am thankful for my husband making the bed when I'm out early!

Amen

I don’t agree that you need to abandon this collective wisdom that was successful in raising you and giving you the value system that you have because you’re being married. I think that you can honor your husband and still be able to ask your parents who are your rock for so many years what their opinions are- what’s wrong with that? Now you should not be telling your parents intimate details about your spouse and the final decision should be made by the husband and wife, but asking for help or asking for a good opinion from someone who’s not emotionally involved is not a bad thing, especially if they’re Christians. Marriage can be a little nerve-racking, but it’s something you choose. Nobody forces you to do it and I think that distinction is important. The couple that being interviewed sound like they had a solid family and they vetted their choices so they should trust the process, especially if they both born again Christians.

God bless you

"Speaking life over each other." This is so valuable! I am grateful for my spouse because right now he is working hard on our bathroom sink plumbing after having come home from Saturday overtime work, a very long week! He maintains the home and vehicles, fixing things that I do not know how or giving me instructions to do so when he cannot be present. He is amazing in numerous ways!

Adviser not helper

I am grateful for my wife for making me a salad she knows I love for dinner a few minutes ago😊😊😊

I am one of the millions of men in the US divorced and disposed of by our wives for elective reasons. Boredom is a major cause. Also women are even planning to divorce us now. The suicide rate is very high for our group yet no one wants to talk about us. Because of the Internet, men are onto women now and marriage rates and birth rates have fallen off a cliff. Women don't even care that they are destroying men so we are not going to participate in this cruel charade any longer.

Lol spreading nonsense

It is maybe more hard if you are very young and feel pressure to get married quickly and have no experience living alone or with roommates and have a very limited experience of relationships even 🤷🏼‍♀️

❤❤❤ this was so good and full of Godly advice and love ❤️ Thank you 🙏 so much !!

This guy is so good, loved his wisdom from God.

Parental wisdom

Communication: Men - information. Women - connection (relationship). So very true! At 22:22

What if the mom ( me) takes care of the kids all day does all the cleaning and trash out and bills and groceries. And he works 630to 3 pm monday through friday then does nothing but comes home and plays computer gamss the rest of there free time...just wondering

Nice episode

My husband was never contented he cheating

No l dont feel safe

Girl you're the leader! Your father shouldn't be turning you to your husband for advice. Your father should turn you to seek inside yourself. You have wisdom inside yourself!

Wow didn't think about that

Thank you!

To make life less difficult 🫡

Appreciate Focus on the Family, but I'm definitely not feeling this guy. If this is what marriage is you can keep it. He is just making jokes about his being whipped. A few funny points, but self deprecation eventually breeds resentment. I suspect women like his presentation much more than men do.

Roses are red and love is fake. A wedding is just a funeral with cake

I compare with in that's all I will do is cherish mine without doubt or contradiction ❤❤❤❤

So good!!! Milena is such an inspiration for me! God bless you Sister❤

Absolute fun

If only I could find a husband with this revelation 🙏🏼

Great interview! Thanks for having her on. She has been such an inspiration and encouragement to me over the years through early marriage and growing our family.

EXCELLENT WORK SIR.

Boundaries should be established between our extended families and our marriage relationship as well as our jobs (coworkers and schedules)

Oh brother… anyone but her please.