I don’t agree that you need to abandon this collective wisdom that was successful in raising you and giving you the value system that you have because you’re being married. I think that you can honor your husband and still be able to ask your parents who are your rock for so many years what their opinions are- what’s wrong with that? Now you should not be telling your parents intimate details about your spouse and the final decision should be made by the husband and wife, but asking for help or asking for a good opinion from someone who’s not emotionally involved is not a bad thing, especially if they’re Christians. Marriage can be a little nerve-racking, but it’s something you choose. Nobody forces you to do it and I think that distinction is important. The couple that being interviewed sound like they had a solid family and they vetted their choices so they should trust the process, especially if they both born again Christians.
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I don’t agree that you need to abandon this collective wisdom that was successful in raising you and giving you the value system that you have because you’re being married. I think that you can honor your husband and still be able to ask your parents who are your rock for so many years what their opinions are- what’s wrong with that? Now you should not be telling your parents intimate details about your spouse and the final decision should be made by the husband and wife, but asking for help or asking for a good opinion from someone who’s not emotionally involved is not a bad thing, especially if they’re Christians. Marriage can be a little nerve-racking, but it’s something you choose. Nobody forces you to do it and I think that distinction is important. The couple that being interviewed sound like they had a solid family and they vetted their choices so they should trust the process, especially if they both born again Christians.