Agree with everything except for the 4th one. Persuasion is a dance and you have to follow the tempo of those you are interacting with, but in a manner that feels and seems natural, which takes practice
Well, I do everything of this. I am not even respected among people. They are usually treat me like nothing. Nobody is interested in my personality either. So, it is not always the case, guys) It is also depens of the ground of people you are currently in, and also depens of YOU and the things you don't see about yourself. Those "magic tricks" are the aspects inherent a charismatic person, but they won't make you magnetic for everyone.
True. It's not 100% on YOU. I'd say that at least half of it is on the person with whom you're interacting. Most people are generally receptive. But if that person is a goddamn piece of SHIT, then yeah you're obviously not the one with a problem that's them
Sometimes you are wrong, if you met that kind of person, because you couldn't beforesee that and leave this person. So not whole responsibility is on him/her) Some people tend to blame everyone for their sadness and mysery. I don't tell that everything is on YOU (100%). More likely YOU ARE the case, because you let someone treat you terribly.
@@iuoutugene No, I agree; I distance myself from nearly anyone who would treat me in such a way, if there's nothing for me to gain out of it. But my twin flame, who is the person I had in mind when I said that, is an exception. The way he talks down to me is completely unacceptable, but I tolerate it for now because he is dealing with deep wounds from childhood that are going to heal with time. Part of me absolutely adores him, and I'm not sure how to feel about it. 🤔 But I just go with it, because I know he really does love me. He just doesn't know how to express feelings. But he'll figure it out.
*Instructions Unclear* : I Smiled, said Hi Lola, are you okay Lola? How’s your day going Lola?, waiting for her response which was “umm good thanks..?” I then proceeded to cry my eyes out as my true authentic self is a Miserable Man. She ran, and she ran away *FAST* Can you blame her though?
It's gotten to the point that I genuinely don't know how NOT to wear the mask. I'm pretty sure I've MERGED MY INTRINSIC BEING WITH the mask. It's awesome 🤣 No one can tell me what to do anymore
@@Noir0rioN Honestly, I don't find it scary. To me, what's scary is whom I used to be. 🤣 That's what's scary. I love the person I am nowadays. Wouldn't have it any other way. 😁
#2 doesn't work on me from my experience when ever someone says my name in my head I'm thinking of oh crap they want something or I have to do something it's like hearing my own name makes me cringe.
You are the outlier bro. Most people definitely love the sound of their own name being called, especially in a group conversation because you help them stand out
Yeah I've got asd so most of this is my social tactics but as I'm deaf in one ear and a I'm a chatter box I'm totally useless at listening people more than I talk to them but the next time I see them their always pleased with my attention to details when asking follow up questions related to whatever we last talked about!
I do all of these naturally, but I still feel like my social skills are shit. And also, the reason I listen more than I speak is not to be charismatic, but because I’m afraid of talking too much and being annoying, so I just listen.
Its not about role playing or adapting to the atmosphere its just about being yourself naturally it is precisely because understanding how difficult it is that it becomes even more interesting. ~Ayanokoji
Just writing this to remember 1.Smile when meeting someone 2.Say their name in conversation 3.Listen more and get info about them to keep the conversation longer 4.Be yourself
1. smile *smiles with a scary thing behind it* 2. call people by their name *simple* 3. listen more *almost doze off* 4. be yourself *draws my oc not paying attention to anyone* -_-
My das is an ex salesman...And the least knowledge I've gathered from him acknowledges the points mentioned in the video are some of the most essentials of Marketing. But yeah except for the last one mentioned.
2 call people by there name Next day in school I called my teacher by name and now she called my parents for complaint🙁 I just want to be liked and valued 😊
Please help me How manipulate people bully I am tired let people doing this of me I don't know because I am so kind so please help me, I don't want have feelings or love I don't need this anymore and I am serious
Step 1 : Leave your home and go to public conversations.
😂
OMG I WAS JUST ABOUT TO SAY ,NOW ALL I HAVE TO DO IS JUST BE BRAVE ENOUGH TO LEAVE MY HOUSE.
That is the most difficult step 💀
@@cata2.091 real
@@cata2.091 fax
“The name is the sweetest thing someone can hear..”
My mother calling my full name.
😂😂😂😂😂
That's when you know you're dead.
@@NinaNoel-ze9yg exactly
Same too
💀
I already read these principles in book (How to win friends and influence people )❤
Me to
The best book for tomioka
" A persons name is the sweetest sound or the worst sound they can hear"
~me after reading quote
Yeah like your name getting yelled by an authority figure
Guts yelling Griffith💀
@@KaneLane-zg9qe mom yelling your full name 💀
@@sigmaBALLS123 you just know something bad is about to happen
i could just tell from ur content that you’ve read “how to win friends and influence people” it’s a great book about psychology, i’d highly recommend
Where to get it
Death note and monster are both amazing and well-written shows. A very nice choice of background
Which anime is in the background
@@Y0uTubeFuRy Death Note
Agree with everything except for the 4th one. Persuasion is a dance and you have to follow the tempo of those you are interacting with, but in a manner that feels and seems natural, which takes practice
This dude's videos are so useful that I've liked almost every of his videos
Your name is the sweetest sound you can but not when you are home ALONE
@@richardbisnauthshhhhhh
It's like his name is youtube not American xd
Well, I do everything of this. I am not even respected among people. They are usually treat me like nothing. Nobody is interested in my personality either. So, it is not always the case, guys) It is also depens of the ground of people you are currently in, and also depens of YOU and the things you don't see about yourself.
Those "magic tricks" are the aspects inherent a charismatic person, but they won't make you magnetic for everyone.
So true❤i feel for you...
True. It's not 100% on YOU. I'd say that at least half of it is on the person with whom you're interacting. Most people are generally receptive. But if that person is a goddamn piece of SHIT, then yeah you're obviously not the one with a problem that's them
Sometimes you are wrong, if you met that kind of person, because you couldn't beforesee that and leave this person. So not whole responsibility is on him/her) Some people tend to blame everyone for their sadness and mysery. I don't tell that everything is on YOU (100%). More likely YOU ARE the case, because you let someone treat you terribly.
@@iuoutugene No, I agree; I distance myself from nearly anyone who would treat me in such a way, if there's nothing for me to gain out of it. But my twin flame, who is the person I had in mind when I said that, is an exception. The way he talks down to me is completely unacceptable, but I tolerate it for now because he is dealing with deep wounds from childhood that are going to heal with time. Part of me absolutely adores him, and I'm not sure how to feel about it. 🤔 But I just go with it, because I know he really does love me. He just doesn't know how to express feelings. But he'll figure it out.
*Instructions Unclear* : I Smiled, said Hi Lola, are you okay Lola? How’s your day going Lola?, waiting for her response which was “umm good thanks..?” I then proceeded to cry my eyes out as my true authentic self is a Miserable Man. She ran, and she ran away *FAST*
Can you blame her though?
Its fun wearing mask (metaphorically)
It's gotten to the point that I genuinely don't know how NOT to wear the mask. I'm pretty sure I've MERGED MY INTRINSIC BEING WITH the mask. It's awesome 🤣 No one can tell me what to do anymore
@@The.Friendly.Narcissistyeah-it gets scary after a while. To where, sometimes, you don't even know who you are anymore.
@@Noir0rioN Honestly, I don't find it scary. To me, what's scary is whom I used to be. 🤣 That's what's scary. I love the person I am nowadays. Wouldn't have it any other way. 😁
#2 doesn't work on me from my experience when ever someone says my name in my head I'm thinking of oh crap they want something or I have to do something it's like hearing my own name makes me cringe.
You are the outlier bro. Most people definitely love the sound of their own name being called, especially in a group conversation because you help them stand out
10/10 BE YOUR SELF STAY HARD
(while showing a psychopath in a popular anime...)
Step 5 be your self, step 1,2,3,4 leaves the room
Well said, that's me after all 😊
I agree with all except the last point for personal reasons
Thanks for your help God bless you ❤❤❤❤❤
This dude’s videos are so useful that I’ve liked almost every of his videos
Just few lines from """""how to win friends and influence people """"😊
The last tip is the best :)
True very true smile and be open and listen be yourself and listen very interesting wow.
„To become interesting, be intrested“
Yeah I've got asd so most of this is my social tactics but as I'm deaf in one ear and a I'm a chatter box I'm totally useless at listening people more than I talk to them but the next time I see them their always pleased with my attention to details when asking follow up questions related to whatever we last talked about!
I love when my name is called out in The Hunger Games ❤🎉🎉❤❤
Me smiling:😊
Joker and Pennywise smiling:☠️
If i be myself i don't smile,call my friends by their nicknames and i hate listening to some people talking because i can feel when someone lies.
#2 can't work on me because I can't remember anyone names 😢😂
My authentic energy is straight up dark , & so i keep my fake personality on....!
i do exactly opposite of these. because i never want any kind of attention
I called principal by his name... Trust me it works 😳
This is all really good advice, but you also gotta say something that meaj something and make an impact on everyones lives.
Now i am the rizzler
📛 Background music name pls 📛
Thank you ❤
Bullseye 🎯 Amen 🙏🏻 ✝️🤍🕊🌟🦋🌈
i all ready do this
Good advice ❤
I do all of these naturally, but I still feel like my social skills are shit. And also, the reason I listen more than I speak is not to be charismatic, but because I’m afraid of talking too much and being annoying, so I just listen.
I can't fake a smile.
It is simple but quite unbreakable
Its not about role playing or adapting to the atmosphere its just about being yourself naturally it is precisely because understanding how difficult it is that it becomes even more interesting.
~Ayanokoji
No. 1 : Be Yourself and care for your loved ones & fuck others they are gonna adjust
Eye contact its important
THATS THE REAL ME 👌👍💪🤔🤨😊🙏
How to win friends and influence people by dale Carnegie
Just writing this to remember
1.Smile when meeting someone
2.Say their name in conversation
3.Listen more and get info about them to keep the conversation longer
4.Be yourself
I know number three well. All I do is listen and never talk.
My authentic energy includes not smiling what do i do 😭
Video 💀💀
Music 🗿🗿
Video with music 🎶 💥💥🥶🥶☠️☠️
I'm currently doing these..❤❤
Bro listen can you combine all these rules only in one video
Okay I'll do this from now and lets see what happens...
Smile because its the Sunnah of Prophet PBUH❤
Whole lot of Dale Carnegie influence in here lol, this is all in how to win friends and influence people
The Joker 🃏 😊
Righ well said
Name of the song?
Alien flame-shometyle
I would smile but my teeth look so bad and I really need to get them fixed
But my true self never smiles
I stay in my room 24/7 im already the most and least charismatic perosn in the room
are you an introvert?
@@Yuri-nc9vl kinda, I really want to have more friends tho but I get anxious about social interactions
As an Indian when my parents call me by my name it is a death threat
real shit fake people are the biggest turn off for anyone lol
They can't handle the original me 😈
I am naturally charismatic i guess
Luv u chai
rule no.1: smile
but rule no.4: be yourself
what a paradox
what if someone's character is serious
Yes
1. smile *smiles with a scary thing behind it*
2. call people by their name *simple*
3. listen more *almost doze off*
4. be yourself *draws my oc not paying attention to anyone* -_-
Instructions unclear, I called my dad by his name during dinner and it didnt work out so well.
i already do all of this
Introvert be like :I ll try it next time
I have no "myself" seriously, i change my characteristics depending on the person infront of me
Smiling is sunnah
My das is an ex salesman...And the least knowledge I've gathered from him acknowledges the points mentioned in the video are some of the most essentials of Marketing.
But yeah except for the last one mentioned.
Amen 🙏🏾
You suddenly realise to be charismatic because you already do all these things all the time
👍🌻🌹💖💛💜🌙⭐
So, the narcissists learn all of their nasty ways to damage nice and loving people?
The last one is impossible for me
What message would you send to other influencers?
2 call people by there name
Next day in school I called my teacher by name and now she called my parents for complaint🙁
I just want to be liked and valued 😊
Backgroud music
Amen
❤❤❤❤❤❤
I do not like it when someone I do not know uses my first name it makes me think they are overreaching socially
Please help me
How
manipulate people bully I am tired let people doing this of me I don't know because I am so kind so please help me, I don't want have feelings or love I don't need this anymore and I am serious
Some ppl are just authenticly trash they wont be able to pull this off
Hearing your name might be sweet but that’s until you hear your dad call you by your full name
🖤
True
So I called my principal by his name 😅
Charismatic meaning pls
Song name??
Well i can't understand the difference between be your self
While becoming the new version
😂🤣😂🤣noooo my true self is scary even i fear him
How can i be myself i don't really know it ?
Be yourself makes other 3 worthless
4real
witch book did u find this