why men can get stuck in a loop of short-term relationships | Leyla on Relationships

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  • Опубліковано 11 вер 2024

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  • @leyla_oldschool
    @leyla_oldschool  Місяць тому

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  • @user-ub9gu1ol4z
    @user-ub9gu1ol4z 16 днів тому +1

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  • @sophiaisabelle01
    @sophiaisabelle01 Місяць тому +3

    I guess nobody really settles for anything serious these days. Everyone wants to keep it casual. Nothing too serious, and nothing that's deep that could cause some friction in whatever relationship they're in.

    • @leyla_oldschool
      @leyla_oldschool  Місяць тому

      You have no idea from how many people I've heard this same statement. Good people are out there hun. I know so many of them!! Both men & women!
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  • @ursagantar
    @ursagantar Місяць тому +3

    timestaps
    01:18 - how long is a short term relationship
    01:55 - reasons why you attract such relationships as a man
    05:16 - there is a thin line when it's a manipulation and when it is not
    06:32 - what kind of man chooses short term relationships?
    08:54 - how can you predict that the women you chose won't leave you
    11:50 - what are women going through right now?
    15:00 - how to become a man who is able to attract long term relationship?

  • @masterh9795
    @masterh9795 Місяць тому

    I think its for both, the thing is that most women do not find most men attractive on the surface. And the dating game right now is all about the short, the reel, the tiktok. There's so much you cant communicate with a few pictures and 5 words. Hence the whole 'are we dating the same guy' forums. These guys that have all this access have no problem using women as fleshlights. So in turn many women end up with this resentment, sometimes its not even personal experience but just an echo chamber.

  • @zahrahussain5525
    @zahrahussain5525 Місяць тому +1

    9 years of love, respect, loyalty & all sorts of highs & lows. When the time came to actually get married & be together he cheated, came out to be a bi. My heart wasn't strong enough to accept it & forgive him so I just went silent & left. And I know this scar on my heart won't heal that easily, well... maybe some part of it might with time & some part will never.

  • @aGoodJoe789
    @aGoodJoe789 Місяць тому +1

    It's all fun and games until one person develops genuine feelings during short-term relationships...

  • @aleksandarb
    @aleksandarb Місяць тому +1

    Men like this are doing it right, going for solely short-term relationships. Normal hormonal balance equates to such behavior, that is good.

  • @supermariosu
    @supermariosu Місяць тому

    18:57 i got happy and sad at the same time, because you are not going after me. I think i will be ready to date in a few years. Maybe less, and around 4 for marriage. I will just focus on working on myself for now. Still thinking about the picnic idea, but dont wanna give expectations to others yet. First to get a better job while exercising and keep studying. Reducing hs on the pc will come with that, as i would have less time for it. Im the one who cooks at home too, so i can also eat as healthy as possible.

    • @leyla_oldschool
      @leyla_oldschool  Місяць тому +1

      It is very very good that you are self conscious!🤍 It's all gonna be alright!

  • @_xBrokenxDreamsx_
    @_xBrokenxDreamsx_ Місяць тому

    good women earned their way out of the need for marriage and the bad women just want your money.

  • @matten_zero
    @matten_zero Місяць тому +1

    If the women have an income standard that is shallow why should a man pick women like that? If the woman can provide for the family why is that so bad? The man can provide the physical security etc.

  • @matten_zero
    @matten_zero Місяць тому +2

    Try dating as someone who has no job and isnt heading anywhere but is ok with that. I really encourage yall to try it to see how pathetic it really is. Your confidence in dating should be attached to money because it is an indication of your power to take energy and resources towards your own goals.

  • @PSOpwnage
    @PSOpwnage Місяць тому

    Lets be honest most women want their cake and to eat it too. Most men are aware if your 25+ and still single as a women you choose to be. Therefore its not worth it in most cases. Why commit to somebody that didnt make the choice to go after family over everything else.

  • @larrypetersen427
    @larrypetersen427 Місяць тому

    "Keep Up The Fire "

  • @DarielManlubatan
    @DarielManlubatan Місяць тому

    fax

  • @matten_zero
    @matten_zero Місяць тому +1

    All the good women are already married after 30. The rest are not relationships material, same goes for men

    • @robis7238
      @robis7238 Місяць тому

      facts.

    • @2DarkHorizon
      @2DarkHorizon Місяць тому +1

      not true. THere are alot of men and women with littel dating experience past 30 these days. I think people are maturing at a much slower rate.

    • @PSOpwnage
      @PSOpwnage Місяць тому

      25*

  • @allanwatts8361
    @allanwatts8361 Місяць тому +1

    you're so pretty!!!!1

  • @ThousandairesClub
    @ThousandairesClub Місяць тому +1

    *Men need to focus on their goals and let relationships happen organically....and when it does happen, don't over invest. spend at least a year with her, have one child, see how she is as a mother and then you can decide if you wanna marry her, which isn't something Everybody should do!!!*

  • @juancastro3622
    @juancastro3622 Місяць тому

    In other words: The responsible is you, you and you. XD This woman knew about feminism? Female profane?