I’m a RETIRERED RN. When I was finishing up my degree, I worked as an Extern on an Oncology floor, back in the early 80’s. I did this to conquer that requirement of death and dying, and to conquer my fear of the unknown. I was not searching for anything spiritual or paranormal, but I found that portion of my education, without formal instruction. One evening while on duty, one of the RNs became quite busy with admissions and an overwhelming amount of both meds and paperwork. One of her patients was slipping fast into an active dying stage, and the Nurse wanted her to have comforting measures as needed. She asked me to simply go in and sit with her and ad lib her care as needed. I entered her room, finding the patient fast asleep, but sat in the chair with one of my textbooks and simply began studying for my upcoming finals. A short time passed, and I quietly closed my book, realizing I needed to drain her Foley and finish her daily I and O report. The lady stirred and spoke . Believing she was speaking to me, I asked her if she needed anything or if she would like anything from the kitchen. She replied sweetly,”No dear. We don’t need anything at all, but if you’re finished with your studies, would you mind turning off the lights? And, please stay, just make yourself comfortable.” I told her I would gladly do that, and complied with her request, right after letting her Nurse know what the plan was, and handing her the completed I and O report. I glanced at the clock, noting I only had another hour before I was off duty, so I knew that I was basically finished with any charting tasks as I had only this patient for the rest of my shift. I shut off the lights, and closed the door, and settled into the recliner at her bedside. She was asleep, and her breathing was quite rhythmic. A few minutes later, she awoke and exclaimed there was a strange lighted tunnel in front of us, with sparkles moving up and down the tunnel. I personally thought she might be talking in her sleep at first, but proven to be quite wrong. She asked me if I could see the tunnel that was right in front of us. I had to answer her honestly, and simply replied, “No, Ma’am.” She described the tunnel as getting a bit brighter, and found it strange that the Sparkles were becoming fewer and fewer, but there appeared to be one that was getting closer, and she felt she recognized it. She kept stating she wished I could see it, but it didn’t matter anyway....it was the one thing she knew was REAL. Then she said someone’s name, a male name and was introducing him to me. She told him I probably couldn’t see him because I couldn’t see the tunnel, but she trusted that I was the only person she had met that deserved to learn what this really was. As much as I wanted to hear someone answer her, no other voice was audible to me. But it was apparent to me that a conversation was occurring on a mixed plane of reality, although I could never have verbalized my thoughts with any clarity back then. I had no idea what I was semi-witnessing at that moment. My patient said to her invisible friend and to me that she was a bit tired, and was going tto take a little nap before the next shift change because that’s when it gets too noisy. The room became quiet again, but I kept noticing movement and reflection on the television screen that was up in the corner of the darkened room. At first I passed it off as being a reflection from the light of the hallway passing thru the space between the bottom of the door and the heavily waxed floor, shining up on the darkened Television screen. There were what appeared to be shadows moving Back and forthe, so I figured shift change must be starting. Suddenly, the television screen reflections became very bright, but the television had not even been turned on during my shift, and there was no programming ... not even the static, it’s very hard to describe, but a bright tunnel appeared and two people were walking arm in arm away from the “camera”....and as quickly as it appeared, it all faded back to the silent darkness in the room. Silence. That was what I focused upon! No sounds. No rhythmic breathing. I stood up, turned the light on in the restroom so as not to disturb the lady....... I couldn’t disturb her. She had passed, and I believe I literally saw her as she walked into her new Reality.
My mother died when I was in 9th grade. Years later, my new husband and I bought a completely empty house. In it, was ONE thing, a newspaper from the day and year my mother died. To me, it was a happy greeting that she was heartened that everything turned out well.
My dad was very scared to die. While he was in hospice he was looking in the corner and said "mama". I was so happy that his mother came to calm him down. What gets me is his mother died giving birth to him so it's strange that he knew who she was. I miss my dad so much!
Your comment brings me a lot of comfort because my mom died when I was 12 days old. I grew up believing I would meet her when I died. But I had a crisis of faith that led me to question my belief in an afterlife. My Dad raised me and passed a few years ago. Comments like yours give me hope.
My dad very close to his mother. She died when he was only 16. A the age of 50 when he was dying my mother was in his hospital room with him. She told me that right before he passed his eyes lighted up and he exclaimed "Mother!!'
I am terminal, so I naturally find myself watching videos like this from time to time when I feel brave enough to explore my future mortality. I spent 25 years in emergency services, as a police officer and a fire fighter. I was shot once as a cop, I have had building fall on me a a fire fighter. I mention that, becasue I lived a life I thought had prepared me to understand my death, if it came. Of course, I have been with countless people as they passed due to my job. I never found any of it peacful, but that was due to it being violent and tragic in most cases. So, I ramble through these thoughts, now as I lay dying under the slow consumption of cancer, I am afraid. Not becasue I am dying per se, but becasue I am losing for the frist time. I have fought death on so many levels and in so many ways in my career, and now it has the upper hand. I will hopefully find that peace you say is waiting for me. I know God and his presence brings me comfort, for I did what I know He asked me to do on this earth for Him. But in the end, I am human and we have our fears and frailities. Today, I feel brave enough to say I am afraid, and that's ok. I have a lovely wife at my side, who made it possible for me to "come hone" for my remaining time. (back to the town where we met and got married) I am not sure why I wrote all of this, but thank you for letting me be here. As we use to say when we got into a tight spot at work, and knew it might not turn out well, see you on the other side.
John 3:16 For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believes in Him will not perish but have everlasting life. May God bless you!
I worked in a nursing home. I was in a patients room, she said to me “do you see the Angel? Its so beautiful-I thought she just had dementia. I politely told her no-I didn’t see anything, left , and didn’t think anything of it. I returned about 15 minutes later and she had passed. I will never forget that.
I should have known, but there were many patients with dementia, so I didn’t pick up on it. Also, I was over whelmed with work and exhausted. But yes, I should have known
When I was about 10 years old I accompanied my grandmother every Saturday when she would go to the cemetery to visit my grandfather's grave, then we would go to a rest home where we would visit her mother, my great-grandmother, "Granny." My great-grandmother was quite elderly, blind, and bedridden but incredibly enough very sound mentally. When I was 13 my grandmother passed from metastatic breast cancer. My grandmother was very close held about her cancer diagnosis and never brought it up to her mother. Incredibly enough, my great-grandmother was still in the rest home, and she was still mentally cognizant. My aunts and I paid her a visit after the passing of my grandmother who had 2 living sisters, my grandmother being the youngest. My aunts decided that they would not tell my great-grandmother that her youngest daughter had passed but during our visit, my great-grandmother suddenly blurted out "Maria came to visit me and she said it is beautiful in heaven and I am going to love it there." We were all speechless and my one Aunt who had been taking my grandmother's passing very hard began to cry. My Granny, at 101 years of age passed away shortly after this event. I am 72 and have metastatic lung cancer, I am in palliative care and realize that there is no chance of "recovering" from my cancer. Throughout my life, I have had many "unusual" experiences convincing me of life after death. The words from my Granny were just the beginning!
Love to you ..there is life after death for sure .. and from all I read it’s a beautiful place and your loved ones will be right there with you..even now . I lost my son allan my pal ,, I have seen him at the bottom of my bed at a bright doorway ..he was so healthy looking so happy smiling from ear to ear ..I’ve since felt him sit on my bed and pat my back if I am stressed or worried Lots lots of signs n a picture ..I have NO doubt whatsoever and am so comforted Bless you and love to you and all your family ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏💕💗🌹🌹🌹
I wish you nothing but peace as you continue on your journey. I’m a nurse and I absolutely believe there is more than this life and we can only experience the beauty and joy we’re meant for by leaving this life behind. Bless you.
Thanks, Julie. I am terminal stage four lung cancer and have decided I am done with all treatments. This information is very comforting, and I thank you for sharing!
My friends 6 month old baby boy died of Sids. She was totally unable to function at all. One night she heard a voice calling to her,and when she awoke it was her son,as a man,all in radiant light,and he said " mother, i am fine,please don't cry,or grieve anymore. We will be together again, and he left the room. This comforted her,and she wasfine,from then on. ❤
I lost my baby son when he was only 2 days old. I was devastated and was crying all the time. While I was lying in bed crying one morning, I saw a beautiful light at the corner of my bed. In the light was a young man who resembled my husband but much younger and blond. He spoke to me ( not out loud but I understood). He said “ I don’t want you to be so sad Mom” He said it twice and then the light and he faded away. From that moment on, I felt my son was safe. My heart began to heal.
I had a similar experience. My nephew died tragically at 3 months old in a daycare accident. About 7 years later I saw a vision of a little boy in heaven with Jesus & it was the most beautiful scene I’ve ever witnessed. I knew this little boy was about 7/8 years old, and he looked like my sister in law. I honestly didn’t know what I saw at the time, more to it but 🥹it was so wonderful. I still remember it clear as day, and it was over a decade ago
My grandmother passed at 102 years old. Her husband Bill (my grandfather) was gassed in WW1 and died shortly after the war. I was at her bedside when she passed and she was fairly well out of it at the time. Suddenly she sat up, eyes wide open, a big smile on her face with her arms raised toward the ceiling. She said, "Oh Bill, it's so wonderful to see you!" Then she flopped back on the pillow and died. Blew me away, but she died happy, that's for sure.
OMG!!! This is almost exactly what happened with my aunt, except she didn't see anyone! I wasn't there and hadn't seen her for years, but my cousin who's a nurse was with her in the hospital and told us that she had been in pretty much a coma and not awake for about a week, and then all of a sudden, she opened her eyes, sat straight up, reached for the ceiling and smiling, said, "the colors, oh my god, the colors- the colors are so beautiful" then dropped back down in her bed- dead! It's just so crazy how so many of these stories are exactly alike.
When my firstborn died at age six from a very rare brain cancer, I don’t recall anyone explaining it to me very well about why it would be bad to give her an IV or food, or water. I just remember she didn’t want anything. I always felt guilty that I didn’t try harder to make her eat or drink, so it’s good that you’re explaining this to people. She did go through 4 days of what they called a “semi-coma” before she passed away. She also told me she saw Jesus, a few weeks before she died. 💗💗💗
You have my deepest condolences on the loss of your child. What she’s saying is absolutely true, all of it. I was a nurse for years. I worked the cancer center and hospice, surgical floor, the ER/ED and ICU. I experienced so many things with my dying patients and their families, as well as my own Mother’s passing, my Father and 2 sisters but none hurt worse than losing my husband to confus terminal lung cancer when he was only 46 years old. I experienced a lot with my Mom and my spouse. I’ve written on my hands things some of my dying patients wanted some family members to know. I’ve ran to the elevators and even into the parking area to let family members, that had just visited and my patient was talking, laughing etc. but as soon as they leave the room, my patients started going downhill fast. It’s such a stressful career but it’s all worth it when you see your patient either leave through the doors or through eternal peace 💕💕💕💕💕
I was a covering RN at Hospice in Lansing MI back in 2005, for another nurse who had sadly died and her associates were attending her funeral. Her name was Lisa, and her patients adored her, many were counting on her to be in attendance at their death. I was to visit her patients that day, and one was actively dying, any moment. I drove out the see her first. When I arrived at her care faciltiy she had already passed away, but the staff were in a state of surprise and some shock. They had not told her of Lisa's death and so the patient had no idea there was a funeral going on. She expected Lisa to show up that day. As she was dying she suddenly began to smile toward a dark corner of the room and raised her arm to wave and welcome someone. She exclaimed, "Lisa, you finally showe up!" and she smiled with such love and happiness everyone in the room felt startled and amazed. Within moments the woman closed her eyes and crossed over. Staff and family in the room felt convinced that she had left with her hospice nurse Lisa, who visited her and had kept her word, even from beyond the grave.
I also wanted to share the story of when my cat passed. I know some people don't believe that pets have souls, but I strongly disagree. I literally had Doodle his entire life, I watched his mama give birth to him, so I was there when he came into this world, and I held him in my arms when he left it. He had cancer and there wasn't anything the vet could do, but put him to sleep. He said I could take Doo home if I would prefer him to die there, so that's what I did. Doo slept a lot and in the end he stopped eating and drinking and I knew he was dying. I slept with him on the couch so he wouldn't be alone. He lingered that way for days and I couldn't take it anymore, so we made the decision to have him put to sleep. While my husband was getting ready to go, we had both been crying, I picked Doo up and held him and told him how much I loved him, but that it was okay for him to go and please don't make us do this. I was bawling my eyes out and rocking him, I said if you love me at all please don't make me do this... he softly meowed one last time and then went limp in my arms. Now you can say what you want and you can believe what you want, but I KNOW he was waiting for me to tell him it was okay for him to leave. He died on March 8th of 2019 and he would have been 16 years old March 11th. I stupid cried for days afterwards and then I had a dream, that someone knocked on the door and when I answered it there was this beautiful young girl standing there. She looked to be 14 or 15 years old. She doesn't say anything she just smiles then points downward. When I looked down there was Doo! He was so beautiful and healthy his black fur was thick and glossy, his big amber eyes were bright and shining. He looked radiant! He reached up liked he used to do for me to pick him up. I picked him up and buried my face against his fur. He even smelled like Doo and I could feel the vibrations of his deep purr. When I opened my eyes the girl had moved off the porch and stood there waiting and I knew I had to let Doo go with her. So I set him down and he jumped off the porch and walked to the girl. That's when I woke up. Say what will, but I know the Lord allowed me to see that Doo was with him and he was healthy and happy and will be waiting for me when it's my time.
This works for animals too. When my beloved cat Loki was actively dying, he wouldn't eat or drink. The Vet gave him fluids, all went to his belly underskin and he urinated it all out. He was a little cold and very calm. I would talk to him, he looked at me, recognised me, even hugged me, putting both arms around my neck. Then he laid down and looked as he was seeing someone, and acted like he wanted to go way. He even tryied to grab his carrier to "get out", even when he couldn't stand up. My Vet insisted on more fluids and food, but after I saw your videos, I was against it and didn'd feed him, I told her he was leaving us. I just watched him all night and the next day he passed away. He was very peaceful and was very well taken care of until the end. I know I did the right thing and read the signs correctly. Your channel is really helpful. My family thanks you for helping us in this difficult time. Sorry for comparing animals to people, but I think Nature is wise and knows what to do.
I have had 2 cats who were sick that would put both paws around my neck and hug me. I know what you are talking about. I don't know how some people can think that animals do not have feelings. 🐾❤️
My 12 year old Yorkie passed. While she was actively dying, she would take her paw and pat my face and kiss me. At the end, she got into her favorite position with me and passed. She had feelings and wanted to tell me goodbye.
You only made a HUGE error comparing animals to humans: animals are so much better than we are! I'm sorry for your loss, and I hope the grief you feel soon leads to happy memories of your time together.
I am a hospice Music Therapist. I have seen this many times, including with my own mother and one of my cousins. Once a patient told me he crossed over into Heaven while he was sleeping, and described it to me. He said he kept getting sent back to tell people that the most important thing we need to do here is love each other. Another time I was sent to provide services to a patient who was imminent. I walked in with my harp and his granddaughter burst into tears, saying she had been praying for her granddad to have harp music as he passed. I assessed him and his RR was 4. I knew he would pass at any moment. When I began to play my harp he raised his head and focused his eyes and looked at me. I introduced myself and continued. A moment later, a young woman rushed in, crying "Granddad! I made it!" and she held him close. He had waited for her. Then he passed. I have been so privileged to be of service to these families.
I find it so interesting that shortly after coming into this world and shortly before exiting it, we have the ability to see spirits. It's almost like our consciousness is more connected with the opposite side of the veil at those specific points in one's life.
There's a theory that our brains are like filters/receivers for our consciousness/soul. If that's true I think it would make sense that beginning and end of life would be able to see into the spiritual world, not all the hardware is working so the filter is broken down/opened up. Makes sense to me!
Julie, In 2006, my wife was diagnosed with ovarian cancer at the age of 46. Given 12 to 14 months to live, she lived 14 months. About a month before her passing, on a Sunday afternoon she and I we’re setting quietly in our living room, I thought she was asleep when out of the blue she ask, “Danny, do you see the angles” I said no and she then said, “ the room is full of angles, but they don’t have faces”. She never mentioned them again, but she did say later something about butterflies that continues to amaze me to this day. Three times within the first year of her passing butterflies did come, did unbelievable things, just to let me know, she was still present. Because of my experiences since her passing and channels such as yours, I no longer fear death. I truly believe we transition into another realm. Thank you for all of the wonderful knowledge you share.
People explaining their near death experiences often see luminous angels and guides. Very often they say that they could not see their faces, sometimes because they are so luminous. Because of the feeling of love and goodness they emanate, they are never scary.
Beautiful! What incredible things did the butterflies do? Come sit on your hand or something? Once a hummingbird hovered in front of my face for a few seconds, and I always wonder whether that was a sign from spirit.
One day before my mother passed, she was in a coma. The whole family has gone up to her hospital room. While there, the Dr stopped in and informed us that she was in a coma, would not come out of it as she has started the dying process. Shortly after he left, she started mumbling something. My sister ran over and sat on her bed and put her ear closer to my mom’s mouth to try to hear what she was mumbling. My sister stood up and ran out of the room crying. I caught up to her in the hallway and asked what did mom say? My sister said that mom said her parents had come to get her and she wanted to go with them. True story from a real person who witnessed this
My first husband was on his death bed at home..his sister n law heard him talking to someone in his bedroom she went quickly to his bedroom and ask him who he was talking to?, and my husband said, Mom told me to come on..knowing his mother has passed away 20 yrs ago she still appears to him ..I know he was a praying man and prayed also before he passed the same day. I have dreams of him sometimes and they're prophetic dreams.
My daughter died of cancer she was almost 4 years old. A few months later, my dad had a traumatic medical episode, He was hospitalized and put in intinsivcare. He had Ivs pumps all the equipment needed to keep him alive. he was on life support. I went to the hospital with my 18 month old daughter to see my father. As soon as I pushed the stroller threw the door my baby girl looked over to the corner of the room and said hi to her sister! It floored me❤
My sister-in-law passed yesterday. Two days before, she saw and had a conversation with her mother and saw Jesus, birds and red roses. She said it was so beautiful.
My mom is a hospice nurse of over 20 years. She had a family who refused to believe that it was OK their dying loved one was not eating. The family decided to try to feed the dying loved one jello while no one was watching. As I’m sure you know….the patient aspirated and it was horrific. The family was distraught. I hope these people who are arguing with you over nutrition/dehydration actually listen to what you’re saying. Thank you so much for what you do. You are truly an angel!
I've felt bad for five years because during the time my mom was in hospice ,She got no water,but I didn't even think of that til later- this video has helped me understand that it would have been detrimental to her anyway.
If people think they know so much better, let them take care of their dying relative themselves. They sure don’t seem to have any respect for healthcare professionals.
Love your longer videos Julie! Please do more. What great lessons❤ I lost my wonderful Nana in 2004 at the age of 95. (And On my husbands 40th birthday!) As the family was gathered at the hospital on vigil my mom and aunts and I were sitting close to Nana's bed ( She had been unconscious about 18 hours by this time) We began talking about my grandparents favorite song. My Nana always sang it to me growing up. NONE of us could remember what the song was. A bit later I am down in the gift store getting a 40th birthday card for hubby and I saw a little porcelain doll with curly black hair ( Much as Nana's hair had been in her younger days) She was a cute little doll, and one of a kind there in the hospital gift shop. I turned the doll over discovering she was musical! And guess what I heard when I turned the small crank? " Let Me Call You Sweetheart" poured from the little doll, Yes, my grandparents ( Nana and her hubby grandpa George) favorite song!❤ My Mom, Aunt and I stood in awe and tears. Nana passed peacefully a few hours later with us all around her praying and the little musical doll serenading her. Some things have no explanation. Some things don't even need one.
Agree. I haaaate the trend of short videos. It proves attention spans are decreasing, a sign of stupidity to me. I prefer DETAIL. I appreciate when the influencer doesn't feel rushed to keep their work short for fear people will tune out. There is STILL an audience who is able to take in a 30 minute video without going "oh look! Something shiny!" and go off to chase it.
Wow that’s a beautiful blessing you were a part of and I almost got chills from reading it. May she RIP and I’m glad she had a loving family surrounding her while she was transitioning. Blessings to you and your family!!🙏🏽❤️🕊
My grandmother (we called Nanna) also sang that same song all the time... It was her and my grandfather's "song" , he died at age 34 ( mom was 1) . Nanna never even dated after
When my dad passed earlier this year, It was late at night (after 11 pm), and we had all been in vigil all day. I went to get a cup of coffee, and was turning to sit down (while looking at my brother, who I had been talking to), and I saw a twinkle-speed flash of light from Dad. I turned suddenly to him, and he was gone. I knew intuitively that I had just seen his spirit leave. It was very comforting to me, and I never had any issues with closure. He was gone, and in the hour after he left while we waited for the nurse and the funeral home to come get his body, obviously we were grieving, but for me, I was at peace. It was just his empty body there, I had seen him leave and that was that. I didn't feel the need to keep talking to him, or get emotional (beyond the sadness of him going), or anything. He was gone, I had seen it, and I knew it. It was a true blessing and it confirmed to me, beyond any doubt, that there is more after we leave here. We are Christians, so we believe anyway, but it was the first time I actually saw what, to me, is undeniable tangible proof. I saw what I saw. And when I mentioned it to the hospice nurse (and since then, others), she was absolutely unsurprised. She said hospice nurses have seen things like that a lot.
I had a similar experience with the passing of my mother. She had been in a coma for several days after we had ended medical intervention. It was around 4 am, the hospital room was dark and quiet except for the sound of her heart monitor and her long slow breaths which rattled. My wife was sitting at the foot of her bed facing me as I sat next to my mom holding her hand. Suddenly there was a very intense white/blue light which shimmered momentarily over (in front of) my wife's face. I said to her "did you see that?" she said, "see what" then "Terry your mother". My wife said Mom had opened her eyes toward the ceiling and tried to raise her hands before collapsing. The room was quiet and dark and she had moved on. Like you BlueRidge I no longer fear the end of everything at passing. I feel my mom had left me a gift of knowledge that the end is not the end but rather the beginning of something else. Thanks for sharing your experience
@terrybrennan425 My cousin, who passed at age 22 appeared to me in that form a couple of years after he passed. I was struggling with depression, mostly spurred by his death. He came to tell me everything would be alright. He was right.
My story of my dad‘s passing is similar to yours. I didn’t see a sign that he had physically left like you mentioned in your story, but I felt it more spiritually. My family had kept a vigil by his bedside over the couple days preceding his passing. On his last day, that evening, I knew I could not leave. I had a sense that I just could not leave him to go through what he was experiencing by himself. I laid during the night on a bed that the hospital staff had prepared for me, but in the wee hours of the morning I had a sense that I needed to go to my dad side. Somehow I felt the sense that things were changing and his time was getting near. A nurse came in to help and confirmed that she thought it was eminent. As I sat by his side, I had an urge or a a distinct sense to sing to my dad. I am not a singer and sometimes I can’t carry a note to save my life but something inside of me knew this would bring him comfort. I tried a song or two but at one point, I feel like it wasn’t bringing him the comfort I intended to give. So I switched to the hymnal “What a friend we have in Jesus“ and somehow there was peace and somehow I was able to get through that song relatively easy and probably singing the best I have ever sung in my life, or at least that’s what my ears heard, and hopefully my dad as well. Literally when I finishing the last couple lines of the song, I felt my dad‘s last breath leave his body. I had been snuggled in very close to him, stroking his forehead, and giving him all the love I could find. As as I did, I felt his breath on my face and then I never felt another breath. I initially wept, knowing it was final, but I was surprised by how quickly I felt a sense of strength and peace within me. I was able to get up from his bedside to go let the nurses know just as my mom was walking in the door. I was able to have the strength to just be there for her and hold her as she wept. I kept reassuring her that it was very peaceful, and that he didn’t suffer. The peace that I experienced has been life-changing. Without any question I know where this peace comes from. I know who gave me the strength to carry on that day. I experienced what you experienced in that I didn’t feel grief looking at my dad’s body as we lingered at the hospital for a few hours after his death. It didn’t traumatize me or make me sad. I knew my dad wasn’t there anymore. I knew where he was and this was the most beautiful experience I’ve ever had in my entire life. Rather than suffering, immense heaviness in grief I gained such strength that day and that is something I never expected. I have no regrets, I have no longing for closure. I only find peace in knowing I experienced the most beautiful moment I could have ever imagined with my father when it with his time to go home.
My Mom was on hospice, she passed on monday, December 10, 2018. On the Friday before, she was acting so different, happy, giggly even. We had a picture of my Dad on the wall in front of her. She was pointing to him and said hes laughing at me. I said Dad? She said. Yes, he's standing right there. She said he said " I thought you were ready to come with me" I said are you ready to? She smiled and said yes. I told her mom it's ok if you're ready to go. She started the death rattle about 2 am. She passed early morning that monday. She also said that there were 2 little girls that were trying to play with her. It really was comforting to me. Thanks for sharing your experiences!
My 18 year old daughter seen angels before she passed . She would smile and nod at what ever they was saying . It gave me some peace . Kristen was calmed by them as well . She was completely in her right mind when this happened.
I am sorry for your loss and I love that your daughter saw angels around her. That is so comforting. I am sure your faith and your spirit will carry you through the next chapter of your life. Your daughter's spirit will be around you always.
I’m sorry for your pain and the loss of your daughter just please 🙏🏽 know she’s still with you and you can talk to her she’ll hear you…Xx🙏🏽❤️ God Bless, Namaskaram
My Grandma passed in 2018 at 106 years old. Before her passing she'd lost 2 sons and a daughter, the daughter was my mom passing in 2013. Grandma had also outlived her 6 siblings, husband and all her friends too. A couple years before Grandma passed she was very lucid and would tell us about these people visiting her. Some in dreams, some nin waking time. Her son would play songs on his guitar for her to ease her loss over him. They would give her info she couldn't possibly know. In 2015, she'd had a dream my mom came to her and told her I had cancer. Just on that chance, I went to see a Dr. who did tests and said I was ok. Then I saw mom in a dream and got a message of concern. I went to the Dr. again and was told nothing was wrong with me...just my age. All tests ok. I said I wanted a mammogram. On that test it was discovered I had stage 2 breast cancer. In remission now.....but I do believe they still keep in contact from the other side.
My Grandpa was 103 1/2 when he got out of a car my Great Aunt was driving, and she didn’t get her license until she was 70 something...anyway, she didn’t keep her foot on the brake, nor shifte her car into park...somehow the car rolled and the open door Grandpa had just used knocked the 6 foot man over onto the sidewalk, breaking his hip! He was of course placed in a nursing facility for “rehab” but I do not believe he was ever out of the bed...and he literally was n never sick a single day of hiss life that I’m aware of. Not until the didn’t do their jobs at the “skilled” nursing facility. Mentally he had been 100 % ....physically he dwindled fast, even following the nightmare scenario he was set up in...Pneumonia set in and I don’t recall how long it was between the accident and his death....but it was a severely cold day in January in Northern California when his funeral happened. He had built the cabin I was living in , 100% by hand , with the occasional help of his brother. He was born in 1881.
I believe that! Yes you were visited by both of your family members. The Lord is so good. He will show us what we need to show us right when we need to see it!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I was a heroin, fentanyl and crack addicted escort for many years. My dad was an alcoholic who hadn't seen me since I was 8 years old. He died in January 2017 and in April 2019 I went to jail and found out I was pregnant. I decided to keep the baby and turned my life around before he was even born. I had had a warrant out for my arrest for a very long time. Everyone around me was watching me kill myself with the drugs. My bf and I weren't on good terms obviously and he mostly stuck around to ensure I was alive. He had called the cops quite a few times behind my back telling them to come get Me and they never did which is weird and I can't explain why they didn't even though they promised they would. When I was finally arrested and taken to jail .. it truly saved my life and my sons life because I was 6 weeks pregnant. By the time I saw the jails OB I was 8 weeks. Just the way everything happened and fell into place.. the timing of it all.. it sometimes feels like my son was sent to me by my dad. I know this comment is long and doesn't make a lot of sense to those who don't know me and the rest of the situation but it's bizarre how things happened at that time
@@CrustyUgg perhaps your eyes have been opened a little to begin to accept the truth of what our purpose is. D don’t get jumbled up in anyone’s drama...including your own because your eyes will close again...stay clean and sober for yourself first...and you’ll know that all you have to do is ask those angels surrounding you for r guidance!😇
My family had been taking turns at my grandmother’s bedside during her last moments of life. During my brother’s shift, he saw our grandfather waiting to take her home. He was no longer a man in his 80’s but was in his 20’s. He told my brother he was coming to get his bride. This was so amazing to the family and such a blessing.
I, too, was a hospice nurse. The day my mother died in hospice, she awoke and was obviously greeting a line of relatives before she died. Her mouth was moving for several hours. My patients often looked up at the corner of the room and were obviously seeing into the spiritual world.I never saw any angels in their rooms. I was sent angel to push my car off the exit ramp on the freeway when I was 7 months pregnant and had 3 small children in.the car in the winter at night. He just appeared and did not have a winter coat on. When I turned to thank him, he was gone!
True story, several years ago my mother was hospitalized for COVID and one night I visited her and she said she to me, "guess who visited me today, your Uncle George and Aunt Florence" I told her that was impossible because they had died many years before. She insisted, "No I saw them, they wanted me to go with them but I told them no I don't want to go". My mother was lucid at the time and died 3 weeks later. That has never left my mind since.
What you mean several years ago Covid? Covid didn’t start until late Dec 2019 but wasn’t everywhere until way later than that. At the most 3 years and few months that’s not several years ago. I’m confused.
My husband passed in 2019 . As I held him in my arms and he released his last breath, I felt his spirit go right through me. He had said he wanted to go home and I told him several times he was home. He said no home with my mother and father. I knew he had accepted Jesus and I know where he is. He came back to me several nights later and kissed me good-bye. I sat straight up in bed to see who was kissing me and no one was there. I know it was him. I have never worried about death but I would like to go peacefully.
That’s so beautiful 😢. I am so glad you got that closure. He is young again, pain free, and can’t wait for you to join him. But he also knows that it will happen in a blink of an eye because our lifetime here goes by VERY fast from the other sides perspective. ❤
I had my little Westie dog pass through me after she left her body and soared up in a circle and out the door! I also had a spirit pass through me while walking on a path in the AIDS Memorial Grove in Golden Gate Park. It is the most magical feeling, I was left with a feeling of peace, beauty, and wonder!
Four days before my dad died I was in his hospital room and suddenly when I looked at him his spirit jumped out of his body and went through my left eye. in that instant I thought, "Oh, so that is who you really are!" While he was improving, 4 days later he had a second stroke and he died. About three weeks later I had my one and only lucid dream. I went up through my bedroom ceiling and into a different dimension. I went to Heaven and my dad was there. We embraced and while he looked like my dad had in his thirties, his personality was gone and he was the spirit I met in his hospital room. The hugs were so deep and loving and amazing. I saw my mum there too, crumpled up under dark clothing at our feet. I asked dad why he didn't hug here and he said he couldn't reach her because she was so full of grief. At one stage I got so excited I was having a lucid dream I dropped out of Heaven and was back in my bed, looking up at the ceiling. I wanted to be with my dad again, so I went back for a little while longer. Then I was back in my bed thinking wow!
My wife's grandma is dying, she most likely has maybe a few more days left. However, she is very comfortable, and from time to time she will look up at the ceiling a smile super big. For me and my family, it's comforting that she is having a peaceful experience, and thanks to you, I understand everything that is happening is normal. Watching her transitioning is absolutely beautiful and it has changed my perspective on death. 😮
I had a friend pass in a fire in 2001. I grew up with him & knew the whole family. It was days after his 27th birthday. About a month after he passed, I had a dream. I was in his mother's kitchen with his mom & he walked through the back door! I knew he was dead, but in the dream, his mother apparently did not. He walked up behind her & hugged her from behind. I was staring at him in confusion & he put his finger to his lips in a "quiet" motion. We all made small talk for a few minutes & I got up to leave. He walked me to the front door. He stopped & kissed me & I knew it was goodbye. He gave me a sad smile & I woke up. It's been over 20 years & I still remember that dream vividly. I visited his grave on his birthday the next year & a song that reminded me of him, "It's Been a While" by Staind, started playing as soon as I drove through the gate.
Also a hospice nurse. As a warning, this is long. I was working in a Hospice inpatient unit at the time. One of our patients was a very anxious, extremely needy woman with endstage COPD. Her usual nurse was off and she was assigned to me. I could see her sitting up in her bed in her room as I tended to my other patients in surrounding rooms. She looked unusually calm and relaxed. I sent the nursing assistant in to check on her and he reported back no issues except that the room was a little cool, so he had checked the windows and notched up the thermostat. This woman kept a humidifier going all the time and was atypical in that she demanded her room be kept quite warm. Once other patient care tasks were completed, I approached this patient's room and what I saw stopped me at the doorway. Normally, she would be panting from her building anxiety, fidgeting and fussing with items on her overbed table, plucking at and smoothing her covers repeatedly and reactivating her call bell every couple minutes. This night, she was sitting quietly up in bed with her arms around her knees and behaving as though she was hosting a party. She was murmuring and laughing softly and moving her head as one would when responding to different people. I was so stunned that I stood in the doorway and watched her for a solid two minutes. I finally softly knocked to make her aware of my presence. She glanced over, smiled at me, but went back to her "hostessing" without her usual increased respirations and panicky behaviors. I stepped to her bedside to remind her of my name and that I was her nurse that night. This woman typically didn't take having her routine altered well at all, but she calmly thanked me using my name and went back to her conversations with folks I didn't see. I checked her oxygen reading and it was a very respectable- for her- 92%. I checked her oxygen flow rate and offered to switch her nasal cannula to a face mask, her preference during her fitful nights. She politely declined, saying the mask made it diificult to speak clearly. She was wearing a thin sleeveless nightgown, and I noted the room hadnt warmed much from the assistant's adjustment. I told her I was getting her fresh ice water and a warmed blanket which merely earned me a nod. I bumped the thermostat up another couple degrees and left for my errand. When I returned, I draped the toasty blanket around her shoulders like a shawl, which she acknowledged by reaching up to pat my hand as I snugged it around her. This was not a woman who was known to express gratitude. I noticed that the room was noticeably more misty than it had been just a couple minutes before and seemed even cooler. I went around to the other side of her bed to check the humidifier settings and water level when I stopped in my tracks. The humidifier was sitting in its usual place; despite the definite mist in the room, the device was was unplugged. I asked if there was anything else I could do, and she said she was comfortable and that she knew to call if she did. I left the room, but the assistant and I continued to check back frequently through the night, every so often bumping the thermostat another couple of degrees. She continued to sit up in bed, murmuring and laughing. She barely completed her midnight nebulizer treatment and refused her scheduled 4am nebulizer when I took it to her. Normally, she would snatch the pipe out of our hands, greedily sucking in the medicated vapor. She never called for the "as needed" doses she could have. Previously, it had not been unusual for her to request them almost hourly if she was awake. I tended to my other patients during that night, but I spent most of that shift frequently checking in with my unusually calm and happy patient. After I had completed my last rounds on the others, I entered this woman's room to find her laying back against her many pillows, gazing at a point on the opposite wall near the ceiling and waving and calling goodbye. The room was cleared of its nightlong fogginess and now felt every bit of its 88° thermostat setting. She noticed me at her side and said "Oh, aren't they beautiful? It was so lovely they all came to see me, but could you believe their beauty?" Still having seen nothing unusual but the now dissipated wierd cold fog, I replied that I was pleased she had had such a pleasant, comfortable night with her company. She allowed me to help her with a few sips of water and to get her into her favorite resting position, then shooed me away to "hurry home and tend to those boys." I went in to the report room and told her day nurse about the night and ask that perhaps she begin rounds with that room. I then clocked out and left the building. On my drive home, it occurred to me that I had never told her I had 2 young sons, that shift, or any night previous when I had helped answer her frequent calls. I was off the next night, but when I returned the day nurse to whom I'd reported off had left me a note taped to my locker. She had indeed began her rounds with this woman, entering her room to find our patient had passed away in the very few minutes between my departure and the day nurse's entry to the room.
That was a great story. It’s amazing some of the stories I’ve read about NDE’s including yours. There definitely is something to this. The connection to the other world is only seen by people close to death. It’s a fascinating subject.
When my Grandfather was on his deathbed, I was too young to understand why the doctors told Grandma to take away his IV and nasal feeder. Thinking about how I felt when I was hungry, it seemed exceedingly cruel and heartless. How could they put him through so much pain? What I did not realize at that time was his body was no longer functioning. His stomach and intestines had lost adequate blood flow weeks before that - he'd not been eating properly for quite a while before finally going to the doctor. There was No Way he could process food and never felt hunger at all. It's a difficult lesson for those of us who are relatively healthy to grasp. When the body gives out due to age, hunger and thirst aren't really much of an urge. Trust your doctors to be truthful when they tell you they are doing everything to make your loved one more comfortable. WE may feel pain, but if we truly love the one passing, allow the medical staff to do the right thing.
My uncle drowned in a river. His foot got stuck between the rocks. He was 19 years old. Six months later, my aunt dreamed about him. She walked into a room where there was 2 beds. There was a night table between the beds with a small lit candle. She asked him in the dream: why is there another bed? He said: it’s for you…we will be together soon. When she woke up, she told my grandmother and grandmother said: oh, hush now…it’s all in your head…3 months later, she was smashed into the wall on a boulevard by a drunk driver. She was 14 years old. My grandparents lost 2 children that year. They never gotten over it. This was 50 years ago. I absolutely believe there is something after death. There is more to life than just what we now. I’m so glad I found your channel. I’ve been looking for a professional who works in a hospice discussing things like this. Keep up the good work.🙏
Hi Julie Shortly before my husband Bill died, he and I were in the living room one evening. He said to me “there are three of us here.” He said the third person walked around behind his hospital bed, where there was nothing but wall. It’s interesting the connection a dying person has to the new world that they’re about to enter. My personal understanding has been that this death is often spoken of as “sleep”. Yet one thing that appeared to happen when my husband was moments from death, is that he seemed to be experiencing a welcome. He lifted his arms straight up toward the ceiling as if he was about to hug someone. He laid his left arm down while pointing at someone or something with his right hand. He then laid his right arm down, and that next moment he was gone.
I think there is a special place in Heaven for Hospice nurses! Thank you for helping not only the patient but the family get through the worst days of their lives. ❤❤❤
Absolutely agree. I worked in care homes and they didn't teach us any of this. I got so depressed. Thanks to Julie, I understand things far better and feel more relaxed about things. I believe everyone working in care homes should watch these videos.
@@Elvenboadicea BLESS YOUR HEART ALLY ❤ IT TAKES A SPECIAL SOUL TO DO THIS KIND OF WORK HONEY. IT'S ESPECIALLY DIFFICULT IF YOU'RE AN EMPATH. HOPE THAT YOU'RE DOING BETTER. PLEASE TAKE CARE OF YOU. SENDING YOU LOVE & HUGS ❤🤗
Both of my parents had loads of visitors we couldn't see during their last days. Dad's deceased mother and best friend came to see him in the hospital as well as several more at home. Mom's deceased siblings started showing up months before the death. It was a convention by the end -- the entire last week she was holding court with people we couldn't see. Luckily the caregivers and hospice workers educated my brother and me that it meant we were probably near the end. It was comforting to see for me.
My Mom had end stage dementia. In May, 2022 she sat straight up. I asked if she was okay. "Yes, Im just talking to your Grandma." (Gram passed in 88!) That same night, she sat up and looked like she was petting something. "You're such a good girl, Sassy!" Sassy was her dog who passed 25 years ago. Mom passed in September, peacefully and surrounded by her family. I missed her so much.
The night before my m-i-l passed, she asked if we could see her husband sitting next to her in bed. “He’s sitting right here with his hand on my leg.” Clear and lucid, she had no drugs in her system. He had died 14 days prior and she said he was waiting for her to join him. They knew each other since early childhood and spent their entire lives together 💙
A friend of mine had a massive stroke sitting at a traffic light just after leaving my house. He was of course taken to the hospital. I got a phone call from his # weeks after it happened. It was his brother. As soon as I heard a strange voice, I knew something was wrong. He filled me in about what happened and let me know that my buddie....his older brother was brain dead and moved to Hospice. It's hard to lose someone you are so close to.....we all know that. All of you that work in Hospice, or any Medical field...I cant see how you do it. I cry at total stranger's funerals. Y'all are a special breed and we love you all for it
My husband’s Oma (grandma) said that her brothers and her late husband had come to visit on separate occasions to welcome her home. She welcomed the visits and said it was almost time to move on. Oma was Catholic and would pray daily. Her priest would stop by and pray with her a few times a week. The night she passed, everyone came to take her home and she went gently. ❤️
My mom passed away about 5 years ago from a glio brain tumor. About a month after her passing late at night I was going around the house right before I went to bed to make sure the house was locked and secure as it's something I've always done. While I was making my rounds I had this extremely overwhelming feeling that I wasn't alone as I never experienced that feeling before especially to that intensity. Really hard to describe that feeling, but it's almost as if my soul was making a connection with something unseen by my physical being. Everywhere I went in the house that overwhelming sense followed me as my wife and kids were already upstairs asleep as I was physically alone in my house. I made my way to my bedroom as like I said my wife was already asleep and that sense was still with me that someone was standing over me while I lay in bed watching me. I couldn't get to sleep as I lay there for well over an hour tossing and turning as that internal feeling was keeping me up, until I got up and took a melatonin and finally I fell asleep. When I awoke the next morning that sense was completely gone as it had left the house while I was asleep. Went downstairs sitting at my kitchen table eating breakfast before work and my wife was in the next room and she piped up and said, by the way I had a dream last night that your mom knocked on the front door and when I answered it she was standing there on our front porch looking much younger and with a big smile on her face said, "I'm back."
I love this! My dad passed June of this year and sometimes I get that same feeling that he’s around. I truly believe they come visit. Could NOT be coincidence your wife had that dream that night
My grandma told she was scared to die . And I said “your raised my mother and you’re scared to die?” She laughed so loud and said “we’ll I’m glad I did because I got you out of it” 😂
This is kind of a different twist on a vision. The morning my 98 year old mom's last remaining sibling died I went into my mom's bedroom after hearing her call out. She did not know about the death at all, but I could tell she was upset. She said she was so mad because all her brothers, sisters and their spouses were sitting around a huge table with wonderful food, but they would not let her come in. She said, "everyone was there but they told me to GO AWAY ... that I win"!!!! That was two years ago, and my mom is still alive. She has been on Hospice for almost 3 years. I just now found your channel and am so happy I did. This is helping me to understand and prepare without guilt! Thanks.
Hospice workers are amazing, and I'm so thankful for the ones who helped my family! I was with my mom almost every minute in her final two weeks here. During this time, she would awake from a deep sleep to see me sitting nearby and then start pointing around the room. Her gaze would slowly move back and forth from the doorway to the foot of her bed. I asked her one day if she was seeing angels and she nodded her head, as if thinking i could see them too. I told her that i couldn't because they were there for only her to see, BUT i could sense their presence and noticed how the lighting in the room would change. Prior to this, different family members and friends sat with her while my dad and i left long enough to get sleep or eat a meal or get showers. On one occasion, upon returning to the hospice, i asked her who all came to visit her and she started listing deceased relatives who she was always very fond of, like my great grandmother, a great aunt and her favorite uncle. I knew by this that her time with us was drawing to a close.
Momma lost 3 babies before I was born. A few weeks before she passed I came into her room and she told me "Look! The children are playing!" And she told me my deceased sister's and brother's names. She was so happy.
My brother was internally bleeding after a car accident we were in. He said he saw our grandfather whom we were really close to when he was alive. He was surprised to see him and wondered what was happening. My brother had been complaining about the pain and my dad keep taking him to urgent care. They hadn’t detected the internal bleeding for a few days and he was about 2 hours from dying before my dad demanded that they do an ultrasound and prove to him that nothing was wrong with my brother. Luckily they complied with my dad’s request and did the ultrasound and determined he needed to be rushed to the hospital for emergency operation. My brother is still alive.
Julie, thank you. I was with my Mum & Dad when they passed and witnessed a lot of what you have described, regarding visioning whilst still very lucid, and physical changes when close to passing. I was never worried about where they were going, but concerned that they were in discomfort (death rattle etc.) but now I know they were not aware of any of that, and completely comfortable. I lost 2 of my children too, and am comforted by your stories, shorts and video’s. You are quite special you know 💝xx
My father had been slowly losing functions for some time, and it was a severe urinary infection that brought him down enough to start hospice care. The doctors got him past the infection, and we made him comfortable in a hospital bed in our living room. But interestingly enough, during that infection he'd lost all fear of death. He told us that he had been traveling through the galaxies, in his words. During the next month or so until he died, he saw relatives long gone, and also kept saying how much he wanted to return to _"las galaxias."_ (He spoke little English.) He died comfortably, knowing where he was going. Since then, the family gets together on the anniversary of his death, and I always make a galaxy cake for him.
I am a hospice nurse of 20+ years. Families often find this disturbing, my answer is " we can only help someone just so far in their journey and there is someone there to help them the rest of the way." They find some comfort in the thought that their loved one isn't alone.
Even as a young girl and to this day, I 've been interested in the dying process and making it comfortable for those who are passing and the after life. I read the book by ELIZABETH KYBLER-ROSS, On Death and Dying, as soon as it came out in the 70's. I want to thank you for being brave enough to open a blog based on your experiences with the dying. It's always been such a mystery, but you help to remove the fear of dyingr for those actively dying or their caregivers. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
@@dianegoulah5439 Kubler-Ross was - and Raymond Moody is - great pioneers in the field of consciousness research. We've come light years in the last several decades thanks to their courage and hard work. I follow the Thanatos channel and a few others from Europe simply because the overall trust in an afterlife is greater there for some reason. (And, happily enough, religion doesn't play as big a part in the conversation.) Peace.
Hi Julie, I was a hospice nurse for the last 6 yrs of a 23 yr nursing career. I always worked in nursing homes & switching to hospice nursing was the best, rewarding move I ever made during my career. Everything you are saying is absolutely true. I've seen some of the most amazing things I've ever seen in my entire life. Being able to educate the family of the dying process is so rewarding, after their loved one passes, they hug you, thank you & tell you they couldn't have got thru this without me there to understand what their loved one is going thru. The family is more at ease & peace with the understanding of how the body is shutting down, becoming detached from earthly things & people as they are seeing the spirit realm & about to pass over. I could tell you hundreds of beautiful stories that I have witnessed & had the honor to be with that family to help them thru it all.
My Dad died at my brother's home. It was late at night, and he and his wife were downstairs with Dad saying goodnight and such. The rails were up on his hospital bad and he was covered. When they were finished with singing hymns and praying, they headed upstairs. On their way up, they heard Dad talking. In the morning when my brother came downstairs, he found Dad with a leg over the rail and his covers thrown off. They are sure someone had come to get him and he was ready to go. I'm sorry I missed it. My sister-in-law still tears up when she tells the story. Even after 27 years, the story still warms my heart! What an honor they received!
My mother said she saw a man and a woman were walking up the driveway. She was in a hospital bed in the back of her house, so she couldn't have seen her driveway. She said, "maybe they're angels coming to take me... Or maybe they're just Jehovah's Witnesses." Humor until the end. Nurse Julie got me through these past several months. My mama died last month and the sadness is just hitting me more and more. So I thought I'd come back to watch Julie. I'm so grateful for the time i had to take care of my mother, to hold her as she died. I think it's keeping me from being more of a wreck than i am right now. Thank you to all the wonderful hospice nurses out there.
I pray you will have comfort as you work through your grief. I’ve been going through it too and have found at times that it helps to remember you’re not alone in feeling grief, that there are thousands , maybe even millions, going through similar experiences. I was with my mom as she died, too. Know how much she loves you and grieves at the grief you feel. I wish I could give you a hug! You’re not alone dear friend ❤
When my mom was dying, I was in the room with her and I, someone clear -headed and healthy and awake, felt a fantastic presence I could only describe as holiness. It was weird because I can't remember ever feeling it before, yet I recognized it as a holy presence I was familiar with. That tells me it was from a better world, here to take her home. I've never before and never since felt it. I'm not one to usually talk like this but this was so evident and real and beautiful beyond description. Thanks Julie for your excellent work ❤
I had that feeling too when my mum had passed. I was 11, I wasn’t with her but this feeling woke me and I knew she had gone-but the feeling was so comforting I felt so at peace 🙏
@@alexandrataylor7739I too was 11, in 1956 a long time ago. I wasn't allowed in the hospitals then. No one told me she had died until quite a few days later. Strange times then but hard for young people.
July 4th 2000. My dad passed at home from cancer. He made me promise not to cry when I got there a few weeks prior. So when the time came I wasn't wrapped up in my own emotions, I too felt this awesome feeling of Joy greet my Dad as he was taking his last breaths... I'm not afraid.
@@ReginaEwing That's so amazing. Now I'm going back remembering the feeling and if I'd describe it as joy. But no, it was more an exquisite, still, holy presence. I certainly got joy from it, though. Interesting that you felt it as joy meeting him. And I'm not afraid either. ♥️
That's a PERFECT description of the feeling that wrapped around me when my Dad came to me (from across the country!) 15 minutes after he died! Holiness, Peace, Purest Love!! He said to me, telepathically not to cry~ he said "IT'S WONDERFUL!!!"
Hi Julie, I was so excited to happen upon your video here. I love what you do for us…lots of people are posting on this subject now and some are truly very good but nobody does it better than you. This is your calling. Well done and thank you🤗❤️ My dad passed in 2019 & my mom passed one year later. Mom had been hospitalized many times due to showers of strokes caused my loosened plaque (stupid procedure to clear the external carotids) Anyway…the last time she was in the hospital was in March. I went to visit her one day in the hospital and when I walked in she said “Your dad was here today”. I kind of panicked thinking, no! You can’t go yet! She said “Don’t worry, I’m not going anywhere for a long time. He didn’t come in, just peeked his head in the door. He said he wasn’t here to get me yet, just stopping by. He had passed 9 months before but she was just so matter of fact about it and I had no reason to disbelieve her. (Even though she’d had strokes she was sharp as ever…could discuss current events, remembered dates, her list of meds, her 19 grandchildren and all their birthdates…something I couldn’t even do! Lol) Well, she didn’t go anywhere right away but she did leave us in June. I went to her house and found her in her recliner, book in hand, tv on, head crooked at an odd angle…she had left the body. Both of my parents (I’m convinced) made sure to leave without me there. She died less than two weeks shy of the one year anniversary of the day my dad died. 9 years later my dad’s brother died and I was with him when he left. My aunt, my cousin and I had just taken showers at the hospital (we’d been there for a few days straight at that point) & changed into comfy clothes we had run across the way & purchased at Walgreens. It was July 4th. When we came back in to the ward the nurse told us that he was getting ready. She had given us a booklet describing what active dying was so we knew it was close. Just 2 days before he had been sitting up, laughing and joking with us. In the several days preceding many family members had been in to visit. We were seated in chairs all around his bed. My cousin was holding her baby granddaughter on her lap…she, the baby, was laughing and seemed to be playing with someone right next to me…someone the rest of us couldn’t see. On the night of July 4th, just as the fireworks were exploding in the sky, my uncle made his exit. My cousin cried out just as his last breath was escaping and his body slightly raised off of the bed as if he was being pulled…I’ve always thought it was his soul having a tough time letting go of his body.
My father always blamed himself for the failure of his marriage to my mom. (They were married for 35 years). I was always told that my grandfather on my dad’s side (he died when my dad was 18 , so I never got to meet him), absolutely loved my mom. She took care of him while he was dying. This being said, my dad always told me, jokingly, that when it was his time to transition, he was going to have to duck down because my grandfather was going to deck him for choosing fishing over my mom (family joke). My father sadly passed at age 61. I was there with him when he took his last breath. He hadn’t spoken in days (he died from bladder cancer, it wasn’t pretty), but as he took his last breath, he spoke loudly & said in amusement “I told you I was going to have to duck because you weren’t going to be happy with me, pop”. I knew he was home. Also, during his death experience, I often saw angels right above his bed. I was the only one who saw them (my brother & sister & mom were there, too). One more story- (sorry for the long comment). Within a few weeks of my dad passing away, my youngest son, who was 5 yrs old, started asking me to turn his nightlife off at night. When I asked him why, (he had always been afraid of the dark), he told me “ because when papa comes to visit me at nighttime, heaven’s colors are so beautiful & I can’t see them as well with my night light on”. This was just the beginning of what my son would experience with my dad in the afterlife. I have some amazing stories. ❤
@@jimmyh7529 Great question! I had asked myself this same question many times after it happened, but there is just no denying what I saw & experienced. The “angels” were a white smoky light & they hovered above him. I felt like they were separate beings, like maybe 3 or 4 different ones. They would hover & then as I would approach, they would dissipate. I was extremely close to my dad growing up. He was my best friend & I think this is why I was the one closest to him in death. I had also always been very sensitive to the spirit world. I had worked in a funeral home for many years & had experiences there, as well. To explore your question even more, I suppose it is always possible to want to see and believe something so badly, that we manifest the experience. Either way, it was as real to me as the couch I am currently sitting on. The experiences my youngest son had after his passing were also significant, so I honestly know that what I saw was real. I honestly believe the other side of the veil is more “real” than our lives here on the earthly plain. I had a near death experience in 2012 & was shown some pretty amazing things, too. I can tell you that I do not fear death in any way. After being with at least 6 people while they crossed over, the experience has been similar, although I only physically saw the angels during my dad’s death. ✨💫
@@Silverstreak7878 thank you. I often think about ways I can share some of my experiences with those who are curious, however, aside from starting my own channel or writing a book, I am not sure how to do so. I can share with you another one of the experiences my 5 year old son had after my father’s passing. I was driving & my son was in the backseat. I heard him start saying out loud “I love you, too, Papa”. My father & him had always played a game where my dad would say “I love you, Max “ & Max would reply “I love you too, Papa” & my dad would keep saying it until Max would get annoyed & yell “ I LOVE YOU, TOO, PAPA”. This is exactly what I was hearing, but I was only hearing Max’s side of it. When I asked him if he was pretending to play the game with Papa, he replied “I’m not pretending. Papa is sitting right next to me. Can’t you smell him?” At that moment my car filled up with the scent of Jovan musk, which my father wore WAY too much of (it was a family joke- smelling papa before he entered the room :). It was so overwhelming I had to pull over & roll down my window. I will never forget it. It is one thing to see & feel spirits, but to smell them? That blew my mind. 😊❤️
oh my GOSH!! I love this! I was 10 years old when my father died in the hospital! I didn’t know he was dying… he came into my bedroom and walked towards me when he passed… I will never forget it! When I woke up, there were lots of people in my house…..
I volunteered for hospice for about eight years, and I never seen such beautiful passings, I would say 80% of my clients were ready to die and happy about going to meet their loved ones that they talked about all the time, and both my grandmother's died in the same hospital two years apart and they were ready to meet there maker and they both had tears in there eyes when leaving us, they are definitely with us in spirit
I'm so thrilled you're doing this. I was a CNA who worked in hospice before I became sick and ended up on disability myself (cancer).. I'd never heard the term visioning but the phenomenon you speak of absolutely happened. I found it very comforting. I had so many encounters and experiences yet I was constantly told it wasn't real, just my imagination.. I knew it was not. There were cases I worked on where I didn't know every detail up front(I was a substitute CNA) and I'd feel weird pains in my body. I had one charge nurse who was open minded and explained to me that I was an empath and was feeling the patients disease. I thought she was crazy at first but overtime realized she was correct. She was the only one who understood or validated my experiences. I could see the patient soul leave their body.. I'd try to tell the nurses or other staff that they were gone but if their breathing was still happening at all, I was assured they had not passed yet. I understood the body just hadn't stopped yet but the soul was gone or ejected already. I'd always see said patient in my minds eye, looking young and healthy and radiant. I called these the 'glamour shot' photo bc that's exactly what they reminded me of. I knew they'd made it and were safe even if their body wasn't fully transitioned yet. Back then, this was all very taboo and I was the weird one. It's a relief to see more open mindedness and understanding of these things. I wish you so many blessings in your mission to teach the truths about this subject. Thank you ✨💚✨
I really like you and your channel. I am dying of a neurological disease and have had my own process dealing with it. It makes me feel good when someone such as yourself who deals with people in their final stages, espouse views which reflect my own. Thank you Nurse Julie! My daddy saw his parents before he died and all kinds of experiences I wish I could share
I listened to a podcast with Dr John Lerma, author of the book "Into the Light", pre death experiences. It fascinated me! My grandmother was 100 years old, in my aunt's home for hospice. My mother and her 2 sisters took turns holding vigil over Grammy until she passed. I asked my mother if Grammy ever talked to anyone not present in the room. She surprisingly that yes, Grammy did! She caught Grammy talking, "There you are, little boy! Why is it you never talk to me?", my mom told me. Then one day Grammy asked mom, "Donna, who's that tall man sitting in the corner?" Mom told her she doesn't see anybody. Grammy said he had a black tall hat and suit. Mom never did find out who the man was, but that Grammy definitely saw him. She also asked my aunt Carolyn if she could hear the music? Carolyn asked, "What music?" Grammy said she can hear the angels singing!! It's wonderful!!
My grandmother lived to 92. She'd lost her little brother "Tiny" to rabies in childhood, when at 8 years old he was bitten by a dog while on his paper route. A few days before my grandmother passed Tiny came and stayed with her to the end. She talked and laughed with him constantly, no differently than if he were physically in her room.
I just came across this video. It was nice hearing other people had experienced what I did with my dad. He was dying of COPD and went through different kinds of delirium and confusion. About a month or so before he died the most beautiful thing happened. He had been suffering so much and had been pretty much sleeping for a whole week. Then one day my mother called me to come quick. I ran down the stairs in a panic. I thought something was wrong. Instead my dad had woken up. Was sitting up and laughing. He was blowing kisses and reaching his arms towards someone we did not see. My sweet daddy was a serious man and rarely ever showed such displays of affection or excitement. Always was dignified and composed. My mom and I were so stunned and happy to see him so happy. We were crying and I asked him " Daddy who is it? Who do you see?". He said "my momma!", as he continued to blow kisses towards her. It was so beautiful...he got winded after a bit. He cupped his hands over his mouth like he wanted to be heard far as he could...he asked "which way do I go?". I'll never forget that moment as long as I live. It helped comfort me and helped my mother and I both to know he wasn't scared to die. Knowing loved ones were gathered, waiting was such a relief. 4 years after my father died my 18 year took his own life after a bad fight with his girlfriend. The biggest fear in my heart was where was he at that moment. Understanding the process of after death became the most important thing to me in a instant. That experience with my father gave me a bit of comfort. Knowing grandpa would come get my son. I kept finding myself telling my son...find grandpa honey...momma loves you. Now you just go wait with papa for the rest of us. I was so afraid my sons soul would be stuck. So I told my other grown kids to just keep talking to him. Tell him everything will be okay...to go find poppa and not to worry we would find him when our time came. Someday when my time comes..I will be so overjoyed to be greeted by my sweet boy and my dad. I find myself seeking these sort of afterlife videos. They help my broken heart. Thank you for all these beautiful stories. They truly help and comfort those of us needing a extra bit of reassurance and me hope. ❤
Watching all of these hospice videos have really helped me not be afraid of death and to see life differently. A year ago I started having serious neuro issues that made me lose control of my body and be in pain. It took months to get a diagnosis and it’s not even for sure. Like what crazy thing will happen today, will I go blind, what will my life be in a year, will I have to move in with my parents and die? That’s a scary place to be and made me face mortality, at 40. Now I feel like no matter what happens I’m going to be okay, even if it’s the worst, even if it kills me. Way less anxiety now.
Today marks the 6th anniversary of my wife's passing. I feel so comforted by you postings. My wife was a hospice volunteer for 8 years. Thank you so much.
My husband and I provided hospice care for his father. Binge-watching your videos showed me everything I needed to know to keep him safe and comfortable, If not for the videos, so much of what happened would have been stressful for us; but from the videos, we knew what to expect. In the final weeks, my FiL saw people and pets that had long passed. For the last four or five days, he didn't want food and soon after, he didn't want anything to drink either. On the last night, I could tell by his breathing that it was time. I sat up with him all night and held his hand and talked to him. One of the last things I told him was that if he needs to go, it's okay, that I'll take care of his son. He passed quietly a little while later, The pauses between breaths got longer and longer until finally, he just didn't inhale again. He was happy to die at home with us and we were happy to provide the care he needed to make it so. Thank you for your amazing channel.
My mum was in the active dying stage for 10 days before she finally passed. I hope she experienced the peace you talk of. It was a pretty traumatic experience for me to watch her like that for so long. I think she was holding on because she was scared. It came on so fast for her, too. We didn’t even have time to talk about all the important stuff before she went into her vegetative state. Same with my dad. No peace that I know of. Super fast, no closure. He was also isolated because of Covid. I wish peaceful passings for all and their families. It’s so much harder to grieve when it’s not peaceful for the people we love most.
I'm so sorry, I had been told since I was 9 years old. That I would be the one who watched over the nurses and hospice people at home with my mother and father. The will and the money had been put aside and revised for inflation as time went on. A family member had been spreading. Lies about me to a very large family. That we were not close enough to talk day to day. But they knew I was the quote and quote good kid in the family. They knew there was a lot of problems with the older children. But I was the one who stuck by my parents. How this got changed I still don't know. But illegally they legally changed the will. I'm sure money changed hands. There's no other way because everything was said in stone. By the time it was changed and my parents were not considered able to make those decisions. So it was illegal. So I was not with my parents as I was supposed to be. It was so important to my mother and I especially to be together. My father never talked about those kind of things, He knew I would be there though. At the end, My mother was in a nursing home, which was her worst nightmare. And that particular nursing home, she was most afraid of because of things we dealt with in the past. She passed there with my father. Also in a bed very ill in in last stages of cancer. Somebody in the family who still wanted to make sure that money came their way. Took my father for the rest of the three or six months of his life, i'm not sure. I was kept away the last four years of their life. It was all illegal and wrong, but all my money was wrapped up in their accounts, which were stripped by these people. It's been very difficult for me because of not having any kind of closure. They thought I abandoned them that's what they were told. Meanwhile I was fighting tuesday night almost daily in the courts with no representation. The things we've seeing people happen to my mother fifteen years before she passed. All I have is her voice on my phone screaming for me. Nice family huh. I don't know what I believe in. But I hope somehow they know that what happened. That I was fighting to be with them.😢❤
@@gomezaddams6470 ... Your parents know that you did your best. 💗 I am so sorry for the dehumanization done by your relatives. The Father Creator knows all of our minds and hearts and will give to each and every one of us according to our works. You won't be forgotten and your parents are patiently waiting for you.💗
@gomezaddams6470 I really hope your parents visit you in a way that comforts you and they reassure you everything is ok. It sounds like you did your best and are a wonderful person. God bless you.
Thank you for your explanations The older we old people we get the more we expect the situation of moving on. It certainly gives me more comfort to know what will happen. Again thank you. Thank you also to be honest and so open about it Eugen
Thank you for your channel. My son's rabbit passed on December 12th last year. This week after midnight, all 4 of our rabbits starting thumping loudly. My son was still up making some noise. I asked if he could be quiet. The buns still persisted and all looked in the same direction. I felt Cottonball's presence, even though I could not see her. I saved some of her wool and let each bunny smell it. They acted as if they recognized it. I told her that we loved her and missed her. Although I could not see her, I felt her presence in our younger rabbits' playpen. I reached done to pet her and acknowledge that we knew she was there. I believe she came to say goodbye. I believe in an afterlife and that we will be reunited with all family, including fur babies.
I had a pet rabbit that I loved dearly, he was sick and had been injured at the vets office so he couldn't jump. I left him loose in my bedroom when I went to sleep, during the night I felt him on the bed with me tho he had not been able to jump. The next morning I found him dead in my bead room floor, quite stiff and cold. I feel like he visited me before he died.
It's really hard to read stories about your rabbits because my best friend my dog, Gus, passed. I miss him terribly and cry as I write this. Why doesn't he come and visit me.
As I write this I sit bedside with my 93 yr old mother who is in hospice. Her wonderful roommate told me this morning when I arrived here, “your Mom was talking to someone this morning”. Since she had had no visitors & no one else was in the room,I can only assume she was visioning. Your videos have been a source of education and comfort for me during my mothers death process. Thank you so much.
Thank you all! She did have a transition that was pretty much exactly what Hospice Nurse Julie has been explaining to us. Therefore, the fear factor of what to expect was taken out of the equation. Thank you Julie, and all here, as because of you I was able to view my mothers death as a normal part of life instead of a horrible, unfair event.
One of my particular experiences was; One night, while I was watching TV, I heard a voice say “there’s my grandson”, but the voice came from a direction different from my TV. At that moment, I knew my grandfather had passed away. The next morning, my mother walked into my bedroom and said, “your granddad died last night” I said “I know”, she said how did you know that, but I didn’t want to answer.
I used to volunteer at a hospice and this woman who I would sit with never spoke to me. This went on for months, which was fine. The very last day she looked over at me and told me thank you for sitting with her. She passed shortly after and I never saw her again. I really appreciated her time and it was an honor to sit with her through the end of her life.
When my mother was in hospital during her last month or two of life there was a little old lady opposite her. She never spoke, just sat and watched. Anyway, a few hours after visiting had finished, this little lady said to my mum, "your husband was here until late" my mum thought she was confused and meant her son. The lady said "no your husband, he was sat on your bed, he was wearing an overcoat and trilby hat" my mum was so un-nerved telling me what the lady had said. My dad had died 20 years earlier and the little lady described him perfectly!! The overcoat, hat ! It was summer by the way and no one was wearing a coat of any description. My mum died not so long after
Two stories. First was my grandmother. Born in 1896 and was failing in 1986. To hear you talk now, she was shutting down, getting ready to go, not eating at all. I drove up to visit the weekend before she passed and I felt someone should be doing something. I started talking to her trying to entice her, listing foods that I thought she might accept, she wanted nothing. Me, being Mr Know-it-all made her some chocolate pudding. I went back into her room when it was ready and told her what I’d made for her….. her last words to me, “I’ve always known you were a witch. You were the one that could always make me do things I didn’t want to.” Then she ate three spoons full, and said, “Thank you, I love you. That was good.” I left town Sunday evening and had to drive back Monday night. The next was my aunt that passed in 2001. She was laying in a hospice bed chattering away to folks that weren’t there. Smiling, laughing…. Then she got this very stern tone to her voice, “I cannot believe you! How can you sit there and ignore your mother like that?” I asked where she was…. And without missing a beat, she’s standing right behind you - her hands are on your shoulders. I’d lost her 11 years before that…. and it was the hardest thing I’d ever gone through. I told my aunt I’d be right back, went to the hallway and lost my mom all over again. Nurses started rushing into my aunt’s room thinking that she’d died. That was the first time anyone ever explained visioning to me. Dear God, I hope that’s a real thing.
It's real. Loved ones come usually a month or less before person dies, but it varies sometimes. The person is Transitioning.. So getting near to the active dying stage. Sometimes people will actually slowly become younger looking as they are days before their passing.
My father only wanted vanilla ice cream at the end. Then nothing and he moved on. I wasn’t present at the time. Your channel brings comfort in knowing he wasn’t suffering, and I now believe he was in utopia where he could have as much vanilla ice cream as he wanted 😊while he waited to enter Heaven. God bless you and the work you do.
My Step mom tells the story about her Dad. He had a surgery scheduled to replace his knee. A week before the surgery he told my grandma that his late relatives (his parents, her parents and a granddaughter that had passed away) were visiting him and talking to him. He had never had anything like that happen before that. He died on the operation table.
It happened to me. When in the hospital I saw my dead family members, my late husband and people I didn’t recognize around my bed watching me. I thought they had come to get me. Later that night I woke up with a room full of nurses and a doctor and a crash cart. Idk
The veil was just a little thin at the time. You don't have to be dying for that to happen--it can occur sometimes when someone on the other side needs to speak to you
Maybe without the crash cart, you were on your way. Maybe they were there to make sure you made it to the crash cart. Or to let you know that it was ok either way, cuz death is just a change.
I have taken care of 5 family members on Hospice. My aunt called out her son’s name three times the day before she passed. He had died of glioblastoma the previous year. My uncle kept pointing to the corner of the room and saying, “Mother!”. I am a retired RN and all my experience with death and dying mirrors what you are saying. Keep educating people.
In the weeks leading up to my grandma's passing, I heard her talking to her self one night and I came into the room and was listening and she was saying ... I'm coming home mama, I'm coming home! She had an extremely profound experience when her mother died in the 1950s. I had her tell me that story over and over. She spoke to her mother or heard her after she died, a couple days and her sister that lived in another city had the exact same experience at the exact same time. She never really understood why or how that happened but it was pretty amazing.
Thanku julie, i lost my twin sister 3 yrs ago, she was 54, i was there by her bedside & with what u described, i now feel so much better, i thought, she had been in discomfort & suffering, now i know, she wasn't at all.,..., my father passed a yr later, he saw his late mum, about ten minutes b4 he passed... he never believed in spirits or afterlife, his face of shock, but a wonderful big smile, he had.❤😢
My sister was in hospice for 5 days and the staff were amazing. I spent the last hours with her before she took her last breath. What I experienced was something that has left me in total wonder. It was late in the evening and the room was pretty dark and I was sitting in a chair about 3 feet from her head. It suddenly appeared that her eyes were a tiny bit open and I felt she was staring at me. Then I could hear movement behind me and felt a presence that I just don't have words to describe. But this presence felt awesome to me. I wanted to turn around and look, but I couldn't. Then my sisters face would look bright like a light shining on her and then fade to dark over and over. Then there appeared these tiny lights of white and green darting around the room. I couldn't do anything as I was honestly in awe of what was happening. And then it was over and she took her last breath a couple hours later. I would like to know if anyone out there has had an experience like this or if you have heard of anything like this. I'm an intelligent professional woman and this experience has forever changed me in that there is definitely an unseen realm. Thankful for your posts and all that you share regarding ones last days here.
I wasn't there to see this but had a great uncle that was passing & the family talked about seeing a white orb in the room & even took pictures of the " white mist" lingering above his bed. My uncle talked to & about the Angel's he saw in his room too. It brought his family so much peace 🙏
nothing with lights but you do feel "that presence " and you just know and it doesn't care if you know or not. I had an experience involving a long dead relative, a white mist, lots and lots of noise and doors slamming and footsteps. it most definitely wanted me to know it was there. The most terrifying experience of my life, yet when i saw it , i felt totally calm. .. and I just knew it was ok (that was the only part that i felt calm in - the rest when i was trying to figure it out & it was terrifying because it took me by surprise) I watch these videos to make sense of it all because i want a logical explanation, but there isn't one . I guess we aren't supposed to know . We are most definitely not alone
Yes...I had somewhat the same experience with my Mom & the lights. I sat with her the night she passed... just hours b4 hospice was to start ~ they were starting at 8am the next morning. My brother lived next door (acreage, so not that "close"). I wondered why he was down at the pond in the dark with a flashlight. But then there were multiple lights not just a single one. They "came" individually... first just the one (which I thought was my brother) -but then two, then three until there were 5..so I knew it wasn't my brother OR flaslights. They were slowly moving toward the house from the lower property. Mom passed a short time later...and the lights were gone. I'm convinced 5 of her "people" came to get her. She wasn't supposed to pass yet BTW; but I believe she passed as soon as she could...cuz she really didn't want hospice 🤣 She was a SUPER private & tough woman. A couple days later I was in our home office working on her funeral tract at the computer. All of a sudden the room filled with the smell of lavender. (I'd used lavender lotion on her hands - her favorite) I didn't even turn around... just smiled and said "I love you, Ma". The scent left as quickly as it came 💜
@@bobbi7 Thank you for sharing, how beautiful. To this day I've been left in such wonder at what occurred in my sister's death, It's reassuring knowing someone else had a similar experience.
A close friend of mine was after a accident dead for 30 minutes or so and years later he told me everything he has seen while he was in heaven. He told me that heaven is much more real than our earth 🌎 Since several years he is finally in heaven 🙏🙏🙏
My sister was clinically dead for several minutes. She said that she was following nurses down the hall, watching CPR being done on her body, and then went down a tunnel. At the end of the tunnel, our father turned her back and said it wasn't her time.
My wife's grandmother right near the end when she was still at home would tell us of a little boy who lived under the table and would talk to her and would often ask if we all can see the boy. She also said strange things about me during that time. The woman and I weren't all that close, as I became a part of the family rather late to know her with all of her faculties, though she was still very active. I knew her less than 2 years before she became seriously ill. I was at her bedside when she drew her last breath. I remember how peace that last breath seemed. I felt her spirit hovering over us for a second. The air in the room lifted, at least for me. A surreal experience. Julie, you have a kind face. I can tell you are a wonderful hospice nurse.
Soooo love when you read these experiences out ! It brings much comfort and joy ❤ pls try to do this when u can. I am a nurse that works in the nursing home. This was the place I chose to work and love it ! Love making their final years happy. Thank you for your experiences and sharing ❤
My father asked "where did Sudie (his deceased sister) go?" We asked "was she here? " He answered " yes and she said she would be back later." He was in hospital and passed later that day. I knew he was leaving when I heard this - there was an affirmative glance between my mom and me. He was completely lucid, his heart was giving out, and he was not afraid -it seemed perfectly normal to him that his sister had visited. It gave me peace and I know that we die alone, but we are NOT alone! Thank you for a space to address these issues.
Hi, both of my parents have passed away. My dad six years before my mom who suffered from dementia. When they were both still alive they had such a unique relationship. One thing about my dad is he had to control the TV and she let him. He could fall asleep in his chair and we go for the remote and he would suddenly reach out for it, opening his eyes. The last month of my mom's life she saw my dad a lot. She was much more lucid, something she hadn't experienced in a long time due to dementia. Every day one of us would bring her a Coke. It was her daily treat while in the memory care facility and that last month she would ask why we hadn't brought one for our dad. My adult son went to visit her and he was sitting in her recliner, her sitting up in bed, and the TV was on but it was on football. He asked her if she wanted him to change the channel and started looking for the remote. He asked her where her remote was and she said his grandpa has it. He asked where he was. She said in the recliner. My son slowly rose from the chair... But one of the other things in the dynamics of my parents is my dad was fully my mom's care giver and planned for her care following his death. He always made sure to guide her through everything and just put her first. I can imagine that whether or not there's life after death that it would be his image she would see because it was a source of comfort.
Thank you, my dear friend, Julie. That's what you are to us, not just somebody we listen to about death. You're our dear friend. Maybe some people don't point that out, but they're feeling it, believe me. You've eased my mind so much. I'm ready for the next adventure after this one now. I've been in chronic pain for 28 years and being out of pain sounds fine to me. I hope you realize how much you mean to us. God bless you.
AMEN JOAN 🙏 CHRONIC PAIN SUFFERER AS WELL. COMING UP ON 27 YEARS. YES, I'M ACTUALLY LOOKING FORWARD TO MY PASSING FROM THIS LIFE FULL OF PAIN. I KNOW I WILL FINALLY HAVE PEACE. PLEASE TAKE CARE. SENDING YOU LOVE & HUGS ❤🤗
My dad recently passed away on Feb 15th. He was sitting a lot with his eyes closed. At one point he started talking and then opened his eyes and looked around. He saw me sitting there and seemed perplexed and said “I could have swore that I was talking to my dad”. A week later he passed. Also, I’m not afraid of dying. What I’m afraid of is leaving my boys and they are both grown. Like you said.
While my father was passing, he started talking to his best friend who had passed a few months prior. A full on conversation with his friend telling him to come with him.
I’ve seen both. I was at my Gma’s side for 4 days a month before she died. She was seeing angels and had her hands up in the air kind of dancing with her hands. Just 2 weeks ago I had a patient who was hallucinating. He was very upset. Days later he explained that he was seeing little people getting bossed around by a big nurse and he wanted me to go find him and tell him to stop bossing the people around. He remembered it well. When I left that facility, he was improving. He’s 98 and has gone through tons of ups and downs where we thought it was the end but he bounced back. Sweet man and I really enjoyed working with him while I could.
I am very sorry for your loss. Recently on UA-cam i saw so many videos about NDE, even from the doctors and etc., there is definitely heaven after life and we all meet each other there one day.
I'm sorry that you lost your sister. That is a void my own sister and I will experience one day. We talk about it, and she's so very scared that I will go first and leave her behind to grieve. She even asked me to promise to go after her. I love my sister Karen, and can't imagine either being without the other.
@@monicacollins8289I am the youngest of 6 kids-3 girls and 3 boys. I have always been very attached to my big sisters and my big brothers, and I have always worried about getting old and being left behind. One sister has passed, and my oldest sister has dementia. My brothers are doing well. I watched them all leave home, one by one, and I hate to see them leave me alone. That might be selfish, but I love them all. I am so sorry for your loss.🙏❤️🌹
My Mema passed in August, she carried on full conversations with my Papa, her parents and all of her siblings ( she was 99 and had out lived everyone else) I never left her the last month and a half…but 5 days before she passed she was telling me about her late night visitors, one was a man who washed her feet (I still get chills when I say it) being 99 she was a very conservative person so she pulls me down and whispers, I’m sure glad he didn’t wash any higher 💜🤣 that’s my Mema! The other 3 “visitors” were still there 2 men 1 woman who “crocheted crocheted and crocheted” again my Mema whispers I think they’re from NY (like it was a dirty word)🤷🏻♀️🤣 and told me they were starting to get on her nerves, could I ask them to leave? Yes ma’am I’m on it🫡 ! So I politely told them visiting hours were over, thanks for coming by, opened the door walked out and came back in🤷🏻♀️ where she thanked me profusely and said she was proud I still used my manners 💜 I miss her so much
@@elainemartinez2021 absolutely! She was a Christian southern lady, raised in church and continued to serve until she felt unsteady on her feet ( she was always afraid she’d fall and embarrass herself or who she was with and tell everyone home was her comfort zone) I would definitely say she was a modern day disciple! So the symbolism of her feet being washed, was definitely not lost on me!
@@dawnreed1631praise the Lord I am so glad I came across this post you have blessed me more than you will ever know. God bless you my friend and your beautiful mema
@@RonColeman-zy5cd I’m so glad you got a blessing from this!!! And it blessed me too, knowing you did💜 I love it when people slow down to realize blessings are all around us!! Sometimes we’re so busy listening for the boom and thunder, that we miss the actual blessing that comes from the gentle breeze 😉
@@dawnreed1631 Honey when we get to glory is when we will realize what all we missed other than that I so look forward to that great day. Pray for us I sure will be praying for you and your family. God bless you my friend
You are really providing a great service to the rest of us who not medically trained. I felt like the angel of death back in 2009-2010, when I assisted and witnessed the death of 3 people close to me, all were very different. Each of them experienced the very things you speak of and I felt honored to be there with them, assist them and experience those things. Since then I also assisted my father who passed peacefully in his own home and I felt honored to do so. I have also come to learn that not everyone is cut out to be a caregiver, it "squicks" them out too much and they become a hindrance rather than a help. Thank you so much Julie!
You are so wonderful. You could have saved me 2 years of college if I saw your videos first. I went looking for answers and after all the searching , reading and philosophy, I didn't get any farther than if I just listened to you. Thank you. There are so many that need to hear this.
My Mom had hallucinations a few weeks before she died. Although bed bound, she was at a party drinking champagne and eating chicken. She was laughing it up with all kinds of people having great time. I though it was really weird but just went with it because she was happy. She made gestures of eating and drinking. She was telling them all about herself and her life. She loved to have a good time. Later in the day the church Deacon visited Mom and was “introduced” to my uncle, Mom’s brother who died years earlier. Mom had a peaceful transition and died at home as she wanted with me, my brother and sister next to her supported by hospice. It was beautiful although very painful to say goodbye and let her go. I had a lovely vision of her saying goodbye a few hours before her passing. She has been gone since March and I miss her so much. Love you Mom❤️
Aww. My Dad was trying to order coffee. I hope he found the food court in heaven where your Mom went. 😅 Bless his heart he was in the hospital for a full year before he passed with a stoma and being tube fed. All he wanted was a burger. And apparently the day before he passed he wanted some coffee. He thought he was at a coffee shop. 🥺
I heard my Father singing in my Spirit after he passed from this world. It was as a portal open for those few days. And on the third morning I was emptying the trash and straightening up over at my mom’s house and I heard, ‘I’m so proud of you the way you take care of your mother.” And then I felt the portal close and never again heard my Dad’s voice. But the peace last forever. Yes I miss Dad but I no longer grieve. I just look up on occasions and tell him, I love you Dad.❤
I’m a RETIRERED RN. When I was finishing up my degree, I worked as an Extern on an Oncology floor, back in the early 80’s. I did this to conquer that requirement of death and dying, and to conquer my fear of the unknown. I was not searching for anything spiritual or paranormal, but I found that portion of my education, without formal instruction.
One evening while on duty, one of the RNs became quite busy with admissions and an overwhelming amount of both meds and paperwork. One of her patients was slipping fast into an active dying stage, and the Nurse wanted her to have comforting measures as needed. She asked me to simply go in and sit with her and ad lib her care as needed. I entered her room, finding the patient fast asleep, but sat in the chair with one of my textbooks and simply began studying for my upcoming finals. A short time passed, and I quietly closed my book, realizing I needed to drain her Foley and finish her daily I and O report. The lady stirred and spoke . Believing she was speaking to me, I asked her if she needed anything or if she would like anything from the kitchen. She replied sweetly,”No dear. We don’t need anything at all, but if you’re finished with your studies, would you mind turning off the lights? And, please stay, just make yourself comfortable.” I told her I would gladly do that, and complied with her request, right after letting her Nurse know what the plan was, and handing her the completed I and O report. I glanced at the clock, noting I only had another hour before I was off duty, so I knew that I was basically finished with any charting tasks as I had only this patient for the rest of my shift. I shut off the lights, and closed the door, and settled into the recliner at her bedside. She was asleep, and her breathing was quite rhythmic. A few minutes later, she awoke and exclaimed there was a strange lighted tunnel in front of us, with sparkles moving up and down the tunnel. I personally thought she might be talking in her sleep at first, but proven to be quite wrong. She asked me if I could see the tunnel that was right in front of us. I had to answer her honestly, and simply replied, “No, Ma’am.” She described the tunnel as getting a bit brighter, and found it strange that the Sparkles were becoming fewer and fewer, but there appeared to be one that was getting closer, and she felt she recognized it. She kept stating she wished I could see it, but it didn’t matter anyway....it was the one thing she knew was REAL. Then she said someone’s name, a male name and was introducing him to me. She told him I probably couldn’t see him because I couldn’t see the tunnel, but she trusted that I was the only person she had met that deserved to learn what this really was. As much as I wanted to hear someone answer her, no other voice was audible to me. But it was apparent to me that a conversation was occurring on a mixed plane of reality, although I could never have verbalized my thoughts with any clarity back then. I had no idea what I was semi-witnessing at that moment. My patient said to her invisible friend and to me that she was a bit tired, and was going tto take a little nap before the next shift change because that’s when it gets too noisy.
The room became quiet again, but I kept noticing movement and reflection on the television screen that was up in the corner of the darkened room. At first I passed it off as being a reflection from the light of the hallway passing thru the space between the bottom of the door and the heavily waxed floor, shining up on the darkened Television screen. There were what appeared to be shadows moving Back and forthe, so I figured shift change must be starting. Suddenly, the television screen reflections became very bright, but the television had not even been turned on during my shift, and there was no programming ... not even the static, it’s very hard to describe, but a bright tunnel appeared and two people were walking arm in arm away from the “camera”....and as quickly as it appeared, it all faded back to the silent darkness in the room. Silence. That was what I focused upon! No sounds. No rhythmic breathing. I stood up, turned the light on in the restroom so as not to disturb the lady.......
I couldn’t disturb her. She had passed, and I believe I literally saw her as she walked into her new Reality.
Wonderful story. Thank you for sharing.
Wow! That is so wonderful!
Beautiful
What a beautiful experience. Someday you'll find out why you got to have it. ❤
What a wonderful experience ❤
My mother died when I was in 9th grade. Years later, my new husband and I bought a completely empty house. In it, was ONE thing, a newspaper from the day and year my mother died. To me, it was a happy greeting that she was heartened that everything turned out well.
I LOVE THIS! BEAUTIFUL STORY CAROL. YOU ARE BLESSED 🙏❤
Wow! She was letting you know that she is aware and happy with your choices.
Wow…..hope Mom had you pull the winning lotto numbers from the paper and you played them again!
Absolutely ❤
Why when someone sees the good stuff ya that's real but letting people there is bad stuff it's the disease?
My dad was very scared to die. While he was in hospice he was looking in the corner and said "mama". I was so happy that his mother came to calm him down. What gets me is his mother died giving birth to him so it's strange that he knew who she was. I miss my dad so much!
That is powerful.
@@user-se7hf3vm3v amazing
Your comment brings me a lot of comfort because my mom died when I was 12 days old. I grew up believing I would meet her when I died. But I had a crisis of faith that led me to question my belief in an afterlife. My Dad raised me and passed a few years ago. Comments like yours give me hope.
@@kaywren73 life after death is absolutely real I know for a fact.
My dad very close to his mother. She died when he was only 16. A the age of 50 when he was dying my mother was in his hospital room with him. She told me that right before he passed his eyes lighted up and he exclaimed "Mother!!'
I am terminal, so I naturally find myself watching videos like this from time to time when I feel brave enough to explore my future mortality. I spent 25 years in emergency services, as a police officer and a fire fighter. I was shot once as a cop, I have had building fall on me a a fire fighter. I mention that, becasue I lived a life I thought had prepared me to understand my death, if it came. Of course, I have been with countless people as they passed due to my job. I never found any of it peacful, but that was due to it being violent and tragic in most cases. So, I ramble through these thoughts, now as I lay dying under the slow consumption of cancer, I am afraid. Not becasue I am dying per se, but becasue I am losing for the frist time. I have fought death on so many levels and in so many ways in my career, and now it has the upper hand. I will hopefully find that peace you say is waiting for me. I know God and his presence brings me comfort, for I did what I know He asked me to do on this earth for Him. But in the end, I am human and we have our fears and frailities. Today, I feel brave enough to say I am afraid, and that's ok. I have a lovely wife at my side, who made it possible for me to "come hone" for my remaining time. (back to the town where we met and got married) I am not sure why I wrote all of this, but thank you for letting me be here. As we use to say when we got into a tight spot at work, and knew it might not turn out well, see you on the other side.
All the best ❤️
Very happy to read this and to learn from your words here. ❤❤
Thank you for your post, we're all souls leading each other home and you have done this admirably well in your life sir. Best wishes, love never dies❤
John 3:16 For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believes in Him will not perish but have everlasting life. May God bless you!
Meet me when I get there! 🙂
I worked in a nursing home. I was in a patients room, she said to me “do you see the Angel? Its so beautiful-I thought she just had dementia. I politely told her no-I didn’t see anything, left , and didn’t think anything of it. I returned about 15 minutes later and she had passed. I will never forget that.
The Angel came to get her that is why she saw the Angel. I love that!
I would’ve known when they said they had saw an Angel sitting with them would’ve let me believe they were dying.
I should have known, but there were many patients with dementia, so I didn’t pick up on it. Also, I was over whelmed with work and exhausted. But yes, I should have known
my reply is below, yes I should have known. She seemed ok-alert and talking. I was in shock that she had passed
Thank you for answering the comments on your post. If no one else says it, I appreciate your honesty.
When I was about 10 years old I accompanied my grandmother every Saturday when she would go to the cemetery to visit my grandfather's grave, then we would go to a rest home where we would visit her mother, my great-grandmother, "Granny." My great-grandmother was quite elderly, blind, and bedridden but incredibly enough very sound mentally. When I was 13 my grandmother passed from metastatic breast cancer. My grandmother was very close held about her cancer diagnosis and never brought it up to her mother. Incredibly enough, my great-grandmother was still in the rest home, and she was still mentally cognizant. My aunts and I paid her a visit after the passing of my grandmother who had 2 living sisters, my grandmother being the youngest. My aunts decided that they would not tell my great-grandmother that her youngest daughter had passed but during our visit, my great-grandmother suddenly blurted out "Maria came to visit me and she said it is beautiful in heaven and I am going to love it there." We were all speechless and my one Aunt who had been taking my grandmother's passing very hard began to cry. My Granny, at 101 years of age passed away shortly after this event. I am 72 and have metastatic lung cancer, I am in palliative care and realize that there is no chance of "recovering" from my cancer. Throughout my life, I have had many "unusual" experiences convincing me of life after death. The words from my Granny were just the beginning!
How are you doing now?
God Bless you❤
God Bless you, I will pray for you and your Peace. 😊🙏🏼🤍🕊 {{{Lenora}}}
Love to you ..there is life after death for sure .. and from all I read it’s a beautiful place and your loved ones will be right there with you..even now .
I lost my son allan my pal ,, I have seen him at the bottom of my bed at a bright doorway ..he was so healthy looking so happy smiling from ear to ear ..I’ve since felt him sit on my bed and pat my back if I am stressed or worried
Lots lots of signs n a picture ..I have NO doubt whatsoever and am so comforted
Bless you and love to you and all your family ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏💕💗🌹🌹🌹
I wish you nothing but peace as you continue on your journey. I’m a nurse and I absolutely believe there is more than this life and we can only experience the beauty and joy we’re meant for by leaving this life behind. Bless you.
Thanks, Julie. I am terminal stage four lung cancer and have decided I am done with all treatments. This information is very comforting, and I thank you for sharing!
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❤ love and light
I hope you find peace and comfort in reading and hearing these stories.
All my best to you ❤
My friends 6 month old baby boy died of Sids. She was totally unable to function at all. One night she heard a voice calling to her,and when she awoke it was her son,as a man,all in radiant light,and he said " mother, i am fine,please don't cry,or grieve anymore. We will be together again, and he left the room. This comforted her,and she wasfine,from then on. ❤
How amazing! It’s true, here we come in a baby’s body but we are grown ups in heaven. We are all souls.
This story gave me goosebumps!!! How amazing ❤
What a Beautiful gift from her son.
Was the baby baptized?
What a blessing. 🙏🕊️
I lost my baby son when he was only 2 days old.
I was devastated and was crying all the time.
While I was lying in bed crying one morning, I saw a beautiful light at the corner of my bed.
In the light was a young man who resembled my husband but much younger and blond.
He spoke to me ( not out loud but I understood). He said “ I don’t want you to be so sad Mom”
He said it twice and then the light and he faded away.
From that moment on, I felt my son was safe.
My heart began to heal.
So sorry for the loss of your son. But he is safe. Glad you healed.
Like my dream of my daughter after my miscarriage she was still a little girl but I was ok after.
Praise GOD, praise GOD, praise GOD! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I had a similar experience. My nephew died tragically at 3 months old in a daycare accident. About 7 years later I saw a vision of a little boy in heaven with Jesus & it was the most beautiful scene I’ve ever witnessed. I knew this little boy was about 7/8 years old, and he looked like my sister in law. I honestly didn’t know what I saw at the time, more to it but 🥹it was so wonderful. I still remember it clear as day, and it was over a decade ago
What a beautiful gift from your beautiful son.
My grandmother passed at 102 years old. Her husband Bill (my grandfather) was gassed in WW1 and died shortly after the war.
I was at her bedside when she passed and she was fairly well out of it at the time. Suddenly she sat up, eyes wide open, a big smile on her face with her arms raised toward the ceiling. She said, "Oh Bill, it's so wonderful to see you!" Then she flopped back on the pillow and died. Blew me away, but she died happy, that's for sure.
OMG!!! This is almost exactly what happened with my aunt, except she didn't see anyone! I wasn't there and hadn't seen her for years, but my cousin who's a nurse was with her in the hospital and told us that she had been in pretty much a coma and not awake for about a week, and then all of a sudden, she opened her eyes, sat straight up, reached for the ceiling and smiling, said, "the colors, oh my god, the colors- the colors are so beautiful" then dropped back down in her bed- dead! It's just so crazy how so many of these stories are exactly alike.
Wow.. just amazing.
Love it. ❤
That is a wonderful story, Bill Farley. Praise God!
It makes me sad to think how much she must have missed him. All those years.
I would miss my partner so much to 😢
When my firstborn died at age six from a very rare brain cancer, I don’t recall anyone explaining it to me very well about why it would be bad to give her an IV or food, or water. I just remember she didn’t want anything. I always felt guilty that I didn’t try harder to make her eat or drink, so it’s good that you’re explaining this to people. She did go through 4 days of what they called a “semi-coma” before she passed away. She also told me she saw Jesus, a few weeks before she died. 💗💗💗
How wonderful that she had that comfort. I hope it helped you a bit too. From one mama of an angel to another hugs and love to you. ❤
I'm so glad you found out that your precious girl knew exactly what she was doing. God bless you. My heart is with you. ❤
You have my deepest condolences on the loss of your child. What she’s saying is absolutely true, all of it. I was a nurse for years. I worked the cancer center and hospice, surgical floor, the ER/ED and ICU. I experienced so many things with my dying patients and their families, as well as my own Mother’s passing, my Father and 2 sisters but none hurt worse than losing my husband to confus terminal lung cancer when he was only 46 years old. I experienced a lot with my Mom and my spouse. I’ve written on my hands things some of my dying patients wanted some family members to know. I’ve ran to the elevators and even into the parking area to let family members, that had just visited and my patient was talking, laughing etc. but as soon as they leave the room, my patients started going downhill fast. It’s such a stressful career but it’s all worth it when you see your patient either leave through the doors or through eternal peace 💕💕💕💕💕
I am so sorry you had to endure this. I am devastated your daughter had to suffer this. You're such a wonderful mother. My thoughts are with you ❤
I'm so very sorry for your awful loss. Nobody should have to bury a child.
I was a covering RN at Hospice in Lansing MI back in 2005, for another nurse who had sadly died and her associates were attending her funeral. Her name was Lisa, and her patients adored her, many were counting on her to be in attendance at their death. I was to visit her patients that day, and one was actively dying, any moment. I drove out the see her first. When I arrived at her care faciltiy she had already passed away, but the staff were in a state of surprise and some shock. They had not told her of Lisa's death and so the patient had no idea there was a funeral going on. She expected Lisa to show up that day. As she was dying she suddenly began to smile toward a dark corner of the room and raised her arm to wave and welcome someone. She exclaimed, "Lisa, you finally showe up!" and she smiled with such love and happiness everyone in the room felt startled and amazed. Within moments the woman closed her eyes and crossed over. Staff and family in the room felt convinced that she had left with her hospice nurse Lisa, who visited her and had kept her word, even from beyond the grave.
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Now that one made me cry.
Incredible ❤
This is AWESOME 💙🙏
Wow.. chills! Thank you for sharing. That’s one of the best stories I’ve heard!🥰
I also wanted to share the story of when my cat passed. I know some people don't believe that pets have souls, but I strongly disagree. I literally had Doodle his entire life, I watched his mama give birth to him, so I was there when he came into this world, and I held him in my arms when he left it. He had cancer and there wasn't anything the vet could do, but put him to sleep. He said I could take Doo home if I would prefer him to die there, so that's what I did. Doo slept a lot and in the end he stopped eating and drinking and I knew he was dying. I slept with him on the couch so he wouldn't be alone. He lingered that way for days and I couldn't take it anymore, so we made the decision to have him put to sleep. While my husband was getting ready to go, we had both been crying, I picked Doo up and held him and told him how much I loved him, but that it was okay for him to go and please don't make us do this. I was bawling my eyes out and rocking him, I said if you love me at all please don't make me do this... he softly meowed one last time and then went limp in my arms. Now you can say what you want and you can believe what you want, but I KNOW he was waiting for me to tell him it was okay for him to leave. He died on March 8th of 2019 and he would have been 16 years old March 11th. I stupid cried for days afterwards and then I had a dream, that someone knocked on the door and when I answered it there was this beautiful young girl standing there. She looked to be 14 or 15 years old. She doesn't say anything she just smiles then points downward. When I looked down there was Doo! He was so beautiful and healthy his black fur was thick and glossy, his big amber eyes were bright and shining. He looked radiant! He reached up liked he used to do for me to pick him up. I picked him up and buried my face against his fur. He even smelled like Doo and I could feel the vibrations of his deep purr. When I opened my eyes the girl had moved off the porch and stood there waiting and I knew I had to let Doo go with her. So I set him down and he jumped off the porch and walked to the girl. That's when I woke up. Say what will, but I know the Lord allowed me to see that Doo was with him and he was healthy and happy and will be waiting for me when it's my time.
I think that is amazing, thank you for sharing that
Pets don’t have souls
@@anthonythomas6593 You are free to think whatever want. 🤷♀️
@@anthonythomas6593 o yes they do I am sorry you feel that way!
@@anthonythomas6593 after hearing a story like that you still doubt!? You will learn much when your time to experience things happens!
This works for animals too. When my beloved cat Loki was actively dying, he wouldn't eat or drink. The Vet gave him fluids, all went to his belly underskin and he urinated it all out. He was a little cold and very calm. I would talk to him, he looked at me, recognised me, even hugged me, putting both arms around my neck. Then he laid down and looked as he was seeing someone, and acted like he wanted to go way. He even tryied to grab his carrier to "get out", even when he couldn't stand up. My Vet insisted on more fluids and food, but after I saw your videos, I was against it and didn'd feed him, I told her he was leaving us. I just watched him all night and the next day he passed away. He was very peaceful and was very well taken care of until the end. I know I did the right thing and read the signs correctly. Your channel is really helpful. My family thanks you for helping us in this difficult time. Sorry for comparing animals to people, but I think Nature is wise and knows what to do.
I have had 2 cats who were sick that would put both paws around my neck and hug me. I know what you are talking about. I don't know how some people can think that animals do not have feelings. 🐾❤️
My 12 year old Yorkie passed. While she was actively dying, she would take her paw and pat my face and kiss me. At the end, she got into her favorite position with me and passed. She had feelings and wanted to tell me goodbye.
Thank you for your comment. I love that you “compared animals to humans”. I see it as including animals into this discussion. Thank you.
You only made a HUGE error comparing animals to humans: animals are so much better than we are! I'm sorry for your loss, and I hope the grief you feel soon leads to happy memories of your time together.
Animals are living creatures with souls too. They matter. ♥️
I am a hospice Music Therapist. I have seen this many times, including with my own mother and one of my cousins. Once a patient told me he crossed over into Heaven while he was sleeping, and described it to me. He said he kept getting sent back to tell people that the most important thing we need to do here is love each other. Another time I was sent to provide services to a patient who was imminent. I walked in with my harp and his granddaughter burst into tears, saying she had been praying for her granddad to have harp music as he passed. I assessed him and his RR was 4. I knew he would pass at any moment. When I began to play my harp he raised his head and focused his eyes and looked at me. I introduced myself and continued. A moment later, a young woman rushed in, crying "Granddad! I made it!" and she held him close. He had waited for her. Then he passed. I have been so privileged to be of service to these families.
Blimey, if I was in a hospice and you walked in with a harp, i'd think I'd already passed, lol.
I find it so interesting that shortly after coming into this world and shortly before exiting it, we have the ability to see spirits. It's almost like our consciousness is more connected with the opposite side of the veil at those specific points in one's life.
That is a very good point that I had not thought of. But from things I have read and seen that seems to very much be the case. X
Agreed
There's a theory that our brains are like filters/receivers for our consciousness/soul. If that's true I think it would make sense that beginning and end of life would be able to see into the spiritual world, not all the hardware is working so the filter is broken down/opened up. Makes sense to me!
Funny enough I seen some Ghost when I was very young, never seen anything like that since.
Julie,
In 2006, my wife was diagnosed with ovarian cancer at the age of 46. Given 12 to 14 months to live, she lived 14 months. About a month before her passing, on a Sunday afternoon she and I we’re setting quietly in our living room, I thought she was asleep when out of the blue she ask, “Danny, do you see the angles” I said no and she then said, “ the room is full of angles, but they don’t have faces”. She never mentioned them again, but she did say later something about butterflies that continues to amaze me to this day. Three times within the first year of her passing butterflies did come, did unbelievable things, just to let me know, she was still present. Because of my experiences since her passing and channels such as yours, I no longer fear death. I truly believe we transition into another realm.
Thank you for all of the wonderful knowledge you share.
People explaining their near death experiences often see luminous angels and guides. Very often they say that they could not see their faces, sometimes because they are so luminous. Because of the feeling of love and goodness they emanate, they are never scary.
I'm sorry for your loss 🙏
So sorry for your loss. God bless you 🙏
Beautiful! What incredible things did the butterflies do? Come sit on your hand or something? Once a hummingbird hovered in front of my face for a few seconds, and I always wonder whether that was a sign from spirit.
Amen that heavenly realm
One day before my mother passed, she was in a coma. The whole family has gone up to her hospital room. While there, the Dr stopped in and informed us that she was in a coma, would not come out of it as she has started the dying process. Shortly after he left, she started mumbling something. My sister ran over and sat on her bed and put her ear closer to my mom’s mouth to try to hear what she was mumbling. My sister stood up and ran out of the room crying. I caught up to her in the hallway and asked what did mom say? My sister said that mom said her parents had come to get her and she wanted to go with them. True story from a real person who witnessed this
I hope so.
My first husband was on his death bed at home..his sister n law heard him talking to someone in his bedroom she went quickly to his bedroom and ask him who he was talking to?, and my husband said, Mom told me to come on..knowing his mother has passed away 20 yrs ago she still appears to him ..I know he was a praying man and prayed also before he passed the same day. I have dreams of him sometimes and they're prophetic dreams.
My daughter died of cancer she was almost 4 years old.
A few months later, my dad had a traumatic medical episode,
He was hospitalized and put in intinsivcare. He had Ivs pumps all the equipment needed to keep him alive.
he was on life support.
I went to the hospital with my 18 month old daughter to see my father.
As soon as I pushed the stroller threw the door my baby girl looked over to the corner of the room and said hi to her sister!
It floored me❤
My sister-in-law passed yesterday. Two days before, she saw and had a conversation with her mother and saw Jesus, birds and red roses. She said it was so beautiful.
Doesn’t get much Better than this🔥JESUS I TRUST IN YOU ♥️
She was letting you know how she will communicate with you. When you see Red roses, she is sending you Love & greetings 💕
My mom is a hospice nurse of over 20 years. She had a family who refused to believe that it was OK their dying loved one was not eating. The family decided to try to feed the dying loved one jello while no one was watching. As I’m sure you know….the patient aspirated and it was horrific. The family was distraught. I hope these people who are arguing with you over nutrition/dehydration actually listen to what you’re saying. Thank you so much for what you do. You are truly an angel!
I've felt bad for five years because during the time my mom was in hospice
,She got no water,but I didn't even think of that til later- this video has helped me understand that it would have been detrimental to her anyway.
Very true,very dangerous 😳 the family thinks hospice people are cruel and don't know the dying process.
@@scotsman6712 I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m glad to hear this information has helped you! I think (and hope) her videos are helping so many.
If people think they know so much better, let them take care of their dying relative themselves. They sure don’t seem to have any respect for healthcare professionals.
@@sandrabeck8788wow! Calm down. FYI, many people stay at home, being looked after by their relatives, while on hospice care.
Love your longer videos Julie! Please do more. What great lessons❤
I lost my wonderful Nana in 2004 at the age of 95. (And On my husbands 40th birthday!)
As the family was gathered at the hospital on vigil my mom and aunts and I were sitting close to Nana's bed ( She had been unconscious about 18 hours by this time)
We began talking about my grandparents favorite song. My Nana always sang it to me growing up. NONE of us could remember what the song was.
A bit later I am down in the gift store getting a 40th birthday card for hubby and I saw a little porcelain doll with curly black hair ( Much as Nana's hair had been in her younger days) She was a cute little doll, and one of a kind there in the hospital gift shop.
I turned the doll over discovering she was musical!
And guess what I heard when I turned the small crank?
" Let Me Call You Sweetheart" poured from the little doll, Yes, my grandparents ( Nana and her hubby grandpa George) favorite song!❤
My Mom, Aunt and I stood in awe and tears.
Nana passed peacefully a few hours later with us all around her praying and the little musical doll serenading her. Some things have no explanation. Some things don't even need one.
Agree. I haaaate the trend of short videos. It proves attention spans are decreasing, a sign of stupidity to me. I prefer DETAIL. I appreciate when the influencer doesn't feel rushed to keep their work short for fear people will tune out. There is STILL an audience who is able to take in a 30 minute video without going "oh look! Something shiny!" and go off to chase it.
Wow that’s a beautiful blessing you were a part of and I almost got chills from reading it. May she RIP and I’m glad she had a loving family surrounding her while she was transitioning. Blessings to you and your family!!🙏🏽❤️🕊
Awwww that was beautiful ❤
My grandmother (we called Nanna) also sang that same song all the time... It was her and my grandfather's "song" , he died at age 34 ( mom was 1) . Nanna never even dated after
@@jonnytheboy7338 oh wow! That was her true love ❤️
When my dad passed earlier this year, It was late at night (after 11 pm), and we had all been in vigil all day. I went to get a cup of coffee, and was turning to sit down (while looking at my brother, who I had been talking to), and I saw a twinkle-speed flash of light from Dad. I turned suddenly to him, and he was gone. I knew intuitively that I had just seen his spirit leave. It was very comforting to me, and I never had any issues with closure. He was gone, and in the hour after he left while we waited for the nurse and the funeral home to come get his body, obviously we were grieving, but for me, I was at peace. It was just his empty body there, I had seen him leave and that was that. I didn't feel the need to keep talking to him, or get emotional (beyond the sadness of him going), or anything. He was gone, I had seen it, and I knew it. It was a true blessing and it confirmed to me, beyond any doubt, that there is more after we leave here. We are Christians, so we believe anyway, but it was the first time I actually saw what, to me, is undeniable tangible proof. I saw what I saw. And when I mentioned it to the hospice nurse (and since then, others), she was absolutely unsurprised. She said hospice nurses have seen things like that a lot.
Thank you for sharing this.
I had a similar experience with the passing of my mother. She had been in a coma for several days after we had ended medical intervention. It was around 4 am, the hospital room was dark and quiet except for the sound of her heart monitor and her long slow breaths which rattled. My wife was sitting at the foot of her bed facing me as I sat next to my mom holding her hand. Suddenly there was a very intense white/blue light which shimmered momentarily over (in front of) my wife's face. I said to her "did you see that?" she said, "see what" then "Terry your mother". My wife said Mom had opened her eyes toward the ceiling and tried to raise her hands before collapsing. The room was quiet and dark and she had moved on.
Like you BlueRidge I no longer fear the end of everything at passing. I feel my mom had left me a gift of knowledge that the end is not the end but rather the beginning of something else. Thanks for sharing your experience
@terrybrennan425 My cousin, who passed at age 22 appeared to me in that form a couple of years after he passed. I was struggling with depression, mostly spurred by his death. He came to tell me everything would be alright. He was right.
My story of my dad‘s passing is similar to yours. I didn’t see a sign that he had physically left like you mentioned in your story, but I felt it more spiritually. My family had kept a vigil by his bedside over the couple days preceding his passing. On his last day, that evening, I knew I could not leave. I had a sense that I just could not leave him to go through what he was experiencing by himself. I laid during the night on a bed that the hospital staff had prepared for me, but in the wee hours of the morning I had a sense that I needed to go to my dad side. Somehow I felt the sense that things were changing and his time was getting near. A nurse came in to help and confirmed that she thought it was eminent. As I sat by his side, I had an urge or a a distinct sense to sing to my dad. I am not a singer and sometimes I can’t carry a note to save my life but something inside of me knew this would bring him comfort. I tried a song or two but at one point, I feel like it wasn’t bringing him the comfort I intended to give. So I switched to the hymnal “What a friend we have in Jesus“ and somehow there was peace and somehow I was able to get through that song relatively easy and probably singing the best I have ever sung in my life, or at least that’s what my ears heard, and hopefully my dad as well. Literally when I finishing the last couple lines of the song, I felt my dad‘s last breath leave his body. I had been snuggled in very close to him, stroking his forehead, and giving him all the love I could find. As as I did, I felt his breath on my face and then I never felt another breath. I initially wept, knowing it was final, but I was surprised by how quickly I felt a sense of strength and peace within me. I was able to get up from his bedside to go let the nurses know just as my mom was walking in the door. I was able to have the strength to just be there for her and hold her as she wept. I kept reassuring her that it was very peaceful, and that he didn’t suffer.
The peace that I experienced has been life-changing. Without any question I know where this peace comes from. I know who gave me the strength to carry on that day. I experienced what you experienced in that I didn’t feel grief looking at my dad’s body as we lingered at the hospital for a few hours after his death. It didn’t traumatize me or make me sad. I knew my dad wasn’t there anymore. I knew where he was and this was the most beautiful experience I’ve ever had in my entire life. Rather than suffering, immense heaviness in grief I gained such strength that day and that is something I never expected. I have no regrets, I have no longing for closure. I only find peace in knowing I experienced the most beautiful moment I could have ever imagined with my father when it with his time to go home.
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My Mom was on hospice, she passed on monday, December 10, 2018. On the Friday before, she was acting so different, happy, giggly even. We had a picture of my Dad on the wall in front of her. She was pointing to him and said hes laughing at me. I said Dad? She said. Yes, he's standing right there. She said he said " I thought you were ready to come with me" I said are you ready to? She smiled and said yes. I told her mom it's ok if you're ready to go. She started the death rattle about 2 am. She passed early morning that monday. She also said that there were 2 little girls that were trying to play with her. It really was comforting to me. Thanks for sharing your experiences!
My 18 year old daughter seen angels before she passed . She would smile and nod at what ever they was saying . It gave me some peace . Kristen was calmed by them as well . She was completely in her right mind when this happened.
I am sorry for your loss and I love that your daughter saw angels around her. That is so comforting. I am sure your faith and your spirit will carry you through the next chapter of your life. Your daughter's spirit will be around you always.
I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter, glad to know she had peace beforehand.
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Im very sorry for this heartbreaking loss. I, too would feel great comfort watching this happen with a loved one.
I’m sorry for your pain and the loss of your daughter just please 🙏🏽 know she’s still with you and you can talk to her she’ll hear you…Xx🙏🏽❤️
God Bless, Namaskaram
My Grandma passed in 2018 at 106 years old. Before her passing she'd lost 2 sons and a daughter, the daughter was my mom passing in 2013. Grandma had also outlived her 6 siblings, husband and all her friends too. A couple years before Grandma passed she was very lucid and would tell us about these people visiting her. Some in dreams, some nin waking time. Her son would play songs on his guitar for her to ease her loss over him. They would give her info she couldn't possibly know. In 2015, she'd had a dream my mom came to her and told her I had cancer. Just on that chance, I went to see a Dr. who did tests and said I was ok. Then I saw mom in a dream and got a message of concern. I went to the Dr. again and was told nothing was wrong with me...just my age. All tests ok. I said I wanted a mammogram. On that test it was discovered I had stage 2 breast cancer. In remission now.....but I do believe they still keep in contact from the other side.
My Grandpa was 103 1/2 when he got out of a car my Great Aunt was driving, and she didn’t get her license until she was 70 something...anyway, she didn’t keep her foot on the brake, nor shifte her car into park...somehow the car rolled and the open door Grandpa had just used knocked the 6 foot man over onto the sidewalk, breaking his hip! He was of course placed in a nursing facility for “rehab” but I do not believe he was ever out of the bed...and he literally was n never sick a single day of hiss life that I’m aware of. Not until the didn’t do their jobs at the “skilled” nursing facility. Mentally he had been 100 % ....physically he dwindled fast, even following the nightmare scenario he was set up in...Pneumonia set in and I don’t recall how long it was between the accident and his death....but it was a severely cold day in
January in Northern California when his funeral happened. He had built the cabin I was living in , 100% by hand , with the occasional help of his brother. He was born in 1881.
106? Wow!!! That's a great age! You obviously have excellent genes in your family! 😀❤️❤️❤️❤️
I believe that! Yes you were visited by both of your family members. The Lord is so good. He will show us what we need to show us right when we need to see it!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I was a heroin, fentanyl and crack addicted escort for many years. My dad was an alcoholic who hadn't seen me since I was 8 years old. He died in January 2017 and in April 2019 I went to jail and found out I was pregnant. I decided to keep the baby and turned my life around before he was even born. I had had a warrant out for my arrest for a very long time. Everyone around me was watching me kill myself with the drugs. My bf and I weren't on good terms obviously and he mostly stuck around to ensure I was alive. He had called the cops quite a few times behind my back telling them to come get
Me and they never did which is weird and I can't explain why they didn't even though they promised they would. When I was finally arrested and taken to jail .. it truly saved my life and my sons life because I was 6 weeks pregnant. By the time I saw the jails OB I was 8 weeks. Just the way everything happened and fell into place.. the timing of it all.. it sometimes feels like my son was sent to me by my dad. I know this comment is long and doesn't make a lot of sense to those who don't know me and the rest of the situation but it's bizarre how things happened at that time
@@CrustyUgg perhaps your eyes have been opened a little to begin to accept the truth of what our purpose is. D don’t get jumbled up in anyone’s drama...including your own because your eyes will close again...stay clean and sober for yourself first...and you’ll know that all you have to do is ask those angels surrounding you for r guidance!😇
My family had been taking turns at my grandmother’s bedside during her last moments of life. During my brother’s shift, he saw our grandfather waiting to take her home. He was no longer a man in his 80’s but was in his 20’s. He told my brother he was coming to get his bride. This was so amazing to the family and such a blessing.
I, too, was a hospice nurse. The day my mother died in hospice, she awoke and was obviously greeting a line of relatives before she died. Her mouth was moving for several hours. My patients often looked up at the corner of the room and were obviously seeing into the spiritual world.I never saw any angels in their rooms. I was sent angel to push my car off the exit ramp on the freeway when I was 7 months pregnant and had 3 small children in.the car in the winter at night. He just appeared and did not have a winter coat on. When I turned to thank him, he was gone!
True story, several years ago my mother was hospitalized for COVID and one night I visited her and she said she to me, "guess who visited me today, your Uncle George and Aunt Florence" I told her that was impossible because they had died many years before. She insisted, "No I saw them, they wanted me to go with them but I told them no I don't want to go". My mother was lucid at the time and died 3 weeks later. That has never left my mind since.
What you mean several years ago Covid? Covid didn’t start until late Dec 2019 but wasn’t everywhere until way later than that. At the most 3 years and few months that’s not several years ago. I’m confused.
@@Sheila612Miller she died December 2021, it is written on her death certificate
@sheila612miller
I'm confused at your confusion.
"Several" is generally considered three (3), so that would be correct.
@@joijuaire-darfler4614 well 2021 wasn't 3 yrs ago so...
she may have had covid starting in 2020 and that would be several years ago@@laurajomcnaughton853
My husband passed in 2019 . As I held him in my arms and he released his last breath, I felt his spirit go right through me. He had said he wanted to go home and I told him several times he was home. He said no home with my mother and father. I knew he had accepted Jesus and I know where he is. He came back to me several nights later and kissed me good-bye. I sat straight up in bed to see who was kissing me and no one was there. I know it was him. I have never worried about death but I would like to go peacefully.
I felt an angel go right through me to get to my then, recently passed, sister.
That’s so beautiful 😢. I am so glad you got that closure. He is young again, pain free, and can’t wait for you to join him. But he also knows that it will happen in a blink of an eye because our lifetime here goes by VERY fast from the other sides perspective. ❤
I had my little Westie dog pass through me after she left her body and soared up in a circle and out the door! I also had a spirit pass through me while walking on a path in the AIDS Memorial Grove in Golden Gate Park. It is the most magical feeling, I was left with a feeling of peace, beauty, and wonder!
Sweetest kiss ever.
Four days before my dad died I was in his hospital room and suddenly when I looked at him his spirit jumped out of his body and went through my left eye. in that instant I thought, "Oh, so that is who you really are!" While he was improving, 4 days later he had a second stroke and he died. About three weeks later I had my one and only lucid dream. I went up through my bedroom ceiling and into a different dimension. I went to Heaven and my dad was there. We embraced and while he looked like my dad had in his thirties, his personality was gone and he was the spirit I met in his hospital room. The hugs were so deep and loving and amazing. I saw my mum there too, crumpled up under dark clothing at our feet. I asked dad why he didn't hug here and he said he couldn't reach her because she was so full of grief. At one stage I got so excited I was having a lucid dream I dropped out of Heaven and was back in my bed, looking up at the ceiling. I wanted to be with my dad again, so I went back for a little while longer. Then I was back in my bed thinking wow!
My wife's grandma is dying, she most likely has maybe a few more days left. However, she is very comfortable, and from time to time she will look up at the ceiling a smile super big. For me and my family, it's comforting that she is having a peaceful experience, and thanks to you, I understand everything that is happening is normal. Watching her transitioning is absolutely beautiful and it has changed my perspective on death. 😮
I had a friend pass in a fire in 2001. I grew up with him & knew the whole family. It was days after his 27th birthday. About a month after he passed, I had a dream. I was in his mother's kitchen with his mom & he walked through the back door! I knew he was dead, but in the dream, his mother apparently did not. He walked up behind her & hugged her from behind. I was staring at him in confusion & he put his finger to his lips in a "quiet" motion. We all made small talk for a few minutes & I got up to leave. He walked me to the front door. He stopped & kissed me & I knew it was goodbye. He gave me a sad smile & I woke up. It's been over 20 years & I still remember that dream vividly. I visited his grave on his birthday the next year & a song that reminded me of him, "It's Been a While" by Staind, started playing as soon as I drove through the gate.
Also a hospice nurse. As a warning, this is long.
I was working in a Hospice inpatient unit at the time. One of our patients was a very anxious, extremely needy woman with endstage COPD. Her usual nurse was off and she was assigned to me. I could see her sitting up in her bed in her room as I tended to my other patients in surrounding rooms. She looked unusually calm and relaxed. I sent the nursing assistant in to check on her and he reported back no issues except that the room was a little cool, so he had checked the windows and notched up the thermostat. This woman kept a humidifier going all the time and was atypical in that she demanded her room be kept quite warm. Once other patient care tasks were completed, I approached this patient's room and what I saw stopped me at the doorway. Normally, she would be panting from her building anxiety, fidgeting and fussing with items on her overbed table, plucking at and smoothing her covers repeatedly and reactivating her call bell every couple minutes. This night, she was sitting quietly up in bed with her arms around her knees and behaving as though she was hosting a party. She was murmuring and laughing softly and moving her head as one would when responding to different people. I was so stunned that I stood in the doorway and watched her for a solid two minutes. I finally softly knocked to make her aware of my presence. She glanced over, smiled at me, but went back to her "hostessing" without her usual increased respirations and panicky behaviors. I stepped to her bedside to remind her of my name and that I was her nurse that night. This woman typically didn't take having her routine altered well at all, but she calmly thanked me using my name and went back to her conversations with folks I didn't see. I checked her oxygen reading and it was a very respectable- for her- 92%. I checked her oxygen flow rate and offered to switch her nasal cannula to a face mask, her preference during her fitful nights. She politely declined, saying the mask made it diificult to speak clearly.
She was wearing a thin sleeveless nightgown, and I noted the room hadnt warmed much from the assistant's adjustment. I told her I was getting her fresh ice water and a warmed blanket which merely earned me a nod. I bumped the thermostat up another couple degrees and left for my errand. When I returned, I draped the toasty blanket around her shoulders like a shawl, which she acknowledged by reaching up to pat my hand as I snugged it around her. This was not a woman who was known to express gratitude. I noticed that the room was noticeably more misty than it had been just a couple minutes before and seemed even cooler. I went around to the other side of her bed to check the humidifier settings and water level when I stopped in my tracks. The humidifier was sitting in its usual place; despite the definite mist in the room, the device was was unplugged.
I asked if there was anything else I could do, and she said she was comfortable and that she knew to call if she did.
I left the room, but the assistant and I continued to check back frequently through the night, every so often bumping the thermostat another couple of degrees. She continued to sit up in bed, murmuring and laughing. She barely completed her midnight nebulizer treatment and refused her scheduled 4am nebulizer when I took it to her. Normally, she would snatch the pipe out of our hands, greedily sucking in the medicated vapor. She never called for the "as needed" doses she could have. Previously, it had not been unusual for her to request them almost hourly if she was awake.
I tended to my other patients during that night, but I spent most of that shift frequently checking in with my unusually calm and happy patient. After I had completed my last rounds on the others, I entered this woman's room to find her laying back against her many pillows, gazing at a point on the opposite wall near the ceiling and waving and calling goodbye. The room was cleared of its nightlong fogginess and now felt every bit of its 88° thermostat setting. She noticed me at her side and said "Oh, aren't they beautiful? It was so lovely they all came to see me, but could you believe their beauty?" Still having seen nothing unusual but the now dissipated wierd cold fog, I replied that I was pleased she had had such a pleasant, comfortable night with her company. She allowed me to help her with a few sips of water and to get her into her favorite resting position, then shooed me away to "hurry home and tend to those boys."
I went in to the report room and told her day nurse about the night and ask that perhaps she begin rounds with that room. I then clocked out and left the building. On my drive home, it occurred to me that I had never told her I had 2 young sons, that shift, or any night previous when I had helped answer her frequent calls.
I was off the next night, but when I returned the day nurse to whom I'd reported off had left me a note taped to my locker. She had indeed began her rounds with this woman, entering her room to find our patient had passed away in the very few minutes between my departure and the day nurse's entry to the room.
What a truly blessed story that was, amazing. I am a firm believer of these stories and how wonderful for you personally to experience this.
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That was a great story. It’s amazing some of the stories I’ve read about NDE’s including yours. There definitely is something to this. The connection to the other world is only seen by people close to death. It’s a fascinating subject.
When my Grandfather was on his deathbed, I was too young to understand why the doctors told Grandma to take away his IV and nasal feeder. Thinking about how I felt when I was hungry, it seemed exceedingly cruel and heartless. How could they put him through so much pain? What I did not realize at that time was his body was no longer functioning. His stomach and intestines had lost adequate blood flow weeks before that - he'd not been eating properly for quite a while before finally going to the doctor. There was No Way he could process food and never felt hunger at all.
It's a difficult lesson for those of us who are relatively healthy to grasp. When the body gives out due to age, hunger and thirst aren't really much of an urge. Trust your doctors to be truthful when they tell you they are doing everything to make your loved one more comfortable. WE may feel pain, but if we truly love the one passing, allow the medical staff to do the right thing.
Death is the most misunderstood thing in the world. Thank you for bringing us this beautiful information ❤
My uncle drowned in a river. His foot got stuck between the rocks. He was 19 years old. Six months later, my aunt dreamed about him. She walked into a room where there was 2 beds. There was a night table between the beds with a small lit candle. She asked him in the dream: why is there another bed? He said: it’s for you…we will be together soon. When she woke up, she told my grandmother and grandmother said: oh, hush now…it’s all in your head…3 months later, she was smashed into the wall on a boulevard by a drunk driver. She was 14 years old. My grandparents lost 2 children that year. They never gotten over it. This was 50 years ago. I absolutely believe there is something after death. There is more to life than just what we now. I’m so glad I found your channel. I’ve been looking for a professional who works in a hospice discussing things like this. Keep up the good work.🙏
What an incredible story. Thank you for sharing.
Very interesting how things work out..mystical afterlife ✨
Hi Julie Shortly before my husband Bill died, he and I were in the living room one evening. He said to me “there are three of us here.” He said the third person walked around behind his hospital bed, where there was nothing but wall. It’s interesting the connection a dying person has to the new world that they’re about to enter. My personal understanding has been that this death is often spoken of as “sleep”. Yet one thing that appeared to happen when my husband was moments from death, is that he seemed to be experiencing a welcome. He lifted his arms straight up toward the ceiling as if he was about to hug someone. He laid his left arm down while pointing at someone or something with his right hand. He then laid his right arm down, and that next moment he was gone.
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That was incredible thank you for sharing
I think there is a special place in Heaven for Hospice nurses! Thank you for helping not only the patient but the family get through the worst days of their lives. ❤❤❤
They are angels in disguise aren’t they ,I agree with you
Absolutely agree.
I worked in care homes and they didn't teach us any of this.
I got so depressed.
Thanks to Julie, I understand things far better and feel more relaxed about things.
I believe everyone working in care homes should watch these videos.
Yes, I surely agree with you
@@Elvenboadicea BLESS YOUR HEART ALLY ❤ IT TAKES A SPECIAL SOUL TO DO THIS KIND OF WORK HONEY. IT'S ESPECIALLY DIFFICULT IF YOU'RE AN EMPATH. HOPE THAT YOU'RE DOING BETTER. PLEASE TAKE CARE OF YOU. SENDING YOU LOVE & HUGS ❤🤗
Besides the valuable information you provide. The comments under your videos are probably the most fascinating of all the UA-cam channels
Both of my parents had loads of visitors we couldn't see during their last days. Dad's deceased mother and best friend came to see him in the hospital as well as several more at home.
Mom's deceased siblings started showing up months before the death. It was a convention by the end -- the entire last week she was holding court with people we couldn't see.
Luckily the caregivers and hospice workers educated my brother and me that it meant we were probably near the end. It was comforting to see for me.
My Mom had end stage dementia. In May, 2022 she sat straight up. I asked if she was okay. "Yes, Im just talking to your Grandma." (Gram passed in 88!) That same night, she sat up and looked like she was petting something. "You're such a good girl, Sassy!" Sassy was her dog who passed 25 years ago. Mom passed in September, peacefully and surrounded by her family. I missed her so much.
The night before my m-i-l passed, she asked if we could see her husband sitting next to her in bed. “He’s sitting right here with his hand on my leg.” Clear and lucid, she had no drugs in her system. He had died 14 days prior and she said he was waiting for her to join him. They knew each other since early childhood and spent their entire lives together 💙
A friend of mine had a massive stroke sitting at a traffic light just after leaving my house. He was of course taken to the hospital. I got a phone call from his # weeks after it happened. It was his brother. As soon as I heard a strange voice, I knew something was wrong. He filled me in about what happened and let me know that my buddie....his older brother was brain dead and moved to Hospice. It's hard to lose someone you are so close to.....we all know that. All of you that work in Hospice, or any Medical field...I cant see how you do it. I cry at total stranger's funerals. Y'all are a special breed and we love you all for it
My husband’s Oma (grandma) said that her brothers and her late husband had come to visit on separate occasions to welcome her home. She welcomed the visits and said it was almost time to move on. Oma was Catholic and would pray daily. Her priest would stop by and pray with her a few times a week. The night she passed, everyone came to take her home and she went gently. ❤️
My mom passed away about 5 years ago from a glio brain tumor. About a month after her passing late at night I was going around the house right before I went to bed to make sure the house was locked and secure as it's something I've always done. While I was making my rounds I had this extremely overwhelming feeling that I wasn't alone as I never experienced that feeling before especially to that intensity. Really hard to describe that feeling, but it's almost as if my soul was making a connection with something unseen by my physical being. Everywhere I went in the house that overwhelming sense followed me as my wife and kids were already upstairs asleep as I was physically alone in my house. I made my way to my bedroom as like I said my wife was already asleep and that sense was still with me that someone was standing over me while I lay in bed watching me. I couldn't get to sleep as I lay there for well over an hour tossing and turning as that internal feeling was keeping me up, until I got up and took a melatonin and finally I fell asleep. When I awoke the next morning that sense was completely gone as it had left the house while I was asleep. Went downstairs sitting at my kitchen table eating breakfast before work and my wife was in the next room and she piped up and said, by the way I had a dream last night that your mom knocked on the front door and when I answered it she was standing there on our front porch looking much younger and with a big smile on her face said, "I'm back."
That's so wholesome ❤️
😂😂😂 HAPPY TEARS!!! JOYFUL LAUGHTER!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I love this! My dad passed June of this year and sometimes I get that same feeling that he’s around. I truly believe they come visit. Could NOT be coincidence your wife had that dream that night
My grandma told she was scared to die . And I said “your raised my mother and you’re scared to die?” She laughed so loud and said “we’ll I’m glad I did because I got you out of it” 😂
that's both beautiful and hilarious. I'm so happy you got to have that moment with her
This is kind of a different twist on a vision. The morning my 98 year old mom's last remaining sibling died I went into my mom's bedroom after hearing her call out. She did not know about the death at all, but I could tell she was upset. She said she was so mad because all her brothers, sisters and their spouses were sitting around a huge table with wonderful food, but they would not let her come in. She said, "everyone was there but they told me to GO AWAY ... that I win"!!!! That was two years ago, and my mom is still alive. She has been on Hospice for almost 3 years. I just now found your channel and am so happy I did. This is helping me to understand and prepare without guilt! Thanks.
Hospice workers are amazing, and I'm so thankful for the ones who helped my family!
I was with my mom almost every minute in her final two weeks here. During this time, she would awake from a deep sleep to see me sitting nearby and then start pointing around the room. Her gaze would slowly move back and forth from the doorway to the foot of her bed. I asked her one day if she was seeing angels and she nodded her head, as if thinking i could see them too. I told her that i couldn't because they were there for only her to see, BUT i could sense their presence and noticed how the lighting in the room would change. Prior to this, different family members and friends sat with her while my dad and i left long enough to get sleep or eat a meal or get showers. On one occasion, upon returning to the hospice, i asked her who all came to visit her and she started listing deceased relatives who she was always very fond of, like my great grandmother, a great aunt and her favorite uncle. I knew by this that her time with us was drawing to a close.
Momma lost 3 babies before I was born. A few weeks before she passed I came into her room and she told me "Look! The children are playing!" And she told me my deceased sister's and brother's names. She was so happy.
My brother was internally bleeding after a car accident we were in. He said he saw our grandfather whom we were really close to when he was alive. He was surprised to see him and wondered what was happening. My brother had been complaining about the pain and my dad keep taking him to urgent care. They hadn’t detected the internal bleeding for a few days and he was about 2 hours from dying before my dad demanded that they do an ultrasound and prove to him that nothing was wrong with my brother. Luckily they complied with my dad’s request and did the ultrasound and determined he needed to be rushed to the hospital for emergency operation. My brother is still alive.
Julie, thank you. I was with my Mum & Dad when they passed and witnessed a lot of what you have described, regarding visioning whilst still very lucid, and physical changes when close to passing. I was never worried about where they were going, but concerned that they were in discomfort (death rattle etc.) but now I know they were not aware of any of that, and completely comfortable. I lost 2 of my children too, and am comforted by your stories, shorts and video’s. You are quite special you know 💝xx
My father had been slowly losing functions for some time, and it was a severe urinary infection that brought him down enough to start hospice care. The doctors got him past the infection, and we made him comfortable in a hospital bed in our living room. But interestingly enough, during that infection he'd lost all fear of death. He told us that he had been traveling through the galaxies, in his words. During the next month or so until he died, he saw relatives long gone, and also kept saying how much he wanted to return to _"las galaxias."_ (He spoke little English.) He died comfortably, knowing where he was going. Since then, the family gets together on the anniversary of his death, and I always make a galaxy cake for him.
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Sweet!
Wow! So cool. I'm hoping to tour the galaxies when i die. Thank you, Jesus!
@@daisyswimmer7728 LOL, he was an ATHEIST, Sparky. And proud of it his whole life.
@@Serai3 Very sad
I am a hospice nurse of 20+ years. Families often find this disturbing, my answer is " we can only help someone just so far in their journey and there is someone there to help them the rest of the way." They find some comfort in the thought that their loved one isn't alone.
Even as a young girl and to this day, I 've
been interested in the dying process and making it comfortable for those who are passing and the after life. I read the book by ELIZABETH KYBLER-ROSS, On Death and Dying, as soon as it came out in the 70's. I want to thank you for being brave enough to open a blog based on your experiences with the dying. It's always been such a mystery, but you help to remove the fear of dyingr for those actively dying or their caregivers.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
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Kubler-Ross was - and Raymond Moody is - great pioneers in the field of consciousness research. We've come light years in the last several decades thanks to their courage and hard work.
I follow the Thanatos channel and a few others from Europe simply because the overall trust in an afterlife is greater there for some reason. (And, happily enough, religion doesn't play as big a part in the conversation.)
Peace.
Hi Julie, I was a hospice nurse for the last 6 yrs of a 23 yr nursing career. I always worked in nursing homes & switching to hospice nursing was the best, rewarding move I ever made during my career. Everything you are saying is absolutely true. I've seen some of the most amazing things I've ever seen in my entire life. Being able to educate the family of the dying process is so rewarding, after their loved one passes, they hug you, thank you & tell you they couldn't have got thru this without me there to understand what their loved one is going thru. The family is more at ease & peace with the understanding of how the body is shutting down, becoming detached from earthly things & people as they are seeing the spirit realm & about to pass over. I could tell you hundreds of beautiful stories that I have witnessed & had the honor to be with that family to help them thru it all.
My Dad died at my brother's home. It was late at night, and he and his wife were downstairs with Dad saying goodnight and such. The rails were up on his hospital bad and he was covered. When they were finished with singing hymns and praying, they headed upstairs. On their way up, they heard Dad talking. In the morning when my brother came downstairs, he found Dad with a leg over the rail and his covers thrown off. They are sure someone had come to get him and he was ready to go. I'm sorry I missed it. My sister-in-law still tears up when she tells the story. Even after 27 years, the story still warms my heart! What an honor they received!
My mother said she saw a man and a woman were walking up the driveway. She was in a hospital bed in the back of her house, so she couldn't have seen her driveway. She said, "maybe they're angels coming to take me... Or maybe they're just Jehovah's Witnesses." Humor until the end. Nurse Julie got me through these past several months. My mama died last month and the sadness is just hitting me more and more. So I thought I'd come back to watch Julie. I'm so grateful for the time i had to take care of my mother, to hold her as she died. I think it's keeping me from being more of a wreck than i am right now. Thank you to all the wonderful hospice nurses out there.
Sorry for your loss, pretty sure your Mom is home now patiently waiting for you in paradise. 👍🙏
@@ArnoldZiffle-jw2mv thank you for your kind words. God bless.
I pray you will have comfort as you work through your grief. I’ve been going through it too and have found at times that it helps to remember you’re not alone in feeling grief, that there are thousands , maybe even millions, going through similar experiences. I was with my mom as she died, too. Know how much she loves you and grieves at the grief you feel. I wish I could give you a hug! You’re not alone dear friend ❤
When my mom was dying, I was in the room with her and I, someone clear -headed and healthy and awake, felt a fantastic presence I could only describe as holiness. It was weird because I can't remember ever feeling it before, yet I recognized it as a holy presence I was familiar with. That tells me it was from a better world, here to take her home. I've never before and never since felt it. I'm not one to usually talk like this but this was so evident and real and beautiful beyond description.
Thanks Julie for your excellent work ❤
I had that feeling too when my mum had passed. I was 11, I wasn’t with her but this feeling woke me and I knew she had gone-but the feeling was so comforting I felt so at peace 🙏
@@alexandrataylor7739I too was 11, in 1956 a long time ago. I wasn't allowed in the hospitals then. No one told me she had died until quite a few days later. Strange times then but hard for young people.
July 4th 2000. My dad passed at home from cancer. He made me promise not to cry when I got there a few weeks prior. So when the time came I wasn't wrapped up in my own emotions, I too felt this awesome feeling of Joy greet my Dad as he was taking his last breaths... I'm not afraid.
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That's so amazing. Now I'm going back remembering the feeling and if I'd describe it as joy. But no, it was more an exquisite, still, holy presence. I certainly got joy from it, though. Interesting that you felt it as joy meeting him.
And I'm not afraid either. ♥️
That's a PERFECT description of the feeling that wrapped around me when my Dad came to me (from across the country!) 15 minutes after he died! Holiness, Peace, Purest Love!! He said to me, telepathically not to cry~ he said "IT'S WONDERFUL!!!"
You are the best. Down to earth and honestly telling the way things are.....But with compassion.
Hi Julie, I was so excited to happen upon your video here. I love what you do for us…lots of people are posting on this subject now and some are truly very good but nobody does it better than you. This is your calling. Well done and thank you🤗❤️
My dad passed in 2019 & my mom passed one year later. Mom had been hospitalized many times due to showers of strokes caused my loosened plaque (stupid procedure to clear the external carotids)
Anyway…the last time she was in the hospital was in March. I went to visit her one day in the hospital and when I walked in she said “Your dad was here today”. I kind of panicked thinking, no! You can’t go yet! She said “Don’t worry, I’m not going anywhere for a long time. He didn’t come in, just peeked his head in the door. He said he wasn’t here to get me yet, just stopping by. He had passed 9 months before but she was just so matter of fact about it and I had no reason to disbelieve her. (Even though she’d had strokes she was sharp as ever…could discuss current events, remembered dates, her list of meds, her 19 grandchildren and all their birthdates…something I couldn’t even do! Lol)
Well, she didn’t go anywhere right away but she did leave us in June. I went to her house and found her in her recliner, book in hand, tv on, head crooked at an odd angle…she had left the body. Both of my parents (I’m convinced) made sure to leave without me there. She died less than two weeks shy of the one year anniversary of the day my dad died.
9 years later my dad’s brother died and I was with him when he left. My aunt, my cousin and I had just taken showers at the hospital (we’d been there for a few days straight at that point) & changed into comfy clothes we had run across the way & purchased at Walgreens. It was July 4th. When we came back in to the ward the nurse told us that he was getting ready. She had given us a booklet describing what active dying was so we knew it was close. Just 2 days before he had been sitting up, laughing and joking with us. In the several days preceding many family members had been in to visit. We were seated in chairs all around his bed. My cousin was holding her baby granddaughter on her lap…she, the baby, was laughing and seemed to be playing with someone right next to me…someone the rest of us couldn’t see.
On the night of July 4th, just as the fireworks were exploding in the sky, my uncle made his exit. My cousin cried out just as his last breath was escaping and his body slightly raised off of the bed as if he was being pulled…I’ve always thought it was his soul having a tough time letting go of his body.
My father always blamed himself for the failure of his marriage to my mom. (They were married for 35 years). I was always told that my grandfather on my dad’s side (he died when my dad was 18 , so I never got to meet him), absolutely loved my mom. She took care of him while he was dying. This being said, my dad always told me, jokingly, that when it was his time to transition, he was going to have to duck down because my grandfather was going to deck him for choosing fishing over my mom (family joke). My father sadly passed at age 61. I was there with him when he took his last breath. He hadn’t spoken in days (he died from bladder cancer, it wasn’t pretty), but as he took his last breath, he spoke loudly & said in amusement “I told you I was going to have to duck because you weren’t going to be happy with me, pop”. I knew he was home. Also, during his death experience, I often saw angels right above his bed. I was the only one who saw them (my brother & sister & mom were there, too). One more story- (sorry for the long comment). Within a few weeks of my dad passing away, my youngest son, who was 5 yrs old, started asking me to turn his nightlife off at night. When I asked him why, (he had always been afraid of the dark), he told me “ because when papa comes to visit me at nighttime, heaven’s colors are so beautiful & I can’t see them as well with my night light on”. This was just the beginning of what my son would experience with my dad in the afterlife. I have some amazing stories. ❤
I’m very curious what these Angels looked like, Any chance your mind was playing with you, or convinced your self you saw angels?
Great story. It would be great to hear more whenever you might want to.
@@jimmyh7529 Great question! I had asked myself this same question many times after it happened, but there is just no denying what I saw & experienced. The “angels” were a white smoky light & they hovered above him. I felt like they were separate beings, like maybe 3 or 4 different ones. They would hover & then as I would approach, they would dissipate. I was extremely close to my dad growing up. He was my best friend & I think this is why I was the one closest to him in death. I had also always been very sensitive to the spirit world. I had worked in a funeral home for many years & had experiences there, as well. To explore your question even more, I suppose it is always possible to want to see and believe something so badly, that we manifest the experience. Either way, it was as real to me as the couch I am currently sitting on. The experiences my youngest son had after his passing were also significant, so I honestly know that what I saw was real. I honestly believe the other side of the veil is more “real” than our lives here on the earthly plain. I had a near death experience in 2012 & was shown some pretty amazing things, too. I can tell you that I do not fear death in any way. After being with at least 6 people while they crossed over, the experience has been similar, although I only physically saw the angels during my dad’s death. ✨💫
@@Silverstreak7878 thank you. I often think about ways I can share some of my experiences with those who are curious, however, aside from starting my own channel or writing a book, I am not sure how to do so. I can share with you another one of the experiences my 5 year old son had after my father’s passing. I was driving & my son was in the backseat. I heard him start saying out loud “I love you, too, Papa”. My father & him had always played a game where my dad would say “I love you, Max “ & Max would reply “I love you too, Papa” & my dad would keep saying it until Max would get annoyed & yell “ I LOVE YOU, TOO, PAPA”. This is exactly what I was hearing, but I was only hearing Max’s side of it. When I asked him if he was pretending to play the game with Papa, he replied “I’m not pretending. Papa is sitting right next to me. Can’t you smell him?” At that moment my car filled up with the scent of Jovan musk, which my father wore WAY too much of (it was a family joke- smelling papa before he entered the room :). It was so overwhelming I had to pull over & roll down my window. I will never forget it. It is one thing to see & feel spirits, but to smell them? That blew my mind. 😊❤️
I’d love to hear some of them!
oh my GOSH!! I love this! I was 10 years old when my father died in the hospital! I didn’t know he was dying… he came into my bedroom and walked towards me when he passed… I will never forget it! When I woke up, there were lots of people in my house…..
I volunteered for hospice for about eight years, and I never seen such beautiful passings, I would say 80% of my clients were ready to die and happy about going to meet their loved ones that they talked about all the time, and both my grandmother's died in the same hospital two years apart and they were ready to meet there maker and they both had tears in there eyes when leaving us, they are definitely with us in spirit
I'm so thrilled you're doing this. I was a CNA who worked in hospice before I became sick and ended up on disability myself (cancer).. I'd never heard the term visioning but the phenomenon you speak of absolutely happened. I found it very comforting.
I had so many encounters and experiences yet I was constantly told it wasn't real, just my imagination.. I knew it was not. There were cases I worked on where I didn't know every detail up front(I was a substitute CNA) and I'd feel weird pains in my body. I had one charge nurse who was open minded and explained to me that I was an empath and was feeling the patients disease. I thought she was crazy at first but overtime realized she was correct. She was the only one who understood or validated my experiences.
I could see the patient soul leave their body.. I'd try to tell the nurses or other staff that they were gone but if their breathing was still happening at all, I was assured they had not passed yet. I understood the body just hadn't stopped yet but the soul was gone or ejected already. I'd always see said patient in my minds eye, looking young and healthy and radiant. I called these the 'glamour shot' photo bc that's exactly what they reminded me of. I knew they'd made it and were safe even if their body wasn't fully transitioned yet.
Back then, this was all very taboo and I was the weird one. It's a relief to see more open mindedness and understanding of these things.
I wish you so many blessings in your mission to teach the truths about this subject.
Thank you ✨💚✨
I really like you and your channel. I am dying of a neurological disease and have had my own process dealing with it. It makes me feel good when someone such as yourself who deals with people in their final stages, espouse views which reflect my own. Thank you Nurse Julie! My daddy saw his parents before he died and all kinds of experiences I wish I could share
I wish you all the best for your journey. ❤️
God bless you. ❤
Remember Jesus❤
Prayers for you 🙏 ❤️ 💛
God bless you
I listened to a podcast with Dr John Lerma, author of the book "Into the Light", pre death experiences. It fascinated me!
My grandmother was 100 years old, in my aunt's home for hospice. My mother and her 2 sisters took turns holding vigil over Grammy until she passed. I asked my mother if Grammy ever talked to anyone not present in the room. She surprisingly that yes, Grammy did! She caught Grammy talking, "There you are, little boy! Why is it you never talk to me?", my mom told me. Then one day Grammy asked mom, "Donna, who's that tall man sitting in the corner?" Mom told her she doesn't see anybody. Grammy said he had a black tall hat and suit.
Mom never did find out who the man was, but that Grammy definitely saw him. She also asked my aunt Carolyn if she could hear the music? Carolyn asked, "What music?" Grammy said she can hear the angels singing!! It's wonderful!!
My grandmother lived to 92. She'd lost her little brother "Tiny" to rabies in childhood, when at 8 years old he was bitten by a dog while on his paper route.
A few days before my grandmother passed Tiny came and stayed with her to the end. She talked and laughed with him constantly, no differently than if he were physically in her room.
I just came across this video. It was nice hearing other people had experienced what I did with my dad. He was dying of COPD and went through different kinds of delirium and confusion. About a month or so before he died the most beautiful thing happened. He had been suffering so much and had been pretty much sleeping for a whole week. Then one day my mother called me to come quick. I ran down the stairs in a panic. I thought something was wrong. Instead my dad had woken up. Was sitting up and laughing. He was blowing kisses and reaching his arms towards someone we did not see. My sweet daddy was a serious man and rarely ever showed such displays of affection or excitement. Always was dignified and composed. My mom and I were so stunned and happy to see him so happy. We were crying and I asked him " Daddy who is it? Who do you see?". He said "my momma!", as he continued to blow kisses towards her. It was so beautiful...he got winded after a bit. He cupped his hands over his mouth like he wanted to be heard far as he could...he asked "which way do I go?". I'll never forget that moment as long as I live. It helped comfort me and helped my mother and I both to know he wasn't scared to die. Knowing loved ones were gathered, waiting was such a relief. 4 years after my father died my 18 year took his own life after a bad fight with his girlfriend. The biggest fear in my heart was where was he at that moment. Understanding the process of after death became the most important thing to me in a instant. That experience with my father gave me a bit of comfort. Knowing grandpa would come get my son. I kept finding myself telling my son...find grandpa honey...momma loves you. Now you just go wait with papa for the rest of us. I was so afraid my sons soul would be stuck. So I told my other grown kids to just keep talking to him. Tell him everything will be okay...to go find poppa and not to worry we would find him when our time came. Someday when my time comes..I will be so overjoyed to be greeted by my sweet boy and my dad. I find myself seeking these sort of afterlife videos. They help my broken heart. Thank you for all these beautiful stories. They truly help and comfort those of us needing a extra bit of reassurance and me hope. ❤
So sorry for your terrible loss of such a young son in his prime. Love never dies❤
Watching all of these hospice videos have really helped me not be afraid of death and to see life differently.
A year ago I started having serious neuro issues that made me lose control of my body and be in pain. It took months to get a diagnosis and it’s not even for sure. Like what crazy thing will happen today, will I go blind, what will my life be in a year, will I have to move in with my parents and die?
That’s a scary place to be and made me face mortality, at 40.
Now I feel like no matter what happens I’m going to be okay, even if it’s the worst, even if it kills me. Way less anxiety now.
Today marks the 6th anniversary of my wife's passing. I feel so comforted by you postings. My wife was a hospice volunteer for 8 years. Thank you so much.
My husband and I provided hospice care for his father. Binge-watching your videos showed me everything I needed to know to keep him safe and comfortable, If not for the videos, so much of what happened would have been stressful for us; but from the videos, we knew what to expect.
In the final weeks, my FiL saw people and pets that had long passed. For the last four or five days, he didn't want food and soon after, he didn't want anything to drink either. On the last night, I could tell by his breathing that it was time. I sat up with him all night and held his hand and talked to him. One of the last things I told him was that if he needs to go, it's okay, that I'll take care of his son.
He passed quietly a little while later, The pauses between breaths got longer and longer until finally, he just didn't inhale again. He was happy to die at home with us and we were happy to provide the care he needed to make it so. Thank you for your amazing channel.
My mum was in the active dying stage for 10 days before she finally passed. I hope she experienced the peace you talk of. It was a pretty traumatic experience for me to watch her like that for so long. I think she was holding on because she was scared. It came on so fast for her, too. We didn’t even have time to talk about all the important stuff before she went into her vegetative state. Same with my dad. No peace that I know of. Super fast, no closure. He was also isolated because of Covid. I wish peaceful passings for all and their families. It’s so much harder to grieve when it’s not peaceful for the people we love most.
I'm so sorry, I had been told since I was 9 years old. That I would be the one who watched over the nurses and hospice people at home with my mother and father. The will and the money had been put aside and revised for inflation as time went on. A family member had been spreading. Lies about me to a very large family. That we were not close enough to talk day to day. But they knew I was the quote and quote good kid in the family. They knew there was a lot of problems with the older children. But I was the one who stuck by my parents. How this got changed I still don't know. But illegally they legally changed the will. I'm sure money changed hands. There's no other way because everything was said in stone. By the time it was changed and my parents were not considered able to make those decisions. So it was illegal. So I was not with my parents as I was supposed to be. It was so important to my mother and I especially to be together. My father never talked about those kind of things, He knew I would be there though. At the end, My mother was in a nursing home, which was her worst nightmare. And that particular nursing home, she was most afraid of because of things we dealt with in the past. She passed there with my father. Also in a bed very ill in in last stages of cancer. Somebody in the family who still wanted to make sure that money came their way. Took my father for the rest of the three or six months of his life, i'm not sure. I was kept away the last four years of their life. It was all illegal and wrong, but all my money was wrapped up in their accounts, which were stripped by these people. It's been very difficult for me because of not having any kind of closure. They thought I abandoned them that's what they were told. Meanwhile I was fighting tuesday night almost daily in the courts with no representation. The things we've seeing people happen to my mother fifteen years before she passed. All I have is her voice on my phone screaming for me. Nice family huh. I don't know what I believe in. But I hope somehow they know that what happened. That I was fighting to be with them.😢❤
@@gomezaddams6470 ... Your parents know that you did your best. 💗 I am so sorry for the dehumanization done by your relatives. The Father Creator knows all of our minds and hearts and will give to each and every one of us according to our works. You won't be forgotten and your parents are patiently waiting for you.💗
@gomezaddams6470 I really hope your parents visit you in a way that comforts you and they reassure you everything is ok. It sounds like you did your best and are a wonderful person. God bless you.
I pray that they visit you in spirit to give you closure.
Thank you for your explanations
The older we old people we get the more we expect the situation of moving on.
It certainly gives me more comfort to know what will happen.
Again thank you.
Thank you also to be honest and so open about it
Eugen
Thank you for your channel. My son's rabbit passed on December 12th last year. This week after midnight, all 4 of our rabbits starting thumping loudly. My son was still up making some noise. I asked if he could be quiet. The buns still persisted and all looked in the same direction.
I felt Cottonball's presence, even though I could not see her. I saved some of her wool and let each bunny smell it. They acted as if they recognized it. I told her that we loved her and missed her. Although I could not see her, I felt her presence in our younger rabbits' playpen. I reached done to pet her and acknowledge that we knew she was there. I believe she came to say goodbye.
I believe in an afterlife and that we will be reunited with all family, including fur babies.
I had a pet rabbit that I loved dearly, he was sick and had been injured at the vets office so he couldn't jump. I left him loose in my bedroom when I went to sleep, during the night I felt him on the bed with me tho he had not been able to jump. The next morning I found him dead in my bead room floor, quite stiff and cold. I feel like he visited me before he died.
@@debrahall3753 I felt my kitty jump on the bed after she died too. in the falling asleep stage...
Boy I hope this is true.
It's really hard to read stories about your rabbits because my best friend my dog, Gus, passed. I miss him terribly and cry as I write this. Why doesn't he come and visit me.
@@eden7440 you will see him again, I truly believe this. Have hope!
As I write this I sit bedside with my 93 yr old mother who is in hospice. Her wonderful roommate told me this morning when I arrived here, “your Mom was talking to someone this morning”. Since she had had no visitors & no one else was in the room,I can only assume she was visioning. Your videos have been a source of education and comfort for me during my mothers death process. Thank you so much.
My prayers are with you and your mom. May she have an easy passing and May she comfort you.
Thank you all! She did have a transition that was pretty much exactly what Hospice Nurse Julie has been explaining to us. Therefore, the fear factor of what to expect was taken out of the equation. Thank you Julie, and all here, as because of you I was able to view my mothers death as a normal part of life instead of a horrible, unfair event.
I'm so sorry...my mom passed and I know what you are going through...❤
@@gaylewagner7388 sending prayers & love your way
One of my particular experiences was;
One night, while I was watching TV, I heard a voice say “there’s my grandson”, but the voice came from a direction different from my TV. At that moment, I knew my grandfather had passed away. The next morning, my mother walked into my bedroom and said, “your granddad died last night” I said “I know”, she said how did you know that, but I didn’t want to answer.
That is incredible!
I used to volunteer at a hospice and this woman who I would sit with never spoke to me. This went on for months, which was fine. The very last day she looked over at me and told me thank you for sitting with her. She passed shortly after and I never saw her again. I really appreciated her time and it was an honor to sit with her through the end of her life.
When my mother was in hospital during her last month or two of life there was a little old lady opposite her. She never spoke, just sat and watched. Anyway, a few hours after visiting had finished, this little lady said to my mum, "your husband was here until late" my mum thought she was confused and meant her son. The lady said "no your husband, he was sat on your bed, he was wearing an overcoat and trilby hat" my mum was so un-nerved telling me what the lady had said. My dad had died 20 years earlier and the little lady described him perfectly!! The overcoat, hat ! It was summer by the way and no one was wearing a coat of any description.
My mum died not so long after
Two stories.
First was my grandmother. Born in 1896 and was failing in 1986. To hear you talk now, she was shutting down, getting ready to go, not eating at all. I drove up to visit the weekend before she passed and I felt someone should be doing something. I started talking to her trying to entice her, listing foods that I thought she might accept, she wanted nothing. Me, being Mr Know-it-all made her some chocolate pudding. I went back into her room when it was ready and told her what I’d made for her….. her last words to me, “I’ve always known you were a witch. You were the one that could always make me do things I didn’t want to.” Then she ate three spoons full, and said, “Thank you, I love you. That was good.” I left town Sunday evening and had to drive back Monday night.
The next was my aunt that passed in 2001. She was laying in a hospice bed chattering away to folks that weren’t there. Smiling, laughing…. Then she got this very stern tone to her voice, “I cannot believe you! How can you sit there and ignore your mother like that?” I asked where she was…. And without missing a beat, she’s standing right behind you - her hands are on your shoulders. I’d lost her 11 years before that…. and it was the hardest thing I’d ever gone through. I told my aunt I’d be right back, went to the hallway and lost my mom all over again. Nurses started rushing into my aunt’s room thinking that she’d died. That was the first time anyone ever explained visioning to me. Dear God, I hope that’s a real thing.
Me too!!
It's real. Loved ones come usually a month or less before person dies, but it varies sometimes. The person is Transitioning.. So getting near to the active dying stage. Sometimes people will actually slowly become younger looking as they are days before their passing.
My father put his hands on my shoulders after he passed. It was so comforting. He barely touched us when he was alive.
My father only wanted vanilla ice cream at the end. Then nothing and he moved on. I wasn’t present at the time. Your channel brings comfort in knowing he wasn’t suffering, and I now believe he was in utopia where he could have as much vanilla ice cream as he wanted 😊while he waited to enter Heaven. God bless you and the work you do.
My Step mom tells the story about her Dad. He had a surgery scheduled to replace his knee. A week before the surgery he told my grandma that his late relatives (his parents, her parents and a granddaughter that had passed away) were visiting him and talking to him. He had never had anything like that happen before that. He died on the operation table.
It happened to me. When in the hospital I saw my dead family members, my late husband and people I didn’t recognize around my bed watching me. I thought they had come to get me. Later that night I woke up with a room full of nurses and a doctor and a crash cart. Idk
Wow! I’m convinced.
@@andsoitgoes1142 sarcastic 😂😂😂👍
The veil was just a little thin at the time. You don't have to be dying for that to happen--it can occur sometimes when someone on the other side needs to speak to you
Maybe without the crash cart, you were on your way. Maybe they were there to make sure you made it to the crash cart. Or to let you know that it was ok either way, cuz death is just a change.
@@marydevonshire4655 I love the description of “the veil” I think that is quite accurate imo ❤
I have taken care of 5 family members on Hospice. My aunt called out her son’s name three times the day before she passed. He had died of glioblastoma the previous year. My uncle kept pointing to the corner of the room and saying, “Mother!”.
I am a retired RN and all my experience with death and dying mirrors what you are saying. Keep educating people.
In the weeks leading up to my grandma's passing, I heard her talking to her self one night and I came into the room and was listening and she was saying ... I'm coming home mama, I'm coming home! She had an extremely profound experience when her mother died in the 1950s. I had her tell me that story over and over. She spoke to her mother or heard her after she died, a couple days and her sister that lived in another city had the exact same experience at the exact same time. She never really understood why or how that happened but it was pretty amazing.
Thanku julie, i lost my twin sister 3 yrs ago, she was 54, i was there by her bedside & with what u described, i now feel so much better, i thought, she had been in discomfort & suffering, now i know, she wasn't at all.,..., my father passed a yr later, he saw his late mum, about ten minutes b4 he passed... he never believed in spirits or afterlife, his face of shock, but a wonderful big smile, he had.❤😢
My sister was in hospice for 5 days and the staff were amazing. I spent the last hours with her before she took her last breath. What I experienced was something that has left me in total wonder. It was late in the evening and the room was pretty dark and I was sitting in a chair about 3 feet from her head. It suddenly appeared that her eyes were a tiny bit open and I felt she was staring at me. Then I could hear movement behind me and felt a presence that I just don't have words to describe. But this presence felt awesome to me. I wanted to turn around and look, but I couldn't. Then my sisters face would look bright like a light shining on her and then fade to dark over and over. Then there appeared these tiny lights of white and green darting around the room. I couldn't do anything as I was honestly in awe of what was happening. And then it was over and she took her last breath a couple hours later.
I would like to know if anyone out there has had an experience like this or if you have heard of anything like this. I'm an intelligent professional woman and this experience has forever changed me in that there is definitely an unseen realm.
Thankful for your posts and all that you share regarding ones last days here.
I wasn't there to see this but had a great uncle that was passing & the family talked about seeing a white orb in the room & even took pictures of the " white mist" lingering above his bed. My uncle talked to & about the Angel's he saw in his room too. It brought his family so much peace 🙏
nothing with lights but you do feel "that presence " and you just know and it doesn't care if you know or not. I had an experience involving a long dead relative, a white mist, lots and lots of noise and doors slamming and footsteps. it most definitely wanted me to know it was there. The most terrifying experience of my life, yet when i saw it , i felt totally calm. .. and I just knew it was ok (that was the only part that i felt calm in - the rest when i was trying to figure it out & it was terrifying because it took me by surprise) I watch these videos to make sense of it all because i want a logical explanation, but there isn't one . I guess we aren't supposed to know . We are most definitely not alone
@@emmarita487 Thank you for sharing.
Yes...I had somewhat the same experience with my Mom & the lights. I sat with her the night she passed... just hours b4 hospice was to start ~ they were starting at 8am the next morning. My brother lived next door (acreage, so not that "close"). I wondered why he was down at the pond in the dark with a flashlight. But then there were multiple lights not just a single one. They "came" individually... first just the one (which I thought was my brother) -but then two, then three until there were 5..so I knew it wasn't my brother OR flaslights. They were slowly moving toward the house from the lower property. Mom passed a short time later...and the lights were gone. I'm convinced 5 of her "people" came to get her. She wasn't supposed to pass yet BTW; but I believe she passed as soon as she could...cuz she really didn't want hospice 🤣 She was a SUPER private & tough woman. A couple days later I was in our home office working on her funeral tract at the computer. All of a sudden the room filled with the smell of lavender. (I'd used lavender lotion on her hands - her favorite) I didn't even turn around... just smiled and said "I love you, Ma". The scent left as quickly as it came 💜
@@bobbi7 Thank you for sharing, how beautiful. To this day I've been left in such wonder at what occurred in my sister's death, It's reassuring knowing someone else had a similar experience.
A close friend of mine was after a accident dead for 30 minutes or so and years later he told me everything he has seen while he was in heaven. He told me that heaven is much more real than our earth 🌎 Since several years he is finally in heaven 🙏🙏🙏
My sister was clinically dead for several minutes. She said that she was following nurses down the hall, watching CPR being done on her body, and then went down a tunnel. At the end of the tunnel, our father turned her back and said it wasn't her time.
My wife's grandmother right near the end when she was still at home would tell us of a little boy who lived under the table and would talk to her and would often ask if we all can see the boy. She also said strange things about me during that time. The woman and I weren't all that close, as I became a part of the family rather late to know her with all of her faculties, though she was still very active. I knew her less than 2 years before she became seriously ill. I was at her bedside when she drew her last breath. I remember how peace that last breath seemed. I felt her spirit hovering over us for a second. The air in the room lifted, at least for me. A surreal experience. Julie, you have a kind face. I can tell you are a wonderful hospice nurse.
Soooo love when you read these experiences out ! It brings much comfort and joy ❤ pls try to do this when u can. I am a nurse that works in the nursing home. This was the place I chose to work and love it ! Love making their final years happy. Thank you for your experiences and sharing ❤
My father asked "where did Sudie (his deceased sister) go?" We asked "was she here? " He answered " yes and she said she
would be back later." He was in hospital and passed later that day. I knew he was leaving when I heard this - there was an
affirmative glance between my mom and me. He was completely lucid, his heart was giving out, and he was not afraid -it
seemed perfectly normal to him that his sister had visited. It gave me peace and I know that we die alone, but we are NOT
alone! Thank you for a space to address these issues.
Hi, both of my parents have passed away. My dad six years before my mom who suffered from dementia. When they were both still alive they had such a unique relationship. One thing about my dad is he had to control the TV and she let him. He could fall asleep in his chair and we go for the remote and he would suddenly reach out for it, opening his eyes. The last month of my mom's life she saw my dad a lot. She was much more lucid, something she hadn't experienced in a long time due to dementia. Every day one of us would bring her a Coke. It was her daily treat while in the memory care facility and that last month she would ask why we hadn't brought one for our dad. My adult son went to visit her and he was sitting in her recliner, her sitting up in bed, and the TV was on but it was on football. He asked her if she wanted him to change the channel and started looking for the remote. He asked her where her remote was and she said his grandpa has it. He asked where he was. She said in the recliner. My son slowly rose from the chair... But one of the other things in the dynamics of my parents is my dad was fully my mom's care giver and planned for her care following his death. He always made sure to guide her through everything and just put her first. I can imagine that whether or not there's life after death that it would be his image she would see because it was a source of comfort.
Thankyou Julie. People don’t realize that to do your job you have to be very strong emotionally. 👍🏼
Thank you, my dear friend, Julie. That's what you are to us, not just somebody we listen to about death. You're our dear friend. Maybe some people don't point that out, but they're feeling it, believe me. You've eased my mind so much. I'm ready for the next adventure after this one now. I've been in chronic pain for 28 years and being out of pain sounds fine to me. I hope you realize how much you mean to us. God bless you.
And Joan, God Bless you. I know of what you speak.❤
AMEN JOAN 🙏 CHRONIC PAIN SUFFERER AS WELL. COMING UP ON 27 YEARS. YES, I'M ACTUALLY LOOKING FORWARD TO MY PASSING FROM THIS LIFE FULL OF PAIN. I KNOW I WILL FINALLY HAVE PEACE. PLEASE TAKE CARE. SENDING YOU LOVE & HUGS ❤🤗
@@annemorgan2928 GOD BLESS YOU & JOAN W. WE ALL LOVE NURSE JULIE AS WELL, GOD BLESS HER. LOVE YOU JULIE ❤🙏
My dad recently passed away on Feb 15th. He was sitting a lot with his eyes closed. At one point he started talking and then opened his eyes and looked around. He saw me sitting there and seemed perplexed and said “I could have swore that I was talking to my dad”. A week later he passed.
Also, I’m not afraid of dying. What I’m afraid of is leaving my boys and they are both grown. Like you said.
While my father was passing, he started talking to his best friend who had passed a few months prior. A full on conversation with his friend telling him to come with him.
I’ve seen both. I was at my Gma’s side for 4 days a month before she died. She was seeing angels and had her hands up in the air kind of dancing with her hands. Just 2 weeks ago I had a patient who was hallucinating. He was very upset. Days later he explained that he was seeing little people getting bossed around by a big nurse and he wanted me to go find him and tell him to stop bossing the people around. He remembered it well. When I left that facility, he was improving. He’s 98 and has gone through tons of ups and downs where we thought it was the end but he bounced back. Sweet man and I really enjoyed working with him while I could.
My sweet sister passed away March 29, 2023. Your videos helped me through her passing and even now in my grieving. Thank you for everything.
I am very sorry for your loss. Recently on UA-cam i saw so many videos about NDE, even from the doctors and etc., there is definitely heaven after life and we all meet each other there one day.
I'm sorry that you lost your sister. That is a void my own sister and I will experience one day. We talk about it, and she's so very scared that I will go first and leave her behind to grieve. She even asked me to promise to go after her. I love my sister Karen, and can't imagine either being without the other.
@@monicacollins8289I am the youngest of 6 kids-3 girls and 3 boys. I have always been very attached to my big sisters and my big brothers, and I have always worried about getting old and being left behind. One sister has passed, and my oldest sister has dementia. My brothers are doing well. I watched them all leave home, one by one, and I hate to see them leave me alone. That might be selfish, but I love them all. I am so sorry for your loss.🙏❤️🌹
Oh i'm so sorry for your loss. My dad passed away on valentine's day this year. ❤❤❤❤
I’m so so sorry for your all your loses truly. I lost my older brother in an accident June 7 2023 he was 50 years old.
My Mema passed in August, she carried on full conversations with my Papa, her parents and all of her siblings ( she was 99 and had out lived everyone else) I never left her the last month and a half…but 5 days before she passed she was telling me about her late night visitors, one was a man who washed her feet (I still get chills when I say it) being 99 she was a very conservative person so she pulls me down and whispers, I’m sure glad he didn’t wash any higher 💜🤣 that’s my Mema! The other 3 “visitors” were still there 2 men 1 woman who “crocheted crocheted and crocheted” again my Mema whispers I think they’re from NY (like it was a dirty word)🤷🏻♀️🤣 and told me they were starting to get on her nerves, could I ask them to leave? Yes ma’am I’m on it🫡 ! So I politely told them visiting hours were over, thanks for coming by, opened the door walked out and came back in🤷🏻♀️ where she thanked me profusely and said she was proud I still used my manners 💜 I miss her so much
Wow, he washed her feet. That's powerful and very Biblically symbolic. She was about to walk on Holy ground.
@@elainemartinez2021 absolutely! She was a Christian southern lady, raised in church and continued to serve until she felt unsteady on her feet ( she was always afraid she’d fall and embarrass herself or who she was with and tell everyone home was her comfort zone) I would definitely say she was a modern day disciple! So the symbolism of her feet being washed, was definitely not lost on me!
@@dawnreed1631praise the Lord I am so glad I came across this post you have blessed me more than you will ever know. God bless you my friend and your beautiful mema
@@RonColeman-zy5cd I’m so glad you got a blessing from this!!! And it blessed me too, knowing you did💜 I love it when people slow down to realize blessings are all around us!! Sometimes we’re so busy listening for the boom and thunder, that we miss the actual blessing that comes from the gentle breeze 😉
@@dawnreed1631 Honey when we get to glory is when we will realize what all we missed other than that I so look forward to that great day. Pray for us I sure will be praying for you and your family. God bless you my friend
You are really providing a great service to the rest of us who not medically trained. I felt like the angel of death back in 2009-2010, when I assisted and witnessed the death of 3 people close to me, all were very different. Each of them experienced the very things you speak of and I felt honored to be there with them, assist them and experience those things. Since then I also assisted my father who passed peacefully in his own home and I felt honored to do so. I have also come to learn that not everyone is cut out to be a caregiver, it "squicks" them out too much and they become a hindrance rather than a help. Thank you so much Julie!
You are so wonderful. You could have saved me 2 years of college if I saw your videos first. I went looking for answers and after all the searching , reading and philosophy, I didn't get any farther than if I just listened to you. Thank you. There are so many that need to hear this.
My Mom had hallucinations a few weeks before she died. Although bed bound, she was at a party drinking champagne and eating chicken. She was laughing it up with all kinds of people having great time. I though it was really weird but just went with it because she was happy. She made gestures of eating and drinking. She was telling them all about herself and her life. She loved to have a good time. Later in the day the church Deacon visited Mom and was “introduced” to my uncle, Mom’s brother who died years earlier. Mom had a peaceful transition and died at home as she wanted with me, my brother and sister next to her supported by hospice. It was beautiful although very painful to say goodbye and let her go. I had a lovely vision of her saying goodbye a few hours before her passing. She has been gone since March and I miss her so much. Love you Mom❤️
Aww. My Dad was trying to order coffee. I hope he found the food court in heaven where your Mom went. 😅 Bless his heart he was in the hospital for a full year before he passed with a stoma and being tube fed. All he wanted was a burger. And apparently the day before he passed he wanted some coffee. He thought he was at a coffee shop. 🥺
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I am so very sorry for your loss ❤🙏
I heard my Father singing in my Spirit after he passed from this world. It was as a portal open for those few days. And on the third morning I was emptying the trash and straightening up over at my mom’s house and I heard, ‘I’m so proud of you the way you take care of your mother.” And then I felt the portal close and never again heard my Dad’s voice. But the peace last forever. Yes I miss Dad but I no longer grieve. I just look up on occasions and tell him, I love you Dad.❤