Dr. Phil Interviews Jeffrey Dahmer’s Father - Full Interview
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- Опубліковано 30 лип 2024
- What creates a monster? As the popular new Netflix series Dahmer - Monster: The Jeffrey Dahmer Story pushes the heinous crimes of the notorious serial killer back into the spotlight, what can we learn about what may have made him the evil he was? Do chilling home videos of Jeffrey Dahmer as a little boy show an innocent child before he became evil? Or, were the signs already there? His parents reveal the red flags they say they missed. (21315)
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He didn’t know Jeff had been left alone for three months? That means he didn’t check on his son for three months. This was on both parent’s watch, not just his mom’s.
It was actually 3 weeks not 3 months. Still messed up nonetheless.
This turn him into a monster. Should have gotten help
@@missthingR not what I heard. It was months
left at age 18, not 12, not 8. It's no excuse.
He was 18.
Gotta give props to the actor who played Lionel in the Jeffrey Dahmer Story series on Netflix. He perfectly nailed his role and even mimicked Lionel's voice exactly as it sounds.
So true.
I only recently caught up on the show.
The guys who played both Jeffery and his father were amazing.
Ever watch stepbrothers? That’s literally how he just talks lol
I agree 💯 percent l. Richard Jenkins did an awesome job
This is real life. This isn't to be taken so frivolously
@@dillonmoulton1972 ur absolutely right...the actor does sound like him...just really.good casting
I think we need to start addressing this issue when we see children harming animals. Clearly there is a connection here. Maybe we can save lives by addressing this first.
Yepp!!!Heard some people saying boys will be boys , when this boy hurt a cat🥺
@@manuela1410 that’s just not right. It’s not normal to want to hurt an animal
When one of my friends children tried to hurt my cat, I stopped thinking of her and her child as good people.
@@StellaLunaStar94 don’t blame you!
@@amymarieca I may have missed the part of him harming live animals because I only heard of him dissecting roadkill. He had pets he kept that weren't harmed.
I can’t believe how much he sounds like the actor who plays him in the show
yeah it's more impressive than evan peters in my opinion
The goal of good casting, more news at 11
Right
O yes they did an awesome job on the series.
Right!
Somehow they made this interview look like it's from 1985
You do know this interview was over 20
Years ago
@@solid_ice6639 bruh it was done in 2020
@@claybsbl6470 is not true😅 lionel is 86 now and veryy oldf
@@claybsbl6470 bish theres an interview of lionel search it he is older now this interview is of 2002 or something its 20 years older
Yeah and the movie just came out. I couldn't watch it. The actor might need therapy.
I respect this man for being here explaining and reveling all the truth he knew. Unlike Jeff's mother who just took off changed the name to disconnect from this. The father kinda sacrifices himself in the eyes of a public to pay respect to the families of the victims and also to endlessly show Jeff that he is not alone. Even after the death. Its such a terrible story. Thanks to the father we all can learn something.
Respect the check he tryna get huh.
come on, there's no way you actually believe that. he does it for the money
The mother who "just took off" suffers from severe mental illness & the father is present for the $$$$.
His father helped him find roadkill for taxidermy. He knew what that kid was doing. The he tried to profit by writing a book but the victim’s families sued him for any profits.
If my son was a serial killer you think I’m sticking around sharing the same name as it???
Dr Phils face the entire time like 'sorry what tf did you say'
Innit mate
He is a bully.
💀💀😭😭😂😂
Yes lol
@@mr.vargas5648 dr phil did not bully the father once ...it was natural to say..'did you see this as a red flag?'..he didn't go hard on him at all.
I feel bad for Lionel. He has to live with the shame of what his son did. Speaking about it may be therapeutic for him. There is always premature judgements from strangers wanting to blame him, but he hasn't committed a crime and isn't to blame. His book is a mostly a self-analysis of trying to figure out where it all went wrong for his son. Proceeds from the book covered his legal fees and he donated the rest to the families of the victims. Lionel felt Jeff had some psychological issues and tried to help. Jeff manipulated everyone around him during his crime spree. Jeff seemed to be remorseful for his actions but he was still pretty detached from it all.
His book is making him millions! So he’s getting paid for not being a good father and not being more attentive to his what his son was doing
The Court ordered that Lionel would not profit from the book so where he is supposed to be making millions from, I just don’t know
Lionel Messi ?! 😮
@@drb5574 you do know the money goes to the victims families
He taught his son to collect dead animals on the road….
Like animals don’t deserve to be buried, like they’re objects…
Him playing with dead animals made him more confident about death- not as something normal in life but like a fascinating obsession
Let’s not forget the amount of drugs his mother took in pregnancy!
I think this played more of a role than anyone realizes. I think it was the major factor honestly.
@@justthatgirl-ct4jo most def. I was on antidepressants when preg and there where rules. I had to stop taking them at a certain time.
Definitely! Epigenetic factors, as well as his mother's own mental health issues, play a huge role.
But his mother denies thar
@@bigmona2741 she probably doesn't remember because she had a lot of seizures
Dr Phill knows how to exploit a trending topic for sure.
Big 🧠 energy
Sigma
You do realize this is a very old video right?
I can't stand him and his witch-hunt tactics, especially when it concerns exploiting those with mental health issues. It's malevolent.
Like he did with the lgbt episode. The guy on there MADE the episode. Dr.phil knows what he’s doing 💀
His difficult childhood is no excuse to his actions. There are thousands of children who had much worse childhood and don't become murderers. People who "feel" for Dahmer disgust me.
I agree with you!
Absolutely! But its also a very real thing that shaped his brain in a way
We can and should learn about psychopaths people who don't have empathy or deep feelings... I mean, he didn't have alot with f reason not to he didn't have a connection. With any live humans
@@diaramona2436 ???
If you have seen Jeffrey Dahmers own interview from I think 1992 he also says there is no one else to blame except himself, not childhood, not parents, not pornography. And that is something i 100% agree with him on
The fact that he’s talking about it so openly shows a lot of courage. We can’t imagine what he’s going through as a father but Jeff totally deserved it!
We all do bad things we all sin I see these two as the strict conservative parents most likely had some weird shot going on in their home
he wrote a book on it so why wouldn't he and gets paid for these interviews. He's not that good for leaving his son. Parents have a huge influence on us.
Not really being open as much as blaming the mother and not owning his part.
@@theangryamerican8407 Dude hes just speaking straight facts god damn it. Hes saying a truth many ppl are to afraid to admit.
@theangryamerican8407 better than liberal parents who would've told him to chop off his weiner
I feel bad for his father no one can see this insanity coming he’s been treated like garbage for crimes he did not commit
You feel bad for him?
He made him collect his young son dead animals, left him with the dead bodies so he could play with them and made him so disturbingly obsessed and fascinated with death.
Right no one thinks to expect such wild proclivities from their own kid.
People tend to blame others because they don't want to believe that one day, maybe, their own kid could end up a Dahmer no matter what they do.
Same happened with the Chris Watts case. They blame the murdered wife, probably scared to think their seemingly perfect husband could turn on them with no warning. They tell themselves the victim caused it somehow.
@@Letizia2810 im not excusing his father for allowing him to play with dead animals. But at the same time you can't blame his father for how dahmer turned out. Thats malarkey child development and human psychology are more complex than that. Plus No parent is perfect. People turn out the way they do due for a host of reasons, outside a parents control.
@@Letizia2810
JD said he doesnt blame his parents
@@Letizia2810 so 1 mistake he did makes everything that happened to him okay?
You've gotta give Lionel props and respect man for being the kind of dedicated, loving and genuine father that he is to Jeff. He truly wishes he could've prevented this tragedy, and he's just trying to make sense of it all. He loved his son.
This is so true even after he found out what Jeff did he sat beside him during interviews and still showed the same love as he did before if I did something like that or even not as worse my family would've never talked to me again
“We refer to him as Jeff”. What’s it matter how he’s referred as? The stepmom got a lil’ snippy there.
I know right🤣. Just a tad passive aggressive there
Jeff as the kid in him as in they don't know who the monster is they only know little jeff
Well I mean they want to live a normal life without being constantly reminded of their son and his horrors he left on the world
@@pregnantleggies3696 so why would they agree to go on national tv and talk about it yet again years down the line lmao
@@tani6661 this interview was years ago, dr Phil hasn’t spoken to them in years
Jeff and his father sound just alike
We’re never going to understand why Dahmer did everything he did.
He doesn't even understand it himself
Sure we will, he was a psycho
He’s mother and father should been better
If you could understand why Dahmer did the things he did… you’d be just like him
He never did anything! It’s all a hoax
Back then, not a lot was known about serial killers. These parents probably didn't really know the signs at first. My heart goes out to them, and I am sure they loved their son and are just horrified that all this happened.
Very true....even though we don't support crimes.
Almost ALL notorious serial killers came from the same time as Dahmer, or before him! They knew about serial killers alright!
There are early signs, but they are more like guidelines or patterns, and not all of them will fit those patterns. For parents that aren't criminal psychologists by profession, for instance, it's almost impossible to accurate diagnose their own children, particularly if they're quiet.
I mean, how many parents these days do you hear about that seen these signs and pointed it out? I never hear anything about stuff like that…which would be interesting, but seeing how they wouldn’t be killers yet, it makes sense that they’re unknown.
That not his real mum it’s his step mum so she didn’t even born him or fully known him
No one expects such wildness from their kid.
People don't want to believe that one day, maybe, their own kid could end up a Dahmer no matter what they do, so they blame the parents, teachers who didn't see the signs, the neighbors, et cetera.
Same happened with the Chris Watts case. Certain people blame the innocent, murdered wife, possibly scared to think that their seemingly perfect husband could turn on them with no warning, as Shanann's did.
They tell themselves the victim must've caused it somehow and that _they_ would've seen the signs. It's very ignorant, narrow-minded thinking.
Yeah, everyone thinks "that would never happen to me, I would have seen the signs" etc but nobody raises their kid to be a murderer, and nobody's parenting style is perfect.
Yes, sometimes there are clear signs (they openly say they are gonna kill) and nobody does anything bc they think they are not for real, and its only human to assume that but it is always a good idea to alert the authorities if you hear smth like that just in case...
Like when you move someone and they’ve been in your life for so long I don’t think anyone expects those types of things no matter the “signs”
Kids mimic in life, what rentsthey were exposed to in their formative years, they are a perfect reflection of parents
@@heidimaras8328 well in life that's not true all the time...let's not be rude to their parents....
@@renchilomurry8299 you r joking😂😂😂
5:10😂 Dr.Phil’s face: ‘you gotta be kidding me’
His stepmom seems like a far better mother to him maybe she would've put some tough love on jeffrey if she was there early on...although i understand it is not her responsibility, maybe she would've put him on the right track because she has the motherly instincts that jeff needed.
I wonder what his brother is up to, I can’t even imagine how traumatized he must be knowing his older brother did what he did. I read somewhere he changed his last names legally to “hide” from it all. /:
Just look at Ted Bundy's little half-brother. He's ruined for life, mainly because he was not just a brother to him, but someone he really looked up to as the best person ever, then turned out to be the complete opposite. Some can deal with it better than others. John Wayne Gacy's sister seems like a strong bright woman in her interviews.
@@Antarath
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@@kimmyrodgers1193 ??
I think his mother may have taken him away from the family home because she knew Jeffery was weird. I would bet that the younger brother had been abused by Jeffrey and that might've been why the mum left, to protect him.
Jeff didn't just mess his own life up look at all the people he hurt.. and look at the people's family and his family
Has anyone else noticed that Jeff and Lionel have the SAME voice?!😱
yes
weird
How is that weird ? A lot of people sound like their siblings and parents
They probably have the same farts 🍑 💨
@@difaanggraini3650 agreed
My neighbor is a single mother with 3 adorable girls. She has told my mom that she was worried about her 5 year old. She said that she had to keep knives and scissors put up where her daughter can't get them because she chases he sisters around the house and she cut one of them. Then a few months ago my neighbor told my mom that her 5 year old daughter had killed 4 or 5 cats and left them on the front porch!!! How does a 5 year old know how to kill animals?!!!? My mom told her to seek out a pediatrics mental health advisor and let them know what has been going on. One of the main characteristics of a seriel killer is killing/torturer of animals!! I hope this little girl gets the help she needs!!!!
That’s scary! How’s the kid doing now a year later?
Richard Jenkins really did a wonderful job playing Lionel Dahmer.
This was a very difficult interview for this father.....So sad😟
He asked for the parents to forgive Jeff, but I’m sure it’s easier to be the parents of a killer than to be the parents of a victim
and are you the parent of either?
doubtful, don’t speculate about what you couldn’t fathom to understand.
I doubt it easier or harder either or but in the parents lane they didn't know that Jeff would he jeffrey dahmer and now they have to be shamed for life for something they didn't do
Bro actor who played dhamer father in new Netflix series has done a good job man even thier voices matches that raspiness that real life Jeffrey father had
Jeffrey’s killings and the case always has been very interesting to me. I have no clue why it does. I believe Jeffrey was very very lonely and had serious issues throughout life. Being that lonely and having no one to confide in, can drive you insane. I also think he wanted someone to stay with him forever and maybe he thought that was the only way to keep them by his side at first. Maybe his first kill was an accident? Maybe he thought he just knocked him out? I remember watching one of the interviews and he said he would keep parts of them so he felt like they were with him. Loneliness, however, does not make up for the heinous crimes committed and the families who were hurt. I feel for him on the lonely part, but the killing? No way. What he did to those poor boys and men is inexcusable. He could’ve ignored those feelings or he could’ve gone to a psychiatrist or psychologist (he probably would’ve went to a psychiatric hospital, but still better than killing people.). I understand urges to do something and feelings get overwhelming, but again, no reason to kill innocent people including minors.
Overall, Jeff was a lonely, miserable, and evil individual..
The first killing wasn't accidental, because Jeffrey strangled him after knocking him out
@@R0nan..... ooohhh i didn’t know that part haha
I feel lonely sometimes but I don’t kill people
@@kamilmalinowski1267 everyone's mindset is different
Why do you fools keep calling Hicks death an accident? How do you "accidentally" pick up a barbell and hit someone with it and then strangle them with it? Make it make sense.
hearing the way he talks he really sounds like Jeffrey
My thoughts
With a voice like that you would have mistook him for Jeffery’s father
it's almost like they're related or something
@@Mohamadtheman You don’t say…
Duh that’s his father
Jeffery and Jeff are two different people in the parents minds
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Yeah the parents perfer people not relating their sons name to Jeffery just Jeff as they perfer to be addressing cherri and Lionel are weirdos and freaks the whole dahmer family are freaks and weirdos
I always wonder if in part the mother left to protect the other child.
He still ended up molesting his brother when he was 18
The stepmother was always very aggressive in TV interviews, claiming (and maybe rightly) that she and her husband did nothing wrong and should not be blamed for what Jeffrey Dahmer did. But the father seemed to take the blame, that he must have missed something and that somehow he messed up in the raising of his son. The father and wife should have gotten their act together.
Believing that the killings of these ppl were because Jeff didn't want them to leave because he felt lonely is bizarre to me. Jeff already had it in his mind that he was going to kill these ppl. it wasn't impulse killing it was planned out murders, he in a sense hunted these men for only one reason and that is to kill & mutilate them because he enjoyed it. If he only wanted them to stay he would have held them captive. I honestly do feel bad for the family because their family member has tarnished their name and the family often gets blamed for not seeing the red flags but who honesty would think their own child no matter how weird he was would do something so horrific!
The guy that plays him on the show really talks exactly like him thats crazy
Weird how people think the way he was handling the dog was some big red flag. Yes he was a little rough but you can tell he loved the dog and I’ve seen far worse handling of animals from children who didn’t turn out to be serial killers or bad people. Even I as a kid look back and remember getting smacked in the head by our family cat for being too “grabby” with it. But as I grew older I recognized animal’s personal boundaries.
Someone in the comments said him throwing the ball at his grandma's head was a red flag too. I think some people are really reaching here and of course they're speaking from hindsight
So true! Lots of "if it were me, I'd see it coming for sure" comments🤦🏾♂️
Exactly. Some children see their first pet as a plush toy, squeezing it and flopping it around. Mishandling a pet like that is different from setting it on fire. There's a home video of Dahmer cuddling and kissing his grandmother's cat. During that time he was killing many men.
No parent wants to be in this situation ever but he really should have agreed with Jeffrey's mother and let them see what was going on with his son's brain instead of assuming what it could have been... He's a scientist I would have had to know more about why my son did these things... Sorry Jeff was never even close to being just a normal kid
I honestly don't understand how any serial killer could be sane. How can anyone be normal AND have such sick thoughts AND carry through with them?
Well yeah that's the thing, they're not normal
Normal and sane are not synonymous. To be considered insane the person has to have lost touch with reality, be unaware of their actions and their consequences and/or not know right from wrong. Jeff was considered sane because he knew what he was doing, knew it was wrong and understood the consequences but did it anyways.
One of my former coworkers used to work at a restaurant where Shari and Lionel used to frequent. They would always order take out because they didn’t feel comfortable going out in public. They were ashamed to have to tell the workers their names. I feel sorry for them, I think they wanted to help but just didn’t know how. I think it’s easy from the outside for us to say they didn’t do enough or they should have done x,y, and z but at the end of the day I’m sure it’s not the same when it’s your child. You see your kids in a different light. And he was an adult when he hurt and killed those people, there’s not much that you can do for your child when they’re an adult. Also, hindsight is always 20/20.
They weirdos too
I can understand that “Dalhmer for 2” other citizens talking hey your the parents of one of America most famous serial killers of all time that’s got to be tough
I don't see any emotions in his dad's face talking about his son. Jeff's behavior is the result from both his parents. The only love came from his grandmother. Further I believe he had a rough youth growing up. Both parents need to be examined if they were able to raise children.
Jeffrey said otherwise, but go off
I feel very uneasy about these parents. Something is off!
Obviously different people react differently, but I totally agree it’s beyond bizarre how nonchalant the father has always seemed in interviews.
That carrot top hair tho
Right 😂
Lmao was looking for this comment 🤣💯
It looks terrible.
Man it’s like this with all serial killers they could have been stoped in almost all there stories if one person talk to just went a lil further and they never do all this madness could have never happened if he opened that box
I want to see the interview with Rollo.
She had the nerve to interject with his name correction 🤦🏽♀️ Jeffrey is his government name isn’t it? Dr. Phill doesn’t know Jeffrey personally, so why would he call him Jeff? How about she worry about remembering the names of the victims and their families rather than attempting to humanize her monstrous step son 🤨
That was her son, she loved him. He might have been evil but he was still her son.
@@2006GTO I am sure she did love her STEP son. However, there was no need for her to correct Dr. Phill in that manner. Dr. Phill didn’t have a personal relationship with Jeffrey or even know him so why would he refer to him as Jeff? I see your point, but her comment wasn’t necessary.
I think the name correction is a defense mechanism to dissociate their “Jeffrey” the one they thought they knew as a son and to “Jeff” the monster who did all those atrocities
Isn’t that cherri. Step mum not mum
@@proverbs3194 I agree. She was abrasive about it too.
Caring father. But too soft on his son's behaviour! Too trusting! Alot going in in Jeff's head that needed addressing early on in life! Also Jeff clearly ashamed of his sexuality. Mother just ups and walks out of Jeff, fear of abandonment. This sticks with kids. I had the same issue with my parents.
Why is the angle on Dr Phil like a horror movie??? 🤣😂🤣
He asks that people forgive Jeff for all those murders!! Does he forgive the man who took his sons life?? His expectations are to high! That’s a big ask!!!
In an old interview the next door neighbour and others said they knew he was sexually abused by his father? Don’t know if that true regardless that doesn’t turn someone into a serial killer.
Dahmer is one of the strangest cases because I really feel like he didn't want to hurt people but was just driven to do it by some force he couldn't control.
what makes you believe that? i'm not trying to start a argument I'm just curious
@@dishwshr3996 jeff couldn't kill anyone without being under the influence of alcohol, in court he didn't wear his glasses to see the victims and their family (probably out of guilt) and in the netflix series you also saw that he was sometimes out of control and when jeff was there again he would have realized the evil he had done
He was obsessed with dead animals and in watching other serial killers stories, that’s where it starts. He planned his 1st kill. During one of his interviews he told the story how he planned to kidnap the jogger. It was unsuccessful but he ended up picking up a hitchhiker that he killed. So he definitely intended on killing people.
You are absolutly right!!
Phesians 6:12
12 For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.
@@isabelllinas612 why do so many people randomly quote fiction when replying to videos like this? Imagine seeing a Harry Potter quote on a serious video about a serial killer.
I would have opened that box.
And you probably would've been one of his victims
What difference does it make calling him Jeff instead Jeffrey?
Why does she insist on Jeff?
@@lizzie5743 exactly
@@lizzie5743that’s not her son. Jeff’s mom is dead. That’s his stepmom
Shari and Lionel said when all this came out when Jeff was first arrested after the Tracy Edwards incident, that the papers and media would refer to him as Jeffrey Dahmer and them as 'The Dahmers'. And Jeffrey Dahmer was this person who committed all these crimes and was so far removed of who they knew him to be, Jeff. So they became very detached from the name Jeffrey Dahmer as he was Jeff to them. There was an article about it, but I can't find it to post.
I think she does that to make Lionel more comfortable. You name a baby. What you call them comes later. Lionel has sat through the entire trial, and all the media, hearing his son being called by his full name.
Cause she has mental problemsmore important that you name him right
We forgive not because we feel sorry for a person, their upbringing, or actions....we do it because it's not our place to judge someone else. That burden lies with God
That father is bizarre!
He is a very intelligent a nd hard working man...not at all bizarre...read his book about his side of this whole tragedy...it is heartwrenching
I AGREE
Did they do a voice comparison with Richard Jenkins before giving him the part in Dahmer? They sound almost the same!
Jeff has his dads voice. It sounds exactly like him. And even the way he talks. Crazy
That's not Jeff but the actor who played his father (and not Jeff) in the Netflix series.
I’m finding it weird that he dyed his hair and eyebrows. Such a change from other interviews I’ve seen of him.
It looks awful.
Probably had to change his appearance after the show. But then again, he is giving up his disguise on Dr. Phil.
@@toddstarks226 it looks like he is having a end of life crisis. I guess it’s never too late to switch things up a little.
Y’all rude asf
My question is why did he send jeffrey to his mama's house??? He saw the signs but was like " oh, go to ur grandma's house"... tf
How would you know that your son is a murder? He thought jeffrey was just a very weird guy that could be "fixed" and brought back to the right path if he lives with his granny
So many children that start out messing with animals end up criminals. People need to take that and really learn from that. The moment a child does that it is time to step up and make changes.
Jeff is really rare case, he isn't insane,just something in his head,his fantasies were pure evil and made him do this! He is just so much different from the others!
Not really that rare for a serial killer, most serial killers were not only sane for the most part but intelligent and charismatic and did what they did for pleasure, he's a little different in the sense that he had a pretty much normal childhood. Some serial killers become avid members of their communities and are loved by the folks around them and people are shocked to find out what they did.
Jeff was simply too switched on.
He wanted to build a shrine out of victims' bones because he believed he can draw power from it. That's really sick. If he weren't caught who knows how much more bizarre his fantasies can get!
this is gonna blow up
probably not anymore
That’s why they re uploaded it. They should have done it when everyone was talking about the biopic though
idk if its about saint paul, wait til u have a child or if you already have a child, ask yourself what could ur child do to get you not to love them anymore?
youre always going to forgive your baby.
When was this recorded
The music is unneeded..
Watching these videos, I see a boy on the spectrum. I have two boys on the spectrum, so know what it’s like. So as parents, we spend a lot of time focusing, and teaching social skills. A child like this, left alone to roam, gather dead animals as friends, etc. is doomed. The way Jeff throws that puppy around like a Rag doll, and throws a ball at his granny’s head, all show signs he cannot relate to peoples feelings. He needed to be taught how to be social. These things don’t come naturally to some children, especially on the spectrum. So a lot goes into teaching them about feelings, social skills, making friends, empathy etc. They are smart kids, so the focus should not be on academia, but socialising. This boy had defunct parents, so was lonely and abnormal impulses became the norm for him.
I don't believe empathy can be taught.
@@bitchyeyebrows the true feelings of empathy can’t be taught but teaching someone to be aware of others and learning that their actions can hurt others can be taught. Lots of kids on the spectrum have to be “taught” a lot of emotions that they just don’t have. They call it “masking” which we all do in our lives they just have to do it more often.
Could not have said it better myself... I see parents let children run wild, yelling in stores or at home and they believe this is just letting a child be a child... some people have no clue and have no business having children.
@@bitchyeyebrows Yes it can... When a kid throws a ball at grandmas head or swings a dog around like a rag doll, you as a parent, can teach empathy real quick
@@bitchyeyebrows it can, if young children are taught to think how they would feel. But it needs to be instilled from a young age. Believe me, I am talking from experience. My eldest son, who is on the spectrum, was terrible as a very young child. He would push kids down slides, to get his turn, run through their sand castles etc. i never let him get away with it. I would stop him, and talk to him about what he just did, and explain why that other child is crying. It took a lot of time and effort, but I was determined not to let him be a social misfit. Now he is 24, and the gentlest, kindest, most compassionate young man you could meet.
when was this interview?
It's very ironic that these monsters family members have such empathy and compassion, the complete opposite of the deviants they're related to.
Everyone wants to blame someone... This is just pure evil in plain sight. Nothing more.
Turning 18 doesnt mean you turn adult overnight. Especially not people who are already damaged. People are clueless about the human psyche.
Dr Phil face at 5:11 like that was not a fuckn accident sir !
3:53 imagine the guilt he feels
The way he was with frisky was because the dog showed him true love and attention
Parents are clueless and only focus on the good childhood when they been traumatized from their child.
Great questions Dr Phil 👏
The parents created this monster, it's time to start taking some blame. You also helped him dissect animal. Both parent were full of drama, maybe what that child needed was love and attention and not left alone.
*animals *not be left alone
Thank you 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Na parents got nothing to do with it.
Coming from someone who had a horrific childhood and been around plenty of evil people, no MATTER what his parents did or not he would have been Jeffrey Dahmer the serial killer, this is why some people get stabbed in the back metaphorically, some people are simply evil.
@@ninam500 you don't that, children for love, attention and to be nurtured, not f...ng left alone for months on end and fighting in the house all the time. Yes maybe he would of been different but maybe not, but those parents need to take ownership.
The parents shared the same red hair dye
Everybody is red
Idk I don't think it was as happy as the parents claiming his childhood was, maybe some happy moments but I just have a feeling. This family seems dark
Ok so he was left alone at 18 and that made him kill people and eat them? Really? He was sick thst is why he did it!
I still can't get over "sweet baby breath" at 11:23 lmao
Yeah bit noncey lol
Didn't his father start him off by teaching him taxidermy?
I think so, kinda reminds me of Norman Bates in "Psycho"
Anyone know when this was recorded?
What year is this interview from?
Oh, excuuuuse me, we didn't know that the monster you created who killed and ate innocent people, you relate to him as Jeff. Our bad.
He was allowed to hurt an animal period. Jeff at a young age developed the mentality that animals don't hurt. He should have been stopped at that instant. PARENTS should have looked after him always. That was the root of it all.
How is Lionel’s voice so similar to the actor’s who played him in the Netflix show?!
"excuse me doctor is Jeff... " Does it matter? Remains the same a serial killer
I think it’s because his stepmother considered “Jeff” dead. Jeffrey was just the empty shell and the killer that took Jeff’s place. So she is probably just thinking Jeff is gone. And since they’re talking about his upbringing, she probably wants to refer to him as such. Not the killer he became up until that point.
Idk I’m being a psychology/sociology nerd rn since I’m wanting to be a psychologist.
Left him on his one for 3 month, terrible parents!, absolutely TERRIBLE.
3 weeks ! not 3 month. And for your information he was 18 yo not 8
The music 😂
Jeff not Jeffrey. Interesting. I separated my heroin addicted brother from the brother I grew up with with two different names.
I know a lot of people are being critical of the father , and maybe he does have a hand in how this played out . I just respect the fact he hasn’t changed his name and hiding, at least he is trying to atone for what has transpired. May god bless the families of the guilty too .. in tragedies both sides lose
He didnt change his name
@@Slim123yes that’s what I said
And he has nothing to atone for.
The monster didn't come out by itself. There so many factor that involved. Began during the pragnancy (stress, phills, overdose, smoke, weed) and continue to his childhood (family problem, bullying, no friend, nobody he could talk with n play with) and got worsen during his teeage (broken home, abandon alone, metal broke down, school problem) while we know that in every age of those moments are very critical moments of human mental development. YES, its not an excuse for all what he did, but at least I know, in our similar social environtment, somewhere out there, another dahmers still alive, could be on the process of becoming the monster too
What year was this filmed?? This isn’t recent is it?
blunt force trauma to steven's head...then strangled...yeah that's no accident...that's a deliberate taking of a life
Exactly! I saw signs of NPD in my very young daughter and her life ended up validating my suspicions
Genuinely curious is it they weren't aware of the signs because lack of education around it, or that they didn't care, or were they abusive?
This is literally the exact same interview that Stone Phillips did in the 90’s
Why would he compare Jeff to St. Paul?! Omg 😭😒
Mikor készült ez az interjú?
Dang the first 10sec with the mom 🙄
Right? She was an overkill
Step mom. I think that lady who was her friend was telling the truth when she said that shari hated Jeffrey and David and didn't like that Lionel had to pay child support. In another interview Shari says something along the lines of I feel bad for jeffrey he should've been down like a dog.
When was this ?
When did that air