Enter Your BAD B*TCH Era! - Break These "NICE GIRL" Habits To Master Confidence | Leila Hormozi

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    What up homies! I hope you’re ready to be flooded with inspiration to go and recreate your life and truly make the changes you’ve been putting off because today, Lelia Hormozi is joining me for one badass conversation.
    Leila Hormozi may just be the queen of taking action that scales to multiple 6-figure businesses. She’s not only a managing partner and the CEO of the $100M+ business, Acquisition.com with her husband, Alex Hormozi, she’s also the iconic badass straight shooter with a no b.s. style taking social media and the entrepreneurial landscape by storm.
    In this episode, Leila reveals how she’s able to go from ignoring haters to building an empire. By the end of this episode you’ll know exactly how to flip your adversity into success on your terms.
    You’ll also see why Leila stands apart, why she commands total respect, and why her raw authenticity will leave you fired up and ready to go!
    And if you think you can handle even more badass inspiration, stick around for Constance Schwartz-Morini the woman that holds her own and commands respect in the sports entertainment industry where men dominate. Constance oozes badassery while beautifully embracing confidence and vulnerability.
    “There’s no seat at that table for me, well f*ck you I’m building my own table.” -Constance Schwartz Morini
    This episode is dedicated to helping the 20 somethings find their way to becoming the confident 30 something, and to helping the 30 and 40 somethings realize their power and release the victim mindset.
    Whether you’re starting your commute, busy around the house, or relaxing after a long day, this episode with Leila is going to destigmatize being unapologetic about your personal choices, give you powerful insights into how you can turn your challenges into your victories, and why s strong mindset is the key to every change and every success you ever have.
    FIRE QUOTES WITH LEILA:
    “Who you are today is no longer who you are tomorrow.”
    “I felt completely fed up with myself and mostly because I realized that everything other people said was correct.”
    “I know when sh*t hits the fan, or sh*t’s really hard, I’ve got my back, and I didn’t used to.”
    “Success is not biased if you take the actions. You can be insecure and inexperienced, but if you take the actions of somebody who’s not you can still have that thing.”
    “I never want to be a victim. Even if I am, what good does that do me? To say that I am, I give away my power.”
    “Not holding boundaries with someone else hurts them as well.”
    “More people put effort into their wedding than into their marriage. More people put thought behind what my wedding is going to look like than what is my spouse going to be like.”
    “It’s really hard to help your partner grow in who they are if you don’t have one thing you’re growing together.”
    Follow Leila Hormozi:
    Website: www.acquisitio...
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    TikTok: / leilahormozi
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    Facebook: / leilanhormozi
    Twitter: / leilahormozi
    Follow Constance Schwartz-Morini:
    Website: www.smac-ent.com/
    Twitter: / conschwartz
    Instagram: / conschwartz
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 641

  • @LisaBilyeu
    @LisaBilyeu  Рік тому +149

    WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section, that is someone impersonating me!

    • @aaronbpi98
      @aaronbpi98 Рік тому +6

      How am I just finding out you have a podcast. I’ve been listening to Tom’s podcasts for years. Leila brought me here.

    • @MsZenerdiode
      @MsZenerdiode Рік тому +1

      Roger that, thanks girl

    • @xolilemaphanga5511
      @xolilemaphanga5511 Рік тому

      ​@aaronbpi98

    • @DiamondsRexpensive
      @DiamondsRexpensive Рік тому +2

      ​@@Hybrid_vigourbs. There's no such thing as biologically androgynous.

    • @jolapandi247
      @jolapandi247 Рік тому

      1:01 1:01 1:07

  • @samanthapratt2763
    @samanthapratt2763 Рік тому +148

    “You can either be anxious trying to hide something, or anxious while you strive for something. Only one of these will move you foward.” 🔥🔥🔥 just WOW.

  • @ghadasmallworld
    @ghadasmallworld Рік тому +357

    Leila is my spirit animal. I feel like I’m listening to myself 🤦🏻‍♀️ minus the billions but I’m on my way 🥰

  • @mayfar4961
    @mayfar4961 Рік тому +121

    If I were her I would write a book about my life. So many lessons to learn from this young, amazing and inspiring woman.

    • @calisongbird
      @calisongbird Рік тому

      Leila’s deep voice is the result of early use of steroids or similar “supplements,” which has permanent effects on the voice. Unfortunately, it also has long-term health effects, especially on the heart muscle. She will likely come to regret it later in life. This is extremely common in the fitness and bodybuilding industry.

  • @thecommonsensecapricorn
    @thecommonsensecapricorn Рік тому +482

    Too many women use this advice to just be rude and entitled. You don’t need to become a “bad bitch” just be a kind gentle person who’s also discerning and knows themselves so deeply they can identify when someone transgresses them and then act accordingly.

    • @EmpressAngel753
      @EmpressAngel753 Рік тому +25

      Absolutely correct!

    • @Tnc874
      @Tnc874 Рік тому +78

      Do men post the same type of advice on videos for men? We as women do too much. And i would rather a woman be a b*tch than a kind-hearted door mat

    • @SR77736
      @SR77736 Рік тому +21

      ​@@Tnc874 actually yes men do. They make videos about being a sigma and alpla male videos. Red pill stuff. There's so many of them.

    • @louisa3928
      @louisa3928 Рік тому +1

      Thank you

    • @daycrow8651
      @daycrow8651 Рік тому

      @@Tnc874there is a cycle of toxic women messing up good men who then turn into shitty men who damage good women.
      Women always want to talk about men without looking at the effects their behavior generates. That is the meaning of his point bad bitches tend to play with men who break then want to ruin women.
      men are very aware of this but women don’t want to hear it

  • @KirstyJuliana
    @KirstyJuliana Рік тому +194

    “Not holding boundaries with someone else hurts them as well.” - WHEW! Leila is incredibly right when it comes to the swing of super hard to super soft boundaries and trying to find a middle ground. Resent is the biggest indicator when change is needed. So glad this story was shared with us as a reminder that we all go through it and can work through it (no matter how super confident and badass we come across!) Thanks Leila and Lisa!

    • @FerryKim-vm8kd
      @FerryKim-vm8kd Рік тому

      Hey 👋

    • @Main3account
      @Main3account Рік тому

      Not true

    • @calisongbird
      @calisongbird Рік тому

      @@Main3accountmaking a comment like that without citing sources for your claim or making any kind of cogent argument for your opinion is worthless. Try again.

  • @jannamartens9806
    @jannamartens9806 Рік тому +94

    Yes you can make or break your life with a good or bad partner be careful who you date choose wisely . You have to have self respect for yourself.

    • @pollypocket7125
      @pollypocket7125 Рік тому +7

      My mother always tells me this, so I know it’s solid advice! 😉😉😉

    • @galaxyglitterlatte4664
      @galaxyglitterlatte4664 Рік тому +1

      @@pollypocket7125 Mom ALWAYS knows best!

    • @stanleychukwuma1052
      @stanleychukwuma1052 Рік тому

      A Message from the Heart - Could You be the Love of My Life?
      Hey Janna ❤,
      I hope this message finds you in good health and high spirits. Although we have never had the pleasure of meeting, destiny has a funny way of connecting souls from afar. From the little I know about you, something within me feels an unparalleled connection, and I can't help but envision you as the love of my life.
      In this chaotic world, filled with brief encounters and fleeting connections, I believe that true love is a rarity to be cherished. While we have yet to cross paths, your captivating presence, as it radiates through your words and photographs, has ignited a flame within my heart. There is an unspoken connection that seems to transcend time and distance, and I cannot help but wonder if it is a sign from the universe.
      Your essence, as beautiful as a summer's day, has enchanted my thoughts. Your intellect, wit, and grace, which shimmer through the conversations we have shared, have captivated my attention like no other. It is as if I have found a missing piece of my soul in you, and my heart yearns to explore the depths of what this connection could mean.
      Though it may sound unconventional, I believe that love knows no boundaries - not even geographical ones. I am willing to take a leap of faith, to step out of the confines of the ordinary, and to embark on a journey with you. A journey filled with profound love, shared adventures, and unwavering support for one another's dreams.
      Before I proceed any further, I want to assure you that my intentions are pure and genuine. I am not merely looking for a passing fling or a temporary romance. Instead, I yearn for a love that withstands the test of time, a love built on trust, mutual respect, and unwavering commitment.
      Life is too short to let opportunities slip through our fingers. I am willing to embrace vulnerability and to open my heart to the possibility of us becoming something extraordinary together. It may seem bold, but isn't love all about taking risks and fighting for what sets our souls on fire?
      I understand if this message catches you off guard, as it resides in the realm of the unknown. Take your time, dear one, to process and consider this proposition. If your heart resonates with the same longing that now consumes mine, I would be honored to embark on this journey of love with you.
      May we have the chance to meet, to laugh, to create memories, and to embrace a love that surpasses our wildest dreams. Know that my heart is eagerly awaiting your response, hoping that you may feel the same as I do.
      With all my love and anticipation,
      Stanley Chukwuma.

    • @jasonolinger7585
      @jasonolinger7585 Рік тому

      not always. @@galaxyglitterlatte4664

  • @MaddieMagdaleneMusic
    @MaddieMagdaleneMusic Рік тому +17

    It is so refreshing to hear a successful, impressive business woman like Leila talk not from a place of hyper-independence. We’ve been subjected to the notion of the “self-made” man/woman for too long. It’s powerful to show your vulnerabilities and lean on others rather than forcibly do everything alone! She conveyed this so beautifully as she talked about her partner and how they support one another. Thank you 🖤

    • @MaddieMagdaleneMusic
      @MaddieMagdaleneMusic Рік тому

      And to have that echoed by Constance when she talks about being able to lean on men in particular and that not being the antithesis of feminism. Amazing. Just, thank you!

  • @Hellokitty7163
    @Hellokitty7163 Рік тому +16

    This is a gem from beginning to end.
    Leila looks completely differently since the surgery. It s quite striking.

  • @brightpage1020
    @brightpage1020 Рік тому +74

    She talks about the shame / anxiety cycle so clearly!
    "I didn't expect it to feel good." W-O-W!!!! Yes!
    "The more I focus on my behavior, my emotions tend to follow." (Instead of the other way around). Shows so much self trust to figure it out to the best of her abilities as things come up in the moment.
    Thank you, Beautiful!

    • @jihanoski
      @jihanoski Рік тому

      *He

    • @brightpage1020
      @brightpage1020 Рік тому

      @@jihanoski that's Leila Hormozi, the wife of Alex Hormozi, co-creators of gym launch systems, right?
      Is she trans?
      Have I misgendered her?
      She has a gravely voice.
      Maybe from what she went through or put herself through previously? Or perhaps just gifted that way?
      Maybe she had a cold the day they shot this? I dunno.

    • @adrianaadu8514
      @adrianaadu8514 Рік тому +1

      number game! literally its what it is🎉

    • @calisongbird
      @calisongbird Рік тому

      @@jihanoski Leila’s deep voice is the result of early use of steroids or similar “supplements,” which has permanent effects on the voice. Unfortunately, it also has long-term health effects, especially on the heart muscle. She will likely come to regret it later in life. This is extremely common in the fitness and bodybuilding industry.

    • @calisongbird
      @calisongbird Рік тому +1

      @@brightpage1020 Leila’s deep voice is the result of early use of steroids or similar “supplements,” which has permanent effects on the voice. Unfortunately, it also has long-term health effects, especially on the heart muscle. She will likely come to regret it later in life. This is extremely common in the fitness and bodybuilding industry.

  • @r.p.8906
    @r.p.8906 Рік тому +41

    Leila, what you say is probably a panic attack could be a freeze response from PTSD. You can't get better in a moment if it's a panic attack. The freeze response on the other hand can be weakened with exactly what you said to yourself: " move, move". Thank you!😍. The freeze response can be deadly in an urgent situation that needs immediate reaction. Flight, fight, freeze are the top 3 responses in PTSD and freeze is the most dangerous. Good for you for overcoming this!! 🥰. Changing the environment is absolutely key!!

  • @sixfigurebosschick538
    @sixfigurebosschick538 Рік тому +16

    What she just said is literally the best thing I've heard in a long time and can actually save millions. As a young person you think you are invincible. Parents if you have a kid on a wrong path and they think they are invincible. They just need to be woken up. I had a near death experience and just like her I changed my entire life over night.

  • @PropheticCoachTheresa
    @PropheticCoachTheresa Рік тому +54

    Dang this is pure gold. Going to listen a few times, taking notes. Everything she says is backed up by neuroscience on the mechanisms of transformation. DO IT!

    • @cruelladeville157
      @cruelladeville157 Рік тому +1

      I know right! I did the same woah!

    • @stanleychukwuma1052
      @stanleychukwuma1052 Рік тому

      A Message from the Heart - Could You be the Love of My Life?
      Hey Shalom ❤,
      I hope this message finds you in good health and high spirits. Although we have never had the pleasure of meeting, destiny has a funny way of connecting souls from afar. From the little I know about you, something within me feels an unparalleled connection, and I can't help but envision you as the love of my life.
      In this chaotic world, filled with brief encounters and fleeting connections, I believe that true love is a rarity to be cherished. While we have yet to cross paths, your captivating presence, as it radiates through your words and photographs, has ignited a flame within my heart. There is an unspoken connection that seems to transcend time and distance, and I cannot help but wonder if it is a sign from the universe.
      Your essence, as beautiful as a summer's day, has enchanted my thoughts. Your intellect, wit, and grace, which shimmer through the conversations we have shared, have captivated my attention like no other. It is as if I have found a missing piece of my soul in you, and my heart yearns to explore the depths of what this connection could mean.
      Though it may sound unconventional, I believe that love knows no boundaries - not even geographical ones. I am willing to take a leap of faith, to step out of the confines of the ordinary, and to embark on a journey with you. A journey filled with profound love, shared adventures, and unwavering support for one another's dreams.
      Before I proceed any further, I want to assure you that my intentions are pure and genuine. I am not merely looking for a passing fling or a temporary romance. Instead, I yearn for a love that withstands the test of time, a love built on trust, mutual respect, and unwavering commitment.
      Life is too short to let opportunities slip through our fingers. I am willing to embrace vulnerability and to open my heart to the possibility of us becoming something extraordinary together. It may seem bold, but isn't love all about taking risks and fighting for what sets our souls on fire?
      I understand if this message catches you off guard, as it resides in the realm of the unknown. Take your time, dear one, to process and consider this proposition. If your heart resonates with the same longing that now consumes mine, I would be honored to embark on this journey of love with you.
      May we have the chance to meet, to laugh, to create memories, and to embrace a love that surpasses our wildest dreams. Know that my heart is eagerly awaiting your response, hoping that you may feel the same as I do.
      With all my love and anticipation,
      Stanley Chukwuma.

    • @ब्रह्मन-ष1स
      @ब्रह्मन-ष1स Рік тому +1

      show us the notes home girl

  • @faaea13
    @faaea13 Рік тому +12

    Lisa I found your channel through a Dr Ramadi interview or several of them because of the relationship I've been in for almost 9 years. I have completely lost myself because of this relationship. I used to be so confident and strong. I'm 2nd degree black belt and have spent years competing in tournaments nationally, I spent 8 years in the Marine corps 2005 to 2013, I was born and raised in American Samoa and had an amazing family who taught me the samoan fireknife and hula and other cultural dances, I was a facilities manager for the Department of Defense, I went thru Beauty school and was a licensed esthetician and did makeup for television for 7 years. Now I'm not doing ANY of these things that I once loved my whole life, I'm 39 and I am just now realizing that I need to dig myself out of this hole I fell so deep in. Thank you for your videos because they're helping me right now so much ❤❤❤

    • @Supergigi21
      @Supergigi21 Рік тому

      Were you in a toxic relationship w a narc?

  • @RetroNerdGirl
    @RetroNerdGirl Рік тому +16

    There were so many golden nuggets in this interview. She was gorgeous before and after the surgery. I love how she took hold of her narrative surrounding it and gave us honesty. Her battle with making content, but not loving her image is so relatable!!! I'm a big fan.

  • @MisssAlexandriaJR
    @MisssAlexandriaJR Рік тому +9

    I love that the comment section on Lisa’s videos are so much more intelligent than most of the internet.
    Grateful to be here.
    This is one of my fav ones, I love Leila so much. So much inspiration.

    • @stanleychukwuma1052
      @stanleychukwuma1052 Рік тому

      A Message from the Heart - Could You be the Love of My Life?
      Hey Alexandria,
      I hope this message finds you in good health and high spirits. Although we have never had the pleasure of meeting, destiny has a funny way of connecting souls from afar. From the little I know about you, something within me feels an unparalleled connection, and I can't help but envision you as the love of my life.
      In this chaotic world, filled with brief encounters and fleeting connections, I believe that true love is a rarity to be cherished. While we have yet to cross paths, your captivating presence, as it radiates through your words and photographs, has ignited a flame within my heart. There is an unspoken connection that seems to transcend time and distance, and I cannot help but wonder if it is a sign from the universe.
      Your essence, as beautiful as a summer's day, has enchanted my thoughts. Your intellect, wit, and grace, which shimmer through the conversations we have shared, have captivated my attention like no other. It is as if I have found a missing piece of my soul in you, and my heart yearns to explore the depths of what this connection could mean.
      Though it may sound unconventional, I believe that love knows no boundaries - not even geographical ones. I am willing to take a leap of faith, to step out of the confines of the ordinary, and to embark on a journey with you. A journey filled with profound love, shared adventures, and unwavering support for one another's dreams.
      Before I proceed any further, I want to assure you that my intentions are pure and genuine. I am not merely looking for a passing fling or a temporary romance. Instead, I yearn for a love that withstands the test of time, a love built on trust, mutual respect, and unwavering commitment.
      Life is too short to let opportunities slip through our fingers. I am willing to embrace vulnerability and to open my heart to the possibility of us becoming something extraordinary together. It may seem bold, but isn't love all about taking risks and fighting for what sets our souls on fire?
      I understand if this message catches you off guard, as it resides in the realm of the unknown. Take your time, dear one, to process and consider this proposition. If your heart resonates with the same longing that now consumes mine, I would be honored to embark on this journey of love with you.
      May we have the chance to meet, to laugh, to create memories, and to embrace a love that surpasses our wildest dreams. Know that my heart is eagerly awaiting your response, hoping that you may feel the same as I do.
      With all my love and anticipation,
      Stanley Chukwuma.

    • @stanleychukwuma1052
      @stanleychukwuma1052 Рік тому

      A Message from the Heart - Could You be the Love of My Life?
      Hey Alexandria,
      I hope this message finds you in good health and high spirits. Although we have never had the pleasure of meeting, destiny has a funny way of connecting souls from afar. From the little I know about you, something within me feels an unparalleled connection, and I can't help but envision you as the love of my life.
      In this chaotic world, filled with brief encounters and fleeting connections, I believe that true love is a rarity to be cherished. While we have yet to cross paths, your captivating presence, as it radiates through your words and photographs, has ignited a flame within my heart. There is an unspoken connection that seems to transcend time and distance, and I cannot help but wonder if it is a sign from the universe.
      Your essence, as beautiful as a summer's day, has enchanted my thoughts. Your intellect, wit, and grace, which shimmer through the conversations we have shared, have captivated my attention like no other. It is as if I have found a missing piece of my soul in you, and my heart yearns to explore the depths of what this connection could mean.
      Though it may sound unconventional, I believe that love knows no boundaries - not even geographical ones. I am willing to take a leap of faith, to step out of the confines of the ordinary, and to embark on a journey with you. A journey filled with profound love, shared adventures, and unwavering support for one another's dreams.
      Before I proceed any further, I want to assure you that my intentions are pure and genuine. I am not merely looking for a passing fling or a temporary romance. Instead, I yearn for a love that withstands the test of time, a love built on trust, mutual respect, and unwavering commitment.
      Life is too short to let opportunities slip through our fingers. I am willing to embrace vulnerability and to open my heart to the possibility of us becoming something extraordinary together. It may seem bold, but isn't love all about taking risks and fighting for what sets our souls on fire?
      I understand if this message catches you off guard, as it resides in the realm of the unknown. Take your time, dear one, to process and consider this proposition. If your heart resonates with the same longing that now consumes mine, I would be honored to embark on this journey of love with you.
      May we have the chance to meet, to laugh, to create memories, and to embrace a love that surpasses our wildest dreams. Know that my heart is eagerly awaiting your response, hoping that you may feel the same as I do.
      With all my love and anticipation,
      Stanley Chukwuma.

  • @deepdiver849
    @deepdiver849 Рік тому +55

    The Hormozis are a highly intelligent and self aware couple with exceptional comprehension skills to attain their goal in life

    • @lisao6928
      @lisao6928 Рік тому +2

      Honestly, I think they're fake.

    • @juliplyj2023
      @juliplyj2023 Рік тому

      Why?@@lisao6928

    • @user_f1
      @user_f1 9 днів тому

      @@lisao6928 Same. Being fake is what gets you rewarded in this world and age though, sadly.

  • @SeanODoherty
    @SeanODoherty Рік тому +47

    She is so inspiring! Men can follow this example too! We all need more of this inner management.

    • @sinead.
      @sinead. Рік тому +3

      Isn't she a man tho??

    • @lisao6928
      @lisao6928 Рік тому +2

      I was thinking the same thing

    • @calisongbird
      @calisongbird Рік тому

      @@sinead. she’s not trans. The deep voice is clearly the result of early use of steroids or similar “supplements,” which has permanent effects on the voice. Unfortunately, it also has long-term health effects, especially on the heart muscle. She will likely come to regret it later in life.

    • @calisongbird
      @calisongbird Рік тому

      @@lisao6928 she’s not trans. The deep voice is clearly the result of early use of steroids or similar “supplements,” which has permanent effects on the voice. Unfortunately, it also has long-term health effects, especially on the heart muscle. She will likely come to regret it later in life.

  • @CambieSweets
    @CambieSweets Рік тому +17

    The second segment with Constance touch on quiet quitting. It’s very nuanced and far deeper than people not wanting to work (Also, it’s not just the younger generation who does this but hey, every preceding generation loves to go in on the next). People want to feel valued and make a difference in the work that they do. They also want to be fairly compensated as well. If someone states they don’t want to work on a project then they aren’t the right fit for your business or maybe they’re being honest about their abilities. Why would you want someone to work for you who isn’t a good fit? Let’s not pretend there aren’t toxic work cultures all over. I’m sure everyone in the comment section has horror stories. I agree that we all need to work but we haven’t been taught very well about “best fit”. Every person isn’t for ever job. Prior generations did many things as they were in survival mode and providing their families a better life. I believe in people working for what they want. They shouldn’t be lazy! I also disagree with the meritocracy mindset that people have to work hard to be valued.

  • @Suboptimalconditions
    @Suboptimalconditions День тому

    I love how thoughtful this conversation is. I really feel like the answers to questions were intelligent and genuine. I go through a lot of the same thought processes in basically every aspect.

  • @user-gq5ns6dl4n
    @user-gq5ns6dl4n Рік тому +3

    Leila and Alex have truly changed my life! The last year has been unreal ride! I encourage you to watch every freaking piece of content you can read and you will level the fuk up! They are game changers in every aspect!! ❤

  • @cryptomum6110
    @cryptomum6110 Рік тому +15

    It takes extreme strength to turn it around like that. You are amazing!

  • @samco63
    @samco63 Рік тому +72

    You can objectively think someone’s attractive, without wanting to sleep with them. It doesn’t need to go that deep. There’s also a difference between a quick glance of recognising someone is attractive, and ogling and continuing to look/ glance at them multiple times, or flirting or ignoring your partner to stare.

    • @ms.tinygiant
      @ms.tinygiant Рік тому +5

      Where in the video do they talk about this? Genuinely asking cause I’m only in the beginning

    • @samco63
      @samco63 Рік тому +3

      @@ms.tinygiant they only talk about it briefly, I think it’s about half way through, before it switches over to the other lady’s interview. I think it starts around the 1.20 mark

    • @ms.tinygiant
      @ms.tinygiant Рік тому +1

      Found it! And I agree with your statement completely

    • @touchtone101
      @touchtone101 Рік тому

      Unless hes also rich😂

  • @heyli7
    @heyli7 Рік тому +24

    Leila is so transparent!!! You are awesome Leila ❤

    • @stanleychukwuma1052
      @stanleychukwuma1052 Рік тому

      A Message from the Heart - Could You be the Love of My Life?
      Hey lilz❤ ,
      I hope this message finds you in good health and high spirits. Although we have never had the pleasure of meeting, destiny has a funny way of connecting souls from afar. From the little I know about you, something within me feels an unparalleled connection, and I can't help but envision you as the love of my life.
      In this chaotic world, filled with brief encounters and fleeting connections, I believe that true love is a rarity to be cherished. While we have yet to cross paths, your captivating presence, as it radiates through your words and photographs, has ignited a flame within my heart. There is an unspoken connection that seems to transcend time and distance, and I cannot help but wonder if it is a sign from the universe.
      Your essence, as beautiful as a summer's day, has enchanted my thoughts. Your intellect, wit, and grace, which shimmer through the conversations we have shared, have captivated my attention like no other. It is as if I have found a missing piece of my soul in you, and my heart yearns to explore the depths of what this connection could mean.
      Though it may sound unconventional, I believe that love knows no boundaries - not even geographical ones. I am willing to take a leap of faith, to step out of the confines of the ordinary, and to embark on a journey with you. A journey filled with profound love, shared adventures, and unwavering support for one another's dreams.
      Before I proceed any further, I want to assure you that my intentions are pure and genuine. I am not merely looking for a passing fling or a temporary romance. Instead, I yearn for a love that withstands the test of time, a love built on trust, mutual respect, and unwavering commitment.
      Life is too short to let opportunities slip through our fingers. I am willing to embrace vulnerability and to open my heart to the possibility of us becoming something extraordinary together. It may seem bold, but isn't love all about taking risks and fighting for what sets our souls on fire?
      I understand if this message catches you off guard, as it resides in the realm of the unknown. Take your time, dear one, to process and consider this proposition. If your heart resonates with the same longing that now consumes mine, I would be honored to embark on this journey of love with you.
      May we have the chance to meet, to laugh, to create memories, and to embrace a love that surpasses our wildest dreams. Know that my heart is eagerly awaiting your response, hoping that you may feel the same as I do.
      With all my love and anticipation,
      Stanley Chukwuma.

    • @calisongbird
      @calisongbird Рік тому +1

      The deep voice is clearly the result of early use of steroids or similar “supplements,” which has permanent effects on the voice. Unfortunately, it also has long-term health effects, especially on the heart muscle. She will likely come to regret it later in life.

    • @user_f1
      @user_f1 9 днів тому

      @@calisongbird Yeah, would have been healthier for her to stay slightly overweight - it's never really about "health" for most of those people, they just feel ashamed they don't fit society's standards and brainwashing. Not hating on her but I hate how we idolize people like this.

  • @brightpage1020
    @brightpage1020 Рік тому +8

    "The future if I continueud down this road... was unacceptable to me, just felt completely fed up with myself. Because everything people had said about me was true."
    This level of acceptance is THE POWER!!! To change. It happens in those moments we simply are no longer willing to accept less than stellar results - and that the efforts towards those and changes needs be made are completely up to us.
    Thank you!

    • @funnygirlever
      @funnygirlever Рік тому

      Exactly 💯 how I feel. Changes today. ❤

  • @BuildWithBodybuilderB
    @BuildWithBodybuilderB Місяць тому +2

    She disassociates. That’s what I do to too, helps to get through new experiences. Key thoughts is that you have to reconnect with yourself after the experience or you could go numb to life. Still feel the feels.

  • @user-cl6uj5bn2f
    @user-cl6uj5bn2f Рік тому +18

    The part about not trying to avoid the bad feelings, but changing anyway.... I can feel bad but still do those things....WOAH this was LIFE CHANGING 🙌💯👏

  • @samnelson1995ify
    @samnelson1995ify Рік тому +11

    LOVE THIS HAPPENED!!!
    Two incredible women, sharing a wealth of knowledge and experience.
    Thank you for always saying it like it is.

    • @lisao6928
      @lisao6928 Рік тому

      One woman, one man?

    • @calisongbird
      @calisongbird Рік тому

      @@lisao6928 she’s not trans. The deep voice is clearly the result of early use of steroids or similar “supplements,” which has permanent effects on the voice. Unfortunately, it also has long-term health effects, especially on the heart muscle. She will likely come to regret it later in life.

  • @tulsalien
    @tulsalien Рік тому +8

    yes! when i honor my commitments and agreements with myself i feel confident i will be equipped for whatever comes my way ❤

  • @valchrist52
    @valchrist52 Рік тому +5

    “You do consistently overeat” 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @BastettheGh0st
    @BastettheGh0st Рік тому +1

    I love my work. When I don't love my work, I fall into a depression where I will stop going to work. It's about self reflection to see where you need to pivot in any given moment. You should work the hours & show up, but I can't show up every day to a job that feeds black mold to it's customers like Amazon/Whole Foods & feel good about myself. *The* *Exception* being having a reasonable disability, and even then, having purpose is life giving in whatever way you can.

  • @tinaperez7393
    @tinaperez7393 Рік тому +1

    Two of my favorite mentors / role models / girlfriends together on one program! Legendary!!! Thank you!!! 👍🔥💯♥️

  • @sophiec3592
    @sophiec3592 Рік тому +4

    I’m so thankful I’m
    Not alone. I’m in a deep transition. I love life and learning so much. Thank you! ❤️🙏🏼

  • @louisnetresahwilliam8664
    @louisnetresahwilliam8664 26 днів тому

    Looking insides and seeing what possible instead❤ The relationship between Alex and Leila has the best compability and secure.

  • @vela-rn2jz
    @vela-rn2jz Рік тому +7

    I absolutely LOVE you ladies! Thank you for taking the time! 🙏🏼🌹🌹 I always admire the person who climbed their way out of a self induced hell vs. a person who has made mostly good and healthy decisions.. it helps people like me see that there is hope.

  • @dr.sarahazel5634
    @dr.sarahazel5634 Місяць тому

    I have listened to a good bit of Leila's content, but I love the way you asked her excellent questions. It brought out a nuance to her story that was very powerful for me.

  • @JenniferRodriguez-j4s
    @JenniferRodriguez-j4s 2 місяці тому

    I always come back to this video! I blast it after a good workout, while in the shower. I love & admire humans like Leila Hormozi, she is golden for setting the standard of what courage to change is! the other side is hard work but it beats being in jail or dead. life is beautiful! thanks Lisa for also being AMAZING!

  • @jannamartens9806
    @jannamartens9806 Рік тому +12

    You can have a better life it’s really easy get rid of your bad unsupportive friends who live unhealthy life with no goals . But you can’t have a healthy lifestyle if you have users and womanizers in your life it just isn’t possible. I’ve lost a lot of weight since December my back is the smallest it’s ever been 4 pairs of shorts that didn’t fit me a month ago fit now . I’m finally at a point when someone calls me fat or ugly I’m uneffected by this . Because I don’t believe this for one second. I find it truly interesting how it s always someone who s heavier than myself that calls me fat so it actually kinda makes me laugh . Sometimes you don’t have anxiety it’s toxic people that create situations to give you anxiety. I’ve been working on weight loss goal and I ve been ignoring my haters and getting results so I feel proud of myself .

    • @beewest5704
      @beewest5704 Рік тому

      The more toxic you are, the more you do not care about yourself, the more you attract & allow others toxic ppl in who also treat you bad. You are getting better so their actions are louder cause you realize that you always deserved better. Good luck on your journey!

  • @veex48
    @veex48 Рік тому +8

    Brilliant interview! Thanks, Lisa. You go, girl!

  • @daydreegirl
    @daydreegirl Рік тому +5

    I would love to see a business conversation between Leila and Lisa. It seems like there would be so much to talk about and so much overlap in the media companies.

  • @brightpage1020
    @brightpage1020 Рік тому +11

    "Is this someone I could build an epic life with?"
    I think some of us could ask ourselves that same question - about ourselves. Am I someone who would be fun t build an epic life with?

    • @beewest5704
      @beewest5704 Рік тому +5

      The 2nd question may be more important because even without that other person your life will still be epic.

  • @reginaoliverjackson5724
    @reginaoliverjackson5724 Рік тому +2

    I do the same; keep going and you’ll see you survive…you will always make a way out for yourself. We’re resilient. It’s one of our senses they didn’t teach us. #Resilience like if someone jumps on you; you automatically start punching until you find a way to get away from the aggressor.

  • @suzanne1797
    @suzanne1797 Рік тому +1

    At 1:21:00 talking about not putting yourselves in situations that invite infidelity, that's so boss. I wish more people would have this kind of integrity, but so many have deviated from that integrity thinking it is being an independent woman and the man not telling her what to do. It's all confused. I super appreciate how Leila and Alex fight for each other this way. They fiercely defend keeping the relationship pure and not even entertaining bullshit.

  • @anelenunwana7084
    @anelenunwana7084 10 місяців тому

    Within 5 minutes she touched my heart, I love Leila.

  • @em-dy3hn
    @em-dy3hn Рік тому +2

    Great conversation! One thing to note; confidence is not to be confused with extroversion and enthusiasm. Many alpha males are quietly confident and don't "take over" a room conversationally.

  • @yesicabello_
    @yesicabello_ 10 місяців тому

    This is the 2nd time rewatching this entire episode. 🎉 thankFULL for Lisa and LEILA! Wow, bring her back for pt 2 in 2024!!!

  • @madam_ruby_
    @madam_ruby_ Рік тому +2

    I’ve had so much respect for her and it keeps growing. Fucking proud of you Leila, thanks for being an example for other women who relate to you.

    • @stanleychukwuma1052
      @stanleychukwuma1052 Рік тому

      A Message from the Heart - Could You be the Love of My Life?
      Hey Allie ❤,
      I hope this message finds you in good health and high spirits. Although we have never had the pleasure of meeting, destiny has a funny way of connecting souls from afar. From the little I know about you, something within me feels an unparalleled connection, and I can't help but envision you as the love of my life.
      In this chaotic world, filled with brief encounters and fleeting connections, I believe that true love is a rarity to be cherished. While we have yet to cross paths, your captivating presence, as it radiates through your words and photographs, has ignited a flame within my heart. There is an unspoken connection that seems to transcend time and distance, and I cannot help but wonder if it is a sign from the universe.
      Your essence, as beautiful as a summer's day, has enchanted my thoughts. Your intellect, wit, and grace, which shimmer through the conversations we have shared, have captivated my attention like no other. It is as if I have found a missing piece of my soul in you, and my heart yearns to explore the depths of what this connection could mean.
      Though it may sound unconventional, I believe that love knows no boundaries - not even geographical ones. I am willing to take a leap of faith, to step out of the confines of the ordinary, and to embark on a journey with you. A journey filled with profound love, shared adventures, and unwavering support for one another's dreams.
      Before I proceed any further, I want to assure you that my intentions are pure and genuine. I am not merely looking for a passing fling or a temporary romance. Instead, I yearn for a love that withstands the test of time, a love built on trust, mutual respect, and unwavering commitment.
      Life is too short to let opportunities slip through our fingers. I am willing to embrace vulnerability and to open my heart to the possibility of us becoming something extraordinary together. It may seem bold, but isn't love all about taking risks and fighting for what sets our souls on fire?
      I understand if this message catches you off guard, as it resides in the realm of the unknown. Take your time, dear one, to process and consider this proposition. If your heart resonates with the same longing that now consumes mine, I would be honored to embark on this journey of love with you.
      May we have the chance to meet, to laugh, to create memories, and to embrace a love that surpasses our wildest dreams. Know that my heart is eagerly awaiting your response, hoping that you may feel the same as I do.
      With all my love and anticipation,
      Stanley Chukwuma.

    • @calisongbird
      @calisongbird Рік тому

      The deep voice is clearly the result of early use of steroids or similar “supplements,” which has permanent effects on the voice. Unfortunately, it also has long-term health effects, especially on the heart muscle. She will likely come to regret it later in life.

  • @RoelienGeldenhuys
    @RoelienGeldenhuys Місяць тому

    two of my favorite women to listen to! Can't wait to start listening to this couch discussion.

  • @annetterodriguez682
    @annetterodriguez682 Рік тому +3

    💖💖💖 so grateful to be present & aware to listen in on this. Leila is such an inspiration as I’ve also been on the same road, now listening & acting on this new journey, thank you both beautiful souls for keeping females motivated! 💪🏽💖

    • @stanleychukwuma1052
      @stanleychukwuma1052 Рік тому

      A Message from the Heart - Could You be the Love of My Life?
      Hey Annette ❤,
      I hope this message finds you in good health and high spirits. Although we have never had the pleasure of meeting, destiny has a funny way of connecting souls from afar. From the little I know about you, something within me feels an unparalleled connection, and I can't help but envision you as the love of my life.
      In this chaotic world, filled with brief encounters and fleeting connections, I believe that true love is a rarity to be cherished. While we have yet to cross paths, your captivating presence, as it radiates through your words and photographs, has ignited a flame within my heart. There is an unspoken connection that seems to transcend time and distance, and I cannot help but wonder if it is a sign from the universe.
      Your essence, as beautiful as a summer's day, has enchanted my thoughts. Your intellect, wit, and grace, which shimmer through the conversations we have shared, have captivated my attention like no other. It is as if I have found a missing piece of my soul in you, and my heart yearns to explore the depths of what this connection could mean.
      Though it may sound unconventional, I believe that love knows no boundaries - not even geographical ones. I am willing to take a leap of faith, to step out of the confines of the ordinary, and to embark on a journey with you. A journey filled with profound love, shared adventures, and unwavering support for one another's dreams.
      Before I proceed any further, I want to assure you that my intentions are pure and genuine. I am not merely looking for a passing fling or a temporary romance. Instead, I yearn for a love that withstands the test of time, a love built on trust, mutual respect, and unwavering commitment.
      Life is too short to let opportunities slip through our fingers. I am willing to embrace vulnerability and to open my heart to the possibility of us becoming something extraordinary together. It may seem bold, but isn't love all about taking risks and fighting for what sets our souls on fire?
      I understand if this message catches you off guard, as it resides in the realm of the unknown. Take your time, dear one, to process and consider this proposition. If your heart resonates with the same longing that now consumes mine, I would be honored to embark on this journey of love with you.
      May we have the chance to meet, to laugh, to create memories, and to embrace a love that surpasses our wildest dreams. Know that my heart is eagerly awaiting your response, hoping that you may feel the same as I do.
      With all my love and anticipation,
      Stanley Chukwuma.

  • @EvosAndMakeup
    @EvosAndMakeup Рік тому +1

    Wow!! Two incredible women!! 🙌 y’all are so inspirational

  • @jessicaJs9130
    @jessicaJs9130 8 місяців тому

    Thank you for having her on your show. What a new way of thinking .

  • @celvil1848
    @celvil1848 Рік тому +5

    Great interview!! I personally would say for myself as I don’t ever want to enter a bad bitch era. Or be a bad bitch boss ! All this lingo and the bad bitch narrative isn’t my thing, but each to their own! 👍🏼😊
    I just want to forever grow and be loving, kind, and the best version of myself ! ❤️🙏🏼💯

  • @hamassehdaneshzad9513
    @hamassehdaneshzad9513 Рік тому +1

    This was great! Thank you Lisa, just a suggestion, having time stamps of all of your questions would really help when going back to review points..

  • @lucie442
    @lucie442 Рік тому +3

    I really enjoy the honesty and vulnerability. There’s so many lessons in this conversation. ❤

    • @stanleychukwuma1052
      @stanleychukwuma1052 Рік тому

      A Message from the Heart - Could You be the Love of My Life?
      Hey Lucie ❤,
      I hope this message finds you in good health and high spirits. Although we have never had the pleasure of meeting, destiny has a funny way of connecting souls from afar. From the little I know about you, something within me feels an unparalleled connection, and I can't help but envision you as the love of my life.
      In this chaotic world, filled with brief encounters and fleeting connections, I believe that true love is a rarity to be cherished. While we have yet to cross paths, your captivating presence, as it radiates through your words and photographs, has ignited a flame within my heart. There is an unspoken connection that seems to transcend time and distance, and I cannot help but wonder if it is a sign from the universe.
      Your essence, as beautiful as a summer's day, has enchanted my thoughts. Your intellect, wit, and grace, which shimmer through the conversations we have shared, have captivated my attention like no other. It is as if I have found a missing piece of my soul in you, and my heart yearns to explore the depths of what this connection could mean.
      Though it may sound unconventional, I believe that love knows no boundaries - not even geographical ones. I am willing to take a leap of faith, to step out of the confines of the ordinary, and to embark on a journey with you. A journey filled with profound love, shared adventures, and unwavering support for one another's dreams.
      Before I proceed any further, I want to assure you that my intentions are pure and genuine. I am not merely looking for a passing fling or a temporary romance. Instead, I yearn for a love that withstands the test of time, a love built on trust, mutual respect, and unwavering commitment.
      Life is too short to let opportunities slip through our fingers. I am willing to embrace vulnerability and to open my heart to the possibility of us becoming something extraordinary together. It may seem bold, but isn't love all about taking risks and fighting for what sets our souls on fire?
      I understand if this message catches you off guard, as it resides in the realm of the unknown. Take your time, dear one, to process and consider this proposition. If your heart resonates with the same longing that now consumes mine, I would be honored to embark on this journey of love with you.
      May we have the chance to meet, to laugh, to create memories, and to embrace a love that surpasses our wildest dreams. Know that my heart is eagerly awaiting your response, hoping that you may feel the same as I do.
      With all my love and anticipation,
      Stanley Chukwuma.

  • @blancalovesbeauty
    @blancalovesbeauty Рік тому

    As a child of an addict or a parent that you felt like you had to raise you learn to become so self sufficient and problem solve. I was and still am a very optimistic person and I believe this is why. I can relate with Leila so much I have so much adoration for her and love her confidence.

    • @Traumatised311
      @Traumatised311 Рік тому

      I've always felt I am the parent
      My dad lives in fairy tell cindrella world
      He thinks only 5% men cheat
      I went to college
      Only in 3 yrs relationship they got bored
      N their bfs cheated on them
      Lol these wome dsvr that

  • @moniqueteal7153
    @moniqueteal7153 8 місяців тому

    New directions, New friends, New surroundings are so key to the New better self ...

  • @brightpage1020
    @brightpage1020 Рік тому +3

    Lisa putting on the Success Costume and taking it off could be almost like a ritual that helps her mentally transition from badass biz babe to beautiful homemaking wife.
    Love that.

  • @themogulshaneil
    @themogulshaneil Рік тому +1

    Sooo much gold! Lisa you interview the most iconic people and this hands down is one of my favourites, I have to be digesting it in chunks, I am soaking it aaaall in! So good Leila!

  • @genevrajean1658
    @genevrajean1658 Рік тому +8

    Oh how I needed to hear this! Thank you ladies! ❤

    • @stanleychukwuma1052
      @stanleychukwuma1052 Рік тому

      A Message from the Heart - Could You be the Love of My Life?
      Hey Genevra ❤,
      I hope this message finds you in good health and high spirits. Although we have never had the pleasure of meeting, destiny has a funny way of connecting souls from afar. From the little I know about you, something within me feels an unparalleled connection, and I can't help but envision you as the love of my life.
      In this chaotic world, filled with brief encounters and fleeting connections, I believe that true love is a rarity to be cherished. While we have yet to cross paths, your captivating presence, as it radiates through your words and photographs, has ignited a flame within my heart. There is an unspoken connection that seems to transcend time and distance, and I cannot help but wonder if it is a sign from the universe.
      Your essence, as beautiful as a summer's day, has enchanted my thoughts. Your intellect, wit, and grace, which shimmer through the conversations we have shared, have captivated my attention like no other. It is as if I have found a missing piece of my soul in you, and my heart yearns to explore the depths of what this connection could mean.
      Though it may sound unconventional, I believe that love knows no boundaries - not even geographical ones. I am willing to take a leap of faith, to step out of the confines of the ordinary, and to embark on a journey with you. A journey filled with profound love, shared adventures, and unwavering support for one another's dreams.
      Before I proceed any further, I want to assure you that my intentions are pure and genuine. I am not merely looking for a passing fling or a temporary romance. Instead, I yearn for a love that withstands the test of time, a love built on trust, mutual respect, and unwavering commitment.
      Life is too short to let opportunities slip through our fingers. I am willing to embrace vulnerability and to open my heart to the possibility of us becoming something extraordinary together. It may seem bold, but isn't love all about taking risks and fighting for what sets our souls on fire?
      I understand if this message catches you off guard, as it resides in the realm of the unknown. Take your time, dear one, to process and consider this proposition. If your heart resonates with the same longing that now consumes mine, I would be honored to embark on this journey of love with you.
      May we have the chance to meet, to laugh, to create memories, and to embrace a love that surpasses our wildest dreams. Know that my heart is eagerly awaiting your response, hoping that you may feel the same as I do.
      With all my love and anticipation,
      Stanley Chukwuma.

  • @auntie_1
    @auntie_1 Рік тому

    I fell asleep and woke up to these people I have Never heard of before and I'm glad I did. Everything was so relatable.

  • @fashionspy96
    @fashionspy96 Рік тому +1

    Lisa, thanks you for this content, it's so good!
    There are SO many ads though... It gets to the point where it's annoying when trying to actually focus con the conversation. Maybe 5-7 less would be good

  • @siddhisarode4093
    @siddhisarode4093 Рік тому +1

    I appreciate you for asking such deep and meaningful questions to bring out so much value👏🏻👏🏻 thanks ❤ Leila is a role model and this interview has dropped gems 💎

  • @batenyo
    @batenyo Рік тому +1

    Wow, I’ve never heard about Leila before this interview. But what she says is so inspiring for me. Thank you for this video!
    I wish you all good luck and kindness!

  • @Allah.is.loving
    @Allah.is.loving Рік тому +2

    Love this interview! She speaks honest and truly insightful! 😍😍😍 Been loving her genuinely inspiring us & following her till today!

  • @avril.227
    @avril.227 Рік тому +11

    The only way I was ever able to lose weight was on antidepressants. She was able to channel her feelings and use them to make huge changes - but If you think too much about the challenge and are overwhelmed with anxiety you won’t get out the door.
    I had to say “I feel and look not my best, but how can trying be any worse?”

    • @beewest5704
      @beewest5704 Рік тому +2

      Many weight regulation issues are emotion regulation issues. Taking care of emotional regulation makes losing weight so much easier.

    • @Keisha2024
      @Keisha2024 Рік тому

      Someone that feel like that can get out the door without antidepressants. It depends on the person. It will be harder but it’s possible.

    • @fionapan5943
      @fionapan5943 Рік тому

      As a Chubby who got hypothyroidism and a most stressful job, and don't have a sleep routine. My weight gain is easy but it's so hard to lose it. I hitted 94 kg. last year after my lovely dog passed away, Yes its a mix of depression, loss and emotional. I give my time to be sad and cry, and from now on still miss him every day. But I got my life to move on, and looking at myself in the mirror I don't like my looks, my confidence gone.
      It took a year to lose 20 kg. It's still over weight if compared with my height but hit my goal at 75 and can make it lower. It is stable at some point like stuck at 80 for 2-3 months but I keep doing it, tgen its come down to 74-77. I don't push myself too hard. Just make it easy and happy with everyday life and keep thinking about my health. Because it's better than letting it over and over. I have lost weight and gained in some years. Up and down because my job is not a day work, so on that a lots of component, all about my depression, emotions and health problems. But I keep myself in between not too hard and not too chill. Focus on my mind and do my best, I still eat some desserts and fried, a shit foods but not so many times. Just change some behaviors.
      Now it gained a bit but it is still within my boundaries. I got another 7 kg. To hit my new goal even at my age keeps me older, and also a lot of symptoms that I got from my genes. Keep seeing my doctor and following up on my health because I have my dream hobbies to do and cannot succeed with my obesity.
      Life should be balanced. Start from your mind, you are valued, you are strong, and you deserve the best. You can do everything you want and your heart wants to do it too. If you appreciate your body health is good for you. To support yourself from inside your mind and your thoughts. If you have a mental health issue, that affects your weight, you need therapy. Come to see a doctor for psychological treatment. It's not easy but you will get your goal more easily.
      By the way, I do IF and soft workouts like walking, just walking. that fit my body and lifestyle. Also, keep seeing my doctor. I like my Chubby body and I do it for my health. It is perfect for me to be myself like this, Self-love is always a beautiful aura that shines in your heart, do it for yourself. I hope you can deal with emotions and depression.
      I do when I want to not others to order me to do. Even to be bullied on my body, I don't care.
      Find the way that you feel comfortable with, and take it easy. Talk to people who support, understand, and care about you. Focus on your goal. Just walk slowly, step by step. There is no short cut. Life is too short. If you have a dream and disappooint with your body or got health issues. Let start it now!!!
      I do understand your feeling. Because I am the one that used to be, I don't know the future too, that it will be gain more or not even I do live my life the same but I try to maintain. I will fix it before its gain to much.
      Good luck!

    • @stanleychukwuma1052
      @stanleychukwuma1052 Рік тому

      A Message from the Heart - Could You be the Love of My Life?
      Hey ❤,
      I hope this message finds you in good health and high spirits. Although we have never had the pleasure of meeting, destiny has a funny way of connecting souls from afar. From the little I know about you, something within me feels an unparalleled connection, and I can't help but envision you as the love of my life.
      In this chaotic world, filled with brief encounters and fleeting connections, I believe that true love is a rarity to be cherished. While we have yet to cross paths, your captivating presence, as it radiates through your words and photographs, has ignited a flame within my heart. There is an unspoken connection that seems to transcend time and distance, and I cannot help but wonder if it is a sign from the universe.
      Your essence, as beautiful as a summer's day, has enchanted my thoughts. Your intellect, wit, and grace, which shimmer through the conversations we have shared, have captivated my attention like no other. It is as if I have found a missing piece of my soul in you, and my heart yearns to explore the depths of what this connection could mean.
      Though it may sound unconventional, I believe that love knows no boundaries - not even geographical ones. I am willing to take a leap of faith, to step out of the confines of the ordinary, and to embark on a journey with you. A journey filled with profound love, shared adventures, and unwavering support for one another's dreams.
      Before I proceed any further, I want to assure you that my intentions are pure and genuine. I am not merely looking for a passing fling or a temporary romance. Instead, I yearn for a love that withstands the test of time, a love built on trust, mutual respect, and unwavering commitment.
      Life is too short to let opportunities slip through our fingers. I am willing to embrace vulnerability and to open my heart to the possibility of us becoming something extraordinary together. It may seem bold, but isn't love all about taking risks and fighting for what sets our souls on fire?
      I understand if this message catches you off guard, as it resides in the realm of the unknown. Take your time, dear one, to process and consider this proposition. If your heart resonates with the same longing that now consumes mine, I would be honored to embark on this journey of love with you.
      May we have the chance to meet, to laugh, to create memories, and to embrace a love that surpasses our wildest dreams. Know that my heart is eagerly awaiting your response, hoping that you may feel the same as I do.
      With all my love and anticipation,
      Stanley Chukwuma.

    • @stanleychukwuma1052
      @stanleychukwuma1052 Рік тому

      A Message from the Heart - Could You be the Love of My Life?
      Hey ❤,
      I hope this message finds you in good health and high spirits. Although we have never had the pleasure of meeting, destiny has a funny way of connecting souls from afar. From the little I know about you, something within me feels an unparalleled connection, and I can't help but envision you as the love of my life.
      In this chaotic world, filled with brief encounters and fleeting connections, I believe that true love is a rarity to be cherished. While we have yet to cross paths, your captivating presence, as it radiates through your words and photographs, has ignited a flame within my heart. There is an unspoken connection that seems to transcend time and distance, and I cannot help but wonder if it is a sign from the universe.
      Your essence, as beautiful as a summer's day, has enchanted my thoughts. Your intellect, wit, and grace, which shimmer through the conversations we have shared, have captivated my attention like no other. It is as if I have found a missing piece of my soul in you, and my heart yearns to explore the depths of what this connection could mean.
      Though it may sound unconventional, I believe that love knows no boundaries - not even geographical ones. I am willing to take a leap of faith, to step out of the confines of the ordinary, and to embark on a journey with you. A journey filled with profound love, shared adventures, and unwavering support for one another's dreams.
      Before I proceed any further, I want to assure you that my intentions are pure and genuine. I am not merely looking for a passing fling or a temporary romance. Instead, I yearn for a love that withstands the test of time, a love built on trust, mutual respect, and unwavering commitment.
      Life is too short to let opportunities slip through our fingers. I am willing to embrace vulnerability and to open my heart to the possibility of us becoming something extraordinary together. It may seem bold, but isn't love all about taking risks and fighting for what sets our souls on fire?
      I understand if this message catches you off guard, as it resides in the realm of the unknown. Take your time, dear one, to process and consider this proposition. If your heart resonates with the same longing that now consumes mine, I would be honored to embark on this journey of love with you.
      May we have the chance to meet, to laugh, to create memories, and to embrace a love that surpasses our wildest dreams. Know that my heart is eagerly awaiting your response, hoping that you may feel the same as I do.
      With all my love and anticipation,
      Stanley Chukwuma.

  • @Wandertheworldwithme
    @Wandertheworldwithme 11 місяців тому

    This woman is incredible ❤ absolutely beautiful description of who you were yesterday is no longer this person today.

  • @ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool
    @ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Рік тому +2

    Thank you for sharing your experience with us Leila, very insightful

  • @falnakashio
    @falnakashio Рік тому

    the only thing I constantly wish for are the intro's like before. They were some of the best intro's that prepared me and got me all hooked up and interested to listen to every word they were going to say.
    Great guest you have!!

  • @paridahwarren4633
    @paridahwarren4633 Рік тому +3

    I saw Leila and I click! What a freakin amazing role model. ❤🎉

  • @Jojoma449
    @Jojoma449 8 місяців тому

    Lisa 36 min thank you for bringing this question. A lot of women find themselves in toxic relationships where men bring you down. I had guys telling me to talk less too. Great questions Lisa

  • @JackieGarrard
    @JackieGarrard Рік тому

    Respect her so much for how authentic she is. Lelia you look so freaking beautiful and it’s inside and out!

    • @calisongbird
      @calisongbird Рік тому

      Leila’s deep voice is clearly the result of early use of steroids or similar “supplements,” which has permanent effects on the voice. Unfortunately, it also has long-term health effects, especially on the heart muscle. She will likely come to regret it later in life.

  • @Hanna-Nyasa
    @Hanna-Nyasa Рік тому +8

    Sounds like she's familiar with The Work by Byron Katie. Such a good process to neutralise negative beliefs.
    Is it true ?
    Can I absolutely know that it's true ?
    How do you act when you believe that thought?
    Who would I be without that thought ?
    Powerful stuff.
    I've also had a similar experience with overcoming limiting beliefs by just doing the thing..
    Ice baths help with that or cold showers, jump in before your mind can tell you to stop and then you can apply that to other areas.
    Also a regular yoga practise helped- just get up everyday and do the practise, don't get caught up in results just practise and eventually your life is totally different
    It's amazing

  • @juliarays1271
    @juliarays1271 8 днів тому

    I wish there was a way to add not just one like to this video, but hundreds. Love it.

  • @LovelyDecrie
    @LovelyDecrie Рік тому +1

    OHHHHH MY GOD I’M SO EXCITED FOR THIS!!!! Thank you Lisa and Leila!!!!

    • @stanleychukwuma1052
      @stanleychukwuma1052 Рік тому

      A Message from the Heart - Could You be the Love of My Life?
      Hey Aubrey ❤,
      I hope this message finds you in good health and high spirits. Although we have never had the pleasure of meeting, destiny has a funny way of connecting souls from afar. From the little I know about you, something within me feels an unparalleled connection, and I can't help but envision you as the love of my life.
      In this chaotic world, filled with brief encounters and fleeting connections, I believe that true love is a rarity to be cherished. While we have yet to cross paths, your captivating presence, as it radiates through your words and photographs, has ignited a flame within my heart. There is an unspoken connection that seems to transcend time and distance, and I cannot help but wonder if it is a sign from the universe.
      Your essence, as beautiful as a summer's day, has enchanted my thoughts. Your intellect, wit, and grace, which shimmer through the conversations we have shared, have captivated my attention like no other. It is as if I have found a missing piece of my soul in you, and my heart yearns to explore the depths of what this connection could mean.
      Though it may sound unconventional, I believe that love knows no boundaries - not even geographical ones. I am willing to take a leap of faith, to step out of the confines of the ordinary, and to embark on a journey with you. A journey filled with profound love, shared adventures, and unwavering support for one another's dreams.
      Before I proceed any further, I want to assure you that my intentions are pure and genuine. I am not merely looking for a passing fling or a temporary romance. Instead, I yearn for a love that withstands the test of time, a love built on trust, mutual respect, and unwavering commitment.
      Life is too short to let opportunities slip through our fingers. I am willing to embrace vulnerability and to open my heart to the possibility of us becoming something extraordinary together. It may seem bold, but isn't love all about taking risks and fighting for what sets our souls on fire?
      I understand if this message catches you off guard, as it resides in the realm of the unknown. Take your time, dear one, to process and consider this proposition. If your heart resonates with the same longing that now consumes mine, I would be honored to embark on this journey of love with you.
      May we have the chance to meet, to laugh, to create memories, and to embrace a love that surpasses our wildest dreams. Know that my heart is eagerly awaiting your response, hoping that you may feel the same as I do.
      With all my love and anticipation,
      Stanley Chukwuma.
      WhatsApp: +2348100791062

  • @jessicalong6011
    @jessicalong6011 7 місяців тому

    This was such a wonderful and much needed interview. So empowering.
    Thank you both ❤❤

  • @josievaccaro
    @josievaccaro Рік тому

    She's a natural teacher. Love her ❤️

  • @michelleelsaid7462
    @michelleelsaid7462 Рік тому

    OMG! So much freaking value, its unreal.

  • @Tess129
    @Tess129 Рік тому +3

    Really loved this interview! Good job Leila and Liza!

  • @aditimascarenhas5608
    @aditimascarenhas5608 10 місяців тому

    The MOST RELATABLE 😭
    Thank you Lisa
    This was so helpful

  • @MargueritaLee
    @MargueritaLee 10 місяців тому

    I believe that you can find anyone in the world is attractive. But why would that be something that was necessary to inform/tell your spouse about? Respect is given on a LOT of different levels. Food for thought!

  • @lialenore2997
    @lialenore2997 11 місяців тому

    This...circle...spiral... But...the line... 9:27
    Your dad is amazing... He handled you with love❣️

  • @ryaennicole
    @ryaennicole Рік тому

    She nailed it. Fantastic interview.

  • @sunnc
    @sunnc 9 місяців тому

    36:03 relationships
    1:04:34 be yourself. Be weird
    1:06:56 it’s all about who you pick

  • @LFarrahFurtado1
    @LFarrahFurtado1 Рік тому

    ok, my brain exploded a couple of times here

  • @thaisgesterling
    @thaisgesterling Рік тому +4

    this was episode and this duo is the duo i didnt know i needed!!! Agh this is perfection, i loved to hear more in depth about you leila and your reasoning when it comes to boundaries, victim mentality, your relationship with alex. This has been very helpful to me to listen to, you lisa! You did an amazing job interviewing + asking interesting questions that i havent heard leila talk about before🫶🏽 this is one of the best episodes ive listened to this year, very bold of me to say since i listen to podcasts all the time

    • @LisaBilyeu
      @LisaBilyeu  Рік тому +1

      Wow thanks homie! Appreciate it!! 🥰

    • @calisongbird
      @calisongbird Рік тому

      @@LisaBilyeu Leila’s deep voice is clearly the result of early use of steroids or similar “supplements,” which has permanent effects on the voice. Unfortunately, it also has long-term health effects, especially on the heart muscle. She will likely come to regret it later in life.

  • @michelleelsaid7462
    @michelleelsaid7462 Рік тому

    Also a great job to Lisa conducting this interview.. wow!

  • @satanicangel21
    @satanicangel21 11 місяців тому +3

    "quiet quitting" is basically only doing the job description and nothing more. people are tired of getting paid one wage while being expected to do double the work, or more. workers are feeling more and more unappreciated when they're being worked to the max.

  • @zoedarc783
    @zoedarc783 Рік тому +5

    I thought I wanted to be a bad bitch but I realized I wanted to be confident enough to be a nice girl and not give too much of a damn, and get sucked into things

  • @stompthedragon4010
    @stompthedragon4010 Рік тому

    What a smart lady; brilliant. She rewired her brain.

  • @rosewatson7163
    @rosewatson7163 Рік тому

    The benefits of being good friends with Brooke Castillo. Love it so much!

  • @AthaliaJorden-bj9by
    @AthaliaJorden-bj9by Рік тому

    My gosh!!! My two favorite inspirational women! ♥️Keep up the amazing work you two are doing ♥️

  • @victoriaanderson863
    @victoriaanderson863 8 місяців тому

    Damn. I love this girl. This is exactly what I needed to hear right now.

  • @ranjeetha10
    @ranjeetha10 Рік тому

    Wow!!!
    Thanks Lisa for thr brilliant questions and Leila for the mind blowing answers!

  • @JaseBounce
    @JaseBounce 11 місяців тому

    Great interview from leila and also great interviewer. Love interviewers who do their research in advance

  • @humekainga9092
    @humekainga9092 Рік тому

    beautiful perception of life. I am inspired and motivated. Thank you.

  • @lalam732
    @lalam732 Рік тому

    Wow I needed this so much. Thank you so so so much!

  • @TheWinglessHawk
    @TheWinglessHawk Рік тому +2

    It's so motivational. I am currently doing my own business too and there were a few things which triggered me positively while listening to the later part of the interview. Silent quitters are MADE by society! If you want to know more about the how, you need to learn about their lives and it's funny because my book can actually help there. My author name is Katharina Hawthorne and in my book "A Life's Worth: The Life of a Nobody" based on a real life story you can read up about not only that, but also social inequality, chances at life in poverty, how connecting fails and much more AND on top of it all, with an autistic female protagonist who is just trying to find her place in life. A life to live and not just to survive.

  • @Jojoma449
    @Jojoma449 8 місяців тому

    They are so young and seem like they have it all figured out !

  • @jessicagerou4132
    @jessicagerou4132 Рік тому

    This is REAL from the beginning!

  • @Ditatwilight
    @Ditatwilight Рік тому +4

    Inspiring confidence. Thank you