Why I don't fear death (and you shouldn't either)
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The last words my dad said to me were” Oh Sandy…….it’s SO beautiful”
I can still hear him 26 years later💙
Nobody can ask for a more perfect experience in closure.
Wow you’re so lucky to have caught those words and feelings 🌟
Thank you for sharing this.
68 here and lost my fear years ago. I fear losing my loved ones and pets (still recovering from the loss of my beloved 19 year old cat 6 months ago), pain and financial challenges making life more difficult... but dying? The older I get the less I fear it. If a lot of us dare to admit it I think many look forward to the end of the hardships and suffering in this world. I'm not suicidal...my health is good and I'll plug away here until it's my time. Nurse Julie is truly heaven sent.
@@gobsmacked230 78 & SO TRUE NO FEAR THE ONLY FEAR I HAVE IS A TOO LONG DEATH OF LIFE
I don’t fear dying. I just fear suffering miserably right before I die.
What about missing out on what you want to do?
If my quality of life gets that bad, there's a nice High Bridge right down the road.
Yes I did too! However now hearing from Nurse Julie the natural process of a body shutting down makes sense to me as I also watched my father pass away and though he was on pain killers he did go in peace, but before he passed he opened his eyes in astonishment stated his deceased daughter (my sister) and husband by name as if he was actually seeing them waiting for him at the end of his hospice bed! I truly believe in GOD, JESUS, and The HOLY SPIRIT for an eternal LIFE! ✝✝❤❤🙏🙏
Most.likely if we mostly all go to hell it won't be good....
Yeh because we're not all going to die in a hospital bed loaded up on morphine
“I'm not afraid of death, I just don't want to be there when it happens.” ~Woody Allen
Loser
Btw this nurse is hot, right?
@@PankZhanna What exactly has he done?
I wish USA taught these concepts in their man made religions & CULTures!
oh come one anything coming out of Woody Allen is pathetic.
Our 34 year old son died 16 months ago after struggling with depression and addiction since his teens. We did everything possible to help Alex. I pray that Julie is right.
May God give you comfort, conformation and understanding
I feel the same way everyday the justice system has me by the balls to. I’ve attempted it over 15 times and failed. If I can’t even unalive myself right then what’s this life for?
@@Anonymous-lq2bs I want to reach out to you but all I can offer is friendship. I don't know the answer to such suffering you're going through but Anonymous I'm thinking of you ♥️
Wow. So sad. I am that age as well.
My condolences to you and your family. I pray God provides the strength and peace you need 🙏🏻❤️✨
I don't fear death. I fear a prolonged illness that turns me into a burden on my family.
In Canada we have MAID ;)
I'm also terrified of the possibility of ending up trapped in my body and being a prisoner inside it too.
@@Anubis424242
That's an extremely rare condition. Heart disease and cancer are not.
Take plenty of vitamin C and D, get serum D checked yearly. Avoid carbs and alcohol.
It's not a burden to take care of a family member in need. It's not easy. It may be even frustrating. It can set your plans back or affect your own life. But it's not a burden. To ease a loved person's life is a different kind of fulfilment. It's as serious as it gets. You take care of someone like that you acquire a different kind of strength.
@@snowbird6855 No it isn't a rare condition. This could happen to anyone from an injury or illness very easily.
I don’t fear death. I fear suffering.
Quite! 💛
Same! I hope when my time comes, it will be quick.
Coward.
The whole life is suffering!
Same here
No fear here. I’ve witnessed the end of life for every family member, my sweet partner, many friends. My life is lived fully conscious my end is coming with no denial and I’m living a bold life that scares the hell out of most. Grateful to have been there for many when they needed me and no one else showed up 🙏🏼
I can SO relate. when my sister passed away in August of 2022, I felt the same assurance. My husband of 35 years and I were climbing a large mountain in the dark, pulling a camper...it felt like slow motion. I had just lost my sister a few hours before. As we ascended this large hill, the BIGGEST, BRIGHTEST shooting star flew across the sky. We both saw it and both burst into tears. With that flash we both heard her say she was OK, and that the other side was amazing. Epic. Lots of people made comments like "lots of shooting stars that time of year" etc,trying to diminish what we experienced. Truly epic. It was NOT just a shooting star.❤💦
My mom passed away just after 7AM on March 1st of this year. When I came home a few hours later from the rehab facility, her hibiscus plant had nine huge yellow flowers that had bloomed. That plant never had more than a few flowers ever bloom at one time. I was awestruck...
It was a sign, I'm not a very superstitious person and I might not ascribe the same meaning but If you say it is a sign I will accept that. Plenty of people say similar things, and who am I to judge. BTW, my father passed on 5/20/24 at 12:40 am. My wife woke up right around that time, I did also but I'm more of a restless sleeper. She believes it was a sign. Me? I believe he's OK for other reasons. For me it's a more assessment thing, but too me it's just a different way of seeing things.
@@thomasdeebel6695 I agree with you. Knowing my mom, it was her way of sending me a message. We used to talk about that plant and we both used to admire its beauty.
One thing I think about now, after almost three months have passed, what happens to that energy? Does it dissipate? The hibiscus has returned to its normal pattern.
I get the feeling that it was a parting message...
I fear disability and pain, not death.
Yes, same here. It's not the actual death part, it's the possibility of pain, suffering and agony to that point.
I fear losing my mind. My mother had Alzheimer’s.
Same here. My dad (big guy) was paralyzed from the chest down for three months before passing away (metastatic prostate cancer). Very very tough situation. I'm so afraid of the same situation happening with me.
Me too.
I just fear leaving my children behind. I grew up motherless for the most part. I don't want that for them.
Hospice caregivers are truly ANGELS!! Thank you!
They can be, there are also some who are pure evil.
An Australian documentary with hidden camera footage showed some horrific happenings.
Spitting in their mouth, wiping their bottom then rubbing it on their faces...truely horrendous.
And these nurses although being fired, and sanctioned (imprisoned) will, after serving a few years disqualification, he able to work as carers once again.
"Fascinating and comforting"
.... and terrifying
I am sure some are angels, but my hospice team refused to supply me with any pain relief. Before I signed with them, they said don't worry, we will provide you with adequate pain relief. Then after I I am under their care, they say sorry, we can't provide any pain relief.
Working as a critical care flight nurse, one the patient we were transporting was dying. She was an elderly female. She opened her eyes and had a big smile on her face and asked me "Do you see them?" I said what do you see? and she looked around still with this beautiful smile and said, "All the angels around us" I was amazed and truly believed her. She looked so peaceful and accepting what was happening to her. Meanwhile we are at 3,000 ' I admit, I felt her peace. When you fly in a helicopter it can be noisy in the cab. But it seemed to silence the sounds and I felt like I was being hugged by those angels. She definitely felt the same way. It's one transport I will never forget. Even thinking about it gives me peace.
I dont fear death...I fear leaving my children behind in this crazy world once I'm gone
My father died suddenly from a heart attack in 1978. Everyone was in shock. That night I heard his voice clearly say I’m alright take care of your mother. My mother died in 2021. The hospital called me to tell me. As I hung up the phone I clearly heard her voice saying I’m alright I am with dad and we are at peace. I saw them both in my minds eye sitting by their favorite lake shoreline. I’m at peace with them and death.
Do you often hear voices?
It’s funny my dad died at 49 when I was 20 and I didn’t hear or see a damn thing.
@@chrismathis4162 some people are gifted with the ability to hear voices inside their head
It's how we(our brain) cope with the death of our loved ones. It's not actually messages.
God gave you that gift. Do whatever you can to walk the path to Heaven. Help others get there as well. God bless you.
I suffered from mental illness most of my life. Not long after my Dad passed I found myself at the end of my rope. I was cycling through mania and depression and drinking heavily. I even attempted suicide. One afternoon I passed out on my bed and had a dream that changed my life. In it my Dad came to me and said in the most gentle way "I've come to take you home". It was strange because I had never dreamed about him before. After years of trying to prove I was okay I gave up my home, my job, everything. I came home and found the help I needed. That was 20 years ago and now I'm living my best life. I don't tell many people about it. In life my Dad and I had a strained relationship it's amazing that after his death he saved me. It makes me not fear death because I know it's not the end.
What a beautiful story, thank you for sharing that. Hope you are well.
Jesus.❤
Beautiful ❤ I am proud of you for your sobriety. Stay well. 😊
Thank you. Beautiful post.
God loves you so much its not even measurable
The thought of being dead doesn’t scare me. If there’s a heaven, it’ll be wonderful. If there’s nothing, that’s good too. What terrifies me is dying how my mother did - months of being in home hospice, bedridden and begging for us to put her out of her misery. May we all die suddenly in our sleep after a marvelous life.
Absolutely! Just let me go to sleep and not wake up. Had a blessed and rewarding life. Battling cancer, the thought of suffering is what scares the crap outta me.
@@harrygearhart4520 I’m sorry to hear about your cancer. If it doesn’t offend you I will pray for a good transition for you. I’m not a holy-roller but I think there might be something after we leave this place.
@@cheryljunkin3531 I think there is life after death, and thank you for the thoughts! A prayer to the Creator is welcome too. If you have time? Read "Soul Survivor" it really opened my eyes to reincarnation. Stay safe😀
month ago ahh said pray on chest off 42 old sam morrisson and did 777 two times as god number.- On his death notice it said he born 7th october 1980 and died 7th may 2024 7 months after october
I saw a friend die without Hospice and there were nurses in her family. She died an embarrassing, painful, horrific death from cancer and it was so unnecessary. Give me morphine AND then give me death, and only when the time comes. No reason to die in horrible pain unless family, friends, medical folks ALL drop the ball.
My Mother passed away in hospice and she was completely at peace, and cheerful, with the entire process. When it's my time to depart my Mom will be my model and who I will emulate. My hero!
OMG my mom is my hero too! So cool how your mom acted.
Nurse Julie!! My neighbor died in hospice. The day she left I asked her if she would try to let me know what it was like. She told me she would and she would also visit her grandson George.
The next morning I was planting a tree and she was hovering above it in her little blue nightgown, she was so happy as she imparted her joy to me and telepathically said "this is good."
George came over later that day. He said "you are the only person that will believe me but Nan came to me today in her little blue nightgown. " I told him that she visited me too and.......we hugged forever and cried such tears of joy and love for my dear friend and George's sweet Nan. ❤
That's such a beautiful story! 💕
If we are spirits after we die why would we have need of clothing? Why would she need a blue nightgown if the physical body is dead and the spirit is alive? Perhaps for the sake of recognition? I don't doubt your story but I think my question is legit.
@@FriendofDorothy I've read that when spirits appear to people, they appear how they looked in real life, but at any age and any outfit they choose. Who wants to see a naked ghost? 😱
@@FriendofDorothy if you find someone that has the answer - let us know.
@@FriendofDorothy Ghost clothes do exist
I'm from a Christian family, and my dad had cancer and was only 6 weeks away from dying of it, when we all found out he had it. He died in hospice and a couple of hours after he died, (he was a caretaker and groundskeeper at 2 churches), my sister heard him saying to her, "you should see the flowers up here. The colors are so bright." We believe he's in heaven.
Wow, I stopped crying so much after my mother coming to me in a dream after she passed, and told me to stop crying because she said it's so beautiful and the flowers are beautiful and that she was ok😢😢😢
Great story and thanks for sharing it. The afterlife is a new topic of interest for me and stories like this are awesome.
@@IHaveNoLife-nc8wj They are not real though
@@M896 Please provide the evidence that drew you to that conclusion. I just want to be fair and see it from both sides. So whatcha got? :)
I lost my mum to cancer in January 2016. She was in a local hospice. She told me that somebody came for her in her subconscious state. She asked my mum to go with her but my mum was scared and turned back. Yes,I know that she would have been on drugs, etc, and this can cause hallucinations, etc. At my mum's wake, her best friend told me something bizarre. She told me that she got up in the night to get a drink from the fridge. She turned around, and there was my mum beautifully dressed with makeup on and looked so healthy and young. My mum lost a lot of weight because of her cancer and she looked very ill. My mum's friend asked her if she'd gone and my mum answered 'not yet.' It wasn't all of my mum's body. My mum lost her fight the following day. Now, I truly believe that somebody comes for you, but it's your 'guardian angel.' They then take you to see your loved ones who have crossed over. Thank you.
My mother's eyes changed colors one week before she died. I was not there when she died but the nurse's aide said she wanted to clean up and then she went back to sleep and that was it. She had been preparing to go for weeks.
Strive to be the best at what you do, make friends easily, help others, and don't expect anything in return. That is my mantra as I get older and move through retirement. It is to help family and friends and live a healthy life in this final stage of life.
That’s a beautiful message. Is there anything you wish you would have done differently if you could go back to your younger years, specifically your 30s?
@@LovelornLoveThorns yEAH, INVESTED MORE MONEY IN MY 401K. lol
I don't fear death because I have a Savior in Jesus Christ.
That's fine,but I believe in my own religion as much as you believe in yours.
Hallelujah Jesus is the only way 🙏🏻🥰God bless
Thanks.
Amen! Don't listen to the scoffers
@@Jen-wo6on if you were born and raised in india youd be saying the exact same thing about brahma, krishna and vishnu
Thank you Julie for these videos. As a person who has about 2 more months to live, I will MAKE SURE that I know. God is love and I want to make sure He knows me. 😄
🫂🕊️🙏❤️🕯️🫂
Praying that you feel God's love throughout your journey.❤
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
You'll be just fine, I know it. God bless ♥️
I hope there's are a million beautiful Great Danes up there waiting to greet you.
While I don't fear death, I DO fear getting older, and losing my independence; there's no family to even take care of me, so I'll most likely end up wandering the streets when I can't work anymore.
Oh honey don’t believe that. There is nothing that God can’t do! He loves you and wants to take care of you, if you will let Him and trust Him for it. 🙏🙏🙏❤️
I can tell you not to worry. I’m in that situation, 9 cancer surgeries, 2 spinal fusions, and a few other misc in between. I couldn’t go back to my job of 28 years, no longer allowed to drive. I lost both parents to cancer and my brother. I was a non stop human, active always, liked my job and then my life changed. I have had a lot of help via home nurses, I’ve had deliveries for my everyday needs and have made friends with some of the sweet delivery workers that they actually check to see if I need anything and have picked up my meds for me. It was hard the first year, but I’ve adapted and after all that I found such a peace to have this time for myself to heal. This goes out to anyone ready these posts, you are not alone in life. Please reach out if you are struggling 🩷🩷🩷
It's not good to fear the future. Things are exponentially worse in your mind than what they might be in reality.
In your mind, it's likely you feel helpless and hopeless about what might happen. In reality, your fears might not actually happen. Even if they do, you have much more control over your situation when it's actually happening.
I will be in the exact same situation
Edit: I am in pain from previous injuries. Two bulging disc in my back and neck, scatica in my leg, rotator cuff surgery.............haven't worked in over year, after my mother dies, probably within the next 5 years, I will probably end myself
Thank you Julie. You are such a breath of fresh air.
Love you sister, thanks again.💖🤗🌻✝️
I don't fear death out of a sense of trepidation for myself, I fear it for who I'll leave behind. Their fear, their pain. There is no comfort that dulls that.
Especially our kids,
@@josephinekilungya1889 how did your mother deal with her mother's death? How did you deal with it (if relevant)? Your kids will do the same, don't worry too much.
Thank you so much! Don’t know how I found your channel but glad I did! I’m 53 facing a cancer dx and don’t know what to do. I have 4 grown kids 6 grandkids and I’m so lost. I was tough and strong I was a Green Beret and Ranger, I never needed help I helped! Now I sit and hide as I go through this journey, not want to let anyone know I’m scared to death it hit me this might be it! I have faith and all but I still want to be and do so much for my family yet I can’t. This weakness is something I’m not use to! Sorry for rambling but thank you for what you do!! You’re a special person!!
Ron, I am going to pray for you right now. And also tell you there are a lot of breakthroughs with regards to cancer treatment. My mom was dx with stage four metastasized breast cancer, which went to bone cancer. Told she had a few months to live. That was almost 8 years ago. She takes ibrance , as well gets infused. It's not painless and she struggles at times, she is 77 though. Hang in there.
@@mythoughts6922 ❤️❤️
Ron learn to fast. Fasting rids the body of all toxins. If you're not used to it do it for a day then increase. Eat nothing and drink water. No sugery foods or sweets. Cancer feeds on processed foods.. You'll be glad you did. Don't give up and stay positive! Meditate and clear your thoughts. It works for many. Research it please.
@ronbenjamin4351 if youre reading this look into sound wave frequency therapy to kill the cancer cells
You have nothing to be ashamed of, we all feel fear no matter the background you come from. It's called being human! Take each day as it comes, just as everybody should do. Because non of us know when it will be our last moment. I was diagnosed with Cancer in 2022 and it didn't look good for me, yet I'm still here and my Doctor who diagnosed me, died last year in his early 50s. You are never alone!
As a hospice music therapist I had the privilege of treating a patient who left me a beautiful gift. Mr. R was lingering. He would say to me, “I don’t know why God hasn’t taken me yet.” We’d laugh about it together. We’d say our goodbyes, and the next week, there he was. I’d say, “Wait a minute, we said goodbye twice already!” He was so weak, but still he’d smile and laugh. One of my visits he told me that when he slept, the angels let him see where he was headed. He told me there aren’t words to describe it, that it was similar to here but beautiful. He spoke urgently and said, “God sent me back to tell everyone…we have to LOVE EACH OTHER. It’s more important than anything else. LOVE each other.”
I don’t fear death, either. ❤
@BaadleaBeeleBop , "hospice music therapist":? I like the sound of that. I'm still capable of living independently, but I love music. Actually started my career as an 'old-school' DJ ("..here's a little tune you might like..") before I even graduated high school. Wasn't the best musician in the world (drummer in a Punk/New Wave 'cover' hobby band), but I still love it. Music is such a source for solace. I've loved the videos I've seen of dementia patients having moments of clarity when their favorite old tunes are played. Thanks for your work, I hope there's someone like you at where I end up when I'm not independent anymore.
Wonderful. My late wife was a hospice nurse. She stayed home with me as she gradually died fairly peacefully at home from Alzheimers. I was her caretaker. She had taken care of so many and wanted to stay home.
*As a Jehovah's Witness I used to be incredibly scared of death. When I was born again and felt the Holy Spirit and the voice of God about 1 week later, I no longer feared it and instead welcomed it. Now I know where I'm going. Thank you Lord Jesus. Blessed be your holy name.*
Whatever works for you, pal
Amen
Your patient (friend) gave you a priceless gift. Thank you for sharing. I believe you.
My mother lived for six weeks after her stage four lung cancer diagnosis. She passed away at home under hospice care with her four children, two grandchildren and two nephews by her bedside. She lived with us for 15 years till she passed, and loved sitting out on the patio near a jasmine bush because she enjoyed the smell of the flowers. After her funeral in another city, when we got back home, there was a strong smell of the flowers in the house even though there no flowers in the house. Left us with a tingling feeling and a sense of comfort that she was in a good place.
She gave you a gift.❤️🌺
If you don't know Jesus. Then you need to fear death
@@cindybucholtz9642 Superstitious nonsense
@@cindybucholtz9642
Don't be arrogant & obnoxious. You don't "need Jesus" to not fear death.
@@cindybucholtz9642, 100% correct!
It's so amazing that there are so many people who claim to have no fear of death and are only afraid of the pain they have to suffer before dying.
These people have absolutely no idea that their worst fear is coming true. They really don't know what fear is when they meet the demons who know their fears better than they do. They ended up in a real party and there is no escape. The souls of these wicked people will be punished forever, suffering forever and why? because the people were so wicked, stubborn and haughty to reject the Savior of the world: The Lord Jesus Christ, Who died for the sins of all men on the cross on Calvary. His sacrifice is free for all people and yet billions of people reject His Grace and Salvation.
Incomprehensible!
I don’t fear death either. I was saved by an “angel” from boiling oil. My hand was about to fall into the pot. All of a sudden, I felt a thumb and an index pushing my wrist away. I was 24 years old. It changed my life. It felt so loving. I couldn’t stop touching my wrist for the rest of the day looking around me hoping it would happen again. If there is no life after death then who touched me? I know there is without a doubt. I also don’t tell people my story fear of being ridiculed. But it did happen. I don’t do drugs, I don’t smoke nor drink and I don’t take any medication. I did not hallucinate either. It was real. I wish this experience to anyone.
Thank you for sharing your own personal experience - one never forgets those. (I've had some)
Kinda reminded me of this quote....
“When you realize that eternity is right here and now, that it is within your possibility to experience the eternity of your own truth and being, then you grasp the following: That which you are was never born and will never die."
--- Joseph Campbell (author of Hero's Journey):
I BELEIVE YOU, I HAD EXPERIENCES
Jesus is alive. He loves us and he doesn’t want any of us to spend eternity separated from him. That was Jesus touching you.❤
@@kathyashby6019There is only one truth, and it is defined by the one and only God, Jesus.
I believe you because I have also experienced things. I have had visitations from my mother, and a few times of my mother and my father together, and once that my dad briefly showed himself to me. When I was a child, I was terrified to go to sleep because I was afraid that I would die. I was maybe 3 or 4. I had an experience of being in my backyard, and a man was with me. He picked me up and we looked at my father’s flowers, and he was telling me that I didn’t need to be afraid of dying. He said that I wouldn’t die until I was very old. I don’t know who he was but it was like I knew him before. I was very comfortable with him and he felt very loving. I have had other things happen, and I am convinced that there’s life after we die.
The beauty of life is being able to embrace and experience love.
@andrewgrosset9327.
You can't speak in those general terms. Would you still feel that way if you were in extreme agony and pain and going through mental torture?
@@redblade8160 "Negative Nelly" - google it if you don't understand!
Truly the most important thing. It’s what gives life meaning
Beautiful. Made me cry this morning. I’m 50 and still haven’t let go of my fear of death.
I thought I had. Thank you so much Julie.
May you be free from danger
May you have mental happiness
May you have physical happiness
May you have ease of well being.
❤☮️
At the end of my wifes life she had conversations with her dead mother and grandmother. I ask her who she was talking to and she said it was her mom and grandma. She past two days later at home with me while I was drying her hair after a bath she insisted on. She said "I feel dizzy" and fell back in my arms. Im a former police officer I've seen a lot of dead people and I knew she was gone despite CPR I tried until EMS arrived. She was only 52.
I am so sorry that your mom passed, and she was so young.
I'm sorry for your loss.
I wish you the best over the next few years.
Stay Strong.
I was holding my friend's hand, 94 years old on hospice, when she started talking to her husband who had passed away 45 years earlier.
It was the first night she was home from the hospital, and day one of hospice.
I knew that she was letting go, and I told her daughter to call the family to come and say goodbye.
Her daughter was quite surprised because she was sitting on the couch reading a book on how to take care of her mother while on hospice. She thought she would be on hospice for several weeks or even months.
Her mother passed away within about 20 minutes while I was holding her hand.
It was an experience that I will never forget.
Sorry for your loss, I also lost mine young at 47, managed to look after her at home until the day before she passed when I could no longer manage her pain well enough and she needed hospice care. She passed peacefully in hospice surrounded by all her loved ones and me holding her hand. In a way it was a relief she was no longer suffering as that still haunts me 4 years later. Hope you're doing ok as I know how hard it is. Best wishes going forward.
I’m so sorry for your loss & have no doubt that your dear wife is in heaven with her loved ones!
So very sorry for your loss. 😢 Amazing gifts so many receive while in the process of leaving this world and crossing over.
I fear life much more than death.
28 And fear not them which kill the body, but are not able to kill the soul: but rather fear him which is able to destroy both soul and body in hell.
Especially now days. The world is so violent. I wish people would just love one another.
@@33jwill3 LOVE IS NOT FOR THIS WORLD, BUT CARING, KANDNESS, RESPECT, EMPATHY COULD BE POSSIBLE.
Poor little you. Grow a pair dude.
@@billfarley9167 ……are you having a bad day?
Death is a dying man’s best friend…
The end of everything is a good thing but you need to accept that you are in great hands.. I believe in new beginnings. I have been blessed to know who I was in another life.. I was fortunate enough to have been given the privilege of knowing
This made me tear up. I lost my brother and father within the same year. My brother got hit by a car and it was instant, my father died by cancer. My dad was terrified of dying and my brother didn’t even know it was coming so as someone who doesn’t believe a whole lot in the afterlife, if freedom and peace is what they both felt at the end, I’m grateful for that. Thank you for sharing :)
My grandma wanted to die on her own while on hospice from her colon cancer. It spread through her body, and led to her demise. She faced death head on and it's something I respect and hope she isn't hurting anymire
I can't even imagine her pain.
I have heard hospice professionals say that with modern medicine no one should die in pain. Yet I hear time and again that loved ones have suffered pain over a prolonged period of time. This contradiction causes concern.
@@allangilchrist5938 thankfully the hospice nurses put her on morphine the last couple weeks she was alive. She wasn't as coherent but she was only taking Tylenol majority of the 7 months she was hospitalized
I firmly believe she is now at peace and PAIN FREE.
I understand exactly what you mean. My dad passed first and he was the youngest of my grandmothers children, we believe she gave up after having lost my grandfather 50 years earlier in her lifetime and losing her only son, she was heartbroken. But she requested to be at home in the house my grandfather and great uncle built in the 1940s, where they raised their family. She died at 100 years old, slowly but gracefully in her hospice bed in February of 2022. When we celebrated her birthday in June of 2021 my fiancé told her we would see her for Christmas and she told us we wouldn’t, that she was ready to die. She was bedridden by December of that year and passed two months later. My aunt told us before her passing she would often reach her hands up and say Albert, my fathers name. I couldn’t imagine a more fitting person to come whisk her away than my dad. Her death really changed my perspective of the transition.
I understand exactly what you are describing when you said you heard that gentleman's voice in your head. When my 21 year old son died, there were many, many days and nights I cried and cried and cried. One night, I was sitting at my kitchen table...just bawling... and almost could "feel" a hand on my shoulder and then "heard" my son who passed on say, almost sternly, "MOM, IT'S ALRIGHT!". I quickly turned around thinking he was behind me, that is how real it was.
This has always stayed with me and the realness of it made me 100% believe he used all his spiritual energy to communicate with me. I needed that so desperately and it has helped me so much these past 22 years since his death. 💞
Reuniting with loved ones is also helpful to not fear death.
When I was a teen, an older friend told the story of her son dying in a tractor accident and she was in prayer and weeping and she heard her son’s voice say, “Mom, it’s so beautiful here.” Thinking of you.
@marianclaassen8127 thank you for sharing that. 💞 It is very comforting knowing others have had similar experiences.
I too lost my 22-year-old son 12 years ago...A few weeks after he passed I was lying down, but not asleep yet and I felt as if someone was hugging me...I should back up, the night before I was thinking how much I missed him and especially his hugs and said something to the effect of how much I wished I could have one more hug from him...Anyway, back to the hug the next day...I wasn't sure what I was feeling or if I was imagining the hug, but a few seconds after it ended I heard my son's voice say my name...It was so real and distinct, I'll never forget it...And then something made me turn over and I saw my son sitting in a chair in my bedroom and I said, "It's you, it was you"!! and he just smiled and then faded away...I've never experienced anything more real in my life and I'll also note that I was home alone and hearing, feeling, and seeing him, did not scare or startle me in any way ( as you might think it would )...I think that's another reason I knew it was real...I haven't shared that with too many people ( for obvious reasons ), but from one mother to another I have no doubt what we experienced was our boys reaching out to us.
@Jules21567 that is beautiful, and I completely believe what you saw and heard. I also know what you mean when you said you weren't scared at all and the realness of it.
I really appreciate you sharing your story. It helps so much. 💞
Nonsense.
My son Michael died from Oesophageal cancer aged 36 in Trinity Hospice London UK.
8th September 2018.
His care was above and beyond anything I could have wished for.
A month or two before Michael died and before he went to the hospice he bought two budgies! Just because he could.. he named them Swift and Bold, after his Green Jackets motto ( he served in the British Army )
The hospice actually allowed him to have the birds in his room and he cared for them until he no longer could..
Whilst he slept the birds twittered and did whatever budgies do. He went into eternal sleep on 6th September ( his sisters birthday ) and died two days later. He never regained consciousness.
Before he died I whispered in his ear that he was about to go on an amazing journey and I was saying goodbye.
I hope he heard me 💔
The real fear is not death itself. But how you die.
death is part of life. Im from uk and have looked into death. I lost my son few years ago. my dad followed 2 yrs after. My mom is 98 and thought when lost son and dad that my mom would follow. She is still here and looks so young.
So sorry to hear, thank you for sharing ❤️
God has a plan for us all Angela.
@@realone4341 i know
Sorry for your losses and happy you still have your mom I lost my mom a few months ago
@@ricciwilson588 so sorry ive got nobody now only my son after my mom goes
Many many years ago my ex husband's grandmother passed. I was very close to her. A few months after she passed, I dreamt that we were meeting for lunch. I asked her what it was like on the other side and she said, "pet, people worry their whole life about dying, if only they realized it was another phase of life. " To this day this dream gives me comfort.
Wow I absolutely love that, thank you!
Wow I absolutely love that, thank you!
As soon as we are born, we are all destined to die. Nobody gets out of here alive! Thank you for helping all of us. ✌🏻🧡
Yes, most here are aware of that. The concern is how we check out.
@@Xeyedjohn Okay.
I'm not afraid of dying, but of how I'm going to die. I also don't want to suffer in pain and agony. Thanks for sharing your experience. It was very informative and helpful. 😊😊
“I do not fear death. I had been dead for billions and billions of years before I was born, and had not suffered the slightest inconvenience from it.”
― Mark Twain
Well thats his personal subjective experience.
I bet you dont remember your existence before birth, during birth and first 2 years of your life. I guess it proves you didn’t exist than.
@@Airbender131090 No, it’s a pure fact.
You’re missing a point there.
Fear it or don’t, you won’t remember a thing once you’re gone, ever; believe it or NOT ☠️
@@creativ3visionWell you'll either find out you're wrong and my name is true, or you'll find out nothing. Good luck! ❤
@@JesusIsLord105 Bruh… 🤦🏻♂️
There’s NOTHING there, you’ll see when you get there 💀
Then try to remember MY name 👻
First of all, Julie, thank u for what u do. I am a firefighter, first responder, and I've seen things Hollywood couldn't script. I can't say I fear death, but then u get a page out of a fatal vehicle accident, and then you question that. I needed to hear this video of peaceful passing. Thank you
comforting to hear this Julie. at 82, now i don’t worry about the pain of dying, even if from terminal cancer. but i worry about the mess of possessions i leave behind for spouse/POA to sort out (no one will care about its sentimental value to me or should they), all the financial/will/probate/tax requirements imposed by governments on those left behind. won’t be my worry! that i no longer have the opportunity to leave my mark on this world, the regrets i have about my useless life, that i never had children & grandchildren to remember me by my grave (if i even have one). i reckon i will be forgotten by all about 2 weeks after dying. all that lifetime of experience erased forever. that’s life.
No, that's not how it will be. You have a tribe---a tribe that you are not aware of right now. But they will welcome you ♥
Hi Julie, I have stage 4 breast cancer. Recurrence after 7 yrs, came back in my lungs and bones this time. Diagnosed Aug 23. I'm on targeted therapy which is keeping me stable for now. I find your videos very comforting, been a widow for 5 yrs and I asked my husband on his death bed to come and get me when it's my time. I have asked to pass in hospice not at home, feel it's less messy lol. I am living my best life at the mo, social life has never been better. As I'm from the UK we don't have to worry about the cost of hospice care either.love from Devon uk🇬🇧❤️
Prayers for you.......
Prayers for you from me too. I got breast cancer and just had my mastectomy and breast reconstruction. They said I’m now cancer free but still need radiation. Recurrence is my biggest fear but I’m learning to live life without thinking negatively. Hope the best for you in your journey
I am so sorry to hear this! Bless you! Please, please start taking turkeytail mushrooms ASAP! They will help. I know people with different cancers who it has helped. It was featured in the Netflix documentary, "Fantastic Fungi".
I will look into it
@@nmelgar74 I'm glad to hear that. I wish you the best.
I ABSOLUTElY LOVE that story.!! My DADDY died at 36 years old, I was 10…… He came to me in my bedroom to say goodbye! I woke up to a lot of my MOMs friends in the house and I knew before they told me that he died! ❤❤❤
Very similar to me my dad died when I was 9 .. a few yrs later he stood at the end of my bed…
Just wanted to say how much I love Hospice. My mom was a cancer survivor of 18 years. You folks helped us out so much.
Julie my mom passed two weeks ago in a hospice, her body shut down and we good see it. Julie you described my moms ending perfectly, she slept 20 yrs a day for a few days, we got to say good bye and the nurses made her comfortable with meds and she passed 10 hrs later with zero pain at any point. Thank you for what you and your staff do.
Having worked as a Nurse in Hospice, we KNOW that death is nothing to fear. We see death often and the peace often achieved prior to death, and seeing dying people respond to and reach out for others we can't see, but are spirit come to accompany the person into the next realm. I have zero fear of death. 😊 Thanks Julie for the education you provide to so many, so that they won't be in any fear. 🙏
My mum passed away in a hospice. As I held her . Just before she passed she reached out and pointed to something / someone I couldn't see . Thank you for mentioning this I now no what she was doing bless her ❤️
My beloved dog of 19 years shared his death with me a year and a half later. He wanted to reassure me he was ok so I wouldn’t be so sad. It helped me quite a bit.
When my old girl went I used to sing her song ( one I made up for her) and I would just FEEL her beside me
@@missfittrr ❤️
When my mother and I were at the vet's , unexpectedly putting my dog out of suffering, we watched in our minds eye's (at the same moment) my dog running excitedly to my husband who is in heaven. ;)
My cat found me too and told me how he passed too. I thought I was weird for even talking about that to others cuz they all think I’m crazy. So glad to see someone else has had the same experience. I loved my cat like my baby but had to give him to my neighbor cuz my toddler tormented him and he would run off to the neighbor’s who grew to love him. When they moved to Arkansas they begged me to let them take him. About a year later I was in bed when I felt something jump onto my bed. It was him. He lay on my belly and I was in shock but so happy all at once. I rubbed him and fell asleep. He was gone when I woke up but I knew it was his spirit and that he had passed. I couldn’t believe he found me. I moved and he never saw where I moved. But he found me. I can’t believe it. Then recently I got diagnosed with cancer and started treatment. His spirit found me again (in a new home now) and actually talked to me. He told me how he passed and said it was peaceful. Man how I loved that cat. When my dad died my daughter was four. My daughter said my dad’s spirit came to her and told her he had found Kittyboy where he had gone and that they played fetch. I know she wasn’t making it up because she knew nothing of my cat especially that he played fetch like a dog. How many cats do that?
35 yrs working in Hospice myself, I've seen so much that an afterlife is inevitable... One of my patients was reaching with a huge smile on her face and stated "so many angels...they are just beautiful!"... when my own grandmother died I heard her voice plain as day state
" its beautiful here, if only you believe!"...she was a Christian and very strong in faith.... Ive witnessed odd things many many times...love working with hospice patients!
The other side of the end-of-life is when the person does not go peacefully. My Mum fought to the end, through the anxiety meds, through the morphine, yelling out and fighting to get up out of bed until her last few hours. Gawd, it was so hard for her. She wasn't ready to go because of the fam. My fam, husband and sibling, had been such a drain on her throughout life. She babied them incessantly, sacrificing herself and her happiness for people that couldn't/wouldn't extend a similar selflessness; they couldn't even sit with her for more than half an hour in the hospital's hospice room. She fought to the end because of that sense of duty to them. I hope she has peace now.
I’m pretty sure the realization that we continue with the flow of time.. that time is what we sometimes call the hand of the Lord and that we continue with it and the state of death is not absence but instead inclusion with something greater.. I am positive that she is in a better place and that she continues with the rest of us..
good luck
My mom just died the day before Mother's Day. I didn't know she had cancer. She hid it from us and we all stood by her bed as she went home and cancer had completely destroyed her body. It's been heart breaking but today, I can feel her in my house and a supernatural connection to her and an understanding of her that I never had.
Nobody fears death UNTIL death comes knocking on your door.
Not wholly true...those who understand that their true self was actually never born have no fear of death....think about it
@@billkotas9049 chick crack, bro.
not true! i have fear death ever since i was a very young girl i have admired
those that have died if they have giving their life to Jesus i know 100% that i will be with my savior
Stupid statement.
@@obedfal What did your savior save you from?
I being married to a X hospice nurse she says the same thing you say,you are a gift keep doing what you do. Also Thank you young lady for being a special person you are so satisfying, much appreciated.
My dad died at 98. He had a brother who died when he was four years old and he was a little preacher and right before he died they were all around his bed and he said “they’re everywhere. The angels are everywhere they’re coming to get me “ died with a smile. You are definitely an angel Julie.❤
Wow that's so beautiful 😍 God bless you
My beautiful cousin just died less than an hour ago. She had cancer spread throughout her entire body. She was young and a mother one 1, and stepmother of 3. She was like a sister to me, and I LOVED her so much. She was one of my fave people on this Earth. She was AMAZING, and the strongest woman I knew. I want to be with my family, but they are in another country whilst my other family is 9 hours away. I can't get a plane ticket yet, but will be there via flight for her service which is being planned now. She will be cremated. I can't believe I'll never see or speak to my cousin again. She did not suffer. Thank you, Hospice Nurse Julie. I really needed you. 💜
@@jm7804 I don't have any family here. And my cousin's body is 9 hours away. In between waiting for calls from my aunt, I'm online looking at helpful videos. Btw, *THIS* is said with utmost DIGUST as I know troll ppl like you love it. You have absolutely NO BUSINESS saying what you said to me to ANYONE. Kindly F & O.
@@jm7804 Please get off the internet. My family is 9 hrs away, and I have no family near me; in addition usually people who've lost a loved one come to places like this for healing.
Anyone reading this: *please report* @jm7804 for the deplorable harassment of me, and my cousin who passed away today. Thank you.
Just so that you know. She is safe now.
I’m sorry
My Dad died in hospital.
We had a simple ceremony by the graveside. A real-life trumpeter sounded Last Post and Revale, and I saw a large stream of spirit-men in army uniform marching towards us. (He had been in the second world war).
Later, for a short time, a young spirit-boy (maybe five years of age) played in and around the grave.
Thank you Julie for giving me comfort, LOVE YOU !!!😊
“I do not fear death. I had been dead for billions and billions of years before I was born, and had not suffered the slightest inconvenience from it.” - Twain
You have to think too much of what he's trying to say.
Mark Twain is my favorite author! Hands down!
It's not about fearing being dead, it's about fearing dying. People who keep sharing this quote have no idea what people actually fear about death. It's the idea that you have to lay there and let your consciousness fade out of existence and there's nothing you can do about it. I've always imagined the anxiety, panic, and adrenaline feels like free falling until you fade into nothingness. Terrifying concept.
Maybe you weren't dead for billions of years before you were bourn. I've done a lot of research on reincarnation and it appears the average gap between lives can be 6 to 8 years. It's like you get a few years to rest before you reincarnate. Now this is the mind blowing bit, a woman by the name of Jenny Cockle has memories of several past lives including one from a life in the future. Witch would suggest that we not only move forward in time when we reincarnate but can go backward in time too. If so can we jump back into a pervious life and would it play out the way it did last time?
@@geoffmower8729It’s most probable that her “memories” are not genuine. Delusions.
When my grandmother passed, I wasn’t with her. That night about 3:30 in the morning I woke up and felt someone sitting on the edge of my bed.
I rolled over thinking someone was there, I immediately knew it was my grandmother letting me know she was OK. I said in my mind, I got the message grandma love you!
I went back asleep only to be woken by the ringing of the telephone at 7:30 am.
It was my mother, she said I’m sorry to tell you that grandma passed last night about 3:30.
I said, I know mom she came to visit me and she is OK.
I didnt have that specific.. but when my grandma died, it was early in the am. I was walking around outside smoking a cigarette and just had this weird hit of Deja vu like ive never had before. I just knew something was wrong. I found out she passed away about 10am from the nurses. Same thing with my mother. She died throughout the morning sometime, but i woke up at like 3-4am and just sat up in bed knowing something was wrong. I couldnt shake it.. Same deja vu feeling hit me so hard. Boom i get a call and find out she passed away. I know they contacted me. I just couldnt articulate it well.
Your grandma is safe now. It's all you need to know.
Same thing happened to me at 12.....❤
Something similar happened to me. The night my mom died I was sleeping on my side and it felt like somebody was hovering over me against my back. It didn't scare me but for some reason I didn't turn over. The next morning without me saying anything my sister asked me did it feel like somebody was in the room with u last night and I said wow you too?
Same thing when my grandpop died on April 16th, 2023. He has been close to death when we got there the day before. I was sleeping in the hotel room and suddenly I wake up “fresh” like it was day around 2:45am as if something was wrong. I see my dad and brother moving around in bed too like almost if he was touching us to say his final farewell. Even though my grandpop passed 12:30am, the time my grandmother got back to the apartment from the hospice center was 2:45. I went back for a few more hours until 6:30am, and the first thing my mom said to me as I was awaking was “My father died”…..she was on/off the phone with my aunt and my grandmother.
I don't fear death, just dying. Like Woody Allen said, I don't mind dying I just don't want to be there when it happens
Thank you for making this video. I was my mom's caregiver for over eleven years. She died on March 1st of this year at 92. Hospice care was so helpful. I am forever grateful.
Hospice caregivers really are such wonderful people. We are very lucky to have them.
All of your videos have been wonderfully informative and even comforting. I am an old nurse (68) still working. But i never worked with dying patients. Never too old to learn something new about the human body and spirit. Thank you so much.
I completely believe that personal story you had about your patients passing. I experienced my own telepathic communication with a loved one who had passed. It lasted seconds, I felt an intense heat and heard him say my name . Very comforting
I've felt something like a blanket of heat surrounding me. It was a few weeks after his passing, when I was in so much distress. It was like being given an incredibly warm full body hug. I had no beliefs in life after death at that stage, so that was interesting.
Thank you for sharing your story. Oddly something very similar happened to me in my 20s.
My mother had Ling cancer and was in care. One morning I woke up and clearly heard a voice telepathically tell me today is the day. Someone how I knew what the voice meant. That day my mother passed away, I never forgot what that voice said till thus day.
Yes, they do. Thank you and thanks to this gentleman who kindly shared his transition with you!
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Yes, dr.porass. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
I wish they were readily available in my place.
Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
He's constantly talking about killing someone.
He's violent. Anyone reading this
Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
Is he on instagram?
Yes he is dr.porass.
My late mother died of cancer in 2014, after several months of being in hospital. The last few weeks before her death we brought her home where me and my daughter looked after her, as well as my father who'd had a suffered strokes before hand.
The aftemath of those stokes, left my father unable to say much, which was difficult to see because he was always had a great sense of humour and always something to say.
Well, the week before my mother died, she had to be admitted to the hospital again because her health was deteriorating, it was a Wednesday, i remember it well.
The next day, after my mum was admitted, 12 hrs later, my father took a heart attack and he was also admitted to the same hospital. He was in ICU, and we all gathered around his bed, he was like his old self again, laughing and joking. We couldn't believe it. My father told me to tell my mum that he loved her.
We all as a family, took turns to visit them both, every day, twice a day.
A week later to the very day, my mother died, and 12 hrs later my dad passed too, he'd died of a heart attack.
You see, my mother used to say that she'd go before my dad, well before she ever became ill, my dad used to chime in that he'd be going with her, it was a bit of banter between them both, which they'd been saying for years.
I believe my mother came for my dad, and they went together.
I miss them both, we all do.
That's the comfort we are left with after both their passing.
Love and blessings to you all, from Ireland 🍀🍀
That's beautiful..
I'm so sorry you lost both tour parents at the same time. But comforting to know they went together🙏
@@zipinha Thankyou ♥️
I love that you shared about you patient…. I had a very similar experience after my mom’s death. I know what you felt!
Loved the documentary “ after death” a must see for every human soul who don’t know the way, the truth and the life !!
I work in health care too, Julie and what I hear my patients is this: they fear being alone, they fear being alone AND sick, they fear the loss of their mobility/independence/freedom to do the things they love, they fear grieving the loss of their spouse. I worked in dialysis for 17 years and many of these patients wanted to die and end their suffering, but their families guilted them into continuing ESRD treatments. Yes the machine was keeping them alive, but the progression of uncontrolled diabetes or blood pressure really caused an undignified life. Many of them died blind and had multiple amputations (feet, legs, forearms) and these came AFTER they started dialysis.
That is so sad. Thank you for caring for your patients.
That is the reality. Be prepared! I work at distracting myself now that I am in my sixties the reality has sharpened.
@@Loumag-ky9bz is that the key? Staying busy? My mom is in her 60s and I'm in my 30s. I fear her death and worry about my eventual death as well. Being an only child I wonder what my end of life will look like with no kids and no spouse.
@@Loumag-ky9bz
Same here. I'm almost 70 and it bothers me a lot.
When you think it's a real quick journey it makes no sense😮
Thank you for sharing. Im still learning to accept death, its always very grief filled. I take in unwanted animals, mostly guinea pigs, for what remains of their life. Give them care, make friends, and help them across. One is dying tonight, and going to the vet tomorrow to be sent on in peace. Each time I grow a little but the goodbyes are still very hard.
Thank you for caring for those little babies
What a kind and beautiful person 🥰🥰🥰
God bless you. ❤
Guinea pigs are beautiful little souls…glad you are giving them the love they deserve…🫶
It's depressing, many people cannot work in animal shelters hospices hospitals and so on. It gets to them and they grow depressed and suicidal. It's not good for mental health and the body. This life here is very anxiety filled sad and tragic and what you wrote describes exactly that
Thank you for this...at certain times I'm almost paralyzed from the fear of death...this is helpful to me and I thank you from my heart.....
Brilliant video Thankyou My brother in law has been diagnosed with motor neuron disease his whole family are frightened he is going to suffer near the end you have put our minds at rest.❤
My mom used to say "I'm not afraid of dying but I am afraid of getting older." She's 92 now and in her last days with hospice care and her four kids by her side, 4 who love her and will miss her! ❤
I will be thinking about you all. I know it difficult. I lost my mom 2 years ago. She was the best. I'm glad you will be with her.. hugs to you all.
Mom was 99 in hospice and her poor little heart didn't want to keep working. She said I don't want to die.
@@jamesortiz5388 omg. Those are the words my mom said right before her heart gave out. Those words have haunted me some. But I try to remember that she is no longer suffering and having breathing problems. It's difficult still. Hugs to you.
@@Velvetsky831 🙏
Near the end, my father was shutting down. He was in and out of coherence. Four days before my dad passed, I was visiting him at his personal care home. At one point, he became quite clear, looked at me, and said, "This will all be over soon." His whole life, he worried about dying. On the day he said that to me, I ultimately realized my dad was comfortable with it and ready.
Worring about anything in life is not worth the effort. Live is to short and precious.
Also, nice job Judy! Hospice nurses have a special inside perspective on the dying process that needs to be shared.🙏🏽
I'm so thankful I came across your video because I keep worrying so I'll keep watching your videos ❤
I was with my mom when she passed. She had lung cancer and heart disease. It was her heart that wasn’t able to pump enough blood to her organs and they had already started dying. Her ICU nurse was wonderful and frank with me that she was not going to walk out of the hospital. With her informed guidance, I made the decision to move her from ICU to hospice where she only lasted a few hours. I got a call from her hospice nurse at 11:00 pm telling me to get to the hospital quickly as she didn’t have long. It was after hours, so I had to wait for a security guard to escort me to her floor and I was so upset I wouldn’t make it time. Thankfully, I did. Her nurse told me my mom waited for me to get there. I had about 10 minutes with her and saw her take her last breath. It was peaceful and I’m told she felt no pain.
Long term suffering is what scares me to death...
If my quality of life gets that bad, there's a nice High Bridge right down the road.
I recently had an experience where I am pretty sure I visited the other side (heaven) or the other side visited me. It was completely UNEXPECTED. I was surrounded in love. Everything was love. Everything. There was nothing.. .but...love. Everywhere. Even the air was love. The air was alive with love. There were beings there sending me unconditiinal love and comfort and compassion and warmth and understanding and support. I don't fear death now. I didn't beforehand after listening to many near death experiencers describe essentially the same thing, but I now know, and not just hope, that what NDEers have said about the other side is true. I think you had a shared death experience Julie. I am not sure what my experience could be classed as. My experience happened during a guided EFT session. Somehow I was transported to the other side directly whilst sitting in a chair on earth. I am very grateful for the experience and the confirmation of how wonderful it is to be there. There is a peace in me now when I think about it that was not there before. Rather than fearing death, I have a peaceful, joyful feeling about it and I look forward to going back to,heaven when my time comes. Life on earth can be hard, especially at the end but death brings freedom nd joy.
I have experienced the feelings you have expressed 3 times, I am not a nurse or anything. Lovely video, thank you
My Dad was on a business trip where he had to take some training for his job for three days. One of his friends, who was a very healthy man, told him that he was going to skip the training because he was going to die in three days. He was calm about it. Everybody tried to get him to stay, but he went off. Came the news, three days later, he had died of a massive heart attack out of nowhere. He had no history of heart disease, no one told him that he was going to die, he just knew.
Some advanced Buddhist monks can also feel/predict when they are going to die. Quite fascinating.
Nurse Julie... I love your videos! Thank you for all you do! You are a living Angel to those getting ready to pass to the other side. I had a near death experience when I was a teen. A friend and I went body boarding in the ocean off southern california. There was a hurricane going on in Mexico so the SURF was really HIGH and currents strong. No one was in the water.. we had our beach to ourselves. After some sets in the water, I was overcome by waves getting pounded! and sucked out by the current. I lost my board, my fatigue kicked in... I thought to myself, this is how I DIE today at just 16.
As I was about to give up getting pounded by wave after wave, A man/being/spirit swam up to me... long brown hair, 20 to 30's aged looking and PIERCING PALE BLUE EYES with no facial expression, none! Pushed by Board to me with a thrust.. Our EYES met, I tried to say thank you!! And there was ZERO EXPRESSION. He/it/the spirt or angel just disappeared under the water..... My friend was on the beach, thought he saw my Angel but also never saw him reappear out of the waves..... No one else was around. We were both perplexed. No one could survive in those waves and not back out.
I am 47 years old now, I still think back to that day. I don't know who or what I was saved by. It was a truly religious experience. I am turning back to God and Christ now that my teenage son is attending church.
So delusional. Mental illness is a terrible thing. Get some professional help.
Thank you, Julie. You are so wonderful! ❤
Reason #1 may appear scientific, but it actually speaks volumes about the intelligent design of a loving and merciful creator. This interpretation may piss some people off, but to those people I say suck it up Buttercup.
I don't fear death...just a painful death...I have stage 3 congested heart failure so I'm know I don't have long...your videos have helped me prepare thank you
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My Grandfather had this when I was 15. I remember I watched a College Bowl game with him in the hospital. I never saw him in pain and my grandma said he went very sudden and very peacefully. I did not have any after experiences. I did however have a dream about 4 months prior. I remember it was Christmas in my dream. I had gotten a present, but I looked completely sad and destroyed. Later when I had the present I had dreamed about handed to me in the same settings, I knew why I was completely sad. He passed away that night Jan 3. Christmas was late as we had spent most of it in the hospital with him. ♥
My dad ended his life in 1968, and in 2001 while walking in a wilderness area, I had this overwhelming sense of my dad's presence. I can't describe it, but I remember asking him out loud if he was present right now. Then this silent voice inside my head told me to go back to my car and turn on the radio because my dad had a message for me. I told myself this sounds absolutely crazy and it didn't make any sense, but I went back to my car and turned on the radio. The song "Tears From Heaven" by Eric Clapton had just started, and it was the first time I felt like my dad was okay. That's the last time I ever heard from him.
"silent voice inside my head told me to go back to my car and turn on the radio"
That voice was the Holy Spirit.
"That's the last time I ever heard from him"
You got his message. That's all that's needed.
When you die, he'll be there to greet you. He'll be eager to hear about your life stories.
I love this nurse she's beautiful and cool
When I view death as the end, I become fearful. When I tell myself it's simply a transition to something else I actually look forward to that discovery.
I’m not afraid of dying, I’m afraid of the sorrow and pain my family will feel
This is me too. I don't mind what happens to me, but I'm so worried about my wife and daughter
Yes, it is a hard thing. But all things must pass. And they all pass. It passes. Watch the end of Gangs of New York to see what I mean.
Being a bit presumptuous are we?
Exactly, you nailed it
Thank you ma'am. I recently lost my father and you just answered alot of my questions. Love from Belgium. ❤
I took my paternal uncle's death very hard and was really struggling. One night he came to me in a dream and it was so clear I remember it vividly to this day it was 28 years ago, he said "I don't want you to worry about dying I am the one that will be coming to get everybody and bring you home." When my daddy died he plainly said his brother was there visiting. A day and a half later my daddy passed away. As sad and heartbroken as I was over losing my daddy I was at peace knowing my Daddy's older brother had come to get him to take him home. For some reason I know my uncle didn't get far without my beloved Grandparents , his twin and their sister. The paternal side of my family was and still is very close and the wheels didn't turn with my dear Grandmother taking her spot in the car. 🥰
Julie, I am a sensitive. I have seen and spoken to many that have passed. The next stage is the astral plane and from there you find yourself with family and friends that have passed. Bless you for your help! You are sensitive enough to have wonderful encounters😊
Jesus is the way, the truth and the life. He loves you. He’s waiting for you to live him back and receive his gift.
This is what causes fear. Jesus died for our sins, yet we are still under the curse of Adam. We dont have to believe in what Adam did to be sinners, but we have to believe what Jesus did to be saved. Is Adam's disobedience more powerful than Jesus' Obedience?@@dawnricherson2604
@@dawnricherson2604 I'd say love is the way regardless of what religion you belong to.
Thank you for sharing your experience and getting the news out there. It's so wonderful to hear a nurse validating this. My dad 'came' to me in a dream just before dawn in a very happy and powerful way. At 7AM my brother called me to give me the news.
Thanks Julie for sharing these stories. I've been studying NDEs and other death experiences for many years and I'm convinced that there is life after death.