Finding Sources of Life in Your Marriage | Comedy | Ted Cunningham

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  • @mcintron3491
    @mcintron3491 Місяць тому +5

    Who knew wisdom could be funny.
    What a joy to hear you minister to the world in Jesus Christ. God bless you!

  • @cynthiawitherspoon3443
    @cynthiawitherspoon3443 Місяць тому +6

    This guy is so good, loved his wisdom from God.

  • @alecsgirl
    @alecsgirl 2 місяці тому +28

    Thank you! This was just the reminder I needed this morning. Being “unequally yoked” is HARD. Especially with kids. But I know that the only way to find joy and success in any marriage is to find my joy and my peace in my Savior. He alone is the living water.

  • @gordkornelsen8689
    @gordkornelsen8689 3 місяці тому +66

    My wife and I just celebrated 50 years of marriage! I am sure we would have had more fun if some of this teaching was available earlier on in marriage. I'm sharing this with others. Thankyou for your teaching.

    • @focusonthefamilymarriage
      @focusonthefamilymarriage  3 місяці тому +4

      We are so glad to hear you enjoyed this episode with Ted Cunningham. It's truly encouraging to know that you have been blessed with 50 years of marriage and appreciate the teachings provided through the message. Thank you for sharing it with others. May the Lord continue to bless you and your wife! -- Jenny M

    • @tiffanybittman7523
      @tiffanybittman7523 3 місяці тому +3

      Exactly for us too

  • @Daharpah
    @Daharpah 2 місяці тому +9

    My family attends the Church Ted calls home. We have enjoyed many of his messages over the years. He is a champion of the family and marriage. God Bless you Ted!

  • @Audrey-k2h
    @Audrey-k2h 3 місяці тому +41

    Have your own life and find what makes you happy
    Then you can share your life with others
    No one can be your whole life

    • @sandrachartier6963
      @sandrachartier6963 3 місяці тому

      No one can fill your hole toake you whole Except you and Source.. love knowing this now... a small part of me wished I had learned it 40 years ago

  • @christinabehnke4106
    @christinabehnke4106 2 місяці тому +10

    The way he weaved comedy and God was masterful. What a great message!

  • @lanaeinkheart7597
    @lanaeinkheart7597 3 місяці тому +24

    Ok just started this video and already know I’m going to love it. I said haaah right before he said “and the Hebrew term for that is..” and I don’t even have kids.
    P.S. I had a dirt pile to play with as a kid. (Every kid should have one) My siblings and I would run around barefoot until mom would call us back inside. Such a great way to grow up and we are fine.

  • @loverofthewordofgod4156
    @loverofthewordofgod4156 2 місяці тому +4

    30.5 years of marriage and this is awesome!

  • @prayingalways777
    @prayingalways777 3 місяці тому +27

    Thank you for the hilarious laughs Pastor Ted 😂 feel so blessed from the joy you've brought to my family 🎉🎉 😊

  • @yinetteguzman2064
    @yinetteguzman2064 2 місяці тому +3

    I am newly married, and my husband and I watched this video! It was funny and edifying, I love the idea of our spouse is not the problem nor the solution, and the illustration with the mug and pouring. I know it is self explanatory in some ways, the concept that we need to depend of God as the source, but it would be super helpful to dive into that aspect of this message, what does it look like to get our fill from God instead? Practical advice on this would be helpful! Part 2? 😬😬🙌🏻🙌🏻🙏 thank you for blessing us

    • @focusonthefamilymarriage
      @focusonthefamilymarriage  Місяць тому

      We're glad you enjoyed the video @yinetteguzman2064. It's important to get our fill from God, here's an article with some steps on how to do that- bit.ly/40gmRwW. We hope this is helpful!
      -Luna H.

  • @justbc4769
    @justbc4769 3 місяці тому +17

    First time listening to him. Great message.

  • @kennies5925
    @kennies5925 3 місяці тому +5

    I watched this video and the only words I could muttered, “that was amazing.”

  • @freddbanda
    @freddbanda 3 місяці тому +13

    Wonderful teaching.

  • @yvonneflood2202
    @yvonneflood2202 2 місяці тому +1

    Brilliant preach n
    teach. So true! God Bless you sir. Wisdom and laughter is good medicine

  • @kdschannel8113
    @kdschannel8113 3 місяці тому +8

    Wow. This has really blessed me. Exactly what I needed

    • @focusonthefamilymarriage
      @focusonthefamilymarriage  3 місяці тому

      We are so glad to hear you enjoyed the episode! Let us know if we can help in the future. -Jenny M

  • @carolynndawula6294
    @carolynndawula6294 2 місяці тому +1

    I have no recollection laughing so hard while watching a video with great lessons on Marriage! Thank You!

    • @focusonthefamilymarriage
      @focusonthefamilymarriage  2 місяці тому

      @carolynndawula6294 We are so happy this blessed you and brought you a laugh! God bless you! - Treasure H.

  • @arthurblennerhassett429
    @arthurblennerhassett429 3 місяці тому +47

    We are a society who blames our parents for our lives and actions.

    • @Lifetimelearningisbrave
      @Lifetimelearningisbrave 2 місяці тому

      It’s a very observable fact that maladaptive coping mechanisms, childhood trauma, secret family addictions, neglect, abuse, lies, lack of trust, poor parental relationship dynamics, gaslighting in families and developmental needs not being met will AFFECT a child’s life.
      To pretend and gaslight yourself that this isn’t an observable Truth maybe you could see it plainly in “those other families” that fail their responsibility of meeting the most basic of needs of their kids or farm them out to less qualified people.
      If you as parents fail to work out the shortcomings in your life your kids carry that cross into their lives. Telling your kids those failing is not good enough…as modeling a daily behavior gets into their soul and if you have too much shame or denial to admit your failing then honey, hate to break it to you, but the problems your kids have later in life will start to loook very familiar to you if you are able to be honest (if they even tell you about then as most hide it from families that take no responsibility for their tribe failings)
      Blaming parents after 23 years old and not taking on the burden of the maladaptive skills and unintended consequences of our parents mistakes keep us stuck in generational dysfunction but pretending these adults are just blaming their parents for nothing is hilarious.
      Amends are needed from parents in mass as our children become adults.
      Nobody “does it perfectly” so to again gaslight these adults who suffer now is just another slap in these adult children’s face telling them THEY alone are the problem and not daddy’s secret porn addiction or him avoiding the family using work as the excuse or mommy ignoring problems for her comfort cuz she didn’t like conflict.
      Denying the reality of modeling being the real teacher so if you see issues with your kids…own it in yourself or the lack of skills YOU failed to teach them as they had a different brain that require a parent to SEARCH for a different way.
      but the rose colored glasses only seeing the positive and the denial of the fact that being a parent we inflicts damage to our kids in our anger, our needing to be right, our inability to stay humble or our inability to stand against insanity of the other parent and us just being human ALSO prevents growth.

    • @Lifetimelearningisbrave
      @Lifetimelearningisbrave 2 місяці тому

      It’s a very observable fact that maladaptive coping mechanisms, childhood trauma, secret family addictions, neglect, abuse, lies, lack of trust, poor parental relationship dynamics, gaslighting in families and developmental needs not being met will AFFECT a child’s life.
      To pretend and gaslight yourself that this isn’t an observable Truth maybe you could see it plainly in “those other families” that fail their responsibility of meeting the most basic of needs of their kids or farm them out to less qualified people.
      If you as parents fail to work out the shortcomings in your life your kids carry that cross into their lives. Telling your kids will have no effect as modeling a daily behavior gets into their soul and if you have too much shame or denial to admit your failing then honey, hate to break it to you, but the problems your kids have later in life will start to loook very familiar to you if you are able to be honest (if they even tell you about then as most hide it from families that take no responsibility for their tribe failings)
      Blaming parents after 23 years old and not taking on the burden of the maladaptive skills and unintended consequences of our parents mistakes keep us stuck in generational dysfunction.
      Denying the reality of modeling being the real teacher so if you see issues with your kids…own it in yourself or the lack of skills YOU failed to teach them as they had a different brain that require a parent to SEARCH for a different way.
      but the rose colored glasses only seeing the positive and the denial of the fact that being a parent we inflicts damage to our kids in our anger, our needing to be right, our inability to stay humble or our inability to stand against insanity of the other parent and us just being human ALSO prevents growth.

    • @Lifetimelearningisbrave
      @Lifetimelearningisbrave 2 місяці тому

      It’s a very observable fact that maladaptive coping mechanisms, childhood trauma, secret family addictions, neglect, abuse, lies, lack of trust, poor parental relationship dynamics, gaslighting in families and developmental needs not being met will AFFECT a child’s life.
      To pretend and gaslight yourself that this isn’t an observable Truth maybe you could see it plainly in “those other families” that fail their responsibility of meeting the most basic of needs of their kids or farm them out to less qualified people.
      If you as parents fail to work out the shortcomings in your life your kids carry that cross into their lives. Telling your kids will have no effect as modeling a daily behavior gets into their soul and if you have too much shame or denial to admit your failing then honey, hate to break it to you, but the problems your kids have later in life will start to loook very familiar to you if you are able to be honest (if they even tell you about then as most hide it from families that take no responsibility for their tribe failings)
      Blaming parents after 23 years old and not taking on the burden of the maladaptive skills and unintended consequences of our parents mistakes keep us stuck in generational dysfunction.
      Denying the reality of modeling being the real teacher so if you see issues with your kids…own it in yourself or the lack of skills YOU failed to teach them as they had a different brain that require a parent to SEARCH for a different way.
      but the rose colored glasses only seeing the positive and the denial of the fact that being a parent we inflicts damage to our kids in our anger, our needing to be right, our inability to stay humble or our inability to stand against insanity of the other parent and us just being human ALSO prevents growth.

    • @kuki1053
      @kuki1053 Місяць тому

      True. But I would like to acknowledge the part they played in who I became. As an adult I see just what actions and choices I made primarily because of the things I learnt from my parents. They aren't to blame for my life and actions but they sure did influence them in a way. I say that because we are influenced by those we are closest to.

  • @sherrybwildfire2550
    @sherrybwildfire2550 3 місяці тому +3

    Funny!!! Thank you. Truth and humor. 😂 Regarding people "sinking" you work there: you have anointing on your life. We can use it for Him, or not. Be expectant for what He can do through you.

  • @sherrihicks8466
    @sherrihicks8466 2 місяці тому

    Thank you, Pastor i really needed this humor this morning ❤ God Bless You 🙌 🙏

    • @focusonthefamilymarriage
      @focusonthefamilymarriage  2 місяці тому

      We're glad you found the video helpful @sherrihicks8466. God bless you as well!
      -Luna H.

  • @NetteParker
    @NetteParker 2 місяці тому +1

    This is a great message. I’m glad this video showed on my page.

  • @Leticia-ti7vg
    @Leticia-ti7vg 3 місяці тому +18

    “Child number two”!!! It’s sooo true😂😂😂

    • @Anna-Tullie
      @Anna-Tullie 3 місяці тому

      Oh dear.. 😂😂

    • @JMCCOWAN
      @JMCCOWAN 2 місяці тому

      Mine was backwards. First born as the second and second as the first!

  • @tiffanybittman7523
    @tiffanybittman7523 3 місяці тому +6

    He is so right

  • @veronalipka3597
    @veronalipka3597 3 місяці тому +11

    That on which we feed, we become. PVEL.

  • @chrisb3017
    @chrisb3017 3 місяці тому +8

    Needed this week

  • @ShellyGraham-wk9vy
    @ShellyGraham-wk9vy 3 місяці тому +3

    Just what I needed to hear.

  • @rudomwadiwa2183
    @rudomwadiwa2183 Місяць тому

    This is great 🎉. lessons and laughter

  • @cristinarodriguez2441
    @cristinarodriguez2441 3 місяці тому +2

    Very useful message . Thank You! 🙏

    • @focusonthefamilymarriage
      @focusonthefamilymarriage  3 місяці тому

      We're glad you found the broadcast useful @cristinarodriguez2441! God bless you!
      -Luna H.

  • @springlove231
    @springlove231 3 місяці тому +16

    My child nmbe 1 was a total strong willed mess. Child number 2 was exactly the opposite.

  • @AmberFuller-McDade
    @AmberFuller-McDade 3 місяці тому +6

    Do you talk to a couples that are not local who are struggling in their marriage?

  • @paulettestearns6770
    @paulettestearns6770 3 місяці тому +3

    This is awesome!!!!👏🏻

  • @marie4585
    @marie4585 3 місяці тому +1

    great sermon and true!

  • @jackandjill9065
    @jackandjill9065 3 місяці тому +2

    Love this!

  • @angis4965
    @angis4965 3 місяці тому +157

    When you live with a narcissist, this doesn't work. I had to create boundaries to keep myself sane.

    • @gaylahoyt
      @gaylahoyt 3 місяці тому +7

      Ditto

    • @amberdetwiler9786
      @amberdetwiler9786 3 місяці тому +7

      That is true

    • @getraf
      @getraf 3 місяці тому +35

      Is there any chance the narcissist isn’t the only selfish one in the marriage? 🤔

    • @sofiabravo1994
      @sofiabravo1994 3 місяці тому +56

      We are all narcissistic by nature obviously some more than others but I just think this word is thrown around way too much.

    • @jacobfehr102
      @jacobfehr102 3 місяці тому

      Amen​@@sofiabravo1994

  • @arthurblennerhassett429
    @arthurblennerhassett429 3 місяці тому +6

    Yea! Woods, knife, canteen. That's me.

  • @robynwheeler7793
    @robynwheeler7793 11 днів тому

    Amen 🙏

  • @manaiafarrelly
    @manaiafarrelly 3 місяці тому +1

    I love this sooo much ❤

  • @vanessamurch1707
    @vanessamurch1707 3 місяці тому +4

    Brilliant 😂

  • @syrwatdkhar6494
    @syrwatdkhar6494 2 місяці тому

    Amen

  • @francisomohjones2899
    @francisomohjones2899 3 місяці тому +12

    We blame everyone and everything around us but we don't blame ourselves for our actions

  • @mvranch9753
    @mvranch9753 2 місяці тому

    I needed this one!😂

  • @robynwheeler7793
    @robynwheeler7793 11 днів тому

    Hilarious 😂

  • @Ella03434
    @Ella03434 4 дні тому

    4:15 nothing gives me more life than my babies

  • @unicemarquez9850
    @unicemarquez9850 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for 😂😅

  • @traciebecker6669
    @traciebecker6669 2 місяці тому +1

    Great teaching. If the couple can listen and apply. I shared this on my Facebook. Thank you. I am 67 and widowed.

  • @hazeleyez9144
    @hazeleyez9144 2 місяці тому +12

    Love it ....but don't support Disney, go on a real vacation together that will honor God while you are doing it.

  • @ariadnehendricks9529
    @ariadnehendricks9529 3 місяці тому +4

    ❤🔥

  • @Erick-di9gm
    @Erick-di9gm 2 місяці тому

    Single life rules, freedom!

    • @kaijukebox
      @kaijukebox 2 місяці тому

      The joy of singleness does not last, but enjoy this phase, some mature past it, some die in it lonely.

  • @wetpainticecream
    @wetpainticecream 2 місяці тому +1

    in France we dont have regular light bulbs anywhere in any store...

  • @april7797
    @april7797 3 місяці тому +2

    God gave us Twins 😆 to set us straight

  • @quietboy4575
    @quietboy4575 3 місяці тому

    💚

  • @tbh5207
    @tbh5207 Місяць тому

    How does this all.work when the spouse is a habitual liar and gaslighter? 30 yrs laster after being busy raising babies, working like crazy to go from poverty to lower-middle class and I'm realizing the person I gave all my prime years to, grandfather of 4 cannot stop lying and and gaslighting! Almost in his 60s!?!?!

    • @focusonthefamilymarriage
      @focusonthefamilymarriage  Місяць тому

      @tbh52-7, we're sorry you're going through a difficult time. Unfortunately, we’re not able to provide counseling by email, text messaging, or through social media channels. We’ve found that writing or texting isn’t an effective way of offering advice when complex or serious life issues are involved. As an alternative, we encourage you to speak about your situation with one of our counselors (at no cost to you). Just contact us at 1-855-771-HELP (4357) weekdays from 6:00 A.M. to 8:00 P.M. (MT). The Family Help Center staff member who answers the phone will arrange for a counselor to call you back. One of them will be in touch just as soon as they’re able. You may also request a callback by visiting our Counseling Consultation & Referrals page - bit.ly/3olAU3N. We hope this is helpful.
      -Luna H

  • @southernbassngyrl
    @southernbassngyrl 3 місяці тому +4

    Pastor Voddie Bauchman or RickWarren.... never Olsen or whatever his name is.

    • @JML542
      @JML542 3 місяці тому +4

      I'd agree with Voddie, but not Rick or Olsteen.

    • @robynlujan2250
      @robynlujan2250 2 місяці тому

      He said it as a joke, because Osteen is a prosperity teacher, who teaches nothing but feel goods. He's saying those who watch the news need a pick me up (which is guaranteed by listening to Osteen)...he seemed to be taking a jab at Osteen.

    • @cbotha378
      @cbotha378 2 місяці тому

      Same here. How very sad that this is the only thing been commented on from this wonderful teaching.... Sjo people, where are our hearts? God will be the judge, he is love and just. Let our focus be just on Him.

  • @DeborahJoshua24
    @DeborahJoshua24 3 місяці тому +21

    Not Joel O’steen!!

    • @AusyG
      @AusyG 3 місяці тому +5

      IKR that's definitely not a good source for biblically sound uplifting 😂

    • @JML542
      @JML542 3 місяці тому +2

      Agreed! Ugh. But much of the rest is brilliant, lol

    • @fashionscentts
      @fashionscentts 3 місяці тому +2

      😂 He was telling a joke

    • @cbotha378
      @cbotha378 2 місяці тому

      How very sad that this is the only thing been commented on from this wonderful teaching.... Sjo guys, where are our hearts? God will be the judge, he is love and just. Let our focus be on Him.

  • @aleah4610
    @aleah4610 3 місяці тому

    💯👏👏👏✝️

  • @marie4585
    @marie4585 3 місяці тому +3

    Stop showing me Democratic ads! It will not change my mind anyway! And it makes me mad to see them. Makes me like them less! I hope UA-cam sees this since it won't let me protest any other way.

  • @johnnyb3245
    @johnnyb3245 2 місяці тому +1

    The correct answer is Jesus plus nothing

  • @jocelyngoerzen2790
    @jocelyngoerzen2790 3 місяці тому +3

    This sounds good ... except human relationships just don't work quite like this. Basics of respect and consideration are required for trust and vulnerability to follow. Fundamental needs have to be met.

  • @ivetajordanov3807
    @ivetajordanov3807 3 місяці тому +3

    Why do they have those pyramids in the background?

    • @WhaSup70x7
      @WhaSup70x7 3 місяці тому +2

      My guess is the triangles are to represent mountains, I believe this is on Colorado.

    • @ezace7548
      @ezace7548 3 місяці тому +1

      Do you see pyramids or triangles…..?

    • @lprescott131
      @lprescott131 3 місяці тому

      I had the same question...

    • @karenkumakanga1043
      @karenkumakanga1043 3 місяці тому

      I noticed the 'pyramids too' till I saw that they were just a really cool design 😅

    • @joshgordon7811
      @joshgordon7811 3 місяці тому

      Illuminati came out with a more modern logo

  • @pastorsammyaloo8719
    @pastorsammyaloo8719 2 місяці тому

    A sermon without any Bible verse read!!

    • @hazeleyez9144
      @hazeleyez9144 2 місяці тому

      Actually he quoted some Bible verses

    • @hazeleyez9144
      @hazeleyez9144 2 місяці тому

      Actually he quoted some Bible verses

  • @AfiDeSouza-qf6nf
    @AfiDeSouza-qf6nf 3 місяці тому +2

    Some of the couples cant. Because what ever you try doing One of them, Is a sick person.

  • @peace7267
    @peace7267 3 місяці тому

    Yeah is good but message but not real,,,,, each person is different and will never fit your mold,